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carmen_b
11-06-2021, 01:58 PM
OMG he has struck again with travel planning lol.

We are headed to Seattle Nov. 12-14 only planning to be there ONE full day .
He got on Delta and found these horrendous priced flights ( $800 for both of us ). :/
He actually bought the damn thing AND THEN told me ! I got on expedia and admittedly it's a garbage airline but I got this down to $300 and then he cancelled the other one.

He was just gonna throw $500 away ? ! ?

Not on my watch lol !!

TheBrownFox
11-06-2021, 08:30 PM
Love it when a guy texts everyday to say good morning...asks to take you out on Saturday...and then when Saturday is here, you never hear from him. No text back, yet you can see on Facebook Messenger that he was "active" 20 minutes ago. Tbh I still haven't gotten a previous guy completely out of my system, so fuck this new dude. I just deleted him from my phone before I wind up getting attached, though I'm sure I'll be getting another "Good morning" text from him tomorrow. I'm not interested in these little games that men like to play. This is why it's just gonna be me and vibrators forever. I'm turning 40 next summer, and I'm too old for the games.

carmen_b
11-07-2021, 10:25 AM
^ Idiot. His loss. It is really not hard to set a time / place for a date.

TheBrownFox
11-07-2021, 11:58 AM
^ Idiot. His loss. It is really not hard to set a time / place for a date.


Yeah, and he's texting me right now.

carmen_b
11-07-2021, 12:35 PM
How long have you known him ?
Met him yet ?

I feel like if a dude can’t get to point / set up a date in a week or less ... meh .

TheBrownFox
11-07-2021, 12:38 PM
How long have you known him ?
Met him yet ?

I feel like if a dude can’t get to point / set up a date in a week or less ... meh .


Yup, we've met.

carmen_b
11-07-2021, 12:40 PM
Hmmm not sure.
I guess if you like him you can feel it out.
Sorry about no date yesterday. I totally see how you’d want to ditch him entirely if that’s the direction you go.
:)

WendiStarr
11-07-2021, 01:03 PM
Eww to the guys who bother me while pregnant just because I can't get knocked up when I already am. I have zero penetration interest so they'd have better luck offering their tongues.

ravenskyy
11-08-2021, 11:45 AM
I hate men soooo much, I've decided to take a serving job. Lol but no regrets. Every single person that I've spoken to at this restaurant, says that they make BANK! Its comparable to cam and dancing money. So, fuck men! But also, I'd like to thank men for pissing me off enough to look for another job lol but I also hate them all. They all suck!

I'm at the point where I don't give a fuck anymore. Even though I can definitely use the money, it's not even worth it sometimes. I don't negotiate. I won't do anything outside of my comfort zone. I've stopped making myself available all day, every day. I ban much more quickly now. And it's been great! After doing all of that, the money is still there to be made, from someone else!

TheBrownFox
11-08-2021, 12:23 PM
I hate men soooo much, I've decided to take a serving job. Lol but no regrets. Every single person that I've spoken to at this restaurant, says that they make BANK! Its comparable to cam and dancing money. So, fuck men! But also, I'd like to thank men for pissing me off enough to look for another job lol but I also hate them all. They all suck!

I'm at the point where I don't give a fuck anymore. Even though I can definitely use the money, it's not even worth it sometimes. I don't negotiate. I won't do anything outside of my comfort zone. I've stopped making myself available all day, every day. I ban much more quickly now. And it's been great! After doing all of that, the money is still there to be made, from someone else!


Yup! And these cheapasses who are greedy with their tokens, and tip ONE token and think they're entitled to PM you to death...or convince you to "stay online longer" for them. Wow! A whole 5 cents in my pocket is supposed to convince me to stay on cam longer for YOU...when you see that I'm getting ready to log off? One token gets you NOTHING from me except its deduction from my room topic goal, a thank you (Not an enthusiastic one though), and a smile. I am positive these men don't throw DIMES on stage at the dancers when they go to the strip club. Lol.

Marina Starr
11-08-2021, 12:38 PM
Reading what you wrote gave me the CHILLS I didn't know I needed!

I always felt lonely being a savage blocker, so glad I'm not alone!


I ban much more quickly now. And it's been great! After doing all of that, the money is still there to be made, from someone else!

Marina Starr
11-08-2021, 12:53 PM
It doesn't sit well with me when men say they're pro hoes, pro sex workers or so they think just because they would fuck you in a heartbeat while at the same time saying shit like it's a path they wouldn't want a friend, a family member or someone they care about to go down. They would guide them down a different and right path.

What kind of bullshit is that?! What the actual fuck does that even mean?! If that's how they feel then they better bring cash to the table.

whirlerz
11-08-2021, 08:07 PM
So, this jerk upstairs (I used to ) like, sends me a random email that he's taken 100 pushup/situp challenge? ::)

Cause he did this before, we were texting & he brought up his former boxing days, then pretending he 'forgot' which ____ (my name), he was talking to? ::)

Pompous Ass much?
I'm leaving it on non-read, then blocking him tomorrow, chaz's right, my rommies are coo-coo!

Luci Fer
11-08-2021, 08:17 PM
It doesn't sit well with me when men say they're pro hoes, pro sex workers or so they think just because they would fuck you in a heartbeat while at the same time saying shit like it's a path they wouldn't want a friend, a family member or someone they care about to go down. They would guide them down a different and right path.


oh this. Yeah, I hardly trust when they say it. I always think they do it for their own selfish perverted secret goals hahaha
''bb I am pro-SW, lemme support you deep with my hard cock now!'' ;D

miss.a.p1600
11-10-2021, 08:37 AM
Men are THE biggest hipocrites then have the audacity to gaslight you when you simply do to them what they do to you

#maleprivilege

carmen_b
11-10-2021, 09:15 AM
^ Men can be strange.
I feel like I am catching men this week making subtle comments ( not my partner , others ) judging / nudging women they know to work less.
So.... if your male friend wants to crack 6 figures in the next 12 months and you are out golfing or something ... you would suggest they work less instead of brainstorming ways to maximize time and money ?

Fuck no you would not do that to another MAN !
It is subtle sexism and the subtlety does not make it even remotely acceptable .

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-11-2021, 09:58 AM
I hate men soooo much, I've decided to take a serving job. Lol but no regrets. Every single person that I've spoken to at this restaurant, says that they make BANK! Its comparable to cam and dancing money. So, fuck men! But also, I'd like to thank men for pissing me off enough to look for another job lol but I also hate them all. They all suck!

I'm at the point where I don't give a fuck anymore. Even though I can definitely use the money, it's not even worth it sometimes. I don't negotiate. I won't do anything outside of my comfort zone. I've stopped making myself available all day, every day. I ban much more quickly now. And it's been great! After doing all of that, the money is still there to be made, from someone else!

Don't let patrons drain you- I've served and bartended. Some people can be taxing to deal with, male and female "Karens".............You just have to be fake with them and detach.

miss.a.p1600
11-11-2021, 10:29 AM
I am almost at the point where I question the benefit of marrying a man if most of them are batshit crazier than women on their worst mood swing days.

Men be having mood swings and don't tell me they don't have some sort of male 'pms'

Also I hate when me be acting like THEY are the prize.

Bruh! Ya enabler mom n your douchbag dad raised you all the way wrong.

indiegirl
11-11-2021, 11:57 AM
GAWDDD stop lowering your rates ladies! How are these women even making money? My ass would be beyond tired at their price. My former pimp on the cheap site told me that some of the women he worked with didn't even have a phone, any savings, barely anything because they don't know how to handle their money and waste it all away. I need to call up the female booker who has wealthy clients so I don't have to deal with this permanently. I'm trying to reach 100k in savings by the end of the year and then sit back and finish school without working. It is doable!!!

Marina Starr
11-11-2021, 06:05 PM
I find it so unsettling and a big turn off when men post so many pretty much naked selfies that scream 'look at me!'. If they show that much in public, what's left to show in private?

Any dude DMing me with endless almost naked selfies, I always tell them 'you need to put a shirt on!'.
I miss the good old days when men care more about flaunting their brains than their bodies.

indiegirl
11-11-2021, 11:53 PM
What is with all the men trolling me tonight! I've had 4 messages.

Him: Hi How are you?
Me: Would you like to get together
Him: No What are you up to?

In my head.........."this is why assistants are better so I don't have to even bother reading this horse shit. This isn't a chat line."

Also some client messaged me and was curious why I don't have a boyfriend. Seriously, I get offended by that question. If I wanted one I'd go shopping and pick one out for me on a dating website. Whatever happened to allowing someone to work on themselves instead of crashing into a bad relationship and catering to another persons needs simultaneously? Tired of this question as if the world revolves around having a partner to make someone whole. And hell, nobody wants to date an active ho plus they get jealous. *Drops mic*

I'm rambling tonight....and I feel like the biggest a-hole for having loud sex and the next door person at my hotel had to hear it but once his baby started crying hours later I shouted "GURLL!" because it went on for so long and haven't heard a peep out of the baby since. Can't do crying babies when I'm spending 200 bucks on a room. They even woke me up trying to open up the adjacent door at one point to my room.

miss.a.p1600
11-12-2021, 07:12 AM
I find it so unsettling and a big turn off when men post so many pretty much naked selfies that scream 'look at me!'. If they show that much in public, what's left to show in private?

Any dude DMing me with endless almost naked selfies, I always tell them 'you need to put a shirt on!'.
I miss the good old days when men care more about flaunting their brains than their bodies.

mMen posting bathroom selfies with duck lips is the worst.

or them working out. With their shirt off of course.

Men be some of the biggest attention seekers n thirst buckets

miss.a.p1600
11-12-2021, 07:15 AM
I hate it when men be married but pretend to care about their wives.

Why yo dumb ass get married then?

Oh I forgot…..most men do not have the resources to troll for pussy daily. Their solution? Marry a broad to get sex on demand.

Unbeknownst to them, they’re aren’t the prize and their wives probably lost attraction to them so they end up un sexless marriages lol.

Men can be so dumb sometimes

miss.a.p1600
11-12-2021, 07:17 AM
Oh n I hate how men can’t stand being told there are spaces they can’t enter

Well if half the men weren’t such a jackass we wouldn’t need to create women only spaces.

Marina Starr
11-12-2021, 11:36 AM
I sell virtual pussy for a living, I see a lot of dicks and naked bodies. If a man has a nice body, I can tell even if he's fully clothed.
I appreciate a little mystery, it makes me wonder what he actually looks like naked. To me that's so attractive.


mMen posting bathroom selfies with duck lips is the worst.

or them working out. With their shirt off of course.

Men be some of the biggest attention seekers n thirst buckets

whirlerz
11-14-2021, 08:07 AM
Yes, Marina! ^

This made me sick:

*Warning trigger for sexual assault *

https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/women-are-sharing-the-behaviors-theyve-changed-so-they-dont

I don't take public transportation, but when I did, always sat on the outside seat (sometimes not possible). If someone wants to sit next to me, I turn to the side & let them in so I'm not trapped.

Talking to creeps to appease them?! Idts! :O

TheBrownFox
11-14-2021, 04:57 PM
Lying-ass motherfuckers is what they are.....

Guess you saw me looking cute in my pink Power Rangers costume, and just haaad to have my number, huh? Another man who's ALL TALK, NO ACTION. I'm just gonna need all the "ALL TALK, NO ACTION" men to leave me the fuck alone at karaoke night then. Like don't even bother asking for my number if you're just gonna make plans and not follow through on them. I don't like my time being wasted on bitch-ass men.

Marina Starr
11-16-2021, 03:37 PM
Men never waste time demanding pussy but quick to yell 'gold digger' when they have to pay for bringing nothing of substance to the table.

Perfect solution for men who don't want no gold digger: give women all your money so they don't have to worry about money they don't have and just spend time being in love.

miss.a.p1600
11-16-2021, 04:18 PM
^Facts!

Make privilege at its finest.

I have to break my dude of that habit. Someone trained him all wrong. Whenever he starts rambling on about “needing sex” I always tell him I’m only attracted sexually to men to do xyz masculine tasks (which usually require spending some money)

Gotta pay to play baby!

miss.a.p1600
11-16-2021, 05:01 PM
I hate how most men are so insecure and entitled that they try to control women and women’s bodies.

Aurora_Sunset
11-16-2021, 06:07 PM
I'm going to give my completely unasked for opinion on men's clothes, and say that men need to stop wearing those sweatpants that are super baggy in the ass area and give them "saggy, soiled diaper butt" look. So unattractive.

neverendingkneebruises
11-16-2021, 11:39 PM
I'm going to give my completely unasked for opinion on men's clothes, and say that men need to stop wearing those sweatpants that are super baggy in the ass area and give them "saggy, soiled diaper butt" look. So unattractive.

Almost no men put effort into their appearance or personal hygiene or style so when you meet one that does the absolute bare minimum to look nice it's like he's a super attractive sex god or something. It's such a scam that they all collectively look like shit so the few good looking ones stand out us women need to do the same thing LOL
And despite being ugly, smelly & unkempt they are still so entitled

miss.a.p1600
11-17-2021, 07:04 AM
I'm going to give my completely unasked for opinion on men's clothes, and say that men need to stop wearing those sweatpants that are super baggy in the ass area and give them "saggy, soiled diaper butt" look. So unattractive.


or when men actually have flat n saggy asses lol!

bruh quit forgetting leg day n hit them squats

Marina Starr
11-17-2021, 10:40 AM
You never have to hold back when it comes to opinion on men, there are never lack of topics, lol.

Men always have objectified, sexualized and shame women's bodies and are very vocal about what we should look like so it's fair game.


I'm going to give my completely unasked for opinion on men's clothes, and say that men need to stop wearing those sweatpants that are super baggy in the ass area and give them "saggy, soiled diaper butt" look. So unattractive.

Marina Starr
11-17-2021, 10:43 AM
LADIES! How do you deal with too much attention from men? Men who follow you around grocery stores, invading your personal space in public and the list goes on but you know what I'm talking about.
Some days I don't feel well so that gets so overwhelming and exhausting.

miss.a.p1600
11-17-2021, 11:49 AM
^Head to social media. That way I can still interact whilst safely block any male attention that is too much for me.

laurielegs
11-17-2021, 08:10 PM
LADIES! How do you deal with too much attention from men? Men who follow you around grocery stores, invading your personal space in public and the list goes on but you know what I'm talking about.
Some days I don't feel well so that gets so overwhelming and exhausting.

I wear oversized clothes like a huge baggy sweatsuit, sunglasses, leave my mask on as much as possible and try to look as ugly as I can. it sucks having to do that. Sometimes even then it doesn't help but it cuts down on it a lot.

indiegirl
11-17-2021, 11:42 PM
Oh my god....I've never seen domestic violence like this. This is absolutely shocking to see actual footage of what some abusers do!!! Her poor 5 month old baby was on the couch too.

Apparently there is a federal warrant out for him now.

Trigger warning if you click on the link below
https://www.tmz.com/2021/11/17/zac-stacy-nfl-domestic-violence-video-ex-girlfriend/

kimbe
11-18-2021, 01:23 AM
LADIES! How do you deal with too much attention from men? Men who follow you around grocery stores, invading your personal space in public and the list goes on but you know what I'm talking about.
Some days I don't feel well so that gets so overwhelming and exhausting.


I wear oversized clothes like a huge baggy sweatsuit, sunglasses, leave my mask on as much as possible and try to look as ugly as I can. it sucks having to do that. Sometimes even then it doesn't help but it cuts down on it a lot.

I refuse to dress down due to male attention, whenever it becomes too obvious, I simply confront them :D

miss.a.p1600
11-18-2021, 06:05 AM
Oh my god....I've never seen domestic violence like this. This is absolutely shocking to see actual footage of what some abusers do!!! Her poor 5 month old baby was on the couch too.

Apparently there is a federal warrant out for him now.

Trigger warning if you click on the link below
https://www.tmz.com/2021/11/17/zac-stacy-nfl-domestic-violence-video-ex-girlfriend/


wow.

first of all 5th round pick. He’s not even that good at football.

secondly this dude is why women need weapons.

i would have shanked his ass (in front of the baby like “see son this is how you defend yourself. Sorry but something wrong with ya dad n we gotta get away from him”) if I were her.

Marina Starr
11-18-2021, 11:33 AM
Lol, that's how I always dress but I don't wear glasses but will wear mask where is required.

In my personal experience it doesn't matter how I dress. I could wear a trash bag and that still won't stop men from giving me so much unsolicited attention.

I know it's because I'm beautiful. When you're beautiful, nothing you wear would matter. Another factor is my hoe aura that men find so sexy. When you're a hoe, stripper or sex worker, there's definitely a difference in how you carry yourself. Vanilla girls generally don't have that.



I wear oversized clothes like a huge baggy sweatsuit, sunglasses, leave my mask on as much as possible and try to look as ugly as I can. it sucks having to do that. Sometimes even then it doesn't help but it cuts down on it a lot.

carmen_b
11-18-2021, 12:05 PM
^ Think like a celeb. Hoodie and huge sunglasses ha !
They can't harass what they can't even see haha.

I'm ruthless though too like Kimbe mentioned.
I need to dress up for my job so I'm not going to be going out looking like a frump.
I just say " no thanks I'm taken " .
I like to see men having some balls anyway because I often feel they don't with women .

Marina Starr
11-18-2021, 04:36 PM
Why do you think that is? Them having no balls when it comes to women.


^ Think like a celeb. Hoodie and huge sunglasses ha !
They can't harass what they can't even see haha.

I'm ruthless though too like Kimbe mentioned.
I need to dress up for my job so I'm not going to be going out looking like a frump.
I just say " no thanks I'm taken " .
I like to see men having some balls anyway because I often feel they don't with women .

indiegirl
11-18-2021, 07:34 PM
Ah men! *breathes in a fresh breath of air*

Could you imagine if I were available at the hotel? I would've had to see this loser. When I finally get back to dating in vanilla life, I feel for the men I choose. There will be a wall they'll have to earn to break down.

https://i.ibb.co/PW1rkG5/Screen-Shot-2021-11-18-at-6-32-05-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)

chanzep
11-18-2021, 07:53 PM
What a fuckin ass.

LoveyD
11-18-2021, 09:39 PM
Well he's just a charming little ray of Sunshine, isn't he?

kimbe
11-19-2021, 01:41 AM
^^At least he's good at disqualifying himself...!

miss.a.p1600
11-19-2021, 06:34 AM
^when mental illness goes untreated……

carmen_b
11-19-2021, 09:58 AM
It may not be a popular opinion here but I don't really think there is anything wrong with a guy *trying* you know ? I think it's a little natural IF they sort of " asses " if you might be interested. I think the unwarranted attention that aggravates everyone here is from more scruby guys.

You guys really are bothered by a nice looking man in a suit or otherwise dressed nicely and looking good talking to you in public ? I am not ha. I guess the reason I feel this way is that I don't wear a ring ( since I'm not married or engaged it makes sense ). Coffee shops and restaurants and bars are public places. People are allowed to converse . It's just another side of the debate.

I guess what I mean is .... consider your venue. Obviously don't go to bars if you really want to be left alone.
Coffee houses are public spaces as well . I met one of my former boyfriends at one ( when it got over crowded we recognized each others face and he offered to share his table ).



Why do you think that is? Them having no balls when it comes to women.

Marina Starr
11-19-2021, 10:45 AM
I would have to say that really depends on the energy and vibes I pick up from them. A nice looking man in a suit or nicely dressed doesn't necessarily mean he's good.

There are plenty of men in a suit and nicely buttoned down shirt that are slimy. I could definitely be more open to scruby guys if I can pick up on their good vibes and intentions because there's room for improvement if they're scruby in the look department but you can't fix slimy because that's their character.

When you said 'I like to see men having some balls anyway because I often feel they don't with women.' I thought you mean they don't have the balls to say shit when you're ruthless to them so I was curious why you think they don't have the balls when women do that, lol.


It may not be a popular opinion here but I don't really think there is anything wrong with a guy *trying* you know ? I think it's a little natural IF they sort of " asses " if you might be interested. I think the unwarranted attention that aggravates everyone here is from more scruby guys.

You guys really are bothered by a nice looking man in a suit or otherwise dressed nicely and looking good talking to you in public ? I am not ha. I guess the reason I feel this way is that I don't wear a ring ( since I'm not married or engaged it makes sense ). Coffee shops and restaurants and bars are public places. People are allowed to converse . It's just another side of the debate.

I guess what I mean is .... consider your venue. Obviously don't go to bars if you really want to be left alone.
Coffee houses are public spaces as well . I met one of my former boyfriends at one ( when it got over crowded we recognized each others face and he offered to share his table ).