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moneybags
03-09-2022, 03:03 PM
Awe…this is a good story my massage therapist at the gym helped me get in touch with the gym manager that would help me. He’s such a sweet guy-wish more guys were like him. There are good guys! The problem is we can’t tell difference by just looking. Can we get some kinda system, so we can tell the good guys apart from the bad ones.
indiegirl
03-09-2022, 03:29 PM
I haven't been hit on in public in a month. I must be doing something right. Special shoutout to these masks covering our face. I think it's the fact I have been told I appear unapproachable, unfriendly, or intimidating in the past by people. BAHAHA whatever I'm doing, I'm keeping it up. And if anyone tries to talk to me in public, I end it with a concluding statement such as "Totally agree! Have a good one!" and then I move. LOL.
carmen_b
03-09-2022, 03:34 PM
What is with men sometimes just lacking judgement and common sense ?!?
moneybags
03-09-2022, 05:41 PM
What is with men sometimes just lacking judgement and common sense ?!?
I dunno. We’re just too sexy I guess. LOL (Que the drake song too sexy.)
https://youtu.be/vX9msKu75qs
Of course, we aren’t responsible for men harassing us, but it’s good to have a sense of humor.
Marina Starr
03-09-2022, 06:04 PM
It's always so odd to me and questions ran through my mind when I see skinny guys with man boobs.
WanderingW
03-10-2022, 04:55 AM
i’m going to the gym soon. I’m going to alert the staff. Just say, “i’m letting you know that i’m being harassed by a gym member all i did is say hi back to him as he passing by in the gym, and now he’s aggressively trying to get my attention. I’m handling it by ignoring him and wearing my headphones. But if he keeps harassing me i need you to step in.
I’ll deliver it as of course you’ll do something. I won’t let them off the hook. Be the change you want to see in the world. This shit happens exactly because we don’t hold men accountable. We have to use our voice to demand people believe us
no it’s fun being minimized, gaslit, and blamed, but i’m done letting society shit all over me. I can’t control other people, but i can let them know exactly how i feel. You can blame and shame me. It’s 2022! Enough is enough!
#metoo
also. After i told my doctor i was being harassed at the gym. He quit flirting with me. I appreciate it. I wasn’t mad at him, but come on i’m your patient and you have a girlfriend. I think he felt guilty. Good!
preach!!!
miss.a.p1600
03-10-2022, 11:47 AM
I hate when men act like sex is a drug to them and they start acting like bitches needing a fix of smack when they don't have sex for x amount of days.
Like look mf! Go take some estrogen, go workout, go jack off ..... leave me tf alone!
Marina Starr
03-10-2022, 01:07 PM
Was at the gas station this morning at 6am. While I'm pumping gas I can feel this fuckboy kept looking at me a little too much and I'm getting uncomfortable.
Of all the available gas pumps, he's gotta be close to me. Now mind you I live in a town that's dominated by fuckboys.
It doesn't matter where you are or what time of day, morning or night, they will be there.
I told his ass to get his eyes off of me. That I'm there to get gas not dick. That ended the stare immediately, lol.
I really wonder how vanilla hoes deal with being stare so much and it won't stop 'til they physically leave the place.
moneybags
03-10-2022, 02:52 PM
I hate when men act like sex is a drug to them and they start acting like bitches needing a fix of smack when they don't have sex for x amount of days.
Like look mf! Go take some estrogen, go workout, go jack off ..... leave me tf alone!
Go Jack off…leave me alone. I want to print a shirt that says that.
I’m really proud of myself for not letting this fuckboy run me out of the gym. Vanilla women should be grateful for us. We’re standing up to the patriarchy as sex workers and as everyday women. It’s exhausting though.
My whole workout I was paranoid he would harass me. I felt so unsafe. Again, most guys are just there to workout.
As an intuitive, I “know” things about people without knowing why I know what I know. I did an intuitive workshop and I realized that’s why he chilled me to my bones. He probably has domestic violence priors.
I’m doing some energy clearing tonight. I hate having to do this emotional labor when it’s this shit head that should be working on his shit not me!
When I first had contact with him he “accidentally thought I was someone else.” Is this a pick up strategy? So I was like, “oh it’s okay. No worries.” That’s when he started harassing me! Literally that’s the only conversation we had ?!?!
Marina Starr
03-10-2022, 06:24 PM
There's no such thing as serendipity when it come to men. What he did was all premeditated. He's being creepy as fuck because he wanted you so he assumed you want him too so he doesn't see his predatory behaviors as harassment.
You must be an empath like me. I'm very intuitive and my bullshit reading meter is off the charts. Nothing gets by me. This makes fuckboys heads spin because they can't figure why they can't pull shit on me like they do with vanilla hoes. I may not know exactly by I'm picking up on shit right in that moment but I will later when I look back.
Never let any man, any bitch, any hoe, friends, families etc tell you that your intuition is just paranoid.
Go Jack off…leave me alone. I want to print a shirt that says that.
I’m really proud of myself for not letting this fuckboy run me out of the gym. Vanilla women should be grateful for us. We’re standing up to the patriarchy as sex workers and as everyday women. It’s exhausting though.
My whole workout I was paranoid he would harass me. I felt so unsafe. Again, most guys are just there to workout.
As an intuitive, I “know” things about people without knowing why I know what I know. I did an intuitive workshop and I realized that’s why he chilled me to my bones. He probably has domestic violence priors.
I’m doing some energy clearing tonight. I hate having to do this emotional labor when it’s this shit head that should be working on his shit not me!
When I first had contact with him he “accidentally thought I was someone else.” Is this a pick up strategy? So I was like, “oh it’s okay. No worries.” That’s when he started harassing me! Literally that’s the only conversation we had ?!?!
miss.a.p1600
03-10-2022, 08:23 PM
I hate how 90% of men falsely assume they are sooo good at sex, you tell them their dick is not really hitting on anything and try to show them how to please, rather than autocorrect themselves they get offended because of their fragile male egos can’t handle they are not the prize and their dicks are mediocre at best.
moneybags
03-10-2022, 08:43 PM
^^^i love you all. Thanks for letting me vent. I’m totally fine. I already have a strategy, and figured out WHO has the power and will to help me if I need it. I also have an appointment with my therapist soon.
He keeps “surprising” me. Like “out of the blue” he just pops up. That’s why I haven’t been more direct because he’s caught me off gaurd. I totally go into fawning as a fight or flight response.
Alright, I’ll try to not worry about seeing him at the gym. Focus on my workout. I’ll deal with him appropriately if he “pops up.” I need to be very firm and direct. I don’t care about his feelings-he sure doesn’t give a fuck about mine. I’m sure the ladies watching will be silently saying-“yes girl!”
I’m so thankful for your support it helps soooo much!
moneybags
03-11-2022, 11:26 AM
I’m doing some energy work before leaving the house today to protect myself from him and all the other thirsty men out there. I didn’t do it the other day, and I was absorbing other’s energy.
This guy doing an energy workshop told me to imagine a white light of protection and an angel around me ready to kick some spiritual ass before leaving the house.
Why are we not holding men accountable-it’s 2022. I predict this decade will have another me too movement. Sadly, women have to be murdered like OJ’s wife before they believe us and do something.
Reading about Ukrainians has gave me courage. If they can face their oppressor than i can face mine too!
indiegirl
03-11-2022, 10:08 PM
SON of a berchhhhhh. I jinxed myself by saying I’ve not been hit on in a month in public on here.. My driver was way overly friendly the whole time. I really wanted to listen to my music before work. It’s my work ritual. Then when I finally left he asked for my number. Not an ugly guy at all. Very charismatic. But this is “me time” for once in my life. Hell I turned down 1000 for 30 minutes on Monday to study. I feel like this is the first time in my life I’ve never felt more determined and desperate to graduate and take care of my future self than ever. I’m so proud I’m finally doing something about it.
Marina Starr
03-12-2022, 07:50 AM
So this morning as I was walking to my car after enjoying my morning at Starbucks, a fuckboy ran to the parking lot at the SAME time as I am, got in his car and as I was passing his car, he decided to back out. He saw me walking and delibertably doing that to get my attention. Of course that would got my attention because I didn't want to get hit. So I asked him if he's stupid or what?
I don't want to be mean but these are one of the many things they do that I totally despise. This is like how girls were taught at a very young age when boys are mean to you it is because like you. As adults, women are indoctrinated to think it's okay when guys are being assholes.
Is it me or the majority of men these days are just absolutely horrible?
carmen_b
03-12-2022, 09:34 AM
A note to men ( no one in particular ) :
When you create your own blow job and sex drought by doing stupid things it's important to remember that it was YOU who created the trouble.
Respect needs to come FIRST before the sex and bj happiness your woman can offer you.
Your lady wants to make you happy so don't do stupid things and get all the great treats taken away.
Marina Starr
03-12-2022, 03:35 PM
Jay-Z - 99 Problems (Hoe Remix)
"I got ninety-nine problems but a fuckboy ain't one"
whirlerz
03-12-2022, 03:39 PM
Oh, shit, I spoke too soon, ____'s back on CC w/his fiction stories::)
moneybags
03-12-2022, 06:38 PM
SON of a berchhhhhh. I jinxed myself by saying I’ve not been hit on in a month in public on here.. My driver was way overly friendly the whole time. I really wanted to listen to my music before work. It’s my work ritual. Then when I finally left he asked for my number. Not an ugly guy at all. Very charismatic. But this is “me time” for once in my life. Hell I turned down 1000 for 30 minutes on Monday to study. I feel like this is the first time in my life I’ve never felt more determined and desperate to graduate and take care of my future self than ever. I’m so proud I’m finally doing something about it.
I can’t wait to never HAVE to talk to a man if don’t want to.
Still sad about my crush treating me like a sexual play thing. If ever wants to get serious he’s gonna have to cough up some serious coin to prove it. He’s literally gonna pay for breaking my heart if he ever wants something outside the office-I want dinner, shopping , and vacations, or I’m not wasting my time with him. Until then we’re keep things 100% professional. Ugh!
whirlerz
03-12-2022, 07:41 PM
So, as far as my crush goes, I need him for stuff around the house.. Case in point, the electrical sitch here, whereby the circuits get overloaded, & the couple upstairs bugs me about it (fuse box in my room).
We haven't had the extra tenant for a while, some weird electrical thing between his room & theirs.
There's some other outlet the newest tenant 's going to have to use, not me jumping up & down constantly for their fuckin whims to annoy the fuck out of me, when I'm trying to work!
Knocked on both my doors while I was mid show, can't have that shit! At all!
They can damn well calm their ass down & smoke another blunt.
So crushie, new tenant & landlord can coordinate it.. I touched on this w/crushie today by text.
I will text landlord Monday or so, & I'm putting signs on my doors to not bother me!
This has previously gone on & on, & it's about to be done.!
Thank you.
Luci Fer
03-12-2022, 08:05 PM
Go Jack off…leave me alone. I want to print a shirt that says that.
I’m really proud of myself for not letting this fuckboy run me out of the gym. Vanilla women should be grateful for us. We’re standing up to the patriarchy as sex workers and as everyday women. It’s exhausting though.
My whole workout I was paranoid he would harass me. I felt so unsafe. Again, most guys are just there to workout.
As an intuitive, I “know” things about people without knowing why I know what I know. I did an intuitive workshop and I realized that’s why he chilled me to my bones. He probably has domestic violence priors.
I’m doing some energy clearing tonight. I hate having to do this emotional labor when it’s this shit head that should be working on his shit not me!
When I first had contact with him he “accidentally thought I was someone else.” Is this a pick up strategy? So I was like, “oh it’s okay. No worries.” That’s when he started harassing me! Literally that’s the only conversation we had ?!?!
money, you mean he pursues you no matter that you told him you didnot want to talk to him?
I asked because I think if you didnot let him know about it and just ignore him he might think you are flirting this way.
lurkingtitties
03-12-2022, 08:24 PM
Oh, shit, I spoke too soon, ____'s back on CC w/his fiction stories::)
They’re just friends ok??
Marina Starr
03-13-2022, 04:20 AM
YES! It's called 'push and pull' flirting, lol.
Men will go out of their ways to flirt and chase you even more so because they're thinking you're now playing hard to get. They see it as a challenge!
Noticed when guys in free chat say or ask something and go '???????' when you totally ignored them? Lmao
money, you mean he pursues you no matter that you told him you didnot want to talk to him?
I asked because I think if you didnot let him know about it and just ignore him he might think you are flirting this way.
naomi_doll
03-13-2022, 04:43 AM
Oh, shit, I spoke too soon, ____'s back on CC w/his fiction stories::)
And we've got another guy trying to be the professor of javascript when a few ladies are interested in it. Anything for a crumb of attention! :rotfl:
moneybags
03-13-2022, 11:04 AM
money, you mean he pursues you no matter that you told him you didnot want to talk to him?
I asked because I think if you didnot let him know about it and just ignore him he might think you are flirting this way.
If a woman says no non verbally it’s flirting!?!? That’s not directed at you. That’s insane that he might think that though.
The gym called me and they said they would take care of it for me, so I don’t even have to talk to him. They don’t want me to confront him directly…LOL. They’ll note it his folder so they can see if it’s a pattern of him harassing other members.
carmen_b
03-13-2022, 11:09 AM
^ If that guy bothers you again he should be kicked out of the gym.
There is most likely “ no bothering other members “ fine print in your contract.
carmen_b
03-13-2022, 11:09 AM
Just an at a glance thought.
Is he hoping for something romantic ?
I'm annoyed with a male friend who has said multiple times that he has given up on us ever meeting up again, then proceeds to saying he is coming to visit... Make up your mind? It's not helpful to tell someone with social anxiety that you've basically given up on them, and then the next moment pressuring to meet up. All of that is depressing and stressful.
moneybags
03-13-2022, 11:14 AM
I'm annoyed with a male friend who has said multiple times that he has given up on us ever meeting up again, then proceeds to saying he is coming to visit... Make up your mind? It's not helpful to tell someone with social anxiety that you've basically given up on them, and then the next moment pressuring to meet up. All of that is depressing and stressful.
Inconsistency is a huge trigger. I could never have people on my life that are wish washy. Triggers my attachment trauma.
At Carmen-after dealing with strip club customers it’s a pleasant to actually have my boundaries enforced by the gym. It makes sense the gym would want to take care of it, but after for stripping for almost a decade I’m not at all afraid to go toe to toe with a man. I do think it’s better they talk to him than me humiliate him because I was about there where I was gonna tear him apart because I’m so sick of men doing this shit to women.
moneybags
03-13-2022, 11:28 AM
^^^i tend to push everyone away too. I hope everything works out and you feel better. I suffered from depression and it sucks so bad! Why don’t you tell him and let him decide? Just say, “I’d love to see you, but I can’t promise I’ll be in a good mood because of my depression.”
Marina Starr
03-13-2022, 01:39 PM
Even if you verbally said no, predatory men wouldn't stop at that. They can't accept that NO is a complete sentence and NO means NO!
I bet you are not the only one he does this too and definitely not the only one. It's fucked up!
If a woman says no non verbally it’s flirting!?!? That’s not directed at you. That’s insane that he might think that though.
The gym called me and they said they would take care of it for me, so I don’t even have to talk to him. They don’t want me to confront him directly…LOL. They’ll note it his folder so they can see if it’s a pattern of him harassing other members.
Marina Starr
03-13-2022, 01:48 PM
Sounds like he just wanted sex? Given up on us but still wanna fuck.
If you're not comfortable or don't want to, that should be more than enough. Your mental health and well being come first.
I'm annoyed with a male friend who has said multiple times that he has given up on us ever meeting up again, then proceeds to saying he is coming to visit... Make up your mind? It's not helpful to tell someone with social anxiety that you've basically given up on them, and then the next moment pressuring to meet up. All of that is depressing and stressful.
WendiStarr
03-13-2022, 04:57 PM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
Luci Fer
03-13-2022, 07:13 PM
If a woman says no non verbally it’s flirting!?!? That’s not directed at you. That’s insane that he might think that though.
The gym called me and they said they would take care of it for me, so I don’t even have to talk to him. They don’t want me to confront him directly…LOL. They’ll note it his folder so they can see if it’s a pattern of him harassing other members.
Yes, it is - to the most men. I mean, some guys (if not the most) may understand it as flirting. Men are pretty straight forward usually, and women are puzzles to them. They think it can be flirt and they are absolutely sincere in their way of thinking, that's why I make it clear verbally if I don't want some guy around. And most of them understand it. There are some really stupid individuals that don't accept a refuse when you clearly make it, but it is rare. To most of guys though, non-verbal "no" is not clear enough.
UPD: also I thought a bit more (hahahaha) and I'm glad you didnot have to confront the dude, because maybe your intuition told you to avoid him and you did the way you felt would be best for you.
Luci Fer
03-13-2022, 07:21 PM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
if they ever use it against you as an argument in a conflict - they are fucking shitheads with double standards. Fuck such people.
LoveyD
03-13-2022, 10:31 PM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
Ohhh I hate this! My ex C used to pull this crap.
If you can't respect me, then don't date me. Simple as that.
Even more so, if you can't respect me, then don't have anything to do with me.
Why are men so dumb??
Maybe if they $upported us better, we wouldn't be out doing sex work.
My current guy can't pull this crap. His deceased mom (whom he loves and respects) used to dance to support him bc his dad walked out on them. So if he calls me a whore...
Dreamqueen
03-13-2022, 10:57 PM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
I never tell any man, be it a bf, lover, or someone I hire.
When the mechanic I went to on Friday asked what I did (reason why my car has low mileage), I told him that I do collections. That I work from home.
Instant respect.
I wanted to get the point across that I work on commission.
He needs to know that I'm not an endless stream of money, that he can tap into for car repairs.
moneybags
03-14-2022, 06:16 AM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
I never tell vanilla people. They don’t understand. Really anyone who isn’t active in sex work is t someone I trust. Even people in the kink community can be judgmental when it comes to pay for for play. Or girls who retired can be very judgmental to me because “I STILL dance.”
It’s no one’s business what I do.
I feel like unless a man has a ring around my finger I’ll do whatever I want. If he doesn’t want me to dance he can pay me not to.
Money comes first. As a Romantic that’s a hard boundary for me, but men come and go.
My mom is her 50’s and disabled. Had she gotten her money right when she was younger she wouldn’t be suffering now. I don’t judge her, but I’m not gonna be like her. All she ever wanted wanted was to be over by a man, and they all let her down. Never love a man more than he loves you. I’m putting myself first. Fuck love, get money. Men abandon, cheat, and lie. Never put a man before your best interest no matter how much you love him. That’s a weakened for women. We want unconditional love. If you want unconditional love-get a dog.
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 06:25 AM
What I want to address today is Republican low value old white men:
They hate everything that isn't white and conservative. They hate black lives matter, gay rights, women rights, Trans rights, sex worker rights and the list goes on that it's not possible for me to list them all. They hate and can't stand it even more so if you own it.
You are invisible to them unless they can use you, fuck you and keep you on the down low. When you want nothing to do with them, they result to insults and name calling. I don't fuck with these bastards and they know not to fuck with me because they know I see right through them and have no problems putting them in their fucking place.
miss.a.p1600
03-14-2022, 07:01 AM
In the future I will never again disclose any sex work, be it camming, pso, fbsm, content creation, etc to any man I date. I don't care if it's dishonest. They will always throw it in your face when you get into any disagreement or argument with them. Ie. "You're a whore because you did xyz", "Well, you were a stripper/camgirl/whatever and took your clothes off for random men so I can cheat on you/treat you like crap/disrespect you because of that". I don't care what anyone says, men act like they're fine with your SW job until you do or say something (or don't do what they want) and use it against you.
Exactly!
You already know men want the truth but can never handle the truth.
This is why adult work is going to the grave.
And if a mf happens to have a hunch, Bubbles has a long memory and decides to botch the classified operation, then I unfortunately will have to gaslight them like they do us ALL the damn time.
Hit them with the “You must have me mistaken for someone else” line.
LOL!
Like don’t even try to “figure it out” or “get to the bottom of this topic”
Ohhh I hate this! My ex C used to pull this crap.
If you can't respect me, then don't date me. Simple as that.
Even more so, if you can't respect me, then don't have anything to do with me.
Why are men so dumb??
Maybe if they $upported us better, we wouldn't be out doing sex work.
My current guy can't pull this crap. His deceased mom (whom he loves and respects) used to dance to support him bc his dad walked out on them. So if he calls me a whore...
I totally agree plus……
I think if a woman’s passion is adult work so be it but Most times a women (who is in a relationship) is doing adult industry because the man is being too lazy or too selfish to generate the necessary income.
Men will hate you in this instance because they know they’re not pulling weight and instead of rising to the occasion and being better men, they project their anger n frustration on to you. They also get jealous because most of them can’t capitalize on their sexuality
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 07:36 AM
You can also tell him you are a writer working from home. If he asked what do you write? Say "horror stories"
I never tell any man, be it a bf, lover, or someone I hire.
When the mechanic I went to on Friday asked what I did (reason why my car has low mileage), I told him that I do collections. That I work from home.
Instant respect.
I wanted to get the point across that I work on commission.
He needs to know that I'm not an endless stream of money, that he can tap into for car repairs.
LoveyD
03-14-2022, 08:02 AM
I never tell vanilla people. They don’t understand. Really anyone who isn’t active in sex work is t someone I trust. Even people in the kink community can be judgmental when it comes to pay for for play. Or girls who retired can be very judgmental to me because “I STILL dance.”
Judgemental bitch: Oh. You STILL dance?
Me: Yes, because *I* STILL can!
LoveyD
03-14-2022, 08:09 AM
Exactly!
You already know men want the truth but can never handle the truth.
This is why adult work is going to the grave.
And if a mf happens to have a hunch, Bubbles has a long memory and decides to botch the classified operation, then I unfortunately will have to gaslight them like they do us ALL the damn time.
Hit them with the “You must have me mistaken for someone else” line.
LOL!
Like don’t even try to “figure it out” or “get to the bottom of this topic”
I totally agree plus……
I think if a woman’s passion is adult work so be it but Most times a women (who is in a relationship) is doing adult industry because the man is being too lazy or too selfish to generate the necessary income.
Men will hate you in this instance because they know they’re not pulling weight and instead of rising to the occasion and being better men, they project their anger n frustration on to you. They also get jealous because most of them can’t capitalize on their sexuality
Yep. Totally.
My kid's father was an ass who couldn't find it within him to make money to support both my son and me, and I knew I wasn't happy. So I secretly got a job at the club. He wasn't happy about it. Then when I started pulling in $$$, THAT'S when he wanted to start a joint bank account! I laughed in his face. My money will stay my money. He never once gave me one red cent for ANYTHING. So once I saved up enough, I ended the relationship and moved into my own home. Fuck him.
whirlerz
03-14-2022, 09:03 AM
Fucking guy upstairs, he was texting me kinda late Sat. night, some friend of his was over, was complaining about him smoking? Um, tell him to go outside?
So I gave him 3 sticks of my mint incense.. He's all, "Oh, I missed you"? Didn't wanna see him, lol just drop off incense..
Then he dropped like a dozen cake mixes::) on kitchen table, when I've been trying to get rid of all the excess food pantry stuff the other idiot hoarded in here..
Left 2 heavy boxes outside, (we already have mice) put 1 by trash, which he I sent took back & put by his room? :O After I sent him text (see below)
I texted him, kindly asked him to not do that, he didn't answer, I know he's P. O. 'd.. Oh well!
JERK.
Miss_ShaSha
03-14-2022, 09:46 AM
I rarely bitch about men. I'm aware that the online dating pool is full of about 80% of men with an avoidant attachment style which translates to the type of guy that likes drama and plays games.
Well, I dropped a guy after 3 weeks of walking on eggshells (he said he didn't do drama PERIOD...yet he brought drama daily [totally aware of that red flag]).
So I decided just to hang out casually. I met a guy who seemed super cool. He took me out 3 times and cooked twice for me. Then when I invited him over for lunch he brought me a potted flower and eggs from his free range chickens. Yeah...kinda sweet right? And zero sex...yes, zero sex with just a couple kisses.
Well, now he's texting less and less, not returning my call, and I'm like WTF?!?! he expressed he was trying to keep me around cause I have SPECIAL talents. Hmmmm, so the way he shows interest is by pulling back.
FUCK it: most men are either anxious or avoidant and I'm tired of these fucked up attachment styles. Yup, it's true: most of those with a secure attachment style are in relationships or married. Goddamn...I'm fuckin DONE!!!!!
moneybags
03-14-2022, 10:04 AM
^^^i agree they good ones are taken. Ugh. I don’t date. If I meet some organically I would consider it, but it’s not a priority
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 10:38 AM
They do it to slut shame you, to batter your spirit, to make you feel the only thing you're good for is sex so you better accept that because after all, you're just a slut.
It's strange to me why'd they want to fuck us if we're the bottom of the barrel. What does that say about them?
I'm not ashamed of selling pussy or I wouldn't be selling so shaming doesn't work. They can't hurt my feelings. I'm beyond that, lmao!
if they ever use it against you as an argument in a conflict - they are fucking shitheads with double standards. Fuck such people.
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 10:42 AM
On a lighter note, it's not really bitching but some guys are so handsome and dreamy but they gonna fucked that up by getting a shitty haircut, shaved off their beards, from well kept eyebrows to gay eyebrows, etc.
Motherfuckers went from a 7.5/8 to a 3/4 real fast.
LoveyD
03-14-2022, 12:51 PM
^^^i agree they good ones are taken. Ugh. I don’t date. If I meet some organically I would consider it, but it’s not a priority
Even the taken ones are horrible, i.e. married club customers who ask you to date them over and over...
moneybags
03-14-2022, 05:12 PM
Even the taken ones are horrible, i.e. club customers who ask you to date them over and over...
That’s really why I don’t date. Period. Because even if I found a “good guy” I’d constantly be afraid of him cheating. Many of our clients have good wives, and are constantly trying to fuck us in the club, and would if we let them!!!!
Just look at my Dr. He’s was flirting with me behind his girlfriend’s back. Who knows if i didn’t set boundaries if he would’ve cheated. I’ll never fuck a taken dude-definitely not for free-I deserve way better than that. Although I do have low self esteem from all the abuse I’ve been through. I have a hard time believing any good decent guy would want me. Oh well, I’ve been doing good with my Dr now that I friendzoned him. I don’t tell him personal information. I’m a deep person, so I just try to keep it light. He doesn’t deserve to see the depth of my soul. Rejection is Gods redirection. Everything happens for a reason. We aren’t in alignment-that doesn’t make him better than me. I’m still sad. I’m still angry that he pulled me in only walk me off a ledge. Thankfully, I woke up before there’s was irreparable harm done to our professional relationship. Lesson learned-if he ain’t spoiling you don’t take him seriously.
Afterthought-I probably dodged a bullet. All that glitters is not gold. I have a heart of gold, and that’s my worth. Not what the patriarchy says about my worth as a woman
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 06:25 PM
They come to us for the thrill because I bet after awhile, their good wives become boring to them!
That's right girl, don't eat another woman's cookie for free. I stand by what I said that if a man is married or taken, he's a CLIENT.
Even if he's single but all he wants is sex, he's also a client. Don't get used, get paid.
Sometimes what we THINK we want we can't have because we deserve better.
That’s really why I don’t date. Period. Because even if I found a “good guy” I’d constantly be afraid of him cheating. Many of our clients have good wives, and are constantly trying to fuck us in the club, and would if we let them!!!!
Just look at my Dr. He’s was flirting with me behind his girlfriend’s back. Who knows if i didn’t set boundaries if he would’ve cheated. I’ll never fuck a taken dude-definitely not for free-I deserve way better than that. Although I do have low self esteem from all the abuse I’ve been through. I have a hard time believing any good decent guy would want me. Oh well, I’ve been doing good with my Dr now that I friendzoned him. I don’t tell him personal information. I’m a deep person, so I just try to keep it light. He doesn’t deserve to see the depth of my soul. Rejection is Gods redirection. Everything happens for a reason. We aren’t in alignment-that doesn’t make him better than me. I’m still sad. I’m still angry that he pulled me in only walk me off a ledge. Thankfully, I woke up before there’s was irreparable harm done to our professional relationship. Lesson learned-if he ain’t spoiling you don’t take him seriously.
Afterthought-I probably dodged a bullet. All that glitters is not gold. I have a heart of gold, and that’s my worth. Not what the patriarchy says about my worth as a woman