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WendiStarr
08-20-2021, 11:04 AM
I know I use this thread a lot lately. BD is driving me nuts. As soon as I mentioned going to the park, baby got all excited and thought we were going right then. She stood by the door and started asking to go outside. I told her we'd have to get dressed out of our pj's first. That made her mad so she started crying. BD screams at me whenever she cries which scares her and makes her scream louder. The whole time I was getting ready, he was being an asshole saying that I move so slow, am I really going out in that shirt, that I'm boring, etc. Even my oldest commented that he was being rude. I was so relieved when he said he was leaving and took off somewhere. The kids and I went to the park, had a picnic there, played on the playground, and had the whole park to ourselves. He's still gone and I hope he stays gone for the rest of the day, until the kids and I are sleeping.

kimbe
08-20-2021, 11:27 AM
Dear you Wendi, such an awful situation, I feel with you and hope there's a good outcome soon.

LoveyD
08-20-2021, 12:22 PM
He sucks, Wendi. Glad you're getting away from him.

lurkingtitties
08-22-2021, 07:18 AM
My roommate coaches a high school sport and was telling me recently how she has a frustrating situationship with one of the assistant coaches. This past Friday she invited me out for drinks with her friends and situationship guy was there, and planning to spend the night at our place so they could carpool to their big game the next morning.

So we get to the bar and it turns out situationship guy’s schtick is he gets drunk and then gives everyone massages. Now I have a chronic issue in one of my shoulders where some of the stabilizer muscles are weak, and that day my upper trap was tight from overcompensating for the weak muscles during my workout the previous day. When it’s my turn to get a massage dude feels the tight muscle and starts jackhammering with his hands, causing it to further tighten and get spastic/painful. At first he wouldn’t stop when I asked him to, telling me he “knows what he’s doing “ and that I need to relax. I had to get assertive with this idiot and tell him I’m a PT and I most certainly know more about muscles than he does.

Then the next day they were in and out of the house a couple times following their game. My dog barks at strangers, especially men, but will warm up to them with a proper introduction. This dude didn’t even try. Instead he made butthurt comments every time my dog barked. At one point I overheard him call my dog a weirdo…took a lot of restraint to not get confrontational with him! I called my dog up to my bedroom and told him he did a good job. (I love him so much! We are soulmates for real.)

I feel bad for my roommate, she’s a nice person and I think she could do better than him. I bet he’s bad in bed too based off his massage skillz.

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2021, 07:52 AM
I know I use this thread a lot lately. BD is driving me nuts. As soon as I mentioned going to the park, baby got all excited and thought we were going right then. She stood by the door and started asking to go outside. I told her we'd have to get dressed out of our pj's first. That made her mad so she started crying. BD screams at me whenever she cries which scares her and makes her scream louder. The whole time I was getting ready, he was being an asshole saying that I move so slow, am I really going out in that shirt, that I'm boring, etc. Even my oldest commented that he was being rude. I was so relieved when he said he was leaving and took off somewhere. The kids and I went to the park, had a picnic there, played on the playground, and had the whole park to ourselves. He's still gone and I hope he stays gone for the rest of the day, until the kids and I are sleeping.

One of my guy friends was in a relationship n lived with this lady who had a constant bad attitude.

He’d tell me stories of all the messed up stuff she’d do (once he said she drove her car through his shop, another time he said she destroyed his electronics when she got mad at him, etc) and I’d constantly tell him to leave.

One day she was really being a jackass and his young son was like “Dad we have to get out of here!”

I was like bruh! If your young kid is telling you to this maybe it’s time……..

Kids are more aware of stuff than we think.

He finally left her.

But sadly he ended up with another equally unstable woman.

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2021, 08:05 AM
My gripe is how men are clueless about cleaning things properly.

My dude will use hella face towels then leave them wet, balled up, in a corner of the shower.

Like bruh! That’s why ya towels smell like badussy.

Quit leaving wet items balled up to mildew n mold.

He doesn’t care.

In his mind it’s like oh! Just toss it in the washing machine n it’s like new.

No dude! Regular detergent is not equipped to remove mold n mildew you caused by balling up wet fabrics.

Ugh!!!!! I have to go through the house every morning n hang his wet towels out to dry.

carmen_b
08-22-2021, 09:00 AM
Lurking : I bet that guy is bad in bed due to the not listening skills.
Also ... situationship ? Are we fucking 13 ? Either be a lover, a boyfriend, or get the fuck ON and out my hair ! Lol.

I think your roomie should scale up and forget him based on this info hahaha.

carmen_b
08-22-2021, 09:03 AM
Yeah , men can be stupid too tolerating unstable people. It's certainly not just a women thing.


One of my guy friends was in a relationship n lived with this lady who had a constant bad attitude.

He’d tell me stories of all the messed up stuff she’d do (once he said she drove her car through his shop, another time he said she destroyed his electronics when she got mad at him, etc) and I’d constantly tell him to leave.

One day she was really being a jackass and his young son was like “Dad we have to get out of here!”

I was like bruh! If your young kid is telling you to this maybe it’s time……..

Kids are more aware of stuff than we think.

He finally left her.

But sadly he ended up with another equally unstable woman.

lurkingtitties
08-22-2021, 09:10 AM
Lurking : I bet that guy is bad in bed due to the not listening skills.
Also ... situationship ? Are we fucking 13 ? Either be a lover, a boyfriend, or get the fuck ON and out my hair ! Lol.

I think your roomie should scale up and forget him based on this info hahaha.

Yeah, she def shouldn’t be sleeping with him without commitment, but social conditioning is strong for our generation regarding hookup culture and such. I’ve been guilty of similar behavior in the past but have sworn it off after my recent breakup.

I forgot when I wrote the post earlier but he also negged her in front of me! She mentioned the night before that she wanted to get her dog a special treat because Sat was his adopt-aversary. First thing dude says to me when they came home after their game was “X is a bad dog mom. She forgot to get him a present”. Ok dirtbag, let’s see you rescue a dog and take care of it. FUCK that guy. I told him roomie is doing the best she can and is a good dog mom.

carmen_b
08-22-2021, 09:13 AM
^ It's as much " Men in Power " energy as the old days when you were " obedient " to your husband.
It isn't emotionally safe and comfy for women.
Maybe he has some qualities she likes ..... but he sounds very " meh ".

Marina Starr
08-22-2021, 09:18 AM
I don't get why dudes spend so much time at the gym working on their upper body, so jacked up and broad as hell like they're on steroids while rocking skinny pegged legs.

55832

lurkingtitties
08-22-2021, 09:25 AM
I don't get why dudes spend so much time at the gym working on their upper body, so jacked up and broad as hell like they're on steroids while rocking skinny pegged legs.

55832

I have a patient right now who is a gym bro type of guy with a torn rotator cuff…during his initial consult I asked him what he does at the gym and basically he’s exactly the type you just described. During our weekly caseload rounds I told my coworkers he looks like he skips leg day and they all cracked up.

lurkingtitties
08-22-2021, 09:27 AM
^ It's as much " Men in Power " energy as the old days when you were " obedient " to your husband.
It isn't emotionally safe and comfy for women.

I completely agree!!!!

Marina Starr
08-22-2021, 09:31 AM
I feel their legs are gonna break because they are so jacked up with barely any legs support.


I have a patient right now who is a gym bro type of guy with a torn rotator cuff…during his initial consult I asked him what he does at the gym and basically he’s exactly the type you just described. During our weekly caseload rounds I told my coworkers he looks like he skips leg day and they all cracked up.

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2021, 09:58 AM
Yeah, she def shouldn’t be sleeping with him without commitment, but social conditioning is strong for our generation regarding hookup culture and such. I’ve been guilty of similar behavior in the past but have sworn it off after my recent breakup.

I forgot when I wrote the post earlier but he also negged her in front of me! She mentioned the night before that she wanted to get her dog a special treat because Sat was his adopt-aversary. First thing dude says to me when they came home after their game was “X is a bad dog mom. She forgot to get him a present”. Ok dirtbag, let’s see you rescue a dog and take care of it. FUCK that guy. I told him roomie is doing the best she can and is a good dog mom.

so true.

when you’re in your late teens early twenties especially it seems like “everyone is doing it” and you’re getting left out in the cold n cheated on if you don’t engage in such activities.

it’s hard for young ladies out here to stick to their guns n wait cause they may feel like they’re missing out on something.

my self now would tell my young self ….. self, stick to your guns n wait! Go places where you can not only meet Meet some guys with morals who respect women but also know how valuable you are n never be afraid to walk away from an unhealthy relationship/situation …… the world is your oyster!

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2021, 10:04 AM
I don't get why dudes spend so much time at the gym working on their upper body, so jacked up and broad as hell like they're on steroids while rocking skinny pegged legs.

55832

agreed.

They body looking lopsided n just …… nah!

Probably they do that cause they have zero clue how to work their lower body. It’s not that hard dude just so some squats n lunges n calf raises.

Guys are so dumb.

indiegirl
08-22-2021, 10:23 AM
I swear, men who are morning people compared to night owls exhaust me. Like calm down and let me wake up normally.

I called him a bitch before I left because I was mad at everything that happened these past 2 days with him and I’m not sorry. I hate realizing how much I need to end something when it’s time and seeing him not want to change anything. I need a beta male.

TheBrownFox
08-22-2021, 03:52 PM
This really is nothing new. But it's annoying how men in bars behave. I actually DO NOT go to the karaoke bar to drink. I go there for the karaoke. I'll usually get a glass of water, and tip them $3-$5 for the water. Sometimes I'll order a crab cake or crab balls, and tip for that too. There's always some creep who approaches me and says "Is THAT what you're drinking...water?! Let me get you a drink!" Yeah...no.....

Last night at karaoke this dude that I don't know said he wanted to buy me a drink...also said he'd "like to get me drunk." I told him no, and this motherfucker proceeded to tell the bartender to get me a drink...after I'd already told him no twice. So then I had to tell the bartender "NO, I already told this guy I DON'T want a drink..."

Funny how they won't offer to pay for your food (Can't get a girl drunk off a crab cake!), but they'll insist on buying you that drink. Creeps. And this is something about men that will never fucking change. And people will shrug it off and say "He's just drunk." Yes, I can see that from the way he's stumbling around. Maybe don't drink so fucking much then? NEVER understood the appeal of getting yourself so drunk that you're acting like a creep, stumbling around, and need someone else to drive you home. But then is people's idea of fun.

Also, when I'm eating, give me my fucking space. Drunk people spit when they talk. I do not want some dude with nasty beer breath that close to me, my food, and my glass of water. Fuck off. I LOVE going to karaoke, but this is the one thing about going there that I hate. Creepy bar dudes is the reason I'd bought that pepper spray in the first place.

indiegirl
08-22-2021, 06:04 PM
This really is nothing new. But it's annoying how men in bars behave. I actually DO NOT go to the karaoke bar to drink. I go there for the karaoke. I'll usually get a glass of water, and tip them $3-$5 for the water. Sometimes I'll order a crab cake or crab balls, and tip for that too. There's always some creep who approaches me and says "Is THAT what you're drinking...water?! Let me get you a drink!" Yeah...no.....

Last night at karaoke this dude that I don't know said he wanted to buy me a drink...also said he'd "like to get me drunk." I told him no, and this motherfucker proceeded to tell the bartender to get me a drink...after I'd already told him no twice. So then I had to tell the bartender "NO, I already told this guy I DON'T want a drink..."

Funny how they won't offer to pay for your food (Can't get a girl drunk off a crab cake!), but they'll insist on buying you that drink. Creeps. And this is something about men that will never fucking change. And people will shrug it off and say "He's just drunk." Yes, I can see that from the way he's stumbling around. Maybe don't drink so fucking much then? NEVER understood the appeal of getting yourself so drunk that you're acting like a creep, stumbling around, and need someone else to drive you home. But then is people's idea of fun.

Also, when I'm eating, give me my fucking space. Drunk people spit when they talk. I do not want some dude with nasty beer breath that close to me, my food, and my glass of water. Fuck off. I LOVE going to karaoke, but this is the one thing about going there that I hate. Creepy bar dudes is the reason I'd bought that pepper spray in the first place.

Yep that's why bars suck. Crappy men and expensive drinks. Yucky. I went to 1 bar only I believe and the guy insulted me for not wanting to talk to him. He needed to fuck off really quick. I was not working so he had no purpose. I ended up drunk doing makeup for no reason sitting on the bathroom sink with the girls I went with laughing in the bathroom there instead. LOLLL

I'm listening to Britney Spears- Womanizer before an appointment right now woot woot!!!

Marina Starr
08-23-2021, 04:20 AM
Smh the extend men will troll for pussy!

indiegirl
08-23-2021, 11:48 AM
I feel fucking awful after eating that stupid omelette. I have a customer downstairs and I want him to leave so I can go home and curl up in a ball in my bed. Obviously I feel terrible doing this to him but I think there would be no benefit w/ my stomach hurting so bad. My stomach is in puke worthy level and I have to leave anyways for checkout. I'm mad at myself for not being able to see him. Today was not the day. Fuck that breakfast meal. Also I'm super hormonal before my period again. I cried watching an action movie yesterday. I sound insane LOL. Oh god I love my period *eyeroll*

At the very least, I am grateful to not be like another lady who was in my life who had to miss days of school over her period.

AChildOfBoredom
08-24-2021, 01:09 PM
Men on social media. You wanna see their true colors, see what a bunch of shitgibbons they really are when they think they can’t be held accountable, that’s the perfect place to see it. S and her girlfriend made one of those cheesy couples accounts on TikTok, and some of the comments on there makes me wish I could reach through my phone screen and castrate those fucks. What is it about social media (and dating apps, also) which makes the losers think they magically transform into winners once they sign up?

whirlerz
08-24-2021, 02:12 PM
Fuck this 'financial advisor' that's trying to call me now, afterI tried to get back, 1 of his #'s disconnected?!

He was out in BF Egypt, seeing a client & can't get on zoom? Not my prob!

Told him my eye's burning from allergies any way!
Note: just reschedule for tomorrow.

The one roomie's gone (2 months),left his shit for me to clean, I'm taking his space in the fridge.
The couple has their bicycles in kitchen, a giant 8lb tapper cooler on kitchen table, & I fucking moved it by the back counter.

Not to mention the dirty dishes.

The guy upstairs smoking blunts all day, stinking up the house, I don't mind pot smell but not blunts.

I guess the guy (of the couple) doesn't like the smell either,, he has the door to the kitchen shut.
Which I can't blame him for, really.
His girlfriend remarked that she could smell weed.

lurkingtitties
08-25-2021, 05:51 AM
I got a new tattoo that’s anatomical and related to my profession. I posted a pic in a FB group. It blew up with likes and positive comments, but of course there are a few men who have to leave “well, actually” comments about how it should be in a different place on my body to be truly anatomically correct. I can’t stand it! To me it makes them look like ignorant know it all’s who don’t know anything about what makes a good tattoo.

TheBrownFox
08-25-2021, 04:29 PM
I got a new tattoo that’s anatomical and related to my profession. I posted a pic in a FB group. It blew up with likes and positive comments, but of course there are a few men who have to leave “well, actually” comments about how it should be in a different place on my body to be truly anatomically correct. I can’t stand it! To me it makes them look like ignorant know it all’s who don’t know anything about what makes a good tattoo.


How about when men try to make conversation by asking "What do your tattoos mean?" *Eye roll* Um...it means I love stars, and I love music (I sing). Duh! Lmfao.

whirlerz
08-26-2021, 03:57 PM
This one guy I've been with for a while, texted me, however, hes not vaccinated (& doesn't ever plan to)::)
He got all freaked out, cause a waitress he asked about it, said she had 105° fever.
He wears a mask, that's about it.
The restaurant we go to, no longer has out door seating

I found 3 area places for him (no smart phone) he won't go..
His aunt has cancer, he visits her weekly, she probably can't get vaxxed, & won't either.
She lives w/daughter & 2 adult grandkids, they party & probably haven't either.

Then my other friend drinks/smokes, he invited me to swim at his mom's pool, which I'd love, same thing as above!
+ its 53 miles each way:O

Sorry, don't want to risk it!
Btw, both guys
are older, the one had a blood transfusion awhile back!

Id like to play bingo down the street, same things.

Everyone in my house is vaxxed, save the blunt smokers upstairs!::)

lurkingtitties
08-26-2021, 04:03 PM
How about when men try to make conversation by asking "What do your tattoos mean?" *Eye roll* Um...it means I love stars, and I love music (I sing). Duh! Lmfao.

Dude I have zero patience for random men trying to talk to me about my tattoos, I will rudely tell them "None of your business"!

neverendingkneebruises
08-26-2021, 04:30 PM
I don't fully trust him yet. Don't care how nice he is.. That porn / foot fetish has me on high alert.

Ok keep in mind I'm checking my emails and left off on the page where my last post was so I haven't skimmed thru the rest of this thread yet but I'm going to throw my generalized thoughts out there.

This seems really hypocritical as someone in the sex industry, but I do NOT fuck w men seriously that watch a lot of porn or frequently go to strip clubs, or constantly follow a lot of thirst trap IG/TikTok accounts. In moderation? Sure, I enjoy porn once in a blue moon. And I'll happily wish my SO off to the strip club once in a while as long as he's treating the girls with respect. I'm also bisexual so I follow a few thirst trap tiktokers and can appreciate their content. But a lot of porn nowadays is an epidemic. Men who watch it frequently it literally fries their brains & dehumanizes us (even more than usual) & so many have ED or are unable to get off from their girlfriends/wives because of excessive porn use. We have literal young adult males 18-30 struggling with ED because of porn. How pathetic is that. I have a handful of male friends that quit or seriously cut back & they all say it was worth it & improved their lives greatly.

I also think the type of porn a man watches is something to take into consideration. I know people say to never snoop your partner's phone, and I don't (unless I have a good reason to), but I think this is something worth snooping over. I am not above it when it's my safety & health on the line. *Shrug* My ex was not perfect but I will say he never treated me violently in bed or pressured me into anything sexual and didn't really have any kinks at all. We had a healthy sex life. The type of porn he preferred was amateur type of videos with normal looking people.
I had another ex who had violent tendencies, not to me but I had a feeling if I stayed any longer I would have been hurt, and he had literal folders and pages FILLED with saved porn, a lot of it that was very depraved and involved hurting women. He also dedicated a good part of his day, EVERY day, to scrolling thru thirst trap Instagram/TikTok accounts and making comments. That CANNOT be healthy.

Just my 2 cents again, fwiw.

indiegirl
08-26-2021, 07:43 PM
I am so sick of this man who violated my rights and has released 8 new nude sex photos of me on USA sex guide. That’s 24 photos I got denied to have removed when I disputed it. Someone asked him for the video to be posted. In this last set someone got word I was upset and alerted me as well and he blurred my face in the new photos and he only blurred them for his safety in case I sue. My name is attached to my ad and so is my face.

I did not ask for this. Some men are just plain cruel and don’t know how to stop.

chanzep
08-26-2021, 07:54 PM
Omg Sorry indiegirl that man is a pig.

miss.a.p1600
08-26-2021, 07:56 PM
^sorry to hear you experience that.

I hate when men dismiss your women’s intuition when something isn’t right. Then their asses finally figure out you’re right n won’t admit they are stupid n wrong.

miss.a.p1600
08-26-2021, 07:57 PM
Also related.

Pisses me off when men take forever to fix something.

Keep procrastinating dude!

No nagging, just hire sexy repair guys when they’re at work

WendiStarr
08-27-2021, 10:43 AM
All my stuff is packed up. I don't know why BD insisted on me packing up a closet of empty shoes boxes and old receipts and sweaters of his. This bastard has more clothes and junk than anyone I've ever known. I put it all in a box for him and he bitched at me because his huge, heavy robe that he never wears anyways wasn't in there. He told me to take everything out and repack it and make it fit. There was just no way it was going to fit. I was already too nice by packing his shit in the first place. I told him if he was going to be ungrateful he could pack up his own crap because I don't care about any of it. Tomorrow is when the kids and I leave. I would rather have thrown his stuff to the curb for garbage pick-up.

miss.a.p1600
08-27-2021, 11:12 AM
^when i ended it with this dude I dated in the past (discovered he was a low level narcissistic alcoholic abuser) that trick didn’t take his clothes n shit with him……..all his shit went into dumpster #5

lurkingtitties
08-27-2021, 12:33 PM
Congratulations on getting out Wendi! I think all of us have been rooting for you.

carmen_b
08-27-2021, 02:29 PM
Awesome Wendi !

carmen_b
08-27-2021, 02:32 PM
I’m dissapointed by men today.

I was just at planned parenthood ( uti bleh ) and five women arrive to sit by themselves and wait.
Not a single partner in sight to go to these high hassle appts and show support.

My dude I gave a free pass ....
His schedule is so tight and I wanted to release him so he could drive himself south to get home v.s. just sitting around.

Ugh!!
Out of 5, not ONE man here showing support?

LoveyD
08-27-2021, 09:14 PM
Hope you're feeling better, Carmen. UTIs are awful.

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 07:14 AM
Sometimes, well ok most times, I think men are the dumbest gender.

Trusting them to lead is anxiety provoking.

They do not use their intuition, the procrastinate on important things (like taking care of their health hence why they die quicker than women, fixing things, etc) , their priorities are all jacked up, they trust the word of another dumb man over a wise woman, n more……..

indiegirl
08-28-2021, 09:24 AM
I’m so tired of him talking about sports. Like shut up Pleaseeeeee! He’s in the middle of a monologue

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 09:45 AM
Lol, last 2 posts, men get treated as children, (politely tho) by me!::)

LoveyD
08-28-2021, 11:23 AM
Had to block and walk away from the guy I've been seeing. Not sensing that this guy really values me or what I have to offer. He takes me for granted and I won't settle for that. Again.

Wtf is wrong with men???

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 11:23 AM
I hate how men be having long memories about trivial shit.

But the important things……..they asses suddenly catch amnesia.

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 12:32 PM
had to block and walk away from the guy i've been seeing. Not sensing that this guy really values me or what i have to offer. He takes me for granted and i won't settle for that. Again.

Wtf is wrong with men???

everything?!^

miss.a.p1600
08-29-2021, 09:45 AM
Had to block and walk away from the guy I've been seeing. Not sensing that this guy really values me or what I have to offer. He takes me for granted and I won't settle for that. Again.

Wtf is wrong with men???

oh no!

your same on/off bf or another guy?

glad you are free from someone who doesn’t see your worth n act accordingly towards you

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 10:36 AM
Lovey :
The one from like 6 months Ago?

I never trusted him after he “ disappeared “ into his depression or whatever it was. Ugh!

It might have seemed hopeful and worth a try ( don’t beat yourself up about it )!
He must be doing something again that isn’t right !

So sorry !

It’s immature to leave your partner guessing / hanging.
All it takes is a conversation to be straight .

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 10:37 AM
^ Sometimes damaged people devalue your time because they haven’t done the emotional healing “ work “ yet on themselves.
They don’t value their own time and it ripples out onto people they interact with.

LoveyD
08-29-2021, 10:58 AM
oh no!

your same on/off bf or another guy?

glad you are free from someone who doesn’t see your worth n act accordingly towards you

It's the same guy. We have a beautiful connection but sometimes I think he takes me for granted and then I get scared and run. I can't commit to someone who gives me this vibe. The love is there, but he doesn't express it the way I need him to. Then I check out. I just need to know that I am not entering into another abusive relationship. I have to know you appreciate me or else I can't commit. Too scared.

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 11:00 AM
Well alternately you can spell out what you want and see if he steps up.

Basically he will or won’t .
You are getting that vibe though ( taken for granted ) which is something.
:/

You could try couples counseling too.

LoveyD
08-29-2021, 11:01 AM
Lovey :
The one from like 6 months Ago?

I never trusted him after he “ disappeared “ into his depression or whatever it was. Ugh!

It might have seemed hopeful and worth a try ( don’t beat yourself up about it )!
He must be doing something again that isn’t right !

So sorry !

It’s immature to leave your partner guessing / hanging.
All it takes is a conversation to be straight .

I know he cares about me but sometimes I feel like I'm just "whatever" to him. No. I'm not that girl.