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carmen_b
10-30-2019, 04:12 PM
He is SO sorry blah blah blah.
Got cold feet !
All you had to do M was show up and be ready to fuck twice a week .
I mean being good company on the town was nice too but my platonic buddies are also good company on the town !

carmen_b
11-01-2019, 08:56 PM
I think I made a good call.
I was so bored with M and it wasn't worth trying to factor in another person to plans ect.

I feel for my friend V. Her supposed fiance is pulling similar shit ( not really giving her time without pulling ). These dudes suck. Everything else is SO important until their lady is GONE and they are ALONE. Duh.
;(

seashell
11-04-2019, 05:06 PM
^It's like they don't comprehend how good they have it. Then they're desperately trying to rebound.

I think I give up with N, he's more of a friend with benefits and a helpful local who will help me move. I um, kinda met some other local dudes... And I have my eyes on a couple guys in other countries who have expressed that they're looking for something more serious.

I've been thinking a lot lately about what I want/need in a partner. I'm tired of putting myself in situations where I'm sleeping with a guy too soon, getting attached, and wanting something serious later on. I want to give serious dating a shot. Like, talking about what they're looking for, taking my time to get to know him, playing my cards right. Up until now, I think I needed to be single. I wasn't "dating," just playing it by ear, and that... Hasn't been working out, lol

There's a guy I'm talking to on Luxy who seems pretty interested, I'm hoping he'll fly me to his country. Another guy from England said he might come visit me in Albania, which would be cool. I honestly don't think Balkan guys are a match for me. It's time to import! ;D

carmen_b
11-04-2019, 09:58 PM
I’m totally digging the “ slow roll “ intention !

I was thinking about that too and it’ll prob be the direction I go too ( not anytime soon ) .
Lots of get to know you time.

lurkingtitties
11-05-2019, 07:50 AM
I've been thinking a lot lately about what I want/need in a partner. I'm tired of putting myself in situations where I'm sleeping with a guy too soon, getting attached, and wanting something serious later on. I want to give serious dating a shot. Like, talking about what they're looking for, taking my time to get to know him, playing my cards right. Up until now, I think I needed to be single. I wasn't "dating," just playing it by ear, and that... Hasn't been working out, lol

Sounds like you've done a lot of self-work and are in a good place mentally.

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2019, 07:51 PM
So this guy I met in a grocery store said he remembered me from college but I don’t remember this guy to save my life. He asked me on a date but i feel like i need to ask around to see if any of my girlfriends remember/know him.

I tried to hurry and finish my groceries to see what kind of car he drives but I guess he was gone by time I checked out and heading to parking lot

A part of me is feeling reservations already

about having a guy know the parts of Me (my flaws and insecurities - then using that against me later)
about having to coexist with a dude
about having to fulfill “duties” if you know what I mean

Carmen Elixer
11-05-2019, 08:19 PM
So this guy I met in a grocery store said he remembered me from college but I don’t remember this guy to save my life. He asked me on a date but i feel like i need to ask around to see if any of my girlfriends remember/know him.

I tried to hurry and finish my groceries to see what kind of car he drives but I guess he was gone by time I checked out and heading to parking lot

A part of me is feeling reservations already

about having a guy know the parts of Me (my flaws and insecurities - then using that against me later)
about having to coexist with a dude
about having to fulfill “duties” if you know what I mean

It almost sounds as though you are subconsciouly blocking him out of your memory,
as well as purposely (subconsciously) didn't make it out to the parking lot on time to check the car out
b/c of those reservations you listed.

Having flaws & insecurities used against you is very real.
Men are very insecure around women they feel are sexier than them.
and what most people do not realize, is that men are jealous of women.
they can and will use your insecurities against you and do this on a regular basis,
I have flaws that I am not willing to face too, so I get it

Originally Posted by seashell https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/images/buttons/viewpost-right.png (https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?p=3145622#post3145622)
I've been thinking a lot lately about what I want/need in a partner. I'm tired of putting myself in situations where I'm sleeping with a guy too soon, getting attached, and wanting something serious later on. I want to give serious dating a shot. Like, talking about what they're looking for, taking my time to get to know him, playing my cards right. Up until now, I think I needed to be single. I wasn't "dating," just playing it by ear, and that... Hasn't been working out, lol

Yes, it might be interesting to see what happens if you state your true intentions.
When I briefly tried dating in 2014 I ran across men complaining constantly
about meeting up with ladies who would "interview" them - "quiz" them with
different questions like "where are planning to retire?" "where do you plan to be in 5 years?"
"how about 10 years?" "do you want children?" "how about grandchildren?" "do you have
a summer cottage?" etc., etc. - and the women would schedule several of these dates in an evening.
And would allow about 10 min's to each guy and then narrow down the playing field from there, each
time coming closer & closer to the relationship she wanted. I'm thinking that this approach makes
tons of sense. I feel that these are the types of women who get the man they want. It's the man
who sticks with you through all of the hassles of dating, ups & downs, and waiting for you to have
sex with him. Because he only chooses you, or doesn't cast a wide net for a lot of other women.
I'd really like to find a man who is willing to provide for me, and only me on a long term basis.

lurkingtitties
11-06-2019, 05:01 AM
Oh man I had an epic dating fail last night. Met this younger guy over the weekend while I was out dancing with a friend, we hit it off and exchanged numbers, he seems like a normal responsible guy. I was feeling dare I say cautiously optimistic! We made a plan to hang Tuesday night, he said he was gonna cook me dinner.

Fast forward to last night...this guy completely no-call no-shows. I was disappointed AF man! Let myself be sad for a couple hours then dusted off my shoulders and moved on.

It will be interesting to see if he reaches out with an excuse. Up until Tuesday we had been texting a fair amount, normal get to know you stuff. I hope to hear from him again so I can tell him what a dick move that was. (Obviously there will be no second chance at another date)

carmen_b
11-06-2019, 08:57 AM
^ Aw damn. I find the " young ones " can be so highly disorganized . It could be something as stupid as just blowing the outing off to hang with his buddies or anything really. Wtf ?

carmen_b
11-06-2019, 12:33 PM
I'm embracing the single life. Massage booked today. Coffee shop outings planned.
Where will I eat tonight with no one else to consider ? Lol.
At least I have the budget for a very nice single life.
At some point I will want to " ride in the rodeo " as my grandma used to say but for now ..... it's all about me.

; )

carmen_b
11-06-2019, 01:51 PM
M helped me move out Monday which was extremely surprising. He either cares somewhat or wanted a little less guilt. His behavior in Oct. grossed me out. I was STARVING for intimacy. I finally told him I was planning to find someone else for sex immediately and quit speaking to him.

He told me Monday he was encountering boner problems ( getting / maintaining ) which takes some mystery out.
It would still have me not really getting much affection ( besides .... he has hands ..... fingers never go soft). It explains somewhat why he was hiding . He's only 32 or 33. If he lost weight, didn't do any drugs ( weed a couple times a week + occassional mdma ) , went to sleep at the same time daily he would likely not have these problems.
I told him a gentle version saying " I think it wouldn't be a problem if you fully committed to taking better care of yourself ". I think porn use might have been a factor too. One time he went on this ramble about me not wearing lingerie blah blah blah. I ended up telling him if he had an outfit request to buy it and bring it over.

seashell
11-10-2019, 01:08 AM
This isn't a guy I'm dating or would ever date, but I'm not sure where else on the forum to put this, so here goes!

I met this cute, insanely funny English guy on Bumble. (I usually just use these apps to make friends, which I was clear about.) He's a scientist who just graduated with a PhD and is backpacking around Europe. We went to a couple of bars and hit it off, then went to the lake and the friend vibe turned into some heavy making out. We went back to my place, as it became clear he was too broke to get a hotel, and that was our only option for more time together.

He was sooo good in bed...

He spent the night, we cuddled quite a bit, and then we had some more fun this morning.

But you guys... omg... it was one of those moments waking up when I realized how drunk I must have been last night. I got to watch him get ready with his hideous jeans and fanny pack, to walk an hour back to his hostel because he can’t afford a taxi. XD

Had a wonderful time, though.

Also, his British accent was super cute... until the bedroom. I felt like I was in an Austin Powers movie.

miss.a.p1600
11-10-2019, 07:55 AM
I had to postpone my date with this guy who went to college with me because I had too much adult obligations and not enough help

Well this upcoming weekend we may be meeting up.

If he knows what’s good for him he better recommend a nice place.

Also he said he wanted to talk on the phone vs texting (we’ve just been texting the whole week) so why wouldn’t he just call me instead of texting that psa lol?

seashell
11-11-2019, 01:23 AM
^hehe, I feel like men these days have no idea how to make a phone call. So typical, texting to ask about calling you on the phone. He's probably nervous ;)

Um... so I mentioned the Albanian guy I liked, probably 6 months ago, when we first met. We've been friends, and he's been such a sweetheart, helping me with anything I need, being really supportive of me. I told him about my past as a stripper and a lot of personal things. He's always trying to make me feel more self confident and acting like a therapist, lol.

Well, last night we went out for drinks. Nothing out of the ordinary. We went to the lake, found a random private spot, and somehow ended up kissing for the first time. He told me he liked me since we first met, but he could tell I didn't really trust him or feel that comfortable with him, so he waited to do anything. It was the sweetest thing ever. Before he kissed me, he asked, "Are you okay with this? Are you sure you're not just drunk?" And he was so happy, I could tell he was really genuine about everything.

I wasn't sure about going home, and he said something about wanting to wake up together. So we went to some random hotel, it was a little dodgy, but had the best night. He's so handsome. I think we had sex like five times... he was super tired this morning, and had to go to work.

Definitely a crazy couple of days. This is literally the first time I've gotten laid in Albania, in 6 months, so... I guess it all happened at once.

I don't know what to do about K, the Albanian guy. He has been such an amazing friend, and I didn't need to sleep with him or lock him down in a relationship to feel good about things. I really think that some people are better off as friends. He's 27, I'm 31... I've been trying to move out of this country... so who knows. It was really amazing how much we care about each other, though. I haven't felt so understood and connected with someone like this in a long time.

lurkingtitties
11-11-2019, 05:29 AM
^^ interested to hear how this plays out!

I got some closure on the guy who stood me up last week. My friend I was out dancing with the night we met matched with him on Tinder over the weekend and then ran into him at a bar on Saturday night (it’s a small town). She asked him why he blew me off and he said he thought I was making fun of him over text. He had said something about having to go to the gym before we hang and I replied good for you. Lol...fam I do CrossFit and used to be an aerialist. Working out is one of my biggest passions! I meant what I said genuinely and actually was excited to meet someone disciplined enough about fitness to actively make time for it.

All's well that ends well I guess. I’m glad I got some closure on the situation. Since going through cancer in the first half of 2019 I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself including having sessions with an energy worker to release self-limiting beliefs about love. The old me would have bitched him out for ghosting me, and also dwelled on it/subconsciously told myself I deserved it, or that I’ll never find a good guy. These days I’m getting really into LOA and reprogramming the subconscious. The whole experience threw me for a loop because at first I felt that meeting someone with their shit together was a validation of all the inner work I’ve been doing. When he blew me off it shook my beliefs that I’ve been attracting better guys and that a relationship is possible for me. So in the end I’m just happy that the Universe showed me the whole picture and I can go back to feeling good about life. (And speaking of the subconscious... I think he took my text that way because he was subconsciously intimidated by me! Hehe)

The other funny part about all this is that now my friend wants to date him! She was all scared to ask if I was okay with it. It was cute. I’m honestly so amused by the situation and interested to see what happens next.

carmen_b
11-11-2019, 05:00 PM
Whoa ! Way to read into a “ good for you “ that sounded well intentioned !
Odd.
Maybe he will work for you or the friend.
You sure she didn’t swoop already and he invented that excuse ?
:/

lurkingtitties
11-11-2019, 07:15 PM
You sure she didn’t swoop already and he invented that excuse ?
:/

That's definitely not what happened lol I pick my friends carefully

carmen_b
11-11-2019, 07:29 PM
I hadn't opened Tinder in 1-2 weeks . I got so pissed seeing the photo of the aviator ! Haha.

carmen_b
11-11-2019, 07:35 PM
I'm still on the dude break but thinking ahead for what I'd like to rustle up in a week or two haha.

I wish M wouldn't have been such an ASS. He was beyond apologetic but ..... cutting me off sexually on the third month we knew each other? How can you even go anywhere from there ? The boner problem confessional makes some sense but I still cringe at how I was treated . Barf ! WHY wouldn't he just come through for me ? He wasn't taking good care of himself and we both paid for it.

How will I find another 6'8'' blonde / blue beauty though ?
He was such good arm candy and I am still pouting over losing that.
He looks like a Viking and I like going out and being seen with him .

He knows I'll be back from Hawaii in a few days but of course hasn’t offered anything on my weekend schedule.

Carmen Elixer
11-12-2019, 04:06 PM
I had heard of singles cruises (I live in the midwestern suburbs with nothing but basics around me - please understand lol)
but I cringe at the thought of that. TBH, even a cruise sounds boring asf. I need land more than 4 hours at a time.

But. I had a soo many people mention it lately around me.
it got me thinking that it can't be much worse than online dating (?) - can it?
(lie to me). Has anyone gone on a singles cruise/
and if so, was it every bit as gross as it sounds?
was there one redeeming quality?
I'm not looking for truth

And then - has anyone tried a single crusie
as a sugar babe??

carmen_b
11-12-2019, 06:09 PM
As a SB ?

I think the guys on a singles cruise would assume they would get laid for free ( or at least have a chance ) by signing up.
Probably not a great sugaring environment. A better idea might be to meet a guy out " live " at events / etc. and get him to take you on a cruise ( even that seems risky though since they are 4+ days at a time .... it would be hard to structure alone time ). It would be better ( for you ) if your sugar daddy was going to an exotic place but was working while there.
Lots of time alone .

miss.a.p1600
11-12-2019, 06:27 PM
^possible BUT you’d have to be good as scanning the cruise crowd for wealthy dudes and basically only associate with guys with some money.

I’ve never been on a cruise cause them shits too dangerous for my liking; not trying to have a mf push me into the middle of the ocean in the pitch black of night to be eaten alive by sharks. But anyways......

I’d think Carmen has a point that the men would probably treat it like a fuckfest event like one of those Hedonism events you know what I’m saying. And you know male entitlement of women should provide on demand sex for free. So yeah.

I personally would go if I didnt have a fear of cruises and if I didn’t care about the outcome and wanted to have easy access/NSA opportunities

Carmen Elixer
11-12-2019, 06:59 PM
^
I’ve never been on a cruise cause them shits too dangerous for my liking; not trying to have a mf push me into the middle of the ocean in the pitch black of night to be eaten alive by sharks. But anyways......

I’d think Carmen has a point that the men would probably treat it like a fuckfest event like one of those Hedonism events you know what I’m saying. And you know male entitlement of women should provide on demand sex for free. So yeah.



ROFL - so true ! You know its these suburban
Scott Peterson ass dudes out there trying to score their
next trophy wife slash murder victim. Shark week watching
ass prob. getting ideas as we speak!

So yea. Ugh this confirms basically every single one of my
fears.

Can you imagine the hookup fest - So gross!
Or the FOUR DAY sugar date. hahaha
that's going to happen!

And imagine paying for that.
At the very least, ladies should board for free.

But thats my thought about every dating sites.
and all bars & public spaces lol.

carmen_b
11-12-2019, 07:15 PM
A sugar trip where he has to work is the golden ticket. Natural breaks and alone time. ;)

carmen_b
11-12-2019, 07:16 PM
A singles cruise sounds on one hand fun ( like you mentioned ) but on the other seems like a nightmare ! The *pressure* to interact you know. Man, it's causing me anxiety thinking about it. That said though I would never go on a trip ( with even friends and family ) without having structured alone time.

AChildOfBoredom
11-13-2019, 04:28 AM
Speed dating - as I had anticipated - was laughable.

Where to start? Guys who spend more time on their hair than I do are a complete non starter for me, nor do I go for the ‘pocket protector’ sorts. The most interesting guy I chatted with didn’t entice me, but his company was at least enjoyable. I don’t think he had any real interest in dating… he was badgered into it, as well. Plus he has a kid. Which I certainly admire his devotion to being a single father, but I’m not on the kids menu.

That one of course sparked some protest from my friend, and we had a slight argument over that. I said I wasn’t in it to raise someone else’s child. She said I already was. I told her no, I had charge of a young adult who is mostly self-sustaining. Childhood had ended for it before she ever crossed my path. She told me I was just as stubborn now as I was back in the community.

No, I think I’m much moreso now. Anyhow, she wasn’t exactly swept off of her feet, either, so what is there for her to gripe at me over?

seashell
11-13-2019, 08:31 AM
^I think it's good to know what you do and DON'T want, and to stick to it. So many people end up being crappy parents because they didn't want that life. I'm nervous about kids, too... having them, taking care of someone else's... it's a huge deal.

I went out with K again last night. We had fun, but it was super sexual, we didn't even go out for a drink or anything. I don't really like this, he's hot and it's nice to have a local friend with benefits, but I like him better as a friend. We goof around like idiots. It's not that sexy. He can also be pretty negative, which is a no-no for me... I joke with him that he's sometimes like Grumpy Cat. Kind of feel like we made a mistake, but I don't know what to tell him. What are the odds that we can get back to being great friends and just pretend this never happened?

We did rescue a kitten from the freezing cold wind and rain, though, last night. He earned some points there.

carmen_b
11-13-2019, 09:45 AM
I'm the same way. Kids are a no go to me ( too much in time / money / energy goes out ). I was been tempted to make an exception this past year for the Aviator ( the situation was a shared custody one ). I feel like scheduling is NEVER clean / quick. About 8 years ago I made an exception ( shared custody ) . It was awful. Scheduling was an absolute nightmare of back and forth. The guy eventually ended up boring me to tears referencing kids movies / situations too.



Which I certainly admire his devotion to being a single father, but I’m not on the kids menu.

That one of course sparked some protest from my friend, and we had a slight argument over that.

Carmen Elixer
11-13-2019, 11:33 AM
This one person keeps trying to get me to speed date. It's like she's fascinated by speed dating.
She's married so I think that explains
Here's my thing - I am not even remotely interested in
spending 4 minutes of my precious time with some idiot
who's feeling his skankass self today,
who isn't worth the cost of the eyelashes I'm wearing.
I'm just Not doing it.

I do want to meet someone, but it seems like you have
just as big a chance meeting someone randomly on the
street if you actually think about the statistics.

Guys are just so thirsty to get out there and eyeball fuck
every girl they can for free, it doesnt' cost them a thing
and it makes them feel hot .

AChildOfBoredom
11-13-2019, 01:22 PM
I don’t really think I do want to meet someone. I think I tried convincing myself I did. After all, the first 18 years of my life were focused into making me the perfect little Mennonite housewife. You don’t just shake that off with a snap of your fingers.

Love in that context… I honestly think I simply don’t have the capacity to feel that.

seashell
11-13-2019, 05:13 PM
^I always wonder if I truly have the capacity to have a healthy relationship. Or if most men can. Love and commitment is such a strange phenomenon...

miss.a.p1600
11-13-2019, 08:34 PM
I’m similar

When I think of having to coexist, compromise, be all emotionally open/honest an what not, and do “wifely duties” etc I start contemplating “can I really do that?”

miss.a.p1600
11-13-2019, 08:34 PM
The dude said he’d take me to dinner and drinks - so far sounds good. Well shall see how this goes

miss.a.p1600
11-15-2019, 12:39 PM
The dude said he’d take me to dinner and drinks - so far sounds good. Well shall see how this goes

Well i told him how my new job requires me to go into clients homes and how I had a slight fear I’d run up on some deranged serial killer

so he offered to buy me some mace, order 1 day delivery so he could have it by our date.

Bringing gifts to date are always a plus and A for effort

I guess I should shave my legs (even though he won’t see them since it’s cold af here)

miss.a.p1600
11-15-2019, 12:48 PM
^I think it's good to know what you do and DON'T want, and to stick to it. So many people end up being crappy parents because they didn't want that life. I'm nervous about kids, too... having them, taking care of someone else's... it's a huge deal.
.

same. The guy I’m going on a date with has a kid

i really prefer guys with no kids or kids that’s either out the house or about to leave the house

so I guess I could overlook that IF everything else falls in place how I want

carmen_b
11-16-2019, 12:56 PM
I am in a very cautious place.
I'm not dating. I don't feel I was treated well overall in the past 4-5 months on my last few attempts of trying.
I guess specifically I'm talking about M who sends me things still and says he " loves " me .
He " loves " me after only seeing me twice in Oct. and once to help me move in Nov. ? I think this is pretty clear that he is dysfunctional. He couldn't seem to let things build normally .
My feelings are pretty much gone.
I want all my time to be just mine ( at least currently that is how I feel ).

I'm out of that place ( the city apartment ) I shared with the ex and the bad vibes it carried . I want to create my next move carefully. I'm in the desert now ( my most frequent day job location ) and am just solo.

Carmen Elixer
11-16-2019, 03:45 PM
As much as I jest, I am tryina get boo'ed up too.
The problem with me is that I won't date online, yet I also can't bring myself to go where I think the type of man I'm looking for will be found. I am uncomfortable walking into restaurants by myself up in the Bible belt. you can look as church-ladyish as you want, but a single lady is presumed a ho. (well - when added to that ho swagger we seem to have, that clues folks up, no matter how classy or librarian we look/are) . I don't have any single friends to go with me, so I never go out to anyplace other than mall, library, grocery store.
Meetups are full of cockroaches in my area. so gross...SO gross. I gave it efforts - I did. These are the types of men who -- never mind

I feel like it has to be a change made on my part, but I just don't know what that change is.
Do I really need to walk into a high-end restaurant by myself & sit at the bar? ugh. ugh. this feels so lonely & desperate. I'm not lonely at all. I prefer solitude. I get with guys in order to have life partners, and b/c it makes sense financial wise. We live in a world where goods & services (at least the good shit) is priced according to the 2-income-home.

I've had great relationships & always been monogamous for the most part. I feel like younger guys are looking for more casual relationships than I am comfy with, so I avoid most of them, though they do hit on me. One just did today in Nordstrom, but it just made me sick, I don't like the type of young guy who would come to Nordstrom & hang out on his phone and peoplewatch. Had he been over 40, then that woulda been different, b/c I woulda got more of a relationship vibe from that age group. I feel like a young guy sitting at Nordy is picking up whatever and howmanyever he can get. okay ew.
To me, it's just difficult to get motivated to go out - on the .0001% chance that Im going to meet someone.
it's like there's no "prize" or clear "goal" to fix my mind on you know.
Also, I fucking hate flirting.

Honestly, I should prob. just go to an upscale bar. That's where I met my longterm ex.
Met him on a Sat. night, in the art-y part of downtown. there was a classy band playing that night.
But I was 21 then.
Now I just hate bars, dranking on nights off, and going out alone.
sigh
Why does it feel so un-doable?
no need to answer that. I know it has to be me adjusting my attitude
why does everything have to come down to that
why can't there be just one outside force to help
with this one fucking thing

AChildOfBoredom
11-16-2019, 07:46 PM
I hate bars. I don’t drink to begin with - I just have no tolerance for alcohol - and the guys who try to chat me up in bars… just no.

miss.a.p1600
11-17-2019, 02:20 PM
Well He made reservations at this nice restaurant then we left there to play pool

Everything was fine till I went back to his place (don’t normally do that but he didn’t give me creepy nor I expect sex on first date vibes) then started throwing up.

The pool spot had cheap liquor plus I didn’t eat that much = recipe for upset stomach disaster

To make things worse my dumb ass was apparently so drunk that I fell asleep in the bathroom.

When woke up in the bathroom after projectile vomit session, I was going to go home to save myself from further embarrassment and to be sick alone but he insisted I stay.

Thankfully he didn’t hold it against me too much and said he wanted to go out again

baer45
11-17-2019, 06:46 PM
So I was talking with this guy on OkCupid. He likes to dance as well which is the reason I thought we should hit it off. Yesterday we talked about meeting for dinner tonight, we talked about the place to eat but didn't set up a specific time to meet. The conversation got cut short because we lost cellphone singal.
Today, he didn't contact me before noon, so I made another dinner arrangement. At 3 pm, he sent a text to me and asked whether 7 pm is okay for dinner and also left me a voice message.
I wonder I should get back to him or not.

lynn2009
11-17-2019, 07:25 PM
Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

AChildOfBoredom
11-17-2019, 07:47 PM
Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

At least they’re restricting themselves to apps now, for the most part. It’s much, much worse when they approach you in person. I just stood there with that, “you can’t be fucking serious” expression on my face, but in my mind, I wanted to be more like…


https://youtu.be/q6hzqQHJChM

… and that’s when I learned to ignore couples who went to the club together, incidentally.

carmen_b
11-17-2019, 08:23 PM
Agreed ! NO go . Bleh.


Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

queenelayliah
11-18-2019, 03:55 AM
Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

Only if one was offering to be my sugar daddy and he knew how to be discreet.

lurkingtitties
11-18-2019, 08:14 AM
Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

Yoooo FRFR! Like I can't even find one compatible partner and you're out here looking for a harem...fuck you.

miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 05:41 PM
So I was talking with this guy on OkCupid. He likes to dance as well which is the reason I thought we should hit it off. Yesterday we talked about meeting for dinner tonight, we talked about the place to eat but didn't set up a specific time to meet. The conversation got cut short because we lost cellphone singal.
Today, he didn't contact me before noon, so I made another dinner arrangement. At 3 pm, he sent a text to me and asked whether 7 pm is okay for dinner and also left me a voice message.
I wonder I should get back to him or not.

Thats happened to me before. Some guys are juggling multiple women while others are just bad at scheduling. Who knows what dudes problem was.

Like if he really wants to see you he will allow enough days ahead to iron out all the details.

If you think he has potential give him another Chance to redeem himself? If not then ditch him for a guy who’s better at scheduling.

miss.a.p1600
11-19-2019, 10:05 PM
Well He made reservations at this nice restaurant then we left there to play pool

Everything was fine till I went back to his place (don’t normally do that but he didn’t give me creepy nor I expect sex on first date vibes) then started throwing up.

The pool spot had cheap liquor plus I didn’t eat that much = recipe for upset stomach disaster

To make things worse my dumb ass was apparently so drunk that I fell asleep in the bathroom.

When woke up in the bathroom after projectile vomit session, I was going to go home to save myself from further embarrassment and to be sick alone but he insisted I stay.

Thankfully he didn’t hold it against me too much and said he wanted to go out again

Okay so we’re on for another date.

If I drink I’ll definitely hold my liquor better this time

I’m actually curious what it would be like to kiss since he has nice full lips

*note to self do not vomit so the dude can kiss you

miss.a.p1600
11-20-2019, 10:29 PM
Omg omg

Ok so if y’all recall I fucked up the end of the first date by poor handling of liquor then falling asleep for like an hour in his bathroom.

He said I should stay cause I probably would not have been good to drive home. Well add to the crazy story, I slept in his bed in my clothes.

And when I woke up I was like damn! Wtf?!?

Maybe some subconscious defense mechanism or just that fucked up on liquor.

When woke up he was in his clothes too so I didn’t feel as bad.

But we’re going out again this weekend. It might be some liquor - a lot less for me of course. And probably start/end at his place.

He asked me what I like to sleep in so he could buy me something to wear to bed. I’m curious what he will pick out.

I’m trying really hard to make it to the third date or whatever most people do

But he’s striking a hard bargain here.

I need some willpower or ill be posting how my celibacy is over

carmen_b
11-20-2019, 10:48 PM
^^ :)

PrincessfromHell
11-21-2019, 12:42 PM
Why are there so many open relationship couples on dating apps? No single women want to deal with you. Go the fuck away.

IMO, a guy usually wants a FFM, a girl tries to play it cool and agrees not even being bi in 80% of cases, and a guy is too fucking cheap to hire a SW, he wants validation from having sex with 2 chicks at one time and because (I quote the dude who was hitting on me once and telling me about his idea of an ideal gf and wanting her to ARRANGE a threesome lmao) "they want it"(read: ME), so if he pays it is fake. LOL.
An insecure dick wants to be the centre of attention.
Always a pass.