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Marina Starr
07-07-2021, 11:39 AM
No regrets! Do it much, do it often, do it all the time! They have no idea who and what they're dealing with.

Hoes vs fuckboys. Hoes win everytime!


OMG, same! Feels good to turn the tables on these motherfuckers.....

LoveyD
07-07-2021, 12:25 PM
^^ Those are all red flags! "Sensitive" is the word they use to make you feel like you're in the wrong when you're not. Glad you got away!

My now ex guy usually does apologize, but this time he didn't. . He was just pissed with himself that he couldn't take care of me right. Then they turn it around on you. Um, no.

Glad you rebelled and had fun!

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2021, 01:58 PM
Anytime the fragile male ego is rattled. They can’t help themselves and must turn it back around on you so they feel better about themselves.

Marina Starr
07-07-2021, 02:04 PM
I absolutely hate when hot men shaved. I love hairy men. #fullbush and all.

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2021, 02:46 PM
Anyone else feel like Superwoman in that you wear a ton of hats?

Mommy/maid/wife/secretary/dogwalker/vet tech/ purchasing dept./accountant/financial planner/business planner/mail person/butler/nurse? I guess I can't say cook cause my cooking is not "enough" for hubby (his Grandma played with spices all day long, whereas I use some spices, but not in the crazy, cooking show way-I don't have time to watch and follow cooking shows).

Not bitching about my man specifically per se, but I feel like I run my ass off doing a ton from the moment I get up until I crash and I know I'm not the only one.

LOL @ Mommy as #1 on the list of men’s expectations

i need a shirt that says “Dude…..I am NOT your mom!”

JenniferNorth
07-07-2021, 02:54 PM
Girl, that was my ex. Complained one time about how I didn't keep snacks in my purse, and what kind of inconsiderate bitch I was, because what was he supposed to do when his blood sugar ran low?

#boybye

AChildOfBoredom
07-07-2021, 04:05 PM
It really baffles me, the amount of shit friends and acquaintances tolerate from their boyfriends/husbands. Even my friend from the community admitted to me that her late husband sometimes would get forceful when he was in the mood for sex and she wasn’t.

This makes me think back to when I decided I was going to leave the Mennonite community and not join the church. An English classmate of mine started groping me. In the Anabaptist faiths, they preach nonresistance. And the English kids new this. So of course I don’t want to be in that situation, but my whole life had been filled with this ideology. But when he pulled out his dick, told me to put my mouth on it, and tried pushing my head down, something just snapped. I happened to grab a pencil, and I stabbed him in his dick. What a scene that was. I was taken to the police station, interviewed… and even the men who were sympathetic were still like, “Did you have to stab him in his DICK?”.

You’d think the community would stand behind me, but fuck no. The English kids and parents - even that guy’s parents - were much more supportive of me than “my own people” were. Men from the community admonished me, but what was even worse was that so did the women. I had to stand in front of the community elders (all men, of course) and be dressed down by them for over an hour as they reiterated that I should’ve just not resisted (and let myself be violated), Jesus would’ve turned the other cheek, etc., so I sassed them and said he didn’t with the merchants at the temple, and then they threatened my father with shunning because he didn’t admonish me for talking back to them (I was never baptized in, so they couldn’t shun me).

And that’s why I probably come across as a bit protective of the Amish girl, because I know she’s especially vulnerable.

Marina Starr
07-07-2021, 04:23 PM
I'm sorry that happened to you but I'm glad you stood up for yourself. I would have fucking snapped too.

The part where the women admonished you didn't surprise me at all. Women who internalized misogyny are worse than men.


It really baffles me, the amount of shit friends and acquaintances tolerate from their boyfriends/husbands. Even my friend from the community admitted to me that her late husband sometimes would get forceful when he was in the mood for sex and she wasn’t.

This makes me think back to when I decided I was going to leave the Mennonite community and not join the church. An English classmate of mine started groping me. In the Anabaptist faiths, they preach nonresistance. And the English kids new this. So of course I don’t want to be in that situation, but my whole life had been filled with this ideology. But when he pulled out his dick, told me to put my mouth on it, and tried pushing my head down, something just snapped. I happened to grab a pencil, and I stabbed him in his dick. What a scene that was. I was taken to the police station, interviewed… and even the men who were sympathetic were still like, “Did you have to stab him in his DICK?”.

You’d think the community would stand behind me, but fuck no. The English kids and parents - even that guy’s parents - were much more supportive of me than “my own people” were. Men from the community admonished me, but what was even worse was that so did the women. I had to stand in front of the community elders (all men, of course) and be dressed down by them for over an hour as they reiterated that I should’ve just not resisted (and let myself be violated), Jesus would’ve turned the other cheek, etc., so I sassed them and said he didn’t with the merchants at the temple, and then they threatened my father with shunning because he didn’t admonish me for talking back to them (I was never baptized in, so they couldn’t shun me).

And that’s why I probably come across as a bit protective of the Amish girl, because I know she’s especially vulnerable.

AChildOfBoredom
07-07-2021, 04:42 PM
Fortunately for me/unfortunately for him. I think I was born to be violent.

Marina Starr
07-07-2021, 05:06 PM
Violence can help us survive and sometimes we have to unleash it when the situation is called for. When you're violated is not the time nor place to be nice and polite.


Fortunately for me/unfortunately for him. I think I was born to be violent.

miss.a.p1600
07-07-2021, 06:14 PM
Violence can help us survive and sometimes we have to unleash it when the situation is called for. When you're violated is not the time nor place to be nice and polite.

i concur!

TheBrownFox
07-07-2021, 06:36 PM
I wanna make some video clips (For the clip sites) where I get to take out my frustration on men, or just talk shit about how they AIN'T shit. Lmao. Just go the fuck off without scaring any neighbors enough to wanna call the cops on me. Lol. Let me find the Kelis song where she's like "I hate...you so much right now!"

JenniferNorth
07-07-2021, 06:42 PM
^ OMG YES! Do swd humiliation or something like that, or cuk stuff! Tell them they aren't even good enough to be the cleanup boy, that's how shitty they are!

carmen_b
07-07-2021, 07:46 PM
Child : I have to say I am just LOVING that story ! Like ...... obviously the dick deserved to be stabbed .... it was OUT non-consensually .
IF it had pants over it ... well ... no stab haha.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 04:39 AM
Some of the good things about men is they teach me how to gaslight, manipulate and blame! #messyhoe

55477

i noticed this about my dude n ima call his ass out if I notice it again.

we are still working on sexual compatibility. It’s getting a little bit better but it was wack in the very beginning.

i tried to tell him what I needed n liked but he would not get a clue, said his ego was bruised because he couldn’t please me sexually, then had the audacity to turn it around on me.

Um no sir!!!

using the typical entitled male shenanigans is what WILL get you cheated on!

Mf better come correct or else……..

He changing his tune to avoid the consequences

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 05:12 AM
My husband says I am mean to him when he is sick? WTF? Says I never let him have a sick day? I let him sleep until noon, only woke him at his request. I sure as shit don't get sick days. I gotta get up and get the dogs out and the kids up, even if I am dying.

lurkingtitties
07-08-2021, 06:18 AM
^^Thats incredibly annoying.

At one of the nursing homes I worked at earlier this year, the rehab department was all women, and most were a very specific type of woman…the burnt out overworked mom. They would come into work and complain constantly about how burnt out they were doing all the parenting and housework while their husbands didn’t contribute at all. To me I don’t even understand why you would stay married at that point, you’ll have less of a mental load and less resentment raising the kids alone without a man who is basically an extra child. Social conditioning I guess?

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 07:29 AM
^ I'm sure. I remember living in my old conservative town facing stigma after I got divorced.

How old were these women? like typical mom age aka 20s/30s/40s? Sorry, I hear nursing homes, and think very old people (unless it's assisted living, then I generally assume a little younger).

indiegirl
07-08-2021, 08:11 AM
You could have a fibroid the size of a grapefruit and a subsequent super heavy period and they still want sex.

It's always the slow leg rub and then they move their hand to the inner thigh for me. Especially annoying if I'm talking at the time so it feels like a "shut the hell up and give me sex" vibe.

I had a guy tell me over the phone (not a customer) that I know nothing recently and I wasn't smart. I don't understand how someone has the audacity to say that to another person. It's like hunny, just because I find your side interests utterly boring doesn't mean I am going to plop open a book at the library and study it too. I called him fat in return and felt so much better LOL. I hit him right back with his main insecurity (he's not the healthiest person to be around).

lurkingtitties
07-08-2021, 08:39 AM
^ I'm sure. I remember living in my old conservative town facing stigma after I got divorced.

How old were these women? like typical mom age aka 20s/30s/40s? Sorry, I hear nursing homes, and think very old people (unless it's assisted living, then I generally assume a little younger).

Probably wasn’t clear enough in my previous post-these were my coworkers and everyone I’m describing was late 30s-late 40s.

Don’t even get me started on the residents-soooo many old men talking about how their 20 years younger wife will take care of them once they go home, or with a history of cheating on their wives, etc etc…there was one patient in particular who bothered the shit out of me, rich ceo type who was always talking about how his wife was “5’7” and 110 pounds”. The way he would say it, like that was the #1 thing that he loved about her…ugh!!! I’m 5’7” and weigh between 158-165, I have muscles I worked hard for so I can get these old folks out of bed and also defend myself physically if needed. All this rich man wanted was a trophy who doesn’t take up space…I have a history of eating disorders and it bothered me so much!!!

There was one decent male patient who sticks in my memory…he’d been in the hospital for a month before being admitted to a nursing home, and when I met him he told me that he was anxious to get discharged home because his wife had MS and he was her primary caregiver. In fact when I went in his room to eval him he was on the phone with her trying to calm her down and told me how much he missed her. Poor dude got sent back to the hospital after a few days and word was that he wasn’t going to make it. I thought it was so unfair that one of the rare good men had to die while all these leeches cling on for too long!

carmen_b
07-08-2021, 09:03 AM
Omg what a creep ! ^

Damn I should stay out of this thread.

Or just pop in before the club only . :/

That bothers me so much because healthy ( real ) weight is 140-160 for that height.
Disgusting.

BambiCutie
07-08-2021, 10:53 AM
Okay I need to get something off my chest here. What makes some guys think it is attractive to be a cheap ass?

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 11:02 AM
You know, there are men that will fuck you but quick to toss you aside if their friends and family found out you do sex work because that will reflect badly on them. They'll slut shame and call you all kinds of names and talk trash about you with their friends and family. Any bitch that would fuck with bastards like that is beyond me. Her self esteem is so twisted, she doesn't know an enemy when she sees one.

You gotta let motherfuckers know that if you're ashamed to be with me then best believe I'm more ashamed to be with you.

55485

BambiCutie
07-08-2021, 11:09 AM
You know, there are men that will fuck you but quick to toss you aside if their friends and family found out you do sex work because that will reflect badly on them. They'll slut shame and call you all kinds of names and talk trash about you with their friends and family. Any bitch that would fuck with bastards like that is beyond me. Her self esteem is so twisted, she doesn't know an enemy when she sees one.

You gotta let motherfuckers know that if you're ashamed to be with me then best believe I'm more ashamed to be with you.

Guess I'm looking for distractions while going through the transition to divorce, plus not having sex in years sucks.

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 11:12 AM
That's awesome that you got rid of what didn't serve you! BRAVO!


Yeah we have been friends for 3 years going on 4, no shame in my work and he doesn't have much Family left.
Was hoping for a quick fix but that turned into some bullshit, ghosted his ass yesterday and today told him it isn't worth it.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 12:50 PM
Okay I need to get something off my chest here. What makes some guys think it is attractive to be a cheap ass?

they think you’ll be impressed by their “money saving” tactics but don’t realize they’re really just cheap or they don’t give a damn what you think they’re getting you used to accepting their cheap behavior

Marina Starr
07-08-2021, 01:18 PM
That's very telling. If a man is cheap and stingy with his money when it comes to making you happy, he'll be cheap with his love and affection for you as well.

So take notes right from the beginning because shit will only get worse.


they think you’ll be impressed by their “money saving” tactics but don’t realize they’re really just cheap or they don’t give a damn what you think they’re getting you used to accepting their cheap behavior

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 03:52 PM
Megacunt make trolls argue with women online like straight up insecure bitches

It’s a good idea he got the thread locked so now he is denied the free orgasms he craves

TheBrownFox
07-08-2021, 04:58 PM
Megacunt make trolls argue with women online like straight up insecure bitches

It’s a good idea he got the thread locked so now he is denied the free orgasms he craves


I was one of the people who reported one of Eric Stoner's posts, and complained about him and his little butt buddy rickdugan. That thread could've gotten back on track if those two were taken out of the equation, but I see those two are gonna be allowed to continue trolling this forum, huh? I know DJoser thought locking the thread was the best solution (I'm kinda disappointed...that was the ONE thread of Raziel's that I liked...LOL!), but we know it's only a matter of time before "Stoner Boner" just makes another troll thread using language like "triggered" and/or "snowflakes." *Yawn*

Oh, okay. I see that DJoser did start a NEW Covid thread. Hopefully that one won't get derailed by the usual suspects.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 05:07 PM
^Eric is basically Rick Dugan Jr.

Yeah I think the moderators try to be fair. So they lock the thread instead of banning people. Prob why they hate political threads

TheBrownFox
07-08-2021, 05:30 PM
Have any of you ever written a letter to a guy (Or compose a long text using the "Notes" app on your iPhone)? Not necessarily to GIVE IT to him, but to just write out everything you're thinking, and then either keep it or throw it away?

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 05:31 PM
So I tried something....husband is still sick and home from work but talking about how he wants sex.

Soooo...I use Miss P's line "they would want sex if you just got out of the hospital with COVID" and ask him if he would be trying to get some if I got discharged after dealing with Covid. He said... "I'd still be wanting to do with you while you are IN the hospital!"

Excuse me, sir???!!!!

I'm not gonna ask again....

LoveyD
07-08-2021, 05:49 PM
Okay I need to get something off my chest here. What makes some guys think it is attractive to be a cheap ass?

Another reason why I dumped my guy. It started off okay...he took me out to dinner, paid me compliments. Now he doesn't do either. Was only seeing the guy for 2 years. I know he is having money troubles, but it costs nothing to tell your woman she is beautiful. It made me check out.

indiegirl
07-08-2021, 06:06 PM
I was one of the people who reported one of Eric Stoner's posts, and complained about him and his little butt buddy rickdugan. That thread could've gotten back on track if those two were taken out of the equation, but I see those two are gonna be allowed to continue trolling this forum, huh? I know DJoser thought locking the thread was the best solution (I'm kinda disappointed...that was the ONE thread of Raziel's that I liked...LOL!), but we know it's only a matter of time before "Stoner Boner" just makes another troll thread using language like "triggered" and/or "snowflakes." *Yawn*

Oh, okay. I see that DJoser did start a NEW Covid thread. Hopefully that one won't get derailed by the usual suspects.

Have you noticed how only 1 guy has posted in the poop thread twice? HAHAHAHA I love it!!! Finally, a thread they won't be posting in.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 06:26 PM
Have any of you ever written a letter to a guy (Or compose a long text using the "Notes" app on your iPhone)? Not necessarily to GIVE IT to him, but to just write out everything you're thinking, and then either keep it or throw it away?

yes.

i started a rant about your ex thread specifically for that reason where a lady could type a post (like a letter) and say what you want to say as if you are writing it/saying it to him (or her)

LoveyD
07-08-2021, 06:29 PM
I noticed gas issues got moved to BB.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 06:37 PM
Another reason why I dumped my guy. It started off okay...he took me out to dinner, paid me compliments. Now he doesn't do either. Was only seeing the guy for 2 years. I know he is having money troubles, but it costs nothing to tell your woman she is beautiful. It made me check out.

Awww. That’s true guys may need reminding that it’s not just dating to get the lady but dating to keep the lady. Gotta keep those dates,’compliments, n nice gestures coming. Sometimes money can make people feel insecure n not their best selves.

miss.a.p1600
07-08-2021, 06:38 PM
I noticed gas issues got moved to BB.

He probably read this thread Lol!

BambiCutie
07-08-2021, 07:17 PM
Ugh I finally did it, put my foot down for the last time! Told the asshole no way in hell is that going to happen when bringing it up again, put him in his place and decided to show him my bitchy side.
If it brings me no benefit, does nothing for me and is obviously him being a manipulative asshole then fuck that noise! The feeling was so incredibly powerful, I love it!!
Thank you so much Marina for all your wisdom and strength on this forum! :heartbeat

LoveyD
07-08-2021, 08:23 PM
Awww. That’s true guys may need reminding that it’s not just dating to get the lady but dating to keep the lady. Gotta keep those dates,’compliments, n nice gestures coming. Sometimes money can make people feel insecure n not their best selves.

Yes, I think he feels very insecure. I told him I care about him but I couldn't handle his hot/cold behavior anymore.

JenniferNorth
07-08-2021, 08:34 PM
I noticed gas issues got moved to BB.

Shouldn't ALL the body issues stay together in the lounge? Men come to BB too, so I guess we can still keep the party going.

kamiliam
07-08-2021, 10:17 PM
I was one of the people who reported one of Eric Stoner's posts, and complained about him and his little butt buddy rickdugan. That thread could've gotten back on track if those two were taken out of the equation, but I see those two are gonna be allowed to continue trolling this forum, huh? I know DJoser thought locking the thread was the best solution (I'm kinda disappointed...that was the ONE thread of Raziel's that I liked...LOL!), but we know it's only a matter of time before "Stoner Boner" just makes another troll thread using language like "triggered" and/or "snowflakes." *Yawn*

Oh, okay. I see that DJoser did start a NEW Covid thread. Hopefully that one won't get derailed by the usual suspects.


his last reply on that thread was one of the most pathetic attempts at logic I have ever seen. I hate that men get to pretend they are the logical ones.

LoveyD
07-08-2021, 10:19 PM
Shouldn't ALL the body issues stay together in the lounge? Men come to BB too, so I guess we can still keep the party going.

This is true.

miss.a.p1600
07-09-2021, 06:01 AM
When men ask you about the side effects you had from the vaccine

Then proceed to tell you “well *I* didn’t have those side effects just a sore arm….” As fi they’re trying to assume you’re making up your symptoms simply because they didn’t have those symptoms

Bitch! No one asked for your gaslighting opinion

miss.a.p1600
07-09-2021, 06:43 AM
I seriously hate men rn

Their reliance on/desperation for sex makes them override logic 95% of the time.

JenniferNorth
07-09-2021, 07:05 AM
I seriously hate men rn

Their reliance on/desperation for sex makes them override logic 95% of the time.

So true. I too, can have awesome orgasms thanks to toys/porn. It's ridic how hung up on sex they are.

Edit: Is it weird when it comes to porn, I think solo female or two women together is more sexy than "traditional" porn?

miss.a.p1600
07-09-2021, 07:09 AM
^And then they get pissy when they don’t have sex at their desired intervals. Like bruh! How about I throw tantrums when you’re not paying all the bills I want you to pay.

JenniferNorth
07-09-2021, 07:14 AM
^And then they get pissy when they don’t have sex at their desired intervals. Like bruh! How about I throw tantrums when you’re not paying all the bills I want you to pay.

Hear ya on that. Or just having the drive to improve in life. I feel like we have this desire to try and attain the best life possible (hefty savings, working toward professional/personal goals, trying to take the best possible care of future or current children) and sometimes I feel like a lot of the hustling/research falls on me. Not that he is no help whatsoever, but it's like I'm trying to improve-but it's for the betterment of our family, so, not really selfish.

I get disappointed when they aren't a little more take charge.

indiegirl
07-09-2021, 08:39 AM
Men who are delusional AF. Forgot who showed the video below on this site but I have played this whenever men piss me off in the industry just to make me laugh and I greatly appreciate it lol!! I showed this to a former customer and he was so defensive towards the guy hahaha.

Someone threatened to draw away from seeing me again over his own petty BS requirements once again and I flashed back to this video in my head and said "OK." He's now blocked. lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGde5zToFoE

carmen_b
07-09-2021, 10:00 AM
My guy acted so bizarre on his 4-5 day weed break I regretted staying in town.
He wasn’t *that* bad but a little negative.

He apologized but what a “ meh “ week.

I’m SURE he will make it up over weekend which is why I’m not overly worried.
Just notes for future travel planning. :)