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whirlerz
01-29-2022, 06:50 AM
My boyfriend never ever replaces the toilet paper roll on the holder. When the current one is all used up, he will take a new roll out of the pack and place it on the counter instead of just, idk, REPLACING THE EMPTY ONE WITH THE NEW ONE BEFORE LEAVING THE BATHROOM??!?!?

I know this is so trivial but what better place to bitch lol.

I have seen this posted here before by others , actually, I live this, & worse every. fukin. day.

I went out to the (sharedw/roomies) kitchen, itstunkto high heaven!

Old grease, filthy stove/oven, dirty dishes, & garbage!
I sprayed mint essential oils spray..

No one will: take the dumpsters for garbage p/u, take out the garbage get the mail, at least try to shovel/put salt down (we've a very steep driveway. I badger our landlord that wouldn'ta been done!

Wait: they usually won't even buy tp, they just won't use anything, or: use magazine paper, cloth scraps, etc.. I know this, cause we've had to have septic tank purged, & that stuff all came up, tampons too. :yuck:

The girl on this floor leaves big used menstrual pads laying wide open in the bathroom garbage.

:yikes::yuck:

whirlerz
01-29-2022, 06:54 AM
And, another thing: To Mr wonderful upstairs, he's owed me $250. for a straight month..
I gave him food, I gave him a nice air bed, he can damn well fork over the 250

I have his cordless shop vac & charger, so I'm damn well keeping it til he pays me!
So There. FOH

WendiStarr
01-29-2022, 08:09 AM
It looks like BD is still hanging around. He knows it's our daughter's birthday tomorrow so of course. I'm pissed off that he slept in my bed last night so I had to sleep on the couch with my youngest, who wanted to lay next to me but kept getting up on me because there wasn't enough room. I was laying on my side but with 30lbs of big belly, there was just no room so it was an all night long battle of trying to get comfortable, trying to sleep, and getting my almost 2 year old off of my belly.

indiegirl
01-29-2022, 08:30 AM
Men ruining the Covid News thread, AGAIN ..

Notice how we ladies can discuss covid news and exchange information civilly and peacefully, but the men have to just sort of come in and ruin it? If that thread gets closed again, I say we reopen it in the ladies only section. So it doesn't get ruined by men. Again.

They always turn everything into a dick/big ego fight and like they're doctors in these type of threads on sex sites hahaha. This isn't the only site they do this on.

Meh I had a crap experience on my end with work. I could not mesh with this guy oddly, he wanted the music quiet, requested we meet downstairs even though it's not key card access but he forced himself downstairs anyways, room lights were on blast, he couldn't cum, didn't want a massage, didn't like my hat, he texted me like 30 times beforehand for hours which was annoying and I was trying my best to be more chill for him but it wasn't working because we weren't connecting the way I expected. People usually go along with my routine and enjoy it. Most of mine are now returning clients nowadays oddly but I didn't see that happening with this guy. Don't want this to feel like I'm in the middle of surgery with bright lights and quiet music....it's supposed to feel like a fun entertaining environment.

LoveyD
01-29-2022, 08:37 AM
^^ Indie, I don't think it would have mattered if it were you or someone else. It sounds like the guy seemed committed to being a sourpuss.

emkato
01-29-2022, 09:19 AM
I have seen this posted here before by others , actually, I live this, & worse every. fukin. day.

I went out to the (sharedw/roomies) kitchen, itstunkto high heaven!

Old grease, filthy stove/oven, dirty dishes, & garbage!
I sprayed mint essential oils spray..

No one will: take the dumpsters for garbage p/u, take out the garbage get the mail, at least try to shovel/put salt down (we've a very steep driveway. I badger our landlord that wouldn'ta been done!

Wait: they usually won't even buy tp, they just won't use anything, or: use magazine paper, cloth scraps, etc.. I know this, cause we've had to have septic tank purged, & that stuff all came up, tampons too. :yuck:

The girl on this floor leaves big used menstrual pads laying wide open in the bathroom garbage.

:yikes::yuck:



And, another thing: To Mr wonderful upstairs, he's owed me $250. for a straight month..
I gave him food, I gave him a nice air bed, he can damn well fork over the 250

I have his cordless shop vac & charger, so I'm damn well keeping it til he pays me!
So There. FOH

Oh man :( I'm so sorry you deal with that stuff every single day. it can be so draining living with other people, especially those with no couth or regard for others. Years ago I lived with some roommates who wouldn't buy tp and would just shower after every time they took a dump. The hoops some will jump through... lol.

I am still pretty new to this specific thread and still have a lot to read through but I really appreciate the healthy and safe environment that has been created for us to vent about things we are going through, whether big or small. xo

whirlerz
01-29-2022, 09:30 AM
Oh man :( I'm so sorry you deal with that stuff every single day. it can be so draining living with other people, especially those with no couth or regard for others. Years ago I lived with some roommates who wouldn't buy tp and would just shower after every time they took a dump. The hoops some will jump through... lol.

I am still pretty new to this specific thread and still have a lot to read through but I really appreciate the healthy and safe environment that has been created for us to vent about things we are going through, whether big or small. xo

THANK YOU.
Lol, gross.. & It's not the tp is 50. per roll jeez..::)

My opinion : they're just too lazy tobuy it.
I get Aldi's 4 roll pack, 2.99 big rolls too. TF.

Also I've asked nicely, written notes etc.
Come Monday, when they're all gone working, I'm going to Lysol, Pinsesol everything I CAN.

LoveyD
01-29-2022, 11:11 AM
I don't miss my gross messy housemates. They probably don't miss me either lol oh well.

AChildOfBoredom
01-29-2022, 12:25 PM
this is so trivial

I disagree. Do you know what lingchi is? It’s a method of execution and torture originating in China and was also known as “death from 1,000 cuts”, which some people erroneously attribute to flaying. Rather than one major event which simply kills the person, it’s small cuts which eventually add up, greatly extending the agony and suffering.

This is what the relationships of friends and acquaintances look like to me before they finally tank. He won’t replace the toilet paper roll. One small cut. Walked through the home with his shoes on and didn’t clean it up. Another small cut. And so forth.

TheBrownFox
01-29-2022, 01:42 PM
My boyfriend never ever replaces the toilet paper roll on the holder. When the current one is all used up, he will take a new roll out of the pack and place it on the counter instead of just, idk, REPLACING THE EMPTY ONE WITH THE NEW ONE BEFORE LEAVING THE BATHROOM??!?!?

I know this is so trivial but what better place to bitch lol.


I'd be annoyed too! MEN.....

When my son comes home on breaks from college, I'm dealing with things like him leaving poop or pee in my toilet unflushed. How the fuck do you forget to flush a toilet after using it? And I've had to keep yelling at him to get in there and flush that toilet. He just went back to his college dorm today, and I'm so happy to have the house back to myself.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2022, 03:33 PM
Men ruining the Covid News thread, AGAIN ..

Notice how we ladies can discuss covid news and exchange information civilly and peacefully, but the men have to just sort of come in and ruin it? If that thread gets closed again, I say we reopen it in the ladies only section. So it doesn't get ruined by men. Again.

I agree.

Trick Dugan and his minion Eric are most likely the guilty culprits.

Those fools have to piss over everything and they enjoy arguing and talking down to women.

I refuse to give them the orgasm they desire.

miss.a.p1600
01-29-2022, 04:41 PM
My boyfriend never ever replaces the toilet paper roll on the holder. When the current one is all used up, he will take a new roll out of the pack and place it on the counter instead of just, idk, REPLACING THE EMPTY ONE WITH THE NEW ONE BEFORE LEAVING THE BATHROOM??!?!?

I know this is so trivial but what better place to bitch lol.

My dude leaves wet towels balled up in the bathroom.

Then when it’s almost dry instead of taking it to the laundry basket he simply stacks another wet towel on top of the semi dry one.

I don’t understand the logic. And I’m on the verge of getting my own monogram towels. Like you fuckers can wash toilets with these towels I don’t care because I won’t care if I use my own towels.

WendiStarr
01-29-2022, 06:00 PM
BD and his refusal to fuck off elsewhere and go away. I've cooked and cleaned all day. I bought all the presents and decorations for my youngest daughter's birthday. I baked the cake. I stood my fat pregnant ass up on a chair and put up the decorations. He hasn't done shit other than sit on his laptop and get high and drink beer.

LoveyD
01-29-2022, 08:26 PM
I agree.

Trick Dugan and his minion Eric are most likely the guilty culprits.

Those fools have to piss over everything and they enjoy arguing and talking down to women.

I refuse to give them the orgasm they desire.

I have them both on ignore because I refuse to give them any of my energy, but then I see eagles replies to them. Eagle, who seems like a good, solid guy, keeps feeding into it. Best thing to do just to ignore them and not respond to anything they say! It's just noise in an otherwise informative thread. Anyhow...

minibagel
01-30-2022, 01:13 AM
i'm just sitting here dying of laughter at the B.S. email my ex-finsub wrote to me earlier tonight. he thought he could bypass the paid unblock i have on him on loyalfans by writing my paypal email. ooh the nerve i s2g.

he has not paid me since November after we got into yet another huge fight. i'm conflicted between continuing to ignore him or sending a locked message response for $$$. to protect myself from getting sucked into his toxic mind games, i have to make sure the only way i can interact with him is if i'm being paid.

still laughing. pasting a snippet: "Mostly, I feel like I miss a you that no longer exists. You behaved so differently during the last span of time we interacted."

LOL maybe cuz you're a freaking psycho with split personalities!

Marina Starr
01-30-2022, 07:42 AM
He ain't that solid if he keeps feeding into it. And it's not just him, some hoes on here like to feed them free attention too. Everytime they cooled down, hoes give them free attention so that gives them ammunition to stir shit up again and here I am thinking what are they trying to achieve???!!! Stop, just STOP!

https://i.ibb.co/K2vh6hZ/smh-madea.gif (https://imgbb.com/)


I have them both on ignore because I refuse to give them any of my energy, but then I see eagles replies to them. Eagle, who seems like a good, solid guy, keeps feeding into it. Best thing to do just to ignore them and not respond to anything they say! It's just noise in an otherwise informative thread. Anyhow...

Secret Shelly
01-30-2022, 10:34 AM
Am I insane or have men totally taken control of the picture post section?

Kylie8585
01-30-2022, 10:45 AM
Last night I had this guy over. We usually smoke together then hook up. It's been over a month since we hooked up. He comes over last night and we smoke and then I give him head. I tell him to repay the favor. He gets in position and starts bitching that I have to much "pussy hair". Like he literally expects it to be bald completely. I had showered before he came over too so had nothing to do not being fresh. He literally just was looking for any out of going down on me when I take pride in my blowjobs. Cutting him off!

indiegirl
01-30-2022, 10:54 AM
Last night I had this guy over. We usually smoke together then hook up. It's been over a month since we hooked up. He comes over last night and we smoke and then I give him head. I tell him to repay the favor. He gets in position and starts bitching that I have to much "pussy hair". Like he literally expects it to be bald completely. I had showered before he came over too so had nothing to do not being fresh. He literally just was looking for any out of going down on me when I take pride in my blowjobs. Cutting him off!

He needs to be dating me....we wouldn't be having sex AT ALL. Lollllll.

carmen_b
01-30-2022, 11:39 AM
You mean pussy hair like a normal adult pussy has on it ? Lol

What a baby, I'd be done with him too.

Shaving the puss is a lot of work and I only do mine every 10-12 days .
Even dancing it only goes up to like every 7 ( I just trim the sides ha ).

moneybags
01-30-2022, 12:34 PM
Men ruin everything for me. It’s like I can be having a perfectly good time and a man just ruins it with his inappropriate behavior-usually trying to get my attention. I want to live on an island without men. It would be so peaceful.

LoveyD
01-30-2022, 02:00 PM
^^ Can I please move there with you?

Tired of men ruining everything for me, too.

Every time a man gives me his number, I just sort of give him a WTF look. It's getting to the point where I feel like an idiot for dating one again. Cuz all they do is ruin shit!

I was even thinking about this today earlier. The only man in my life who treats me with any sort of respect and kindness is my kid. Not my father, not any of my ex-boyfriends, or even my guy friends. My kid is the only respectful person in my life.

The rest of them can go to hell.

moneybags
01-30-2022, 04:44 PM
This woman bought her own island https://www.forbes.com/sites/laurabegleybloom/2018/07/31/this-women-bought-her-own-island-paradise-no-men-allowed/?sh=2fdc0f8d23fa

indiegirl
01-30-2022, 05:02 PM
If I get a request from a man named Hai ever again I'm gonna lose it. He's the one that called me like 30 times if I would see him and showed up at the airport from China before I even consented. Oh my god. I don't care about his money he makes, it's the fact he acted crazy/needy. A Hai contacted me recently and I freaked out and didn't respond. Sure I was making 5000 off him for his time near the end but boundaries please!!!

I'm trying so hard to nap right now and it is not working.

AChildOfBoredom
01-30-2022, 06:03 PM
Last night I had this guy over. We usually smoke together then hook up. It's been over a month since we hooked up. He comes over last night and we smoke and then I give him head. I tell him to repay the favor. He gets in position and starts bitching that I have to much "pussy hair". Like he literally expects it to be bald completely. I had showered before he came over too so had nothing to do not being fresh. He literally just was looking for any out of going down on me when I take pride in my blowjobs. Cutting him off!

It’s amusing to see how drastically different guys are about this. I hear about cases like this, where they won’t do it, they’ll find excuses to back out of it, etc., then you have the extreme opposite of the spectrum, which would be my coworker proclaiming, “You ain’t a man until you’ve swallowed a clot!”. Which, I guess I’m in two minds about… on the one hand, it’s pretty disgusting. There’s still a certain fortitude to it which I can’t help but admire.

moneybags
01-31-2022, 02:32 AM
If I get a request from a man named Hai ever again I'm gonna lose it. He's the one that called me like 30 times if I would see him and showed up at the airport from China before I even consented. Oh my god. I don't care about his money he makes, it's the fact he acted crazy/needy. A Hai contacted me recently and I freaked out and didn't respond. Sure I was making 5000 off him for his time near the end but boundaries please!!!

I'm trying so hard to nap right now and it is not working.

Same! I had a foreign guy and he had money, but he’s fucking crazy! I don’t think it’s ever worth the money to keep a toxic regular. A toxic regular is as bad as a toxic boyfriend.

indiegirl
01-31-2022, 08:44 AM
Same! I had a foreign guy and he had money, but he’s fucking crazy! I don’t think it’s ever worth the money to keep a toxic regular. A toxic regular is as bad as a toxic boyfriend.

Like he knew my info, booked a room next to me, confronted a customer which made the customer leave when he was approaching my room, had hotel staff open the door to my room while I was in lingerie and freaked out...girllllllll! I'm trying to be kind so I erased what other things I had to say. I wish him all the best but if it was him reaching out, I'm not ready. I felt like he is/was part of the TER admin and I don't want to be involved in chaos again. I played my part with being late though at the time. It just wasn't working out. This sounds like a relationship. LOLLLLL.

Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2022, 02:55 PM
I went to do laundry this afternoon and discovered we were out of laundry detergent. I blamed my husband, because he was the last person who had put a load of laundry in when I wasn't home and threw the bottle away. Apparently, it never occurred to him to mention that we were completely out, even though I've stopped at the store probably 3 times in the last week and always ask him if he can think of anything we need. I told him I already stood in line for an hour at the store today - HE needed to go out and get detergent. He dragged his ass for over an hour, took him another fucking hour just to go to CVS down the road, and then of course, he set it down, walked right past the laundry basket that was sitting by the door, and lied back down on the couch. I suppose it's too much to ask of a grown-ass adult male to think to himself that he could START the fucking load of laundry that HE delayed by several hours.

Aurora_Sunset
02-02-2022, 04:44 AM
My husband is being such an annoying jerk about the winter storm that's coming this way. He keeps saying "it won't even be that bad," that everyone is just "gonna get worked up for nothing." Dude... schools all over the state have already closed school Wednesday and Thursday, my job has already announced closures for Wednesday night shift and Thursday day shift. We all KNOW it's coming. It doesn't have time to "shift" anymore.

He kept rolling his eyes at me when I would keep checking the weather up by work. It's going to rain all morning (100% chance) while the temp hovers around 34 degrees. I'm keeping on the eye on the expected time that the temp is suddenly going to drop to 32. If work doesn't let me out a good hour before then so I can make it home safely, I'll be using my time to leave. I'm not getting stuck up there for 2 days. But my husband kept telling me "it'll be fine" and that I'm over-exaggerating how bad I think it's going to be. He keeps going on about how he doesn't even think we'll get that much snow. I finally called him stupid and asked if he understands how temperature works. What does he think is going to happen to 8 hours of rain that's accumulated on the road once the temperature switches to freezing? That's called ice, moron. I'm not concerned about the snow. I can drive in snow. Ice is what's going to fuck up the freeways and SHUT THEM DOWN.

For someone who claims he's lived here for years, he sure doesn't seem to remember how bad our ice rain gets. We have at least one bad one every year. We had a sketchy ice rain just a few weeks ago too, though it wasn't as bad as this is going to be. We live right in that zone where we consistently get ice instead of straight-up snow or just rain. This happens ALL the time during the winter. I'm not "being paranoid."

miss.a.p1600
02-02-2022, 09:16 AM
^i hate when men take a lackadaisical approach on something important, your reluctantly follow their lead (because they’re so adamant about their way being right, only to discover you were right and now you want to kick their ass cause that shit affects you too.

I don’t condone domestic violence but if I could DDT the fuck out of my dude when he makes stupid decisions- I’d probably make a career as a pro wrestler

emkato
02-03-2022, 08:57 AM
Just had someone tip me $50 on SextPanther and then AFTER the fact say they want a custom video of me getting tickled by someone else. Uhhh, how about some conversation about what you want first..? Now you just tipped me $50 to make me feel obligated to cater to you. How do you know I even have someone available to film with/tickle me? I do EVERYTHING solo. How do you know if I even make custom videos? Let alone that $50 would cover it?? WTF.

miss.a.p1600
02-03-2022, 09:51 AM
My husband is being such an annoying jerk about the winter storm that's coming this way. He keeps saying "it won't even be that bad," that everyone is just "gonna get worked up for nothing." Dude... schools all over the state have already closed school Wednesday and Thursday, my job has already announced closures for Wednesday night shift and Thursday day shift. We all KNOW it's coming. It doesn't have time to "shift" anymore.

He kept rolling his eyes at me when I would keep checking the weather up by work. It's going to rain all morning (100% chance) while the temp hovers around 34 degrees. I'm keeping on the eye on the expected time that the temp is suddenly going to drop to 32. If work doesn't let me out a good hour before then so I can make it home safely, I'll be using my time to leave. I'm not getting stuck up there for 2 days. But my husband kept telling me "it'll be fine" and that I'm over-exaggerating how bad I think it's going to be. He keeps going on about how he doesn't even think we'll get that much snow. I finally called him stupid and asked if he understands how temperature works. What does he think is going to happen to 8 hours of rain that's accumulated on the road once the temperature switches to freezing? That's called ice, moron. I'm not concerned about the snow. I can drive in snow. Ice is what's going to fuck up the freeways and SHUT THEM DOWN.

For someone who claims he's lived here for years, he sure doesn't seem to remember how bad our ice rain gets. We have at least one bad one every year. We had a sketchy ice rain just a few weeks ago too, though it wasn't as bad as this is going to be. We live right in that zone where we consistently get ice instead of straight-up snow or just rain. This happens ALL the time during the winter. I'm not "being paranoid."


^i hate when men take a lackadaisical approach on something important, your reluctantly follow their lead (because they’re so adamant about their way being right, only to discover you were right and now you want to kick their ass cause that shit affects you too.

I don’t condone domestic violence but if I could DDT the fuck out of my dude when he makes stupid decisions- I’d probably make a career as a pro wrestler


^me too

L up here talking about he hopes the weather is really bad…….just so he won’t have to go to work.

I’m like look here dude, if the weather is bad then that also fucks up power lines and the last thing I want to do is to be trapped in this house with a man who has less survival instinct than I do.

I’d probably have to be the man and take leadership control and I don’t feel like fooling with you in a state of emergency

He didn’t buy enough water or groceries and I’m pissed because it was his day off and he barely did anything to prepare.

I’m glad his kids weren’t begging him to come to this house. Stay right where y’all belong, snowed in with your mother……


Damn I must be a psychic.

so L’s dumb ass saying he wished the weather got really bad (like a damn kid) so he wouldn’t have to go to work.

well numb nuts if the weather gets really bad it’s not just going to affect your work it’s going to affect EVERYTHING possibly the power.

and as soon as I wake up

the fucking power goes out.

i said loud and clear “I am not staying here in the cold and the dark” and “we might need to get a hotel”

his ass laying in the fucking bed like it’s just another Thursday

Nah bruh ,,,, get up and de ice this driveway so we can leave.

He thinks the power will magically get cut back on in a few minutes and wants to stay. I’m like “look your politicians and electric company employees don’t gaf about you having power right now and they’re NOT turning this shit back on today!”

instead of being a man and calling his wealthy relatives (who have a power generator and live right around the corner) he does NOTHING.

So I left and stayed with my mom in her hotel room.

now he’s pissy I left and didn’t invite him.

i fucking told you to call your relatives first (so we could stay at their nice mansions) and you refused. Now I’m in a tiny hotel room that you want to invite yourself into

we do not have to be together 24/7 and I am not going to tolerate your stupid decisions because you want to be cheap and your ego is kicking in. You don’t want want to ask for help from your male family members because they were smart enough to buy generators or pay for hotels for their wives and kids but you’re okay relying on my family when you make dumb decisions.

MAN THE FUCK UP!!!

JenniferNorth
02-03-2022, 10:46 AM
^ Aw Miss P, I really feel for you. I feel like our millenial generation...the men all fucking decided to relive their childhoods or some such shit. At 30 + years old, that shit ain't cute.

JenniferNorth
02-03-2022, 11:01 AM
Yesterday I said I want to get some lingere. My hubby was like "Who are you and who are you trying to impress?" I told him only him and I haven't gotten anything in forever, so why not? He then tells me it would be a waste of money and he is always impressed when I am naked.

Like I get it dude, but sometimes I want to feel pretty and desireable like how I did before kids and all this other stuff.

Marina Starr
02-03-2022, 12:51 PM
What I'll be wearing for Valentine's:

https://i.ibb.co/FW1gV0p/20220203-144747.jpg (https://ibb.co/pPTJyRq)

~Carmen~
02-03-2022, 02:06 PM
What I'll be wearing for Valentine's:

https://i.ibb.co/FW1gV0p/20220203-144747.jpg (https://ibb.co/pPTJyRq)

Out wreaking havoc again sis? We can't let you go anywhere. lol

carmen_b
02-03-2022, 05:10 PM
That would bum me out because you are making an EFFORT which benefits him. :/


Yesterday I said I want to get some lingere. My hubby was like "Who are you and who are you trying to impress?" I told him only him and I haven't gotten anything in forever, so why not? He then tells me it would be a waste of money and he is always impressed when I am naked.

Like I get it dude, but sometimes I want to feel pretty and desireable like how I did before kids and all this other stuff.

Marina Starr
02-03-2022, 06:24 PM
https://i.ibb.co/SdkcvCf/be4929e788d25c6465fac7c24faf974c.gif (https://imgbb.com/)


Out wreaking havoc again sis? We can't let you go anywhere. lol

JenniferNorth
02-03-2022, 06:28 PM
That would bum me out because you are making an EFFORT which benefits him. :/

I was annoyed. But also kind of whatever. He's been home with me for over a week because of Covid, so he was getting on my nerves without even trying.

Marina Starr
02-03-2022, 06:29 PM
On a serious note, I used to want a man but now all I want is ca$h. Honestly and truly!

JenniferNorth
02-03-2022, 06:29 PM
What I'll be wearing for Valentine's:

https://i.ibb.co/FW1gV0p/20220203-144747.jpg (https://ibb.co/pPTJyRq)

Where do you find all your shirts?! Amazon?

Marina Starr
02-03-2022, 06:31 PM
Yes! I love graphic shirts with a message. I got the homewrecker here if you want to rock it!

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07TGB8D5W?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details&customId=B0752XJYPK


Where do you find all your shirts?! Amazon?

~Carmen~
02-03-2022, 07:03 PM
My husband is being such an annoying jerk about the winter storm that's coming this way. He keeps saying "it won't even be that bad," that everyone is just "gonna get worked up for nothing." Dude... schools all over the state have already closed school Wednesday and Thursday, my job has already announced closures for Wednesday night shift and Thursday day shift. We all KNOW it's coming. It doesn't have time to "shift" anymore.

He kept rolling his eyes at me when I would keep checking the weather up by work. It's going to rain all morning (100% chance) while the temp hovers around 34 degrees. I'm keeping on the eye on the expected time that the temp is suddenly going to drop to 32. If work doesn't let me out a good hour before then so I can make it home safely, I'll be using my time to leave. I'm not getting stuck up there for 2 days. But my husband kept telling me "it'll be fine" and that I'm over-exaggerating how bad I think it's going to be. He keeps going on about how he doesn't even think we'll get that much snow. I finally called him stupid and asked if he understands how temperature works. What does he think is going to happen to 8 hours of rain that's accumulated on the road once the temperature switches to freezing? That's called ice, moron. I'm not concerned about the snow. I can drive in snow. Ice is what's going to fuck up the freeways and SHUT THEM DOWN.

For someone who claims he's lived here for years, he sure doesn't seem to remember how bad our ice rain gets. We have at least one bad one every year. We had a sketchy ice rain just a few weeks ago too, though it wasn't as bad as this is going to be. We live right in that zone where we consistently get ice instead of straight-up snow or just rain. This happens ALL the time during the winter. I'm not "being paranoid."

It's not only the road safety but a big fall risk. I fell on concrete and busted my chin during our last storm. I was lucky I didn't break anything.

laurielegs
02-04-2022, 01:23 AM
On a serious note, I used to want a man but now all I want is ca$h. Honestly and truly!


I can relate! Every single relationship I've had with a man has been disappointing in so many ways.

I'll make my money, spend time with friends, family, pets and have some peace in my life.

kimbe
02-04-2022, 01:29 AM
On a serious note, I used to want a man but now all I want is ca$h. Honestly and truly!

Never underestimate the importance of, and addiction for, accessing a man's cash when getting into a relationship. ;D

Marina Starr
02-04-2022, 05:20 AM
Absolutely, it's a good addiction :)

I also wanted to add that make sure you have savings or some other source of income because you're not financially stable if a man suddenly drop you and you can no longer support yourself.

I see so many women assuming they're financially stabled because they're being provided for then suddenly cannot support themselves when their men cheat, leave them etc.


Never underestimate the importance of, and addiction for, accessing a man's cash when getting into a relationship. ;D

Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2022, 07:22 AM
Yesterday I said I want to get some lingere. My hubby was like "Who are you and who are you trying to impress?" I told him only him and I haven't gotten anything in forever, so why not? He then tells me it would be a waste of money and he is always impressed when I am naked.

Like I get it dude, but sometimes I want to feel pretty and desireable like how I did before kids and all this other stuff.

I was just having this kind of conversation with a friend yesterday. We're both trying to lose weight, and our husbands are always telling us "it doesn't matter because they always think we're sexy." Like... in a way, it's nice to know that they'll always think we're hot, even with no effort, but sometimes, it's about US feeling hot - and some acknowledgement from them about the effort we put in to achieve a certain look would be nice.

LoveyD
02-04-2022, 07:41 AM
I can relate! Every single relationship I've had with a man has been disappointing in so many ways.

I'll make my money, spend time with friends, family, pets and have some peace in my life.

Same! Been feeling this a lot lately. Just focusing on the bag, getting a home for kiddo and me. Men just ruin everything.

Marina Starr
02-04-2022, 07:48 AM
Some dude was saying this morning that it's not nice for his wife to take half of his saving, 401k, etc when they got divorced.
I told him it's not nice either that he cheated on his wife = SILENCE!

carmen_b
02-04-2022, 09:37 AM
I feel this way sometimes. I enjoy my partner but he is not easy to maintain per say. Like ..... I can't get super busy and focused on other things 5 days in a week and just give him a couple days. Or to correctly say it I guess ..... I'd have to have good reason !
It really takes A LOT of balancing. It's good for me in a way because I have workaholic tendencies. It's nice sometimes to sink your teeth into a JUICY project.



I can relate! Every single relationship I've had with a man has been disappointing in so many ways.

I'll make my money, spend time with friends, family, pets and have some peace in my life.