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indiegirl
10-01-2021, 10:20 AM
I'm not using cashapp or zelle anymore. I watched how quickly it was for the customer to flat out CANCEL his payment. I am going old school with cash. I'm on day 2 with the guy who I splurged on with the hotel. Where the fuck is my money? I'm patiently waiting one more day but this is it with money apps.

Anyways I'm trying to be positive before this appointment so I play my work persona well. You men jaded me LOL. All those shit eating grins while scamming me even you running out of the vip room through the emergency exit to avoid payment made me change.

I just got a request to PAY a man a dollar to give him my real number....WTF?! Haven't I done enough for you?

Sorry for my breakdowns here. The constant "Can I see your hair outside of your hat, That hotel is in a bad area, Rude Questions, stupid uncovered sex requests, trying to be nice with an expensive room, spritzing the room with aromatherapy spray to be nice, etc. just to stop a mans bitchy needs. I am burnt out obviously with constant STUPID requests! I even rolled that lavendar essential oil from the previous hotel on the pillows to appease the guy who was down to meet and cancelled last minute. FUCK him. I'm going home. My life matters too.

Marina Starr
10-02-2021, 03:58 PM
Someone I knew found her husband's Viagra in their home but he said they're not his. He's just holding them for a friend and there are talks about him meeting someone at the bar. I didn't know men hold Viagra for their friends, lmao.

Men never ever lied. They say women just have trust issues.

lurkingtitties
10-02-2021, 05:47 PM
My ex’s MOM who I’ve never met or spoken to, left me a voicemail today asking me to call her back.

Why??????

My mom called her back 8 hours later from a blocked number and said it would be best if we never spoke again.

indiegirl
10-03-2021, 04:39 PM
https://youtu.be/lv_Yl_wl1w0?t=5

This is literally me when I've gone out with a group of guys to a busy mall playing music in a store or an amusement park and me and a female friend are lost as fuck for our male ride home. HAHAHAHA. Like it seriously was a simple bathroom trip and then they wander off somehow and you can't hear anything on the phone HAHAHA. Losing a friend when it's crammed in a mosh pit is the worst LOL!! Loved this video.

miss.a.p1600
10-04-2021, 08:47 AM
My ex’s MOM who I’ve never met or spoken to, left me a voicemail today asking me to call her back.

Why??????

My mom called her back 8 hours later from a blocked number and said it would be best if we never spoke again.

Probably cause she's an enabler n fixer. Trying to convince you her son is a 'nice guy' and you should get back with him.

That or she was going to say something crazy. Good thing you didn't take the call.

miss.a.p1600
10-04-2021, 08:54 AM
My dude got jealous when I told him a male client recommended I try out this trendy spot for my next celebration. After I said 'oh did Chad say he wanted to take you there?", I realized I probably should have never told him a male client recommended it. It's a really nice spot. Now I have to plan a girls trip there.

Marina Starr
10-04-2021, 11:44 AM
My next door neighbor is a dude in his 60s, he said 'good morning' as I was leaving and I said 'good morning' back just to be courteous because I would prefer him not being outside or say anything at all. I just don't want to be bothered. So for the past 3 days, he's outside when I'm leaving, outside when I come home. Doesn't matter if I'm going and coming 3, 4 times a day. He's there.

Finally I wore my 'it's a beautiful day to leave me alone' hat and that shit suddenly stopped. That just confirmed what I already knew and picked up on, it was premeditated, it was no coincidence at all. Not all men are creepy but holy fuck, can women exist without being sexualized or men thinking we want to fuck just because they find us sexually appealing?!

Luci Fer
10-04-2021, 11:58 AM
Men think being married makes them more desirable. They love to throw around the 'I'm a married man....'. Yeah, AND? I'm a WORKING girl!
The surplus of married men are astronomical so that doesn't make them special. #hushmoney #workinghoe

Ahh THAAAAT's why they say it! fuck, and I was giving them some really stupid face to that hahahaha
Always thought men love to be single because 'chase and try to own me, ladies!'

Marina Starr
10-04-2021, 12:07 PM
Men love to have their cake and eat it too. Even if you are not a WORKING girl, if a married/taken man cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. It's not a matter of if, it's WHEN. Married men rarely if ever leave their wives for mistresses. They have too much too lose.


Ahh THAAAAT's why they say it! fuck, and I was giving them some really stupid face to that hahahaha
Always thought men love to be single because 'chase and try to own me, ladies!'

Luci Fer
10-04-2021, 12:15 PM
Men love to have their cake and eat it too. Even if you are not a WORKING girl, if a married/taken man cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. It's not a matter of if, it's WHEN. Married men rarely if ever leave their wives for mistresses. They have too much too lose.

oh that's for sure! And most of them are deeply afraid of women drama lol
They might also clarify it because it puts the responsibility on a woman. Kind of: 'I warned you I was married, baby, but you didnot seem to care''

miss.a.p1600
10-04-2021, 12:58 PM
Men love to have their cake and eat it too. Even if you are not a WORKING girl, if a married/taken man cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. It's not a matter of if, it's WHEN. Married men rarely if ever leave their wives for mistresses. They have too much too lose.


My cousins ex kept a mistress while he was married. When HE filed for divorce guess whose arms he ran into?

Another random broad.

TheBrownFox
10-06-2021, 04:41 PM
Every time I hear "You may meet a man one day, and HE may want children," (Well he'd better grow a uterus then...foh!), it's from a married woman who knows nothing about what it's like to be a single mother. Lol. And I'm not falling for that "He wants a baby" trap. Well I want to have mindblowing sex with Danny Pino, but we can't always get what we want.....

I wonder how many women have fallen for that trap (Thinking "Well this time around I won't be a single mother...it's gonna be wonderful...we're gonna be a faaamily!!!") only to wind up unexpectedly becoming a single mother again...or just having the dude barely do shit to support his child/spend quality time with that child he swore up and down he wanted. FOH if you think I'm gonna put that kind of trust and faith into a man, and be making life-altering decisions like that based on what some dude CLAIMS he want. When I would browse dating profiles and I'd see that they have "I have children, and want more" selected, in my mind I'd be making all kinds of smartass remarks. Lmfao.

xxxGothBarbie
10-07-2021, 09:59 AM
Every time I hear "You may meet a man one day, and HE may want children," (Well he'd better grow a uterus then...foh!), it's from a married woman who knows nothing about what it's like to be a single mother. Lol. And I'm not falling for that "He wants a baby" trap. Well I want to have mindblowing sex with Danny Pino, but we can't always get what we want.....

I wonder how many women have fallen for that trap (Thinking "Well this time around I won't be a single mother...it's gonna be wonderful...we're gonna be a faaamily!!!") only to wind up unexpectedly becoming a single mother again...or just having the dude barely do shit to support his child/spend quality time with that child he swore up and down he wanted. FOH if you think I'm gonna be that kind of trust and faith into a man, and be making life-altering decisions like that based on what some dude CLAIMS he want. When I would browse dating profiles and I'd see that they have "I have children, and want more" selected, in my mind I'd be making all kinds of smartass remarks. Lmfao.

Girl preach!!!! :) This is why I don't want kids & I always look for guys that also don't want them bc it sounds waaaay too complicated ugh.

WendiStarr
10-07-2021, 06:44 PM
^^ I'm convinced that no man ever really wants a baby. It's just something they say because they want to blow their load inside of a vagina, unprotected. They seem to not think of the consequences. Every time I've met a man who said he wanted a baby, once he found out I was pregnant, they want to talk about how I ruined their life and need to get an abortion. They'll fake cry with no tears, begging when they knowingly had lots of unprotected sex with me when I was on fertility drugs. Once I pop this current baby out, I'm getting my tubes tied or a damn hysterectomy. Men are dumb as hell. I wish more men actually had the capacity to be a good parent and not just impregnate and run. Then the same men do the same crap to multiple women, creating a bunch of fatherless kids. There's too many deadbeat dads and shitty dads.

indiegirl
10-07-2021, 07:05 PM
^^ I'm convinced that no man ever really wants a baby. It's just something they say because they want to blow their load inside of a vagina, unprotected. They seem to not think of the consequences. Every time I've met a man who said he wanted a baby, once he found out I was pregnant, they want to talk about how I ruined their life and need to get an abortion. They'll fake cry with no tears, begging when they knowingly had lots of unprotected sex with me when I was on fertility drugs. Once I pop this current baby out, I'm getting my tubes tied or a damn hysterectomy. Men are dumb as hell. I wish more men actually had the capacity to be a good parent and not just impregnate and run. Then the same men do the same crap to multiple women, creating a bunch of fatherless kids. There's too many deadbeat dads and shitty dads.

One man "I want to do it the old fashioned way" When you bring up baby alone with chosen sperm donor at a clinic
Another: "Let's get you a baby" Wanting to dine and dash
Yet Another: *Shocked* "You want to have a baby alone?"

Yessss. You just want some bare sex because it feels better for you, men. I don't want to be tied to a man who is toxic later on and co-parent.

miss.a.p1600
10-08-2021, 01:18 AM
^^ I'm convinced that no man ever really wants a baby. It's just something they say because they want to blow their load inside of a vagina, unprotected. They seem to not think of the consequences. Every time I've met a man who said he wanted a baby, once he found out I was pregnant, they want to talk about how I ruined their life and need to get an abortion. They'll fake cry with no tears, begging when they knowingly had lots of unprotected sex with me when I was on fertility drugs. Once I pop this current baby out, I'm getting my tubes tied or a damn hysterectomy. Men are dumb as hell. I wish more men actually had the capacity to be a good parent and not just impregnate and run. Then the same men do the same crap to multiple women, creating a bunch of fatherless kids. There's too many deadbeat dads and shitty dads.

those are the narcissistic men with sex addictions n pregnancy fetish

Marina Starr
10-08-2021, 07:15 AM
I love toxic men. They are successful, lead conservative lives, very clean cut, make good money. Oftentimes married to vanilla trophy wives that aren't making their dicks twitch as hoes do.

They love hoes when they're horny but hate us when they're done and their guilty conscience kicks in.
There can never be a loving, meaningful relationship with them. The best and only way is to CHARGE!

moneybags
10-08-2021, 08:45 AM
Men forcing conversation in an elevator!!! I’ve had so many traumatic experiences with male neighbors, I just want to be left ALONE! The good thing about the pandemic is it’s socially acceptable to wear a mask, so I wear them everywhere now. If headphones and a mask don’t get the point across, I don’t know what will!

carmen_b
10-08-2021, 11:35 AM
^ Ha, I thought “ headphones “ but see you already tried it !!

Marina Starr
10-08-2021, 01:44 PM
Nothing will. I even wear my favorite hat whenever I leave the house 'it's a beautiful day to leave me alone', full bitch resting face on display, unapproachable energy and vibes and still get hit on daily.

Don't hesitate to tell them you're not in the mood for conversations because they sure don't get the hints nor wanted to. I've talked about this many times but when men find you sexually appealing, they assume you want them too or you're promiscuous. You've told me you're hot so that doesn't help either, lol. I totally get it, we just want to be left the fuck alone!



Men forcing conversation in an elevator!!! I’ve had so many traumatic experiences with male neighbors, I just want to be left ALONE! The good thing about the pandemic is it’s socially acceptable to wear a mask, so I wear them everywhere now. If headphones and a mask don’t get the point across, I don’t know what will!

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-08-2021, 01:50 PM
85% of women have been assaulted at some point in their lives. That number is sad and chilling.

https://i.ibb.co/LP3Xt1Z/tumblr-5eddb5629510b0d496fad0c005a868f9-65d6a74f-500.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

That doesn't surprise me though. To this day I still have people disbelieve me when I mention I've been roofied twice in my life, and have been sexually harrassed more at day jobs than when I worked as an escort. Seriously.

Women are still second class citizens in many ways, sorry to say!

Marina Starr
10-08-2021, 02:05 PM
I'm so sorry you've had to experience that. You know what the truth is even when no one believes it and that's something that nobody can take from you.

It doesn't surprise me one bit that people think we get sexually harassed more because we do sex work. What they failed to see is sex work teaches us to stand up for ourselves and take no shit. Men harassed women who they think are vulnerable and easy targets. We aren't afraid to tell them to go fuck themselves!


That doesn't surprise me though. To this day I still have people disbelieve me when I mention I've been roofied twice in my life, and have been sexually harrassed more at day jobs than when I worked as an escort. Seriously.

Women are still second class citizens in many ways, sorry to say!

indiegirl
10-10-2021, 05:04 PM
Nothing will. I even wear my favorite hat whenever I leave the house 'it's a beautiful day to leave me alone', full bitch resting face on display, unapproachable energy and vibes and still get hit on daily.

Don't hesitate to tell them you're not in the mood for conversations because they sure don't get the hints nor wanted to. I've talked about this many times but when men find you sexually appealing, they assume you want them too or you're promiscuous. You've told me you're hot so that doesn't help either, lol. I totally get it, we just want to be left the fuck alone!

Yep I've been followed in the airport (some guys literally just gawk and it's not a glance) or just recently I was eyed down like prey checking into the hotel. I kept looking back at him scared I wasn't leaving the hotel or if he saw my ad by the level of staring. I've even changed elevator floor levels once because of this situation before to throw him off to make sure he wasn't calling my room or knocking on my door while we were stuck in the elevator together. He was on the same floor. GROSS.

ravenskyy
10-10-2021, 08:44 PM
I resent my husband. He's been going downhill, mentally and emotionally, for our entire relationship. We got ourselves in a better place financially, and he just threw it all away. Cut his income in half, right after we enrolled both our kids in an expensive ass daycare, full time. My daycare expenses are more than my rent. I stopped camming to work a vanilla job, so that I can improve mental health. It's been working but I don't make enough money. I'm on antidepressants, but I have bipolar depression, so I need mood stabilizers. The medication I have is alright for now, but now my mental and emotional health is going to hell because I'm constantly stressed over our finances. He doesn't even care. He doesn't even notice. He doesn't ask about money or bills. He thinks everything is fine, when it's not. I don't want to go back to camming because it has ruined my mental health, so I'm looking for a second job. I've told him this and he doesn't act like he cares. He's perfectly fine with me working myself into the ground, while he works from home, sits around the house, doesn't cook, barely cleans, and gets more and more overweight. We've both gained weight, me due to 2 pregnancies and him due to depression. I have always been attracted to him. I don't think I am anymore. I look at home now and it pisses me off. He's a selfish, lazy, lying asshole.

He tells me that he loves me but he won't help me in this relationship. That's not love. I feel like I adopted his ass. I'm only still here because of my boys and my husbands family. I know that if I left him, it would break his family's heart. His grandparents are very old and in declining health. I love them. They love me. They have practically adopted me. I'm so lost. I've dug this enormous hole for myself. I wish that I could just bury myself in it. If I divorced him, I'd be the villain in this situation. I know that I'm not perfect, but I've been trying so hard to make things work. Sometimes, I think about what I'd do if I lost him. It's almost a fantasy now. It doesn't make me sad. But I would be sad for my babies. I don't want them to grow up in a broken home. I want them to have mommy and daddy. I want our family to be whole. I don't even care about myself most days, I just want them to be happy. I've been taking our oldest out every weekend. We go to the store and have a little "mommy and me" time. I love it! For once, I feel like I'm getting the hang of this whole "mom" thing lol I feel like an awkward ass parent. Like more of a big sister than a mom. The medication is definitely helping. I feel like I'm more patient with him too. He's 3, so he's a bit of a butt sometimes. I don't want to take this happiness away from him. But sometimes, I just want to pack some bags, take the kids and the cats, and run away.

I don't want a divorce but my heart is broken. I miss the person that I married, but I don't think he'll ever be that person again.

LoveyD
10-11-2021, 12:37 PM
I fucking knew it.

Mechanic who waived some fees on my car inspection is now asking me out for lunch. How do I let him down nicely?

Dear mechanic friend,

I am flattered that you found my homeless ass attractive, but...no?

He is being kind and helpful but of course now I am wondering if it's the nice guy manipulation shit I was worried about.

xxxGothBarbie
10-11-2021, 12:46 PM
I'm annoyed AF that boytoy doesn't seem to want to really try to move out of his mom's apt ugh. I hate going there to see him only to have to deal with her & then worry about the 1 bathroom being occupied by 3 other ppl. He doesn't make enough $ to move out actually i have no idea how much he makes every week but his mom is charging him rent & makes him pay her back when he borrows from her. I feel like maybe you shouldn't allow your mom to walk all ocer you dude????

Marina Starr
10-11-2021, 02:16 PM
"kind" and "helpful" do not always mean goodness. You don't have to wonder, whatever you feel and picked up on is more than enough. Sometimes we try to decode men and what they mean but their actions speak volume.

I would simply say 'thanks but no thanks'. You don't owe him an explanation as to why you say no. How he responds will tell you all you need to know.
Men show us their true demeanor when they don't get what they want. That would only reassure that saying no was the right thing all along.


I fucking knew it.

Mechanic who waived some fees on my car inspection is now asking me out for lunch. How do I let him down nicely?

Dear mechanic friend,

I am flattered that you found my homeless ass attractive, but...no?

He is being kind and helpful but of course now I am wondering if it's the nice guy manipulation shit I was worried about.

Marina Starr
10-11-2021, 02:22 PM
He hasn't been out in over a week and it sure feels so fucking good. All the feels you get from men leaving you the fuck alone is indescribable!
Men are always cooking up something when they take breaks from being creepy. Always persistently trolling for pussy!



My next door neighbor is a dude in his 60s, he said 'good morning' as I was leaving and I said 'good morning' back just to be courteous because I would prefer him not being outside or say anything at all. I just don't want to be bothered. So for the past 3 days, he's outside when I'm leaving, outside when I come home. Doesn't matter if I'm going and coming 3, 4 times a day. He's there.

Finally I wore my 'it's a beautiful day to leave me alone' hat and that shit suddenly stopped. That just confirmed what I already knew and picked up on, it was premeditated, it was no coincidence at all. Not all men are creepy but holy fuck, can women exist without being sexualized or men thinking we want to fuck just because they find us sexually appealing?!

whirlerz
10-11-2021, 02:38 PM
Ravensky:

Happy to see you, sad for your sitch, is it at all possible to get you both in counseling?

I hope you can work it out, if that's what you want..

Take care, & hugs!

Luci Fer
10-11-2021, 02:43 PM
Ravensky:

Happy to see you, sad for your sitch, is it at all possible to get you both in counseling?

I hope you can work it out, if that's what you want..

Take care, & hugs!

I just wanted to say something too, to that crystally sincere post, but you did it so much better, I just had no words. Hugs for you, Ravensky.

LoveyD
10-11-2021, 02:55 PM
"kind" and "helpful" do not always mean goodness. You don't have to wonder, whatever you feel and picked up on is more than enough. Sometimes we try to decode men and what they mean but their actions speak volume.

I would simply say 'thanks but no thanks'. You don't owe him an explanation as to why you say no. How he responds will tell you all you need to know.
Men show us their true demeanor when they don't get what they want. That would only reassure that saying no was the right thing all along.

I let him down nicely and he was understanding and cool about it.

I am talking to my boyfriend again and it feels good. Happy my guy came back for me and wished me a Happy Bday.

ravenskyy
10-11-2021, 07:12 PM
Thank you whirlerz and Luci Fer! :lovestruc
I appreciate the support and kindness.

I was definitely feeling down last night. I know part of my emotional and mental ups and downs are due to my depression. Today I came home from work and the evening was great. I was in high spirits, the kids were happy, my husband was in a good mood. It was nice, but it unfortunately does not last. Therapy and marriage counseling are definitely needed. I'm just worried that he won't make the effort. He hasn't been trying to get better, so I'm worried that it will be a waste of time and money.

Ugh. I definitely don't want to be divorced, trying to date at 29 with 4 kids. I'm overweight, have anxiety and I'm awkward as hell. When I'm thinking about leaving him, I can't help but think about the good things. He never makes me feel weird or awkward. He calls my quirks and silliness, cute. He won't let me say I'm fat without telling me I'm not and complimenting me. He compliments me without me asking for it. Sex is incredible and he's the best that I've ever had. We have so much fun together, we can be lazy together, he let's me be myself.

But omg, I still find reasons to resent him. How can someone be so amazing and yet so strangle worthy??? :banghead:

LoveyD
10-11-2021, 08:13 PM
^^I hope you guys are able to work it out in therapy. If he is willing to put in the effort, then that is a good sign. If he is not, then that is a red flag.

Take good care of yourself and give yourself extra pampering.

chanzep
10-14-2021, 08:02 AM
stupid man calling me at work asking what background noise is. my place is silent told him he must be hearing things.smh

miss.a.p1600
10-14-2021, 06:11 PM
I hate how men literally expect sex.

whirlerz
10-14-2021, 06:17 PM
I hate how men literally expect sex.

Ha!
I was talking /text w/a former roomie til he started pushing his, 'agenda' ::)

FOH, toothless ol'man w/no car/license. Riiight::)

whirlerz
10-14-2021, 06:29 PM
My crush's done working on our sink, I texted him ty but he probably passed out lol, he works long hours. I so wanted to tell him to stop lending his truck to the B upstairs, he got really fucked up doing that previously.. Also he gets pissed when I give him advice anyway..

This one joker, he just got back from a 2 month trip, he's been in his room sleeping for 2 days, which means he's back on crack. I'm alone in the house w/him, during the day:yikes:.

Marina Starr
10-15-2021, 01:17 PM
You just know this? LOL

Men have been expecting sex as long as Jesus's been around. That's why pussy always sells.


I hate how men literally expect sex.

GlamLifter
10-15-2021, 02:21 PM
I hate how men literally expect sex.
It’s in their nature...

Marina Starr
10-15-2021, 03:41 PM
I want to make it very clear that I have no problem with men expecting sex as I expected to be paid. Communication will be made clear.
If a man expects me to open my legs, I expect him to open his wallet. Doesn't matter if he's single, married or taken, right here at home or abroad. Same principle applies

If you're a vanilla hoe/non-pro that would be okay with putting it out for a happy meals from McDonald's or a burrito bowl from Chipotle's, that's okay too.

Now if you're a professional Hoe, that wants to pay it forward and donate some pussy to your community, that's perfectly okay too.

It's whatever makes you happy!

miss.a.p1600
10-16-2021, 07:10 AM
I hate how men complain about their exes.

Luci Fer
10-16-2021, 08:04 AM
Thank you whirlerz and Luci Fer! :lovestruc
I appreciate the support and kindness.

I was definitely feeling down last night. I know part of my emotional and mental ups and downs are due to my depression. Today I came home from work and the evening was great. I was in high spirits, the kids were happy, my husband was in a good mood. It was nice, but it unfortunately does not last. Therapy and marriage counseling are definitely needed. I'm just worried that he won't make the effort. He hasn't been trying to get better, so I'm worried that it will be a waste of time and money.

Ugh. I definitely don't want to be divorced, trying to date at 29 with 4 kids. I'm overweight, have anxiety and I'm awkward as hell. When I'm thinking about leaving him, I can't help but think about the good things. He never makes me feel weird or awkward. He calls my quirks and silliness, cute. He won't let me say I'm fat without telling me I'm not and complimenting me. He compliments me without me asking for it. Sex is incredible and he's the best that I've ever had. We have so much fun together, we can be lazy together, he let's me be myself.

But omg, I still find reasons to resent him. How can someone be so amazing and yet so strangle worthy??? :banghead:

Hey, it looks like you both click well. And it happens, sometimes I feel the same about my closest friends. So grateful they take me as I am but sometimes I just can't fucking stand them. Maybe you could start with small things? I mean, you mentioned he works from home, but doesn't do cooking or cleaning- so ask him about at least 1 of these things? I suggest it because he might not even have the idea of it. For example, I am like that. I can miss some things,and when I 'm told, I am always like: 'oh damn, sure I'll do it, no problem!' I believe communication is the best way to solve it. Untold things ruin good relationships, it's unfair.

indiegirl
10-17-2021, 11:00 AM
mother *clap* fucker *clap* led me on to think that he was showing up and gave me radio silence last minute after I paid 25 bucks for late checkout for him. I was even very accommodating with screening. Now I'm here trying to frantically find a replacement for his spot. I ordered sushi last night so I'm at like 50 dollars loss. ROAR! lol. I gotta get out of this hotel soon before I get charged for flat out sitting here for nobody. At least I made 1000. It was supposed to be more but I wasn't in the mood to be fucking around at 5am today.

You can't rely on men for anything. He didn't even bother to check my price and just looked at my photos.

Every single time a man says "I'm a visual person" in normal life I just want to smack them. So am I but that is not a person's sole purpose....to be arm candy for YOU.

Aurora_Sunset
10-17-2021, 02:24 PM
Funny memory that popped up today: four years ago, I worked a haunted house and took a black-and-white, creepy selfie of me screaming in my full makeup. I made it my facebook profile picture, because it was cool, and Halloween obviously.

The guy I was kinda-sorta seeing at the time literally harassed me to take it down, because he said it was too creepy, and he didn't like the way I looked. I laughed at him, and he eventually REFUSED to facebook chat me with me until I took it down a few days later, because he said he couldn't stand to look at it.

Gawd, what a pussy idiot. I still remember laughing my ass off at him and him insisting "it wasn't funny." LMFAO

TheBrownFox
10-17-2021, 10:10 PM
I really hate the term "friend zone" with a passion. That term is used by men who are butthurt that their female "friend" of X years won't give them some pussy. You aren't entitled to sex with her just because you've known her for years, or you "let her cry on your shoulder about other guys." You had ulterior motives then, and that's your problem. She don't owe you shit. And her NOT being into you DOES NOT make her a bitch. So stop whining to people about it, looking for sympathy. Then of course they whine on social media, and their lil' friends and family members are all "Well she's a fool" or "Well she doesn't deserve you then." Lol. What? Y'all aren't comforting a dude who got cheated on. Y'all are ass-kissing a man who's salty that he didn't get pussy from the female "friend" that he gave a ride home. LOL.

She doesn't wanna have sex with your reptile-looking ass... :rotfl: GET OVER IT.

And Ginuwine had that dumbass song called "You Owe Me" back in the late-90s. Lmfao. Where he's telling a woman "Now let's say you owe...me something..." *Eye roll* Boy, stop. You ain't helping matters any. LOL.

Luci Fer
10-17-2021, 10:43 PM
I really hate the term "friend zone" with a passion. That term is used by men who are butthurt that their female "friend" of X years won't give them some pussy. You aren't entitled to sex with her just because you've known her for years, or you "let her cry on your shoulder about other guys." You had ulterior motives then, and that's your problem. She don't owe you shit. And her NOT being into you DOES NOT make her a bitch. So stop whining to people about it, looking for sympathy. Then of course they whine on social media, and their lil' friends and family members are all "Well she's a fool" or "Well she doesn't deserve you then." Lol. What? Y'all aren't comforting a dude who got cheated on. Y'all are ass-kissing a man who's salty that he didn't get pussy from the female "friend" that he gave a ride home. LOL.

She doesn't wanna have sex with your reptile-looking ass... :rotfl: GET OVER IT.

And Ginuwine had that dumbass song called "You Owe Me" back in the late-90s. Lmfao. Where he's telling a woman "Now let's say you owe...me something..." *Eye roll* Boy, stop. You ain't helping matters any. LOL.

I just laughed out loud at 'reptile-looking ass' hahahahah
Not many men have nice asses btw. They are so rare, but if you meet one it's brilliant. ;D
I dislike 'friend zone' too. One dude even told me there were no such thing as a friendship between male and female. Well alright,mister, then why I have more male friends than girls? Oh probably ALL of them might wanna fuck me! lol I am such a fucking seductress with an expanded friend zone. ;D

Marina Starr
10-20-2021, 06:50 AM
I've bitched about this but I have to again.

I just can't express how angry I get when men feel the need to sit in front of me be it at Starbucks, public space etc when there are so many empty seats and tables available. I'm not trying to understand this fuckery. If they're gonna sit close to me I feel entitled that they do not face me because I don't want to be stared or looked at especially early morning when I'm trying to feel peace in my own space before I start my day. I can't help how I feel so it's therapeutic when I can accept how I feel.

When this shit happens I always have to remove myself and move to a different table immediately because I can feel my rage coming.
I also dislike when I bitch about it, I get told because I'm pretty, beautiful, sexy etc. I don't give a fuck about all that
How I look should not negate how I feel.

carmen_b
10-20-2021, 08:40 AM
^ Right ...... quit calling it friend zone and just call it " She never will want to fuck you " hahahah.
It's more clear v.s. a bubble you can just move out of ( and are waiting to pounce at the opportunity )!

LoveyD
10-20-2021, 09:54 AM
I've bitched about this but I have to again.

I just can't express how angry I get when men feel the need to sit in front of me be it at Starbucks, public space etc when there are so many empty seats and tables available. I'm not trying to understand this fuckery. If they're gonna sit close to me I feel entitled that they do not face me because I don't want to be stared or looked at especially early morning when I'm trying to feel peace in my own space before I start my day. I can't help how I feel so it's therapeutic when I can accept how I feel.

When this shit happens I always have to remove myself and move to a different table immediately because I can feel my rage coming.
I also dislike when I bitch about it, I get told because I'm pretty, beautiful, sexy etc. I don't give a fuck about all that
How I look should not negate how I feel.

I can relate. I get this way with parking spots. The whole lot will be empty, but motherfuckers wind up parking RIGHT NEXT TO ME. Then I let out a heavy sigh and find a new spot. So annoying!

Marina Starr
10-20-2021, 10:05 AM
Omg, don't get me started on parking spots and empty seats at the movies, lol.

I could totally relate to you enjoying your quiet time away from people in your car where you should feel at ease especially being homeless then out of nowhere you feel like you're at the fucking zoo.


I can relate. I get this way with parking spots. The whole lot will be empty, but motherfuckers wind up parking RIGHT NEXT TO ME. Then I let out a heavy sigh and find a new spot. So annoying!