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miss.a.p1600
01-14-2022, 07:24 AM
My husband really flips things around in his asshole brain, and takes credit for things I do or say. Then acts like he doesn't know what I'm talking about. I will tell him something, and then he will repeat it to me or someone else, and act surprised when I tell him that I told him or it was MY idea.

He also doesn't do things the way he says he will. I will tell him what to say/do or how to say/do something, and he will completely change it and fuck it up. This wouldn't be a big deal, if it wasn't important that he do things a certain way, but that's not the case. If he tells me how to so something, I will do it that way. When I tell him, he always does it his way. As if MY way isn't the right way. (For example, our son is mildly autistic and has a certain way he likes things. I will do everything in the correct order and the right way, to keep him happy. But my husband? Nope! Fucks it ALL up. Every time! And on top of that, he himself is on the spectrum!) I'm so freaking exhausted.

How do you live with someone like this??? I really don't want to get divorced, but I used to think that I found this amazing guy, and now I fantasize about collecting on a life insurance policy. But I seriously don't want to be a single parent, especially with my boys. They can be so frustrating, I've literally been in tears trying to take care of them. And I also don't want to date again. Men are garbage and I'm not trying to sort through trash again, especially not at 29 with kids. I love my husband, but I am constantly tired of him. Idk if thats normal.

Not that I think you’d do anything rash but you want to make sure EVERY year (or more often if necessary) that the policy is paid for and YOU are the beneficiary (irrevocable is preferred - so he can’t change you as the beneficiary without your consent). It’s way too easy to cancel a policy or change the beneficiary and you’d never known unless you check.

im not even married yet just engaged and I’m already tired.

These “men” weren’t raised right.

#IAMNOTYOURMOM

Marina Starr
01-16-2022, 05:49 AM
So just now as I'm sitting pretty sipping Starbucks coffee in my usual spot, some dude pulled out a chair and sat his ass down facing me and stared.

The kind of stare that you could feel you're being stared at. So I asked him why are you staring at me?! He said he didn't have his glasses on and wasn't staring which is bullshit. I told him what he was doing is making me uncomfortable. He looked the other way after being called out.

Then as he was heading out with his coffee, he said to me 'no disrespect.' So I told his ass 'your respect wasn't asked for nor is needed.' It's a joy watching him exit with his egos crushed.

neverendingkneebruises
01-16-2022, 11:42 PM
I fucking hate the crowd at the strip club for the past 2 months or so. If the men aren't broke they're douche canoes or both. I will never understand going to enjoy a luxury (NON ESSENTIAL) service during a pandemic and not only not tipping the workers & refusing to buy dances, but also treating them like literal dirt. It's bad enough to do it during non pandemic times but I've caught covid twice & dealing with a longterm effect that is seriously taking a toll on my mental n physical health just so I can barely make rent.

Fucking entitled wastes of oxygen

I started upcharging for contact dances (&vip)

FUCK them

WendiStarr
01-17-2022, 07:39 AM
Rare moment when BD finally left somewhere for an unknown amount of time and I can't find my fucking laptop anywhere. Fuck!

whirlerz
01-18-2022, 04:16 AM
Wendi, did he take or hide it somewhere?

I hope not. Hope you find it.
Take care, dear.:hug:

TheBrownFox
01-18-2022, 09:17 AM
https://www.thisiswhyimsingle.com/life/shareworthy-stories/after-dates-didnt-work-out-guy-asks-for-refund/?utm_source=ot&utm_campaign=xru-dm-na-n-0-tiwis-220117-ts-ot-d1&utm_medium=blank&utm_content=blank&utm_term=blank&fbclid=IwAR1dxEsXMcKL6rC0t1XxBv1DAz0ruPx1LKQDlphQO C_QaAZ1Yf05RIalRBk&chrome=1

*Facepalm* The audacity.....

Gee...maybe I should text that compulsive liar that I've just cut ties with, and tell him that he owes me money for standing me up on that date (I can buy my own crabs then, bitch!), as well as the time I wasted answering all of his clingy "Good morning, baby girl. I miss your pretty face" texts, and doing that 54 minute video chat with him on Google Duo. If us women were reimbursed for the number of times (or amount of hours) that men have wasted our time, we could buy a house in The Hamptons! :P

neverendingkneebruises
01-18-2022, 11:24 AM
^^ LOL the makeup on my face alone costs way more than $35. If you're asking me out for my looks (which 100% of men do because they would NOT settle for someone they're not attracted to) the bare minimum is footing my dinner bill and taking care of my ride to/from the date.

Marina Starr
01-18-2022, 12:50 PM
I wonder why a lot of men are so hostile on the road? They tailgate. When they need move to the right or left lane, they aggressively slammed their cars over.
I just don't get the points of all that hostility.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-18-2022, 12:51 PM
My boyfriend went off on a political rant while we were watching the morning news. Fucking seriously I cannot believe someone who lived in Alaska while Sarah Palin was Governor can have such ass backward reactions to women in politics & leftist views in general.

The Universe sent me a great mate except for this tiny detail. Gahhhhh

indiegirl
01-18-2022, 01:18 PM
Is it just me or does someone who has verbal diarrhea when they're in public places with a line behind them for a basic coffee, going to the bank, or grocery store always a man? I watched this video on Starbucks and felt it sooo deep hahaha. It's like god damn I gotta go run errands and wait for you to make friends with the female employees in a long line LOLLL.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tabB-EkbyIQ

carmen_b
01-18-2022, 11:42 PM
^ Aw the poor lonely and needy guy ! Yes, 90% of the time it's a man haha.

Marina Starr
01-19-2022, 12:11 PM
As I was sitting at Starbucks with my earphones on and listening to Mariah, whom I love and can listen to everyday. This guy came up to me and said something so I pointed to my earphones. I could feel it was some bullshit so I did not take them out. I don't do anything I don't want to especially when I just wanted to be left the fuck alone.

SnuffleUffleGrass
01-19-2022, 01:10 PM
Not that I think you’d do anything rash but you want to make sure EVERY year (or more often if necessary) that the policy is paid for and YOU are the beneficiary (irrevocable is preferred - so he can’t change you as the beneficiary without your consent). It’s way too easy to cancel a policy or change the beneficiary and you’d never known unless you check.

^ So much this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

When my uncle was dying he got so sick so fast he didn't have these important conversations with his wife and it just added to the stress of losing him unexpectedly. A lot of their finances in common were not straightened out.

Just adding to this info. LegalZoom does fast cheap legal contracts and most cities have a Notary or two you can get a hold of pretty fast.

moneybags
01-21-2022, 12:42 AM
https://youtu.be/GD8TKkwd6AE

Secret Shelly
01-21-2022, 10:24 AM
Why is it there always has to be that one guy at the gym who has to go around and mansplain everything to every female that is obviously much younger than he is no matter if they ask for it or not? To make it worse this particular one was doused in the worst smelling cologne ever

moneybags
01-21-2022, 01:15 PM
I’m in the gym now I can feel like everyone’s eyeballs on me-I hate it! I bought some noise canceling head phones-the big ones that go over your ears in hopes of being able to ignore the guys grunting around me. Ugh!

carmen_b
01-21-2022, 04:07 PM
^ You'll LOVE them !
The thing I like about mine too is that you can really rip someone a new one if they tap you or interact with you because they are clear as day leave me the fuck alone SIGNAL !!!

They are so big you just can not pretend you didn't see them like the little wireless buds hahaha.

SamanthaSugar
01-21-2022, 04:18 PM
I find the more expensive the gym the less pervs there are. My current gym is pretty pricey and I’ve never seen or had a problem with annoying guys. Actually I kinda felt like a perv this AM, I was totally eyeballing this super hot guy doing curls, he had perfect arms, so hot!!!

ravenskyy
01-21-2022, 04:32 PM
I've been drinking rum all day, and yet my husband is the one that almost goes through a very obviously RED light, that could have caused a car accident, badly injuring us and the kids.

This asshole pays no fucking attention! He's the "car guy" and yet this bitch cannot drive! Fuck this dude.

whirlerz
01-21-2022, 04:53 PM
Ooh, I hope you're all OK, reaven?

Secret Shelly
01-21-2022, 04:56 PM
I've been drinking rum all day, and yet my husband is the one that almost goes through a very obviously RED light, that could have caused a car accident, badly injuring us and the kids.

This asshole pays no fucking attention! He's the "car guy" and yet this bitch cannot drive! Fuck this dude.

I hope everyone is ok!!! WTF is it with these men who are so into cars but can't drive worth shit?

ravenskyy
01-21-2022, 06:29 PM
Thank you, we're ok. Luckily, we didn't make it into the intersection. I started yelling at him as he started to let the car move up. This isn't the first time that this has happened, but he has never had to do this with me. I'm not saying I'm perfect, I've definitely made mistakes. I just think it's crazy how I was buzzed and am visually impaired and I could clearly see that our arrow was red. But the sober, car loving man with 20/20 vision just "made a mistake".

Now I've got a hangover lol

indiegirl
01-21-2022, 09:09 PM
I find the more expensive the gym the less pervs there are. My current gym is pretty pricey and I’ve never seen or had a problem with annoying guys. Actually I kinda felt like a perv this AM, I was totally eyeballing this super hot guy doing curls, he had perfect arms, so hot!!!

Bucket list is Equinox Gym! I want to rub my ass on a eucalyptus scented heated towel after a shower and sauna and be babied bahahaha!!! I actually hit on some guy who was super hot and we talked for a while at the gym in the past and we flirt texted for a while. I had NO shame. :D! The game changer was that I told him I was a dancer at the time :(.

I feel like people behave themselves more when the price is higher generally. I love the customer service of high end places. I'm at planet fitness still and it's essentially the Spirit airlines of the fitness industry LOL...but hey it works.

miss.a.p1600
01-22-2022, 03:55 PM
I've been drinking rum all day, and yet my husband is the one that almost goes through a very obviously RED light, that could have caused a car accident, badly injuring us and the kids.

This asshole pays no fucking attention! He's the "car guy" and yet this bitch cannot drive! Fuck this dude.

One of my relatives NEVER rides with her husband driving because she says she’s not a good driver. She doesn’t like to be at the mercy of a impulsive man so anytime the go places together she always drives.

Ironically she’s not that good of a driver herself but I think it simply eases her fear to drive and let him tag along.

WendiStarr
01-22-2022, 07:36 PM
I'm supposed to be on bed rest which is a fucking joke. My oldest went to ex's parents for the weekend and BD decided to drive 4 hours in a snowstorm to get some boat shit. It's effing winter! Wtf is he going to do with it? All day I was constantly reminded of an annoying saying that a vanilla co-worker used to say all the time,"a woman's work is never done". I think I spent more time cleaning up mess after mess than actually resting.

indiegirl
01-22-2022, 07:51 PM
One of my relatives NEVER rides with her husband driving because she says she’s not a good driver. She doesn’t like to be at the mercy of a impulsive man so anytime the go places together she always drives.

Ironically she’s not that good of a driver herself but I think it simply eases her fear to drive and let him tag along.

I'm not gonna admit it because most of my customers are asian and white BUT I MAY have had a few asian drivers where I buckled my seatbelt after thinking we were about to crash at some point during the drive. LOL. I even thought I'd be safer behind the wheel despite having vodka but apparently uber has a 1 million dollar insurance policy for passengers so I stayed in the car LOL. The drivers of a certain race were slamming on the brakes sporadically and then a car would honk at them.....this is coming from me, the queen of impatient/reckless driving.

God Bless the man who gave me my license. He didn't know what he was doing LOLLLL.....but man sometimes you wonder how Uber even allowed certain individuals behind the wheel.

LoveyD
01-22-2022, 09:05 PM
I close my eyes when I'm on the machines at the gym because I don't want to make eye contact with anyone. And I keep my earbuds in.

indiegirl
01-23-2022, 07:36 AM
LOLLLLL some drunk man last night from the wrestling fight (I learned what it was that had a ton of people slowing down traffic) came up to the uber I was arriving in speaking to me with his face through the window thinking it was his ride and I freaked out thinking I was going to be mugged since he came out of nowhere (I only do drives with the window down) and the driver immediately rolled the window up hahahaha. What a fucking wild arrival especially after being hit on 3 times.

My customer acted surprised it happened.........Wildest entrance into a hotel.

I also had to enter the elevator with one of the men who hit on me (felt like a fucking cat call in my head and I wear classy sundresses so whyy??) and when the elevator doors closed, he waited like I was going to ask for his room level to press the button. I stood there and let him do it himself in silence.

miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 01:14 PM
I wish more men were raised properly and we didn’t have to tell them how to act like gentlemen.

LoveyD
01-23-2022, 04:51 PM
I wish more men were raised properly and we didn’t have to tell them how to act like gentlemen.

This is the one thing I made sure to teach my son when he was growing up. I don't want any future daughter-in-law to resent me LOL

Well, it happened again this morning. I was parked in a spot in front of the Starbucks to enjoy my coffee and breakfast and internet when some guy in a truck with handicap plates parked right next to me, literally inches away from me, when the whole rest of the parking lot was empty, including the handicap spaces! Don't men realize how creepy they are when they pull this kind of crap? It's so annoying! And it made it harder for me to leave my spot too.

AChildOfBoredom
01-23-2022, 06:47 PM
BUT I MAY have had a few asian drivers where I buckled my seatbelt after thinking we were about to crash at some point during the drive.

When I was in the Army Reserve, we’d have our AT - Annual Training - every year. One year, I did an overseas AT and went to Korea for three weeks. Let a Korean taxi driver know you’re in a hurry to get somewhere, and you will be in for the ride of your life.

WendiStarr
01-23-2022, 07:59 PM
Why can't guys ever call a damn professional instead of trying to diy everything? Our garbage disposal quit working and stuff was backing up. BD went to Home Depot to buy a new one, spent like 2 hours bitching up a storm while figuring out how to install it, and made a big mess. Then somehow the dishwasher backed up full of water. I don't know anything about that stuff but I googled it and it could be caused by a clog related to the garbage disposal or maybe a clog somewhere else. I'll probably have to call a pro here tomorrow because we can't have standing water in the dishwasher like that.

whirlerz
01-24-2022, 07:46 PM
When I was in the Army Reserve, we’d have our AT - Annual Training - every year. One year, I did an overseas AT and went to Korea for three weeks. Let a Korean taxi driver know you’re in a hurry to get somewhere, and you will be in for the ride of your life.

I had a Jamaican taxi driver, my hair nearly turned white..

Anyway, I'm on you tube, listening to prank calls, they have those ads on before, some guys are talking about.. taking a supplement for.. Loads, WHAT? I said to myself, no, can't be, then some guy's saying how horny he is, I wanted to be sick.

What. The Actual Fuck?

whirlerz
01-25-2022, 10:01 AM
OMG, this girl that lives upstairs w/her boyfriend, (he was here alone for a while) , I guess she fell on hard times & moved in w/him..

She already told me she's 'not allowed' to work certain jobs (what?!) so men don't hit on her?
She's a waitress, which, I'm surprised she's 'allowed' that?

Now, just saw her in hall, she told me she's not 'allowed ' downstairs??
The FUCK?

carmen_b
01-25-2022, 12:47 PM
^ Scary !
Definitely check in on her and point her to domestic violence resources if possible !

whirlerz
01-25-2022, 02:07 PM
Idk, I'd like to.. He probably told her not to talk to anyone..

I was a lil'mad @ crush, I see he's doing Door Dash tho.. I made a huge pizza today & gave him half.

xxxGothBarbie
01-25-2022, 04:14 PM
I so wish my bf would start standing up to his controlling mother for once soon ugh! That bitch needs to be put in her place. He told me his ex that lived here years ago had issues with her too but she didn't hold back.... I mean I love my bf and am enjoying the low almost no rent by staying here but his mom's driving me nuts just her presence blah.

WendiStarr
01-26-2022, 08:44 AM
I wish BD would stop scaring me about the birth. He keeps telling me that I'm going to end up being all alone. He thinks nobody is going to want to come out here to be with me during the birth. I'm only allowed one person anyway and I'm scared enough as it is, knowing that I'll likely be going through the same exact scary shit as last time with the preeclampsia, being stuck in a bed, hooked up to machines, catheter, and then the 2 days of magnesium sulfate IV hell with the groggy feeling, dizziness, and nausea from that. I'm already dreading all that. I had to walk away and go to the bathroom just to stop my anxiety. My heart started racing thinking about it. Ugh.

whirlerz
01-26-2022, 10:35 AM
Aw, I'm so sorry, Wendi, sweetie..
Is there any one you can talk to, @ all?
Pregnancy is more than enough to deal with, let alone his BS..

Anyway you can get a caseworker..
I know you're going thru a lot just try to tune him the fuck out, not ez.

You take care I'm here for you & praying for you doll.
Hugs

indiegirl
01-26-2022, 10:50 AM
I wish BD would stop scaring me about the birth. He keeps telling me that I'm going to end up being all alone. He thinks nobody is going to want to come out here to be with me during the birth. I'm only allowed one person anyway and I'm scared enough as it is, knowing that I'll likely be going through the same exact scary shit as last time with the preeclampsia, being stuck in a bed, hooked up to machines, catheter, and then the 2 days of magnesium sulfate IV hell with the groggy feeling, dizziness, and nausea from that. I'm already dreading all that. I had to walk away and go to the bathroom just to stop my anxiety. My heart started racing thinking about it. Ugh.

I would rather have a birth alone than with him. You won't be alone, you're going to have a beautiful baby there with you!

I went on stripperweb and texted one person when I wound up at the ER alone LOLLL. There's always alternatives in life :). *Hugs*

kimbe
01-26-2022, 10:52 AM
I would rather have a birth alone than with him. You won't be alone, you're going to have a beautiful baby there with you!

Agree!

LoveyD
01-26-2022, 01:25 PM
Wendi, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Whirlerz is right. Can you have a case worker there with you?

I'd rather give birth alone than have BD around. He's a narcissistic prick. Who needs him...

You've got this, Wendi. Can you contact your county social services and see if they can help?

ravenskyy
01-26-2022, 06:07 PM
I'm so tired of everything falling on me. I'm so tired of being with a person that never takes any initiative or makes decisions. Why am I constantly expected to be everyone's mother!?!? Every time I ask him something that requires his input, he says I don't know, I don't care or it doesn't matter to me. I'm sick of this shit! Make a decision you lazy, fucking useless cuck! *He's not a cuck, but he might as well be since he can't be a fucking adult and take care of his shit*

carmen_b
01-27-2022, 12:18 PM
^ Ew.

No turn off is bigger than just an overall lack of grabbing life by the balls.

I'd probably make threats to leave ugh I just can not stand laziness.
Sorry you are going through this.

If you don't think he'll change though .... what is your plan ?

miss.a.p1600
01-27-2022, 12:35 PM
I would rather have a birth alone than with him. You won't be alone, you're going to have a beautiful baby there with you!

I went on stripperweb and texted one person when I wound up at the ER alone LOLLL. There's always alternatives in life :). *Hugs*

Agreed. Rolling solo is better than dealing with an annoying man causing stress.

I wouldn’t give any annoying man the pleasure of watching my birth.

His ass would wait outside the hospital until it’s over then only when it’s time to sign the BC he could come in then I’d kick him out after he signs it. Then as soon as the stitches heal, Id head over to the child support office and hem his ass up financially for 18+ years.

ravenskyy
01-27-2022, 12:45 PM
^ Ew.

No turn off is bigger than just an overall lack of grabbing life by the balls.

I'd probably make threats to leave ugh I just can not stand laziness.
Sorry you are going through this.

If you don't think he'll change though .... what is your plan ?

I'm not sure. Divorce, but I can't afford to be a single mom right now. I really put myself in a shit situation. I'm in a state with no family and only 1 close friend. If we were to split up, I'd be completely on my own. I'm really hoping that he just gets his shit together so that it never gets to that point, but I really don't see that happening right now. We definitely need marriage counseling. ASAP.

whirlerz
01-27-2022, 03:18 PM
Ravensky, I really hope & pray something comes through for you, I know you work so hard, & have your kids to deal with..
Hes not helping or wanting to work?
Can you see about getting some type of help, or a caseworker? I'm sorry, Idk what else to suggest.

You take care love

carmen_b
01-27-2022, 04:45 PM
^ Sending vibes too that he gets a fire under his ass and learns to hustle. :)
That's the ideal I guess ( not breaking up family ect. ! ) but it might be good to think of a plan B too.

LoveyD
01-27-2022, 07:51 PM
Men ruining the Covid News thread, AGAIN ..

Notice how we ladies can discuss covid news and exchange information civilly and peacefully, but the men have to just sort of come in and ruin it? If that thread gets closed again, I say we reopen it in the ladies only section. So it doesn't get ruined by men. Again.

emkato
01-28-2022, 04:48 PM
My boyfriend never ever replaces the toilet paper roll on the holder. When the current one is all used up, he will take a new roll out of the pack and place it on the counter instead of just, idk, REPLACING THE EMPTY ONE WITH THE NEW ONE BEFORE LEAVING THE BATHROOM??!?!?

I know this is so trivial but what better place to bitch lol.