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chanzep
06-13-2021, 02:05 PM
Men are so full of shit nowadays. Like they say 50/50 but what they mean is you pay for half and do housewife stuff. I don't think so.
I don't agree with that stuff. Most men do not build with women they use women to build level up and move on. Once on the next level they think they need a better woman too smh. Even if they stay married they cheat. I hate how nowadays these insecure broke men have females doing the most just to be with them. You see girls online talking about how much they have to offer financially etc. Real established men do not care.
As for those stupid men groups good luck to them lol they sound crazy. I had a friend say she met a guy who she thought was one and he had a small dick lol.
Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2021, 04:33 PM
One of my good friends is going through a messy divorce. She and her husband have always had some issues with him being a borderline abusive dick, but come to find out that he's not just "borderline." She found out he was backhanding the kids in the head so hard with his wedding ring that it left bruises - telling them to do what he says or that they'll get "the ring hand." She also confessed that several years ago when she posted a picture with a black eye and a caption claiming that she dropped a weight on her face while exercising, he had actually punched her during an argument, and told her that if she said anything, he would take the kids and run with them right then and there. Oh yeah, and apparently the only reason their first child was born, which made her drop out of a graduate program right before it started, was because he stealthed her after deciding that he "didn't like condoms with artificial strawberry smell." Wtf? He's challenging the protective order she has against him for the kids this week, and she's worried they'll have to go back to a DV shelter if the judge revokes it.
I am honestly worried for her. She's spent the last 10 years mostly being a stay-at-home mom and only working part-time occasionally. I don't know how she's gonna make this work financially. And he is, unfortunately, a lawyer, so some of his threats of "I know people" might not be complete bullshit. He's currently pulling every abuser manipulation tactic in the books, telling people that she's lying, she's making stuff up just to take the house from him, and that it's a "complete shock" that she's "acting this way." And people really are believing him, because they don't know what he's like at home.... typical abuser/victim shit with society not believing that "a guy like that could ever do that."
The cops were literally less than useless when she filed the abuse claim for her children - making comments like "Well, my kids have bruises all summer long? Does that mean I'm beating them?" Like, wtf? Why are you automatically siding with some dude you don't even know? This shit is why no one believes men when they say "not all men." Fuck you - how about you keep your opinions to yourself and just do your job on the report?
The kids don't want him to have any sort of custody. They're scared of him. And he's trying to go for 50/50 custody so that he won't have to pay child support. He can't even take care of them OR himself... he told her not long ago that he would "take over vacuuming the house if she told him when it needed to be done".... bitch, you're a grown-ass man. Look at the floor.
chanzep
06-13-2021, 05:24 PM
My heart go out to your friend. I can't imagine how broken she feels. Plus having kids too. I hope she will be ok.
AChildOfBoredom
06-13-2021, 05:28 PM
What s MTGOW?.
”Men Going Their Own Way”. So, like how these “patriots” will tell you they’re not the Ku Klux Klan, but they have no problem making bedfellows with them and espouse rhetoric that goes in the same direction… MGTOW sorts and incels have a comparable relationship.
LoveyDovey
06-13-2021, 05:58 PM
Aurora, I feel for your friend. The guy is dangerous for sure. Sounds like a narcissistic abuser to me. Has your friend reached out to a therapist regarding this? She and the children can speak to the therapist and they can connect them with the right people to help them.
Cops typically don't do shit. When I was attacked in my home, I didn't bother to call them because they don't do anything but "start a file." Everyone was shocked that I didn't call them, but they don't do anything to protect you. I had to resort to creative street justice instead.
Fuck those cops your friend dealt with. Their job isn't to insert their 2 cents. Cops are abusive pricks too and will side with the abuser. If your friend is overwhelmed, she can reach out for help and document the abuse. That's what I did when I left my ex and it was the best thing I ever did. It kept us safe. I hope your friend and the kids will be okay. She can't have the kids go to him unless they put him in check and he knows he is being watched.
LoveyDovey
06-13-2021, 06:06 PM
Another thing Aurora- once I did have to call the cops because this weirdo customer who was harassing me contacted me and violated his temporarray Raw. When I caled the cops to report it, I asked them to send 2 female cops over and they did. They were the only cops who were empathetic to what I was dealing with. They still couldn't do much beyond "starting a file, " but at least they didn't say dumb shit like those asshole cops did to your friend.
Men cops suck.
305gurl
06-13-2021, 06:09 PM
Men from different cultures who say Western(ized) women are useless.
I get that sentiment from Mexican and Central American customers. Hard-working hombres but too toxic ideology. But I blame the women of their culture for that. Always having to deal with their antics, having children right away, working to relief some of the financial stress, never asking for gifts and proper dates and some work in bad conditions while pregnant. Reason why I never see those types of guy ever dating other Spanish-speaking groups like Cubans and Colombians.
miss.a.p1600
06-13-2021, 09:47 PM
Men are so full of shit nowadays. Like they say 50/50 but what they mean is you pay for half and do housewife stuff. I don't think so.
I don't agree with that stuff. Most men do not build with women they use women to build level up and move on. Once on the next level they think they need a better woman too smh. Even if they stay married they cheat. I hate how nowadays these insecure broke men have females doing the most just to be with them. You see girls online talking about how much they have to offer financially etc. Real established men do not care.
As for those stupid men groups good luck to them lol they sound crazy. I had a friend say she met a guy who she thought was one and he had a small dick lol.
Exactly!!!! Got stay eyes wide open dealing with these Mfers. If a lady agrees to a 50/50 she best make sure it includes 50 on the housemaking n childrearing as well. I personally think that at the least men should do 60 vs women doing 40
These guys parents obviously didn't raise them properly. They probably were raised by deadbeat dads and single moms or misogynistic moms who coddled n enabled them. You'll see these dudes 'leveling up' and dating hypergamous but in a way that's traditionally feminine.
Selina M
06-13-2021, 11:27 PM
My long-term SO that y'all are familiar with is a fucking moron and is now in residential rehab. He's lucky he's not dead. Drinking and pills off the street. I was trying not to air my dirty laundry and make everyone think less of me for sticking with him but I'm pissed as fuck at this point.
That's why his family was insulting me and being shitty, which I mentioned in Petty Annoyances a bit ago. They decided I was the fucking roadblock to him going which was not true at all. He had gone to detox and while in we decided he was doing an intensive outpatient, until his parents chatted behind my back and got pushy for him to go to the residential one his dad is the director of. He wanted to come home for a few days and decide, but his mom freaked herself out on the internet thinking he would die from withdrawals (after he'd been off everything for 12 days, fucking moron she is). Stormed into our house screaming at me with her boyfriend, literally cornered me and refused to leave when I told them to. I became the problem according to everyone else for not forcing him to make a decision (THEIR decision, more accurately).
He hasn't called me since getting back his phone privileges 2 days ago. Like I said, he went to the same place his dad is the MEDICAL DIRECTOR of which is WILDLY unethical to me.. He called on Monday as some kind of special allowance by his therapist (with her listening on speaker) and asked how I was doing. I was fucking honest and said "Not great, your family is being awful" and said some choice words about his dad. Everyone there probably thinks his dad is an angel so it makes me look like a bitch and I'm sure the therapist was like "Oh she's negative don't call her again".
I'm angry because I've had existing abandonment issues since like, high school, from guys doing this exact sort of thing - not calling, ghosting, etc. So this is really making those issues resurface, and I feel like I'm not allowed to say "Hey that's bullshit you aren't calling me" because it's all about him and his fragile ass psyche right now.
305gurl
06-14-2021, 12:12 AM
”Men Going Their Own Way”. So, like how these “patriots” will tell you they’re not the Ku Klux Klan, but they have no problem making bedfellows with them and espouse rhetoric that goes in the same direction… MGTOW sorts and incels have a comparable relationship.
And their influence is growing. It's pretty much everywhere.
indiegirl
06-14-2021, 02:32 AM
One of my good friends is going through a messy divorce. She and her husband have always had some issues with him being a borderline abusive dick, but come to find out that he's not just "borderline." She found out he was backhanding the kids in the head so hard with his wedding ring that it left bruises - telling them to do what he says or that they'll get "the ring hand." She also confessed that several years ago when she posted a picture with a black eye and a caption claiming that she dropped a weight on her face while exercising, he had actually punched her during an argument, and told her that if she said anything, he would take the kids and run with them right then and there. Oh yeah, and apparently the only reason their first child was born, which made her drop out of a graduate program right before it started, was because he stealthed her after deciding that he "didn't like condoms with artificial strawberry smell." Wtf? He's challenging the protective order she has against him for the kids this week, and she's worried they'll have to go back to a DV shelter if the judge revokes it.
I am honestly worried for her. She's spent the last 10 years mostly being a stay-at-home mom and only working part-time occasionally. I don't know how she's gonna make this work financially. And he is, unfortunately, a lawyer, so some of his threats of "I know people" might not be complete bullshit. He's currently pulling every abuser manipulation tactic in the books, telling people that she's lying, she's making stuff up just to take the house from him, and that it's a "complete shock" that she's "acting this way." And people really are believing him, because they don't know what he's like at home.... typical abuser/victim shit with society not believing that "a guy like that could ever do that."
The cops were literally less than useless when she filed the abuse claim for her children - making comments like "Well, my kids have bruises all summer long? Does that mean I'm beating them?" Like, wtf? Why are you automatically siding with some dude you don't even know? This shit is why no one believes men when they say "not all men." Fuck you - how about you keep your opinions to yourself and just do your job on the report?
The kids don't want him to have any sort of custody. They're scared of him. And he's trying to go for 50/50 custody so that he won't have to pay child support. He can't even take care of them OR himself... he told her not long ago that he would "take over vacuuming the house if she told him when it needed to be done".... bitch, you're a grown-ass man. Look at the floor.
Lord. What a nightmare situation. Can't she go to a free DV shelter with her kids? My moms divorce took 8 years from my attorney father. At least going to the shelter would buy her some time to figure things out and how to proceed.
JenniferNorth
06-14-2021, 04:28 AM
I'm sorry Selina. This sounds toxic to you (and I have been in your shoes before-where the family tries to turn your partner against you). I wish I had good advice, but I just want you to know you don't deserve to be treated like shit. I've been there too many times. In-laws ended one marriage with their bullshit (but good riddence). I hate to see other people hurting and dealing with the same crap.
WendiStarr
06-14-2021, 07:33 AM
^ ^ Oh shit, that hit close to home Aurora. I feel for your friend. It's a nightmare trying to leave an abusive man, especially one with money and power. LE tends to side with those abusive pieces of shit too, unfortunately. I hope somehow she is able to safely leave the state with the kids because that may be her only option to be free of him. If she stays in the state and he knows where she is, she can be in for a nightmare custody battle. I forgot to add that he will likely have to pay child support even if they have 50/50 custody because his income far exceeds hers. He may be on the hook for alimony too.
miss.a.p1600
06-14-2021, 12:17 PM
So I just left a prospective clients house.....A "man" of course
He was supposed to be there with his wife but he claims he 'forgot' we set up a meeting and surprise - his wife wasn't there. Where was she? Out caring for her dying mom. (Typical chauvinists use ANY I mean any opportunity to do some slick shit while getting over on the woman).
I should have left. And as a matter of fact I'm refusing to meet with men without their wives unless it is 100% clear they will pay for service without consulting the wife.
Anywho, this dude rambles on and on and on totally off topic about what we were supposed to talk about - at that point I realized I lost control of the convo, etc. But I do my best to keep on topic to business only.
He asks if I'm married.....and yeah! bruh wtf you need to know that we are here about business. And says "it sounds like you need a 'friend'"......
Um NO I do not need any friends who aren't business related.
I just told him what he wanted to hear and got tf out of there as fast as I could. He gave me creep vibes.
I hate when men make you feel uncomfortable epecially when you're on their territory.
I guess I need to start back carrying mace in my back pocket n learning some self defense........
Selina M
06-14-2021, 04:04 PM
And their influence is growing. It's pretty much everywhere.
The MGTOW thing cracks me up, because for men "going their own way" they sure spend a lot of time on places like Reddit talking about... women.
Selina M
06-14-2021, 04:32 PM
I'm sorry Selina. This sounds toxic to you (and I have been in your shoes before-where the family tries to turn your partner against you). I wish I had good advice, but I just want you to know you don't deserve to be treated like shit. I've been there too many times. In-laws ended one marriage with their bullshit (but good riddence). I hate to see other people hurting and dealing with the same crap.
Thank you. They are very backstabby/sneaky about it to where he tells me "My dad loves you" because he honestly believes they do. They are nice to me and do things to help me until they need me to go along with something THEY want and then the manipulation begins.
This time when I said why can't he go to inpatient down here, why does he need to go 3 hours away to where I can't really visit or go to family/couples therapy, FIL assured me "You can Skype with him every day". The second SO was checked in, FIL texted me "He won't have a phone for two weeks". SO tried to defend him, saying he didn't know that would happen. SO has been gaslit by them to believe they never have any ill intentions. A lot of it is out of guilt/shame I suspect, because FIL has always bailed him out financially when he needed it and SO feels bad.
His dad's problem is that he was a VERY high ranked military official and a doctor, so I don't think he's been told "no" or "you're wrong" by another human in 50 years. I say "no" and "you're wrong" a lot. So... :shrug:
Mom is her own brand of insane. I'm tired of everyone acting like she's just 'quirky'. No. She has emotion regulation problems and no boundaries, and was an alcoholic herself for his entire childhood. She KIDNAPPED HIM when he was 10 and flew him over state lines during the divorce. The woman is nuts.
I hope he's enjoying his fucking country club rehab. All expenses paid by Daddy Dearest. They go to the gym every day and go on hikes and play GOLF. It's a bunch of horseshit. Why the fuck do I act like a responsible adult and not drown my issues in substances if I'm not getting rewarded with a vacation to do nothing but 'work on myself'? What the fuck is this coddling bullshit?
indiegirl
06-14-2021, 08:39 PM
I randomly stumbled across this video of this woman talking about going out for dinner on the 1st date and the guy sat there and never reciprocated the conversation like he was expecting to be interviewed. Hahaha it reminds me of asking all these questions I asked a guy at the strip club in Texas because he never reciprocated with conversation and told me, "Why are you asking me all these questions?" Why???!! because you're not talking and there's nobody here yet in club right now. I would've abandoned him sooner if it wasn't slow. LOLLL.
indiegirl
06-15-2021, 01:24 AM
Men are so full of shit nowadays. Like they say 50/50 but what they mean is you pay for half and do housewife stuff. I don't think so.
I don't agree with that stuff. Most men do not build with women they use women to build level up and move on. Once on the next level they think they need a better woman too smh. Even if they stay married they cheat. I hate how nowadays these insecure broke men have females doing the most just to be with them. You see girls online talking about how much they have to offer financially etc. Real established men do not care.
As for those stupid men groups good luck to them lol they sound crazy. I had a friend say she met a guy who she thought was one and he had a small dick lol.
Watched a video of some guy who was super OCD and steam cleaned his house as well as cleaning hours a day. That's marriage worthy for me. LOL
Aurora_Sunset
06-15-2021, 03:04 AM
Aurora, I feel for your friend. The guy is dangerous for sure. Sounds like a narcissistic abuser to me. Has your friend reached out to a therapist regarding this? She and the children can speak to the therapist and they can connect them with the right people to help them.
The kids have a therapy appointment set for a week from now. They're backed up, and that was the soonest they could get in, but I don't think she's been able to book one for herself yet with everything going on.
Lord. What a nightmare situation. Can't she go to a free DV shelter with her kids? My moms divorce took 8 years from my attorney father. At least going to the shelter would buy her some time to figure things out and how to proceed.
She did spend a couple nights in the DV shelter, but she got the kids back into the house and changed all the deadbolts after getting the protection order. She said she's packing everything up on the day of the hearing in case it gets revoked, they'll immediately be going back. He's moved them around so much (typical abuser shit - making sure she never has a support system), that she really wants to keep the kids in this house and not move again, but I don't know how realistic that's gonna be. They also have a lot of pets she would have to leave behind at the house. During the 2 days she was already gone, he refused to feed the cats - one was on a special diet for liver failure and NEEDED the special food - by the time my friend returned, the poor cat was so far gone, she had to put her down. They also have chickens that he was against getting and already kicked all the time when he was outside - she found one of them trampled to death. I can see why she doesn't want to leave them. I wish I was closer - I told her I would shove all her pets in my apartment if that's what it came down to. I hate that shelters can't help with pets... abusers use them against victims SO much. The shelter I used to volunteer with used to have a program to help foster pets for victims so they wouldn't have to worry about it, and then one time, a foster dog bit a volunteer's dog, and they had to scrap the whole program over that one incident... Anyway... *sigh*
indiegirl
06-15-2021, 04:19 AM
The kids have a therapy appointment set for a week from now. They're backed up, and that was the soonest they could get in, but I don't think she's been able to book one for herself yet with everything going on.
She did spend a couple nights in the DV shelter, but she got the kids back into the house and changed all the deadbolts after getting the protection order. She said she's packing everything up on the day of the hearing in case it gets revoked, they'll immediately be going back. He's moved them around so much (typical abuser shit - making sure she never has a support system), that she really wants to keep the kids in this house and not move again, but I don't know how realistic that's gonna be. They also have a lot of pets she would have to leave behind at the house. During the 2 days she was already gone, he refused to feed the cats - one was on a special diet for liver failure and NEEDED the special food - by the time my friend returned, the poor cat was so far gone, she had to put her down. They also have chickens that he was against getting and already kicked all the time when he was outside - she found one of them trampled to death. I can see why she doesn't want to leave them. I wish I was closer - I told her I would shove all her pets in my apartment if that's what it came down to. I hate that shelters can't help with pets... abusers use them against victims SO much. The shelter I used to volunteer with used to have a program to help foster pets for victims so they wouldn't have to worry about it, and then one time, a foster dog bit a volunteer's dog, and they had to scrap the whole program over that one incident... Anyway... *sigh*
I'm not sure how the housing situation is or if it is joint with her name on it?
Yes there are some rescues that will take pets for special situations to foster or if they are veterans going overseas. I have no idea where chicken rescue/fosters are. I only recall seeing them in the adopt section. It's crazy how abusers treat pets....like actual animal shit. My father threw a legit hissy fit over the cat he never fed (that I refused to leave behind when I was leaving) and he got mad I relocated him with my grandpa to live with in Oregon. So stupid. It's not hard to feed a cat daily. Abusers want control over everything and lawyers are the worst. Ya mean, running after the cat with a broom makes me feel okay leaving him at your home while you visit your sugar babies on little vacations? nahhh.
indiegirl
06-15-2021, 07:29 AM
I like playing songs about idiots right after getting these messages. Read my menu men so we don't waste each other's time. I'm not risking getting aids from strangers for 5-800 bucks. Someone is for real on PCP or drugs in the hallway screaming at the top of their lungs and it's been happening for 20 minutes lol.
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Also a guy mentioned all I do is sleep and work. He works most of the day and my response was singing this song which kinda changed his response bahaha: [url]https://youtu.be/e2Z0sON2UPc?t=36 (https://poetandpoem.com/nature) ..... he doesn't get I know he's gonna try to make a move on me in this situation. You don't just casually head to Disneyland with a man. I'm down for a male friend though.
chanzep
06-15-2021, 08:57 AM
That guy is,a douche.
LoveyDovey
06-15-2021, 09:05 AM
^^^ that would annoy the fuck out of me.
Marina Starr
06-15-2021, 09:29 AM
Love when dudes say 'I don't pay for pussy'.
Well I'm not a fucking non-profit organization either so vamoose!
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WendiStarr
06-15-2021, 10:31 AM
This one loser from 3 years ago who I referred to as Mr. Flakey due to his making plans and no show bullshit had the nerve to contact me from a different number. I didn't realize who it was until I asked and received a selfie in response. He asked me for a pic. I replied, "You got them dick sucking lips! I could really use a good blowjob. My balls are full of a week's load. You swallow?" I cracked myself up pretending to be a typical douchecanoe fuckboy loser. Needless to say he didn't send me any more texts.
miss.a.p1600
06-15-2021, 10:47 AM
I like playing songs about idiots right after getting these messages. Read my menu men so we don't waste each other's time. I'm not risking getting aids from strangers for 5-800 bucks. Someone is for real on PCP or drugs in the hallway screaming at the top of their lungs and it's been happening for 20 minutes lol.
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Also a guy mentioned all I do is sleep and work. He works most of the day and my response was singing this song which kinda changed his response bahaha: https://youtu.be/e2Z0sON2UPc?t=36 ..... he doesn't get I know he's gonna try to make a move on me in this situation. You don't just casually head to Disneyland with a man. I'm down for a male friend though.
Lol @ the 'top of the morning'
That trick can't even spell
then his ignorant ass proceeds to ask you the same question after you already answered the first time.
Idiot!
indiegirl
06-15-2021, 12:53 PM
This one loser from 3 years ago who I referred to as Mr. Flakey due to his making plans and no show bullshit had the nerve to contact me from a different number. I didn't realize who it was until I asked and received a selfie in response. He asked me for a pic. I replied, "You got them dick sucking lips! I could really use a good blowjob. My balls are full of a week's load. You swallow?" I cracked myself up pretending to be a typical douchecanoe fuckboy loser. Needless to say he didn't send me any more texts.
I cackled so hard. I needed this story LOL!
miss.a.p1600
06-15-2021, 01:02 PM
Love when dudes say 'I don't pay for pussy'.
Well I'm not a fucking non-profit organization either so vamoose!
55302
EXACTLY!
Every man (hell and even some women) pays for pussy!
I saw some articles where a homeless man offer 2 cheeseburgers for some pussy. His dumb ass offered it to an undercover. But still, Mfs out here with no job - willing to pay/risk it all for pussy.
Marina Starr
06-15-2021, 01:07 PM
It's hilarious how quiet fuckboys get when you talk to
them the exact same way they talk to you. Looool
Luci Fer
06-15-2021, 07:49 PM
”Men Going Their Own Way”. So, like how these “patriots” will tell you they’re not the Ku Klux Klan, but they have no problem making bedfellows with them and espouse rhetoric that goes in the same direction… MGTOW sorts and incels have a comparable relationship.
Bahahaha I figured.
Marina Starr
06-16-2021, 01:07 PM
Pussy is worth risking for, LOL!
No matter how successful or not men are, they're always trolling for pussy. Look at Bill Gates, dude's got billions but his dick still controls him. There are reports of him being inappropriate at work and I believe every bit of it. Asking females subordinates out and shit.
Men are always talking bullshit and they're baffled when you don't buy it. When I'm out and about and listening to their conversations I always have this disgusted look all over my face. They KNOW not to talk to me or bring their pathetic asses my way unless they want to experience my wrath.
EXACTLY!
Every man (hell and even some women) pays for pussy!
I saw some articles where a homeless man offer 2 cheeseburgers for some pussy. His dumb ass offered it to an undercover. But still, Mfs out here with no job - willing risk it all for pussy.
lurkingtitties
06-17-2021, 04:59 AM
Maybe not men bitching exactly, but patriarchy in general...I can’t stand how many young women think they’re “old” at 26/27! Ugh! Not their fault obviously, they’ve been brainwashed by our bullshit society.
JenniferNorth
06-17-2021, 05:17 AM
I wanted to be kissy and lovey with hubby yesterday and I miss how affectionate he was when we were dating. It has me a little bummed. I know we have two active kids and a busy life, but sometimes I REALLY long for the old days of kissing and cuddling and all that stuff....
And then I start feeling pissed off, thinking about things that piss me off, and want to go all fucking psycho on shit. Or at the very least, pout and be pissy.
Also, WHY do men always reference your past but their extensive past is a-OK?
I haven't been with many men (I prefer it this way!). As I was getting divorced and before I met hubby, I fucked this guy several states away and dated him very briefly. Never saw or talked to him again. I didn't even know husband existed at the time (and he didn't know me then either). But do I still hear about it from time to time? Oh, you bet!
My husband has been with plenty of women before he met me, but I guess somehow that's just worthy to be glossed over? When I feel extra bitchy, I'll make snide comments about hobags from his town. But yeah, it pisses me off. Like, I was in a loveless marriage for nearly a decade before I met you, quit being an ass and let me have enjoyed some dick while you were out getting pussy the whole town over, dickwad.
Marina Starr
06-17-2021, 06:05 AM
That's fine if they wanna think that way. What's not okay is when they age shame seniors, grandpas/grammas who are in their 50s/60s/70s+.
I tell them straight to their face, they better pray they could make it to that age or even half. It's sad how women in particular get devalued once they reached a certain age.
Maybe not men bitching exactly, but patriarchy in general...I can’t stand how many young women think they’re “old” at 26/27! Ugh! Not their fault obviously, they’ve been brainwashed by our bullshit society.
TheBrownFox
06-17-2021, 06:32 AM
Why does this dude (A friend of mine on Facebook and Instagram, who happens to be a comedian) always comment on my posts by missing the point of the post...or sometimes trying to "one up" me in his reply. (He's seriously not that funny, btw...). Anyway.....
I made a post laughing at the fact that this particular YouTube ad for "Take a free STD test! Hook up with us!" pops up as I'm listening to a "baby-making" R&B song called "Meeting in My Bedroom"...and "Return of the Mack." Lol. He commented "For just $11.99 a month, you can get rid of the banners!" DUH. First of all, fuck that. And second...my post isn't about how annoying YouTube banners and ads are. The post is about how relevant that particular ad was to the music I was listening to. And it's obnoxious that you've turned my post into a discussion on whether or not it's worth it to pay $11.99 to get rid of banners." ::) Shut the fuck up, Tom. Lol. And don't feel like you need to react/respond to every little thing I post in your weird way of (what I guess is supposed to be) flirting.....
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miss.a.p1600
06-17-2021, 08:35 AM
I wanted to be kissy and lovey with hubby yesterday and I miss how affectionate he was when we were dating. It has me a little bummed. I know we have two active kids and a busy life, but sometimes I REALLY long for the old days of kissing and cuddling and all that stuff....
And then I start feeling pissed off, thinking about things that piss me off, and want to go all fucking psycho on shit. Or at the very least, pout and be pissy.
Also, WHY do men always reference your past but their extensive past is a-OK?
I haven't been with many men (I prefer it this way!). As I was getting divorced and before I met hubby, I fucked this guy several states away and dated him very briefly. Never saw or talked to him again. I didn't even know husband existed at the time (and he didn't know me then either). But do I still hear about it from time to time? Oh, you bet!
My husband has been with plenty of women before he met me, but I guess somehow that's just worthy to be glossed over? When I feel extra bitchy, I'll make snide comments about hobags from his town. But yeah, it pisses me off. Like, I was in a loveless marriage for nearly a decade before I met you, quit being an ass and let me have enjoyed some dick while you were out getting pussy the whole town over, dickwad.
I’ll trade with you.
L loves cuddling n kissing …… I hate it. Like give me my space lol! I’ll kiss when I’m ready n I’ll snuggle if it’s a snow blizzard.
And yes. The fragile male ego does not allow them to accept you being with other men despite the fact they think it’s okay to ramble on about all their past conquests. This is due to the chauvinistic ‘male whore’ concept that is widely accepted even glorified in patriarchal society
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2021, 08:42 AM
That's fine if they wanna think that way. What's not okay is when they age shame seniors, grandpas/grammas who are in their 50s/60s/70s+.
I tell them straight to their face, they better pray they could make it to that age or even half. It's sad how women in particular get devalued once they reached a certain age.
Exactly!
America is one of the most ageist societies.
And men are mostly to blame because they create national marketing campaigns that perpetuate ageism plus they are the main ones acting like borderline pedophiles dating n marrying barely legal teens while they’re 20+ years older than them n constantly saying they’d never date women their own age
I’ll tell an ageist quick “look heaux, you’ll be damn lucky if you make it to my age AND look this good. Quit hating you miserable joker”
I don’t care how old I am ima always be attractive. This body n face will age like a fine wine.
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2021, 08:51 AM
I hate how men say they’ll “help” you but really they just want to help themselves by putting their dick in you.
JenniferNorth
06-17-2021, 10:47 AM
Miss P, you are always so accurate. All of this is 100% truth.
I'll trade ya, but only if Bertha is out of the picture.
100% on the past conquests. OMG get a life dudes. My husband thinks about this guy I fucked a million years ago way more than I do!
And yes, men's "help" is really "let me put my penis inside you because that solves everything".
indiegirl
06-17-2021, 11:46 AM
"you don't want to do anything with me. I need fun and to get a swimsuit." I told him to go get his Borat speedo and I would be happy to go on his vacation on the all guy trip. :). He kinda back peddled after that comment on the phone. hahahaha.
miss.a.p1600
06-17-2021, 11:59 AM
Miss P, you are always so accurate. All of this is 100% truth.
I'll trade ya, but only if Bertha is out of the picture.
100% on the past conquests. OMG get a life dudes. My husband thinks about this guy I fucked a million years ago way more than I do!
And yes, men's "help" is really "let me put my penis inside you because that solves everything".
OMG.....Yes girl, no disgruntled Bertha's allowed!
indiegirl
06-17-2021, 02:27 PM
I hate men. I got dropped off 5 minutes away from my hotel today and had to walk there with all my heavy crap. Told him where to go and switched to speaking Hispanic to avoid driving me further even though we were talking beforehand!!! I was late and sweating. Then I woke up at 2am to be ghosted this morning as well. If this guy now ghosts me, I can’t.
lurkingtitties
06-17-2021, 03:35 PM
Exactly!
America is one of the most ageist societies.
And men are mostly to blame because they create national marketing campaigns that perpetuate ageism plus they are the main ones acting like borderline pedophiles dating n marrying barely legal teens while they’re 20+ years older than them n constantly saying they’d never date women their own age
I recently decided to block a male friend for this...he was 10 years older than me but always making comments about my age and fertility. Plus one time we were talking about Superbowl 202 for some reason and he had this really dumb opinion about "Who want want to look at JLo when 21 year old girls are so much hotter" thinking he was soo edgy...bruh you're 43! I don't need that energy in my life.
LoveyDovey
06-17-2021, 04:19 PM
I hate how men say they’ll “help” you but really they just want to help themselves by putting their dick in you.
Yep. It's the "nice guy" manipulation tactic. I hate it when men do this. First, they see the woman needs help, then he provides help, which the woman accepts, because she truly needs it. Then if she doesn't let him fuck her, he tries to make her feel like the bad guy.
The guy is literally trying to take advantage of the woman, but will then accuse her of taking advantage of him.
Guys like this suck.
TheBrownFox
06-17-2021, 05:39 PM
Yep. It's the "nice guy" manipulation tactic. I hate it when men do this. First, they see the woman needs help, then he provides help, which the woman accepts, because she truly needs it. Then if she doesn't let him fuck her, he tries to make her feel like the bad guy.
The guy is literally trying to take advantage of the woman, but will then accuse her of taking advantage of him.
Guys like this suck.
And that damn term "friend zone." Yeah, dude...you are not ENTITLED to a woman's phone number...sex...or a date with her, just because you told her that you're interested...or just because y'all been "friends" for years, and you feel you've "earned it." Give me a fucking break.....
Also...if you make a marriage proposal to her in front of several people...and she unexpectedly turns you down...it DOES NOT make her a bitch or a bad person. Some people will say "Well damn...she could've just said yes to avoid embarrassing him in public...and then tell him no when they're alone." And that's just fucking stupid. Lol. She shouldn't have to lie just to avoid making you feel bad. Be glad she's woman enough to give you an honest answer...cry for as long as you need to...and deal with it without talking shit about her.
LoveyDovey
06-17-2021, 05:49 PM
^^ Exactly. Men need to learn that just because they have feelings towards a woman, it doesn't mean that the woman is obliged to reciprocate. She doesn't have to. He's lucky if she does!
Luci Fer
06-17-2021, 06:38 PM
And that damn term "friend zone." Yeah, dude...you are not ENTITLED to a woman's phone number...sex...or a date with her, just because you told her that you're interested...or just because y'all been "friends" for years, and you feel you've "earned it." Give me a fucking break.....
Also...if you make a marriage proposal to her in front of several people...and she unexpectedly turns you down...it DOES NOT make her a bitch or a bad person. Some people will say "Well damn...she could've just said yes to avoid embarrassing him in public...and then tell him no when they're alone." And that's just fucking stupid. Lol. She shouldn't have to lie just to avoid making you feel bad. Be glad she's woman enough to give you an honest answer...cry for as long as you need to...and deal with it without talking shit about her.
Ahahah, these people who decide to 'surprise' with a unexpected marriage proposal in public...what is in their minds? I agree, it's weird, and even damn creepy, because looks like a damn trap. Imagine a person who is extremely nice and hates to be in conflict or to be everyone's attention...The whole situation would be a nightmare for such type.
I personally don't like any kind of 'surprises', when people visit unexpectedly etc. I always think they do it just to see your reaction. Fucking emotion vampires lol
But marriage proposal like that is of course 100th level of stupidity/creepiness.
I ve seen vids when people react negatively to that. It's fun and sad to watch.
btw, Fox, I've never thought of it before,but...'friend zone' is a stupid term indeed! Like it sucks to have a friend who is woman. ;/
Marina Starr
06-18-2021, 07:10 AM
That's why it's important to look at the intent and context of why they're being "nice" because niceness doesn't mean goodness. Ted Bundy was very nice and charming...
They pull that shit because it works on most women and ones they see as weak. Won't take long for them to show their true colors. They get butthurt quickly because their intention was never good in the first place.
They don't try that with me because I do it right back. I tell them they tricked me into believing they were decent. It gets me high watching them vamoose!
However, that rarely happens because I don't give them access to me. The disgusted look on my face deter them, LOL.
Yep. It's the "nice guy" manipulation tactic. I hate it when men do this. First, they see the woman needs help, then he provides help, which the woman accepts, because she truly needs it. Then if she doesn't let him fuck her, he tries to make her feel like the bad guy.
The guy is literally trying to take advantage of the woman, but will then accuse her of taking advantage of him.
Guys like this suck.
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2021, 09:52 AM
I hate when men try to convince you that it’s okay for them to deny their roles as providers with quotes like “this ain’t the 50’s”
Then have the gall to ask for home cooked meals from scratch, stocked fridge, Laundry done, all while looking like a dime 24/7. Then get pissy n petty when this is not done.
Just respond “bruh! This ain’t the 50’s” …….
Why give them the 50’s housewife when they won’t become the 50’s provider?
chanzep
06-18-2021, 10:31 AM
Yes because too many women allow this. It's sad that a lot of women will do anything to have a man. If I have to work your not getting a housewive.