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AChildOfBoredom
02-07-2022, 07:18 PM
A comparatively minor one perhaps, but their refusal to accept driving directions. Eight of us in a van going to a place I go to at least every two weeks. Coworker wanted to drive, okay. I called shotgun (Tech 4 privilege). Trying to tell this guy how to get there, but he insists he knows where he’s going, so I say to him, “How are we lost if you know where you’re going?”. So he says to me, “Are you my ex-wife?”, and I tell him, “No, but I’m starting to understand why she left you”. Which, that maybe a little too far, but it was just us ribbing each other. Although I’m still a bit annoyed about him getting us lost because he wouldn’t listen.
whirlerz
02-07-2022, 07:22 PM
A comparatively minor one perhaps, but their refusal to accept driving directions. Eight of us in a van going to a place I go to at least every two weeks. Coworker wanted to drive, okay. I called shotgun (Tech 4 privilege). Trying to tell this guy how to get there, but he insists he knows where he’s going, so I say to him, “How are we lost if you know where you’re going?”. So he says to me, “Are you my ex-wife?”, and I tell him, “No, but I’m starting to understand why she left you”. Which, that maybe a little too far, but it was just us rubbing each other. Although I’m still a bit annoyed about him getting us lost because he wouldn’t listen.
Get him up in a lift.. }:D
AChildOfBoredom
02-07-2022, 07:58 PM
Get him up in a lift.. }:D
He was here when I did that. He’ll already know what’s going on. And he doesn’t have the same fear of heights.
miss.a.p1600
02-08-2022, 10:14 AM
I hate when men procrastinate then then end up looking real dumb when they have to suffer consequences
indiegirl
02-08-2022, 10:59 PM
Me getting completely ready for work and think "mehhh I'd rather stay home"
Customer: Are you flaking on me?
Me: Not at all :). I'm on the way.
*Slowly heading out the door*
AHHHHH LOLLLL. I hate the damn drive to LA. I've also been on my period for 13 days. Hurray for PCOS, you go girl and decide what you wanna do in my body each month.
neverendingkneebruises
02-09-2022, 04:35 AM
I hate men who are too cheap and lazy to fix things around the house
What you will be doing sir is either hiring out that task or doing it yourself promptly and correctly.
I am too pretty to do manly laborious household tasks.
Lol if I ever become a housewife or live in girlfriend I refuse to even clean everything except small menial stuff like laundry and cooking (even then I deserve breaks too) The rest can be outsourced. I'd way rather spend my time looking pretty, resting, and doing things I enjoy, and I'd hope my husband would feel the same way.
Marina Starr
02-09-2022, 05:08 AM
Be sure to set the tone right from the beginning. A lot of women make the big mistake of doing housewife shit to win a man over then ended up physically and emotionally depleted.
The big take away is you will never do enough for men so make sure your wants and needs are met.
I also agreed that men should do the majority of work.
I know plenty of women that have their husbands do so much shit for them yet their husbands absolutely adore them. While women that do it all, give her all get taken for granted.
Lol if I ever become a housewife or live in girlfriend I refuse to even clean everything except small menial stuff like laundry and cooking (even then I deserve breaks too) The rest can be outsourced. I'd way rather spend my time looking pretty, resting, and doing things I enjoy, and I'd hope my husband would feel the same way.
neverendingkneebruises
02-09-2022, 10:50 AM
^ you got it!! There's things I will NEVER do until I have exclusitivity, a ring, and marriage certificate. I am young, hot & have plenty of options so HE should be up at night worrying how to impress and keep ME. ;)
you're so right that a lot of men really don't mind doing the domestic work themselves plus being breadwinner so their girl can relax & be beautiful at all times. I would settle for that but ideally he'd pay a service provider for most of the housework so we have free time to ourselves for romance & raising our kids. Every other day I hear about marriages that go downhill because the woman is swamped in 99% of the childcare and housework, plus maybe working full or part time on top of that, and she never wants sex or to even put an effort into her appearance & the husbands are so dumb & oblivious they wonder why & use it as a reason to cheat. People don't realize how much work it is!
I also know (and plan) to keep stacking in a secret bank account with only my name on it.
Marina Starr
02-09-2022, 11:02 AM
Your confidence makes me so happy! I act like I'm the best thing since sliced bread with men and that always attract men that are too sweet.
I swear they like to be abused like sick puppies, lol.
For me men are all about ego so if a man treats you right, make sure he knows he's appreciated. Let him know he's the best and he will do so much for you but also don't be afraid to let him know when he's being asshole. Men don't respect doormats but they sure love bitches because we don't tolerate bad treatment or disrespect.
Women are taught and brought up to do so much for men then feel taken for granted when giving their all isn't reciprocated.
^ you got it!! There's things I will NEVER do until I have exclusitivity, a ring, and marriage certificate. I am young, hot & have plenty of options so HE should be up at night worrying how to impress and keep ME. ;)
you're so right that a lot of men really don't mind doing the domestic work themselves plus being breadwinner so their girl can relax & be beautiful at all times. I would settle for that but ideally he'd pay a service provider for most of the housework so we have free time to ourselves for romance & raising our kids. Every other day I hear about marriages that go downhill because the woman is swamped in 99% of the childcare and housework, plus maybe working full or part time on top of that, and she never wants sex or to even put an effort into her appearance & the husbands are so dumb & oblivious they wonder why & use it as a reason to cheat. People don't realize how much work it is!
I also know (and plan) to keep stacking in a secret bank account with only my name on it.
miss.a.p1600
02-09-2022, 01:48 PM
Be sure to set the tone right from the beginning. A lot of women make the big mistake of doing housewife shit to win a man over then ended up physically and emotionally depleted.
The big take away is you will never do enough for men so make sure your wants and needs are met.
I also agreed that men should do the majority of work.
I know plenty of women that have their husbands do so much shit for them yet their husbands absolutely adore them. While women that do it all, give her all get taken for granted.
Agreed.
i was this way when I was younger.
Doing too much to keep a man. It backfired because in their mind they wonder if something is wrong if a lady brings too much to the table.
most of them don’t deserve the king treatment anyways.
LoveyD
02-09-2022, 01:53 PM
^
I also know (and plan) to keep stacking in a secret bank account with only my name on it.
Yes, always! I always have and it has served me well.
WendiStarr
02-09-2022, 06:10 PM
Dumbfuck couldn't even watch our 2 year old for 10 minutes so that I could wash the dishes. He ended up yelling for me to get her because she was tired and crying and wanted to be held and cuddled to sleep. I got her to sleep. I'm going to bed too. Fuck the rest of the dirty dishes. I hate men that aren't good for anything.
whirlerz
02-09-2022, 06:18 PM
I'm sorry, Wendi hon, get some rest dear.
indiegirl
02-09-2022, 07:58 PM
Dumbfuck couldn't even watch our 2 year old for 10 minutes so that I could wash the dishes. He ended up yelling for me to get her because she was tired and crying and wanted to be held and cuddled to sleep. I got her to sleep. I'm going to bed too. Fuck the rest of the dirty dishes. I hate men that aren't good for anything.
Lol you totally should've made a point and put the dishes in the trash can instead and said "if you can't wash them every other day then, we can't use them." LOL and bought paper plates, utensils, and cups for yourself and the kids.
That's one thing that bothered me about my sister. She always expected everyone else to pay for food, feed her, and then they washed the dishes on holidays while she sat on the couch.
moneybags
02-09-2022, 11:50 PM
Dumbfuck couldn't even watch our 2 year old for 10 minutes so that I could wash the dishes. He ended up yelling for me to get her because she was tired and crying and wanted to be held and cuddled to sleep. I got her to sleep. I'm going to bed too. Fuck the rest of the dirty dishes. I hate men that aren't good for anything.
I’m sorry. That sounds like a challenging place to be. Hugs. I hope you get some rest and your induction goes okay.
whirlerz
02-10-2022, 07:37 AM
Lol you totally should've made a point and put the dishes in the trash can instead and said "if you can't wash them every other day then, we can't use them." LOL and bought paper plates, utensils, and cups for yourself and the kids.
That's one thing that bothered me about my sister. She always expected everyone else to pay for food, feed her, and then they washed the dishes on holidays while she sat on the couch.
Totally, my roomies^!
Yes, I ve put dishes outside, TG for the snow rn!
I personally use paper plates & bowls..
So, get this, crushie upstairs, talking to girl across from him (w/the jealous bf that doesn't know, she's not supposed to talk to anyone ) about getting his 2nd car fixed today, the she uses, & has been using for months now, for free ???
That still owes me $?!
Well. I stalked him outside the bathroom again, he was showering, after he came out, I asked him again about it, (2nd time!) he said he gets paid at midnight, so, we,'ll see? ::)
Also, my floor lamp (for camming) bulb burnt out, I unscrewed 2 bulbs from their bathroom vanity.
Which they leave on 24/7 btw.
I won't get started on the dumpsters.. ::)
Ratchet AF^!
LoveyD
02-10-2022, 11:44 AM
Dear men,
I know I have leggings on, but for the love of all things decent, can you please stop staring at my crotch area? There is no camel toe there. I know bc I checked before leaving the locker room...
WendiStarr
02-10-2022, 01:21 PM
I finally got my 2 year old down for a nap and BD woke her up with being all unnecessary loud. She slept a whole fucking 20 minutes. I'm aggravated with this stupid bastard BD. It's not like I don't have dinner to cook or other shit to do than to deal with a now grumpy kid because she was woken up.
AChildOfBoredom
02-10-2022, 02:16 PM
The ones who think that your rejection of sex is a negotiation offer. Like, no, asswipe… I have absolutely zero sexual interest in you in any form. It’s not an offer to downgrade - it’s an outright refusal.
Marina Starr
02-10-2022, 04:57 PM
They have a hard time understanding that NO is a complete sentence. They think we're playing hard to get.
I've been celibate for years and love it. I get the chuckles when men think I'm very sexual because of how I look, lmao.
The ones who think that your rejection of sex is a negotiation offer. Like, no, asswipe… I have absolutely zero sexual interest in you in any form. It’s not an offer to downgrade - it’s an outright refusal.
TheBrownFox
02-10-2022, 06:27 PM
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/upload-passport-they-want-dl-upload-dl-they-want-passport.42710/
This dude is so fucking cringey.....
~Carmen~
02-10-2022, 08:15 PM
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/upload-passport-they-want-dl-upload-dl-they-want-passport.42710/
This dude is so fucking cringey.....
Ewwww that's got to be the creepist looking guy I've ever seen.
TheBrownFox
02-10-2022, 08:48 PM
Ewwww that's got to be the creepist looking guy I've ever seen.
That motherfucker look like he should be a Duck Dynasty character or something. And he has a super inflated ego too. Gross. And he has the nerve to have "Jesus" in his name.
miss.a.p1600
02-10-2022, 08:50 PM
I hate when men act like they are so fucking fabulous that you must be delusional to not want to be around them 24/7
No bitch
YOU are the delusional one.
moneybags
02-10-2022, 09:58 PM
I bought this workout tank and wore it to the gym it says, “it’s a beautiful day to leave me alone.”
I know most guys at the gym just want to workout, but i feel like anytime I’m even nice to a guy they see it as an invitation to harass me.
I’m just gonna try on being rude bitch for awhile. I hate that I have to be that way though.
whirlerz
02-10-2022, 10:26 PM
My phone just rang, it was crushie that owes me.. No answer, I called it back & left mssg.
Must'ov butt dialed, goof ball.
indiegirl
02-10-2022, 10:32 PM
I FUCKING HATE MEN. Partially my fault, the guy who I saw at the fucking storage unit (the one who said he would pay extra for using cash app even though I said I don't take it) decided to decline the 600 dollar payment today. WHAT A FUCKING LOWLIFE. He was also smoking meth at 9 in the morning and I drove an hour there and back to see him. His name is Jeremy Naffaa in North Hollywood. You're welcome. Who treats someone like this when it took me roundtrip 2 hours, oh that's right a drug addict.
Writing this here so I can post this on my alert blacklist when I get home.
moneybags
02-10-2022, 11:49 PM
^^^is that a charge back? Did you provide services? What a price of shit. I’m sorry. I hope the universe sends you better money and better clients. That’s the worst.
The clients at the club have been awful! So toxic! I didn’t even work tonight because I can’t put up with it. It seems with how bad the economy is-obviously he’s just a piece of shit-but the customers have been BAD lately. They have been so abusive!
I use to love giving service to my clients because it was a win/win. I have regulars, but 90% of the customers I get are trash. It use to not be that way. I’m glad I’m transitioning out, but it’s not fast enough!
indiegirl
02-11-2022, 12:18 AM
^^^is that a charge back? Did you provide services? What a price of shit. I’m sorry. I hope the universe sends you better money and better clients. That’s the worst.
The clients at the club have been awful! So toxic! I didn’t even work tonight because I can’t put up with it. It seems with how bad the economy is-obviously he’s just a piece of shit-but the customers have been BAD lately. They have been so abusive!
I use to love giving service to my clients because it was a win/win. I have regulars, but 90% of the customers I get are trash. It use to not be that way. I’m glad I’m transitioning out, but it’s not fast enough!
Yes he's the guy I had sex with in the storage unit he owns. What a loser and then he declined the payment today. Karma will get him back. He doesn't have to worry about that.
moneybags
02-11-2022, 01:13 AM
Yes he's the guy I had sex with in the storage unit he owns. What a loser and then he declined the payment today. Karma will get him back. He doesn't have to worry about that.
i would say he’s already in a living hell dear. I’m sorry. I hate that you can’t go to court when you’ve been stolen from. Yeah. He’ll get his.
Marina Starr
02-11-2022, 05:07 AM
I have a few of that shirts and it didn't work, lol!
You need to stop being too pretty and sexy :)
Vanilla hoes think I'm making shit up with how much attention and heckles I get from men just by being beautiful and sexy so I feel you!
I'll let you borrow my favorite hat. I rock this pretty much everywhere:
https://i.ibb.co/p4S3MYF/20220211-064005.jpg (https://ibb.co/6Dk4TjC)
I bought this workout tank and wore it to the gym it says, “it’s a beautiful day to leave me alone.”
I know most guys at the gym just want to workout, but i feel like anytime I’m even nice to a guy they see it as an invitation to harass me.
I’m just gonna try on being rude bitch for awhile. I hate that I have to be that way though.
Secret Shelly
02-11-2022, 11:25 AM
^^^Indie that dude sounds so the loser!!!
That's a big reason why i'm Miss Cash-N-Carry...no cash, no ass!!
WendiStarr
02-12-2022, 10:39 AM
BD being annoying about shit that doesn't even concern him. He went in my hospital bag and wanted to know why I have dry shampoo, deodorant, lotion, and a pack of scented baby wipes in there. Last time I gave birth I was stuck in the bed, hooked up to machines and had a catheter and anti-blood clot pumps on my legs for a couple days. I wasn't allowed out of the bed to use the shower in the birthing room at all. Then I was moved to a different room that had a toilet and sink but no shower. I was stinky as heck and felt so gross until I was discharged from the hospital and was allowed to go home. I'd rather avoid that again.
JenniferNorth
02-12-2022, 11:03 AM
^ OMFG, is he worried you're gonna hook up with a hot doctor???! Seriously, what an asshole! "No bitch, you aren't allowed to be clean after giving birth!"
I had 2 showers and only spent one night after having my youngest, and I brought all those things too. Hospitals are yucky, giving birth is yucky, and you want to feel clean afterward. WTF I didn't think hospital rooms came with no shower?? I would be so pissed.
miss.a.p1600
02-12-2022, 08:17 PM
BD being annoying about shit that doesn't even concern him. He went in my hospital bag and wanted to know why I have dry shampoo, deodorant, lotion, and a pack of scented baby wipes in there. Last time I gave birth I was stuck in the bed, hooked up to machines and had a catheter and anti-blood clot pumps on my legs for a couple days. I wasn't allowed out of the bed to use the shower in the birthing room at all. Then I was moved to a different room that had a toilet and sink but no shower. I was stinky as heck and felt so gross until I was discharged from the hospital and was allowed to go home. I'd rather avoid that again.
He’s probably thinking you forgot to unpack your “hoe” bag …….
Anyways, you may want to invest in one of those suitcases with a lock and do not give him the combination.
Rude af to be going through your purse or handbags without your permission
laurielegs
02-12-2022, 10:38 PM
BD being annoying about shit that doesn't even concern him. He went in my hospital bag and wanted to know why I have dry shampoo, deodorant, lotion, and a pack of scented baby wipes in there. Last time I gave birth I was stuck in the bed, hooked up to machines and had a catheter and anti-blood clot pumps on my legs for a couple days. I wasn't allowed out of the bed to use the shower in the birthing room at all. Then I was moved to a different room that had a toilet and sink but no shower. I was stinky as heck and felt so gross until I was discharged from the hospital and was allowed to go home. I'd rather avoid that again.
Good grief, what a stupid thing to question, and wtf is he insinuating anyway?
He's lucky you have self control.
Pretty sure that would be a valid murder defense, a man saying that to a pregnant woman preparing for delivery lol, damn.
Sorry to see you're having to deal with that nonsense.
whirlerz
02-13-2022, 02:10 AM
He’s probably thinking you forgot to unpack your “hoe” bag …….
Anyways, you may want to invest in one of those suitcases with a lock and do not give him the combination.
Rude af to be going through your purse or handbags without your permission
This^!
I would try to put it somewhere, in a closet, or under some clothes or something!
Best to you, Wendi dear!
moneybags
02-13-2022, 05:36 AM
BD being annoying about shit that doesn't even concern him. He went in my hospital bag and wanted to know why I have dry shampoo, deodorant, lotion, and a pack of scented baby wipes in there. Last time I gave birth I was stuck in the bed, hooked up to machines and had a catheter and anti-blood clot pumps on my legs for a couple days. I wasn't allowed out of the bed to use the shower in the birthing room at all. Then I was moved to a different room that had a toilet and sink but no shower. I was stinky as heck and felt so gross until I was discharged from the hospital and was allowed to go home. I'd rather avoid that again.
They never have the good stuff at the hospital. It feels good to freshen up afterwards. I hate that the father of your child is being such a douchebag
Marina Starr
02-13-2022, 03:20 PM
I wanna buy some men clothings and wear when out and about and see if men would still gawk. Going full tomboy, totally masculine and no femininity, totally butch lmao.
#butchhoe #masculinehoe #tomboyhoe
SamanthaSugar
02-13-2022, 06:02 PM
I wanna buy some men clothings and wear when out and about and see if men would still gawk. Going full tomboy, totally masculine and no femininity, totally butch lmao.
#butchhoe #masculinehoe #tomboyhoe
You would probably get just as much attention, but from a different type of guy. When I dress all butch in my wife beater & dickies, I get more attention from the punk rock/skater boys, that’s the type I like, so I don’t mind :)
Marina Starr
02-13-2022, 06:18 PM
You are definitely right :)
I also believe because as sex workers, we carry ourselves differently, walk differently, the energy we emit is very sexy and men are attracted to that no matter how we dress.
You would probably get just as much attention, but from a different type of guy. When I dress all butch in my wife beater & dickies, I get more attention from the punk rock/skater boys, that’s the type I like, so I don’t mind :)
JenniferNorth
02-13-2022, 07:05 PM
Dress like an almost-40 year-old housewife who is late picking the kids up and see if they bother you! :P
JK, I am sure someone would. We all know how men think lol
LoveyD
02-13-2022, 07:25 PM
Yep^^ Men don't care. Even if you're unshowered & in sweats, they don't care.
SamanthaSugar
02-13-2022, 10:45 PM
My friend said that once she hit her 50’s she feels invisible to the opposite sex. She’s going through menopause and is delighted that she no longer has to endure getting eyeballed by all the creepy sausages.
moneybags
02-13-2022, 11:01 PM
^^^^my body literally relaxed at that thought of peacefully going about my day with men
I’ve been bursting to share this with you all. I studied energy healing awhile ago, and it’s their energy that matters the most.
If you watch Celestine prophecy it shows this.
https://youtu.be/AegM3h0UBCk
It’s more about their intentions than anything they do or say.
Basically they are vampiring our energy through the unsolicited comments and “innocent” small talk. That’s why I don’t engage. I feel bad, but it is what it is.
Marina Starr
02-14-2022, 10:01 AM
How I deal with rude ass men that still wanna talk to me when clearly they can see I have earphones on is telling them 'I can't hear you while keeping my earphones on.' It's a joy watching them vamoose!
whirlerz
02-14-2022, 10:40 AM
Ugh, I opened up a can o' worms w/my truckers thread in Lounge, really just wanted a discussion8)
JenniferNorth
02-14-2022, 11:05 AM
Ugh, I opened up a can o' worms w/my truckers thread in Lounge, really just wanted a discussion8)
Please don't feel bad! You were not trying to start anything! I think sometimes people take certain threads and just turn it into their agenda.
kimbe
02-14-2022, 11:30 AM
^ Any thread that has the potential to turn political is doomed..
miss.a.p1600
02-14-2022, 12:27 PM
^especially when you have idiot men in the thread like those two tricks