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miss.a.p1600
01-21-2020, 10:49 AM
I pulled up a a bar (actually was working) and some guy next to me starts talking to me.

I thought he might be a potential sugar daddy but he seemed like a pretentious jerk. As soon as he started talking. He said I looked like I had a lot on my mind and I was like well it’s been a long day. And his ass was like “how? It’s sunday?” I’m like bruh I got shit going on and told him I was pissed about a ticket I just got a few hours earlier. He seemed to lack empathy.

Somehow he starts talking about his kid. And shows the picture and looks like a mixed race or biracial kid. Then he said he had full custody.

Dude was like 65 with a 7 year old

Needless to say I was not attracted to him and left without saying much to him.

carmen_b
01-21-2020, 11:33 AM
^ Some men just have no game. He was aggressive and argumentative right off. Then he is probably thinking " I know she wants me " as you are looking for way out of both the conversation AND away from him.

You've got to love those " let me just TALK AT YOU " types that roll around public spaces and never shut their mouths .

miss.a.p1600
01-21-2020, 02:06 PM
^EXACTLY!

Tell me my my former coworker (you know the one who tried to string me along for months and get me emotionally attached to him) text me out the blue with some ... “hey stranger”

Once I came to my senses I realized He is the epitome of fuckboi and I want to toy with him the way he did me, get him worked up then let him think I am in a relationship

Edit: I responded to him 5 hours later and said “Lol! Same back”
Edit again: and he replied back that he left the hellhole job a few months after I did

*Still doesn’t change the fact he acted like a complete fuckboi and pulled the string along/breadcrumb/benching game.

carmen_b
01-21-2020, 08:46 PM
Damn. This college professor wrote to me on POF. I waited a day or two to message back ( I was traveling ) and then I log in and poof ...... no profile for him. The message was gone entirely. He was really the only person I wanted to write in 2 weeks from that site.
A little older than me. Well off. Well Traveled.

carmen_b
01-22-2020, 09:12 PM
^ I remembered the town he was from and changed my profile to that town just in case he is popping around.
I wonder what happened though ! SO curious ! Ha. Was he mad I took 48 hours to reply ? Married and then guilty ( took profile down ) ? Wife found it and took it down for him ? Hahahaha

So I am in the desert and hit Tinder. I found this gentleman 6'9'' ( the height fetish strikes again ) and we chatted a little.

God ..... now he asked what I want to do tomorrow ( I told him I was open tomorrow after 4 p.m. ) .....
Maybe I am just not ready for this ! Haha. Just plan for me dude.

carmen_b
01-22-2020, 09:37 PM
This is how celibacy is working out for me I guess:
I had to spy on my early 2019 lover ( J / aka Mr. Tall ) online.
I met him in this area 11 months ago.
I spied via POF ( contacts list ) so he will know I looked him up and I don't care. He appears to be back East and is looking a little weird . More gangster. In one pictures he is wearing a fur coat. He has another with thick chains. Now I am wondering if the job he told me is a cover and he is dealing drugs or something or if his new pics are jokes .

carmen_b
01-22-2020, 09:47 PM
In a way I have been so temped to go to M sometimes. I just loved his spoiling tendencies . I guess though it's just getting spoiled by proxy ( like he enjoys going out and so I get to go out a lot ). It probably isn't about me but is about him.

Then it all comes back how I was so agitated when he wouldn't cuddle much + how horrifically evil he was ( that is really the only way to describe it ) last time.

I ripped him a new one via texts yesterday. I think I used the word abuse or abusive 7-8 times.
He was airing his issues with me ( that I'm not on BC yet + he says I was making messes in the AirBnB ) .
So ..... I told him the things that were bothering me too. I told him that we fixed my work hours issues and I was satisfied with that fix . I said I was missing cuddling / was pissed he went straight to grabbing his phone about 10-11 days ago last time we had sex. Then I mentioned again ( for the 20th time ) that I hate eating late and I am not sure what the solution really is but a possibility is that I can bring some food and eat a half dinner at 6 p.m. or so. He in usual form did not respond to anything I brought up.

If he is a real narcissist though ..... maybe he doesn't care in the slightest ? He is odd. I mentioned I'm traveling. He doesn't ask a SINGLE question about the trip or how I am doing. He sends updates about random things. I just wish in a way that he wouldn't have been SO horrible.

I mean ..... we had such a beautiful routine started.
Frequent sex , coffees , HUSTLE by day , dinner and relax , drinks and ski town shenanigans by night.
Still processing things obviously there .............
I hate that I'm saying this but I do miss his dick haha. Like ..... I am never doubting guys in the 5'8'' - 5'9'' inch range again !

miss.a.p1600
01-22-2020, 10:23 PM
No narcissists/people with narcissistic tendencies do not care as much about other people’s well being as their do their own. They don’t feel empathy but they may show it (by pretending - as a means to get whatever it is they want)

The beginning is the honeymoon/love bombing stage.

It’s almost like getting high for the first time. Super strong high in the beginning then the rest of the time is spent chasing that high which will never feel as good as the first time.

carmen_b
01-22-2020, 10:47 PM
THANKS for the back to reality reminder. Oddly my Mom called me at 10:30p.m. ( I almost thought something happened she never calls late )

I ran it by her and I am SO GLAD she didn't side with or defend M. She encouraged me to stay away also . I was up front with family about what happened. I wanted them to understand it and why I left . I left the worst of what was said out for discretion.

carmen_b
01-22-2020, 10:51 PM
I am so bored I could almost cry ( if this AirBnB wasn't so cheap and comfy ) .
But it is day 1 of period so crazy town all around.
I am considering staying in this area a bit.

I know I should start to date but I don't feel excited about the idea.
Maybe I just need a little more time.
I feel like there is so much goodness for me and my dog here ( solo ) . We went out yesterday and just had so much fun. ;)
I don't want my time / schedule compromised quite yet.

miss.a.p1600
01-23-2020, 11:39 AM
My former coworker (the one I had caused me to develop crush on but then I felt like he was leading me on) asked me to meet him for lunch

I am having mixed thoughts about this.

First, he knew that I liked him at the time we worked together yet he seemed to be playing mind games/leading me on plus I think he had a girlfriend or wife or baby moms or something that he never would admit to. I even asked him to meet me to do some fun tech type stuff and he was like 'nah I can't' .... no reschedule, no alternative ideas, nothing .... so I quit talking to him as much and I guess he panicked (probably HR fears) and tried to get in my good graces. I forgave him but I haven't forgotten.

Like why is he asking me now after all this time? And why is he assuming Im single?

I just don't want to risk getting emotionally close to him then him pulling the same shit.

I don't know how to respond to this guy. I want to like ask him like 'dude I tried to meet with you last year so wtf now?"

carmen_b
01-23-2020, 02:05 PM
^ I'd just say you are not really looking for friends and want to know if he is single / interested in dating .
Then you'll know the intention and he hopefully won't play slow moving games.
Be bold. Haha .

That's even IF you want to deal with him. You might have better luck with someone else. He was bread crumbing and that's insulting honestly.

carmen_b
01-23-2020, 02:05 PM
Made the decision not to date !
Just finding excursions for me + the dog. We will go off grid into a national park later today !

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 07:29 AM
^ I'd just say you are not really looking for friends and want to know if he is single / interested in dating .
Then you'll know the intention and he hopefully won't play slow moving games.
Be bold. Haha .

That's even IF you want to deal with him. You might have better luck with someone else. He was bread crumbing and that's insulting honestly.

So i waited a good 24 hours (mainly cause I was trying to figure a good way to say what you just said) and told him “only if you can actually do it this time”

he gone respond back immediately, in all caps (wtf?!?), that he’s been waiting forever.

Wtf?!? I’m confused. Not sure if it’s cause now we both no longer work at that company or he is no longer with that Harambe looking woman he claimed to never have.

Maybe I’m weird but I had an attraction to him while he worked there because he helped me laugh about all the crazy shit the managers/coworkers were doing and he was one of the few that acknowledged the fuckery while everyone else was in denial. I don’t know if I’ll have the same attraction to him since I don’t see him every day and I even told myself that if we didn’t work together and have this strange corporate trauma bond I might not be attracted to him otherwise.

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:12 PM
This is the text exchange from the former coworker I used to have a crush on that kept stringing me along. Does this seem like it’s stringing along again cause I don’t have time for the shits

52650

carmen_b
01-24-2020, 08:31 PM
^ No, at least from that he seems willing to take you tomorrow ? Tell him Noon ( or whenever best for you ) and wait for the place ?

Good luck hahaha . This is the one you have known forever right ?

miss.a.p1600
01-24-2020, 08:43 PM
No. That’s the guy I played pool with a few days ago.

Sorry they’re all blending together lol.

This is the guy who I worked with a couple years back. I developed a crush because he would help me feel less stressed about the shitty workplace with the toxic coworkers n managers.

I had asked him to meet up outside of work and he sort of blew me off. He made offers to buy me lunch - when we worked together - and cook for me (normally I wouldn’t do that but I really liked him at the time) after I left that job last Feb - but never actually put in an action plan. So we just lost touch around May (I also changed my number but kept the work number so he just text me a couple days ago on my work number telling me he left that place too)

Winged Dinghy
01-25-2020, 07:25 AM
I am going to peg a guy from my pole dancing class. He's a really good dancer too. Better than me.

Zofia
01-25-2020, 08:31 AM
I am going to peg a guy from my pole dancing class. He's a really good dancer too. Better than me.

This is one of my fantasies! BF is definitely not into it, so I'm looking for a guy to peg. Should be fun! ;-)

XOXO
Z

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 12:07 PM
Ohhhhhhh

You must come back and update.

You you seen those strong on mini ones you can put on your leg ? The guy can sit on your leg ...... a nice little intro game and you can see his reactions.
:)

I am going to peg a guy from my pole dancing class. He's a really good dancer too. Better than me.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 12:27 PM
I wonder what I should do with that 6'9'' guy haha .
I was NOT impressed yesterday when he didn't arrange a date smoothly.
I haven't really talked to anyone in 4-5 days . Just relaxing with the dog . Company might be nice .

He sent :
" May I make it up to you ? "

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 12:28 PM
Sun - Thurs. when no one is renting that AirBnB I have the connection with it might be nice to have a younger gentleman over hahaha . I know I will never find someone like my " Mr. Tall " from a year ago. He was a true desert gem. ;(

MistyGirl
01-25-2020, 02:17 PM
This is one of my fantasies! BF is definitely not into it, so I'm looking for a guy to peg. Should be fun! ;-)

XOXO
Z

I second this on letting us know about your experience. I had an opportunity to do this years ago but chickened out!

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2020, 03:09 PM
I wonder what I should do with that 6'9'' guy haha .
I was NOT impressed yesterday when he didn't arrange a date smoothly.
He's cute though. ;/

I haven't really talked to anyone in 4-5 days . Just relaxing with the dog . Company might be nice .

He sent :
" May I make it up to you ? "

If a dude sent me that, my mind would have defaulted to “bruh you gone have to eat a whole lot of pussy!”

seashell
01-25-2020, 03:20 PM
^I second this! XD

The Englishman is coming in a week, and I'm starting to make some more concrete plans. I'll definitely have the dogs at a pet hotel, just so I don't have to worry about leaving them alone. I don't think I'll invite him over, but... if I do... is it too soon to sleep with him? I kind of want to make him wait. Say that I don't have sex outside of a relationship... >_> Or something. I don't want to mess this up, he actually seems like a real gentleman.

I'm trying to stay away from the Albanian, because he's just... trouble. So good, but so bad, you know? But he posted this thing on his Instagram story, a meme about how he's starting to get attached to someone romantically, and he knows it's going to hurt. I feel like it was directed toward me, but I don't know if I'm just being self centered. The other day, he was trying to help me find a house... I refused to kiss him, but I was still touching him and being flirtatious. He gave me a peck on the cheek when we said goodbye. I feel like I've accidentally cracked his outer shell, and got a bit too close to him.

He deleted the Instagram story pretty soon afterward, so... that was interesting. lol

AChildOfBoredom
01-25-2020, 03:34 PM
Apparently, the woman who asked me to be a bridesmaid doesn’t like the idea of anyone attending the wedding alone. So, what do I do here? I’m doubtful of my prospects of finding anyone I’ll go on a second date date, let alone enough to where they’ll attend the wedding with me. I’ll be staying in a hotel overnight, and don’t want to share it with someone who’s just there on a platonic basis so she’ll stop complaining about me going alone.

Maybe I should put out an ad on Craigslist for the city she’s getting married in:

“Wanted: male lackey to attend wedding, age range 25 - 35. Must look good in a tux. Must accept you’re not getting any from me, but you’re free to try your odds elsewhere. Must be taller than I am (that’s not setting a very high bar). No man buns or ‘metrosexual’ sorts. Compensation: you get food.”

MistyGirl
01-25-2020, 03:40 PM
Apparently, the woman who asked me to be a bridesmaid doesn’t like the idea of anyone attending the wedding alone. So, what do I do here? I’m doubtful of my prospects of finding anyone I’ll go on a second date date, let alone enough to where they’ll attend the wedding with me. I’ll be staying in a hotel overnight, and don’t want to share it with someone who’s just there on a platonic basis so she’ll stop complaining about me going alone.

Maybe I should put out an ad on Craigslist for the city she’s getting married in:

“Wanted: male lackey to attend wedding, age range 25 - 35. Must look good in a tux. Must accept you’re not getting any from me, but you’re free to try your odds elsewhere. Must be taller than I am (that’s not setting a very high bar). No man buns or ‘metrosexual’ sorts. Compensation: you get food.”

Do you know why she doesn't like it? I would think that it may be difficult to have each of the bridesmaids have someone come with them to the wedding if they are single, unless they invite a friend or family member but not everyone feels comfortable with that.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 04:06 PM
^ It sounds like a pain in the ass. I wouldn’t drag a guy into it too. Haha.

It puts a weird pressure on you guys. Like .... you have to make the time to attend and now also have to get tasked with finding an escort too ? Weird.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 04:07 PM
You must really like this girl to do wedding stuff hahaha.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 04:08 PM
I can’t deal with him.
I am lost a bit ( geographically in this new area and in life haha ).
One thing I do know is I can’t hand hold and coddle someone who can’t plan a date .
I need an Alpha.

I am lacking trust ( not surprising after M debacle ).
Logically I know that the chance of someone else becoming verbally / emotionally abuse is relatively slim ( it's only happened to me once ) but it terrifies me. M gave me everything I wanted and then actually *relished* in taking it away and upsetting me.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2020, 04:42 PM
So the ex coworker who I felt strung me along Claims he turned down my offer to meet outside of work because “the job doesn’t like us fraternizing”

This is utter bullshit. Because they only care about bosses and subordinates in relationships or people fucking in their office after hours for example. Plus I had enough texts (I deleted them though because I didn’t want to keep reminiscing) to forward to HR if that really were the case.

I find it interesting he cared so much about a job that found him disposable to the point he ended up quitting any damn ways.

Anyways he called me and claimed he is serious about the lunch thing so I said Monday at noon. He’s supposed to tell me where so we will see how this goes.

And his lunch break is only 30 min lol. So on one hand it’s good to just keep it quick but on the other hand I don’t want to have to travel to him. That’s the mans job. But *le sigh*

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2020, 04:48 PM
I can’t deal with him haha.
I am lost a bit but one thing I do know is I can’t hand hold and coddle someone who can’t plan a date . I need an Alpha.

I am lacking trust ( not surprising after M debacle ).

exactly how I feel right now. It’s like bruh! Expressing a desire to go on a date/meet up is one thing - actually setting a time/place is another. It’s not that fucking hard! Wtf is up with these dudes?!?

Shit!

Next thing is they’ll be expecting us to come all the way to their home, pick out their outfit and drive them to/from the date. Geez today’s generation of men.

*Le sigh!”

I blame Tinder for all this

AChildOfBoredom
01-25-2020, 05:51 PM
Do you know why she doesn't like it? I would think that it may be difficult to have each of the bridesmaids have someone come with them to the wedding if they are single, unless they invite a friend or family member but not everyone feels comfortable with that.

I didn’t ask, but I can speculate. I know who the other bridesmaids are and I know some of them, and the ones I know are all married. So I suspect the rest probably are or else are in LTRs, and it’s not out of the realm of possibility that I may be the only bridesmaid who is truly single. I really don’t have an interest in dating, and ONS isn’t going to happen. Not that I think I’m above it… if I wanted to fuck, then I would. But I have no desire for that, either. Arousal for me is an extremely rare thing, it only happens when it wants to - never at anyone else’s behest, and I don’t know what triggers it since it happens at really weird times when absolutely nothing in any way sexy is going on, but I know what triggers will shut it down - pretty much anything. I simply can’t be enticed or seduced. Certainly not for a lack of those willing to try, but I just turn to stone when they do. And this isn’t something that changed after that IED strike in Afghanistan; it’s always been that way.

I’m good at making casual conversation, but not so much when it comes to flirting. I tire of it quickly, and if they don’t pick up on hints, then I get annoyed. And I’m told my measures to deal with it can be a bit extreme. I don’t get angry and start yelling. But an example I posted earlier, the bride and I had been bridesmaids at a wedding together before, and this guy at the reception just wouldn’t get the hint (though I appreciate his honesty in not leaving any ambiguity that his intention was just to hook up… I’d rather the straightforward approach than to listen to a bunch of bullshit about holding hands on the beach or whatever), so I led him on a little, told him I wanted to take him to my room, strip him down, tie him to the bed… then throw a towel across his face and waterboard him. And that’s probably one of the milder examples. I’m guessing she figures if I’m not there alone, it’ll keep the wolves at bay, and their guests won’t be freaked out.



^ It sounds like a pain in the ass. I wouldn’t drag a guy into it too. Haha.

It puts a weird pressure on you guys. Like .... you have to make the time to attend and now also have to get tasked with finding an escort too ? Weird.

Well, I think it’s just me she has that disposition towards, and I explained above why I think that is. I take a Machiavellian approach to these things… the end justifies the means. I was telling the dancer I carpool with about this, and she suggested she’d go if I couldn’t find anyone. Which would be nice, because then there’d be someone there I actually wanted to talk to and hang out with. But my ‘refugee’ and her girlfriend are already shipping us, and if we went to a wedding together, I know I’d never hear the fucking end of it.

carmen_b
01-25-2020, 06:59 PM
That could have been " on the table " ( heh ) if he would have been smart enough to reserve a table !! Lol.
Way to cock block yourself dude. Moving on ....


If a dude sent me that, my mind would have defaulted to “bruh you gone have to eat a whole lot of pussy!”

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2020, 10:26 AM
^guys are so dumb! They foolishly mess up and fuck themselves out of opportunities.

Emphasis of fuck themselves cause that’s what they’ll end up doing as a result of their stupidity

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2020, 10:32 AM
I’m kind of regretting telling my ex coworker I’d meet him for lunch.

I was totally into him when we worked together and even after I left and he NEVER seized the opportunity even after I asked him to meet up outside of work.

I was hurt by the rejection and slowly got over it but my subconscious mind is telling me to just leave it in the past.

I’m just not feeling him anymore and he is stupid for letting the flames get colder than Antarctica. In my mind I’m thinking you should have taken the opportunity when you had it.

I should have told him I was married or something to let him know I moved on with another dude who rose to the occasion.

Anyhow he’s supposed to be telling me what place he wants to meet for lunch but honestly if he never texts or calls.....I will be relieved. If he calls me I will tell him the truth cause I’m too grown to be playing ghosting games

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2020, 07:55 PM
Ok so haven’t heard from the perpetual mind game playing ex coworker. I probably should have just ignored his text or told him I was engaged.

That guy I played and beat in pool lost a bet so he owes me and I’m trying to get him to take action so we’ll see about the next date/meet up

Some guy approached me while I was out grocery shopping (again another grocery shopping pickup must be the new pickup spot lol) anyways I was looking rough as hell and thought he was trolling me. Well he probably was trolling me for pussy like all men do. Anyway he’s chatting me up I’m walking cause I don’t know if he’s a creep or what and then I told him I needed to find the scales so I broke away from him and left but he found me and started chatting again and I got his number he offered to take me for a drink right then lol but after dealing with that pimp who tries to sex traffick men I don’t be trusting none of them. Anyways we shall see about that one.

miss.a.p1600
01-28-2020, 12:33 PM
Ok so the guy I met while grocery shopping 2 days ago might be a no.

One is that he double and triple texts
Two is that he invites me to hang out with him but doesn’t ask my schedule first (which is opening for rejection)
Three is one of the places he asked me to go with him is a Mexican spot with cheap happy hour

Now I’m not against happy hour but like Mexican happy hour just not a good idea to me. He didn’t ask me what kinds of food I like he assumed I like Mexican.

I told him I couldn’t go because my work week is hectic. I’m working tonight and I have a job early in am so I am not going to be out at the bar drinking liquor.

This guy is younger than me and his age is starting to show already. I may have to tell him I just got in a relationship or something

carmen_b
01-28-2020, 03:29 PM
I have a date lined up for Sat. ;)

It was this guy I chatted with ( I'm back in my home city now ) . He would sent these nice messages talking about travel ( my fave ! ). I kept waiting for him to say something stupid or creepy but he didn't. He wanted to know if I was free this weekend for mini golf or bowling. I said yes ( Saturday I was open and Bowling since I will embarrass myself less ).
Bowling creeps me out a little ( with people eating and then sticking fingers on the ball holes .... it's not like you can really clean those haha ).

I think he will show smoothly.
He is on the " friendship only " plan ( for a couple weeks ) as outlined in my new profile.

miss.a.p1600
01-28-2020, 05:29 PM
^nice sounds like it will be fun

seashell
01-29-2020, 09:04 AM
^^Ooooh! That sounds like a super cute date!

The Albanian guy kept trying to invite himself over for a booty call, so I ended up telling him I can't, because of the English guy. I really like English dude, and I don't want to mess things up. I don't know what Albania really thinks about this, but he hasn't texted me since then, lol. Oh well. I thought he was a cool friend, but I guess he really did just want to fuck me all this time, and nothing more. He had a small peen, anyway....

England is coming to visit in TWO DAYS. I'm freaking out.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2020, 01:56 PM
Ok so the guy I met while grocery shopping 2 days ago might be a no.

One is that he double and triple texts
Two is that he invites me to hang out with him but doesn’t ask my schedule first (which is opening for rejection)
Three is one of the places he asked me to go with him is a Mexican spot with cheap happy hour

Now I’m not against happy hour but like Mexican happy hour just not a good idea to me. He didn’t ask me what kinds of food I like he assumed I like Mexican.

I told him I couldn’t go because my work week is hectic. I’m working tonight and I have a job early in am so I am not going to be out at the bar drinking liquor.

This guy is younger than me and his age is starting to show already. I may have to tell him I just got in a relationship or something

He might be a stage 5 clinger.

Idk

seashell
01-29-2020, 02:13 PM
^That does sound a little obnoxious... like he's not quite on your level, or he's super thirsty. Sometimes you can just tell when a guy's energy is off.

carmen_b
01-29-2020, 03:04 PM
^ Not sure what to suggest on him. One one hand, he did suggest a date . If you don't dig the location or day and want to pursue it you could suggest an alternative.
It sounds like the bottom line is that you are not impressed by the cheaper date suggestion and that's ok too. ;)

carmen_b
01-29-2020, 03:05 PM
I'm still heavily debating to date at all. Haha. Like .... I could leave town tomorrow, strip for three days and know I'll end up with *some* return at least on my time. It doesn't leave any time for dates.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2020, 03:34 PM
I'm still heavily debating to date at all. Haha. Like .... I could leave town tomorrow, strip for three days and know I'll end up with *some* return at least on my time. It doesn't leave any time for dates.

Prettt much how Im
feeling rn

i would rather have money first (or date a dude who will give me some money so I can take some days off) then actually I wish I could hire a male escort.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2020, 03:41 PM
^ Not sure what to suggest on him. One one hand, he did suggest a date . If you don't dig the location or day and want to pursue it you could suggest an alternative.
It sounds like the bottom line is that you are not impressed by the cheaper date suggestion and that's ok too. ;)

Something about $2 margaritas $2 tacos (as the first date) just turned me off. And the part of town it was in just screamed hood rat broke college students or something.

I get hangovers from cheap liquor.

A lot of guys seem to be going for the “tester” dates like coffee or happy hour specials or whatever and you know sometimes I’ll roll with it because the next one will be more up to par with a real date and if it’s an upscale place. But I just don’t have patience for tester dates right now.

My guy “friend” who I went on that pool date a couple weeks ago asked me what I’m doing this weekend. Not sure if he’ll meet up considering how he procrastinated to meet that time.

Oh and I never heard back from that string along former coworker. Typical. I should have ignored his text. He’s the worst narcissistic tendency orbiter. I think I’m going to just block him

Winged Dinghy
01-29-2020, 05:57 PM
I pegged the guy from my pole dance studio!!!!

Ugh, it was so hot! I penetrated him in missionary first, then he rode me, then I fucked him from behind. He said he came harder than he had in six months, which is flattering.

He is also quite a sweetheart and gentleman. Insisted on taking me out for a romantic dinner. Drove me home even though I live five blocks away. Always asks permission before sending me artistic nudes of his butt. He's a fucking phenomenal pole dancer. I may have stumbled upon the perfect side piece.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2020, 08:09 PM
What the hell am I going to do? EVERY time I date more than 1 person to keep myself from obsessing over 1 guy (like I did that last time) I feel guilty af because I know the guy I have to ditch may have feelings for me and this makes it hard for me to end it.

Or maybe I’m deluding myself-guys are used to rejection right? And they probably don’t have feelings that quick anyways. Actually this guy might be a clinger and he’s already double triple texting me n saying he can’t wait to see me etc.

This guy is wanting to go out with me this weekend. Then he had the gall to say it had to be at night. Bruh! It will be whatever time I say.

Anyways I still don’t know if I can date this guy long term. He said he didn’t want anymore kids and he’s definite on that and that’s a dealbreaker for me. Guys who will never marry/never have more kids.

Do I tell him this before going on a date with him?

He also works a lot and never sleeps. Wtf?!? I don’t believe he is making the mind of money that justifies working that many hours. Yeah if your raking in 250k+ but slaving away for barely any money is not sustainable.

carmen_b
01-29-2020, 11:11 PM
OMG winged ! Yesssssss ! I love that he can submit but ALSO plan an outing ! Hot Hot Hot !

Miss P : It *has* to be at night ? Lol No agenda there hahahaha