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Aurora_Sunset
02-22-2022, 02:33 PM
God, why do men?

Yesterday, my husband and I went to a little shop that had this really cool woman working there. And my brain kept thinking, "is there a way to talk to other women where you're not just small-talking but making it clear that hey, I think you're cool, do we have anything in common, could we hang out sometime" in a friends-type way to make new friends. There is no word for platonically talking to someone with the express purpose of just being friends, but in all other ways, that is the basic definition of "flirting." So I made a super short TikTok where I was just trying to be funny, saying "How do you flirt, but like in a friends way, just to make friends?"

The DELUGE of comments I've gotten all being like "you don't flirt to make friends" "flirting isn't for friendship" "this is sending mixed messages" from people who clearly cannot conceive of the concept, EVEN WHEN I EXPLAINED IT, that I wasn't using the word "flirt" in a sexual or even romantic way.

"Shockingly," every single one of those comments has come from MEN. Not a single woman has felt the need to lecture me on my use of the word "flirt" for obvious lack of a better word. All these men just saw a woman saying the word "flirt" and assumed it was about THEM. Bitch, I wasn't even fucking TALKING about MEN. I specifically had fellow female friends on my brain when I made the video.

But I triggered all these "nice guys" into lecturing me on the internet, because they're thinking of all the times a woman dared to be nice to them and "friend-zoned" them lmfao I can't with men on the internet.

moneybags
02-22-2022, 04:24 PM
^^^so sad. No one is entitled to anything-not you, not me, not anyone.

“Nice guys” are just passive aggressive manipulators because if they were truly being kind they wouldn’t be mad when they didn’t get what wanted. Sex of course.

We’re in a Cold War with men and it’s only a matter of time before tensions rise to a breaking point. I’m betting on this decade or the next there will be a flash point like the me too movement, and we say, “fuck the patriarchy.”

Can you imagine if women went on a sex strike?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/1fc04f3e-3128-4be7-a78a-28ea31db4101

LoveyD
02-22-2022, 04:34 PM
^I can relate, money.

And I find the whole nice-guy manipulation thing so unattractive. Wish men wouldn't do this. They'd have a better chance!

miss.a.p1600
02-23-2022, 08:50 AM
^^^so sad. No one is entitled to anything-not you, not me, not anyone.

“Nice guys” are just passive aggressive manipulators because if they were truly being kind they wouldn’t be mad when they didn’t get what wanted. Sex of course.

We’re in a Cold War with men and it’s only a matter of time before tensions rise to a breaking point. I’m betting on this decade or the next there will be a flash point like the me too movement, and we say, “fuck the patriarchy.”

Can you imagine if women went on a sex strike?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/1fc04f3e-3128-4be7-a78a-28ea31db4101

girl I thought about this the other day and my pussy goes on strike whenever my boundaries aren’t being respected. I ration out the pussy like men ration out their respect for women.

#pussyonstrike
#nolowqualitydickallowed

And when I say low quality dick, this is 80-90%of men. They act like they are the prize, don’t respect women, don’t/can’t provide for wife and/or kids, underperforming, don’t help around the house, don’t help with kids, refuse to hire help, can’t fix things, and just general waste of space.

whirlerz
02-23-2022, 08:58 AM
Well, as I found out my car needs brake work, I texted crushie about it, asked if he'd work off what he owes me, & he agreed..

Now the other guy upstairs had his truck towed, I bet he asks him too::).. He already lent the girl his 2nd truck.

It'll be interesting to see

Selina M
02-23-2022, 10:30 AM
So my stupid SO is back in rehab (yeah I know). We met ballroom dancing & used to go sometimes, but he hasn't really WANTED to go in the whole 8 years we've been together. It's some weird 'punishing himself' thing because back then our studio's owner had been trying to help him out & then he stole about $400 out of the bank deposit. He feels he doesn't 'deserve' to go. Shame since he is extremely talented & we could have been competing.

I was out one night last year with a mutual friend at a country bar with dancing, who introduced me to her FWB, who was trained in ballroom. He's GOOD too. I can't express to y'all how rare this is, especially that he's only ~25ish. It's definitely an older, rich person sort of hobby. At one point he said if I ever wanted to go out to the social dances to hit him up.

I am sick of wasting my own talent, so I finally asked SO last night if he was ok with me going with this guy or if it was going to be an issue. I told him it wasn't fair that a) he's not even fucking here and b) when he is, he never wants to go socially, and he certainly doesn't want to compete or do showcases. I impressed on him that he had been FWB with our friend and had caught feelings for her, it was NOT like that with me.

SO was like "Well you're right it's not fair. Good points I guess. Ok" but was still fucking pouty the rest of the call. I was like "Are you fine or not?" and he kept saying "I'll BE fine".

It's so fucking dumb. I'm sorry it's a hobby that requires a partner. I'm sorry I don't want to go alone & have to dance with strangers all night. Get the fuck over it. It's your own fault.

WendiStarr
02-23-2022, 01:54 PM
Why can't men experience any of the suffering postpartum? They don't have to deal with a sore pussy, cramping, the disgusting postpartum bleeding,
looking like a murder scene every time you shower, the weird looking belly, crying spells, hormone migraines, painfully engorged and leaking boobs, peeing a little when they sneeze, hot flashes, mood swings, feeling fat and ugly and still having to wear maternity because pre-preggo clothes don't fit yet, etc. I totally understand why some women quit giving their men sex after kids. Women have all that shit going on, on top of being the ones taking care of the kids, cooking, cleaning, and feeling unappreciated. How the fuck can a woman feel sexy anymore when even getting a shower seems like a luxury, let alone putting on makeup, doing your hair, and wearing a nice outfit that'll probably be dirtied? Men sit there whining about no sex without taking all this into account. I bled for 8 straight weeks last time.

carmen_b
02-23-2022, 02:20 PM
^ I agree and think that men are often not helpful enough.
A worn out exhausted woman does not want sex.

whirlerz
02-23-2022, 03:22 PM
I'm so sorry, Wendi, you deserve the Best!

SnuffleUffleGrass
02-24-2022, 06:00 PM
I let my favorite nephew annoy me today with his bellyaching about his sex addiction and his cute little bouts of puppy love. I really need to quit asking questions. He's worse than his fucking father, that one.

Marina Starr
02-25-2022, 08:06 AM
The majority of men don't get that they sexualized and objectified women when they love our bodies but not the person attached to it. They can only see women as sexual beings.

It makes me sad for women that don't think they have value beyond accepting from men that all they're good for was sex.

miss.a.p1600
02-25-2022, 08:52 AM
^this is why I prefer to only be nude around men if I’m being compensated. Most of them can’t handle female nudity right in their face.

They instantly sexualize EVERYTHING

Like look here mf, just because *I* want to be nude, set my tits or pussy free DOES NOT equal sexual attraction to you.

If I’m sexually attracted to you and want you to make a move …… I will let you know.

WendiStarr
02-25-2022, 09:13 AM
I ended up just having to put the baby in the bassinet and letting my toddler hang out in the bathroom with me while I showered. I hadn't showered in a couple days and was feeling gross. I tried explaining to BD that I have to take care of myself too and showering is a basic necessity right now, not a luxury activity. I asked BD if he knows what empathy is. He just gave me a blank look and asked me what empathy means. It makes me feel sad that I feel like I have 4 kids instead of 3. He's too selfish to comprehend anything that doesn't revolve around himself. It's like dealing with another 2 year old.

miss.a.p1600
02-25-2022, 09:19 AM
^im the last person to give advice but it sounds like your bd has traits of narcissism

*i don’t know him, just what you post, so take that with a grain of salt or ignore but it is very difficult to maintain satisfying long term relationships with people who have those characteristics

Most of the ones I know are divorced and on the prowl or perpetually single and on the prowl. And the women who stay are silently miserable.

LoveyD
02-25-2022, 01:31 PM
@Wendy I agree. Your BD sounds a lot like my BD in the sense that they are both narcissistic. They don't have empathy and never will. Everything will always be about them. . I left my BD in 2005 and had to put him in check so he wouldn't harm our son. I didn't trust him . Not with his drinking... I put him in check in a way so sneaky, it scared him.

Narcissists never change. They only get worse with time. The problem is them.

I left the gym today only to get catcalled by this 20 something year old fuckboy yelling "DAMN, BABY, YOU LOOKIN GOOD! DAYUM. ARE THERE MORE HOTTIES IN THERE LIKE YOU??"


Um..fuckboy.... I'm nearly old enough to be your mom...

Marina Starr
02-25-2022, 01:48 PM
Reminded me of being catcalled by this guy as I was walking from the mall parking lot after getting chick fil a to my car in broad daylight. He kept saying 'hey beautiful, hey beautiful where you heading to so fast!'. I looked back just to see what he looked like but gave him no response so he stopped. I didn't feel I was in danger but I started zigzag-ing between cars to my car.

Then a few days ago as I was shopping at publix, this guy out of nowhere was hitting on me said he enjoys watching me shop, I'm always very happy and cheerful. ummmm okay dude.
Vanilla hoes would have thanked him profusely. When I went to the register, he was also there being creepily happy with me so I told him to stop following me, now you're being creepy.

Men RARELY tried this with me because my glare of death would be enough for them to fuck all the way off, lol.


@Wendy I agree. Your BD sounds a lot like my BD in the sense that they are both narcissistic. They don't have empathy and never will. Everything will always be about them. . I left my BD in 2005 and had to put him in check so he wouldn't harm our son. I didn't trust him . Not with his drinking... I put him in check in a way so sneaky, it scared him.

Narcissists never change. They only get worse with time. The problem is them.

I left the gym today only to get catcalled by this 20 something year old fuckboy yelling "DAMN, BABY, YOU LOOKIN GOOD! DAYUM. ARE THERE MORE HOTTIES IN THERE LIKE YOU??"


Um..fuckboy.... I'm nearly old enough to be your mom...

neverendingkneebruises
02-25-2022, 04:03 PM
What they did to transform her into a Geisha was so painful. Ouch!

What she did in broadlight was too tame. The Hoe in me is very strong. I love checking out hot guys bulges and let them know I do so in broad daylight. I just don't give a fuck about being caught and they love it because I'm beautiful. Guys will notice you are are checking their bulges immediately no matter how little or much you look. It's their MOST important part, lmaooooooo!

#shamelesshoe
#bulgecheckinghoe
#broaddaylighthoe

Ohh it was but I love that movie so much I've added it to my "stripper must watch" films lol! Not only is it relatable, but I love that they show how much work & personal sacrifice it takes to be like that (beauty is a huge hobby for many & a lot of work & refining, & society expects us to partake, but at the same time the actual work is devalued, downplayed, & seen as effortless or we come off as "vain" therefore, it has turned into another invisible labor for us to take care of, I feel like). A lot of normal people watching that movie could probably think it is ridiculous and all for men, but us SWers see it as an art form that can greatly benefit us :)

I LOVE doing stuff like you do too, being blatantly obvious & fishing in public hahah, where I live there's not a whole bunch of super gorgeous women just out & about, so when I go out even if I'm not trying at all I'm usually able to turn heads }:D Not to brag or anything LOL. I'll do something obvious like you do and they have no idea how to react & look panicked. But at the same time being able to make a man stop or trip in his steps just with a look or smile is also fun!

Marina Starr
02-25-2022, 05:57 PM
It's a great money. There a lot of work going into be a Geisha for sure. Asian cultures are extremely strict.


Brag away, lol! It's not bragging because it's what YOU experienced. There's absolutely nothing wrong with thinking you're the best thing since sliced bread.

There are plenty of beautiful women in my town but the majority of them are just that, beautiful! They don't give off that alpha bitches air and confidence we emit that men just find so damn sexy.

I own the fact that I love turning heads and intimidate men. That does a lot for my huge ego, lol. The one type of guy that strongly drawn to me are altra sweet.
I can get real bitchy so I guess opposites attract :)



Ohh it was but I love that movie so much I've added it to my "stripper must watch" films lol! Not only is it relatable, but I love that they show how much work & personal sacrifice it takes to be like that (beauty is a huge hobby for many & a lot of work & refining, & society expects us to partake, but at the same time the actual work is devalued, downplayed, & seen as effortless or we come off as "vain" therefore, it has turned into another invisible labor for us to take care of, I feel like). A lot of normal people watching that movie could probably think it is ridiculous and all for men, but us SWers see it as an art form that can greatly benefit us :)

I LOVE doing stuff like you do too, being blatantly obvious & fishing in public hahah, where I live there's not a whole bunch of super gorgeous women just out & about, so when I go out even if I'm not trying at all I'm usually able to turn heads }:D Not to brag or anything LOL. I'll do something obvious like you do and they have no idea how to react & look panicked. But at the same time being able to make a man stop or trip in his steps just with a look or smile is also fun!

miss.a.p1600
02-26-2022, 09:27 AM
I am tired of men thinking they are the prize

Bitch just because you are “nice” and provide companionship does not make you a prize

I can go train a nice pet dog for companionship

Wtf are you bringing to to table that is of VALUE besides being “nice” to get sex on demand.

I honestly think 80% of men deserve to be cheated on. They have no clue how to fuck right, unwilling to provide, lazy as shit, and do nothing but bitch and moan about trivial shit. …… wastes of space!

chanzep
02-26-2022, 07:54 PM
I thought he would of done it already!. Tell him do it now or pay you. You are too nice to this guy. Stop doing stuff for him.

whirlerz
02-27-2022, 09:48 AM
*****

miss.a.p1600
02-27-2022, 10:02 AM
I think ladies across the globe should stage a mass revolt against 'aint shit' men and go on pussy strike if men aren't brining value to their life.

And the moment they even think about becoming violent/stalkerish/etc.....they can say hello to law enforcement and weapons.

Marina Starr
02-27-2022, 10:03 AM
It amuses me how men think they can gaslight me because they've successful done it to vanilla hoes.
It's a real joy putting them in their place and watching them vamoose.

https://i.ibb.co/MCXGKT2/laughing-haha.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

whirlerz
02-27-2022, 12:40 PM
I thought he would of done it already!. Tell him do it now or pay you. You are too nice to this guy. Stop doing stuff for him.

He's working on it, now, as we speak!
Just back from parts store:)

chanzep
02-27-2022, 07:53 PM
Good.

WendiStarr
02-28-2022, 12:37 PM
So. Damn. Exhausted. I'm running on 3 hours of sleep and I'm having a hard time not wanting to fall asleep every time I sit down. Having a 2 year old and a newborn is tough. My 12 year old can at least get herself snacks, food, or drinks from the fridge or cupboard. I wish BD would watch the kids and let me nap.

AChildOfBoredom
02-28-2022, 04:45 PM
I am tired of men thinking they are the prize

Bitch just because you are “nice” and provide companionship does not make you a prize

I can go train a nice pet dog for companionship

Wtf are you bringing to to table that is of VALUE besides being “nice” to get sex on demand.

I honestly think 80% of men deserve to be cheated on. They have no clue how to fuck right, unwilling to provide, lazy as shit, and do nothing but bitch and moan about trivial shit. …… wastes of space!

It seems the ones who actually try to earn that title are few and far between. And this is why I don’t even bother. I make my own money, I can do my own work on the home which doesn’t require a contractor and permits, I can fix my own cars, I can get myself off, I don’t desire to have children (and if I did, I’d be just as well to go to a clinic where they jacked off in a cup), so what do I really need them for in a non-professional relationship?

WendiStarr
03-01-2022, 12:25 PM
BD has been very evil today. My mom, brother, and dad are supposed to be coming on Saturday to help the kids and I escape. If that fails I'm just going to call the police and the kids and I can stay in a hotel until I can get a place. A friend in IL said that the kids and I can stay with him but I'm not really wanting to deal with any more men.

whirlerz
03-01-2022, 12:30 PM
BD has been very evil today. My mom, brother, and dad are supposed to be coming on Saturday to help the kids and I escape. If that fails I'm just going to call the police and the kids and I can stay in a hotel until I can get a place. A friend in IL said that the kids and I can stay with him but I'm not really wanting to deal with any more men.

Aw, God Bless you & your kids Wendi, if I had room, I'd let you stay with me..God will make a way for you dear, sorry to hear this!

Is there any type of caseworker in your county that could help too?

Marina Starr
03-01-2022, 04:46 PM
I'm always left in tears when fuckboys shunned me for not giving them sex.

https://i.ibb.co/WvMz2q0/hurt-sad.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

neverendingkneebruises
03-01-2022, 05:57 PM
Brag away, lol! It's not bragging because it's what YOU experienced. There's absolutely nothing wrong with thinking you're the best thing since sliced bread.


There are plenty of beautiful women in my town but the majority of them are just that, beautiful! They don't give off that alpha bitches air and confidence we emit that men just find so damn sexy.


I own the fact that I love turning heads and intimidate men. That does a lot for my huge ego, lol. The one type of guy that strongly drawn to me are altra sweet.
I can get real bitchy so I guess opposites attract :)

Life is too short for me to not be confident. :P I only get so much youth, hell if I'm gonna waste it being insecure!!!! Well also to get as much $ as I can to set myself up for life lol.
You are so right, I shouldn't apologize for experiencing this AND enjoying it. Lots of men brag about using women in various ways & are praised & they get to have their egos stroked. Our turn!!!!!
Men definitely respect you more once you start being more self serving. I'm not necessarily a bitch unless merited but I use men for anything I don't want to do myself. I'll invite guy friends or boyfriends over just so they can help with house projects LOL they love it too, absolutely eat it up. All my coworkers have dubbed me "princess" and I think it suits me!
Not to say I don't treat them well either, just in my own way. It's like the perfect yin-yang balance.


It amuses me how men think they can gaslight me because they've successful done it to vanilla hoes.
It's a real joy putting them in their place and watching them vamoose.

There's a whole genre of tiktoks going around like this. Basically countering gaslight attempts by fuckboys (or men in general)
They're calling it "Defense Against the Dark Arts" LOL, fitting!


I think ladies across the globe should stage a mass revolt against 'aint shit' men and go on pussy strike if men aren't brining value to their life.

I notice a mass movement happening of women & girls not settling for men's shit & refusing to be gaslit for menial reasons
I think it helps the past few generations of women have been victims to men much of it which could be avoided & their daughters (& other loved ones) are opening their eyes to it. Throughout history there has been so much unnecessary trauma & struggle, all for what?? My mom for example, she has had a really difficult life mostly because of men, & never really got to enjoy her youth at all. I can tell she lives vicariously through me. And that's one of the BETTER cases, many women live sad lives at the hands of men until they die. I refuse to struggle whatsoever at the hands of ANY man. Our family's generational curses end with me.
We don't need them anymore in 2022 so don't deal with them if they are not adding anything of value to your life (saying goes for anyone really). Men will have to step up or die lonely little incels never knowing true love.

if y'all still need proof. A week after I kicked out my toxic ex my skin started to clear up & glow despite mostly the same skincare routine. I get so many random compliments on my skin now LOLL
Do it for you if anything!!

Marina Starr
03-01-2022, 06:34 PM
Yup, loving, enjoying and completely own it, lol!

It takes so much out of you to be insecure so might as well be confident! You could do a lot of things yourself but why would you want to? LOOOOL
Make sure men know they're appreciated when they're helpful and their help keeps on coming.
Take advantage of your pretty privilege and use it well :)

A lot of people get uncomfortable when women brag about using men because women are indoctrinated not to.

Speaking of fuckboys, there are so many in my town. Vanilla hoes don't know how to deal with them and get walked all over, used and taking advantage of.
I can't share with them how I experience men because they'd think I'm bragging or just full of myself.


Life is too short for me to not be confident. :P I only get so much youth, hell if I'm gonna waste it being insecure!!!! Well also to get as much $ as I can to set myself up for life lol.
You are so right, I shouldn't apologize for experiencing this AND enjoying it. Lots of men brag about using women in various ways & are praised & they get to have their egos stroked. Our turn!!!!! Men definitely respect you more once you start being more self serving. I'm not necessarily a bitch unless merited but I use men for anything I don't want to do myself. I'll invite guy friends or boyfriends over just so they can help with house projects LOL they love it too, absolutely eat it up. All my coworkers have dubbed me "princess" and I think it suits me!
Not to say I don't treat them well either, just in my own way. It's like the perfect yin-yang balance.

There's a whole genre of tiktoks going around like this. Basically countering gaslight attempts by fuckboys (or men in general)
They're calling it "Defense Against the Dark Arts" LOL, fitting!

LoveyD
03-01-2022, 07:56 PM
BD has been very evil today. My mom, brother, and dad are supposed to be coming on Saturday to help the kids and I escape. If that fails I'm just going to call the police and the kids and I can stay in a hotel until I can get a place. A friend in IL said that the kids and I can stay with him but I'm not really wanting to deal with any more men.

Thinking good thoughts for you and the kiddos.. Stay safe. Glad your family is helping you. If you talk to cops, make sure you stay calm so that BD isn't able to paint you as the crazy one.

miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 06:11 AM
BD has been very evil today. My mom, brother, and dad are supposed to be coming on Saturday to help the kids and I escape. If that fails I'm just going to call the police and the kids and I can stay in a hotel until I can get a place. A friend in IL said that the kids and I can stay with him but I'm not really wanting to deal with any more men.

Good your family is helping cause your dude is acting worthless.

And to make it worse he’s been acting an ass during your pregnancy and right after giving birth. The only timeframe when most dudes even the narcissistic ones pull it together and act supportive of the woman for at least a few months.

Girl when you said he was sleeping like a baby while you were only getting 3 hours I knew he was up to his typical shenanigans and probably intentionally making you sleep deprived as a manipulation tactic which is cruel and evil.

His evil streak has been going on your entire pregnancy which that in and of itself is ‘he need his ass kicked’ - worthy.

Glad to hear you are getting away from him. He doesn’t deserve you and your kiddos. He deserves a lobotomy.

whirlerz
03-02-2022, 07:12 AM
Good your family is helping cause your dude is acting worthless.

And to make it worse he’s been acting an ass during your pregnancy and right after giving birth. The only timeframe when most dudes even the narcissistic ones pull it together and act supportive of the woman for at least a few months.

Girl when you said he was sleeping like a baby while you were only getting 3 hours I knew he was up to his typical shenanigans and probably intentionally making you sleep deprived as a manipulation tactic which is cruel and evil.

His evil streak has been going on your entire pregnancy which that in and of itself is ‘he need his ass kicked’ - worthy.

Glad to hear you are getting away from him. He doesn’t deserve you and your kiddos. He deserves a lobotomy.

I think he already had one?
Wendi you're in my prayers and thoughts every day, dear!

Anyway, I was resting after a long day, this good upstairs got his truck back, he sits there for over 20 minutes, w/loud, booming music.
So I texted him to please turn it down, he drove off, TG.

No one needs to hear that shit., that Loud!Take Care!

miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 07:36 AM
Yup, loving, enjoying and completely own it, lol!

It takes so much out of you to be insecure so might as well be confident! You could do a lot of things yourself but why would you want to? LOOOOL
Make sure men know they're appreciated when they're helpful and their help keeps on coming.
Take advantage of your pretty privilege and use it well :)

A lot of people get uncomfortable when women brag about using men because women are indoctrinated not to.

Speaking of fuckboys, there are so many in my town. Vanilla hoes don't know how to deal with them and get walked all over, used and taking advantage of.
I can't share with them how I experience men because they'd think I'm bragging or just full of myself.

Those jokers have been using us since the beginning of time. And since they’ve become aware of and created male privilege

ravenskyy
03-02-2022, 08:17 AM
Men are fucking stupid.

miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 08:19 AM
^And worse is when they expect you to be led by them and go along for the ride (all caused by their stupidity) and be looking stupid too......nah bruh you act stupid that on YOU!

LoveyD
03-02-2022, 08:31 AM
^^ Yeah they act stupid and expect you to go along with it, then when the shit hits the fan, who gets blamed???

Marina Starr
03-03-2022, 09:48 AM
Had a talk with a vanilla hoe today. She's in distress because she really likes this guy and she feels he likes her too but he's giving her the runarounds.

He obviously likes the attention she's giving like the majority of men without reciprocating. Without lifting a fucking finger.
These men are definitely not keepers nor what you want to fuck with. They are bad and toxic. She wishes that he would tell her where she stands.

I didn't get preachy so I just listened but I'm thinking oh my good Lord. His behavior is the answer she needs.
It makes me sad that a lot of women don't think they deserve better.

As Oprah said "If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay."

Don't try to win him over with good pussy. That will only leave you broken hearted and feeling used when he crosses out your name after he got the what he wanted.

miss.a.p1600
03-03-2022, 10:01 AM
^That’s that subtle disrespect. Leading people on and breadcrumbing.

Dudes don’t want to be straightforward because it means cutting off their supply so they give “just enough”

Most women know they won’t tolerate obvious mistreatment like physical abuse but when a dude dangles carrots, acts hot then cold, and does the breadcrumb game it leaves women confused and they typically give men who do this the benefit of the doubt because someone intentionally treating them like an ass is an ego blow

And to fix the ego bruise, they think staying and making it work will resolve the issue but that’s not healthy and reality is accepting the loss and leaving is healthier than sticking around figuring it out trying to make the dude see them for the wonderful women they are.

Marina Starr
03-03-2022, 10:07 AM
https://i.ibb.co/xM2fjRD/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)



^That’s that subtle disrespect. Leading people on and breadcrumbing.

Dudes don’t want to be straightforward because it means cutting off their supply so they give “just enough”

Most women know they won’t tolerate obvious mistreatment like physical abuse but when a dude dangles carrots, acts hot then cold, and does the breadcrumb game it leaves women confused and they typically give men who do this the benefit of the doubt because someone intentionally treating them like an ass is an ego blow

And to fix the ego bruise, they think staying and making it work will resolve the issue but that’s not healthy and reality is accepting the loss and leaving is healthier than sticking around figuring it out trying to make the dude see them for the wonderful women they are.

SnuffleUffleGrass
03-03-2022, 11:21 AM
My boyfriend is a diva. I had gas from required changes to my diet (I have IBS & stomach issues so I have been upping my fiber intake) and he complained about me farting. Gah, every warm-blooded creature farts. He's so weird, loves butt sex but faints from a fart.

whirlerz
03-03-2022, 12:08 PM
I have IBS also, it's not an easy thing to deal with/live with

minibagel
03-03-2022, 04:20 PM
i wonder if eric, eagle & rick are all the same person. multiple conflicting personalities taking residence in one tormented soul, bickering over politics on a stripper forum. two accounts signed up 2006 and two from NYC. how bout that. is this a common theory? lol

kamiliam
03-03-2022, 04:27 PM
i wonder if eric, eagle & rick are all the same person. multiple personalities taking residence in one tormented soul, bickering over politics on a stripper forum. two accounts signed up 2006 and two from NYC. how bout that. is this a common theory? lol

They actually have slightly different political "goals" that I recognize from people with similar takes. Different life experiences, age, they are just hella partisan and defensive

TheBrownFox
03-03-2022, 06:25 PM
A woman should be able to take the fucking bus home without being harassed by sorry-ass, entitled "men." When this motherfucker asked "Can I come sit next to you?," I told him no, and I told him no when he asked to give me his number. I don't like fucking repeating myself, and I told him that when a woman tells you NO, you need to accept it and move on...not do this cringey-ass shit where you keep persisting. I guarantee you if Eric had been the one driving this bus, he wouldn't have allowed this. He would've told that guy "Hey, leave the lady alone," or made him get off the bus right then and there. But this other driver just sits there and says nothing while passengers board the bus without their mask on (We're still required to wear masks on these buses).

Anyway, Annoying Dude says to me "I wasn't trying to disrespect you." Smh. Then when this older White lady boards the bus and sits down, he starts up with her...asking her "How do you feel about Black people? Do you have a problem with Black people?" OMG, this fucking guy... Then he starts whining to her about how he's trying to talk to me, but I'm not paying him much attention. I was like "Awww, poor baby..."

Shortly after that, this dude starts standing up in the bus aisle while the bus is in motion. Then his dumbass fell backwards in the rear of the bus, breaking the glass. The driver pulled over, and he and this unruly passenger start going at it (not physically...verbally). The passenger threatened to "bust his head in," and the driver called the police and blocked the exits so that this guy can't leave. Me and this other chick are just sitting on this bus while this is happening, and this dude is kicking at the bus' rear door while hurling threats at the driver (who is standing outside of the bus). He said "I'm gonna keep doing this 'til you let me out!" Smh. When the police arrived, that passenger starts mouthing off to the police...even telling one of the officers that he "looks like a girl." SMH. Wow...the police were very calm with this guy, and this guy was threatening the bus driver right in front of the police! And just my luck it turns out that this prick lives in my neighborhood (but on a different street than me).

WendiStarr
03-03-2022, 06:41 PM
^ Eww, what a creep! That's crazy! Some guys need to learn that no means no and not bother harassing you for rejecting them. He sounds like he'd probably have been the psycho type to stalk.

^^ Usually I don't bother with the blues on here but I know for a fact that Eagle isn't Rick. I know Eagle in real life. He's actually a sweet guy in real life and treated me with respect. Rick I am almost positive I've met while working in a club in Detroit and was a cheap, creepy douchebag in polyester p.o.s. looking for cheap extras.

My man bitching of the day..a guy tipped me and then did a charge back because I wouldn't show him a close up of my pussy. It's only been 2 weeks and I'm still postpartum bleeding. I warned him about that and he got all mad because he wanted to see how stretched out it was. Ugh! I'm not comfortable showing that area right now. Why would a man even want to see that? Creepy men.

TheBrownFox
03-03-2022, 06:50 PM
^^ Usually I don't bother with the blues on here but I know for a fact that Eagle isn't Rick. I know Eagle in real life. He's actually a sweet guy in real life and treated me with respect.



I like eagle too. Also, he saw my post a while back, venting about how I'd have to cancel my booster shot appointment due to low funds (for the Lyft ride), and he sent me $20 via CashApp.

chanzep
03-03-2022, 06:51 PM
That's crazy I'm glad your ok.