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carmen_b
07-20-2021, 04:46 PM
I have no idea how this dude ended up with $100 in your groceries but fuck him .
It makes me so ANGRY about this situation from like 11 years ago lol where I brought TWO bottles of wine to this guys house ( he made a plan to cook as a first date type thing ). I trusted him since we had mutual friends ( or never would have gone over ).
We did cook and it was nice but he was " meh " ( being pushy ). I still regret not pulling that extra wine out of his fridge and taking it lol !
I just get so damn curious ! Like how did you meet him and HOW did this grocery run happen v.s. a normal date ( like he takes you for drinks or even something cheaper like beach / pizza ) ?
It makes me realize my partner is a gentleman ( he was right from the beginning not being an ass and being cheap )
Ugh ! I can just sympathize with your frustration. I felt like I had to weed out a million trolls in 2019 in my attempts to find someone normal. J sometimes ribs me too ( he knows I didn't really date Feb. / March 2020 ) and I have told him openly that I did it on purpose because men were being shitty.
I've decided that I'm not hanging with that loser anymore purely to have someone to do activities with. He is so beyond narcissistic and toxic. I attract too many assholes. I watched this youtube video today and it reminded me exactly of him but it was a video of a narcissistic personality disorder woman and it was so unsettling. I hope he enjoyed grocery shopping for free on my money. And yes I've shopped for his groceries 2 times. Like excuse me, shouldn't you be the one trying to wine and dine me? Fucking cheap loser, who couldn't even pick me up at my house.
I think he's a liar as well. He truly belongs to stay single. The women of this world do not need to get involved with that nasty asshole. Oh and he's allowed to have female friends but I'm the only one he's trying to make a move on? He refused to be friends with me when I asked. Men just want to fuck me it feels like. How come I am not allowed to be in the friend department with men?!? Roar! I'm spending my time off from working without his ass and can hardly wait.
*Drops mic & ends rant* lol!
miss.a.p1600
07-20-2021, 04:51 PM
^reminds me of a time this trick convinced me to take him out on a date.
Well I foolishly agreed cause I liked him. And figured “hey we’re only going to Outback so can’t be that bad right?”
Wrong!
This fool orders the most expensive thing on the menu like he’s some fairy queen.
I should have walked out in his ass.
But I ended up running into him later and he took me to a steakhouse and I made sure to run up his tab lol!
carmen_b
07-20-2021, 04:53 PM
^ I would never pay for a dude. I'd laugh in his face or just leave the venue.
BUT we all get roped in ha. I should never had brought *choices* for wine. Just one ! Lol.
God, WTF , I just can NOT believe that happened to you !
I probably would have sat there and said " Oh , I thought you were kidding " and then tell the waiter that I assumed he was kidding when he mentioned I'd pay and just sit there cool and calm to try to make him sweat.
miss.a.p1600
07-20-2021, 05:54 PM
Exactly Carmen……young n dumb n dating college dudes who act like *they* are the prize. Didn’t realize my worth. Never again.
WendiStarr
07-20-2021, 07:03 PM
^^ Damn! This men expecting women to pay thing is ridiculous. I've never paid for any man's meal intentionally. Friends once set me up on a blind date with what turned out to be a loser. He picked me up in his fancy red sports car, took me to an expensive Italian restaurant, ordered the most expensive dinner and multiple alcoholic beverages, including a large bottle of wine. I was a non-alcohol drinker and he kept ordering drinks, trying to get me to drink them. I knew that creepy men like to try to get women drunk to lower their inhibitions and be predatory so I stuck to lemonade. Anyways once the bill came at the end of the dinner, he conveniently realized that he had forgotten his wallet. I was so pissed because that was a hefty bill. This was before Uber days or else I would've ubered the heck out of there asap. I think if he had really accidentally forgotten his wallet, he would've offered to pay me back for footing that bill. Instead he had the nerve to ask if I wanted to go back to his place for some fun and I had to cuss him out and be a bitch so that he dropped me off close enough to my home.
miss.a.p1600
07-21-2021, 06:30 AM
Troll alert!
I posted in another thread just to move the troll updates further downstream.
His dumb ass woke up at 8am looking for a cyber argument.
I’m surprised Eagle still engages with that lowlife carpet muncher.
LoveyD
07-21-2021, 09:54 AM
^^^ I seriously doubt he gets any carpet to munch in the first place lol
miss.a.p1600
07-21-2021, 10:29 AM
LOL! Even the most ancient carpets are better than those troll.
I’ve had resident sociopath on ignore. I put Uncle Tom back on ignore list because he gets belligerent when he teams up with his Massa
LoveyD
07-21-2021, 01:27 PM
^^^They are both on my ignore list. I've decided that any time I chime in on that thread after those two flood it with their political gibberish, I am going to start my posts with "So anyway..." lol!!!!!
miss.a.p1600
07-21-2021, 01:33 PM
LOL!!! Classic!
Perfect way to reclaim the thread from those bumbling idiots.
chanzep
07-21-2021, 02:50 PM
My period is coming so now I am hating on tv show men. How can a man be broke and telling you shit. Imagine doing crime to pay bills because your man can't and he's trying to be controlling while living off your money smh.
LoveyD
07-22-2021, 08:22 AM
Not everything has to be a goddamn debate! Geez...
I've never seen anything like this among us ladies. At least we can have a discussion without it turning into a " well, I know more than you do" fest!
God men are annoying!
indiegirl
07-22-2021, 08:58 AM
I'm thankful I am no longer talking to that loser guy but I admit I'm glad I blocked and deleted all of his phone numbers. I really do need that full time off in August. I'm scared I'm gonna feel lonely and try to work. I'm thinking of filling it up for 1 time a week therapy, doing some zoom sessions too, walking the dogs, getting my life in order, exercising, and going to the beach, etc.
I feel bad always coming on here blowing up my frustrations and sometimes it's healthier to vent to someone who's getting paid to listen instead of annoy people lol.
I received a 4.5/5 review from a customer and my immediate reaction was to call him because it's hard feeling lonely sometimes and I'm glad I deleted everything about him in advance. Every call turned into an argument.
miss.a.p1600
07-22-2021, 04:27 PM
Why is trick dugan steadily fleecing the moderators ?
Typical douchebag gets caught throwing stones then lies n makes himself look like a victim.
LoveyD
07-22-2021, 05:47 PM
Why is trick dugan steadily fleecing the moderators ?
Typical douchebag gets caught throwing stones then lies n makes himself look like a victim.
Of course he did. Douches gotta douche.
miss.a.p1600
07-23-2021, 12:53 PM
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Damn y’all can you believe Uncle Tom, I mean Eric convinced some woman to marry him lol!!!! Just peeped his wedding photos
whirlerz
07-23-2021, 01:07 PM
Why is trick dugan steadily fleecing the moderators ?
Typical douchebag gets caught throwing stones then lies n makes himself look like a victim.
I tried to read his shit, but my eye glaze over::)
miss.a.p1600
07-23-2021, 01:42 PM
^save your brain cells n don’t even bother subjecting yourself to the intentional bait posts.
whirlerz
07-23-2021, 01:45 PM
^save your brain cells n don’t even bother subjecting yourself to the intentional bait posts.
LOL!^
TheBrownFox
07-24-2021, 01:29 AM
Why is trick dugan steadily fleecing the moderators ?
Typical douchebag gets caught throwing stones then lies n makes himself look like a victim.
Trying to start over with a brand new Covid thread...only to wind up eventually locking that one too because Massa "Calvin Candie" and his butt buddy "Stephen" don't know how to act...and the mod wanting to give them 10,000 chances...is silly to me.
Our girl PGD wouldn't have put up with that shit for that long...that's for sure.
indiegirl
07-24-2021, 02:55 AM
There is a stealthy fly that's been living in my room and when I avert my eyes or grab the bug zapper, it's gone! This bitch! It's day 3. Shouldn't have it died by now?
Yep I agree on the covid thread. I prefer my poop thread. No men and I get to be my weird self.
Have 2 appointments right now this early morning. August, I am so close to this vacation!!!
Luci Fer
07-24-2021, 03:07 AM
Trying to start over with a brand new Covid thread...only to wind up eventually locking that one too because Massa "Calvin Candie" and his butt buddy "Stephen" don't know how to act...and the mod wanting to give them 10,000 chances...is silly to me.
Our girl PGD wouldn't have put up with that shit for that long...that's for sure.
Beh, I don't even read these anymore on here. I sincerely can't understand why men like to discuss boring things. Maybe because of the lack of sex?/:O
Indie, poop thread 4life! ;D
Marina Starr
07-24-2021, 01:24 PM
Smh vanilla hoes letting these men getting away with murder.... Not with me, they gotta put in the effort and they like it!
~Carmen~
07-25-2021, 08:45 PM
There is a stealthy fly that's been living in my room and when I avert my eyes or grab the bug zapper, it's gone! This bitch! It's day 3. Shouldn't have it died by now?
Yep I agree on the covid thread. I prefer my poop thread. No men and I get to be my weird self.
Have 2 appointments right now this early morning. August, I am so close to this vacation!!!
That sounds familiar. I chased a fly last week for hours and finally got the sucker. Then...what do you know? 2 more appear. It took 2 days to swat them. Then ANOTHER two show up!!! I chased the last one for 3 days. I was reading about their tactics and they are smarter than they get credit for. They move their bodies into positions that are un-swattable, then they take dives for your head out of spite. These were those green flies that I particularly hate. These mother f'ers are truly evil!!! Thankfully, I have not seen any more.
It helps to turn some bright lights on when you can't find them because they are attracted to it.
camgirlscottyland
07-25-2021, 08:47 PM
You need to get yourself a can of fly spray lol! One spray of that stuff and the flies start break dancing and acting dramatic as they die
TheBrownFox
07-25-2021, 09:26 PM
That sounds familiar. I chased a fly last week for hours and finally got the sucker. Then...what do you know? 2 more appear. It took 2 days to swat them. Then ANOTHER two show up!!! I chased the last one for 3 days. I was reading about their tactics and they are smarter than they get credit for. They move their bodies into positions that are un-swattable, then they take dives for your head out of spite. These were those green flies that I particularly hate. These mother f'ers are truly evil!!! Thankfully, I have not seen any more.
It helps to turn some bright lights on when you can't find them because they are attracted to it.
If I happen to spot a fly in my bedroom while I'm on cam, I'll run out to turn on the hallway light...keep my bedroom door open until I see the damn thing fly out my room...then I'll quickly close my door, and get back on cam. Then I'll deal with the fly later when offline.
I have this great fly zapper ($5 at Five Below) that's blue and shaped like a tennis racket. Something like that is good for dealing with bees too (Since you'll risk getting stung if you swat at it). I've just held it up in the air before, and waited for the bee to fly right into it and zap itself to death.
~Carmen~
07-25-2021, 09:59 PM
^That's ingenious about turning on your hallway light to re-direct them when they show up while camming. I swear they were flying into my camera frame on purpose.
Thanks for your tip on the zapper. I was looking but not sure what to buy.
~Carmen~
07-25-2021, 09:59 PM
You need to get yourself a can of fly spray lol! One spray of that stuff and the flies start break dancing and acting dramatic as they die
Thanks for the recommendation! I just wonder if it's safe for pets.
I'm sorry I derailed this thread with a fly rant. Fly's are kind of similar to men though, right? They can both be pesty.
LoveyD
07-25-2021, 10:58 PM
Can I use the fly zapper on men too?
AChildOfBoredom
07-26-2021, 02:41 AM
Can I use the fly zapper on men too?
You’d probably want something more like a cattle prod.
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2021, 06:13 AM
I hate when men ask
“Do you need some money?” or “Do you need (insert something of monetary value here)?”
Like stop asking me if I need something (so you hope I say no n you won’t have to do anything yet you make yourself look like you did a good deed by asking) and just give it.
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2021, 10:17 AM
Uncle Tom going against his massa in the covid thread
These dusty tricks are slightly more entertaining than I thought.
carmen_b
07-26-2021, 11:29 AM
I never really thought I'd find myself in that weird spot also.
I think it's quite obvious ( after being there myself the last few weeks ) if someone is quite stressed about money.
Don't ask, just offer. Otherwise you put the person in an embarrassing position of feeling like they are low scale begging for help.
Just my take.
I am not ever going to actively ask my partner for money. I just won't.
To add ... if the guy is worried about it or something .... they could offer you a gift and specify that is " just this once " or " only every so often " ect. to set very clear expectations.
I hate when men ask
“Do you need some money?” or “Do you need (insert something of monetary value here)?”
Like stop asking me if I need something (so you hope I say no n you won’t have to do anything yet you make yourself look like you did a good deed by asking) and just give it.
LoveyD
07-26-2021, 11:46 AM
I hate when men ask
“Do you need some money?” or “Do you need (insert something of monetary value here)?”
Like stop asking me if I need something (so you hope I say no n you won’t have to do anything yet you make yourself look like you did a good deed by asking) and just give it.
I hate this too. Just hand the cash over! Lol
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2021, 12:45 PM
^Makes me miss my financial sub dude.
That was such a great time. Mf literally wanted me to take his money. I liked how easy it was and wish more men were like him.
Ugh I wish I could set up a financial domination onlyfans account.
TheBrownFox
07-26-2021, 12:49 PM
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Someone call 9-1-1, cuz I can't fuckin' breathe!!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
*I know this probably could've gone in the Random Thoughts thread instead, but I wanted to put it in this 'men' thread. Lmao.
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2021, 01:01 PM
Uncle Tom going against his massa in the covid thread
These dusty tricks are slightly more entertaining than I thought.
Im bored.
And told uncle T he needs to be a better role model for his people…..the black community :D
If he really is Black, i doubt The Black community would want to be associated with him anyways
TheBrownFox
07-26-2021, 01:05 PM
Im bored.
And told uncle T he needs to be a better role model for his people…..the black community :D
If he really is Black, i doubt The Black community would want to be associated with him anyways
There's this Black dude at karaoke who loves him some Donald Trump. He bitches about "Black Lives Matter," and says shit like "And what the fuck is Juneteenth?!!" Pretty sure I've seen him with one of those red MAGA hats too...those dumbass looking hats that look like they were made on Dollar Tree material. Lmfao.
laurielegs
07-26-2021, 04:05 PM
I hate when men ask
“Do you need some money?” or “Do you need (insert something of monetary value here)?”
Like stop asking me if I need something (so you hope I say no n you won’t have to do anything yet you make yourself look like you did a good deed by asking) and just give it.
Yes, this!
I just had this happen. A male "friend" said it exactly like that when I said I was working and couldn't attend an event. I said "of course I do, that's why I'm working".
and of course he didn't hand over any cash lol. Considering ignoring him from now on, who does that? No reason to ask me if I need money in that manner. Not really a friend at all.
indiegirl
07-26-2021, 04:42 PM
I could describe this morning as: I went on an excursion around town. LOL
LOL customer facetimed me and everything...but when he facetimed me he looked like a full blown gang member with the massive tattoos all on his chest and body. Like those were tattoos and the type of person you see in prison/supermax type. I was trying to be nice and went through with arriving and his texts in the uber and he was the one who flaked on me and ghosted me. WHATEVER. At least I avoided a gang member. I dunno why they're such assholes to women. The last one I had to see when I showed up not knowing until he told me was just as outspoken/rude.
Super awkward when I'm told they're part of a gang. Like "Okay, I'll let myself out." I don't wanna be involved with people like this.
BambiCutie
07-26-2021, 05:50 PM
Why do the majority of men play themselves up in movies and other roles as highly intelligent, able to hold strong communication, yet say the most stupid, retarded fucking shit to woman at the worst moments when she is at her greatest? Wtf.. Do you not think before saying shit? Then they want you to just smile and act like a doll without human emotions. Fuck out of here..
WendiStarr
07-26-2021, 06:29 PM
I hate how men think their dick is the answer to everything. I said I was feeling nauseous and he says that maybe I'd feel better if I sucked his dick. I feel like puking. How is shoving a dick down my throat gonna help?
moneybags
07-26-2021, 06:38 PM
Toxic men. Need I say more. I gave my number to customers-good paying regulars-but it’s not worth it. I might lose them as regulars, but I don’t care. I’m set boundaries with them. I’m only responding to them coming into the club and nothing else. I’m a stripper because I want to be empowered not financially dependent on toxic men. I swear regulars are never are a good idea. They always get crazy. Nope! Not doing it! If I was okay with being abused by a rich man, I’d still be with my ex husband. I started stripping to get away from that shit. Oh well. I’m just going to tell him I’m busy with my vanilla job, so I can’t always text back, but if he wants to come to the club I’d love to see him.
TheBrownFox
07-26-2021, 07:42 PM
Im bored.
And told uncle T he needs to be a better role model for his people…..the black community :D
If he really is Black, i doubt The Black community would want to be associated with him anyways
He needs to stop with the Uncle Tomfoolery! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Marina Starr
07-27-2021, 05:53 AM
It feels so good to be able to do grocery shopping, running errands, be in pubic spaces when men leave you the fuck alone. Serendipity is no such thing when it comes to men. Vanilla hoes don't and won't ever get this but other sex workers do-I fucking hope so.
Again, it feels so fucking good when men leave you the fuck alone. FEELS SO DAMN GOOD.
55665
miss.a.p1600
07-27-2021, 06:30 AM
He needs to stop with the Uncle Tomfoolery! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Hahahaha hilarious!…..he’s probably going to deny being black lol like the typical Uncle Tom. I’m going to troll him. I’m sorry but I can’t help but get a rise out of him.
I guess I need the free orgasm more than he does.
whirlerz
07-27-2021, 08:13 AM
Ugh, former roomie is now over-texting me, current roomie just sent me a hi text::), &, ironically, the one I like ignore me..but, I get it, he's very busy I give him his space, when we do talk I cut it short cause I understand!
Hate pesty m/f's!
whirlerz
07-27-2021, 08:17 AM
&, just wow, (Uncle T ) w/the last C. comment, seriously???::)
I have it on ignore, but yea, try to get last word in, pal::)
Marina Starr
07-27-2021, 03:58 PM
I keep praying that God send me a good man who not only just wants to fuck me but so far that hasn't happen so I guess Jesus is telling me to keep selling pussy. #prayeranswered #sellpussy
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LoveyD
07-27-2021, 06:32 PM
How hard is it for men to drive to the store, pick up 10 items, and deliver it by a certain time? Fuck, I can do 3 orders in an hour by deadline but ask a man to run a simple order and they can't communicate, get lost (why he doesn't use navigation is a mystery) and now my frozen items will be thawed since they've literally been sitting out for an hour. Grocery delivery is supposed to make like easier, not frustrating. Wish I could request female shoppers since they get shit done and have way more common sense. He should have dropped the damn order if he couldn't handle it.
To top it all off, he delivers it without a mask on!! WTF???