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carmen_b
02-04-2022, 09:39 AM
I think this one of the stupidest things you see women do.
Make SURE you have savings and a resume that isn't just peppered with holes .
If you don't have these things you are carrying SERIOUS risk ( much more that many women realize ).
I also wanted to add that make sure you have savings or some other source of income because you're not financially stable if a man suddenly drop you and you can no longer support yourself.
I see so many women assuming they're financially stabled because they're being provided for then suddenly cannot support themselves when their men cheat, leave them etc.
indiegirl
02-04-2022, 09:45 AM
I need to pluck a stray hair before my appointment at 2pm but GEEZ Valentines Day is approaching. This day has a high suicide/depression rate in hospitals so I hope everyone can be extra kind to one another.
I will never forget having a man crying in front of me in a strip club on Valentine's or someone who showed up after someone died crying at the club....even though I treat holidays like nothing important, other people treat holidays very personally.
carmen_b
02-04-2022, 10:01 AM
^ The day can carry a lot of sad memories ( missing former partners ect. ) !
WendiStarr
02-04-2022, 10:09 AM
I'm being induced next weekend, in time for Superbowl weekend and BD is pissed at me because he had Superbowl plans with his gay sex buddy. I told him too bad. He'll just have to be stuck with a 2 year old pain in the ass all day and weekend and probably until Tuesday or Wednesday of the following week.
Marina Starr
02-04-2022, 11:50 AM
Exactly! When women say they're financially stable because they're provided for, I tell them they're not. They're actually financially DEPENDENT.
I think this one of the stupidest things you see women do.
Make SURE you have savings and a resume that isn't just peppered with holes .
If you don't have these things you are carrying SERIOUS risk ( much more that many women realize ).
JenniferNorth
02-04-2022, 12:39 PM
I'm being induced next weekend, in time for Superbowl weekend and BD is pissed at me because he had Superbowl plans with his gay sex buddy. I told him too bad. He'll just have to be stuck with a 2 year old pain in the ass all day and weekend and probably until Tuesday or Wednesday of the following week.
Really, he's too fucking lazy to be there when the baby is born? (I am assuming this is his baby - I am not trying to be snarky, but that is what I gathered since I had been off the forum for awhile).
Since when is fucking super bowl more important than your children? What an ass.
carmen_b
02-04-2022, 01:32 PM
Exactly. If the guy isn't handing you enough to also INVEST you better find a way to get some money put away.
The longer your resume has a hole in it the more risk you carry.
Exactly! When women say they're financially stable because they're provided for, I tell them they're not. They're actually financially DEPENDENT.
AChildOfBoredom
02-04-2022, 03:33 PM
Exactly! When women say they're financially stable because they're provided for, I tell them they're not. They're actually financially DEPENDENT.
This! 100% this!
whirlerz
02-04-2022, 04:03 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry Wendi, hugs dear.
JenniferNorth
02-04-2022, 04:23 PM
Exactly! When women say they're financially stable because they're provided for, I tell them they're not. They're actually financially DEPENDENT.
Please say it louder, because some people don't fucking get it.
I am in a homemakers group on Facebook (because I'm always looking for ways to make our home cleaner/prettier/a nice place for us all to come home to). One woman on there was saying she went right from her parents home to her husbands and was always provided for (also that she was poly and all the men she dated were wealthy too and she's never had to work). I was like girl....really? She went on to say she had a bunch of college degrees but still, not having a business/working at least part time doesn't seem like a great idea.
whirlerz
02-04-2022, 04:51 PM
I know a lady that works at a store nearby, she said her husband didn't allow her to work when they were married, she's divorced & works 2 jobs now.
laurielegs
02-04-2022, 04:55 PM
Please say it louder, because some people don't fucking get it.
I am in a homemakers group on Facebook (because I'm always looking for ways to make our home cleaner/prettier/a nice place for us all to come home to). One woman on there was saying she went right from her parents home to her husbands and was always provided for (also that she was poly and all the men she dated were wealthy too and she's never had to work). I was like girl....really? She went on to say she had a bunch of college degrees but still, not having a business/working at least part time doesn't seem like a great idea.
So many women have ended up either murdered to prevent them from getting anything in a divorce or left with nothing. I personally know a few who ended up broke in the end. These huge divorce settlements get a lot of press but there are many, many women who end up destitute. Just because he has money and "loves" you now doesn't mean he won't do everything in his power to be sure you end up with nothing if he changes his mind (and they often will suddenly do just that).
JenniferNorth
02-04-2022, 06:14 PM
So many women have ended up either murdered to prevent them from getting anything in a divorce or left with nothing. I personally know a few who ended up broke in the end. These huge divorce settlements get a lot of press but there are many, many women who end up destitute. Just because he has money and "loves" you now doesn't mean he won't do everything in his power to be sure you end up with nothing if he changes his mind (and they often will suddenly do just that).
THIS a million times over. When my ex and I divorced he kept whining and moaning how I shouldn't ask for alimony (which I couldn't get anyway in the state we divorced in because it was no fault divorce). That fucker worked at an office supply store and while he may have thought he was making bank, it was absolutly NOTHING whatsoever. Even when men have peanuts, they are so protective over it. And yes, it's scary how many women face violence, murder, rape and god knows what else when they are vunerable with the person they were married to.
Maybe it's just millenial men. I don't know. But violence from your partner when you are getting a divorce is a very real thing that some women just don't get or choose not to get.
indiegirl
02-04-2022, 06:41 PM
Find it hilarious Kanye West said Kim kidnapped their daughter by not providing the address to her birthday party........beech HOW much money do you have, Kanye? Welcome to the land of divorce.....have your own separate birthday party for your daughter. No wonder she is firm on divorcing him. She's so done with him!
https://www.tmz.com/2022/02/04/kim-kardashian-kanye-west-stop-attacks-social-media-parenting-north/
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2022, 06:51 PM
So many women have ended up either murdered to prevent them from getting anything in a divorce or left with nothing. I personally know a few who ended up broke in the end. These huge divorce settlements get a lot of press but there are many, many women who end up destitute. Just because he has money and "loves" you now doesn't mean he won't do everything in his power to be sure you end up with nothing if he changes his mind (and they often will suddenly do just that).
That’s why you ALWAYS have to be one step ahead of their asses.
And make sure you have money to hire the best divorce attorneys in town.
Shaq claimed one of the reasons he divorced his ex wife was because he allegedly found a secret account his ex wife was stashing money in. Well, she probably knew they end was coming, knew he was cheating, he wouldn’t pay her what was owed in a divorce so she had to do what she had to do. I don’t blame her.
WendiStarr
02-04-2022, 07:04 PM
Really, he's too fucking lazy to be there when the baby is born? (I am assuming this is his baby - I am not trying to be snarky, but that is what I gathered since I had been off the forum for awhile).
Since when is fucking super bowl more important than your children? What an ass.
Yes, this baby is his and is my surprise baby. My other 2 kids are the result of Clomid fertility drug. I have Endometriosis and a history of miscarriages. My 2 fertility drugs kids were the only babies to ever make it past 12 weeks of pregnancy. I definitely wasn't on fertility drugs this time or trying to get pregnant at all. I also had menstrual like bleeding for the first few months of this pregnancy so I didn't even realize I was pregnant for a while. I think the ignorance of the Superbowl importance is a man thing.
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2022, 07:25 PM
I know a lady that works at a store nearby, she said her husband didn't allow her to work when they were married, she's divorced & works 2 jobs now.
ALWAYS stack coins regardless.
If the man doesn’t want you to work outside the home….cool but you will not be signing some prenup in his favor and you need to invest, have your own skills, and the best lawyers on speed dial
These men out here many of them are ruthless and would orgasm to see you struggle when they leave you.
Violethollywood
02-04-2022, 08:55 PM
Exactly! When women say they're financially stable because they're provided for, I tell them they're not. They're actually financially DEPENDENT.
i just got 2 new credit cards my husband doesnt know about specifically for this reason. he makes the majority of money. he pays for almost everything. I always worry about not having shit if we were to suddenly split. not that i expect us too, we're doing excellent, it's just that what if scenario in my mind bc when i split from my ex, he also had everything and i had literally nothing, not even a credit card. i don't want to be in that position again if there were to be a situation like that again.
Violethollywood
02-04-2022, 08:58 PM
Yes, this baby is his and is my surprise baby. My other 2 kids are the result of Clomid fertility drug. I have Endometriosis and a history of miscarriages. My 2 fertility drugs kids were the only babies to ever make it past 12 weeks of pregnancy. I definitely wasn't on fertility drugs this time or trying to get pregnant at all. I also had menstrual like bleeding for the first few months of this pregnancy so I didn't even realize I was pregnant for a while. I think the ignorance of the Superbowl importance is a man thing.
omg that's always my fear. i have regular periods and im always scared i'll somehow get pregnant and not know until im like almost halfway thru. like you had a regular period for a few months into it? god that's wild. that's never happened to me before, i definitely missed my periods lol
kimbe
02-05-2022, 01:19 AM
Absolutely, it's a good addiction :)
I also wanted to add that make sure you have savings or some other source of income because you're not financially stable if a man suddenly drop you and you can no longer support yourself.
I see so many women assuming they're financially stabled because they're being provided for then suddenly cannot support themselves when their men cheat, leave them etc.
Absolutely, I agree 100%. Even though I see my post may sound that way, I didn't mean to say it's a good thing to be economically depended.. Just that one shouldn't underestimate the economical advantage of a partnership ;)
Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 05:32 AM
It drives me insane when women say 'I'll have to check if my husband would allow that...'
I'm thinking ''allow?' You are a grown ass woman.
I'm not saying don't check it with your husband but my comment is in this context of what whirlerz posted only!
I know a lady that works at a store nearby, she said her husband didn't allow her to work when they were married, she's divorced & works 2 jobs now.
miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 06:43 AM
It drives me insane when women say 'I'll have to check if my husband would allow that...'
I'm thinking ''allow?' You are a grown ass woman.
I'm not saying don't check it with your husband but my comment is in this context of what whirlerz posted only!
sometimes they’re lying and say that as an excuse to tell you no (without actually saying no and putting the responsibility on someone else)
Either way it’s a crock of shit!
whirlerz
02-05-2022, 07:11 AM
Well, that's how the lady upstairs is.. She told me she not allowed to work certain jobs cause someone might flirt w/her (she's a waitress now, that's 'ok' ?) Also, she's not supposed to talk to the other people?
She was living in a motel, ran out of $, came here so she puts up with it, does his laundry etc.
The other guy across from them, she uses his truck for free::), that's allowed
Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 08:24 AM
That's true too but I can read if they're bullshitting or it's legit.
I sell pussy remember? I lie and bullshit men for a living. You can't bullshit a bullshiter.
sometimes they’re lying and say that as an excuse to tell you no (without actually saying no and putting the responsibility on someone else)
Either way it’s a crock of shit!
neverendingkneebruises
02-05-2022, 09:04 AM
Adult work has made me pro-whore. Lmfaoo like my core belief is that men are meant to be here to make our lives easier & we should not entertain them for free (or with more net loss than gain whether financially or emotionally etc). Otherwise why do only the kindest, most respectful, stand up men all enjoy splurging & doting on their girlfriend or wife. Me and my work BFF actually will NOT judge a fssw at all we judge civilian women hooking up for free or only stress & poor treatment to themselves more than we'd ever judge a whore lol :D
I'm so glad I realized this at my age, I stopped dating men unless it benefits me and started dating multiple men & my life is so easy and carefree, I don't have to work if I don't want to & I don't have to worry about a thing. I'm still working & saving money but gonna see if my SD will make some big purchases/investments for me soon (we have not even slept together yet and he mostly pays my rent & cashapps me randomly) I just went on vacation with my work wife off another dude's money.... life is good!!! Hahah
Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 09:25 AM
I've always been pro hoes way before I became a full blown hoe :)
I love a lot of your points. I don't have to always monetize my body but I will never allow any man mooching off of me but a man has to demonstrate to me that he truly cares about me for me to not monetize sex.
If a man just wants to fuck me then he's a client.
I'm totally fine with men expecting sex as long as I get the cash. I never want a man to feel like he's being taken advantage of and I expect the same. I'm very fair.
Men don't like to play fair because that means they can't use you.
My point is, I don't get used, I get PAID!
Adult work has made me pro-whore. Lmfaoo like my core belief is that men are meant to be here to make our lives easier & we should not entertain them for free (or with more net loss than gain whether financially or emotionally etc). Otherwise why do only the kindest, most respectful, stand up men all enjoy splurging & doting on their girlfriend or wife. Me and my work BFF actually will NOT judge a fssw at all we judge civilian women hooking up for free or only stress & poor treatment to themselves more than we'd ever judge a whore lol :D
I'm so glad I realized this at my age, I stopped dating men unless it benefits me and started dating multiple men & my life is so easy and carefree, I don't have to work if I don't want to & I don't have to worry about a thing. I'm still working & saving money but gonna see if my SD will make some big purchases/investments for me soon (we have not even slept together yet and he mostly pays my rent & cashapps me randomly) I just went on vacation with my work wife off another dude's money.... life is good!!! Hahah
WendiStarr
02-05-2022, 09:39 AM
omg that's always my fear. i have regular periods and im always scared i'll somehow get pregnant and not know until im like almost halfway thru. like you had a regular period for a few months into it? god that's wild. that's never happened to me before, i definitely missed my periods lol
Yes. I kept bleeding every month for 6 days just like my usual period. In June I had 12 straight days of bleeding that I thought was a long period so I had a doctor prescribe me norethindrone to stop the bleeding. I didn't even think I could possibly be pregnant. The bleeding finally stopped when I was what turned out to be in my 2nd trimester of pregnancy. I almost fainted after my first ultrasound when they told me that I was much further ahead than I thought. With my other pregnancies I definitely always missed my periods too. That's always how I knew I was pregnant..no period. My ob/gyn said that this is very rare to continue having monthly bleeding like that while pregnant so it's possible that you won't have to worry about it happening.
Sorry for getting off topic. My man bitching of the day is that BD still hasn't gotten the dishwasher fixed.
whirlerz
02-05-2022, 09:41 AM
Aw, I'm so sorry Wendi!
Need that dw fixed!
We desparately need a dw, we actually have one, it's way old, there's terrible water pressure.
The couple that constantly cooks, & their dirty dishes, ugh
JenniferNorth
02-05-2022, 09:49 AM
Don't forget, we accept the love we think we deserve.
I put up with bad treatment for years because of low self-esteem. Thinking I don't deserve better or to be properly loved.
The only things that seemed to have helped have been:
1) Getting older and just not giving a fuck anymore
2) Leaving bad partners
3) Going no-contact with in-laws who make problems worse
4) Ditching shitty friends
I know this isn't man bitching per se, but slaying these demons and feeling better about yourself can help you improve shitty situations.
Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 10:24 AM
Absolutely, Jennifer! The relationship we have with others is a reflection of the relationship we have with ourselves.
As you said, you accepted bad treatment because you had low self-esteem. When we raise the bar for the behaviors we're willing to accept people treat us better!
I don't accept or put up with bad treatment because I think very highly of myself and that isn't a bad thing. Anyone who are the most consistent person in their life better think highly of themselves!
A lot of women don't realize that when you're uppity or bitchy to men, they treat you better. Men think bitchy will translate to the bedroom. Men want to conquer the bitch.
Some of men are still trying for years, lmao!
Don't forget, we accept the love we think we deserve.
I put up with bad treatment for years because of low self-esteem. Thinking I don't deserve better or to be properly loved.
The only things that seemed to have helped have been:
1) Getting older and just not giving a fuck anymore
2) Leaving bad partners
3) Going no-contact with in-laws who make problems worse
4) Ditching shitty friends
I know this isn't man bitching per se, but slaying these demons and feeling better about yourself can help you improve shitty situations.
Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 06:00 PM
A lot of men don't understand that they cannot talk to women the way they talk to other dudes, abrupt to the point of rudeness and highly abrasive.
Especially when you're trying to court and win them over. Being sensitive to women doesn't make them sissies or weak. It's actually the opposite.
Real men, high value men understand this very well.
I love when men say 'that's just how I talk' when confronted. Well the fuck you won't to me! You talk to me the way I allow you to.
indiegirl
02-06-2022, 08:05 AM
I'm leaving this mans belt at my next hotel and it is up to him to figure it out. I don't care about your fucking belt. It's been a month. Figure your shit out. Not my problem once I drop it off. Hunny this isn't kindergarten. I'm tired of men like this....I just fucked for free so ya'll know I'm mad.
whirlerz
02-06-2022, 02:00 PM
I'm leaving this mans belt at my next hotel and it is up to him to figure it out. I don't care about your fucking belt. It's been a month. Figure your shit out. Not my problem once I drop it off. Hunny this isn't kindergarten. I'm tired of men like this..[..I just fucked for free so ya'll know I'm mad.
WHAT ^! Oh NO
Just, whip him w the belt?!:rotfl:
Is it an expensive one?
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 07:18 AM
Why is it that when a man is having an affair outside his marriage, the other woman always get the blame for breaking up a marriage, stealing another woman's man or get labelled a homewrecker?
The majority of times men are not held responsible for cheating. How can something be stolen if it's being offered? While I think it's not cool to eat another woman's cookie unless it's your job and you get paid for it but the end of the day the man took the vow of marriage not the mistress. If a man wants to cheat, he'll cheat.
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2022, 07:46 AM
A lot of men don't understand that they cannot talk to women the way they talk to other dudes, abrupt to the point of rudeness and highly abrasive.
Especially when you're trying to court and win them over. Being sensitive to women doesn't make them sissies or weak. It's actually the opposite.
Real men, high value men understand this very well.
I love when men say 'that's just how I talk' when confronted. Well the fuck you won't to me! You talk to me the way I allow you to.
This just happened to me with my guy “friend”.
We usually have very light trash talk and it’s just fun witty banter.
But then he starts going hard and too far with it
And I’m like “Whoa dude you’re going too extreme here. Are you okay?”
Then he’s like “I thought we were just joking!”
Um no I don’t joke like that. How you joke with your little male friends is not how you joke with me.
He apologized but still it was like he’d been temporarily possessed by a demon or something
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2022, 07:47 AM
Why is it that when a man is having an affair outside his marriage, the other woman always get the blame for breaking up a marriage, stealing another woman's man or get labelled a homewrecker?
The majority of times men are not held responsible for cheating. How can something be stolen if it's being offered? While I think it's not cool to eat another woman's cookie unless it's your job and you get paid for it but the end of the day the man took the vow of marriage not the mistress. If a man wants to cheat, he'll cheat.
Thats male privilege for ya
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 07:56 AM
Not with me! I always check them! Sad thing is there are so many women that would back men up no matter how shitty they are. Internalized misogyny is so ingrained.
The more man are called out and held responsible for their bullshit, the less women have to put up with.
Thats male privilege for ya
Secret Shelly
02-07-2022, 08:29 AM
Why is it that when a man is having an affair outside his marriage, the other woman always get the blame for breaking up a marriage, stealing another woman's man or get labelled a homewrecker?
The majority of times men are not held responsible for cheating. How can something be stolen if it's being offered? While I think it's not cool to eat another woman's cookie unless it's your job and you get paid for it but the end of the day the man took the vow of marriage not the mistress. If a man wants to cheat, he'll cheat.
And most of these wives don't get if they didn't fuck you they would have just fucked some other girl...IT'S ON THE MAN!!! I've been with both married men and married women in non sw settings and non really acted like they were doing anything wrong or had any care outside of getting sex.
WendiStarr
02-07-2022, 09:03 AM
This desperate thirsty ass guy from high school. He sent me a message out of nowhere about, "We need to meet up soon ;)" I replied that I'm about to give birth soon and not interested in "meeting up" with anyone. I've never dated him or slept with him so I think that's odd that he'd message me. He messaged back that he was hoping to see me before I "pop" wink wink. I blocked him but I was so tempted to just send my Onlyfans link, in case he's one of those pregnancy fetish guys that I could earn from.
whirlerz
02-07-2022, 09:17 AM
Wow, what a Jerk, Wendi! ^
So, I went to grocery for a few things, I was in an aisle, a store employee had a cart, refilling stuff, partially blocking aisle, some asshole guy (no mask) came towards me acting like I'm suppose to move over for him?..
Uh, NOPE, so I just stood there, he finally got the idea to go around me!
FOH
Secret Shelly
02-07-2022, 11:22 AM
This desperate thirsty ass guy from high school. He sent me a message out of nowhere about, "We need to meet up soon ;)" I replied that I'm about to give birth soon and not interested in "meeting up" with anyone. I've never dated him or slept with him so I think that's odd that he'd message me. He messaged back that he was hoping to see me before I "pop" wink wink. I blocked him but I was so tempted to just send my Onlyfans link, in case he's one of those pregnancy fetish guys that I could earn from.
those are some of the worst...idk if they think they have an automatic in because you shared a class in 10th grade or what...i never respond back to them because i figure even saying "no thank you" or even "fuck no!" gives them some sort of feeling of victory because I responded.
JenniferNorth
02-07-2022, 12:31 PM
And most of these wives don't get if they didn't fuck you they would have just fucked some other girl...IT'S ON THE MAN!!! I've been with both married men and married women in non sw settings and non really acted like they were doing anything wrong or had any care outside of getting sex.
I'd rather my man go to a professional than some rando bitch and this "catching feelings" crap I see happen in other marriages. There's a local woman I know who's stupid husband posts about how he is poly (out of a sudden out of nowhere and after being married to one another for over 10 years) but it's so clear he really favors the other girl. He's 39 so I think its some midlife bullshit. And she's uptset by it but she goes along with it, not trying to better her life or get out of that shit marriage. Just leave, girl. He's a fucking assistant manager at a gas station, for shit's sake, and super fat.
moneybags
02-07-2022, 01:38 PM
So the guy I was polite to interrupted my workout the next day. That’s what I get for being polite. Being nice or polite os not invitation to harass me!!!!!!!
i hate being a bitch but I have to from now on. People mistake my kindness as weakness
ravenskyy
02-07-2022, 01:47 PM
I'm not marrying again unless it's for money. Love has done nothing but make me broke, angry, depressed and resentful. I'm going to do what I should have done when I was 23, which is set myself and my kids up for a comfortable and secure future.
neverendingkneebruises
02-07-2022, 02:58 PM
The majority of times men are not held responsible for cheating. How can something be stolen if it's being offered? While I think it's not cool to eat another woman's cookie unless it's your job and you get paid for it but the end of the day the man took the vow of marriage not the mistress. If a man wants to cheat, he'll cheat.
A new radfem trending topic I've noticed is blaming sex workers for fucking married clients. Lmfaoo as if these men would not cheat whether they paid or not. Also if I'm married and that's the only thing stopping my husband from cheating why is that a situation I would want to even stay in?? It reminds me of "date ugly/nerdy/overweight men because they won't cheat" umm I'd want my partner to not cheat on me because they don't want to, not any other factors?? The bar is so low it's in hell.
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 03:22 PM
I think the biggest part of why they shame and blame sex workers is because we're charging rather than giving sex away for free. It's like how dare we!!!
They can blame all they want as long as I get the cash. Shaming doesn't work because if I was ashamed I wouldn't be a Hoe.
I say with confidence married men would more likely stay with their wives because the chances of them "catching feelings" with professional hoes are not very likely.
I don't have the heart to tell the wives the bigger threats to their marriage are actually their husbands' female neighbors, colleagues and other random women.
They assumed that hoes would fuck their husbands for free. Delusional and pathetic, lmfao!
Remember 'Fatal Attraction'? I bet Dan wishes Alex was a paid hoe that he paid to keep quiet after fucking her. That would actually saved him all the headaches.
Shiiiit, Dan can ignore me all he wants after he substantially paid me.
https://i.ibb.co/SPQmh4H/ignoreddan.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
A new radfem trending topic I've noticed is blaming sex workers for fucking married clients. Lmfaoo as if these men would not cheat whether they paid or not. Also if I'm married and that's the only thing stopping my husband from cheating why is that a situation I would want to even stay in?? It reminds me of "date ugly/nerdy/overweight men because they won't cheat" umm I'd want my partner to not cheat on me because they don't want to, not any other factors?? The bar is so low it's in hell.
Secret Shelly
02-07-2022, 04:08 PM
I think the biggest part of why they shame and blame sex workers is because we're charging rather than giving sex away for free. It's like how dare we!!!
They can blame all they want as long as I get the cash. Shaming doesn't work because if I was ashamed I wouldn't be a Hoe.
I say with confidence married men would more likely stay with their wives because the chances of them "catching feelings" with professional hoes are not very likely.
I don't have the heart to tell the wives the bigger threats to their marriage are actually their husbands' female neighbors, colleagues and other random women.
They assumed that hoes would fuck their husbands for free. Delusional and pathetic, lmfao!
as someone who's been the random girl, not so random girl, and the hoe, I can say this is 10000% true!
moneybags
02-07-2022, 04:11 PM
A man is 1000% responsible for his behavior !!!It’s 2022 and we really have to say that still! Even when my ex husband was cheating on me with a “hoe.” I was never mad at her. Okay I was a little, but I KNEW its 100% his fault. I’m not gonna fight another woman over a man or drag her name all over social media. Get a divorce, take the kids, and the house and take half his money if you’re mad. The other woman most likely is smart enough to not be in a committed relationship and learned it’s smarter to be a hoe.
miss.a.p1600
02-07-2022, 04:25 PM
I hate men who are too cheap and lazy to fix things around the house
What you will be doing sir is either hiring out that task or doing it yourself promptly and correctly.
I am too pretty to do manly laborious household tasks.
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 04:41 PM
I think that's a normal response at the moment.
I actually had a conservation with a woman recently about her husband cheating on her. I asked if she blame the other woman? She said she blamed both of them = her husband and the other woman.
Let's call the other woman Kim. So I asked her if your husband didn't cheat on you with Kim.
Can you confidently say he wouldn't cheat at all or would he still cheat with other women? She couldn't answer so that's a big NO.
So that wasn't Kim's fault. Her husband would still cheat with Bunifa, Sharifa, Bon Qui Qui etc you name it!
Why are we still having this conversation in 2022? Patriarchy
A man is 1000% responsible for his behavior !!!It’s 2022 and we really have to say that still! Even when my ex husband was cheating on me with a “hoe.” I was never mad at her. Okay I was a little, but I KNEW its 100% his fault. I’m not gonna fight another woman over a man or drag her name all over social media. Get a divorce, take the kids, and the house and take half his money if you’re mad. The other woman most likely is smart enough to not be in a committed relationship and learned it’s smarter to be a hoe.