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miss.a.p1600
07-07-2020, 10:22 PM
If I’ll be honest with myself I wish I can keep both but I’m not that good at being a player because my ethics start kicking in

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2020, 10:28 PM
My longtime Facebook friend and I chatting about careers. I’ve been having a challenge with my career since coronavirus and I didn’t realize how negative my self talk is till I started actually talking. And he’s giving me a pep talk and then I wanted to cry because sometimes I can be so hard on myself and I guess maybe every once in a while it helps to hear that.

I ended up talking to him for 4 hours tonight. And I felt kind of bad because my neighbor I went on a date with wanted to hang out with me, I told him I was cleaning which was a lie I was talking to my FB guy friend who keeps calling me bae. Then he was like “I just wanted to see you for a min so call me when you can”

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 04:32 PM
My neighbor said he was making a cake and wanted me to try it.

I said okay because i though he was just going to bring a slice outside or something but now I realize it might just be a ploy to get me inside his place.

I’m thinking I may just come up with soMe excuse.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 07:04 PM
Gawd!!!!! I just want to meet once a week that’s it.

I’m not used to being around dudes all damn day.

Carmen Elixer
07-08-2020, 07:45 PM
Get it together A.P,

Lmfao!!

I am currently trying not to go down to my neighbor's
place. I don't not want things to get too sexy with us. But
at the same time, I do want things to not get that. way. Not bc I
don't not want it, I actually want that really bad. But I just
literally think about & feel tired. I think it is a ways off, but I
honestly can't wait, b/c I'm sick of being alone.

Carmen Elixer
07-08-2020, 07:56 PM
No, just don't apologize.
You don't owe him anything.
LIve life boo

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2020, 08:32 PM
Lol! Carmen E

I think I was just annoyed that I didn’t have anything to wear and I need a new wardrobe but then it clicked in my head that this guy is making a cake (which prob took an hour of his time and $10 max) not taking me to a five star dining experience or a ritzy gala so I literally put in that same effort with my clothes (casual af) no makeup and my hair in a messy bun.

And I get anxious when dudes try to get close to me because I’m such a private person I don’t want some guy knowing my insecurities n weaknesses

Plus the time I spend talking to the dude, getting ready, etc is all time I could be hustling or something. But I guess there has to be a balance and I could manage my time better

So yeah I’ll get it together......eventually

miss.a.p1600
07-09-2020, 11:16 AM
My neighbor wants to take me to the gun range after I told him this creepy dude from high school was cyber stalking me and desperate loser broke into my place a couple years back

I'm freaked out by guns but I guess better to do that than be freaked about by low-lifes trying to threaten my well-being

I wish my long-time Facebook friend would come through with some long-distance date ideas....I don't want to take the man's role and make suggestions without him putting in some effort first

Zofia
07-09-2020, 11:21 AM
Not sure if this is dating or adventure or a little of both. ;-)

Daughter, who is sixteen, and her BFF, also sixteen, wanted to go to the beach for 4th of July weekend. BF and I have a house on the Inter Coastal Waterway, just across from one of the barrier islands on the NC coast. So, with BFF's parents permission, we took both girls to the ICW house. BF bought a used Boston Whaler (shameless plug, I know) this spring, and we've had some fun with it so far this summer. Working from home does have some advantages. :-) So, we got to the ICW Thursday night in time for a moonlight cruise. The girls didn't want to hang out with us old peeps, so we left them at the house and BF and I went cruising. Just us, and it was fun to hang with him alone for the first time since the lock down. (Not that I don't love my daughter, but it's time for her to go back to school!) Anyway, we went out into the Atlantic to look at the stars and moon rise. Well, one thing lead to another and before long we were making out and getting naked. I mean seriously, nothing can be more romantic, or more private! Anyway, one thing, lead to another and before long, BF and I were making love under the stars! OMG, it was awesome.

After we were done, it was almost midnight. So, we cruised home. Daughter and BFF had some raised eyebrows when we finally got back, but they didn't say anything too snarky. The walk of shame never felt so good!

XOXO
Z

carmen_b
07-09-2020, 11:53 AM
Omg !
Yes, secluded boat sex !!
Something to check off my list as well!

Carmen Elixer
07-09-2020, 02:17 PM
My neighbor wants to take me to the gun range after I told him this creepy dude from high school was cyber stalking me and desperate loser broke into my place a couple years back

Lol, I feel similar re getting ready. On one hand I like to be looking/feeling my best when I go around a guy. On the other hand, I want that energy to be reciprocated. he he.

I would definitely take up an opportunity to go to a gun range! It seems like everyone else is getting gun from what I hear so I'm considering it too. Going to need some shooting lessons though! lmao.

miss.a.p1600
07-09-2020, 09:42 PM
Omg! What am I going to do?

My neighbor just called me his “future girlfriend”

He’s actually a decent dude (respects women, marriage minded, listens to my rants, agrees with me most the time, calls me everyday, seems caring) it’s just I know he’s not financially where I want my future partner to be. I looked in his wallet yesterday and there was no cash in there.

He also has two young kids.

And I sometimes think about my longtime Facebook friend (he seems like a good guy too) He’s never been married and has no kids living with him so he has more disposable income. But sadly he lives in another state so we’ve never been able to see each other in real life yet.

Carmen Elixer
07-10-2020, 10:24 AM
Omg! What am I going to do?

My neighbor just called me his “future girlfriend”

He’s actually a decent dude (respects women, marriage minded, listens to my rants, agrees with me most the time, calls me everyday, seems caring) it’s just I know he’s not financially where I want my future partner to be. I looked in his wallet yesterday and there was no cash in there.

Wait ~ looked in his wallet? Watchu doing gurl? Lol

And I sometimes think about my longtime Facebook friend (he seems like a good guy too) He’s never been married and has no kids living with him so he has more disposable income. But sadly he lives in another state so we’ve never been able to see each other in real life yet.[/QUOTE]

Sounds like a road trip in order!}:D

I'm real glad I didn't go down to my neighbors' house the other night. I was just tipsy. And wanted to smoke weed. He is down for a smoke, and smart and fun. However, I always do this thing where I flirt with him, just bc I'm feeling myself when high? Also he has a way of being real quiet, so I fill up the space with my amazing personality. hehe. But then he responds to the flirting. and sometimes texts me later, like after my buzz is gone away. and I didn't actually want that. Lol. Guys take flirting sooo
seriously. Good Lordt. Just don't do it! At all! Unless you're prepared for a chase later, and to potentially be forced to ghost your friend for a while! which sucks! lol. You may need to contact him again for weed! This could happen several times, it starts to fk with your conscience. He is cute, but he's got kids. and roommates. And I can tell he's the type who could catch feelings. And sadly, he seems like he doesn't seem like a provider.:O

miss.a.p1600
07-10-2020, 10:43 AM
Ok I’ll clarify. He was opening his wallet looking for a business card and I glimpsed in that mf while he was holding it open looking around for some card some guy gave him. Lol!

Classic strip club/stripper tactic ... covertly glimpse in wallets and at atm bank statement balances.

Yeah I’ll see if he can maybe come here and get himself a hotel. And quickly before my neighbor confesses his undying love for me n makes it hard for me to be out on the prowl.

lol Carmen e. When ya just want a lil weed and a fun time but the dudes want more.....

carmen_b
07-10-2020, 04:08 PM
^ How far away is the one with no kids ? Maybe you can meet mid way for a date?

miss.a.p1600
07-10-2020, 10:27 PM
Hmmmm....that’s an interesting idea.

I hope the universe provides me with the right guy for me soon before I get in a confusing “love” triangle.

*I put love in quotes because I know I’m not in love but I don’t want to reduce my feeling so far to just lust. I don’t even have sexual feelings for either one yet.

Zofia
07-11-2020, 04:04 PM
Friday, July 3. The girls wanted to go to the beach, so BF and I loaded them and all our beaching gear in the boat and ran over to the island at the inlet. Nice beach, great place to anchor and let the girls do their thing, and BF and I hang out. About 10ish, I suggest to BF we go fishing. He loves to fish, and I was not liking the tan lines that might be from having to wear a beach legal, bikini. BF and I take the boat out the inlet, into the ocean. It's a glorious day, a few clouds, just enough wind to be nice and not too hot, but not enough to rough up the ocean. about a mile offshore and in about 30 feet of water, we cut the engine and put out some lines. That's my cue to get rid of my top for some fishing. :-) Keeps BF interested in something other than his fish. We didn't wait too long and I had a Spanish Mackerel! Bf got one too, both bigger than the limit. BF fought for half an hour with a sail fish before it broke his line and escaped. He was exhausted. It seemed like a good time for me to reward him for a good fight, so I pulled his shorts down and gave him a sloppy BJ. About then, my rod went crazy! I fought another Spanish Mackerel for a while and landed it. BF landed a Blackfin Tuna. By then, we were getting hungry. No cell service this far out, but we had left the girls with a handheld marine radio, so we called them and told them we were cruising back. Sadly, BF and I had to get dressed by the time we got to the inlet. We met the girls on the beach and motored back to the house. BF is good at cleaning fish and I'm pretty good at cooking them. So we had a nice fish fry for a late lunch.

XOXO
Z

miss.a.p1600
07-11-2020, 09:19 PM
Ok y’all I hung out with my neighbor again

We grabbed lunch and then later we got some donuts.

He actually admitted he is cheap lol. Which honestly I’m not sure I can handle long term but he’s a really sweet guy and generous with what he does have.

He confessed he wanted me - I seriously thought he was going to kiss me. IM glad he didn’t because my lips were chapped and my breath was probably like texmex

I’m still confused and scared because I don’t want to pass up my long distance Facebook friend. There is something special about him too. But my neighbor is pulling out all the stops he can afford lol to convince me to spend more time with him.

When keeping a harem confuses tf out of me.

miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 06:50 AM
I have a harem question.

Before we went out a couple times, My neighbor posed the question “do you have any ‘special’ friends?” Those types of questions grate my nerves but I suppose for a thrifty non-player type guy I can see his perspective wanting to be cautious investing in a woman he likes.

Anyhow should I have brought up my longtime Facebook friend? Or I don’t know how honest to be about my response so I just said no because I’ve never been on a date with my fb friend and only recently did we start talking on the phone.

If I am honest with myself I am also curious about getting to know my long distance fb friend during this time also.

Maybe I should have asked him to define “special friend” because does that mean a friend you are fucking,dating, or just getting to know?

lurkingtitties
07-12-2020, 08:04 AM
Don’t settle for the neighbor.

carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:09 AM
^ Maybe. It does seem like something is a little off about him maybe . I thought you might have just been spooked but food truck talk haha but if he brought up tight finances multiple times ..... he is telling you something. It's kind of good of him to disclose actually !

carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:10 AM
^ And ..... you don't have a harem. :)

Longer distance guy you haven't even met up with. ;/

Let me play the devils advocate here a little lol . A harem is being taken out and fooling around with more than one. Not just chatting. :)

carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:14 AM
J is really on the ball with fitness and is a good influence. I like that because there is always a natural pause for me to work out / do my routines to stay in shape .

carmen_b
07-12-2020, 10:32 AM
I rarely get J 4 days in a row. :)
This is day 4.
His ex took his daughter camping and I got a bonus day.

On weekends we each do our own little projects during the day and check in with each other every 2-3 hours or so which I really like. I don't feel an obligation to entertain him 24 hours a day. He has a very easy type of energy to him and we always link back up in the evenings for quality time.

miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 03:47 PM
That’s cool Carmen b seems like you and your new dude mesh pretty well this far.

I really could use some weed rn. I would love if I meet a 4/20 friendly guy.

miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 08:58 PM
Cotdamn it!!!!!!!!!! I’m going against 2 of my main rules of dating men who make 80k and up have 1 kid max/grown kids.

So I had an excellent day at work and my neighbor was encouraging me. He bought me a pizza and my favorite wine.

I got a bit tipsy but then my buzz wore off. He walked me back to my place (right next door lol) and I was hoping he didn’t kiss me cause again my lips were chapped and my breath was like wine n pizza (I forgot my purse with some chapstick and breath strips). Then we hugged and I think I felt him peck me on the neck.

His kids call him literally 5+ times to pick them up so he had to go get his baybay kids.

Y’all I must be really thirsty. Or just not used to male attention (from positive dudes that respect women).

Celibacy will make you thirsty. I probably should have pleased myself all month so I wouldn’t be thirsty but here I am breaking my rules and just .......

Then he called me and confessed he was thankful I hung out with him n wanted me to be with him but said he’d talk about “that” later.

miss.a.p1600
07-12-2020, 09:00 PM
I also talked to my longtime Facebook friend today as well.

I mentioned I didn’t want to live in my city much longer and he was like “you should move to TX” (which is where he lives)

I guess the distance is causing him to move slower? Idk if I should take the initiative and suggest a virtual date?

Zofia
07-13-2020, 07:34 AM
July 3, the adventure continues. ;-) After the fish fry, the girls said they had met some cute boys on the beach and had been texting with them. They wanted to go back and see if they could meet up. I thought hook up, but far be it from me to presume such a thing. BF and I loaded the girls on the boat and headed across the ICW to the island. When we beached up, there were two nice looking lads waiting for D and BFF. I wasn't too surprised. My daughter's taste in boys runs to the handsome. Not so sure about BFF's taste in boys, but D and BFF both claim that BFF likes her boys. I know my daughter likes her boys, and her girls too. Clearly, these kids had no use for some parental units hanging around. So I told the kids that BF and I were going for a cruise.

What I didn't share is BF owed me some head! :-) I took the boat while BF lifted the anchor. We headed out to the ocean for a romantic afternoon cruise. No sooner than we had passed through the inlet, BF was standing behind me playing with my butt cheeks and moving my thong around. I turned and kissed him. and then slipped my thong off. He knew what to do and gave me a wonderful orgasm!

XOXO
Z

carmen_b
07-13-2020, 09:14 AM
omggggg

yes........ ^

miss.a.p1600
07-14-2020, 10:38 PM
Yo!!!!!!

Wtf?!?!

My neighbor and I were hanging out at his place having dinner then just as I was about to leave he asked me to be with him like with him as my bf. He said he’d treat me well and wouldn’t waste my time.

I told him only if he took me for some chocolate lol.

I can’t believe I agreed because I’ve been a perpetual single lady doing her own thing being celibate and not thinking about a dude.

aside from his financial status and have two dependents and being chubby he’s actually a decent dude. Maybe he’ll be motivated to make more money.

He offered for me to stay the night but I politely declined cause I’m on my period heavy flow n I didn’t want to have any accidents/ bleed all over his bed plus I haven’t waxed and I need some new bras n panties

He kissed me but I was paranoid my breath tasted like wine so I just pecked him only.

I need help because I don’t want to give up my longtime Facebook friend. I honestly don’t know how to be in a relationship like I might be horrible at it or whatever.

miss.a.p1600
07-14-2020, 10:48 PM
I do like the fact he asked me to be in a more committed type relationship BEFORE trying to sample the goods. A celibate lady ain’t trying to pop the pussy for no fuckboi (and yes I almost got caught up with a smooth player last November)

Now if the sex is bad.....well I might be back here in t minus 1 month ranting about how I hate men lol.

Zofia
07-15-2020, 07:42 AM
July 3, the evening. We picked the girls up from the beach in time to sail down the ICW to grab dinner at a restaurant. I love sail in restaurants. It seems we accumulated a couple of extra passengers - the boys from this afternoon. Frankly Daughter, her BFF and the boys seemed to act as if BF and I were invisible. That seems to happen about the time they turn 13. The boys did seem to notice my thong though, which was the point of course. BF noticed it too, and played with my butt all the way to the restaurant. I slipped on a pair of shorts after we tied up to the dock and a tank top. I untied my bikini top and slipped it off from under my top. :-) The food was good, the drinks were cold the kids and their friends weren't too engaging, but they laughed and talked to each other. As dinner was winding down, I excused myself and went to the restroom. My thong bikini was feeling too constricting, but I didn't want to take it off in the restaurant. I've done that before and BF loves it. So do I, but I didn't think it was the thing to do in front of the kids, though I suspect they would have enjoyed the show. It was just kinky enough to know I was bare down under. ;-)

The cruise home was nice, still warm but the sun was setting behind us. The girls were making out with the boys up front and BF was still playing with my butt and whispering in my ear about what he wanted to do. :-) We tied up to the community dock and went to the house. The girls and their dates rushed upstairs. BF dragged me into the shower. We were both a little sandy from a day on the boat and the beach, but he had more on his mind than a quick shower. Well, one thing lead to another and we ended up having marvelous stand up shower sex!

XOXO
Z

miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 08:59 AM
So What do I do?

Now that my neighbor has confessed that he will pretty much do everything under the sun a man is supposed to do to keep a woman around (commit, protect, support, etc) ..... my past dudes/current male friends/etc are coming out of the woodwork

Do I tell them? Or do I keep things cordial as possible then wait till they try to press up on me to tell them?

BambiCutie
07-16-2020, 09:21 AM
So What do I do?


My past dudes/current male friends/etc are coming out of the woodwork


Do I tell them? Or do I keep things cordial as possible then wait till they try to press up on me to tell them?

How long have you known your neighbor? If you tell your friends who are interested, they will likely back down from approaching you any further. (From what I've experienced)
If you plan to be in a relationship, then I would personally tell them that you are committing to that person, but would like to stay friends. Let them know that this shouldn't change your friendship.
This tends to sort through those who are truly there as a friend that is likely to develop into a healthy friendship, compared to those who are just hoping for a chance in the bedroom and nothing more.
They tend to quickly remove you or fall out of all prior interests when they know you are taken. The ones who were true friends stay regardless of your relationship status with respect to your boundaries.

miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 09:43 AM
Thanks Bambi

We literally just started dating last week lol. He said he realized a lot of guys would be attracted to me and I guess he wanted prove he was serious and to make sure my attention wouldn’t be split on other dudes so he asked to be my bf.

I have other 3 dudes I’ve known for a long time who I’ve been chatting with but honestly I feel like when dudes know you ve been single for a while they take their sweet ass time committing.

I like when men take action! cause I ain’t got all cotdamn day.

My longtime Facebook Friend should have at least asked for a virtual date or something
My long time college friend (the billiards guy) only asked me on one date this year then pulled back
My high school friend/former biz partner should have stayed in touch but he didn’t

Like mfs!!!! Get it together. I probably would have fucked each one of them had they not been slower than Christmas to act.

I kind of want to show that they should have taken the opportunity and now they’ve missed out. A bit passive aggressive but .... eh men do dumb shit to us all the time.

I guess I’ll find a way to bring it up in convo or something and say it like how you mention.

miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 09:58 AM
I guess since it’s fairly new. I won’t completely give up my “harem” just yet —- just never know when ya need to move seamlessly from one relationship to the next (yes I’m shamelessly protecting my biological clock)

I just won’t message them at night. And I won’t reach out to them. All convos will occur during the day and be cordial/non sexual af.

miss.a.p1600
07-16-2020, 09:11 PM
My Facebook friend from tx (who should have asked me on a virtual date) called me today.

He said my voice sounded sexy when I answered.

Other than that we kept our convo regular

carmen_b
07-17-2020, 07:48 AM
^ I would ditch everyone not putting in real effort honestly.
I mean .... what does chatting with these dudes here and there even do ?

They aren’t providing dates, in person company , sex ect.!

Free up your energy. :)
I’m taking my own advice here FYI .
I don’t speak to any of my “ almost relationships “.
Ah .... peace . Haha

Zofia
07-17-2020, 10:09 AM
July 3, the conclusion. After our shower together, BF and I got dressed, sort of. He was just wearing shorts and I put on a tank top and shorts. We sat out on the back porch and watched the remains of the sunset. A few fireworks went off and we just held hands. At some point, we both got a text from the same couple inviting us to a couples party on the island on Independence day. BF and I have played with the couple doing the inviting, but we didn't know any of the other people on the group text. Since we had no way of knowing what their status was we just took a pass.

XOXO
Z

miss.a.p1600
07-17-2020, 11:09 AM
^ I would ditch everyone not putting in real effort honestly.
I mean .... what does chatting with these dudes here and there even do ?

They aren’t providing dates, in person company , sex ect.!

Free up your energy. :)
I’m taking my own advice here FYI .
I don’t speak to any of my “ almost relationships “.
Ah .... peace . Haha


good points!!! You’re a 1000% right.

Pretty much why my neighbor beat everyone else out. He was actually DOING something meaningful and tying to prove himself to me to give him a chance.

He calls me every morning as he’s heading to work and he’s grilling for me tonight so I’m glad I don’t have to cook lol.

And actually I’m going to use those other guys to help me build my business n make more money. I’m just not wasting my time entertaining them for anything more than just business or associates. Dudes that wait so cotdamn long to take action are either broke af or they don’t see the value in you (if they value you they’ll rush to get you - and keep you- before another man does)

miss.a.p1600
07-17-2020, 07:47 PM
I’m back. My neighbor grilled a damn feast. And I felt bad he was literally sweating his ass off while I’m sitting there watching him cook. He cooked AND did the dishes and wouldn’t let me help lol.

miss.a.p1600
07-17-2020, 11:04 PM
Back again...sorry.

Ok so after we ate, I had some wine, and next thing I know we are making out.

Then he starts talking dirty telling me to tell him how bad I need it. Lol!!! I get so turned on when dudes talk dirty.

I almost fucked but thankfully I used the I’m on my period excuse because the truth is really it’s the last day so technically I could have but I didn’t wax, my bra and panties don’t match and honestly I was not ready for a dick appointment

Zofia
07-20-2020, 07:39 AM
July 3, the conclusion. After the unofficial fireworks seemed to shut down, BF and I loaded the girls and their boys into the boat and took the boys back to the island where the boys were staying. We met the parents of one of the boys. Seemed nice enough. On the cruise back, a few more fireworks were shot off. It's very romantic to see fireworks from the water. We dropped the girls off on the dock. BF and I decided to leave the boat in the water since we wanted to take it out on Saturday. Securing the boat, I kept looking at BF's nice butt. I couldn't keep my hands off him. I think I ended up distracting him enough that he sort of forgot about what he was doing and we started making out on the dock like a couple of teenagers.

XOXO
Z

miss.a.p1600
07-20-2020, 11:34 AM
^Thats cool how you and your bf keep the spark alive on a frequent basis

My neighbor / bf is taking a break from work to take me to a gourmet candy shop. I told him it was a requirement if he wanted me to be his girlfriend. Glad he follows instructions well.

miss.a.p1600
07-20-2020, 03:19 PM
My neighbor / bf picked me up and took me to the candy shop.

Afterwards, we had lunch together he confessed he didn't want to let me go and wanted to be with me long-term. Then he asked me to go to an event with him this weekend....I guess I'll be meeting his friends. So after this I suppose I'll have to return the favor and invite him somewhere where my friends will be.

I guess I'll have to give him a nickname or something cause in the rare off chance a dude infiltrates this forum, I need to still keep a level of privacy and this info is too specific. I guess I'll call him L

Speaking of which the other day he asked me my middle name and a few days before that he asked me my last name. I guess he is off somewhere checking my background lol!

I also caught him calling me babe when he answered the phone today.

Zofia
07-20-2020, 08:22 PM
^Thats cool how you and your bf keep the spark alive on a frequent basis

We started our relationship on an open basis. We've tried monogamy and didn't really find it was for us. So, when we are together, the spark is pretty hot.


My neighbor / bf is taking a break from work to take me to a gourmet candy shop. I told him it was a requirement if he wanted me to be his girlfriend. Glad he follows instructions well. A man who takes instruction well is good to find.

XOXO
Z

miss.a.p1600
07-22-2020, 12:34 AM
L is cooking for me tonight.

He better have his tongue and/or hand ready to give me an orgasm.

But I’m going to speak it into existence that he will be in tune with my body, pick up on my cues, follow instructions, and know what to do.

Otherwise he will be forced to buy me a vibrator.

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 10:22 AM
I’m really upset with J and I wonder if I’ll leave him over this ....

His parents popped up unannounced and I felt like he had a bad attitude and didn’t smoothly arrange a meet.

I don’t know. What do you think ?
On the other hand my dog and I now have the entire day to ourselves. We are both exhausted honestly from my family this weekend.
I asked him last night if I’d meet them ( but it was pretty soon after they popped up ).
I don’t think he’s good with last minute plans obviously and that’s a little concerning too. The day / life shouldn’t fall apart just because there is a little extra to add to a day.

carmen_b
07-22-2020, 10:25 AM
I think what offends me the very most is that I feel like he doesn’t want them to see our daily routine which is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about.

Zofia
07-22-2020, 10:26 AM
July 4. The girls wanted to hit the beach, but they slept in. So, BF and I took the paddle boards out. We went paddling into the wind, so that the trip back was a little easier. ;-) When we got back, the kids were still asleep, so BF and I took another shower together. I just love it when BF fucks me standing up in the shower, he was a very good boy.

Finally, the kids woke up. We loaded up the boat and went over to the island. I wore the tiniest bikini I own, that is arguably legal. Gotta give BF some eye candy in return for the morning fun.