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Marina Starr
10-28-2021, 06:05 AM
Suddenly I'm craving bananas. These are the closet thing I can ever have to the real thing.
https://i.ibb.co/WVk39q9/20211028-090009.jpg (https://ibb.co/Z2BJsts)
whirlerz
10-28-2021, 09:22 AM
Tell him to have complete trust in Pfizer. They created Viagra after all. I tell old dudes who are vaccines hesitant that their dick can't stay hard if they're dead.
On a random note, normalize asking people if they're fully vaccinated. No, that doesn't violate HIPPA. It's no difference than asking have you had the flu shot? Measles, polio vaccines, etc.
LOL, we're platonic, I don't mention anything sexual.
Also, he's Aspergers.
I told him I wasn't meeting today, & he was pressing me for the weekend, which I don't want, he just doesn't get shit, he's stubborn, (he does the same things even if they don't work) well so am I about my health.
He complained about his extended stay, I told him to rent a room on Craigslist, but since he doesn't have a smart phone & won't get one, it's beside the point.
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2021, 11:08 AM
Suddenly I'm craving bananas. These are the closet thing I can ever have to the real thing.
https://i.ibb.co/WVk39q9/20211028-090009.jpg (https://ibb.co/Z2BJsts)
Idk why I find this hilarious
Marina Starr
10-28-2021, 11:20 AM
Oh girl, I can never contain my laughter when I pick bananas at the store. I always laugh hysterically right there and then. #chiquitadick
Idk why I find this hilarious
TheBrownFox
10-28-2021, 11:59 AM
Oh girl, I can never contain my laughter when I pick bananas at the store. I always laugh hysterically right there and then. #chiquitadick
I grin when I walk by the eggplants in the store, because I think of the eggplant emoji (which supposedly represents a cock). And then I'm like wtf because those eggplants are HUGE. Lol. A sausage should be the symbol for cock. LOL.
WendiStarr
10-28-2021, 12:15 PM
A gross cam guy who wanted to know if my unborn baby is a girl or boy. I joked with him and said that maybe it's one of each. He took things to a disturbing level by saying that if he ever had a daughter he would fuck her. *Barf*
chanzep
10-28-2021, 05:03 PM
Ugh Wendi he's a disgusting pig. Sorry you had to deal.with him.
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2021, 06:11 PM
Oh girl, I can never contain my laughter when I pick bananas at the store. I always laugh hysterically right there and then. #chiquitadick
Or some fat cucumbers lol!!
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2021, 06:12 PM
Men n their willful ignorance.
Of course when it benefits them
#maleprivilege
Luci Fer
10-28-2021, 07:46 PM
LOL, we're platonic, I don't mention anything sexual.
Also, he's Aspergers.
I told him I wasn't meeting today, & he was pressing me for the weekend, which I don't want, he just doesn't get shit, he's stubborn, (he does the same things even if they don't work) well so am I about my health.
He complained about his extended stay, I told him to rent a room on Craigslist, but since he doesn't have a smart phone & won't get one, it's beside the point.
ugh, I get you, and I get him. It's hard to do it if you feel okay. But, if you re vaxxed, doesn't it mean you are protected and can communicate with people around you without any worries?
AChildOfBoredom
10-28-2021, 08:40 PM
Last week, the biggest pig from “the other side” of the shop was fired. The reasons were many, but sexual harassment was among them. Even though we work for different companies, he was problematic for us as well. When he found out the other woman on our side of the shop was married to another woman, he said she was “a waste of pussy” and has made numerous off color comments about her, me, the one woman who worked on that side of the shop (and who ultimately ended up quitting largely because of him), the women who work upstairs, etc. He finally got shitcanned. I don’t think it’s going to change anything with him… if anything, he’ll probably become worse. There really aren’t that many places in this trade where someone like him will be put in check for the things he says and does.
Luci Fer
10-28-2021, 09:32 PM
Last week, the biggest pig from “the other side” of the shop was fired. The reasons were many, but sexual harassment was among them. Even though we work for different companies, he was problematic for us as well. When he found out the other woman on our side of the shop was married to another woman, he said she was “a waste of pussy” and has made numerous off color comments about her, me, the one woman who worked on that side of the shop (and who ultimately ended up quitting largely because of him), the women who work upstairs, etc. He finally got shitcanned. I don’t think it’s going to change anything with him… if anything, he’ll probably become worse. There really aren’t that many places in this trade where someone like him will be put in check for the things he says and does.
I am so glad that people don't ignore when this happens. That they consider such things enough to fire a person.
Marina Starr
10-29-2021, 08:51 AM
Spoke to my Therapist about men hitting on women, sexualizing and objectifying and can that possible be stopped.
She said that's not possible through no fault of our own. Women that are beautiful will get more of it but we can only control how we react to it. This morning at Starbucks I was put to the test by what I've been working on in therapy when two dudes have the audacity to sit in front of me. I know what can transpire so I got up and turn my back toward them and in that instance, I feel peace and at ease.
I felt so proud of myself that I was able to pass the test in that moment and didn't become wrathful and let my rage get the best of me.
I'm not 100% where I want to be but I believe in better and celebrate small wins.
moneybags
10-29-2021, 12:21 PM
I was working out at the gym, and this guy walked by and said, “I’m so horny” Then go hire a sex worker. I’m working out. Leave me alone!
I’m proud of myself I use to be afraid to go to the gym because of being hit on, but now I’m like fuck you. It doesn’t matter what I wear or not. I just do what makes me happy and fuck what people think. There’s no winning. People will always judge. It’ll always be the woman’s fault, so might as well do me. I use to be afraid to wear make up and look nice it public because I hate men paying attention to me, but it didn’t stop men from harrassing me. So now I’ll wear make up and sexy clothes-not slutty, classy and chic, and let the chips fall where they may. I’m not playing small anymore, or letting fear control me.
neverendingkneebruises
10-29-2021, 12:38 PM
So sick and tired of "size doesn't matter" pick mes. Size absolutely matters for me as well as how he uses it. My ideal dick is at least 7 inches (but preferably 8in) and girthy. I came for the first time ever during penetrative sex and I'm never going back!!
Men are so open & vocal about their sexual preferences that they affect our society. So imma be vocal about mine too. Having a small dick is a dealbreaker for me from now on
Marina Starr
10-29-2021, 01:19 PM
Rooting for you! I've been celibate for years but if I ever wanted dick, it would have to be 7 or 8 girthy. Every inch matters.
The more vocal we are about what we want and demand that our needs and desires met, the less women have to put up with men's bullshit and entitlement.
So sick and tired of "size doesn't matter" pick mes. Size absolutely matters for me as well as how he uses it. My ideal dick is at least 7 inches (but preferably 8in) and girthy. I came for the first time ever during penetrative sex and I'm never going back!!
Men are so open & vocal about their sexual preferences that they affect our society. So imma be vocal about mine too. Having a small dick is a dealbreaker for me from now on
Marina Starr
10-29-2021, 01:26 PM
That's so gross!
Fuck people, their opinions/judgement don't pay our bills. Totally with you on no matter how you dress, you will still get hit on. I can dress like a hotmess hoe and still have to fight dicks off of me. Only Hot bitches know that it does not matter how they dress.
I also always have a full face of hoe make up. It makes me happy and I only live for me.
I was working out at the gym, and this guy walked by and said, “I’m so horny” Then go hire a sex worker. I’m working out. Leave me alone!
I’m proud of myself I use to be afraid to go to the gym because of being hit on, but now I’m like fuck you. It doesn’t matter what I wear or not. I just do what makes me happy and fuck what people think. There’s no winning. People will always judge. It’ll always be the woman’s fault, so might as well do me. I use to be afraid to wear make up and look nice it public because I hate men paying attention to me, but it didn’t stop men from harrassing me. So now I’ll wear make up and sexy clothes-not slutty, classy and chic, and let the chips fall where they may. I’m not playing small anymore, or letting fear control me.
LoveyD
10-29-2021, 02:37 PM
Guys don't care if you're not showered or wearing clothes that you've had on for 3 days. They'll still hit on you.
Ugh leave us ALONE!
miss.a.p1600
10-30-2021, 04:51 AM
Rooting for you! I've been celibate for years but if I ever wanted dick, it would have to be 7 or 8 girthy. Every inch matters.
The more vocal we are about what we want and demand that our needs and desires met, the less women have to put up with men's bullshit and entitlement.
Very true! I learned this from adult industry work.
Asshole men just come out the gate expecting sex or sexual favors.
Um you’re going to have to make it worth my while. So anytime they fast forward to sex I fast forward to my wants - which requires money lol!
that’s what their dumb entitled asses get!
My dude is learning a hard lesson rn…….you are NOT entitled to sex, pussy will go on silent strike at anytime she is not appreciated/valued/etc
LoveyD
10-30-2021, 04:57 AM
[/B]My dude is learning a hard lesson rn…….you are NOT entitled to sex, pussy will go on silent strike at anytime she is not appreciated/valued/etc
This is why I walked away from my guy. If you're going to display any behavior indicating that I'm not important to you, then no pussy. Show me that I am a priority and then we'll talk.
WendiStarr
10-30-2021, 09:49 AM
Guys don't care if you're not showered or wearing clothes that you've had on for 3 days. They'll still hit on you.
Ugh leave us ALONE!
True! I'm very obviously knocked up and they still flirt with me too.
indiegirl
10-30-2021, 10:15 AM
I haven't gotten hit on or bothered in a while running errands because I stay home most of the time or work....minus the grocery guy yesterday who has tried to hit on me for years. I purposely avoided his aisle seeing him there thinking "Fuck, he's now cashier"...So I quickly rushed past his lane but he saw me and found an excuse to grab one of those hand carts you carry as an excuse to talk to me and leave his lane.
Him: I haven't seen you in a while. Where have you been?
Me in my head: I know. Thank god for instacart!!
I'd rush down the aisles trying to avoid him sweeping or approaching me to say hi or ask me questions. He's quick with that mop thing. I'd pick a lane where he wasn't at on purpose and sure enough homeboy volunteered to bag my stuff in my lane in the past. OH LORD!
neverendingkneebruises
10-30-2021, 01:28 PM
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Very true! I learned this from adult industry work.
Asshole men just come out the gate expecting sex or sexual favors.
Um you’re going to have to make it worth my while. So anytime they fast forward to sex I fast forward to my wants - which requires money lol!
that’s what their dumb entitled asses get!
My dude is learning a hard lesson rn…….you are NOT entitled to sex, pussy will go on silent strike at anytime she is not appreciated/valued/etc
I've been saying we need to stop tolerating their bs for a while hahahah. So many guys just feel entitled to a sweet caring gf by default. Not even stopping to think what do I have going on for me to attract my dream girl to me & have her want to be with me? Also if we stop sleeping with shrimp dicks they will be either forced to get good in bed or weeded out of the gene pool. We need to let nature run its course already. ::)
Seriously though spending time with someone who actually treats me right (so far) has been an eye opener. Like my ex was a decent guy but this guy is just so on my level if not more. Even if it doesn't work out long term I'm very grateful for this experience, it's so refreshing & a great reminder that I don't need to lower my standards!
carmen_b
10-30-2021, 02:32 PM
^ I feel like you really have to watch yourself in dating land !
Guys will try to get away with attempting to treat women like a cheap escort.
This behavior disgusts me ( pretending you " might " want a relationship and just trying to get sex quickly ).
NO ! I've been on many tangents of this on the site !
If a guy isn't putting forth real effort and planning dates ect. just run.
If the relationship isn't scaling up and moving forward tell him what you expect and bail if he doesn't meet it haha.
Use that saved time to work more and treat yo' self !
Men KNOW how to treat women well. Those that do are the only ones who should be rewarded. :)
Marina Starr
10-30-2021, 03:10 PM
I've never tolerate their bullshit or entitlement. Women are taught at a very young age to be nice and tolerate shit. Men know this and will take advantage.
When we lower our standards, we attract low value men. I've learned to never let any man makes me question my worth.
LADIES- you are never too much for the right men that just can't get enough of you. They are out there. Raise your standards and expect good treatment.
I've been saying we need to stop tolerating their bs for a while hahahah. So many guys just feel entitled to a sweet caring gf by default. Not even stopping to think what do I have going on for me to attract my dream girl to me & have her want to be with me? Also if we stop sleeping with shrimp dicks they will be either forced to get good in bed or weeded out of the gene pool. We need to let nature run its course already. ::)
Seriously though spending time with someone who actually treats me right (so far) has been an eye opener. Like my ex was a decent guy but this guy is just so on my level if not more. Even if it doesn't work out long term I'm very grateful for this experience, it's so refreshing & a great reminder that I don't need to lower my standards!
Marina Starr
10-30-2021, 03:26 PM
This morning at Starbucks some guy looks to be in his late 50's held the door for me so I said thank you. He said he only does it for pretty girls. He thought I'd be so flattered by the bare minimum.
So I asked him if only pretty girls are worthy of good treatment and common courtesy? That pretty much wiped the smile off his face. Glad I was able to turn that smile upside down.
lurkingtitties
10-30-2021, 06:04 PM
That pretty much wiped the smile off his face. Glad I was able to turn that smile upside down.
The most satisfying feeling!
WendiStarr
10-31-2021, 09:51 AM
BD heard through the grapevine that I'm pregnant and is acting like he wants to be a family with the kids and I again. I already know he's likely up to the same shit again and hasn't changed. I dreamt about it yesterday during a nap. I guess the $60 bbfs survival escorts are not cutting it, huh? But obviously I wasn't either and I bet even if he was dating someone insanely hot like Angelina Jolie he'd still be cheating with $60 escorts because he is the one who is flawed that he couldn't appreciate what he had. Guys always do that crap. I swear every ex I've ever had ALWAYS tries to come back, promising that they'll treat me better only to treat me like crap again once the honeymoon phase has worn off for them. Usually takes about a week. I don't want a man unless he's going to treat me good, pay my rent and bills, and lick my pussy without having to beg. I'll be single for the rest of my life and I don't care. It's better to be single than miserable, constantly worried about catching something.
Marina Starr
10-31-2021, 10:00 AM
When men say shit like women expect too much. Expect too much according to who and what?
It's never too much for women to expect the same love, attention and affection they give.
neverendingkneebruises
11-01-2021, 11:22 AM
Delete
carmen_b
11-01-2021, 11:52 AM
^ They are still out there ! :)
carmen_b
11-01-2021, 11:53 AM
I don't want a man unless he's going to treat me good, pay my rent and bills, and lick my pussy without having to beg.
This is my dude. It's probably obvious why I've been with him awhile, ha.
I'm totally discreet about it in regular life too . I don't want anyone trying to poach him hahaha.
I live with him and have offered multiple times to give some money for expenses ( he won't take it ).
He has helped me with bills a bit but has never covered my full expenses ( mostly this late summer to last month ).
I still work. I prefer to have my own funds anyway. He helped me more when I lost my PUA and before my business had picked back up ( July - Oct ). He treats me well and I treat him very well too.
:)
I was a total fail in a short lived attempt at being a non working person / trophy gf . I HATE not working and having a routine . The OPTION to work 30 hours a week instead of 40 has been really nice. I can actually even work a little less if I really wanted. I DON'T want to. When he helped me , I only wanted what he was truly comfy offering and it was less than what my income streams are capable of.
I would need a lot ( at least 3-4k monthly ) to consider not working entirely.
I cut down my hours overall in the last 8 months though because he eliminated the largest expense ( paying for a rental or me paying my own mortgage roughly 1k each ). I really am not saving much *time* per say because relationships do just take time but I am good with it. I spend the time for sure but in a different way now at times. We have a great thing going. He is just a really ambitious person. He is the type who fought to get his promotions . He fought to get a masters while also working full time.
I have strong thoughts on reasons to continue working even if you don't " need " to also . There are good reasons for it. It keeps you sharp, keeps you interacting intellectually , and gives YOU a routine v.s. just doing your partners schedule all of the time. You just never know. Having your OWN income source is true freedom.
Nothing is perfect obviously. Everyone has their moments and issues.
whirlerz
11-01-2021, 12:15 PM
Here ya go, Ladies, enjoy, I did..
https://www.menshealth.com/trending-news/a38122186/tiktok-viral-video-gym-harassment/
LoveyD
11-01-2021, 03:35 PM
I'm so glad you shared this.Good for her! What a creep. It's behavior that needs to stop forever.
carmen_b
11-01-2021, 04:55 PM
Your link Whirl hahah !
2:51 !!! OMG that is so my vibe.
Oh, I love that vid below the first one love love love. Sometimes you need to set that " don't talk to me " and don't touch me " boundary as sad as it is. :(
I have been so impressed in my gym ! I actually think they must WATCH and have chats with offenders there because it has been so hassle free. OR maybe it's ME who is the perv haha. I bike quite often and those bikes are positioned where the dudes happen to be lifting.
Knock on wood !
Watch me say that and get hassled next time. :/
chanzep
11-01-2021, 06:37 PM
I remember years ago my gym had a ladies only section and the guys would peep through the gap smh.
whirlerz
11-01-2021, 06:56 PM
I used to belong to a woman only gym, it's long gone tho :(
Luci Fer
11-01-2021, 07:58 PM
I used to belong to a woman only gym, it's long gone tho :(
That's soo bad! I would absolutely love it, and I am sure not just me. Gyms are the place where it's too much physical, so girls-only gym would feel so relaxing. It's such amazing idea! I generally like men, but sometimes it's better without them lol
SamanthaSugar
11-01-2021, 11:30 PM
I love my gym, there are so many insanely hot guys! My gym is pretty pricey and from my experience it seems the more expensive a gym is the less creepers it has, unlike the cheapo gyms. I go 5-6 days a week and I’ve yet to see or hear about any inappropriate behavior.
TheBrownFox
11-01-2021, 11:59 PM
https://thoughtnova.com/woman-who-worked-as-tinker-bell-at-disneyland-shares-something-married-dads-would-do/a0a0a5g?500=5&fbclid=IwAR0RCUl88qzxP2lPuw1efQuASD2DUvN98_yPGs8sc EOF6QNXzXw8xxqc_es
'Woman Who Worked As Tinker Bell At Disneyland Shares Something "Married" Dads Would Do'
Yeah, cuz they AIN'T SHIT!
Luci Fer
11-02-2021, 12:42 AM
I love my gym, there are so many insanely hot guys! My gym is pretty pricey and from my experience it seems the more expensive a gym is the less creepers it has, unlike the cheapo gyms. I go 5-6 days a week and I’ve yet to see or hear about any inappropriate behavior.
Yeah! Someone gave me such advice - to change a gym to more expensive one! It s just the same with camming - to weed creeps out you gotta raise your rates;D
I 'd vote for women only gym because guys mostly distract me lol. It's difficult for me to focus on exercises.
carmen_b
11-02-2021, 10:09 AM
As much as I love my dude, he is a bit of an amateur when it comes to travel. :/
At times it irks me.
He was so pleased with himself for coming up with 6 days ( Dec. 27 - Jan 2 ) and I'm glad he set aside the time ....... BUT ..... these are peak prices EVERYWHERE . It just didn't occur to him where I instantly knew the situation upon hearing the dates.
I showed him for example how Hawaii would cost us 60% more ( not an exaggeration ) during this time v.s. nearly ANY other time. I wish he would reorganize the calendar to get us a non-holiday timeframe .
I'll work with whatever he comes up with I guess but the premium costs will be on him because I would never travel that week normally.
I'm actually trying to get a work trip that will cover 5-6 days of accommodations for us . That way I could smoothly just suggest we take advantage of THAT. I'll try to be flexible. I just hate paying premiums even if he is covering 90% of it. It feels wasteful.
:/
WendiStarr
11-03-2021, 11:43 AM
I hate going to stores in-person but I needed to get hand soap and cleaning supplies and 3 new trash cans since someone stole them. While I was looking at the trash cans some man came up behind me and started bitching about how some people are too slow. I was clearly standing there, off to the side looking at the trash cans. He could've easily walked around me. There was more than enough space for him to go around me. The aisles were big. He made another comment about how some people move so slow and he has places to go. I have no filter lately so I said,"Go around me, dickhead!" Finally he did but he turned back to look at me like he was going to say something, noticed my belly and decided against it. He didn't even get anything down that aisle anyways so I don't know why he felt the need to bother me in the first place.
indiegirl
11-03-2021, 12:37 PM
I hate going to stores in-person but I needed to get hand soap and cleaning supplies and 3 new trash cans since someone stole them. While I was looking at the trash cans some man came up behind me and started bitching about how some people are too slow. I was clearly standing there, off to the side looking at the trash cans. He could've easily walked around me. There was more than enough space for him to go around me. The aisles were big. He made another comment about how some people move so slow and he has places to go. I have no filter lately so I said,"Go around me, dickhead!" Finally he did but he turned back to look at me like he was going to say something, noticed my belly and decided against it. He didn't even get anything down that aisle anyways so I don't know why he felt the need to bother me in the first place.
Haha. Love this response on your part!!!
I'm like ten minutes late at a shit hotel on my period because I'm trying to be accommodating. Cost me 200 bucks for the room minus the drive. California sucks so bad. It feels like lighting all your money on fire weekly. Anytime someone tells me I look like Cameron Diaz once again it reminds me of work. I've gotten this for years. I dunno why it bothers me now. Reminds me of TER.
indiegirl
11-03-2021, 06:28 PM
Unreal I got called out for wearing the same 4 dresses in selfies.....WHY NOT SEE ME?! I'm at the closing with a moth crisis ya dumb cunt and you have the balls to constantly ask for proof I am real? Who is real....me or YOU? Seems you are collecting my pictures and then making me feel bad for only having 4 dresses. I have a moth crisis so there is 4 dresses....Also I don't have many dresses BECAUSE I'm not that hoarder bitch. Buy me shit if you're offended. I buy things that are worth it not stupid ass pieces of cloth. Why aren't you spending money if you are that concerned and I wash my clothes? End of rant.
carmen_b
11-03-2021, 06:33 PM
^ WTF I totally can not BELIEVE anyone would give a damn about having 4 outfits !
If they happen to hire you for 5 days they can buy one the fifth day! Idiots ! omg
indiegirl
11-03-2021, 07:00 PM
^ WTF I totally can not BELIEVE anyone would give a damn about having 4 outfits !
If they happen to hire you for 5 days they can buy one the fifth day! Idiots ! omg
Yes he just cancelled because of it. It shows how many times he's asked for selfies and not followed through. I'm watching Replicas on netflix now instead. Better use of my time than being treated like that. :)
SamanthaSugar
11-03-2021, 11:06 PM
Haha. Love this response on your part!!!
I'm like ten minutes late at a shit hotel on my period because I'm trying to be accommodating. Cost me 200 bucks for the room minus the drive. California sucks so bad. It feels like lighting all your money on fire weekly. Anytime someone tells me I look like Cameron Diaz once again it reminds me of work. I've gotten this for years. I dunno why it bothers me now. Reminds me of TER.
Lol, I always get Cameron Diaz too
Luci Fer
11-04-2021, 07:04 PM
Unreal I got called out for wearing the same 4 dresses in selfies.....WHY NOT SEE ME?! I'm at the closing with a moth crisis ya dumb cunt and you have the balls to constantly ask for proof I am real? Who is real....me or YOU? Seems you are collecting my pictures and then making me feel bad for only having 4 dresses. I have a moth crisis so there is 4 dresses....Also I don't have many dresses BECAUSE I'm not that hoarder bitch. Buy me shit if you're offended. I buy things that are worth it not stupid ass pieces of cloth. Why aren't you spending money if you are that concerned and I wash my clothes? End of rant.
'Moth crisis' made me giggle;D
Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 04:58 PM
I absolutely despise when low value men purposely try to make their wives/girlfriends feel insecure in the presence of other women.
It says a lot about their character when they get a kick out of.
Early this morning as I was doing my hoe makeup at Starbucks, some asshole was checking me out a few seconds longer than his bitch would have liked. She clearly was bothered and annoyed so she told him 'oh that's too much' as she was glaring at me. Knowing how petty I can get, there is no way I'll let that slide so I look death straight at that cunt and told her 'and you're not enough!'.
They couldn't wait to get out of there fast enough. If your man is making you insecure, handle it with him. House training starts at home.
I KNOW I'm too much but that isn't a bad thing. I wasn't born for subtlety.