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whirlerz
12-20-2021, 01:37 PM
Lol^!!
kortneykay
12-20-2021, 01:47 PM
Clients are THEE worst around the holidays. If you're broke. Just say that. Stop messaging me about shows if you're not going to book the show. I don't give a shit about you wife of kids' or job holiday issues.
My bf is making me push him into sugar daddy mode. He's getting too possessive, trying to come over when he knows I'm busy, but now wants to bring up cultural shit for his excuse to pocket me. Nah breh, I put you on ice for 3 weeks. You're crying and begging to come see me, and I'm still getting money out of you. But I'll be damned if you pocket me while also trying get FULL girlfriend experience. I'll just date other Men.
WendiStarr
12-20-2021, 05:13 PM
I'm over these time wasting fuckers from OF trying to get free interaction on my Twitter. I'm going to just shut my DM's down again so that nobody can DM me unless I'm following them. No, I don't want to be friends or send you a selfie for free. Either buy my shit on OF, MFC, or NF or fuck off.
carmen_b
12-20-2021, 06:55 PM
My guy did a recent variation of this. Why do men do this ? Is it the holiday time frame bringing out this weirdness ?
I had to " cap " my dude recently at three evenings a week ( because I want time to do other things like make local friends, get more involved in the yoga community , and just have some self care time ). We have been together 20 months . That's plenty of couples time per week ( it's not a strict cap or anything either just a rough guideline ). What I'm talking about is three really *focused* evenings too like both people having phones off after 5:30 ect. ! It's not a half ass attempt .
Oh actually I should say 4 because I always make sure to give his daughter an evening too .
That leaves three for myself roughly.
If I didn't actively create that I wouldn't have gotten it though ! He was asking for A LOT of time some of which I had to decline. I'm sure your situation is different and you might want to see him a different number of evenings a week but I just NEED balance. Asking for 5 nights of my time per week is NOT going work to get it..... no.
Life is balanced and healthy when you are not up your partners butt 5-6 days per week.
It's funny that women have a reputation for being needy but there is so much info about dudes doing the needy stuff on this website !!
My bf is making me push him into sugar daddy mode. He's getting too possessive, trying to come over when he knows I'm busy,
chanzep
12-20-2021, 07:40 PM
That sounds balanced Carmen.
I had to call Comcast again!. I cut off my tv service with them at the beginning of the month but they have billed me for it until January. I told them take it off my bill smh.
I'm hormonal was craving Chinese dumplings of course I ordered a shut load of carp to justify delivery fees. Now I feel greedy.
whirlerz
12-20-2021, 07:49 PM
Aw. ^
Our former maintenance guy used to call the. Commie Cast!
I've had my battles w/them, once when I returned equipment, they asked where the battery was? Like yea, I totally stole your 1.00 freakin 9v battery!::)
I see in my area At&t's coming in I hope we can change, but knowing this landlord, doubt it. I sent him some info..
carmen_b
12-20-2021, 08:01 PM
Omg dumplings sound so amazing.
That sounds balanced Carmen.
I had to call Comcast again!. I cut off my tv service with them at the beginning of the month but they have billed me for it until January. I told them take it off my bill smh.
I'm hormonal was craving Chinese dumplings of course I ordered a shut load of carp to justify delivery fees. Now I feel greedy.
miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 07:23 AM
My guy did a recent variation of this. Why do men do this ? Is it the holiday time frame bringing out this weirdness ?
I had to " cap " my dude recently at three evenings a week ( because I want time to do other things like make local friends, get more involved in the yoga community , and just have some self care time ). We have been together 20 months . That's plenty of couples time per week ( it's not a strict cap or anything either just a rough guideline ). What I'm talking about is three really *focused* evenings too like both people having phones off after 5:30 ect. ! It's not a half ass attempt .
Oh actually I should say 4 because I always make sure to give his daughter an evening too .
That leaves three for myself roughly.
If I didn't actively create that I wouldn't have gotten it though ! He was asking for A LOT of time some of which I had to decline. I'm sure your situation is different and you might want to see him a different number of evenings a week but I just NEED balance. Asking for 5 nights of my time per week is NOT going work to get it..... no.
Life is balanced and healthy when you are not up your partners butt 5-6 days per week.
It's funny that women have a reputation for being needy but there is so much info about dudes doing the needy stuff on this website !!
I woke up this morning thinking about how clingy men get during the winter/holidays.
For me, I get excited when L goes to work so he can get out of my space.
I hate sharing bathrooms or any room when I’m getting ready for the day. I don’t want him fucking gawking n assuming I want to fuck cause I’m nude n making annoying comments about how good I look. just leave me alone and go to your side of this house.
i loathe the non-stop couples shit and the fucking synchronized wake-ups, dinners, nighttime routines.
I literally only need a man to pay the bills for the house, manly tasks around the house, once a month sex, and occasional +1 to events.
whirlerz
12-21-2021, 07:45 AM
If I ever get w/a guy, separate bathrooms are non-negotiable!
Last paragraph is GOLD^!
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-21-2021, 08:39 AM
My boyfriend's political views are so whack. If we end up splitting up, it'll probably over this damned shit. Like it wasn't enough to lose friends to the Trump and fucktard Fascist religious nuttiness, I might die single because of all this. Ha..........
miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 10:14 AM
^girl my close relative is a conservative democrat her husband is a staunch Republican.
She basically had hella debates ……. and of course she always won.
Anytime Trump came up, my relative rants against him, her husband used to leave the room.
Now he just shuts up. N votes however he wants in private.
Men really are boneheads. Keep ya damn opposing political views to ya self.
Happy wife happy life should include no opposing political views.
Me personally if I want debates I’ll debate my friends who are rational n respectful. I’d only debate my spouse on politics if I didn’t want any sex for a while lol!
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-21-2021, 10:19 AM
^girl my close relative is a conservative democrat her husband is a staunch Republican.
She basically had hella debates ……. and of course she always won.
Anytime Trump came up, my relative rants against him, her husband used to leave the room.
Now he just shuts up. N votes however he wants in private.
Men really are boneheads. Keep ya damn opposing political views to ya self.
Happy wife happy life should include no opposing political views.
Me personally if I want debates I’ll debate my friends who are rational n respectful. I’d only debate my spouse on politics if I didn’t want any sex for a while lol!
I'm just so sick of my boyfriend's rants. When we got together he was gloriously apolitical. Current times have made life irritating.
carmen_b
12-21-2021, 10:44 AM
Omg does he lean conservative. ?
Shhhhh I won't tell .
It would totally creep me out too ha.
Then you can't SAY anything ( or have to tone is down ) to keep peace at home. :/
My boyfriend's political views are so whack. If we end up splitting up, it'll probably over this damned shit. Like it wasn't enough to lose friends to the Trump and fucktard Fascist religious nuttiness, I might die single because of all this. Ha..........
Marina Starr
12-21-2021, 02:58 PM
I like her! She sounded so much like I am. I always have to have the last word when it comes to men. It gets me high when men are intimidated by my bitchiness, lol.
Every morning at Starbucks there would be a table of old republicans that bitched and complained about 'the democrats', every fucking morning!
Finally one of them said 'what is Biden doing that isn't fucking up the country?', I told him being DECENT. That shut them the fuck up because they knew they aren't decent.
The another time one of them said 'lets go brandon'. So I told him to say what he really wants. I then reminded him that Biden took trump's job, his house and his twitter account, lol.
They stopped talking shit in my presence but sometimes I would rock my 'biden/harris' hat when I feel like trolling them, lmao!
^girl my close relative is a conservative democrat her husband is a staunch Republican.
She basically had hella debates ……. and of course she always won.
Anytime Trump came up, my relative rants against him, her husband used to leave the room.
Now he just shuts up. N votes however he wants in private.
Men really are boneheads. Keep ya damn opposing political views to ya self.
Happy wife happy life should include no opposing political views.
Me personally if I want debates I’ll debate my friends who are rational n respectful. I’d only debate my spouse on politics if I didn’t want any sex for a while lol!
Luci Fer
12-21-2021, 07:12 PM
Ugh the smile thing. And worse: "You look so much prettier when you smile". Barf!
Have you ever seen a woman tell a man to smile? I bet not!
Funny thing: I know someone (a guy), who was asked by a woman "why are you so serious? are you in bad mood? you 're not smiling"
He said he hated it so much ;D
Luci Fer
12-21-2021, 07:16 PM
I'm just so sick of my boyfriend's rants. When we got together he was gloriously apolitical. Current times have made life irritating.
wow, damn. It sucks :( I have a deal with my friends not to discuss any fucking politics when we are together. It is like a plague - poisons everything. And doesn't change a shit.
indiegirl
12-24-2021, 11:02 AM
I got to the bank early today to deposit money and there was a line of 14 people waiting to go in around 8:50am.....Can we all guess which gender was in line besides me? All MEN lol. Frantically trying to start their Xmas shopping. Even as the line moved forward more men started coming in the bank line.
If I was with a man who waited until the last minute, it would show how much he cared. I wouldn't even want the gift at that point.
My mom's husband plans her Xmas gift months in advance. That's what men should do prepare in advance, even for birthdays. It shows they care and not just getting it last minute because they don't want to sleep on the couch that night... well that's my opinion.
TheBrownFox
12-24-2021, 11:33 AM
I got to the bank early today to deposit money and there was a line of 14 people waiting to go in around 8:50am.....Can we all guess which gender was in line besides me? All MEN lol. Frantically trying to start their Xmas shopping. Even as the line moved forward more men started coming in the bank line.
Lol. My dad waits 'til the last minute to get people's gifts, and then he's calling me asking questions about my son's shoe size or "Does he already have a carrying case for his digital piano?" LOL. My mom is too much of a cheapass to buy anyone gifts, so that responsibility is put on my dad...and he signs both their names on everyone's gifts/gift cards. When you even mention Christmas, Mom goes on her little rant of "Well you know I ain't buyin' nothin'! Your dad handles all that!" LMFAO! Yes, Scrooge...we know. She's the same person who used to tell me to go outside to take the neighbors' newspaper, so she can have their Dunkin' Donuts coupons. SMH. And I'd tell her no, I'm not stealing these people's newspaper...
My mom is too much of a cheapass to buy anyone gifts, so that responsibility is put on my dad and he signs both their names on the gift tag.
whirlerz
12-24-2021, 11:52 AM
My Dad was like that too, every year w/o fail, last minute, "Can you get your mother a gift"?
Altho, I got roomie last minute gift at target.
Miss you, Mom & Dad.
neverendingkneebruises
12-25-2021, 02:37 PM
LOL Carmen, my dude is pulling shit like that too! Wanting to come over, or have me over, any free time he has. Even when he gets out of work at midnight and has to be up at 7:30am for his other job. So I started capping him too, and he starts leaving his shit at my apartment so he has more excuses to come get it. :O Last time it was his suit jacket, the time before that it was an expensive watch + bracelet set ($600~ total) so no way is he doing that shit on accident LOL. Honestly it's kind of cute & endearing how eager he is to always see me (and no we don't have sex every time either) and also honestly, I'm happy to see him that often too. But like you said- I need my alone time because it's healthier to not revolve your life around a man. Also I feel like men miss you more when they get to see you less at least in the talking stage. But yes they can be so needy lol.
He took me out for christmas eve and I did my makeup, hair, dressed sexy in heels, everything. When he sees me at home I'm in glasses in pjs or casual wear with no makeup, still cute bc I'm cute as hell no matter what I do but very, very minimal effort. I highly recommend (at least in the talking stage) teach them that if they take you out then that's when you will put effort into your appearance in return. }:D
@ Marina. You are doing the lords work lol. I love trolling men in a condescending way. They never expect it bc the women in their lives are usually pushover or don't care so when it happens to them they look so shocked & meek but shut the fuck up every time. It's fabulous.
Marina Starr
12-26-2021, 05:54 AM
I HIGHLY enjoy being condescending and calling them out on their shit exactly as I do it on stripperwebs. No filter, lmao. It's my honor doing the Lord's work. That's why I'm beyond blessed and highly favored.
You are so right about women being pushovers. Women are raised that way at home and in society at very young age. It's so ingrained that women even stand up for men, lol.
@ Marina. You are doing the lords work lol. I love trolling men in a condescending way. They never expect it bc the women in their lives are usually pushover or don't care so when it happens to them they look so shocked & meek but shut the fuck up every time. It's fabulous.
indiegirl
12-26-2021, 08:14 AM
Ya'll in sex work best believe these men see ladies for 60 bucks to thousands. He was ready to have car sex with me and now he's asking from a nice hotel for 3 coat hangers for his suit at full price. Don't trust these men with what they say. Stick to your price you deserve.
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 09:15 AM
^ Well that went from Dennys to the Ritz very quickly ..........
Hopefully he will book smoothly at the price you want. :)
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 09:20 AM
Love that. I get dolled up too for date nights.
Just any sit down meal really. We have been together awhile though.
I agree , don't give them too much time in the early phases .
It goes against their instincts to chase .
He took me out for christmas eve and I did my makeup, hair, dressed sexy in heels, everything. When he sees me at home I'm in glasses in pjs or casual wear with no makeup, still cute bc I'm cute as hell no matter what I do but very, very minimal effort. I highly recommend (at least in the talking stage) teach them that if they take you out then that's when you will put effort into your appearance in return. }:D
indiegirl
12-26-2021, 10:05 AM
^ Well that went from Dennys to the Ritz very quickly ..........
Hopefully he will book smoothly at the price you want. :)
Yep He is out the door fully paid. :)!
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 10:30 AM
Nice ! ^
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2021, 11:08 AM
I hate how men assume since they bought you something expensive that now they are owed sex.
Idiots!
indiegirl
12-26-2021, 02:43 PM
Me rushing for an appointment and then seeing this....I wanted to gag. Like do you need a knife and fork and how much shit have you eaten in the past and I'm supposed to kiss your mouth. GIRRRRLLLLL. I can't. I am so glad I am having issues with my phone because he was going to ask me in person which is the worst position to be in when they are already in the room. This is intensive therapy level in my book for a person.
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Aurora_Sunset
12-26-2021, 03:35 PM
Me rushing for an appointment and then seeing this....I wanted to gag. Like do you need a knife and fork and how much shit have you eaten in the past and I'm supposed to kiss your mouth. GIRRRRLLLLL. I can't. I am so glad I am having issues with my phone because he was going to ask me in person which is the worst position to be in when they are already in the room. This is intensive therapy level in my book for a person.
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BARF
Honestly, though, I always got the vibe from these guys that they were all talk and no action 99% of the time. They just like talking about it, but if you actually agreed and attempted to do whatever weird shit they asked, they would pussy out lol
LoveyD
12-26-2021, 09:34 PM
I was at the grocery store returning a cart to the front area when some fat bald guy decided it would be fine and okay to approach me with his cart and block me in so I could not get out. I screamed EXCUSE ME! SO RUDE!!! MY GOD!!! And he was all duhhh.
WTF???How about letting me out FIRST so then you can put your cart in rather than trying to mow me down with it??? What the fuck is wrong with these stupid men? No fucking excuse. What an idiot!!!
Marina Starr
12-27-2021, 05:23 AM
What a fucking idiot. I'm not one to call people stupid because people already knew they're stupid but the stupid is strong in him.
You did what I would have done. I would have cuss him the fuck out too.
I was at the grocery store returning a cart to the front area when some fat bald guy decided it would be fine and okay to approach me with his cart and block me in so I could not get out. I screamed EXCUSE ME! SO RUDE!!! MY GOD!!! And he was all duhhh.
WTF???How about letting me out FIRST so then you can put your cart in rather than trying to mow me down with it??? What the fuck is wrong with these stupid men? No fucking excuse. What an idiot!!!
indiegirl
12-27-2021, 08:45 PM
If I get a text with the words bby one more time.....I'm gonna lose it. I will not allow the words babe, baby, bby in future relationships because of customers LOLLL. It's a word that is overused.
Also someone cancelled their request because they didn't want to do an incall at a 4 star hotel. I'm so sorry the Hilton isn't up to your standards. BAHAHA. Girl I'm only paying this price so you feel like it is worth the price and effort I go through to make you happy.
whirlerz
12-27-2021, 10:05 PM
So.. My crush guy, for some reason gave the meth guy his car keys, altho he didn't take the car.. He went somewhere, (his own car in the shop, so he went on foot or most likely got picked up by someone) , left his room unlocked, & his phone here.. Gone since this morning, more than likely he got pinched by cops, (he told me he's got a warrant out for his arrest ).
Btw, my crush only has 1 set of car keys?? TF?
How he gonna get to work tomorrow? I'll be on camming.. Idiot knocked on my door this morning, to ask me some favor, which I ignored & was working anyway ..
I did drive him a short distance yesterday, (he gave me 5.00), I stopped on the way back for a pop, he starts his usual paranoid shit about people watching/wanting to shoot him, & for me to give him my car keys.. Fuck NO.
I rushed in, got my pop & ran back out, dropped his ass back home.
So upset w/crush guy, he knows better.
The idiot broke his car previously WTF. :O
emkato
12-28-2021, 09:12 AM
BARF
Honestly, though, I always got the vibe from these guys that they were all talk and no action 99% of the time. They just like talking about it, but if you actually agreed and attempted to do whatever weird shit they asked, they would pussy out lol
Oh for sure. Guys talk non stop about wanting to eat their own cum but once that post nut clarity hits they dip faster than they came in. I'd be amazed if they actually ate shit when they cant even stomach their own cum, but they're fine feeding their cum to any woman who will give them the time of day! hypocrites, all of em. lol.
WendiStarr
12-28-2021, 10:36 AM
I hate BD. I hate that he won't go away and leave me alone. If I could leave the state to escape him, I would. I'm so tired of being treated like crap. I'm tired of LE too because they won't do anything unless he turns physically abusive.
emkato
12-28-2021, 10:38 AM
"Stand up so I can see you"
"Does size matter"
"What do you consider a small penis size"
"back up for me"
dudes asking sexual questions or barking demands as if I am obligated by any means to speak to them just because I make myself available by streaming online. This isn't a customer service job where I have to be polite to you or the boss man will get mad. you will be IGNORED.
LoveyD
12-28-2021, 09:15 PM
@Wendi I hate BD too. If you haven't already, I'd consider consulting with a therapist or trauma coach who specializes in narcissistic abuse. You can document what he does with the therapist, who can also be a great source of support as you extricate yourself away from him. I was seeing a therapist right after the pandemic started and it's free through insurance and they can do zoom so you can do it at home. Just a thought. Sometimes when our families are unsupportive and shitty, a good therapist can be a Godsend. They can help you get out safely.
moneybags
12-29-2021, 11:23 AM
No longer entertaining men outside of work. All they want is sex and then my feelings are hurt cause I thought they were genuinely interested in me. Ugh.
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2021, 07:06 AM
I hate BD. I hate that he won't go away and leave me alone. If I could leave the state to escape him, I would. I'm so tired of being treated like crap. I'm tired of LE too because they won't do anything unless he turns physically abusive.
‘I would discreetly record him.
if he ever tries to get custody you can show evidence to the court that he is mentally unfit as a parent.
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2021, 07:10 AM
Oh for sure. Guys talk non stop about wanting to eat their own cum but once that post nut clarity hits they dip faster than they came in. I'd be amazed if they actually ate shit when they cant even stomach their own cum, but they're fine feeding their cum to any woman who will give them the time of day! hypocrites, all of em. lol.
reminds me of my sub I once had.
‘’he liked when I bossed him around.
he was so turned on by it that I said ‘you know what. You need to cum in your face and lick it off’
men are hilarious- I guess they are so nasty that they don’t want to taste their own body…….unless they’re being ordered to do it…..yet they expect women to taste that nastiness
um. No!
miss.a.p1600
12-30-2021, 03:02 PM
Never tell men you work for yourself cause then they act like you can drop everything and cater to them. And your flexible schedule somehow will be used against you later.
Always tell them you have a boss.
Even if the boss is yourself.
whirlerz
12-30-2021, 05:50 PM
Well.
I helped my crush guy, I called this locksmith place I used previously, they quoted me $250.00, (that's to come out, program the key etc. since he gave the meth idiot his only car key, & he's been gone since Monday::))
He offered to pay me when he gets paid, I just said forget it..guilt over the time I accidentally gave his materials away.. Also I wanted to help him, I could feel his pain, hasn't been able to work this week at all, I know he shouldn't have given his keys, this meth prick's a real con artist!
Anyway, I texted him to get his 2nd vehicle back, from the B. upstairs, who's had it, literally for months, she's waitressing @ a busy place, + her man has a truck? >:(
I mean, they know he didn't have have a fucking vehicle to use, you're using his, don't offer him any $ ?
I know it's his fault, but, Damn!
LoveyD
12-30-2021, 06:25 PM
Never tell men you work for yourself cause then they act like you can drop everything and cater to them. And your flexible schedule somehow will be used against you later.
Always tell them you have a boss.
Even if the boss is yourself.
My ex C used to do this. Then he'd get his kids to beg me to stay home from work, even though I had bills due. I told him to give me money then.
Ugh so glad I walked away from that manipulative pos
carmen_b
12-30-2021, 06:34 PM
^ I could write a novel on ways people have tried ( and failed lol ) to take advantage of my flexible schedule .
The point is .... bottom line .... it's YOUR time. You set your hours. Time you save by working efficiently and productively isn't time anyone else just " gets " .
I set 9-5 type hours even though my schedule is so much more flexible than that.
This way there is no confusion for partners.
I find that it's best to turn the conversation around on them .
Ask them WHY they think it's ok to impact your work time ?
Clarify that it is NOT ok and your flex. is for emergencies only ( real ones like someone in the hospital ).
Lovey : I know you said your guy was a Narc and my crazy Narc from 2 winters ago would do the same things ( pretend I didn't have work hours ). It just wouldn't work. If he reached me 9-5 , I would just send a text that I'd get back to him at 5:15 . He was needy at the house one time when I was working there and I just started leaving each day after that. I didn't even give him a 2nd day to negatively impact my work.
He was disrespectful of my time for sure . That is so common with these creeps.
It's sad you need to pretend sometimes that you are busier than you are but the time needs to be protected for when you ARE BUSY. If you don't protect this time you'll be stuck multi-tasking when you shouldn't need to be.
carmen_b
12-30-2021, 06:44 PM
Whirl :
Something seems off if he would not take his 2nd vehicle back ...... right ? I wonder if they worked out some kind of payment for the truck use so he feels like he couldn't ask or something.
He seems like he is letting people take advantage of him ( obviously ) . I hope he begins to end that pattern !
I know you are saying you are not worried about it but I bet he will pay you back too.
laurielegs
12-30-2021, 07:58 PM
Saw this posted on Twitter today. Too often this is exactly how marriage goes.
It did with mine. I can't ever see myself being comfortable with getting married again (probably won't even live with a man again). Works much better for me to have my own space and simply visit if and when I want male company.
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WonderWoman0642
12-30-2021, 09:15 PM
Never tell men you work for yourself cause then they act like you can drop everything and cater to them. And your flexible schedule somehow will be used against you later.
Always tell them you have a boss.
Even if the boss is yourself.
This is so true. My flexible schedule was taken advantage of so much.
WonderWoman0642
12-30-2021, 09:16 PM
^ I could write a novel on ways people have tried ( and failed lol ) to take advantage of my flexible schedule .
The point is .... bottom line .... it's YOUR time. You set your hours. Time you save by working efficiently and productively isn't time anyone else just " gets " .
I set 9-5 type hours even though my schedule is so much more flexible than that. This way there is no confusion for partners.
I find that it's best to turn the conversation around on them . Ask them WHY they think it's ok to impact your work time ? Clarify that it is NOT ok and your flex. is for emergencies only ( real ones like someone in the hospital ).
Lovey : I know you said your guy was a Narc and my crazy Narc from 2 winters ago would do the same things ( pretend I didn't have work hours ). It just wouldn't work. If he reached me 9-5 , I would just send a text that I'd get back to him at 5:15 . He was needy at the house one time when I was working there and I just started leaving each day after that.
He was disrespectful of my time for sure . That is so common with these creeps.
It's sad you need to pretend sometimes that you are busier than you are but the time needs to be protected for when you ARE BUSY .
This!
moneybags
12-31-2021, 03:39 AM
I’m over crush. I hate that I get crushes so easily-you’d think I was a high school girl. I found the best way to get over a guy is to ask myself what is he doing for me $$$. Nothing okay thanks bye. My new year’s resolution is to stop being so nice to people. I still want to be a good person, but most men don’t deserve my time and energy. This guy is my Dr and has a girlfriend and is flirting with his patient. Okay I’m hot, but gross. How could I ever trust your ass. Your poor girlfriend. I feel like when it comes to men they need to put their money where there mouth is. Because actions speak louder than words. If you really love me you’ll spoil me. I’ve always said if I’m fucking a dude I’m not working at the club. You need to pay my bills and I’ll finish school. I don’t know if I’d ever give a man that much control. I’d worry I’d be going to school and he would sabotage it. Well glad I got out of my damn feelings. Please slap me if I ever “fall in love” with a guy who isn’t doing shit for me. Im too grown. I know better. I’m such a hopeless romantic and men KNOW that. That’s why you have to make them jump through hoops to PROVE their love cause otherwise you have to assume all they want is sex.
Marina Starr
12-31-2021, 05:04 AM
Men that truly respect women don't need to announce they were raised to respect women or just simply tell you they respect women. They just convey it through their actions. Some are genuine but the majority are using it as a tactic, a selling point. Something about that doesn't sit well with me. I have yet to hear a woman says she was raised to respect men. I wonder why.
Some guy just told me he was raised to respect women. I quickly told him because women are people too.
He acted like that was an 'aha moment' for him, lol!