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miss.a.p1600
07-27-2021, 09:55 PM
Men……
Why L thought it was a good idea to use a box cutter to open the box our padded leather bed frame came in.
And you know what he did?
I stead of just cutting the ends. He cuts the entire box n next thing I know, He cut through the box n cut the bed frame
Ffs dude!!!! Now *Ive* got to be the one to fix his mistake”
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 02:52 PM
Kinda over this guy I've been seeing. Kinda want to cut him loose and be 100 % single again. We barely have any communication and I am starting to feel like I'm just his sex supply. Um, no. I'm nobody's blow-up doll.
Idk if we are really compatible, either. He said in the beginning he really wanted this to work, but he barely puts effort into it. I am lucky if I hear from him twice a month. This sucks.
I used to want to get married and have more kids. Now I think I'm over it. I have a son who is almost 20 and he is a doll. I'm happy with my one kid. Maybe it's just time to enjoy life being by myself, without the drama men cause.
I just want my own home again where my son can stay until he is done with college. And I want a cat, too. Just my own little place for me, my kid, and a cat. No men. No drama. Just peace.
moneybags
07-28-2021, 03:16 PM
^^^^girl we need an ex stripper sanctuary
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 03:44 PM
^^ omg I know!!! With flowers, candles, and lavender salt baths.
AChildOfBoredom
07-28-2021, 03:54 PM
I envision my sanctuary a little bit different.
And you know what’s more annoying than women who try to play matchmaker? Men who try to play matchmaker.
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 05:26 PM
Kinda over this guy I've been seeing. Kinda want to cut him loose and be 100 % single again. We barely have any communication and I am starting to feel like I'm just his sex supply. Um, no. I'm nobody's blow-up doll.
Idk if we are really compatible, either. He said in the beginning he really wanted this to work, but he barely puts effort into it. I am lucky if I hear from him twice a month. This sucks.
I used to want to get married and have more kids. Now I think I'm over it. I have a son who is almost 20 and he is a doll. I'm happy with my one kid. Maybe it's just time to enjoy life being by myself, without the drama men cause.
I just want my own home again where my son can stay until he is done with college. And I want a cat, too. Just my own little place for me, my kid, and a cat. No men. No drama. Just peace.
And of course as soon as I type this, he texts me to see how I'm doing. It's almost like he can sense when I'm checking out.
I think it may be time we have a conversation about where this is going. I have some reservations about this. I don't know if he is going to be the kind of man I was hoping for.
laurielegs
07-28-2021, 05:52 PM
How hard is it for men to drive to the store, pick up 10 items, and deliver it by a certain time? Fuck, I can do 3 orders in an hour by deadline but ask a man to run a simple order and they can't communicate, get lost (why he doesn't use navigation is a mystery) and now my frozen items will be thawed since they've literally been sitting out for an hour. Grocery delivery is supposed to make like easier, not frustrating. Wish I could request female shoppers since they get shit done and have way more common sense. He should have dropped the damn order if he couldn't handle it.
To top it all off, he delivers it without a mask on!! WTF???
OMG this is literally happening to me right now at this moment. Seems like every damn time I get a male shopper it's a mess.
Also on Instacart I always carefully choose replacements but for some reason the male shoppers can't seem to see them and just randomly pick something not even close. Rarely happens when I get a female.
xxxGothBarbie
07-28-2021, 05:55 PM
Ugh my bf hadnt hit me up for days until Sun acting out bc he doesn't think its gonna work with me being out here in NY while he's there in CA. I honestly dont wanna go back but i love him. I love my happiness more though. It's gonna suck but I'm really loving NYC. I feel like a whole new person over here. I dread the fight that will soon arise ;(
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 06:07 PM
OMG this is literally happening to me right now at this moment. Seems like every damn time I get a male shopper it's a mess.
Also on Instacart I always carefully choose replacements but for some reason the male shoppers can't seem to see them and just randomly pick something not even close. Rarely happens when I get a female.
I have to agree with you. Male shoppers are late and they don't always communicate well.
Female shoppers go above and beyond for me. One of them even asked how ripe I wanted my avocado! I gave her a nice tip, and when they were out of stuff she was cool about finding me replacement stuff.
So holy shit...my guy is now texting me wanting to meet up so we can talk and that he cares about me a lot and he thinks it's time we figure out our stuff.
I swear this guy picked up on my "shit or get off the pot vibe..." It's nuts!
Luci Fer
07-28-2021, 06:43 PM
^^ omg I know!!! With flowers, candles, and lavender salt baths.
And a lot of cats! like in ancient egyptian temples! Please!
Yesterday I took a taxi and my driver was a girl. She was dressed so well, and the car smelled with her perfume a bit, and she drove the car smoothly. I couldn't help but started to compare her to men taxi drivers. Their perfumes are mostly repulsive, their cars sometimes smell with cigarettes, and the worst thing - they drive like hysterical boys, yanking the car at every stop, so when I reach my destination I get out of a car on shaking legs like a newborn deer, nauseous and greenish-pale.
why, why do they drive like that? And why they don't pay attention to the small details that make the life generally more comfortable and pleasing?
Luci Fer
07-28-2021, 06:45 PM
I envision my sanctuary a little bit different.
And you know what’s more annoying than women who try to play matchmaker? Men who try to play matchmaker.
I can't even imagine a man who tries to play matchmaker!;D
AChildOfBoredom
07-28-2021, 08:03 PM
I can't even imagine a man who tries to play matchmaker!;D
It’s typically them trying to set their buddy up.
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 09:41 PM
And a lot of cats! like in ancient egyptian temples! Please!
Yesterday I took a taxi and my driver was a girl. She was dressed so well, and the car smelled with her perfume a bit, and she drove the car smoothly. I couldn't help but started to compare her to men taxi drivers. Their perfumes are mostly repulsive, their cars sometimes smell with cigarettes, and the worst thing - they drive like hysterical boys, yanking the car at every stop, so when I reach my destination I get out of a car on shaking legs like a newborn deer, nauseous and greenish-pale.
why, why do they drive like that? And why they don't pay attention to the small details that make the life generally more comfortable and pleasing?
Yes! Cats! I love cats! I want a British shorthair so bad. And kittens. Lots of cute little kittens.
Female drivers are also nice because they don't say weird or creepy things to make you feel uncomfortable.
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Luci Fer
07-28-2021, 09:53 PM
Yes! Cats! I love cats! I want a British shorthair so bad. And kittens. Lots of cute little kittens.
Female drivers are also nice because they don't say weird or creepy things to make you feel uncomfortable.
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;D cats and the more the better! Speaking of breeds, I want Maine coon, they are so big!
yeah right about taxi men saying creepy things! One said I was beautiful 'like an angel' and wanted me to pay extra 'coz he drove a little bit longer than it was discussed hahahaha
LoveyD
07-28-2021, 10:00 PM
^^^ omg...men... :-(
Maine coons are cool! They're huge!
I may be shacking up with my guy soon. He is finally stepping it up and putting more effort in. I wanted a hot guy who cares about me and I found one. But I still may need to stop by the stripper sanctuary cat retreat for when I need to have some zen time alone, away from everyone.
And we can make fresh juices and chilled gazpacho. And fabulous charcuterie boards. And wine.
Luci Fer
07-28-2021, 10:11 PM
^^^ omg...men... :-(
Maine coons are cool! They're huge!
I may be shacking up with my guy soon. He is finally stepping it up and putting more effort in. I wanted a hot guy who cares about me and I found one. But I still may need to stop by the stripper sanctuary cat retreat for when I need to have some zen time alone, away from everyone.
And we can make fresh juices and chilled gazpacho. And fabulous charcuterie boards. And wine.
Damn. Stripper sanctuary cat retreat sounds so perfect!
That taxi story made me think it d be good if there were 500 men...on the planet. Handsome guys of course. Yeah, I think 500 handsome guys with good brains would be pretty enough ;D
WendiStarr
07-29-2021, 07:22 AM
As soon as the baby and I woke up, BD said he had to leave to go to a funeral. He went out to the garage, I figured to get high. Once he came back in he started screaming at me to open the door. He was carrying my porch swing cushions which were dripping wet. I was like,"What the hell? Why would you bring them in the house? You should've left them in the garage or went out the garage with them to let them dry on the porch." The baby started crying because she wanted to eat and he started yelling at me, telling me to make her stop because it's annoying him. Then he had the nerve to ask for $100 to pay the lawnmower guy and a hug and a kiss from me before he Ieft. I didn't hug or kiss him because I had no interest in that. He looked all sad and asked why I was mad at him. That's when I told him he's been screaming at me ever since I woke up. Why would I be loving to someone who was treating me like that? I don't really believe that he's going to a funeral because who goes to a funeral in a brightly colored Hawaiian shirt, red cargo shorts, and tennis shoes and leaves at 9 when the funeral isn't until 1, but whatever. I get a break from him until 10pm.
carmen_b
07-29-2021, 08:27 AM
^ What’s your overall plan ?
Still leaning towards move out / get away from him ?
I think you’ll be so much happier. Living with constant nit picking is exhausting. I’ve been there myself.
miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 11:16 AM
Part 2 of trolling the trolls….cause I’m bored n why not…..
If you need free entertainment n free orgasms then stroll over the covid thread n watch the “Tomfoolery” ensue. Pun intended. Lol!
TheBrownFox
07-29-2021, 01:58 PM
Part 2 of trolling the trolls….cause I’m bored n why not…..
If you need free entertainment n free orgasms then stroll over the covid thread n watch the “Tomfoolery” ensue. Pun intended. Lol!
It's weird for me seeing him reply to a post in a 'Period' thread in Body Business.....
miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 02:44 PM
^He’s more bored n desperate for attention than anyone here.
I guess I struck a nerve outing him and he logged off so he could cry in his basement.
That’s what that trick gets for being self loathing so he could butter up to his lover, dusty supremacist dugan.
WendiStarr
07-30-2021, 07:42 AM
^ What’s your overall plan ?
Still leaning towards move out / get away from him ?
I think you’ll be so much happier. Living with constant nit picking is exhausting. I’ve been there myself.
Yes, definitely leaning towards leaving. Last night cemented that decision. He was acting weird and admitted to setting an appointment with an escort but said that he didn't go through with it. I also noticed $100 missing from my purse. I lost my temper with him and ended up slapping him. I've never done that or been a violent person before like that. I had to pay the lawncare guy $100 yesterday since BD claimed to be broke until the weekend, yet there he was trying to see a $60 escort with my stolen $100. I was so pissed that I grabbed his wallet and saw that he had over $200 in there. Priorities. Our relationship has gotten too toxic and he keeps begging for forgiveness saying he didn't go through with the appointment and told me to call the escort, who said that he got scared and left. I just can't trust him no matter what. The fucker claimed to be broke but apparently not for paid pussy.
LoveyD
07-30-2021, 08:22 AM
^^ I am really glad you are considering leaving. It's a brave decision, because the last thing you want is for your daughters to think that his behavior is fine and okay when it isn't. You all deserve better.
I wouldn't tell him your plans. Keep your money a secret, find a secret new home, and definitely get full custody of the baby. Don't tell him where your new place is. Can you find a therapist who accepts insurance? They can help with navigating through an overwhelming situation like this.
whirlerz
07-30-2021, 04:06 PM
Sigh.
Another 'new member' (u know who) just posted in Customer section::)
WendiStarr
07-30-2021, 04:31 PM
You know what else is messed up? The escort that he was supposed to go and see asked if I could spare $20 or send a pizza because she has a hungry kid who was hoping on that lost $.
indiegirl
07-30-2021, 05:51 PM
You know what else is messed up? The escort that he was supposed to go and see asked if I could spare $20 or send a pizza because she has a hungry kid who was hoping on that lost $.
It's too hard to trust a man who has been involved in the escort business seeing women again behind your back. They have no problem to return to it is what I've learned or be liars. It's not worth it but your situation is a bit different because you've had kids with him, which I'm sure is tough :(.
moneybags
07-30-2021, 06:38 PM
Regulars-yeah there’s a reason for 10 years in my career I never gave out my number. Because regulars are crazy! This guy sent me a picture of his guns. Red fucking flag. There’s nothing wrong with guns, but my in my experience men who assault rifles usually have issues. The sane gun owners I know don’t feel the need to brandish them. My ex use to threaten to kill me! Total trigger. I just ignored him when he texted me today. I can’t.
How do you all get rid of regulars? I’m just gonna say I’m working on my vanilla business, so I don’t have time to talk as much anymore.
miss.a.p1600
07-30-2021, 07:19 PM
You know what else is messed up? The escort that he was supposed to go and see asked if I could spare $20 or send a pizza because she has a hungry kid who was hoping on that lost $.
how the heck she get your number
n what kind of person would beg for money like that. I get she has a kid but damn it’s not your job to perform unsolicited charity.
TheBrownFox
07-30-2021, 08:27 PM
How hard is it for men to drive to the store, pick up 10 items, and deliver it by a certain time? Fuck, I can do 3 orders in an hour by deadline but ask a man to run a simple order and they can't communicate, get lost (why he doesn't use navigation is a mystery) and now my frozen items will be thawed since they've literally been sitting out for an hour. Grocery delivery is supposed to make like easier, not frustrating. Wish I could request female shoppers since they get shit done and have way more common sense. He should have dropped the damn order if he couldn't handle it.
To top it all off, he delivers it without a mask on!! WTF???
Maybe he's fully vaccinated? Is Instacart still requiring delivery people to wear masks even if they're fully vaccinated?
LoveyD
07-30-2021, 10:56 PM
I ordered through Shipt, which is the same company I work for and we're supposed to be wearing masks when we shop and deliver. I'm vaccinated but I still mask when I shop. They even remind you to mask up when you open the shopper app.
I hope you're right, that he is vaccinated but I just don't trust easily anymore.
TheBrownFox
07-30-2021, 11:21 PM
I ordered through Shipt, which is the same company I work for and we're supposed to be wearing masks when we shop and deliver. I'm vaccinated but I still mask when I shop. They even remind you to mask up when you open the shopper app.
I hope you're right, that he is vaccinated but I just don't trust easily anymore.
So Shipt still requires people to wear a mask even if they're vaccinated? Yeah, it's fine if you choose to still wear your mask (despite being fully vaccinated), but I also don't think anyone should be criticizing those of us vaccinated folks who ARE comfortable going maskless, just because it differs from what you are comfortable with (Because we trusted what the CDC/president has been telling us for months, and we did everything we were told). I'm seeing posts on this forum lately where it seems like people are making these little "digs" at those of us vaccinated folks who ARE comfortable maskless...
LoveyD
07-30-2021, 11:48 PM
^^ I'm sorry, not trying to take digs at all. It's just that Shipt reminds us every day that we have to wear masks when we're working whether we are vaccinated or not.
I don't wear a mask when I'm exercising outdoors but I keep one handy just in case.
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2021, 08:04 AM
So Shipt still requires people to wear a mask even if they're vaccinated? Yeah, it's fine if you choose to still wear your mask (despite being fully vaccinated), but I also don't think anyone should be criticizing those of us vaccinated folks who ARE comfortable going maskless, just because it differs from what you are comfortable with (Because we trusted what the CDC/president has been telling us for months, and we did everything we were told). I'm seeing posts on this forum lately where it seems like people are making these little "digs" at those of us vaccinated folks who ARE comfortable maskless...
Yes. These are some tricky times.
My dude (he’s vaccinated) says his coworkers (unvaccinated) be shashaying around work with no mask on. And their job requires that employees wear masks (regardless of vaccination status) whenever they’re around customers.
Too bad their is no way to tell if a person without a mask has been vaccinated or not. aside from taking their word n hoping they’re honest.
But yeah all those gig work apps still require masks. I notice customers will sometimes meet you at their door n talk to you or what not. I have my mask on cause I don’t know if they’re sick plus some of them will report you if they see you deliver with no mask n they happen to come out.
i personally think all delivery should be contactless drop off.
TheBrownFox
07-31-2021, 10:21 AM
i personally think all delivery should be contactless drop off.
I'm not a fan of the contactless drop off, but to each his/her own. On the DoorDash app during 2020 when things were bad and everyone was panicking, it was encouraged to select the contactless dropoff, so I selected it since DoorDash basically guilt-tripped people into selecting it. :P
I've gone back to selecting the 'Hand it to me' option though, because that's my preference, and if I'm paying for food plus tipping a delivery person, it's not for them to just sit my food down on the nasty ground (or my neighbor's nasty cigarette table) and walk away...for someone's dog to possibly come over to my door and start smelling/licking on it. *Cringe* And during that "Contactless dropoff" stage, I once had a DoorDasher accidentally drop off my food at the wrong house ...he sat it on the ground at their house.
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2021, 10:21 AM
Thank goodness the male trolls are on summer break, splashing around in the muddy waters of their lair
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2021, 10:24 AM
I'm not a fan of the contactless drop off, but to each his/her own. On the DoorDash app it was encouraged during 2020 when things were bad, so I selected it because DoorDash basically guilt-tripped people into selecting it. :P I've gone back to selecting the 'Hand it to me' option though, because if I'm paying for food plus tipping a person, it's not for them to just sit my food down on the nasty ground and walk away...for someone's dog to possibly come over to my door and start smelling/licking on it. *Cringe* And I once had a DoorDasher accidentally drop off my food at the wrong house (Sat it on the ground at someone else's house).
Lol at the dog sniffing.
Yeah when I order DD I put a table out then I be so hungry I track the food like a starving vulture ready to swipe as soon as I seen them pull off.
I always wondered about the people who have less than stellar patios (weeds/junk/dirt/etc) n ask to leave the food at the door. No table nothing. They cool having their food on their dirty porch/ground.
Once I dropped some food off to these people who asked for contactless. They only place to put it that wasn’t on their trashy ground was to put it on a bench off the ground but right next to the jug of pesticide the left out.
Either way was just gross but I was like “if their front yard n patio is this gross they probably don’t gaf about eating food of their filthy patio ground”
TheBrownFox
07-31-2021, 10:35 AM
^Yup, I even went to the thrift store to find a small table or chair for the exact purpose (When the "contactless delivery" was strongly recommended). It was convenient for a while, and then I realized that in this ratchet-ass neighborhood my chair will probably get stolen...or some nasty person will be walking their dog and letting it piss/shit all around my chair. LOL. I don't like leaving any of my belongings sitting out, and it's not needed lately since I'm back to having my things handed to me.
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2021, 10:01 AM
^im glad you called out troll dugan. He’s way worse than that Eric dude.
How his bitch ass (the OG troll of the forum) remains is beyond me.
I created a thread a while back where we could vote on banning him permanently (moderators deleted it but they should have left it up like they leave up his incessantly trolling posts). The majority of people voted yes to get his dusty ass up out of here but of course that psychotic ass muncher claimed he “contributed” to the forum and it was unfair because the ladies who liked him weren’t online n didn’t vote.
Well that should be a clue that his invisible allies don’t exist. No one but one or two ladies on here like his trashy ass n they only like him because he’s faker than a $8 dollar bill n they aren’t online often enough to see his shady shenanigans.
Contribute what asshole? Contribute a headache to the normal forum members? Contribute fake white knight antidotes?
I’m convinced he’s blowing the supermod.
TheBrownFox
08-01-2021, 10:48 AM
^im glad you called out troll dugan. He’s way worse than that Eric dude.
How his bitch ass (the OG troll of the forum) remains is beyond me.
I created a thread a while back where we could vote on banning him permanently (moderators deleted it but they should have left it up like they leave up his incessantly trolling posts). The majority of people voted yes to get his dusty ass up out of here but of course that psychotic ass muncher claimed he “contributed” to the forum and it was unfair because the ladies who liked him weren’t online n didn’t vote.
Well that should be a clue that his invisible allies don’t exist. No one but one or two ladies on here like his trashy ass n they only like him because he’s faker than a $8 dollar bill n they aren’t online often enough to see his shady shenanigans.
Contribute what asshole? Contribute a headache to the normal forum members? Contribute fake white knight antidotes?
I’m convinced he’s blowing the supermod.
Yeah, I'm definitely disappointed with some of the mod decisions of The Lounge section, and it makes me happy when people have eagle's back when those two jizzbags are ganging up on him (And accusing him of saying things HE didn't say).
miss.a.p1600
08-01-2021, 11:59 AM
L wants me to go to his elderly grandmothers birthday party today.
What part of “we are in the middle of moving”, “all my cute clothes n hair/nail items are packed up”, and “neither one of us has any off days” is not clicking?!?
I mean I know she’s old n all but you know what? He had numerous occasions to visit her and never did.
I guess I’ll be a mega cunt for not going.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2021, 10:51 AM
I hate to say this but Eric is one of my favorite male trolls. (Except when he teams up with Trick Dugan)
Marina Starr
08-02-2021, 04:04 PM
Men that got nothing to lose are those you want to stay away from. The ones that ain't got no job, no home, no career-NOTHING. They could hurt you, beat you, steal from you, rob you, kill you and not give a fuck because they got nothing to lose.
You can't change or save men that ain't got nothing to lose.
indiegirl
08-03-2021, 06:47 AM
I hate to say this but Eric is one of my favorite male trolls. (Except when he teams up with Trick Dugan)
"Trick Dugan"...bahahahaha I love it. What is Raziel's newest usernames?
whirlerz
08-03-2021, 08:05 AM
There's soooo many, look at the latest post in Custy Convo^
whirlerz
08-03-2021, 08:10 AM
Damn, my one upstairs roomie, he came in gf's car (I assume) she was giving me dagger eyes..I had to stick around a bit, as she/he had the parking lot blocked trying to jump start his car, they're gone now..
Him previously trying to touch me all the damn time.
Some shrink wrap me w/roomie protect & deflect the bullies
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-03-2021, 08:20 AM
One of my customers was seriously hygiene challenged and it grossed me out. Took all my will power to stay professional and not embarrass him in public. Yikes.
indiegirl
08-03-2021, 09:01 AM
What is the point of owning a handyman business if you refuse to pick up the phone or call me back? If this was female owned that phone would've been picked up.
On a sidenote I saw that surgeon for an appointment and he literally showed up in all his gear like he was ready for surgery hahaha. I was confused why he didn't change. He kinda bounced after 30 minutes and apologized if he was awkward this morning and thank me for the great time. I was down to keep talking my ass off draining the clock. I'm used to joking around and he just wasn't that type of person.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-03-2021, 09:58 AM
^im glad you called out troll dugan. He’s way worse than that Eric dude.
How his bitch ass (the OG troll of the forum) remains is beyond me.
I created a thread a while back where we could vote on banning him permanently (moderators deleted it but they should have left it up like they leave up his incessantly trolling posts). The majority of people voted yes to get his dusty ass up out of here but of course that psychotic ass muncher claimed he “contributed” to the forum and it was unfair because the ladies who liked him weren’t online n didn’t vote.
Well that should be a clue that his invisible allies don’t exist. No one but one or two ladies on here like his trashy ass n they only like him because he’s faker than a $8 dollar bill n they aren’t online often enough to see his shady shenanigans.
Contribute what asshole? Contribute a headache to the normal forum members? Contribute fake white knight antidotes?
I’m convinced he’s blowing the supermod.
Most likely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 05:39 PM
"Trick Dugan"...bahahahaha I love it. What is Raziel's newest usernames?
Thing is...that "ban" of his turned out to not really be a ban at all, because remember when I noticed that his screen name no longer had the "Banned" tag underneath it? I wonder if he ever knew that he was allowed to start posting again (as Raziel).
Or maybe he decided to come back and start over with a new name, thinking that we won't notice it's him.
indiegirl
08-04-2021, 11:06 AM
Thing is...that "ban" of his turned out to not really be a ban at all, because remember when I noticed that his screen name no longer had the "Banned" tag underneath it? I wonder if he ever knew that he was allowed to start posting again (as Raziel).
Or maybe he decided to come back and start over with a new name, thinking that we won't notice it's him.
Part of me thought "hmm they're keeping his account open so he'll stay on that one only and not create more troll accounts." He totes abandoned Raziel...and sometimes I'm grateful, because I was sick of seeing that stupid bird icon next to his name. LOL