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carmen_b
03-21-2020, 11:51 PM
^ Hopefully it was a real photo haha ! Yeah ..... chatting for a couple weeks certainly wouldn't hurt anyone.

I guess I'm just thinking about this with D because we already have each others germs it seems like ......

miss.a.p1600
03-22-2020, 06:24 AM
Am I crazy for wanting a lover during this thing ? Like .... really .... no one else feels like having a lover would make it so much better ?

Same.


I considered calling up the clingy dude offering mobile oral sex

Then I started thinking like damn if I meet dudes ima have to ask them their std status AND their covid status

I’m annoyed.

Probably should have been married by now

miss.a.p1600
03-22-2020, 06:29 AM
singles ... are you dating ?
Or are you pausing the whole thing?

No.

They can’t take us out on dates anywhere.

Plus I don’t trust a mf ain’t sick or asymptomatic sick so I am not meeting up with anyone in person

indiegirl
03-22-2020, 11:02 AM
My sister tested positive for Coronavirus. No idea how she got it. Worried for her baby and her husband. Hope we all stay safe. They were told to be on quarantine for 7 days. 7?! I thought it was 14. They gave her an antibiotic and sent her home. Haven't seen her for years (we had a falling out) so I am safe. But it concerns me how this happened.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:02 AM
^ Yes, they can. :)
In my state at least you can still order take out . It's spring so taking it out to eat at a park or something is still fine to do !
^ Doing something like this would show the guy is resourceful and not stupid ( i.e. worthy of getting laid ).

We will see what my candidate does. I tried last night ( again ) to get him to tell me what he likes sexually via text to open up the convo and he did open up a little but having to pull at him by asking twice ( and I already revealed a lot of what I like ) made me feel agitated. So I told him it was important to me that the man persue and to just let me know if he wants to see me . We will see what he does. I am honestly still a little mad at him for barely touching me last time even though I know there was a reason behind it ( he felt like he was getting sick and didn't want to get me sick in case ). He followed up via a couple naughty texts too to keep the energy going.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:03 AM
I'm so sorry !

My sister also is getting a test done. Something about this doesn't sound right as it's viral ..... did she have complications that made the Anti - B needed ?


My sister tested positive for Coronavirus. No idea how she got it. Worried for her baby and her husband. Hope we all stay safe. They were told to be on quarantine for 7 days. 7?! I thought it was 14. They gave her an antibiotic and sent her home.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:09 AM
We can DO this guys !! Hang in there with cheap living and solutions !!

Potatoes and Carrots lol !! They are the cheapest food healthy food I think haha. I am making large batches of them with every kind of sauce and spice I can come up with haha.

indiegirl
03-22-2020, 11:10 AM
We aren't really in contact. It's through my mother I heard this happened. She lives in Cali too. We had a falling out due to me in "adult entertainment" industry...I'm going to try to get more info. She is a normal healthy woman. 31 yrs old.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:11 AM
My connection in the desert lost the AirBnB sales for the next TWO weeks leaving that very nice property open ( with a preference that a house sitter is there ). That sitter will be ME ! So .... only the best and most creative lovers should step forward at this point with offers to quarantine with me. The request to have me there for three days just jumped to 12-14 !! Yes ! :)
I will be looking at the BEST offers for companionship today. If there are no good ones, I will load up JUST the dog and hit the road in 2-3 days.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:14 AM
Indie: You obviously know with all the stuff we are hearing that the young people have incredibly great odds with it ...... but it is STILL very scary.

indiegirl
03-22-2020, 11:18 AM
It's scary and I'm worried for her and her baby. That kid is the cutest. UGHH. I'm taking a few days off here. I just feel sad this hit close to home.

Pokahantas
03-22-2020, 11:32 AM
My moods are shifting so fast. I find myself going from happy to sad to horny to mad to confused in a matter of an hour. My boyfriend is driving me crazy! I live alone but they shut down Los Angeles so he wanted to come out to my house which is about an hour out of the city where it’s not as bad as LA. I wish he wasn’t here because I need to be using this quarantine time to be camming but I can’t because he is here so every day I’m losing out on so much money omg! I cannot cam with him here because he doesn’t know that I am camming. He keeps playing loud ass YouTube videos on how to survive if the world comes to an end and he is eating like a bottomless pit. His phone keeps going off as if he has every damn notification alert known to mankind. I need some quiet time because I am an introvert and this is just brutal for me. It’s cool sometimes to not be alone but this shit is irritating especially when we don’t know when the end is and this dude is expecting me to cook him meals everyday like I’m some kind of housewife wtf. His job shut down because of the virus so he’s basically just over my house until god knows when. Yesterday i was just so exhausted from all of this coronavirus interruption that I took a lorazepam and it really helped to chill me out a bit. I was smoking weed but I fucked up my throat and now have to pause on that for a few days because my chest is all messed up. This morning I am feeling even worse than yesterday.
At any rate, I just want to give a super shot out to all of you ladies here on SW. It really helps to be able to go on here and know there is a support system out here. Love you all and wishing you all good health and happiness.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 11:36 AM
^ Can you try to set some boundaries with him like having him go out and get into some outdoor spaces for a few hours at a time to give you " quiet " ?

Elektra Luxx
03-22-2020, 01:05 PM
I'm so tired of being anxious and afraid. I feel like going out and looking for someone sick so I can just get the coronavirus. If I get mildly or seriously sick or maybe die, it doesn't matter, it will be over. The waiting, just sitting, doing nothing, things are so confusing and scary. I'm working myself up, I know it.

I'm just so ready for things to go back to normal.

carmen_b
03-22-2020, 01:13 PM
^ I totally get that.
I suspect me + dad may have had it.
The reason I feel that way is that my cold also has lung pain BUT things are in such a mild state overall and seem to be improving . I truly think 95% of us would not know cold v.s. CoVid if it wasn’t all we had heard about the last month.

I’m being cautious in case. Including giving up ideas about trying to spend some time “ cuddling “ during all this extra time on my hands.

Elektra Luxx
03-22-2020, 02:34 PM
My moods are shifting so fast. I find myself going from happy to sad to horny to mad to confused in a matter of an hour. ...

Me too! I've been really horny. I know it's stress and anxiety and I use sex to deal with both.


Yesterday i was just so exhausted from all of this coronavirus interruption that I took a lorazepam and it really helped to chill me out a bit. I was smoking weed but I fucked up my throat and now have to pause on that for a few days because my chest is all messed up. This morning I am feeling even worse than yesterday.

I take clorazepam and chills me out okay. I really need to find some good mind blowing weed.

AChildOfBoredom
03-22-2020, 08:35 PM
I might have to get an air fryer. Looking on Instagram, since my former roommate isn’t able to go out and do anything in Denver, he’s been posting photos of the things he’s been making with his, and a pretty good record of time, broken down by prep time, cook time, and cleanup time. This must be some twilight zone shit… never would’ve expected him to use anything culinary as a flex other than his green chili that others had taken to calling “Hell On Earth”.

My friend from the community is working from “home”, by which I mean my garage.

moneybags
03-23-2020, 01:48 AM
Me too! I've been really horny. I know it's stress and anxiety and I use sex to deal with both.



I take clorazepam and chills me out okay. I really need to find some good mind blowing weed.

Me too. I’ve been stone cold sober for years. If someone offered my some I’d totally partake. Stressed out! I’ve been meditating I kid you not for hours. I’m gonna make some tea and journal

xxxGothBarbie
03-23-2020, 02:45 AM
Doing ok today so far, placed another online grocery order & fingers crossed it arrives tmrw no canceling! :)
Thankfully remembered tampons with this order which will eliminate me from having to go out at all which is good. Hope everyone is doin well <3

moneybags
03-23-2020, 03:43 AM
I’m not watching the news for a week. There’s literally nothing I can do. Gonna work from home and do self-care. I just need a temporary break from the insanity

lurkingtitties
03-23-2020, 05:41 AM
I might have to get an air fryer. Looking on Instagram, since my former roommate isn’t able to go out and do anything in Denver, he’s been posting photos of the things he’s been making with his, and a pretty good record of time, broken down by prep time, cook time, and cleanup time. This must be some twilight zone shit… never would’ve expected him to use anything culinary as a flex other than his green chili that others had taken to calling “Hell On Earth”.

My friend from the community is working from “home”, by which I mean my garage.

Air fryers are amazing! You should definitely get one.

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 09:47 AM
I'm prepping my car for the desert trip. It's important to be completely self contained so a lot of prep.
I feel safer at that property ( it's more remote and professionally cleaned regularly so I can also go through and bleach before too ).
Our family compound I'm at has had so many people coming and going ....... this is probably not what self isolation should look like but I'm very grateful to have been able to be here the last week.

I'm pretty disappointed that one of the men I'm seeing didn't offer ANYTHING touch or affection wise yesterday and doesn't seem to be inviting me over today. We are both pretty cautious with everything ( wearing masks and gloves everywhere ) so I don't see how affection could hurt since we already have each other germs from cuddling 6 days ago .

He doesn't seem to be doing well with the isolation. I am respecting it if he wants less germ exposure obviously. It does make me questions him overall though. Even in a crisis, I want to be around someone who can make the best about of things even if they are not working with much.

Elektra Luxx
03-23-2020, 11:46 AM
Me too. I’ve been stone cold sober for years. If someone offered my some I’d totally partake. Stressed out! I’ve been meditating I kid you not for hours. I’m gonna make some tea and journal

I can't remember the last time I smoked weed, but I've been really considering it for several reasons. Mostly, I just want to zonk myself out and wake up when this is all over. Also, Bf is very serious, responsible and dependable and I'd really love to see him stoned just once.

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 11:50 AM
^ I'm planning to get edibles in 2-3 days . Enough for 10-14 days hahaha.

Ladycaxe
03-23-2020, 11:52 AM
I’m not watching the news for a week. There’s literally nothing I can do. Gonna work from home and do self-care. I just need a temporary break from the insanity

I stopped watching the News and i'm feeling much better lol. Hey arnold and Nicktoons keeping me sane rn xP actually starting to enjoy this :D

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 12:01 PM
^ Same ! The same with FB ! What is going to happen it that numbers are going to climb in the next 7 days. We are not going to know definitive information until then.

miss.a.p1600
03-23-2020, 12:04 PM
^ I'm planning to get edibles in 2-3 days . Enough for 10-14 days hahaha.

Jealous. I need some weed rn

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 12:06 PM
^ If my fave dispensary is open. I imagine they will be ( the world needs then right now haha ).

moneybags
03-23-2020, 12:10 PM
https://youtu.be/fMZQU8za8zc

xxxGothBarbie
03-23-2020, 02:52 PM
Ugh I'm so reaady to leave from here :( Problem is, is I have nowhere else to go that wouldn't keep family out of risk of exposure & I doubt it's ok for anyone here in CA to travel by car very far (without reason) even though I'm not a resident here, I just got stuck here in the last month due to this outbreak thing.

EastCoastDancer01
03-23-2020, 05:27 PM
I just got my first ebook published on Amazon! I've been writing it in my spare time and spent some money to have it put together recently...and holy shit, it couldn't have been at a better time! It just got approved and is now live for sale on Amazon. I'm waiting to see if the pandemic will have any effect on its sales whatsoever (I'm hoping yes and in a positive way). I'm working on promoting it right now, and its keeping me busy.

Elektra Luxx
03-23-2020, 06:59 PM
I've been eating a lot more.

Adelina
03-23-2020, 07:23 PM
I just got my first ebook published on Amazon! I've been writing it in my spare time and spent some money to have it put together recently...and holy shit, it couldn't have been at a better time! It just got approved and is now live for sale on Amazon. I'm waiting to see if the pandemic will have any effect on its sales whatsoever (I'm hoping yes and in a positive way). I'm working on promoting it right now, and its keeping me busy.

Congratulations on your book! This is awesome. I too am working on something creative in the vanilla sphere while there is no income to make at the clubs.

miss.a.p1600
03-23-2020, 07:58 PM
It’s making me contemplate ending my celibacy more than ever.

Now *I* felt like that narcissistic type corona and chill type person as I scrolled through my Rolodex thinking about the risks I might be willing to take and which dude I could call up for some One Night Only oral pleasures

EastCoastDancer01
03-23-2020, 09:04 PM
Congratulations on your book! This is awesome. I too am working on something creative in the vanilla sphere while there is no income to make at the clubs.

Thank you so much! :) and yes, now is a great time to get those creative juices flowing!

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 09:14 PM
Just ask them about the their health and those they are in quarantine with haha. That certainly is one way to pass the time.
:)
It’s making me contemplate ending my celibacy more than ever.

Now *I* felt like that narcissistic type corona and chill type person as I scrolled through my Rolodex thinking about the risks I might be willing to take and which dude I could call up for some One Night Only oral pleasures

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 09:15 PM
Is anyone seeing the dark sides of people that you just didn't expect ? I know I keep going back to it but one of the people I was seeing just isn't holding it together. I feel for him but it's also been a huge turn off because this is ON MY LIST . I think to myself about how the person might behave in crisis. Ugh. :(

It's not just him but I know there is some crazy behavior going on. I am so curious if any of you have nutty stories.

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 09:16 PM
Me too but I walk about 3 miles a day with dog ! There is not much else to do right now to get out and keep a routine.
I've been eating a lot more.

carmen_b
03-23-2020, 09:18 PM
Omg you guys. I feel like it's been a month already . I think my state has been shut down 9 days or something like that.

What dish will you guys have for your first restaurant meal out ( I'm not talking take out ..... like tell me what you will sit down with + wine pairing if applicable ) !

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2020, 09:17 AM
Probably something at Ruth Chris cause sugar daddy’s gone be ready

carmen_b
03-24-2020, 10:58 AM
^ Oh yyyyeeessssssss. My SD in Hawaii took me there a month ago ........... so so so good. Omg !!

Getting take out isn't the same to me . I like the ambiance of a restaurant meal as much as the food . I can't wait to go eat again.

carmen_b
03-24-2020, 11:01 AM
I know this is very scary time. The numbers will climb a lot in the next two weeks but hopefully with all the isolating we have all been doing will see an edge in bringing the damn numbers down ! Hang in there everyone with great self care and caring for those you love.

Elektra Luxx
03-24-2020, 11:09 AM
I'm going crazy!!! The walls are collapsing on me!! I gotta get outta here!! It's madness, I tell you, MADNESS!!!

Just kidding.

I'm getting a little bit of cabin fever. I'd really like to go to a nice sitdown restaurant, maybe where you have dress up a bit.

I don't like food delivery. I'm sure most are nice people, but I don't like the idea of a stranger knowing where I live. Oh well, at least the drive thru's are open.

AChildOfBoredom
03-24-2020, 11:24 AM
I feel bad for the people I know who are out of a job right now.

carmen_b
03-24-2020, 11:35 AM
Some businesses are really being proactive on this. My brothers job for example is calculating what needs to be done and trying to give everyone a 25-32 hour week instead of 40 so that each person can have at least *some* income. I have to say I'm very impressed by this.

whirlerz
03-24-2020, 11:39 AM
Is anyone seeing the dark sides of people that you just didn't expect ? I know I keep going back to it but one of the people I was seeing just isn't holding it together. I feel for him but it's also been a huge turn off because this is ON MY LIST . I think to myself about how the person might behave in crisis. Ugh. :(

It's not just him but I know there is some crazy behavior going on. I am so curious if any of you have nutty stories.

^^^!

Yesss. Yesterday, driving to one of my storages, thisasshole guy in a p/u truck first tailgated me, then flashed his brights, & um, we we coming up to a red stoplight?

Staying away from roomie too, sorry he's gdonoin thru shit but don't take it out on me?
Especially, I been helping or try to.

I have a (healing well) coldsore, + my temp crown fell out, tried last night to fix it w/a shitty at home kit. So I'm in today, probably go out tomorrow

carmen_b
03-24-2020, 11:42 AM
^ That hot roomie is being weird ? Aw. :(

whirlerz
03-24-2020, 12:06 PM
^ That hot roomie is being weird ? Aw. :(


Oh no hes totally cool!
I still fix him sandwiches, & stuff..

This other guy's being a nightmare, he made a point last night of telling me he hates organic stuff ::)( which I buy) he said wanted real creamer, (we were out)
Helped me try to glue in my tooth last night lol.

I offered those little sealed minis they give in restaurants but he said no, so ok fine pal.

miss.a.p1600
03-24-2020, 05:54 PM
^ Oh yyyyeeessssssss. My SD in Hawaii took me there a month ago ........... so so so good. Omg !!

Getting take out isn't the same to me . I like the ambiance of a restaurant meal as much as the food . I can't wait to go eat again.

escpecially the upscale places where the vibe is super sexy (dim lighting, candles, mouth watering food, staff taking care of your every need, etc)

lynn2009
03-24-2020, 06:36 PM
I am feeling really good. I finally came up with a set-up to minimize how much my little nightmare child barks during the day and it made a huge difference. When I can actually focus in more than 30 minute increments, working from home is lovely and so productive. It's so nice to be able to walk him midday when it's bright out and we run into so many fewer people and other dogs for him to be reactive to. I've been able to focus more on his training and I think it is helping. I can get a decent parking spot instead of having to haul ass another 10-15 minutes to and from the car. I know I'm really lucky in being able to work from home.