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moneybags
01-08-2022, 01:09 PM
Christmas Day I was having a conversation with my sister and my grandmom about how I'm old school when it comes to headphones. I prefer the big Mickey Mouse looking ones that go on your ears, and I can't stand AirPods. I don't like putting stuff in my ears, and they hurt. You should see me on the bus looking like a damn fool, trying to listen to Daft Punk, and having those things keep falling out of my ears. Lol.
I got off topic for a minute, so let me put it back on topic...MEN ARE PIGS! Lol.
They’re back in style. I bought some of the big headphones with a kimber mace gun and knife. Would love get a gun, but right now this will do. I don’t want to buy a gun unless i know how to use it, or it’s basically useless. I think with the leave me the fuck alone headphones, fake wedding ring, mace, and knife I’ll be good. I pity the fool that harasses me next. I won’t feel one ounce of guilt. If you can’t pick up those signs you deserved to get maced.
https://youtu.be/35KqGNa1FGA
carmen_b
01-08-2022, 01:52 PM
^ I wear my large headphones in public often.
I'm polite but if I don't want to give you time for conversation .... you are simply not getting any energy.
That is that.
Haha. That vid at :33
The " smile " guy hahaha.
laurielegs
01-08-2022, 03:53 PM
https://youtu.be/35KqGNa1FGA
I laughed so much when she said yes to the guy who proposed and he freaked out, also the guy who handed over his phone and she asked about the woman in his contact list. Priceless!
WendiStarr
01-08-2022, 04:22 PM
Why do men seem to be incapable of replacing a damn empty toilet paper roll with a new one and spraying the air freshener after blowing ass in there? I have the air freshener sitting there on the bathroom counter in plain sight for a reason.
AChildOfBoredom
01-09-2022, 12:03 AM
https://youtu.be/35KqGNa1FGA
They really should’ve cast me in that video.
Had an incident today… not sure if I should post about it here or in annoyances, because I don’t think it’s the norm and this seems kind of more of a place for venting about their normal behaviors. I’m still feeling an urge to bleach my fucking eyes.
carmen_b
01-09-2022, 10:30 AM
^ I'm curious. Do share.
I feel like you are the type to put guys in their place at a grand scale lol.
moneybags
01-09-2022, 01:31 PM
So the guys last night were bad tippers. I mean awful tippers! Never in my 10 years have I seen this amount of cheapness.
A girl told me it’s related to a toxic internet culture and they don’t want to be Simps?
You can’t get mad that women are objectifing you(treating you like a walking wallet), and then come to the club and objectify us. That just makes you a hypocrite.
Besides we’re at work, not a bar! If i need my furniture moved or a handy man, I have to pay for their time. It’s no different for sex work. Why would you think anyone owes you anything for free??? If I want someone to talk to I pay a therapist. It’s nice when other women support me. It’s nice if a men helps me lift something heavy for free. I don’t expect anything. These toxic men are just mad they can’t get what they want from us for free anymore.
The world owes you nothing. I don’t know if it’s being older, but if these up and coming men think the world owes them free pussy…they gotta another thing coming.
Men are lashing out because they know they’re power is diminishing.
AChildOfBoredom
01-09-2022, 01:53 PM
Curious about what happened tho (your incident)
Towed a car yesterday for this 20 y/o (she didn’t have her AAA card, so she showed her license). Turned out her car started misfiring. So she pulled into the parking lot of his apartment complex when it started happening. I got there, figured out what she had going on, it wasn’t something I could fix on the spot, but it was an easy repair… she had a coil go out. So she decided to have it towed home instead of to a shop. When I was attaching my safety chains (I was running a wheel lift), I was on the ground looking up and that’s when I saw this fat, middle aged dude standing butt ass naked behind a full length window, looking down at us and beating his dick. So I scooted back to where I could video him without it being so obvious, took a few seconds of video, then got up from under the car and acted like I was pointing out something on her car while telling her what I’d seen, so then she saw it for herself. ACG recently put a no riders policy back in place because of COVID, but there’s no fucking way I was leaving her there to wait for a Lyft or Uber. We have cameras in our trucks, so if they review footage, they’ll see I had a rider. If they try giving me shit about it, the video should be enough for them to let it go.
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2022, 02:12 PM
So the guys last night were bad tippers. I mean awful tippers! Never in my 10 years have I seen this amount of cheapness.
A girl told me it’s related to a toxic internet culture and they don’t want to be Simps?
You can’t get mad that women are objectifing you(treating you like a walking wallet), and then come to the club and objectify us. That just makes you a hypocrite.
Besides we’re at work, not a bar! If i need my furniture moved or a handy man, I have to pay for their time. It’s no different for sex work. Why would you think anyone owes you anything for free??? If I want someone to talk to I pay a therapist. It’s nice when other women support me. It’s nice if a men helps me lift something heavy for free. I don’t expect anything. These toxic men are just mad they can’t get what they want from us for free anymore.
The world owes you nothing. I don’t know if it’s being older, but if these up and coming men think the world owes them free pussy…they gotta another thing coming.
Men are lashing out because they know they’re power is diminishing.
They think that strippers make all their money off stage tips and so if other guys will buy/tip then that absolves them.
The majority of men today were not raised properly.
moneybags
01-09-2022, 09:16 PM
Towed a car yesterday for this 20 y/o (she didn’t have her AAA card, so she showed her license). Turned out her car started misfiring. So she pulled into the parking lot of his apartment complex when it started happening. I got there, figured out what she had going on, it wasn’t something I could fix on the spot, but it was an easy repair… she had a coil go out. So she decided to have it towed home instead of to a shop. When I was attaching my safety chains (I was running a wheel lift), I was on the ground looking up and that’s when I saw this fat, middle aged dude standing butt ass naked behind a full length window, looking down at us and beating his dick. So I scooted back to where I could video him without it being so obvious, took a few seconds of video, then got up from under the car and acted like I was pointing out something on her car while telling her what I’d seen, so then she saw it for herself. ACG recently put a no riders policy back in place because of COVID, but there’s no fucking way I was leaving her there to wait for a Lyft or Uber. We have cameras in our trucks, so if they review footage, they’ll see I had a rider. If they try giving me shit about it, the video should be enough for them to let it go.
I’m so sorry. I’m glad you were there to help her.
chanzep
01-09-2022, 11:15 PM
I'm glad you were able to help her too. That guy is nasty prick.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2022, 05:32 AM
Towed a car yesterday for this 20 y/o (she didn’t have her AAA card, so she showed her license). Turned out her car started misfiring. So she pulled into the parking lot of his apartment complex when it started happening. I got there, figured out what she had going on, it wasn’t something I could fix on the spot, but it was an easy repair… she had a coil go out. So she decided to have it towed home instead of to a shop. When I was attaching my safety chains (I was running a wheel lift), I was on the ground looking up and that’s when I saw this fat, middle aged dude standing butt ass naked behind a full length window, looking down at us and beating his dick. So I scooted back to where I could video him without it being so obvious, took a few seconds of video, then got up from under the car and acted like I was pointing out something on her car while telling her what I’d seen, so then she saw it for herself. ACG recently put a no riders policy back in place because of COVID, but there’s no fucking way I was leaving her there to wait for a Lyft or Uber. We have cameras in our trucks, so if they review footage, they’ll see I had a rider. If they try giving me shit about it, the video should be enough for them to let it go.
my recent experience with a harassing male Karen , disgusting pervs with no chill, etc makes me think 90% of the male population needs to be obliterated from the face of the earth.
Unsavory men spreading coronavirus and infecting society with their toxic “masculinity”.
America just needs a do-over for the male species.
WendiStarr
01-10-2022, 11:29 AM
I'm annoyed that BD's workplace has decided to prolong working remotely. The bastard was supposed to be back to in-person work by now. Because of the high amount of fucking omicron cases in my area, they're delayed. I thought he was going back so I made a failed attempt to gather some of our belongings and leave with the kids. It back fired and now he hid the keys and my laptop. At this rate I'm never going to be able to escape.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2022, 11:44 AM
^Sorry to hear he is playing what sounds like manipulative mind games.
You can do it.
Get a copy of the key made and hide it where only you know where it is
Take your laptop wherever you go (but first, if I were you, I'd take to a tech shop just to make sure he's not tampering with your device)
whirlerz
01-10-2022, 11:56 AM
I'm so sorry, Wendi, I know a way will be made for you..
Can you talk to someone, a case worker to get you some help, honey?
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2022, 12:02 PM
I'm so sorry, Wendi, I know a way will be made for you..
Can you talk to someone, a case worker to get you some help, honey?
Agreed. It's unfortunate he is acting like an ass and messing with you when you are pregnant.
It's probably best to see if someone you trust can help assist so you don't have to deal with the stress he is causing.
Keep a record of what he is doing. So you have proof he is unfit in case he tries to gain custody to manipulate you even more down the line.
indiegirl
01-10-2022, 12:24 PM
I'm annoyed that BD's workplace has decided to prolong working remotely. The bastard was supposed to be back to in-person work by now. Because of the high amount of fucking omicron cases in my area, they're delayed. I thought he was going back so I made a failed attempt to gather some of our belongings and leave with the kids. It back fired and now he hid the keys and my laptop. At this rate I'm never going to be able to escape.
He's such an asshole. He knows damn well to hold a laptop down because it has important information on there, documents, photos, plus they aren't cheap and you need it for school/work.
I'd be the type to start a war out and take something very important of his to get the laptop/keys back and hide anything important you have somewhere he can't find it for now, load the car up in one big grab all you can and shove it in the car to a women's shelter. Clothing and minor belongings is replaceable.
I agree with miss.a.p. I'd take that laptop to someone who will check it if he knows your password.
carmen_b
01-10-2022, 12:28 PM
^ Yes, if you feel really motivated you can call the cops and they will come and offer you a safe walk out .
The cops can be there while you gather your things. They can also help start a case against your abuser ( since that is what he is lets just call it that ) documenting him stealing your property. That's IF you want to " go big " in the fight !
I'm sure you can figure out a smaller scale way to get your things back too ( family member or friend can also help possibly ). It depends on what YOU want to do. He does not hold all the power. Currently he is building a case against himself to never see his kids so document ALL of it.
Anyway .... good luck Wendi !
indiegirl
01-10-2022, 12:41 PM
^ Yes, if you feel really motivated you can call the cops and they will come and offer you a safe walk out .
The cops can be there while you gather your things. They can also help start a case against your abuser ( since that is what he is lets just call it that ) documenting him stealing your property. That's IF you want to " go big " in the fight !
I'm sure you can figure out a smaller scale way to get your things back too ( family member or friend can also help possibly ). It depends on what YOU want to do. He does not hold all the power. Currently he is doing nothing but build a case against himself to ever see his kids so document ALL of it.
Anyway .... good luck Wendi !
Didn't think of calling the police for a safe escort out. Lol that's probably the safest idea! :). One lady I knew years ago talked about how she was going to handle getting her things from her house her husband owns without an issue. Haha she said "Oh I'm just going to call the police." And everyone there was surprised and said "are you sure when it comes down to it, you will do it?" She said "Yes I've called them on him before." LOLLLLL too funny how casually she said it.
carmen_b
01-10-2022, 12:46 PM
^ I have done it. Two years ago my abuser became threatening one day saying he would " kick me out " at like 2a.m. in freezing weather .
He did some other abusive things too . I managed to sleep safely that night but you should not take risks once you identify abuse ( never be alone with an abuser ).
I called the police and my brother and dad in the morning.
Abusers will try to isolate you ( that is why he is hiding the keys ).
Call the police and an Uber or taxi if you need to !
indiegirl
01-10-2022, 01:12 PM
So the guys last night were bad tippers. I mean awful tippers! Never in my 10 years have I seen this amount of cheapness.
A girl told me it’s related to a toxic internet culture and they don’t want to be Simps?
You can’t get mad that women are objectifing you(treating you like a walking wallet), and then come to the club and objectify us. That just makes you a hypocrite.
Besides we’re at work, not a bar! If i need my furniture moved or a handy man, I have to pay for their time. It’s no different for sex work. Why would you think anyone owes you anything for free??? If I want someone to talk to I pay a therapist. It’s nice when other women support me. It’s nice if a men helps me lift something heavy for free. I don’t expect anything. These toxic men are just mad they can’t get what they want from us for free anymore.
The world owes you nothing. I don’t know if it’s being older, but if these up and coming men think the world owes them free pussy…they gotta another thing coming.
Men are lashing out because they know they’re power is diminishing.
Walking wallet. I'm officially deceased. Hahaha
Marina Starr
01-10-2022, 01:41 PM
Ever noticed how the ugly ones are the most vocal and overly confident? When I'm out and about I do people watching and I've noticed how a lot of ugly men also have bad manners.
Bad manners is never a good look but you'd think if they're physically ugly, they'd be nice and decent so their ugliness can be overlooked.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2022, 03:03 PM
Didn't think of calling the police for a safe escort out. Lol that's probably the safest idea! :). One lady I knew years ago talked about how she was going to handle getting her things from her house her husband owns without an issue. Haha she said "Oh I'm just going to call the police." And everyone there was surprised and said "are you sure when it comes down to it, you will do it?" She said "Yes I've called them on him before." LOLLLLL too funny how casually she said it.
Exactly.
If I had to call the police, if this were me in the situation, I'd report him for theft was well as get a safe escort out while I collect my belongings whilst filing a restraining order as well.
Some dudes are petty af. I'd actually move out in secret, then just do a final disappearance. Would not give anyone my physical address so no random pop-ups could occur.
It's unfortunate but sometimes men who act like an ass need to be checked by another man (preferably one with some muscle, just in case, if ya know what I mean) so that's probably why that woman had to call the police on her husband.
miss.a.p1600
01-10-2022, 03:22 PM
Ever noticed how the ugly ones are the most vocal and overly confident? When I'm out and about I do people watching and I've noticed how a lot of ugly men also have bad manners.
Bad manners is never a good look but you'd think if they're physically ugly, they'd be nice and decent so their ugliness can be overlooked.
What is your definition of bad manners?
I seem to find men who talk with their mouth full of food, think its okay to burp loudly, sing horribly, talk loud af indoors, approach/talk to women who couldn't be bothered, etc.
Most of them are crude, crass, and rude.
Cotdamn who raised these animals?
indiegirl
01-10-2022, 03:28 PM
Ever noticed how the ugly ones are the most vocal and overly confident? When I'm out and about I do people watching and I've noticed how a lot of ugly men also have bad manners.
Bad manners is never a good look but you'd think if they're physically ugly, they'd be nice and decent so their ugliness can be overlooked.
They have the lowest self esteems. It's awful that they are so shitty. One guy I was around peed on his back lawn in front of me like this was a normal thing he does. Hunny no! He's gonna die alone without ever getting married in his 50's. He got mad at me for his low self esteem because I was joking about being interested in his friend (even said "Just Joking Around!") and he told me to fix the situation or he doesn't want to talk. Same guy who got offended by me complimenting actors and wouldn't be mad if I complimented actresses. I decided to let him fly away on his journey to being single for his lifetime. LOL.
When you can't handle a person who likes to joke around constantly, I'm out.
WendiStarr
01-11-2022, 08:00 AM
Free nude seekers, whether customers or exes that creep back after several years, pretending to care about how you're doing, only to later get to the point and ask for naked pictures at 4am to "cheer them up". As long as men continue to treat me like nothing more than a sexual object at their beck and call, I will continue to treat them like walking ATM machines. Dispense money and then we'll talk.
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2022, 08:03 AM
^I posted about something similar. How an ex circled back after a couple years then tried to treat me like a sex object and propositioned me while he was married but didn’t tell me he was married.
No bitch you can go back to your sexless ride or die Bertha bitch. Cold shouldered tf out of him n permanently deleted his number that time.
Wish I never dealt with his ass.
Desperate creep.
carmen_b
01-11-2022, 09:45 AM
^ Never bite on a mans low level trolling .
He can be single and step up and plan nice dates or get be charged ! Either one !!
TheBrownFox
01-11-2022, 10:22 AM
Free nude seekers, whether customers or exes that creep back after several years, pretending to care about how you're doing, only to later get to the point and ask for naked pictures at 4am to "cheer them up". As long as men continue to treat me like nothing more than a sexual object at their beck and call, I will continue to treat them like walking ATM machines. Dispense money and then we'll talk.
That's all they fucking care about. Sex and boring-ass sports. They barely wanna tip sex workers, but sure do love spending money on sports-related shit. That's why my Facebook feed is so boring on Sunday...everybody's talking about boring-ass football, and clowning each other over their teams losing. Lol.
Texting out of the blue talking about "Happy New Year" or "How u been?" Um...who is this??? And why the fuck would you assume that after all these years, I'd still have your contact saved in my phone? I know you don't give a fuck about how I've been. Any time they see an opportunity that they THINK will eventually get them laid, they go for it. Like this Facebook friend I told y'all about last week picking up two things for me when I was sick, and then talking about "You can buy me lunch when you're feeling better." Ew, no. Gee...I noticed he hasn't 'liked' or commented on a single one of my Facebook statuses ever since I turned him down that day, and told him "I'll just Cash App you the money." Hahahaha.
Also, old men in bars saying stuff like "If I was 20-30 years younger, I'd take you out." LOL. Um...funny how you ASSume that I'd even say yes. In order to take me out, I would have to agree to it. Duh.
ravenskyy
01-11-2022, 10:41 AM
I'm so exhausted of fake/flakey subs. Why? Just why? Why do you keep wasting my time, pretending to be a paying customers? Why be a paying customer and then become a waste of oxygen? I've never gotten pleasure from wasting someone's time or pretending to be a paying customer, what the fuck is wrong with men???
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-11-2022, 10:55 AM
I'm so exhausted of fake/flakey subs. Why? Just why? Why do you keep wasting my time, pretending to be a paying customers? Why be a paying customer and then become a waste of oxygen? I've never gotten pleasure from wasting someone's time or pretending to be a paying customer, what the fuck is wrong with men???
A lot of subs are incredibly manipulative. They'll crank call random people and jerk off, loiter at businesses to chat up women on the clock, and even break into homes to steal from women they get obsessed with....etc.
For your own good write these guys off as literally dead. They'll just go find someone else to glom onto in some way and you can seek out a financially productive sub.
Marina Starr
01-11-2022, 11:15 AM
Bring their own coffee to Starbucks, taking up seats and tables for hours without buying or tipping.
Pulled out chairs, sat and not push them back when leaving Starbucks
Not holding doors when they could see a woman walking from the parking lot and let her in first
Being loud mouthed, treating Starbucks like a sport bar.
talk too much
Stare at women
Not asking a woman if they could talk to her
Sit close to a woman when there are plenty of seats and tables available.
Expecting their wives/girlfriends to prep, cook AND do the dishes while they sit and play video games
What is your definition of bad manners?
I seem to find men who talk with their mouth full of food, think its okay to burp loudly, sing horribly, talk loud af indoors, approach/talk to women who couldn't be bothered, etc.
Most of them are crude, crass, and rude.
Cotdamn who raised these animals?
indiegirl
01-11-2022, 12:14 PM
Free nude seekers, whether customers or exes that creep back after several years, pretending to care about how you're doing, only to later get to the point and ask for naked pictures at 4am to "cheer them up". As long as men continue to treat me like nothing more than a sexual object at their beck and call, I will continue to treat them like walking ATM machines. Dispense money and then we'll talk.
LOL I accidentally spit on my laptop screen reading this. "Cheer them up".......hahahaha
I got a message where he legit begged me to send a "personal photo just for him" like last week so he could jerk off at home for free even though I said I have photos in my ad *eyeroll* ....sometimes I wonder if women actually cater to this or these men are completely shameless. I wish I had the balls to behave like that. Only time I did recently was a few months ago farting in the hotel room while someone on meth was talking to himself while he was showering. I was so mad!
@TheBrownFox .....Sports.....*sigh* I absolutely refuse to date anyone who watches sports other than the Olympics. One man was ENOUGH of an experience of having to suffer through that on TV lollll. Then him putting on a comedy show after his game is over "I put this on FOR YOU and you aren't even watching." PFFFFT.....I just want the tv off at that point after you water-boarded me for multiple hours watching that sports crap! LOLLLLL
AChildOfBoredom
01-11-2022, 01:07 PM
Also, old men in bars saying stuff like "If I was 20-30 years younger, I'd take you out." LOL. Um...funny how you ASSume that I'd even say yes. In order to take me out, I would have to agree to it. Duh.
Yeah, middle aged and older men seem to almost universally be under this delusion. And it’s the weirdest shit which triggers those comments.
Overheard a couple of our equipment operators talking. One was carrying on about how marriage isn’t worth it. “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?”, he says. And I’m glad he did in a way, because I’d heard that expression before but it’s not really something which stays at the top of my head so it was a great reminder.And this is why the only thing I offer men is the option to milk themselves.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-11-2022, 01:30 PM
My nephew is driving me nuts. He keeps venting to me about his star crossed romances, not knowing I've pretty much seen and heard it all. I don't want to crush his spirits and tell him that happy LTRs are common in our family. I wish him the best but damn, he leads himself astray constantly.
indiegirl
01-11-2022, 02:55 PM
Customer messaged me and wants me to bring party favors for him....................So now I'm a free drug dealer? Like seriously, this is my hotel with my name attached to it and you wanna do god knows what drug in it under my name...I don't think so. :P. I do allow beverages and only vaping if there is window access.
AChildOfBoredom
01-11-2022, 03:33 PM
Sometimes I think we should turn the tables and use creepy and offputting pickup lines on men the way they do to us. “Are you a toilet? Because I’d totally rush to sit on your face when I have a bout of explosive diarrhea”. See how they fucking like it.
indiegirl
01-11-2022, 04:26 PM
Sometimes I think we should turn the tables and use creepy and offputting pickup lines on men the way they do to us. “Are you a toilet? Because I’d totally rush to sit on your face when I have a bout of explosive diarrhea”. See how they fucking like it.
I love saying to a man "Hey girllll!!!" It really offends them but I find it funny. hahaha.
Random side note, I almost choked on a long piece of cilantro in my salad and thought "I'm not going out like this!" while I pulled it out of my throat gagging. hahaha
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:28 PM
Bring their own coffee to Starbucks, taking up seats and tables for hours without buying or tipping.
Pulled out chairs, sat and not push them back when leaving Starbucks
Not holding doors when they could see a woman walking from the parking lot and let her in first
Being loud mouthed, treating Starbucks like a sport bar.
talk too much
Stare at women
Not asking a woman if they could talk to her
Sit close to a woman when there are plenty of seats and tables available.
Expecting their wives/girlfriends to prep, cook AND do the dishes while they sit and play video games
I thought of you when I was at Starbucks the other morning. It was early AF, not even 6:00 a.m. yet and the place was empty so I sat at a table in the corner near an outlet. And of course this man comes in and where does he sit? Yep, at the table right next to me. The whole damn place is empty but he sits right next to me. I pulled a Marina, let out a huge sigh, unplugged my devices, grab my handbag and coffee and bailed. Never fails.
xxxGothBarbie
01-11-2022, 10:12 PM
Free nude seekers, whether customers or exes that creep back after several years, pretending to care about how you're doing, only to later get to the point and ask for naked pictures at 4am to "cheer them up". As long as men continue to treat me like nothing more than a sexual object at their beck and call, I will continue to treat them like walking ATM machines. Dispense money and then we'll talk.
Omg ugh these assholes are the worst! I'm trying to educate my circle of friends about not sending Free pics to these guys they like or at least charge for that shit.
WendiStarr
01-12-2022, 07:31 AM
I'm rethinking doing any more custom content requests. They've gotten ridiculous. Some guy wants a 5 minute video of me talking about my nipples. I don't even know what to say about them. Pregnancy has made them ugly, brown, huge and pepperoni-like and I hate them. Another guy wants a 10 minute striptease to a specific song that doesn't exactly inspire me to dance. The third guy wants me to make a clip, pretending like he's the one who knocked me up, and pout while trying on 7 different pre-pregnancy outfits, each time complaining how it doesn't fit me anymore. Why can't I just get the eating or farting fetish guys or the guys like in free chat that will cum from staring at my belly?
ravenskyy
01-12-2022, 07:50 AM
My husband really flips things around in his asshole brain, and takes credit for things I do or say. Then acts like he doesn't know what I'm talking about. I will tell him something, and then he will repeat it to me or someone else, and act surprised when I tell him that I told him or it was MY idea.
He also doesn't do things the way he says he will. I will tell him what to say/do or how to say/do something, and he will completely change it and fuck it up. This wouldn't be a big deal, if it wasn't important that he do things a certain way, but that's not the case. If he tells me how to so something, I will do it that way. When I tell him, he always does it his way. As if MY way isn't the right way. (For example, our son is mildly autistic and has a certain way he likes things. I will do everything in the correct order and the right way, to keep him happy. But my husband? Nope! Fucks it ALL up. Every time! And on top of that, he himself is on the spectrum!) I'm so freaking exhausted.
How do you live with someone like this??? I really don't want to get divorced, but I used to think that I found this amazing guy, and now I fantasize about collecting on a life insurance policy. But I seriously don't want to be a single parent, especially with my boys. They can be so frustrating, I've literally been in tears trying to take care of them. And I also don't want to date again. Men are garbage and I'm not trying to sort through trash again, especially not at 29 with kids. I love my husband, but I am constantly tired of him. Idk if thats normal.
Marina Starr
01-12-2022, 08:17 AM
LOL, you are getting better than I am! I just don't understand that fuckery. I would have done the same but give him the glare of death before I moved!
Side not, why do the ugliest ones always think we want them?! I mean get the fuck out of my face. I would make it very clear if I wanted them by sending an invoice. Must pay in full and cash only!
Dicks are a dime a dozen!
I thought of you when I was at Starbucks the other morning. It was early AF, not even 6:00 a.m. yet and the place was empty so I sat at a table in the corner near an outlet. And of course this man comes in and where does he sit? Yep, at the table right next to me. The whole damn place is empty but he sits right next to me. I pulled a Marina, let out a huge sigh, unplugged my devices, grab my handbag and coffee and bailed. Never fails.
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2022, 08:23 AM
I hate eating food whenever I’m near or talking to my dude.
He can hear me eating or see me eating and then ask “what are you eating”
Then he tries to make me feel guilty if I didn’t get him anything.
Did you give me money for your portion of food?
Then I will buy only myself food unless you give me some cash to buy yours too.
Yes I’m a mega cunt when it comes to this topic. You want a home cooked meal? Buy the groceries for it!
It’s come to the point if I grab food I have to mute myself on the phone or eat when he’s not around.
#IAMNOTYOURMOM
miss.a.p1600
01-12-2022, 09:50 AM
Male trolls strike again……
Idiots!
indiegirl
01-12-2022, 11:14 AM
I thought of you when I was at Starbucks the other morning. It was early AF, not even 6:00 a.m. yet and the place was empty so I sat at a table in the corner near an outlet. And of course this man comes in and where does he sit? Yep, at the table right next to me. The whole damn place is empty but he sits right next to me. I pulled a Marina, let out a huge sigh, unplugged my devices, grab my handbag and coffee and bailed. Never fails.
Or the creep at the gym who takes the treadmill right next to you when there is 10 other treadmills open he could choose from. I do that dramatic sigh and move to a different machine hahahaha. Nobody should be disturbing my small fraction of happiness when I'm on the dreadmill aka hamster wheel from hell.
indiegirl
01-12-2022, 01:59 PM
I'm rethinking doing any more custom content requests. They've gotten ridiculous. Some guy wants a 5 minute video of me talking about my nipples. I don't even know what to say about them. Pregnancy has made them ugly, brown, huge and pepperoni-like and I hate them. Another guy wants a 10 minute striptease to a specific song that doesn't exactly inspire me to dance. The third guy wants me to make a clip, pretending like he's the one who knocked me up, and pout while trying on 7 different pre-pregnancy outfits, each time complaining how it doesn't fit me anymore. Why can't I just get the eating or farting fetish guys or the guys like in free chat that will cum from staring at my belly?
What *clap* is happening *clap* out there!? LOLLL.
I dunno the 5 minute nipple one is doable but the only issue is not laughing while talking for 5 minutes about your nips. hahahaha.
TheBrownFox
01-12-2022, 04:54 PM
I'm rethinking doing any more custom content requests. They've gotten ridiculous. Some guy wants a 5 minute video of me talking about my nipples. I don't even know what to say about them. Pregnancy has made them ugly, brown, huge and pepperoni-like and I hate them. Another guy wants a 10 minute striptease to a specific song that doesn't exactly inspire me to dance. The third guy wants me to make a clip, pretending like he's the one who knocked me up, and pout while trying on 7 different pre-pregnancy outfits, each time complaining how it doesn't fit me anymore. Why can't I just get the eating or farting fetish guys or the guys like in free chat that will cum from staring at my belly?
Yeah, that last panty wedgie custom video I had to do was a pain in the ass. I don't even want to do custom videos anymore that are longer than 10 minutes. It was fucking stupid having to do it for 20 minutes, and extremely difficult to do a video like that WITHOUT having a pad in my panties (I've posted about my bleeding issue), and then I ended up bleeding a little bit through the panties while making that custom video (I had a little paper towel tucked in the pantie instead of a pad). And I said fuck that...I'm NOT redoing this damn video, and am sending it just like that. The guy loved it, and I don't think he even noticed the tiny blood spot. But I think I'm just gonna offer 10-minute custom videos for $100, and that's it. The shit's too time-consuming (Recording...watching it...editing and rendering it...uploading it) for me to accept any amount lower than that.
Honestly, that custom video where I had to yell at a guy and demand his "Eat this soap!" was more fun than the panty one. LOL. When my son takes his ass back to the college campus for spring break and I get the house to myself again, I'll be able to do these weird custom videos again. But it's like damn, why can't I ever get the easy shit that isn't some long-ass script...or dildo fucking. I told this guy on MFC that I stopped using dildos a few years ago (If he'd visit me on cam more than just once in a blue moon, he'd know this) and only use vibrators now, and he was like "Okay, nevermind." Lol.
TheBrownFox
01-12-2022, 06:06 PM
I hate eating food whenever I’m near or talking to my dude.
He can hear me eating or see me eating and then ask “what are you eating”
Then he tries to make me feel guilty if I didn’t get him anything.
Did you give me money for your portion of food?
Then I will buy only myself food unless you give me some cash to buy yours too.
Yes I’m a mega cunt when it comes to this topic. You want a home cooked meal? Buy the groceries for it!
It’s come to the point if I grab food I have to mute myself on the phone or eat when he’s not around.
#IAMNOTYOURMOM
I'm with you, I, personally, have always disagreed with the "Whenever you come home with fast food, you need to bring something home for the kids and the husband too" sentiment that a lot of people have. I feel like it's rather entitled for people (who have a whole fridge/freezer/pantry full of groceries that THEY picked out themselves) to act like the woman's supposed to have McDonald's/Wendy's/etc. for them too EVERY time. Like damn...if we come home from work and have a bag of Wendy's in our purse...and wanna go upstairs real quick to eat it in our room, let us live. Lol. With all the food stamps I get, ain't nobody in here gonna be starving...that's for sure. I just don't buy myself groceries like that. Maybe a couple of those pre-packaged sushi roll things, some clementine oranges, and blackberry lemonade, and that's about it. Everything else I eat is usually takeout or fast food I had delivered.
LoveyD
01-13-2022, 09:48 PM
Or the creep at the gym who takes the treadmill right next to you when there is 10 other treadmills open he could choose from. I do that dramatic sigh and move to a different machine hahahaha. Nobody should be disturbing my small fraction of happiness when I'm on the dreadmill aka hamster wheel from hell.
Omg yes! This too! Especially right now, I don't want someone to work out right next to me when they have 10 other bike machines or whatever to choose from. It's ridiculous! And I have a new rule for myself too. If I see someone nearby with no mask or half-assing it, I leave and go do some other machine somewhere else.