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miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 08:01 AM
Saw this posted on Twitter today. Too often this is exactly how marriage goes.

It did with mine. I can't ever see myself being comfortable with getting married again (probably won't even live with a man again). Works much better for me to have my own space and simply visit if and when I want male company.

56367

Agreed!

I hate the obligatory sex they think they’re owed.

The thing that really irks me is my dude was like “let’s have a baby!”

And I’m like “Let’s see if you get a raise first”

He somehow thought I would drastically change my life my body while his ass stays the same.

Nah bruh!

You WILL compensate me for dealing with your kids, for having a kid, and for permanently being linked to you.

Show me the money and I’ll show you the honey.

Otherwise ……… your request will be denied

whirlerz
12-31-2021, 08:45 AM
Whirl :
Something seems off if he would not take his 2nd vehicle back ...... right ? I wonder if they worked out some kind of payment for the truck use so he feels like he couldn't ask or something.
He seems like he is letting people take advantage of him ( obviously ) . I hope he begins to end that pattern !
I know you are saying you are not worried about it but I bet he will pay you back too.

Nope.

I know they're not paying him shit.. 2 hard core Stoners..

The thing about that Truck : no tags, no muffler, + No Insurance!

The driver's insurance does not count, meth guy used it for a while, got pulled over for no taillight,
cop said that his insurance didn't count, & he got slapped w/some SR violation, which crush paid.
There's usually a cop sitting on the one road she takes to work so.. :O
Idk if she has priors, her BF does.

indiegirl
12-31-2021, 09:22 AM
When you know someone is not going to show based on his 2 word response "Lets goooo" ....Hunny you are the type to book and just flat out not arrive because you were partying the night before and decided to contact me.

I am also okay with paying extra so long as I don't have to go to this hotel ever again. I don't know why it is so difficult to provide more than 2 bath towels in a room and you're a 4 star who won't provide me any more when I call for extra? Someone had to use a hand towel to dry off after his shower. That is not okay with me.

carmen_b
12-31-2021, 10:06 AM
You are a smart cookie. I can tell from your posts ! I think your medical issues just expose you to these guys ( men in medicine can be very appealing but also creepy as you are seeing ). Ha. If his intentions were actually good he would be professional and not flirting with a patient when he's taken. If he really wanted to have something substantial with you he would have to refer you to another Dr. so that he doesn't risk trouble intermixing .


I’m over crush. I hate that I get crushes so easily-you’d think I was a high school girl. I found the best way to get over a guy is to ask myself what is he doing for me $$$. Nothing okay thanks bye. My new year’s resolution is to stop being so nice to people. I still want to be a good person, but most men don’t deserve my time and energy. This guy is my Dr and has a girlfriend and is flirting with his patient. Okay I’m hot, but gross. How could I ever trust your ass. Your poor girlfriend. I feel like when it comes to men they need to put their money where there mouth is. Because actions speak louder than words. If you really love me you’ll spoil me. I’ve always said if I’m fucking a dude I’m not working at the club. You need to pay my bills and I’ll finish school. I don’t know if I’d ever give a man that much control. I’d worry I’d be going to school and he would sabotage it. Well glad I got out of my damn feelings. Please slap me if I ever “fall in love” with a guy who isn’t doing shit for me. Im too grown. I know better. I’m such a hopeless romantic and men KNOW that. That’s why you have to make them jump through hoops to PROVE their love cause otherwise you have to assume all they want is sex.

miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 10:17 AM
^one of my friends is a high ranking nurse and she acknowledged that a lot of those doctors are players n narcissists n not to even deal with them.

They know that they make more money than most people and they use their money n status to get leverage over women they are involved with.

carmen_b
12-31-2021, 10:24 AM
Yep.
The " good hearted Dr. " you see in movies may occur in real life about 2-3% of the time ......

whirlerz
12-31-2021, 10:41 AM
Yes, a lot of Dr's are, mines an exception, hes brilliant, kind & his humility blows me away!

Anyway, I texted crush the meth guy is home, his car's not here, but he's the only 1 that locks the front door, + blinds are different, mail's sticking out of door, it wasn't before..

He's talking about punching him, buuuut, does he ask him for his keys back?
My guess's no..::)

whirlerz
12-31-2021, 10:48 AM
^one of my friends is a high ranking nurse and she acknowledged that a lot of those doctors are players n narcissists n not to even deal with them.

They know that they make more money than most people and they use their money n status to get leverage over women they are involved with.

OMG, I read about this high ranking Dr, he killed someone in an accident, speeding, doesn't sound like they're gonna do shit to him, + he's had a bunch of 'warnings'/tickets for speeding?

Marina Starr
12-31-2021, 11:20 AM
I want to share my perspective. No matter what kind of job or profession men have, they first and foremost are still men. Men flirt, especially with women they find attractive. Doesn't matter if they're married or taken. That doesn't always mean there will be anything more than that.

Be it a doctor, mechanic or whatever, we can't tell men how to behave or not flirt because we expect better of them just because of their jobs. It's important to ask yourself, do I like the attention that married or taken men give me? Does that make me feel good in some ways? Do I entertain it? Be completely honest with yourself.

If you truly don't like when they're giving you attention, go to a different doctor, a different mechanic, etc.

This is not faulting or calling anyone out, it's just a different perspective.

WendiStarr
12-31-2021, 12:10 PM
All the annoying timewasting fuckers on my OF page today. No, I don't post free nudes. No, I'm not going to send you free custom sexy pictures to "prove I'm real". Ugh! The custom request fuckers are annoying too. They just waste time asking endless questions about if you do xyz fetish or this or that and then crickets when you say that you'll do it.

moneybags
12-31-2021, 02:25 PM
You are a smart cookie. I can tell from your posts ! I think your medical issues just expose you to these guys ( men in medicine can be very appealing but also creepy as you are seeing ). Ha. If his intentions were actually good he would be professional and not flirting with a patient when he's taken. If he really wanted to have something substantial with you he would have to refer you to another Dr. so that he doesn't risk trouble intermixing .

Well since I’m going into medicine, I’ll be prepared for it. Happens a lot at the hospitals. Much like strip clubs with strippers and bouncers. I do think committed healthy relationships can happen between nurses, patients, and doctors, BUT you also have to do it ethically. I’ll still be working with him. I agree men are men. Doctors are just humans. I always expect vanilla people to be more vanilla. As a sex worker, I think I’m more aware of boundaries and sexual ethics than most. It’s because most of society is sexually repressed it comes out in inappropriate ways.

carmen_b
12-31-2021, 02:29 PM
^ I think another way they can be sneaky is that they use their “ on call “ thing for nefarious purposes often.
Like ... you’d never really know if he’s shady if he’s actually at work !

I don’t need the biggest fish ( can lead to problems ).
Give me the med - large fish dude not the jumbo haha.
The chance of being a normal and nice person is higher.
I don’t want to fight all the single girls in my town for Dr. dick lol.

moneybags
12-31-2021, 02:29 PM
I want to share my perspective. No matter what kind of job or profession men have, they first and foremost are still men. Men flirt, especially with women they find attractive. Doesn't matter if they're married or taken. That doesn't always mean there will be anything more than that.

Be it a doctor, mechanic or whatever, we can't tell men how to behave or not flirt because we expect better of them just because of their jobs. It's important to ask yourself, do I like the attention that married or taken men give me? Does that make me feel good in some ways? Do I entertain it? Be completely honest with yourself.

If you truly don't like when they're giving you attention, go to a different doctor, a different mechanic, etc.

This is not faulting or calling anyone out, it's just a different perspective.

Honestly I’m autistic, so I have a hard time understanding social norms. I expect it at work from men, but not outside the club. I’m not masking outside of work, so it catches me off guard. Now I know, and I’m setting boundaries.

Marina Starr
12-31-2021, 02:35 PM
I can't be the only one but I missed the good old days when men were respectful to women. As I was sitting outside Starbucks, I didn't see what exactly transpired but I saw this woman around my age going off on some guy in the parking lot for flipping her off and called her a fucking bitch. I rarely see women going off like that but I was rooting for her, lol.

Then out of nowhere came this old asshole lights up the most stinky cigarette without a care or respect for those around while eating a sandwich. I told him to put it out, he called me a fucking bitch and said he was gonna take it out on me if I don't stop. He was threatening me not knowing who he was dealing with. So I told him to come and take it out as he said and watch what happens... then he shut the fuck up, all talks and no fucking balls. Gutter and trashy.

As AChildOfBoredom said, men understand violence but not enough women are ready to go there. I don't mind violence and I'm always ready to go there if needed too.

Marina Starr
12-31-2021, 02:54 PM
I feel men outside of work are worst because it's unexpected. As you said, off guard.


Honestly I’m autistic, so I have a hard time understanding social norms. I expect it at work from men, but not outside the club. I’m not masking outside of work, so it catches me off guard. Now I know, and I’m setting boundaries.

kamiliam
12-31-2021, 03:07 PM
I can't be the only one but I missed the good old days when men were respectful to women. As I was sitting outside Starbucks, I didn't see what exactly transpired but I saw this woman around my age going off on some guy in the parking lot for flipping her off and called her a fucking bitch. I rarely see women going off like that but I was rooting for her, lol.

Then out of nowhere came this old asshole lights up the most stinky cigarette without a care or respect for those around while eating a sandwich. I told him to put it out, he called me a fucking bitch and said he was gonna take it out on me if I don't stop. He was threatening me not knowing who he was dealing with. So I told him to come and take it out as he said and watch what happens... then he shut the fuck up, all talks and no fucking balls. Gutter and trashy.

As AChildOfBoredom said, men understand violence but not enough women are ready to go there. I don't mind violence and I'm always ready to go there if needed too.


The joy I get when I surprise horrible men with my tremendous temper despite appearances… is my favorite “toxic” trait

Marina Starr
12-31-2021, 03:13 PM
Your post just made my day/night, thank you :)

Same with me. I'm petite and easy on the eyes so they're in for a big shock when I unleashed my temper.

On a random note, if anyone needs anything from Mac Cosmetics, you can get 30% off with code: surprise30


The joy I get when I surprise horrible men with my tremendous temper despite appearances… is my favorite “toxic” trait

TheBrownFox
12-31-2021, 03:26 PM
The joy I get when I surprise horrible men with my tremendous temper despite appearances… is my favorite “toxic” trait


Same! I was told I "tend to go off the rails...and really lose control." *Eye roll* Lmao.

miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 04:01 PM
^ I think another way they can be sneaky is that they use their “ on call “ thing for nefarious purposes often.
Like ... you’d never really know if he’s shady if he’s actually at work !

I don’t need the biggest fish ( can lead to problems ).
Give me the med - large fish dude not the jumbo haha.
The chance of being a normal and nice person is higher.
I don’t want to fight all the single girls in my town for Dr. dick lol.

my relative married a lawyer

said he would be off with his mistress while she was at home taking care of their kids (and sometimes temporarily taking in other peoples kids)

Anyhow he claimed he was ‘working late’ but yeah we all know what was going on after hours

she ended up divorcing him

miss.a.p1600
12-31-2021, 04:03 PM
I hate how men think they can be unrefined like they were raised by animals and you should still be sexually attracted to them.

L said his coworkers husband was having loud stinky farts in the bed right next to her. Then moments later he tried to get some sexual relations lol.

She wisely declined.

moneybags
12-31-2021, 06:28 PM
The joy I get when I surprise horrible men with my tremendous temper despite appearances… is my favorite “toxic” trait

56375

I’m studying non dualism and this seems quite applicable.

Women are expected to be all Yang without any Yin. Of course a guy with a Yang “good girl” will cheat with a Yin “bad girl.”

Guess what you fuck with a divine feminine you’re gonna get some yin energy blasted at you. We aren’t repressed “good girls.”

When we mirror people’s energy we “help” them understand what they are doing is “wrong”. LOL

indiegirl
12-31-2021, 06:38 PM
I've been backhanded mentioning people's bullshit lately and then following it with a "hope your day is going amazing" .....I was right about the customer who I knew wasn't gonna show up. He texted me later saying he was hungover and not showing up.

I said "I actually knew you were hungover which is why I left 5 minutes ago. Have a restful New Years Eve!" I can read past these text messages before I waste my time LOLLL. These men don't understand the amount of effort to get ready for sex work takes. They just picture us laying around waiting for them with makeup and hair to the 10's 24/7.

On a random sidenote....OMG I can't believe it's about to be 2022!

Aurora_Sunset
01-01-2022, 01:33 PM
These men don't understand the amount of effort to get ready for sex work takes. They just picture us laying around waiting for them with makeup and hair to the 10's 24/7.

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THIS. Used to drive me batshit when guys would claim they wanted to wait to officially book an appointment until the last minute, to "see what their schedule is like" and then expect me to be ready in 10 minutes. I'm not on-call at a brothel, dude, I'm an independent, sitting at home. Do you think I just sit around in my done-up look and clothes all day, waiting for clients to "maybe" text? Fuck no lol

miss.a.p1600
01-01-2022, 03:00 PM
I've been backhanded mentioning people's bullshit lately and then following it with a "hope your day is going amazing" .....I was right about the customer who I knew wasn't gonna show up. He texted me later saying he was hungover and not showing up.

I said "I actually knew you were hungover which is why I left 5 minutes ago. Have a restful New Years Eve!" I can read past these text messages before I waste my time LOLLL. These men don't understand the amount of effort to get ready for sex work takes. They just picture us laying around waiting for them with makeup and hair to the 10's 24/7.

On a random sidenote....OMG I can't believe it's about to be 2022!

Because men have simple minds.

They think that since they take 5 minutes to get ready then we women are instantly ready in 3 minutes and that being with a woman is like getting pizza from little Caesar’s ….. we’re always “hot n ready” for them.

Idiots!

WendiStarr
01-02-2022, 08:10 AM
All the meet in person requests. I create content for you men to fantasize about. I'm not flying to wherever you live to meet you! Don't slick bother giving me your personal phone number, Snapchat, or Kik because I'm not contacting you off site on a personal level.

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 09:03 AM
Men are the most selfish cunts I know.

A lot of them are cheating philanderers who expect you to take them back if they cheat on you

But cheat on their asses and they have complete man child meltdowns n will try to stalk n kill you.

This is why I’m convinced that just as many women cheat as men but women are better at not getting caught cause no dick is work dying for.

Matter of fact if they were better ad sex and/or providing then they wouldn’t get cheated on.

Staci
01-02-2022, 11:02 AM
Matter of fact if they were better ad sex and/or providing then they wouldn’t get cheated on.
In some cases that may be true, but I think there are many reasons that women cheat. Loneliness, sexual variety, lack of love for partner, excitement seeking, etc.

I think most men cheat just because they can. LOL

Marina Starr
01-02-2022, 01:45 PM
I've bitched, ranted and vented about this but I feel like doing it again because the mood strikes:

If men find you attractive or sexually appealing they automatically assumed you're promiscuous. They ASS-umed it's mutual and you want them too that's why they go out of their ways to harrass and bother.

My fucking neighbor a couple houses down has been out waving looking all giddy when I'm leaving and coming. How the fuck does he catches when I'm coming and going is beyond pathetic. Today I rolled my eyes and put on the most severe bitch resting face. He seems to get the hints and stopped that fucking shenanigans. I want to tell him to stay the fuck inside because that shit is creepy as fuck.
I can't imagine if he knew I sell pussy. Probably stands outside his house with dick in his hand.

When motherfuckers acting the damned fools I feel like asking 'Who the fuck told you I want you too?! Who the fuck told you that???!!!'

Rant over.

carmen_b
01-02-2022, 02:02 PM
^ He probably frustrates you because you can’t charge him ha out of discretion !

Marina Starr
01-02-2022, 02:15 PM
I highly doubt he could afford me, LOL!


^ He probably frustrates you because you can’t charge him ha out of discretion !

miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 03:26 PM
^reminds me of the time this guy I dated (then discovered he was not a good person who was a functioning alcoholic, a low level narcissist, etc) and quickly ditched after I realized his true colors.

He was like “let’s have a baby” when he realized I was going to leave his ass. As if a fucking mini human was the cure to staying with a douchebag. Plus his dusty ass already had 3 kids with his ex wife. (Why do I attract men with young kids?)

Anywho, I flat out told him “nah bruh you can’t afford my baby”

It was in that moment that solidified me leaving him.

Because if he couldn’t afford to provide for a baby to my standards then he couldn’t afford to be with me either.

Left n never looked back.

Glad I never got stuck with that crazy ass fool.

ravenskyy
01-03-2022, 09:06 AM
I was talking to this guy on Streamate. Every time I spoke to him, I made an effort to get him to do exclusives with me. He did a few and then bought a video. The video had my other cam name on it, and a few days later he found me on Skype. He messages me and then when it came to pay, this was how he behaved.

I fucking hate men. They ALL act like this! What is wrong with the fucking Y chromosome??? :mad: :censored:

WendiStarr
01-03-2022, 11:22 AM
^^ Ugh, I get guys like that too. It's like if they spend any $ at all, they'll find you on Skype afterwards and expect free attention and conversation.

I have been dealing with an overly needy content buyer. He bought content twice and then has been bothering me on Skype. He ended up doing a charge back.

whirlerz
01-03-2022, 11:57 AM
What assholes ^
Hi Ravenskyy! :)

Overall, for me, I'm doing some what better on SM, but sick of the guys who act like compliments matter..::)

Then, back to the a/hole rooms, heavy garbage users, below 0 out, no one can take the dumpsters but me, an old lady w/arthritis & other conditions.
PIGS.

Only reason I do it is I don't want rats, they could be chewing on their ass & they wouldn't care.

whirlerz
01-03-2022, 12:14 PM
All the meet in person requests. I create content for you men to fantasize about. I'm not flying to wherever you live to meet you! Don't slick bother giving me your personal phone number, Snapchat, or Kik because I'm not contacting you off site on a personal level.

Lol!
I played this one guy on SM, he asked if I was single, I said yea.
He took me private, I had a lot of guys jumping in, so he wanted to wait, he took me exclusive but didn't last long lol.

This's why I give a fake country but don't mention an area, it'll just be by them & they try to set up a meeting, fuck NO.

whirlerz
01-03-2022, 12:34 PM
Eew this one creep stayed home today, was looking forward to having the house to myself.
Creepy vibe.

WendiStarr
01-04-2022, 09:53 AM
These fools on cam sites and the "I want to get to know you first" shit. Either buy a show or tip me or go away. I have limited time to cam. I don't have time to answer personal questions about marital status, how many kids do I already have, where do I live, what do I look for in a man, etc. Go on match.com or tinder if you're looking for a real life girlfriend or booty call!

Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 10:09 AM
When men asked me what I'm into, I always say pray and getting paid. I'm very close with the Lord. I used to pray what should I do if so many men just wanted to fuck me then I heard God whispered 'sell pussy!'

miss.a.p1600
01-04-2022, 11:38 AM
When men can't stand not being invited places so they invite themselves and bombard themselves into any and every social or personal space

Now I see why so many women's only spaces......that they desperately try to infiltrate those too....


Idiots!

Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 01:52 PM
Being a Hoe helps you see through men and their bullshit. They always pull shit with vanilla hoes and get away with it.
It baffles me how quickly men feel entitled to and expecting sex while calling you names if you want something in return.

I'm very fair, if they want ass, I want cash! I don't let anyone dictates how I should be. I feel no guilt and cannot be shamed.

Secret Shelly
01-04-2022, 02:15 PM
Being a Hoe helps you see through men and their bullshit. They always pull shit with vanilla hoes and get away with it.
It baffles me how quickly men feel entitled to and expecting sex while calling you names if you want something in return.

I'm very fair, if they want ass, I want cash! I don't let anyone dictates how I should be. I feel no guilt and cannot be shamed.

i was always quick to point out when a customer would complain about having to pay that THEY called me and knew the way it works.

Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 02:34 PM
Of course they do but that doesn't stop them from trying to get free shit. I always tell them I'm not running a non-profit organization. I'm all about PROFIT!


i was always quick to point out when a customer would complain about having to pay that THEY called me and knew the way it works.

carmen_b
01-04-2022, 03:36 PM
^ I like that. It can be good to be up front.
Like if a guy in the club asks if you have another job I like to explain dancing as my part time job .... something I do for extra fun and money. :)
We shouldn't be ashamed about the money equation !

xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 03:43 PM
I hate the jekyll/Hyde moods they get in from drinking then not drinking ugh. Pick a fucking side and stay there.

carmen_b
01-04-2022, 03:47 PM
I hate that in relationships with men you have to prepare for the worst case scenario ( even if it is not likely ) .

Since I'm a survivor of past abuse I just know that I HAVE to do this ( have a plan for myself and my dog ). In case my partner turns nasty ( which I honestly don't really expect at all ) we need to have our back up.

I hate that with men you can't just have a 100% sense that they *won't* make life difficult . J has only made my life easier so far for example ( other than last month when his complaining got a little out of control ). Since he is a man though ( I have seen dudes " turn " before ) there will be a plan B for me + fur baby.

It can be hard to figure out a back up plan but they can be so essential ( for own calm of mind ).

When we talked about scenarios ( together or apart ) he was gracious and said I could stay as long as I wanted even IF we moved towards separating. He was trying to make me feel better and display that I wouldn't have to be out super fast. It seemed like he couldn't even stay calm for 2-3 weeks of *reduced* sexy times . I assume that no sexy times would be mean " be out within 13-14 days " or something. I think things would be odd beyond that anyway, ha.

miss.a.p1600
01-04-2022, 04:04 PM
i was always quick to point out when a customer would complain about having to pay that THEY called me and knew the way it works.

So they could convince you to accept their cheapskate antics

Knowing good n damn well no quality woman will accept it

xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 04:06 PM
I hate that in relationships with men you have to prepare for the worst case scenario ( even if it is not likely ) .

Since I'm a survivor of past abuse I just know that I HAVE to do this ( have a plan for myself and my dog ). In case my partner turns nasty ( which I honestly don't really expect at all ) we need to have our back up plan.

I hate that with men you can't just have a 100% sense that they *won't* make life difficult . J has only made my life easier so far for example ( other than last month when his complaining got a little out of control ). Since he is a man though ( I have seen dudes " turn " before ) I still need a plan B for me + fur baby.

It can be hard to figure out a back up plan but they can be so essential ( for own calm of mind ).

When we talked about scenarios ( together or apart ) he was gracious and said I could stay as long as I wanted even IF we moved towards separating. He was trying to make me feel better and display that I wouldn't have to be out super fast. What does that mean though given that he couldn't even stay calm for two weeks of *reduced* sexy times. I assume that no sexy times would be mean " be out within 13-14 days " or something. I think things would be odd beyond that anyway, ha.

Same here girl! My new guy I've had since the summer has improved drastically with everything except his moods being off here & there. I'm prepared to always jump ship if need be bc I've had to do it alot in the past. He's been waaay better to me than my last asshole parade I've had thru the years.

carmen_b
01-04-2022, 04:09 PM
" You are just here for the money ! "

Um dude ..... a reminder that YOU walked into a place where you pay women !! Lol

Maybe walk into some other sort of venue then such as a church, soup kitchen, or other charity venue hahaha.

Goth : For my partner I could see us working it out BUT I will not stay if there is constant complaining. He is aware of this . I believe a lot of complaining can turn into emotional abuse ( because then the other person is always on " edge " trying to keep the fussier one happy ). We are NO WHERE near that line yet but as a woman you've just got to have a plan in case. My plan isn't a particularly good one. It is probably just a rough plan to move back up north ( where I don't really want to be ) . I guess a loose " meh " plan is better than nothing though ! I can go towards my rental up North or a family members home for a month. Hopefully neither will be needed but I am not joking when I say this is the end of the complaining. I mean .... he can continue ..... but I won't be here to listen to any of it.

miss.a.p1600
01-04-2022, 04:13 PM
I hate that in relationships with men you have to prepare for the worst case scenario ( even if it is not likely ) .

Since I'm a survivor of past abuse I just know that I HAVE to do this ( have a plan for myself and my dog ). In case my partner turns nasty ( which I honestly don't really expect at all ) we need to have our back up plan.

I hate that with men you can't just have a 100% sense that they *won't* make life difficult . J has only made my life easier so far for example ( other than last month when his complaining got a little out of control ). Since he is a man though ( I have seen dudes " turn " before ) I still need a plan B for me + fur baby.

It can be hard to figure out a back up plan but they can be so essential ( for own calm of mind ).

When we talked about scenarios ( together or apart ) he was gracious and said I could stay as long as I wanted even IF we moved towards separating. He was trying to make me feel better and display that I wouldn't have to be out super fast. What does that mean though given that he couldn't even stay calm for two weeks of *reduced* sexy times. I assume that no sexy times would be mean " be out within 13-14 days " or something. I think things would be odd beyond that anyway, ha.


I've had those moments too.

When L goes into his clingy/insecure modes ---- if he goes too far with it then it start my mind going like 'what if he does some stalker-ish type shit'

Then I think how you said....gotta have a GTFO savings so *if* he ever took it there....I know I can instantly leave without worrying about the financial part of it.

If it were a life or death situation (and/or my sanity was at stake), and I didn't have any savings, hell, I'd charge a "GTFO move" to a credit card n keep moving forward.

People my be more likely to stay in abusive relationships if they think they can't financially afford to leave.

I also think guys are more likely to be kind to their partners when things are going well. Get everything he said in writing ....juuuuust in case....lol!!!

Cohabitating is a sticky situation because if the worst happens (like death, separation, etc), and there is nothing on paper to help during those times.....it can be rough because most men act like level 10 megacunts when they lose their women.

xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 04:16 PM
" You are just here for the money ! "

Um dude ..... do your need a reminder that YOU walked into a place where you pay women ? Lol

Maybe walk into some other sort of venue then such as a church, soup kitchen, or other charity venue hahaha.

Goth : For my partner I could see us working it out BUT I will not stay if there is constant complaining. He is aware of this . I believe a lot of complaining can turn into emotional abuse ( because then the other person is always on " edge " trying to keep the fussier one happy ). We are NO WHERE near that line yet but as a woman you've just got to have a plan in case.
Yaas girl spot on! That was my last relationship I left when I moved to NYC. That mfer complained about everything and would yell at me if I didn't agree or follow suit ugh. 😒. I don't miss that ever!