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Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 10:38 AM
That's very sweet of you. I feel we all have a lot to teach and we all also have a lot to learn.
Welcome to the 'Don't Be Scared To Be A Bitch' club! This not only work with men but with people as well. We teach people how to treat us. When we raise the bar for the behaviors we're willing to accept, people treat us better. You can be sweet as a Georgia peach with a strong pit.
Ugh I finally did it, put my foot down for the last time! Told the asshole no way in hell is that going to happen when bringing it up again, put him in his place and decided to show him my bitchy side.
If it brings me no benefit, does nothing for me and is obviously him being a manipulative asshole then fuck that noise! The feeling was so incredibly powerful, I love it!!
Thank you so much Marina for all your wisdom and strength on this forum! :heartbeat
Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 10:45 AM
It cost nothing to make a woman FEEL loved!
Another reason why I dumped my guy. It started off okay...he took me out to dinner, paid me compliments. Now he doesn't do either. Was only seeing the guy for 2 years. I know he is having money troubles, but it costs nothing to tell your woman she is beautiful. It made me check out.
miss.a.p1600
07-09-2021, 11:54 AM
Carmen - When I go on weed breaks I get a little more frazzled over small stuff, worry a bit more about things, and I get distracted easily.
Not sure if that’s how he is but yeah
carmen_b
07-09-2021, 12:11 PM
^ He has some legitimate stress factors .
I'm letting it slide especially factoring the apology factor and I know he will make the weekend awesome.
I carry trauma from men whining / nit picking and he wasn't *quite* into the high level of it that my ex was in Spring / Summer 2018 but I have such a low tolerance for it that I have to either step away OR get a fix going pretty quickly for that type of stuff.
WendiStarr
07-09-2021, 01:05 PM
BD sabotaged our lawn care service before the guy even showed up so I had to cut the lawn myself, as usual. It's such a pain in the ass and I hate doing it. BD also got on a "lets rearrange the furniture" kick and of course, he can't lift anything because of his heart condition. My arms, neck, and upper back are killing me. I need a massage asap and a nap. I think I need to start telling him that he needs to pay for me to get a professional massage each time that I have to do this man work bullshit.
Marina Starr
07-09-2021, 04:07 PM
Some dude's dog just passed away. I'm afraid to say I'm sorry for you loss or send my condolences for the fear of him thinking I want to suck his dick. It's best to be quiet because any attention can be interpreted as 'she wants the dick' when men want to fuck you.
That would be a nightmare cause I'm celibate.
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miss.a.p1600
07-09-2021, 04:56 PM
When men ask you about the side effects you had from the vaccine
Then proceed to tell you “well *I* didn’t have those side effects just a sore arm….” As fi they’re trying to assume you’re making up your symptoms simply because they didn’t have those symptoms
Bitch! No one asked for your gaslighting opinion
Ok I knew it!
L had the audacity to say “oh you have a low threshold for pain”
This is coming from a dude who wanted to take prescription pain killers for a simple headache.
Called out his hypocrisy and male privilege. Boy if you “expecting” sex you better learn how to stfu!
BambiCutie
07-09-2021, 05:32 PM
I need to rant.. I really am unsure about men and I want you ladies to know I appreciate this forum, it is like Family to me.
I received a disgusting message and I stop to think, why do this? I get everything Marina said but, I am fucking human man. (Rant over)
I don't want to hear any fucking man question why I am a bitch, because if you do? You are a fucking prick.. It is right in front of you.
LoveyD
07-09-2021, 09:14 PM
Homeboy is calling me. I ate a big dinner and I am still too full 4 hours later and I don't have the energy to talk with him rn. I don't know what kind of mood he is in. The last thing I want to do is pick up and hear him yelling at me.
It's all so simple. Just don't be a dick to me after you had a bad day!
He just texted me. He is calling me back because I accidentally called him earlier and hung up (butt dial). I don't want to talk with him. I feel like he's just going to be a Dick and it's going to be another fight that I just don't have the energy for.
Not talking to him unless he apologizes first. I don't want to talk with him. Have a feeling he is just going to continue being a jerk and again, I don't need that.
Marina Starr
07-10-2021, 08:05 AM
Good morning!
Just want to say a married man is a married man by choice. And a CLIENT is a married or taken man. #hushmoney
chanzep
07-10-2021, 08:13 PM
Ok I knew it!
L had the audacity to say “oh you have a low threshold for pain”
This is coming from a dude who wanted to take prescription pain killers for a simple headache.
Called out his hypocrisy and male privilege. Boy if you “expecting” sex you better learn how to stfu!
He should not be acting like that . He should be making sure your as comfortable as can be not gaslighting. He should be worried. Men are ridiculous.
chanzep
07-10-2021, 08:18 PM
So random annoying man was my grocery shopper today. He kept saying the store didn't have the most basic things and didn't offer replacement. He said there was no honey in the whole store I said there must be !. He told me had left the store already smh. I was fuming. I called Customer service and complained. They can see the text and agreed he was bizare. They cancelled and got someone else a woman to do order. She found everything at same store no problem. Smh I think the dude was rushing.
miss.a.p1600
07-10-2021, 08:26 PM
I hate relationship obligations that men try to impose on you.
Ridiculous shit like cuddling every night, consulting each other before breathing, looking like a model 24/7, telling them your GPS coordinates, going to sleep at the same time, fucking compromising or whatever……..and sex on demand multiple times a week no matter what you are going through.
Ugh!!!!!!
Now I see why women be having headaches, long periods, stomach aches, etc.
What if I’m just meant to be single but here I am forcing myself into this relationship box
I just want to sleep ALONE I’m on day 6 of sleeping alone and I’m not lonely one bit unlike L who claims he doesn’t sleep well if I’m not there.
Hey I can’t help I get better rest when I’m alone n I rarely get lonely
LoveyD
07-10-2021, 08:39 PM
So random annoying man was my grocery shopper today. He kept saying the store didn't have the most basic things and didn't offer replacement. He said there was no honey in the whole store I said there must be !. He told me had left the store already smh. I was fuming. I called Customer service and complained. They can see the text and agreed he was bizare. They cancelled and got someone else a woman to do order. She found everything at same store no problem. Smh I think the dude was rushing.
That totally sounds like he was rushing and giving the "I can't find it" excuse. Plus he is supposed to tell you while he is still there so you can sub. Glad they found someone more competent. Was this instacart? Or Shipt?
miss.a.p1600
07-10-2021, 09:45 PM
L has a kid who performs horribly in school.
His parents do nothing to help him.
I don’t understand how they just let him get away with failing through school. Then L blames his son. I’m like no dude that’s YOUR fault your kid is doing miserably in school.
I’d never let my own kids make bad grades. They’d come out the womb intelligent lol!
I guess I’m bitching about men who act clueless when it comes to helping their kid in school and assuming “that’s a woman’s job”.
LoveyD
07-10-2021, 10:08 PM
^^^ what grade is the kid in? When my son first went to Jr high, he got a few bad grades and all it took was helping him get his folders organized so he wouldn't lose homework assignments. Once he was organized, his grades went up. It's the parent's job to support the kid and help them.
AChildOfBoredom
07-10-2021, 11:04 PM
L has a kid who performs horribly in school.
His parents do nothing to help him.
I don’t understand how they just let him get away with failing through school. Then L blames his son. I’m like no dude that’s YOUR fault your kid is doing miserably in school.
I’d never let my own kids make bad grades. They’d come out the womb intelligent lol!
I guess I’m bitching about men who act clueless when it comes to helping their kid in school and assuming “that’s a woman’s job”.
A friend of mine used to work at a “children’s museum” (really, a play area which had some educational value included), and so I did some volunteer work for them. You could really tell a lot about by the parents by what they did when they were there. From the, “Hey, look at me, I have a kid sorts” who almost certainly had an IG page full of thousands of photos of them posing with their kids, the ones you suspect will be the next Casey Anthony, the ones who just let their kids roam free and sat around on their cell phones, and the ones who actually roamed around with children and were interactive. The age ranges of each group of parents was also very telling.
chanzep
07-11-2021, 09:07 AM
That totally sounds like he was rushing and giving the "I can't find it" excuse. Plus he is supposed to tell you while he is still there so you can sub. Glad they found someone more competent. Was this instacart? Or Shipt?
It was Shipt. I have been using them for a few years they have good customer service. Most of the shoppers are fine but this guy was annoying me.
Marina Starr
07-11-2021, 09:22 AM
I'm glad you did because I would too. We know when people are bullshitting or give us the runaround.
So random annoying man was my grocery shopper today. He kept saying the store didn't have the most basic things and didn't offer replacement. He said there was no honey in the whole store I said there must be !. He told me had left the store already smh. I was fuming. I called Customer service and complained. They can see the text and agreed he was bizare. They cancelled and got someone else a woman to do order. She found everything at same store no problem. Smh I think the dude was rushing.
miss.a.p1600
07-11-2021, 12:49 PM
^^^ what grade is the kid in? When my son first went to Jr high, he got a few bad grades and all it took was helping him get his folders organized so he wouldn't lose homework assignments. Once he was organized, his grades went up. It's the parent's job to support the kid and help them.
That's interesting and glad you guys were able to find a solution that was helpful for him.
I think it children can sense you've given up on them, they sort of check out as well.
LoveyD
07-11-2021, 02:33 PM
It was Shipt. I have been using them for a few years they have good customer service. Most of the shoppers are fine but this guy was annoying me.
Yeah screw that guy.
indiegirl
07-11-2021, 10:08 PM
Talked with a female driver about men and dating and felt like she belonged on this site LOLLLL. Homegirl needs to bitch her frustrations out over men and online dating lol! She sounded fed up with men. Obviously didn't tell her about SW but it was funny lol.
Marina Starr
07-12-2021, 11:08 AM
The only way to win with toxic and manipulative men is to not play their games. No time for toxicity.
AChildOfBoredom
07-12-2021, 03:30 PM
Talked with a female driver about men and dating and felt like she belonged on this site LOLLLL. Homegirl needs to bitch her frustrations out over men and online dating lol! She sounded fed up with men. Obviously didn't tell her about SW but it was funny lol.
The thing which binds women from all walks of life.
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2021, 07:33 AM
Most men do not do well with you being sick, disabled, etc.
If you’re out for more than 1-2 days they will gaslight you/your symptoms and act pissy n petty towards you (most likely because you won’t be in the mood for sex while you’re sick/in pain)
Their desperation for sex is prioritized over your well-being.
chanzep
07-13-2021, 10:40 AM
Wow that is not normal to be gaslighted for being sick. Any gaslighting is not acceptable.
They can please themselves.
trustfundkiller
07-13-2021, 02:14 PM
I'm involved with a married dude. I have no idea why the fuck I'm doing this to myself, but he's like heroin to me. His wife is oblivious and he has no plans to leave her. In April, he pulled the "let's just be friends. I want to save my marriage" shit. As of June we're having sex again. He complains about his wife and says that she's in a deep depression. They're currently in marriage counseling. They went from being sexless to having sex a few times a month which is still not fulfilling him. She has sexual hangups that she's trying to "work through" that only happened after marriage. She won't do doggy, she won't swallow, that type of stuff. How do you "work through" those issues? Idk. His wife sits on Twitter and tweets all damn day so of course I peep her shit and she's so annoying and clueless. He straight up told me the only reason he's with her his because he doesn't want to restart his life at 50.
I don't know why I'm so into this man, when him being married kills me inside. I'm extremely physically attracted to him. I love our conversations and the way he supports me/believes in me/mentors me. He makes an effort to understand me and he actually seems to care about my feelings. Ironic given the circumstances! I know he's not going to leave his wife for me. There are no delusions about that. I don't think his marriage will survive, though. Part of me wants to tell her but of course that would be the end of me and him.
Maybe I want him because he's unattainable? It's the most bizarre shit, but I can't bring myself to end it nor do I want to. Maybe I secretly want to watch their marriage fall apart, even though I know it won't be because of *me*, it will be because they don't belong together and their shit was fucked long before I ever entered the picture. Even if I could have him, I know he's too old for me and that would be a problem.
Anyway, for whatever reason, he makes me happy so I'm keeping him around but I'm not stopping my life for him. I haven't met anyone interesting to date or communicate with since him, but if I did then I'd pursue that.
This is probably one of the weirdest, rantiest things I've ever written on here but I needed to get it off my chest.
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2021, 06:01 PM
Wow that is not normal to be gaslighted for being sick. Any gaslighting is not acceptable.
They can please themselves.
EXACTLY!!!!!
Boy you better get some lotion n a sock!
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2021, 06:03 PM
It’s summer so men are acting thirsty as hell. If they’re not bragging about their wealth they’re somewhere peacocking for attention.
Just peeped an geriatric white dude riding a motorcycle playing “Back that ass up”.
Another male attention whore driving with drop top mustang blaring music loudly as he cruises through grocery store parking lot.
And more….
Okay dude we see you lol!
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2021, 07:38 PM
When dudes have daughters and they be looking like that daria character from the 90s lol!
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WendiStarr
07-14-2021, 07:27 AM
BD today..grr! The baby figured out how to open the bathroom door while I was going potty. She was pretty pleased with herself until she must've realized it stunk in there so she opened the door again. BD walked in the bathroom and asked me what I was doing. Um, pooping obviously, dude! He came in there to pee. Mom has no privacy around here. Next time he poops I'm sending the baby in there
Marina Starr
07-14-2021, 02:00 PM
Creepy and predatory men are the real pandemic. Avoid, avoid, avoid!
miss.a.p1600
07-14-2021, 06:13 PM
I am so glad Uncle Tom - I mean Eric - and his henchman supremacist Dugan are busy in their parent's basement this summer.
The plantation owner probably shipped them off to one of those wilderness camps for cybertrolls.
whirlerz
07-14-2021, 06:36 PM
Lol, thanks for the laugh, Ms P, I need it, you kill me!!
indiegirl
07-14-2021, 06:58 PM
Why can't men be listeners? It's as if they think I asked for their advice when I just wanted to vent over something. Even to be helpful they could say, "What do you think you should do to fix it or would you like some advice from me?" Instead they just know how to piss you off and make you listen to them tell you what to do and it's obviously not a one minute sentence of advice.
I feel like I rant about the same things and they still keep happening even when I bring them up LOL.
AChildOfBoredom
07-14-2021, 07:53 PM
Why can't men be listeners? It's as if they think I asked for their advice when I just wanted to vent over something. Even to be helpful they could say, "What do you think you should do to fix it or would you like some advice from me?" Instead they just know how to piss you off and make you listen to them tell you what to do and it's obviously not a one minute sentence of advice.
I feel like I rant about the same things and they still keep happening even when I bring them up LOL.
I only ever watched a couple episodes, but I remember that if you took away the ability of the walkers to bite and eat people, they lost all desire to. Maybe if they had evolved to have detachable ducks, it would have the same effect when detached. Suddenly, they’d be attentive.
Just like the song.
https://youtu.be/byDiILrNbM4
miss.a.p1600
07-15-2021, 07:21 AM
I am so glad Uncle Tom - I mean Eric - and his henchman supremacist Dugan are busy in their parent's basement this summer.
The plantation owner probably shipped them off to one of those wilderness camps for cybertrolls.
I spoke too soon.
Their real cheap asses are addicted to the free attention they get from strangers on the internet.
Knew he would ping his favorite loser troll friend. N now they’re both baaaaack.
WendiStarr
07-15-2021, 09:35 AM
BD and his inability to parent. He waited out in the truck while I went in to the store to get hand soap, batteries, and diaper rash cream. I came out to the truck to a crying, mad baby. She had thrown my phone out the window. I should've just brought her in with me.
TheBrownFox
07-15-2021, 10:08 AM
I spoke too soon.
Their real cheap asses are addicted to the free attention they get from strangers on the internet.
Knew he would ping his favorite loser troll friend. N now they’re both baaaaack.
I think DJoser finally listened to me, because I see that dumbass new thread Eric started the other day is gone (I already forgot what it was called, but I reported it). Well, it's either gone, or he moved it to another weird-ass section of the forum that makes absolutely no sense for it to be. Lol.
TheBrownFox
07-15-2021, 11:29 AM
https://villainous-beauties.fandom.com/wiki/Dana_Lewis_(Law_%26_Order:_SVU)
Do y'all remember this old episode of Law and Order SVU? This broke my heart because I absolutely loved the character of FBI agent Dana Lewis (played by Marcia Gay Harden). Some man did her dirty, and she snapped (Strangled his new chick to death)...and wound up having to do 25 years. Ugh. She threw her life away over some sorry-ass man.
These men are all about themselves and their sorry-ass dicks, and give zero fucks about the effects their words/actions have on us. They just go right on to the next chick.
AChildOfBoredom
07-15-2021, 05:35 PM
Makes me think of that astronaut I read about some years ago. Got into an affair with another astronaut, tried to kidnap his new girlfriend after he broke it off.
TheBrownFox
07-16-2021, 12:44 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyV-x_UHaJ4
Do y'all remember this video? Aw, man...do I have a cool idea for a clip. Trying to make a profit off of heartbreak.
Marina Starr
07-16-2021, 06:00 AM
These low value men don't get that we won't fuck them because they're assholes. That's counterproductive of what they want but who is gonna tell them?
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2021, 06:27 AM
They think women love assholes n nice guys finish last.
There’s no middle ground for them because they think in extremes.
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2021, 06:33 AM
Sex education n how to please women in an intimate way needs to be mandatory for men.
They can make no less than an A- or they have to keep retaking n paying for the course.
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2021, 07:20 AM
When men be asking dumb ass questions
carmen_b
07-16-2021, 07:32 AM
I was SO drawn to that story too and felt it was evidence of the real brain “ wiring “ attachment chemicals women can feel during sex !
This VERY successful chick did something nutty ?
It makes normal peoples obsessing over this or that lost love not seem so crazy !
Makes me think of that astronaut I read about some years ago. Got into an affair with another astronaut, tried to kidnap his new girlfriend after he broke it off.
WendiStarr
07-16-2021, 10:21 AM
I hate when men try to compare the pain of childbirth with getting kicked in the balls. Although I lack the anatomy to know what being kicked in the balls, I don't see how pushing something the size of a watermelon out a small hole compares.
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2021, 11:41 AM
^Men stay gaslighting women about their pain. N they are the main ones with featherweight pain thresholds. If a lady attracts a man who can empathize with a woman when she’s experiencing pain, she should keep him.
laurielegs
07-16-2021, 01:18 PM
Do y'all remember this video? Aw, man...do I have a cool idea for a clip. Trying to make a profit off of heartbreak.
Yes! Use those feelings to make a profit and dry those tears with dollars!
My last relationship ended over a year ago and now all I feel is disgust and just shake my head at how stupid he was. I was so dedicated to his undeserving ass. He regrets it and keeps trying to get me back which is ridiculous after the way he behaved. No way in hell.
I channeled everything into my domme character on Niteflirt and it ended up being pretty fun in the end, looking back at some of the things I created from it.