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miss.a.p1600
04-18-2020, 08:56 PM
I think I’m going to leave the clingy thirsty guy alone.....
I can’t get comfortable with a guy I don’t really know much about.
I may be a bit thirsty but safety comes first.
He just text me asking if I need some cash. Thankfully I don’t so I don’t need to talk to him.
Carmen I think you mentioned a while back to tell him I have a boyfriend so he can know I have a male presence right? I may have to change my number...I need to start back using a burner number to give guys.
Zofia
04-20-2020, 04:33 PM
Friday, BF and I had enough of sheltering in place. And, we have had enough monogamy for a while. Time to reach out to some friends we have played with before. A few calls and we agreed to get a hotel room downtown with a fun couple. She's younger than us, he's mid-50s, but a lot of fun. BF checked in early to our suite. The other couple got a nearby king room. BF texted me that the hotel looked almost empty when he checked in. I got all tarted up. I mean total hooker! (I had a high dollar dress and heels too, and some other fun clothes, if we needed any.) I walked into the lobby and the girl at the counter smiled at me, but didn't bother me when I went straight to the elevator. I noticed, downtown was almost empty and the hotel was completely empty. I strolled down the hall and knocked at BF's door. The other couple was there already. She was naked except for stockings and heels. The guys were still dressed, but not for long. The party was on!
carmen_b
04-20-2020, 05:21 PM
^^ Whoa !!! :)
carmen_b
04-20-2020, 05:22 PM
I'd like to report a three day sex binger as well. :)
Haha. He is such a great lover. I'm sure I'll be back to share some details .
We dropped on bicycle day ( LSD ). I only had a 1/2 dose but it was a great time.
There was a lot of snuggles and laughing, a bubble bath together, and a sunset walk. I spent the " rise " of the trip doing a lot of crying ( but oddly it wasn't akward, I'd come and go as I wanted to be with him or cry alone ) . The next 4 hours after the initial boost were amazing. :)
More to come.
carmen_b
04-21-2020, 10:18 PM
I met his daughter ( 7 ) yesterday.
I feel like it went very well.
We went to a secret riverside beach I knew of to build some things in the sand and visited.
Then he ordered BBQ for us at my place . She loves my dog ( everyone does, secret weapon haha ) .
He commented that the meeting went well and even easier than he expected.
You can just really see he's trying to navigate it all. I was going for a friendly vibe only ( not touching him ) because I had already researched this ahead of time ! Haha.
miss.a.p1600
04-24-2020, 11:01 PM
I accepted the call from Billiards guy.
I ended up talking to him for hours again. I guess I was bored and whatnot. I did at least end the convo this time. Now I will get better at ending it after 15 min
I’m strictly keeping him in friends only category.
I have to be careful though because I don’t like keeping male friends.
Idk I guess the comfort zone of knowing him for a long ass time and maybe 50% trusting him which is a lot for a man not my family member
carmen_b
04-26-2020, 12:41 AM
I kind of regret not inviting myself over but it was such a long day already for us today ( his three day weekend and 2nd meeting for me with his kid ).
Of course now I miss him, ugh.
We are doing a Vegas trip on Monday.
It's just for edibles haha and maybe staying with a friend of mine there.
carmen_b
04-29-2020, 09:59 AM
In Vegas he got a little too stoned / drunk.
My friend has a gorgeous home and I hit the jacuzzi nude after visiting with everyone.
It was NOT a trip highlight to get ignored during naked jacuzzi time.
He was there but not his usual cuddly self.
He also said he was a bad “ friends with benefits today “ while in that drunken hot tub haze.
I told him I hate that phrase and if that is all he feels then it “ is what it is “.
Three minutes later he then starts talking about me living in “ Neighboorhood xyz “ soon ( his !).
He apologized the next day.
I have better reports about yesterday. I'm mad about shorting me one day of sex after I was already starving over weekend due to it being his three day kid weekend.
carmen_b
04-30-2020, 03:40 PM
Tues. was much better.
He stopped at my road trip requests ( lotto ticket and Trader Joe’s ) .
At his place he made drinks and ordered us pizza + a meat / cheese mini platter for me.
That might be our first inside joke.
When we acid tripped he wasn’t hungry so I made these rolls of meat / cheeses from his fridge and staged them to look more appealing ( I cut up strawberry fans haha ).
Right after we ate he asked what I wanted to do so up to bed obviously. He got me off a few times with fingers and then asked " do you want anything else in you ? " .
Yes ..... after 4 days of none ( but whose counting lol ) ....... very much so . I managed to squirm and meet his thrusts somewhat by lifting my butt off the bed and kind of lifting myself into his hips . Squirting happened during penetration which is so rare for me. :)
carmen_b
05-02-2020, 03:58 PM
It was a nice day last night. Our date started early around 5 p.m.
I'd been hiking and hit the shower / soaking tub to prep. I brought us a pizza ( he has simple food tastes and this wood fired place near him is what he likes ) . Some nice edibles and a great time in the bedroom. I love seeing his tan back and then white tan line and butt since he runs with his shirt off. We watched a movie. I think we made it bed around midnight ( early for us ).
I feel like sometimes we are settling into nice routines which makes me happy. I *admit* though that I am surprised he opted to not have company tonight. He gets three days off from his dad duties ( every other weekend with the 2-2-3 schedule ) . When I left three hours ago I was fighting back tears realizing I wasn't going to get a sex binge type of weekend .
We have plans to have dinner with his daughter Tues. , then an evening for us Wed. or Thurs.
Then ..... he is going to meet my family this weekend.
carmen_b
05-02-2020, 08:04 PM
I kind of wish the adult club in Vegas would have been open.
I have a fantasy of being played with while others watch ......
Perhaps next time .....
Zofia
05-04-2020, 04:33 PM
It was cool here, over the weekend. BF and I had been thinking about getting a room downtown at a hotel with a rooftop pool and skinny dipping just for the thrill of it. Instead, we ended up doing basically the same thing at home. The hot tub is still plenty warm and even though there's not the thrill of being watched like it would be downtown, it's still fun to skinny dip. Daughter's boyfriend of the week certainly got an eyeful when BF and I were messing around. I'm sure daughter took his mind of what he saw, pretty quickly.
XOXO
Z
carmen_b
05-05-2020, 07:07 PM
Nice tacos / churros for Cinco de Mayo with J and daughter.
Now need to leave and come back in 55 min to get some us time downstairs .
If I can wait till 9 haha.
carmen_b
05-06-2020, 12:35 PM
It's coming up to 6 weeks in a few days.
It would be nice to have a " girlfriend " type of label .
He is good at tolerating my weird things.
Remember how I was always fighting the crazy guy about what time to eat ?
J just eats with me at 6 p.m. or so and doesn't fight me on it.
carmen_b
05-07-2020, 08:41 PM
More sexy times last night. :)
Really liked that whole " just move the panties to the side " and eat / finger the puss thing.
Mostly enjoyed a couch downstairs and then we moved up to the room.
His bed is like a cloud. I was a little high ( the edibles we got rock ) . I visualized the bed was a fluffy marshmallow floating up into the sky ! I rode the marshmallow SO high up and was over the neighborhood .
I slept well and took a luxe bath in his huge soaking tub while he worked for an hour in the morning.
We had a quick coffee together and he mixed some tracks for me to jam on the drums too.
carmen_b
05-18-2020, 07:06 PM
I guess it's more official now.
BF / GF label. :)
He made Saturday pretty difficult when he felt like we needed to separate.
He quickly regretted things after some talking through.
I have a little hesitation because I'm not sure how normal that is I guess ?
Winged Dinghy
05-19-2020, 05:20 AM
Tomorrow the guy from my pole dance studio and I are going on a beach vacation. Three days and two nights on a quiet little island off the Gulf coast. I am soooo excited. Also somewhat nervous! It feels like a relationship milestone. I am so very into him.
carmen_b
05-19-2020, 11:01 AM
I'm having my own regrets today in a way.
He is just ..... difficult logistically with having 50% custody.
This is something I knew well in advance.
He is going to join me at my cabin North.
Now my mind is turning after he had that meltdown and seemed willing to give us up .
I too can pick things apart and come up with ideas why it can't work.
Also while he was a little high on lsd Sat. he said he pictured my partner ( this guy in his early 50's in glasses and a greying beard ). Lol. I find it strange that he *intuitively* knows my plan for dating older / established if we don't work even though logically he doesn't know. Haha. We call this character the " professor ".
carmen_b
05-19-2020, 11:38 AM
It sounds amazing !
Tomorrow the guy from my pole dance studio and I are going on a beach vacation. Three days and two nights on a quiet little island off the Gulf coast. I am soooo excited. Also somewhat nervous! It feels like a relationship milestone. I am so very into him.
carmen_b
05-19-2020, 09:49 PM
I wanted to make him sweat today ( and did ... taking forever to text back and not adding him as FB friend ect. )
It's been about 48 hours now since a good cuddle with him and I do miss him.
carmen_b
05-25-2020, 08:01 PM
^ I decided to just move on.
We had a great weekend up North. A night at my forest place and then a night in a luxury hotel in the city.
He pulled this big chair over by the large window overlooking the city and told me to put on something sexy.
I knew I was in for a good time. :)
Winged Dinghy
05-26-2020, 06:25 AM
The guy from my pole dancing studio is officially my submissive boyfriend, and we are in love. Our beach vacation was blissful from start to finish. Here are a few highlights.
-I made him eat my ass at a rest stop
-Gave him a two-liter (!) enema
-He cooked me dinner wearing only an apron while I sipped wine and did whippits
-I violated his ass on the beach
-We walked through a forest, and after I peed behind a tree, I made him lick me clean
-After that, he drew me a bath and shaved me
-I bent him over the bed and fucked him with a strap-on. I hadn't let him come for four days prior to that, so when he finally did, he said he came harder than he had in his whole life
We are going on another little trip next month. I'm so into him. He's the best. So hot. Just wonderful.
Zofia
05-27-2020, 07:31 AM
I have always wanted to peg my BF!
XOXO
Z
carmen_b
05-27-2020, 08:12 AM
^ Im thinking of doing it to J too. :)
He has a submissive side and is into “ service “ too ( my fave !! ).
I can tell he is up for it because I kind of squeeze his butt and let my hands get awfully close to putting a finger in on BJ hahaha. That probably sounds crass but he loves it.
We were also talking about nail care one time . He referenced my fingers don’t go into him or something like that.
I said “ well not YET .” He didn’t say anything or request not ever. :)
I think I may stop at the adult store and get a small toy haha.
I’m actually mostly a submissive but there is something about his energy ( he just really loves to please ).
carmen_b
05-27-2020, 08:19 AM
I drove 5.5 hours to get back south.
I had him run me a bath and make me a drink 5-10 min. before getting to his house.
After my bath we didn’t make it to the tv room to watch our show. We went upstairs to bed right after that. :)
It's a high difference in my overall comfort level to have the girlfriend label. This is both in an emotional sense and just physical logistics. I have a dog bed for my little guy, the hot coffee maker , charging stations, a few dresses , and a drawer with cosmetics at his house now. It makes this amazing difference in comfort and not needing to pack to overnight there.
miss.a.p1600
05-27-2020, 08:22 AM
I suppose coronavirus has put a damper in my plans for dating.
I find that dudes are open to corona n chill (which isn’t my thing right now cause I don’t trust that getting my needs met means for a dude he can get away with minimal investment)
So I guess I’m taking things slow till I can find more viable men to add to my harem
Anyhow. My long time FB friend called me on Memorial weekend. He keeps throwing out hints about traveling here so we’ll see.
Ive still been talking to billiards guy “friend” and like talking to him but he hasn’t mentioned anything about meeting or anything except to say he’d grill if I brought the food ..... In my mind I’m like “no you’re cooking AND buying food” lol so that proposal was squashed.
Anyways I’m in dire need of oral sex and a sugar daddy soooooo I’m going to have to figure a plan soon to get what I need
carmen_b
05-27-2020, 11:22 AM
He must have liked that hotel getaway quite a bit.
He just texted seeing if I'll keep Sat. open as a Vegas trip potential .
I thought all of the city was shut down but he is thinking there are a couple nice non-strip resorts open?
I'm in if he does all the planning. :)
miss.a.p1600
05-28-2020, 07:14 AM
After hanging out with 4 peeps last night one of my long time guy friends invited to his place......it was midnight so I didn’t want to give him the wrong idea that sex was definitely going down. Plus I was dead ass tired and just wanted to be in bed by myself so I could wake up early
miss.a.p1600
05-29-2020, 06:14 PM
My other neighbor just asked me to have lunch with him. He said he’d been meaning to ask me out for over a year but never could work up the nerve.
I agreed since he looks halfway decent, decent car, decent job. Not a sugar daddy but I can add him to my harem for the meantime till I meet sugar daddy.
I straight up asked him would he every marry again he eagerly said yeah lol!
Only downside is he got 2 bay bay kids.
miss.a.p1600
05-29-2020, 07:12 PM
That guy who i thought was amazing text me again (after I ignored him the first time cause I thought he was only texting me out of quarantine boredom so I just left him on read) .....
He is such an idiot!!!!
I would have fucked him had he not been so stupid.
Now if I give him another chance, which I doubt, the clock is going to start over and he’s going to have to work harder to gain my attention.
miss.a.p1600
05-30-2020, 08:36 AM
^He text at like 10 ish “I was thinking about you”
Le sigh
This is classic fuckboi behavior and yet I still find myself feeling thirsty n in need of sexual pleasure which I’m sure he could fulfill.
Why self, Why!?!
carmen_b
05-31-2020, 11:13 AM
We are having such a nice 3 day weekend.
miss.a.p1600
05-31-2020, 12:35 PM
Ok so my Potential harem is now 2 dudes. They won’t be moved to starting members of the team till they take me on a date. I probably should work a little womanly charm to speed up the process.
On the bench are
My long time friend I used to date
His friend/coworker
I’m planning to fuck the friend/coworker to get revenge and get my needs met but he has to make effort to make it happen. And I don’t want to end my celibacy to him so I’m going to have to add someone else to add a quality to the harem that is worth of me ending my celibacy with first.
miss.a.p1600
06-01-2020, 07:15 PM
Ok so my Potential harem is now 2 dudes. They won’t be moved to starting members of the team till they take me on a date. I probably should work a little womanly charm to speed up the process.
On the bench are
My long time friend I used to date
His friend/coworker
I’m planning to fuck the friend/coworker to get revenge and get my needs met but he has to make effort to make it happen. And I don’t want to end my celibacy to him so I’m going to have to add someone else to add a quality to the harem that is worth of me ending my celibacy with first.
So I've been talking to my Facebook friend I've been acquainted with for over a decade! He seems pretty mature and cool....I told him about the ish my billiards friend I've also known a long time was saying (see pissy annoyance thread) and said he thought dude was insecure lol!!!
Only downside is he lives in TX but he has mentioned a couple times he'd come visit
A couple times I caught him calling me 'bae' ..... lol
carmen_b
06-01-2020, 09:15 PM
Amazing time over the weekend with J.
The dinner he booked for Sat. was SO great !
I made us a couple nice brunches. So many delicious cuddles, sexy times, drinks .
I am feeling these irritations though and wonder if I'm the one in the wrong.
I'm mad again for him not inviting me to stay during this upcoming house sit displacement ( the next three days starting tomorrow morning) I feel like I can't really *ask*. I also have to admit though that I didn't expect to be dealing with this again after all the excitement two weeks ago of " we are official bf / gf and moving forward " .
^ I think the reason it bothers me so much is that it just feels like we are not working as a team. I'd rather use the $ for US ( like taking us all out to eat ) v.s. just wasting it on a hotel. I'm being a baby about talking to him about this though .
UPDATE : Ok, nevermind , he has offered. So I can do the quick drop of one bag thing , go work, then go over to spend some time in evening with him and daughter.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2020, 06:05 AM
So I've been talking to my Facebook friend I've been acquainted with for over a decade! He seems pretty mature and cool....I told him about the ish my billiards friend I've also known a long time was saying (see pissy annoyance thread) and said he thought dude was insecure lol!!!
Only downside is he lives in TX but he has mentioned a couple times he'd come visit
A couple times I caught him calling me 'bae' ..... lol
My long time Facebook friend sent some money.
not a whole lot but the fact he did it (I’m now knowing it’s a start)
I’ll move him up to my preferred member of the harem for now because i like when dudes take action to be generous
carmen_b
06-21-2020, 06:55 PM
The weekends he has his daughter three days in row ( only twice a month ) are a challenge for me.
It's hard to go three days without sex lol.
It feels really different to me than just two days . Two days is always so easy to get through.
Anyway ..... that more difficult three day weekend was this fri - today.
Mon. and Tues. will be very enjoyable indeed. I know they will be. :)
I know he has a surprise planned for Tues. and I think Mon. will just be a lazy day at his place.
Zofia
06-22-2020, 01:58 PM
Well, I felt the need for someone variety this weekend. BF and I both got texts from some couples that we played with before the quarantine. We've all been tested at different points and are negative. So, we decided to meet at a beach house for some fun in the sun! It's a wonderful place, right on the ocean and it has a pool that is somewhat private. So BF and I went down, there were two other couples there on Friday. Both couples were our age or a little older. One of the girls is definitely bi, and so am I, so lots of combinations were possible. One woman is a confirmed straight, but she's cool with everyone's sexuality. She has a tough time with orgasms unless it's oral or digital stimulation of her clit. So, she likes multiple guys. Which works out for me and the other girl since we sort of like the girl girl thing. That leaves or men free for gang banging. On Sunday, we took a boat to a deserted barrier island that is generally regarded as clothing optional. We all had a great time again! Thank goodness, I've been tanning nude by our pool. A couple of people had sun burns that were pretty uncomfortable.
XOXO
Z
carmen_b
06-23-2020, 02:19 PM
Whoa. ^ :)
carmen_b
06-23-2020, 02:20 PM
J spent a good portion of his evening yesterday licking my pussy.
Then he set up a reservation for a steak house dinner tonight.
He is watching my dog while I go co-work . I cant wait for this meal and our evening !
15 min. till I leave to go get ready !
miss.a.p1600
06-28-2020, 12:25 PM
Alright my neighbor just asked for my number so he could take me on a date.
He said he wanted to get a pedicure and lunch.
I ain’t got shit else to do so might as well. Plus he has an okay job, nice car, and looks decent. Downside is he has two bay bay kids (sigh).
miss.a.p1600
07-02-2020, 05:26 AM
My neighbor asked me if I had any “special guy friends” lol. First I’m thinking why the hell do guys ask that dumb ass question (well I already know some of them don’t like spending money on a women if their is not a likelihood of fucking them because they’re being pursued by some other chad thundercock) and then I’m thinking special? No I don’t do men with low IQ.
Also he asked me what type of restaurants I go to and I start naming off all these 5 star restaurants - which is the truth I’ve gone to these places multiple times. He then Balks and says he’s not cheap but he likes going to eat from a food truck and spending $8 vs $60
Why dude why????
BambiCutie
07-02-2020, 07:30 AM
My neighbor asked me if I had any “special guy friends” lol. First I’m thinking why the hell do guys ask that dumb ass question (well I already know some of them don’t like spending money on a women if their is not a likelihood of fucking them because they’re being pursued by some other chad thundercock) and then I’m thinking special? No I don’t do men with low IQ.
Also he asked me what type of restaurants I go to and I start naming off all these 5 star restaurants - which is the truth I’ve gone to these places multiple times. He then Balks and says he’s not cheap but he likes going to eat from a food truck and spending $8 vs $60
Why dude why????
The fact that he asked you what type of restaurants you go to, only to balk and try to one up you with the occasional food truck is both repulsive and funny.
Its one thing to name off some fine restaurants as an equal comparison and then mention food trucks, but to say you're not cheap and then mention eating at food trucks doesn't translate much.
"I'm not cheap, but I like eating from food trucks." What a clown! :rotfl:
miss.a.p1600
07-02-2020, 09:36 AM
Right! He should have never asked.
Plus for me, high end restaurants and top quality food is one of these things I consider a luxury buy.
Everyone has those luxury purchases.
I hate when guys do that. Try to make me feel guilty about liking high end restaurants (Because they’re subconsciously implying that they won’t be paying for 5 star restaurants when taking you on dates) but meanwhile he’s over here collecting watches, buying expensive rims, and whatever else he frequently blows money on.
Arg!!!
miss.a.p1600
07-05-2020, 06:54 PM
So I agreed to go on the “date” with my neighbor
I told him I was hella busy with work so we could do a Monday (tomorrow) lunch.
He then proceeds to tell me that I didn’t have to go if I didn’t want to. I honestly just want to focus on work if a guy isn’t going to be able or want to be a provider right out the gate. And him talking all this ying yang about how cheap he is but him thinking he wasn’t cheap was turning me off. I mean I’m glad he’s honest but if I’m honest I want long term with a guy whose a provider (have the capability and desire to do so)
I saw this as my out but I didn’t take it.
Why?
Not only that but he is my next door neighbor so it’s like he’s right mf there knowing damn near everything. I can’t even lie and pretend I’m out on the town living it up. He’s knows I’m probably at home sitting on my couch eating bon bons n watching soap operas
Carmen Elixer
07-05-2020, 08:07 PM
I hate that lol. when somebody says "hey you don't have to go if you don't want to".
Then you gotta say "oh no - I want to."
like "LISTEN. I MOST DEFINITELY WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU TOMORROW (like with enthusiasm). Lol.
miss.a.p1600
07-06-2020, 03:47 AM
^lol! That’s probably what it was. I didn’t sound enthusiastic and excited lol!
I always think I’m good at acting but I guess either I’m not as good at acting as I thought I was or dudes can read me better than I realize.
I don’t have anything to wear so it’s probably going to be some outfit he’s already seen me wear and my cotdamn hair dryer went out plus I need a new flat iron so I’ll probably shove my hair in a bun.
I’m probably going to go back to my sugar daddy plan real soon.
miss.a.p1600
07-06-2020, 02:27 PM
Ok I’m back from our lunch date.
He seems like an okay dude. I like how he opened the door for me and SHOCKER we ended up going to the steakhouse I wanted.
His rants about the Taco Truck and all the cheap places he like had me nervous to order how I want. I think he noticed and at least offered appetizers, meal, and dessert so he gets points for restraining his cheapness on a date.
I hope he tipped well.
I gave him a hug at the end
carmen_b
07-07-2020, 11:38 AM
^ I was thinking when he asked about restaurants he might have been thinking in terms of general food preferences ( not really pricing type categories ) in order to choose . It sounds like he passed though !
miss.a.p1600
07-07-2020, 10:21 PM
I always talk about keeping a harem. Which I’m halfway joking but kind of serious.
Ever since that time (well and all the other times) I dated that guy who I thought was amazing but turned out to be a complete player trying to use me for sex, I realized that dating one guy at a time left me feeling vulnerable when he decided to disappear.
But every time I try to keep a harem I always end up with 2 guys who both seem decent and how the fuck do I chose the right guy. What if I hurt someone emotionally? What if it turns out I chose the wrong guy and I inadvertently let the best option go? At what point do you make a choice?