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Raziel
11-23-2020, 07:09 PM
I’m sure there are wives out there that don’t want to fuck their husbands but do it so they don’t lose their status quo.

Wives aren’t busting it open after a grueling 9-5 or laboring housework cause they’re just hot n ready. They’re getting something out of the deal as well. Nice home in the cul de sac, private tuition for the kids, the married image to erase the hoeness, protection, and much more.

Some marriages aren’t “real” but moreso business/joining of wealth like in the olden days

IMO ...... ALL relationships are transactional .... some are more blatant while other are more indirect

Chéri, again, maybe I'm just an Idealist, but I don't think anyone should settle for that. You should marry for Love. It's better.

BambiCutie
11-23-2020, 08:41 PM
Hell to the fucking no this has never happened and never will. It is a game of cat and mouse nothing more.
When in the club I am there to strictly work, not get off to giving random strangers lap dances.
Makes no sense unless you are a desperate, cum thirsty, loose ass hoe who breaks all the house rules.

miss.a.p1600
11-23-2020, 08:43 PM
Yeah you’re right about not settling.

However I’d rather take the lifestyle first then grow to love

I’m actually on the verge of trying to end it with a decent guy who loves me but that’s pretty much all he can offer. It’s not enough in a capitalist society and if I’m going to be obligated to do “wifely duties” ima need more than love out of the deal. Ijs

Raziel
11-23-2020, 09:56 PM
Yeah you’re right about not settling.

However I’d rather take the lifestyle first then grow to love

I’m actually on the verge of trying to end it with a decent guy who loves me but that’s pretty much all he can offer. It’s not enough in a capitalist society and if I’m going to be obligated to do “wifely duties” ima need more than love out of the deal. Ijs


Fair enough, MissP. I guess I'm just a romantic.

jack0177057
11-25-2020, 11:16 AM
Yeah you’re right about not settling.

However I’d rather take the lifestyle first then grow to love

I’m actually on the verge of trying to end it with a decent guy who loves me but that’s pretty much all he can offer. It’s not enough in a capitalist society and if I’m going to be obligated to do “wifely duties” ima need more than love out of the deal. Ijs

I hear you. Love is a bit overrated, anyway. The greatest love is learning to love yourself. (Music plays in the background.)

I've been married for two and a half decades, and, although I love my wife and I have no regrets, love requires a tremendous amount of investment, work and sacrifice. If I had to start all over, I would look for "love" again. It is too much damn work and too much damn drama. Relationships should be less based on the love/fantasy myth and more about a practical partnership.

I have come to realize that I don't need someone else to love me. I have found my inner love and strength - this is key. The only thing I truly need from a lady is for her (or them) to rock my world in the bedroom (and kitchen, and living room, and 'dungeon/playroom', etc.)

If I had to start a new relationship today, I would be happy to settle into a SD or pay-for-play lifestyle. I see no shame in it. I make plenty of money and this option would give me plenty of options with stunning ladies in the U.S. and abroad (sex tours all over the world). A simple drama-free hedonistic short-term pay-to-play relationship with a beauty princess is better than "love". I deserve it, and any lady that make my fantasies come true, deserves some of my gold.

But, people will get into miserable and complicated relationships, just because they think they NEED "love". They desperate seek validation. Love is a trap for the emotionally weak that is based on fiction and myth. The only true unconditional love comes from your momma and pops.

Raziel
12-06-2020, 01:46 PM
Lets get something other than that gobbledygook on top. Mods BAN THAT DUDE.

AChildOfBoredom
12-08-2020, 01:54 AM
Chéri, again, maybe I'm just an Idealist, but I don't think anyone should settle for that. You should marry for Love. It's better.

Love is good, but yes, that’s a bit idealistic. Love doesn’t pay the bills. Even if two people do sincerely love each other, the relationship is still going to be transactional. Even relationships of a non romantic nature are going to have transactional qualities about them, even if that isn’t the driving force behind their origins. With friends, you still have expectations. Even taking S into my home, there was really no reason I did it other than I felt that it was the right thing to do, but I also expect her and all others in this house to shoulder their share of the workload.

It doesn’t mean that the “right” reasons aren’t in place, just that they’re not exclusive. In Hollywood, love might be enough to get somebody to be willing to live less comfortably, but even shitty rom com films don’t try to make that kind of stretch… Kingdom of Heaven is the movie I’m thinking of where this happens.

Relationships kinda have to be transactional in order to survive. To that end, I really don’t see how anyone could fall in love without that dynamic having been established. Well, 18 year old Privates in the Army who still do most of their thinking with their privates and think they’re in love when they get their first lay may give in to what their (probably distorted) perception of what love is, but that’s a whole separate discussion.

mellowmutt
12-08-2020, 11:45 PM
Lets get something other than that gobbledygook on top. Mods BAN THAT DUDE.

...why isn't this post deleted, mods?...

edited... edited... edited... edited... but srsly wtf

mellowmutt
12-08-2020, 11:53 PM
Relationships kinda have to be transactional in order to survive.

Thank you. Exactly.

whirlerz
12-10-2020, 11:53 AM
Skimmed this, my eyes rolled back in my head, not in a good way.

indiegirl
12-10-2020, 02:15 PM
Skimmed this, my eyes rolled back in my head, not in a good way.

I clicked and scrolled through the last page of raziel's commentary and meant to laugh but did an out loud cackle. LOLLLLL

Raziel
12-14-2020, 12:08 PM
Love is good, but yes, that’s a bit idealistic. Love doesn’t pay the bills. Even if two people do sincerely love each other, the relationship is still going to be transactional. Even relationships of a non romantic nature are going to have transactional qualities about them, even if that isn’t the driving force behind their origins. With friends, you still have expectations. Even taking S into my home, there was really no reason I did it other than I felt that it was the right thing to do, but I also expect her and all others in this house to shoulder their share of the workload.

It doesn’t mean that the “right” reasons aren’t in place, just that they’re not exclusive. In Hollywood, love might be enough to get somebody to be willing to live less comfortably, but even shitty rom com films don’t try to make that kind of stretch… Kingdom of Heaven is the movie I’m thinking of where this happens.

Relationships kinda have to be transactional in order to survive. To that end, I really don’t see how anyone could fall in love without that dynamic having been established. Well, 18 year old Privates in the Army who still do most of their thinking with their privates and think they’re in love when they get their first lay may give in to what their (probably distorted) perception of what love is, but that’s a whole separate discussion.

I agree with you partially. But I still believe in Love. I've felt it. It's like nothing else. It makes you better. Yeah, sure, you're a Guy you gotta take care of your Girl. But I didn't consider that a transaction, I considered it just what I was supposed to do. Take care of my Girl, make sure she wanted for nothing. And she took care of me.

She died of Ovarian Cancer and I was crushed. I don't even remember the last time I cried but for that. I remember weeping for her.

Raziel
12-14-2020, 12:21 PM
I clicked and scrolled through the last page of raziel's commentary and meant to laugh but did an out loud cackle. LOLLLLL

?????

You still mad at me? I didn't do anything in this thread. I'm arguing for love, that's it.

FrankieSkyPrivate
03-07-2022, 04:51 AM
:rotfl:

That literally never happens. We don't get "excited" or "wet." If we are "happy," we're happy because we are making money.

hahaha that's exactly what I thought XD... clear and straight to the point answer

thegentlemen
08-27-2022, 09:59 AM
I suppose some women might prefer the arm of a couch, and I'm sure Vin Diesel is part of their fantasy. I agree its extremely rare.

cammyfromtheblock
10-18-2022, 03:27 AM
rarely if ever do i get off on giving someone a lapdance.