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WendiStarr
06-05-2021, 01:24 PM
^ The inches thing, haha! Yes, the ,"I have a 10+ inch dick!" when it's actually really tiny or guys who say that their dick is thick and it's one of those weird skinny pencil dicks.
Luci Fer
06-05-2021, 06:46 PM
A strategy for gyms that I read online is to go to a more expensive gym! Men there will be of a higher caliber than the broke guys who go to PF and etc. my anecdotal experience confirms this-I started my strength training journey in CrossFit gyms and can only recall once in 6 years that a male member was creeping on me, and management put a stop to it without me even having to say anything. I joined a planet fitness for a hot second earlier this year and it was full of lame unattractive dudes and stereotypical bros who stand in front of the mirror watching themselves do bicep curls.
Great idea! You re genius!
miss.a.p1600
06-05-2021, 07:32 PM
And their height! If they said they're 6ft, that usually means they're 5'9 or 5'11 so be sure to always subtract a few inches of whatever they're telling you until you see it.
Dudes with big dick don't need to embellish.
Ahahaha!!!
Also,
They asses be lying about their shoe size, their dick size, their age, and whatever else they can get away with lying about.
Like bruh! I know you’re barely 5’6, almost 6 inches dick size, just made it to size 8 shoe size so why are you wearing size 11, and you’re a hard 62 (not the 45 you said on your profile)
Their worst fear is being too short (height and dick), having small hands n feet, and being outed as broke bums
miss.a.p1600
06-05-2021, 07:50 PM
I hate the fact that there’s more women on the planet than men so they get to enjoy their sister wives fetish, you’re lucky if you find a good one over 30 who hasn’t been ravaged mentally/financially in a divorce/doesn’t have kids n ex wives or baby moms lurking in the background
AChildOfBoredom
06-06-2021, 01:41 AM
It seems they have ditched the “provider” role because why should they provide when they can marry a woman that works just as hard as (if not harder than) the man.
I think this is a legitimate concern, and perhaps why I’m dismissive when others try to set me up with men who perhaps work in more ‘soft’ professions. That, and I feel like it would just lead to a lot of insecurity from them, as well. I already see it at both of my jobs with men who already know the chances of me ever fucking them are less than zero, when I show up to fix something they couldn’t or just in general thrive in fields they like to think of as “theirs”.
miss.a.p1600
06-06-2021, 06:14 AM
^omg….. LOL @ The chances of fucking them are less than 0
Speaking of men being lazy underachievers in their careers
I flat out tell dudes I am NOT okay with you making less than me. Especially not significantly less.
If I figure out how to make 10k this week and you only made 500 …….. you better slang some dick by Saturday night.
I am not providing for you
miss.a.p1600
06-06-2021, 10:16 AM
Why men…..WHY!!!
Why tf y’all take FOREVER to ask a lady to be with you, she gets tired of waiting/tired of the shenanigans, finds someone decent who is willing to make it work, then all of a sudden you see she’s got a serious prospect you want to come around and add competition when you had no sense of urgency before.
I hate when men try to waste your biological clock by stringing you along in the friend/dating zone then reappear right before you get serious with someone else.
Kylie8585
06-06-2021, 11:34 AM
^ The inches thing, haha! Yes, the ,"I have a 10+ inch dick!" when it's actually really tiny or guys who say that their dick is thick and it's one of those weird skinny pencil dicks.
I've always found that guys with bigger dicks don't have to put it out there. they just show up! I went on a date with a guy and he had sent me a dick picture prior. It was hella amazing so I'm like looking forward to it. We start messing around and I pull it out. Right off the bat I'm like wtf is this? He said he figured he could make up for it in other ways because he always has and that I shouldn't let a dick smaller than what he sent let things change. I was pissed and literally got out of his car and left lol. He tried texting me later and I promptly sent him a picture of what I was going to see since I had gotten my hopes up.
Kylie8585
06-06-2021, 11:36 AM
My rant..when a guy tells you he loves to eat pussy. He's let it be known that he'll do it early on. I give him head and he has to be asked to return the favor. He gets down there and it's like a cat licking his paws. Not enjoyment at all and def can tell he doesn't want to do it. He then goes on about how he usually doesn't do it this early in meeting. Like wtf I just sucked your dick?? You can't return the favor.
Marina Starr
06-06-2021, 04:04 PM
A lot of men can't stand to see women behaving like they don't need a man's approval. Damn right because we DON'T.
AChildOfBoredom
06-06-2021, 08:33 PM
Grateful they designated the bathroom next to my shop bay specifically as a women’s bathroom and gave us on the floor keys so we could keep it locked. I swear, the men in the shop have no fucking idea what the purpose of air freshener is.
miss.a.p1600
06-07-2021, 06:16 AM
Men are the biggest hypocrites
They will complain non stop about their exes, have indiscriminate sex n cheat on their wives/gfs, etc. but when women do the same they act like the ultimate sin has been committed
Marina Starr
06-07-2021, 06:29 AM
Don't you just love when ugly, unattractive men try to shame and police your body and how you should look when it's in their best interest to shut the fuck up?! As if you only exist for their desires.
Men don't get to tell women what they like or don't like about their bodies.
WendiStarr
06-07-2021, 07:46 AM
BD and his inability to do anything. I'm so over having to do all the yardwork, lifting anything over 15lbs, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, laundry, vacuuming, grocery shopping, everything. If he's going to be living here because he can't afford to live at his remote cottage anymore, he better start doing more to help out around the house here or increase his hours so that he can afford someone else to help out. We got in a fight again about how he thinks I can just go and get a CEH job without a bachelor's degree or at least 2 years work experience in infosec. I've told him time and time again that it takes 4 years to earn a bachelor's degree. I haven't even been able to sign up for classes because the one class offered in the summer semester filled up. No, I'm not going to waste $600 on an exam that I would probably fail because I'd need to study for that exam. He seems to think I could just look at some material for 3 days and pass the exam, no problem. I told him if he thinks it's so easy he can take the exam. Yes, people in that field can make $70k and up but that's after years of experience in that field, in addition to multiple certifications and a bachelor's degree. It all comes down to he wants me to be the breadwinner so that he can do even less.
miss.a.p1600
06-07-2021, 12:21 PM
What’s ceh?
WendiStarr
06-07-2021, 01:34 PM
Certified Ethical Hacker. Sorry for kind of threadjacking.
JenniferNorth
06-07-2021, 02:42 PM
Wendi..please do not become the breadwinner for this asshole. FUCK HIM.
Sorry I had to scream that. My ex told me, as our marriage was failing from other problems in the relationship, that I needed to get a 70K a year job so he could go to school/take courses and not have to work. Nope, I should kill myself and bring home the money while he plays students, as he is finishing his last year in grad and wants to spend the year after that taking classes and drawing shitty animation. Only while we were living just outside of SF-one of the most expensive places in the country!
Sorry, I have to lose my shit when I hear about men like your BD. It reminds me of my ex, and that was a waste of 10 years. Their mamas' taught them to be gold diggers or something, as if anyone wants to support a lazy fucking man who won't even work. Meanwhile, those same men bitch about women not working. Of course they do, they want the women to support them!
What happened to all the men that paid bills like Grandpa did??
AChildOfBoredom
06-07-2021, 03:48 PM
The ones who think any woman they interact with in any purely platonic way is their personal life + dating coach and relationship counselor… not to mention they somehow think - of all people - I’m the one they should turn to?
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2021, 11:56 AM
Lol @ male trolls reading this thread n learning about themselves
indiegirl
06-08-2021, 01:17 PM
Lol @ male trolls reading this thread n learning about themselves
One is really nice. But the majority on here nah that’s pay for conversation.
I have an appointment right now and my anxiety is through the roof. I honestly need a month break. I’m getting too old and I’m tired. I need to get over working daily and seriously relax. It’s hard!
JenniferNorth
06-08-2021, 04:31 PM
Lol @ male trolls reading this thread n learning about themselves
Oh, do tell where this insight can be found! Hehe
chanzep
06-08-2021, 04:31 PM
The worst men I have come across are not the ones at the clubs, but the vanilla ones who are "friends" , family friends etc.
They are so full of shit and sneaky fake fucks. They pretend to be nice and always talk about nice things they do smh. They do stuff for you but as soon as you talk about dating or moving away act butt hurt.
They also have no boundaries. They can ignore you which is fine . But when you try not respond to them they try to hunt you down.
I have had to cut off a few . I have afucked up marriage and I'm getting divorced. Now I'm talking about moving and dating they showing their true colours. Umm I have been separated for a few years if I was interested you would know.
Smh.
The disgusting things I have been told that they would kick out their girlfriend and be with me . Smh they make me sick. Especially as I have been around the girls . The lies too saying my hus is horrible which he is then doing some of the stuff to their girlfriend.
These dudes make me sick I cant.
Oh and they think strippers are lowlifes.
I could go on for days they are full of shit.
Marina Starr
06-08-2021, 05:01 PM
They think the same of camgirls, escorts and any girl doing adult work. What they think doesn't bother me because I don't take criticism from low value (trash) men I wouldn't take advice from.
Oh and they think strippers are lowlifes.
chanzep
06-08-2021, 08:55 PM
Yes one of them told me how he went to one of the local club's and asked the dancer why she was working there smh. I asked him why he went he said he was bored. He said he had no respect for girls working there. I told him not to judge .
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2021, 09:10 PM
How they try to convince you to risk your life, ruin your perfect stomach/ass/tits to become pregnant without marrying you
Then have the gall to say ….. “Why we gotta get married to have a baby” “I’ll take GOOD care of the baby”
Boy Bye!!!! I could be a better mother AND father
AChildOfBoredom
06-08-2021, 09:34 PM
Got another to throw in there… how much they can piss me out without me being involved with any of them. The fact that I can make as many posts in this thread as I’ve been able to. These are supposed to be the problems of other people, not me. But there is no escape.
miss.a.p1600
06-09-2021, 04:24 AM
Why are men’s bathrooms way more disgusting than women’s bathrooms?
They are so nasty
They be the main ones pissing n shitting everywhere n not washing their filthy hands. Then have the audacity to try to touch you, your face, your pussy, etc
miss.a.p1600
06-09-2021, 04:58 AM
Why do men be trying to get you to accept inferior treatment than what they gave their ex wives?
Their dumb asses be complaining so much about their exes (ex. “I treated her so good and she did absolutely NOTHING”) whilst simultaneously “bragging” about their past treatment of the broad.
Let them rant n complain about that broad cause Now you can get a calculation of what they were capable n willing to do in the past.
Well let me tell you something dude. You’re NOT going to be slacking with me. I absolutely refuse to allow you to show up as a level down than how you showed up for your exBertha. As a matter of fact you are going to do MORE for me than you did for the ex broad
Marina Starr
06-09-2021, 06:12 AM
The AUDACITY of it all, smh! I hope the dancer told him to fuck off and get a life. If strippers are lowlifes and they have no respect for them, what does it says about them for going to strip clubs? LMAO.
Quiet as it kept, a lot of these low value men don't hate strippers or hoes, they "love" us. They only bitch and complain because they have to pay for what they feel entitled to for free. There's also a deep insecurity that comes from the stigma of how society still views strippers so they feel that reflects badly on them for going to strip clubs. Their insecurity is not for us to take on.
Yes one of them told me how he went to one of the local club's and asked the dancer why she was working there smh. I asked him why he went he said he was bored. He said he had no respect for girls working there. I told him not to judge .
JenniferNorth
06-09-2021, 10:05 AM
Why do men be trying to get you to accept inferior treatment than what they gave their ex wives?
Their dumb asses be complaining so much about their exes (ex. “I treated her so good and she did absolutely NOTHING”) whilst simultaneously “bragging” about their past treatment of the broad.
Let them rant n complain about that broad cause Now you can get a calculation of what they were capable n willing to do in the past.
Well let me tell you something dude. You’re NOT going to be slacking with me. I absolutely refuse to allow you to show up as a level down than how you showed up for your exBertha. As a matter of fact you are going to do MORE for me than you did for the ex broad
Miss P with this whole quote! This is how my husband was with ME when we were first dating talking about his ex!! Bitching about her cause she cheated on him but then saying he loved her and shit(when this was said I was annoyed, but didn't care much at the time) . I was like "I just got divorced, I want some dick". And you know what?? I didn't talk up my ex AT ALL. Talked about how bad the marriage was, how horrible he treated me, but I never talked that MF'er up.
Let them rant and complain-YES! I was always annoyed hearing about this bitch, but it gave me an idea of what was going on/what he would do. Now we have kids (our kids, of course) so I can be like "well, MF'er, you best help me support these children!", but Goddamn, I don't like how they all try to be sneaky and level down.
Don't let him level down for you whatsoever. I am so glad I am not alone in experiencing this shit.
ETA: I know you mentioned how Bertha is constantly making bitchy comments and shit like that, and I feel so bad you have to go through that. I think he might be trying to lock you down with a baby, but I don't know, I could be wrong.
WendiStarr
06-09-2021, 11:52 AM
Men and their lies about how their wife/girlfriend/significant other doesn't give them sex anymore, as a way to justify cheating. In reality, the woman could just be turned off by slaving away constantly and being treated as a doormat, have cancer or some other serious illness, or they could be even having plenty of sex but he's just bored. They never admit that maybe THEY are the problem. My oldest daughter's dad used to watch porn and masturbate, even after we just had sex and he had a visible orgasm. Ugh.
miss.a.p1600
06-09-2021, 12:17 PM
^EXACTLY!!!!
I personally know men that do this.
It's the most f'd up way to rationalize, 'hey we really should break up but instead I'll make you insecure/risk your health n mine/risk breaking up a family in the worst way/betray your trust just so I can go bust some nuts'
Their male privilege prevents them from taking accountability for their actions and their chauvinism glorifies the 'male whore' culture where they are entitled to consequence-free sex for the least amount of effort on their end.
LoveyDovey
06-09-2021, 12:21 PM
Why do men be trying to get you to accept inferior treatment than what they gave their ex wives?
Their dumb asses be complaining so much about their exes (ex. “I treated her so good and she did absolutely NOTHING”) whilst simultaneously “bragging” about their past treatment of the broad.
Let them rant n complain about that broad cause Now you can get a calculation of what they were capable n willing to do in the past.
Well let me tell you something dude. You’re NOT going to be slacking with me. I absolutely refuse to allow you to show up as a level down than how you showed up for your exBertha. As a matter of fact you are going to do MORE for me than you did for the ex broad
Yet another reason why I left my ex. His ex was a narcissist, I am an empath. I deserve the best. I actually did stuff. All she ever did was sit around and bitch.
JenniferNorth
06-09-2021, 01:02 PM
Not appreciating some of the very bait-y threads from blues.
Every time I read about some of these men, I keep wondering if my ex cloned himself or something lol.
Stay strong, ladies. We are survivors.
TheBrownFox
06-09-2021, 01:24 PM
Not appreciating some of the very bait-y threads from blues.
Every time I read about some of these men, I keep wondering if my ex cloned himself or something lol.
Stay strong, ladies. We are survivors.
If it's the thread I think you're talking about, thank you for backing me up! :) Even after I posted, I thought to myself "Now let's see how my post gets received. Is someone gonna quote me and try to act like my feelings are invalid...and I'm just being ridiculous (Which I know is something a lot of men in general like to do)?" Lol.
LoveyDovey
06-09-2021, 01:29 PM
I can't help but lol at how fast this thread is growing.
JenniferNorth
06-09-2021, 03:32 PM
If it's the thread I think you're talking about, thank you for backing me up! :) Even after I posted, I thought to myself "Now let's see how my post gets received. Is someone gonna quote me and try to act like my feelings are invalid...and I'm just being ridiculous (Which I know is something a lot of men in general like to do)?" Lol.
I will always back you up, esp. in a situation like that. To be clear, I am not a white person who likes when other white people whitespalin things to me (so not that hypersuperwoke crowd of white people if that makes sense-I would rather gets thoughts and feelings about a situation that affects POC from POC). But even as a white person, I too, do not like the imagery that was being invoked in that post. I know some of those types of people will go after anyone different-POC, Jewish people, Catholics, and Slavic people/people of Slavic background (me). I also know what it is like to feel scared of situations that could turn shitty quickly (but as a woman, not a race or ethnic background). I can understand how seeing something like that could be scary for someone-as a white bystander, it would bother me, too.
BAH! There is so much I want to say but the bottom line is this: I got your back! Also, are some of those posts REALLY necessary on an f-ing stripper forum???! Maybe just talk about T n A like normal dudes??
Let's see if our comments get quoted proving our theory about the "Ladies Only" section!
JenniferNorth
06-09-2021, 03:33 PM
I can't help but lol at how fast this thread is growing.
Well, all these men can stop being extra shitty, and then we won't have anything to bitch about! Ha!
TheBrownFox
06-09-2021, 06:22 PM
I will always back you up, esp. in a situation like that. To be clear, I am not a white person who likes when other white people whitespalin things to me (so not that hypersuperwoke crowd of white people if that makes sense-I would rather gets thoughts and feelings about a situation that affects POC from POC). But even as a white person, I too, do not like the imagery that was being invoked in that post. I know some of those types of people will go after anyone different-POC, Jewish people, Catholics, and Slavic people/people of Slavic background (me). I also know what it is like to feel scared of situations that could turn shitty quickly (but as a woman, not a race or ethnic background). I can understand how seeing something like that could be scary for someone-as a white bystander, it would bother me, too.
BAH! There is so much I want to say but the bottom line is this: I got your back! Also, are some of those posts REALLY necessary on an f-ing stripper forum???! Maybe just talk about T n A like normal dudes??
Let's see if our comments get quoted proving our theory about the "Ladies Only" section!
Thank you so much! Love ya!
Yes, I definitely feel like some of these Lounge threads are created with the intention of getting people riled up and fighting. Followed by the phony, innocent "Well gee, I didn't mean for my thread to rile people up this much." Lol. Sure ya did.....
Re: Our theory about the LO section...I wonder if that's the reason that R got banned? He "got caught" spying on this LO section? I think our SW profiles pretty much reveal to others what areas of the forum we've "recently visited" or something. Lol.
LoveyDovey
06-09-2021, 09:02 PM
Well, all these men can stop being extra shitty, and then we won't have anything to bitch about! Ha!
Indeed! This is a fact.
Marina Starr
06-10-2021, 06:35 AM
I love when married/taken men think they're real slick by randomly dropping hints that they're married or has a girlfriend. That translates to "hey I'm taken but open...". They think because they're taken that makes them more special and highly desired. These werewolves got their poor wives and girlfriends fooled.
Hoe Anthem:
♬ If a man is married or taken, he's a client ♪
🎼If a man is married or taken, he's a client ♪♬
♬ If a man is married or taken, he's a client 🎼♬
55254
miss.a.p1600
06-10-2021, 07:08 AM
^ahahahahaha
That gif though.......
miss.a.p1600
06-10-2021, 07:17 AM
I love when married/taken men think they're real slick by randomly dropping hints that they're married or has a girlfriend. That translates to "hey I'm taken but open...". They think because they're taken that makes them more special and highly desired. These werewolves got their poor wives and girlfriends fooled.
Hoe Anthem:
♬ If a man is married or taken, he's a client ♪
��If a man is married or taken, he's a client ♪♬
♬ If a man is married or taken, he's a client ��♬
55254
Yes girl......
This one dude I knew was the district manager at a coffee chain and he seduced me into giving him the time of day.
So we're on the phone arranging a possible meetup then he's like 'is there something you want to ask me?'
Me: silence as I rack my brain to figure out wtf he means
Him: repeats the questions
Me: (In my mind) What an idiot, just say whatever tf you mean by this dumb ass, vague ass question. As I finally piece the puzzle of his simpleminded mystery together.
Me: (out loud)....."Uh, do you have a girlfriend or wife or something?"
He then confesses he's married then proceeds to put the pressure on me to accept/proceed
Since I quickly figured he was only good for sex....I politely declined.
I'd rather have something tangible that's going to improve my life (sorry but dick is NOT enough) if I'm going to risk it all for some married thirstbucket dude.
Sad that his wife is getting cheated on by him while she works n takes care of their baby.
And yes these dudes are slick as hell.....If the shit goes down, they WILL make it seem like they informed you they were married yet YOU took the initiative to engage a married man in an attempt to make you look worse than them. Nevermind the fact THEY are they ones who took the marital vows, lied to God/their wife/the pastor/guests.
LoveyDovey
06-10-2021, 07:33 AM
Men and their lies about how their wife/girlfriend/significant other doesn't give them sex anymore, as a way to justify cheating. In reality, the woman could just be turned off by slaving away constantly and being treated as a doormat, have cancer or some other serious illness, or they could be even having plenty of sex but he's just bored. They never admit that maybe THEY are the problem. My oldest daughter's dad used to watch porn and masturbate, even after we just had sex and he had a visible orgasm. Ugh.
Fucking hate men like this. They deserve to lose everything!
Marina Starr
06-10-2021, 07:55 AM
Men lie a lot, so much that they think they're good at it. They do it all the time because they know so many women will eat all their lies up.
A married man is a married man by choice. A man in a relationship is a man in a relationship by choice no matter what he's feeding you.
Married men rarely ever leave their wives. Even if they do leave their wives for you, you are an exception not the rule. If they cheated with you, they will cheat on you.
Think of it this way, if you got a girlfriend sleeping around with a married man or one in a relationship, would you want her around your man? Ray Charles would be able to see the answer miles away. Bless her heart if she's doing it for free while getting a bad rep and nothing to show for.
Yes girl......
This one dude I knew was the district manager at a coffee chain and he seduced me into giving him the time of day.
So we're on the phone arranging a possible meetup then he's like 'is there something you want to ask me?'
Me: silence as I rack my brain to figure out wtf he means
Him: repeats the questions
Me: (In my mind) What an idiot, just say whatever tf you mean by this dumb ass, vague ass question. As I finally piece the puzzle of his simpleminded mystery together.
Me: (out loud)....."Uh, do you have a girlfriend or wife or something?"
He then confesses he's married then proceeds to put the pressure on me to accept/proceed
Since I quickly figured he was only good for sex....I politely declined.
I'd rather have something tangible that's going to improve my life (sorry but dick is NOT enough) if I'm going to risk it all for some married thirstbucket dude.
Sad that his wife is getting cheated on by him while she works n takes care of their baby.
And yes these dudes are slick as hell.....If the shit goes down, they WILL make it seem like they informed you they were married yet YOU took the initiative to engage a married man in an attempt to make you look worse than them. Nevermind the fact THEY are they ones who took the marital vows, lied to God/their wife/the pastor/guests.
JenniferNorth
06-10-2021, 09:20 AM
Some of this BS in the lounge. Just GTFO already.
You don't see us ladies baiting one another.
miss.a.p1600
06-10-2021, 10:16 AM
^He’s lonely n thirsty rn.
I’m going back to ignoring him because reading his long ass essays are wasting my time.
TheBrownFox
06-10-2021, 10:24 AM
Some of this BS in the lounge. Just GTFO already.
You don't see us ladies baiting one another.
For real. So fucking annoying. Imma start calling him Boner Stoner, because you know this excites him. Going back and forth with people, telling them to "Please name their sources" to try to get them to back down. I just wanna shout "Man, GTFO our forum with these dumb ass bait threads, and go stroke that Tic Tac Dick while watching Fox News...Boner Stoner!"
https://media2.giphy.com/media/tMyCJmeXHBetq/giphy.gif
I am so glad the active male posters on ACF don't do this shit (Intentionally starting threads to bait people and cause division).
JenniferNorth
06-10-2021, 10:30 AM
Oh, I know. I have a feeling this is his life (trolling, hanging out on a stripper forum without being part of this industry but not even talking about strippers etc) and that's sad.
kamiliam
06-10-2021, 10:37 AM
Once I figured out for certain that he had no original ideas on anything he writes about and just repeats with no introspection, I lost any desire to debate his empty brain. But yeah just trying to own sws is pathetic. Especially when not capable of doing so like many men who try to peacock. They just go full blast on unrelated topics in order to take us down. They are terrified of their incompetence