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Luci Fer
03-14-2022, 06:34 PM
They do it to slut shame you, to batter your spirit, to make you feel the only thing you're good for is sex so you better accept that because after all, you're just a slut.
It's strange to me why'd they want to fuck us if we're the bottom of the barrel. What does that say about them?
I'm not ashamed of selling pussy or I wouldn't be selling so shaming doesn't work. They can't hurt my feelings. I'm beyond that, lmao!
yes, I agree with it. They see women as sex objects and blame them for that! That whole"madonna-whore" struggle, aww poor bastarts hahaha
And there are the types who say "oh you re so nice and beautiful etc etc" but if you ignore their expectations they would tell you what a slut, whore and something else you are . Those ones just literally make me laugh ;D
Luci Fer
03-14-2022, 06:54 PM
That’s really why I don’t date. Period. Because even if I found a “good guy” I’d constantly be afraid of him cheating. Many of our clients have good wives, and are constantly trying to fuck us in the club, and would if we let them!!!!
I just accepted that as men's nature, as their primal side. I am quite flirtatious myself and when I had a bf who was really strict/controlling about it (was it me talking to other guys, to my male friends etc), I felt restrained.He always had the need to demonstrate everyone that he was my partner. It was uneasy for me. So I can't control anyone, because that's not what I wish for myself. Let them flirt/fuck/explore whomever they want. I am the best anyway }:D
Also, when I look at women, in all their breathtaking variety, I understand men ;D
LoveyD
03-14-2022, 08:02 PM
@money I don't blame you one bit. It's terrifying to date anymore. I'm glad you know your worth. It's a scary world out there.
Dreamqueen
03-14-2022, 08:56 PM
You can also tell him you are a writer working from home. If he asked what do you write? Say "horror stories"
Yes!
'WHORE..or' stories.;D
Luci Fer
03-15-2022, 03:46 AM
Yes!
'WHORE..or' stories.;D
haaaaa laughing out loud now!;D;D;D
LoveyD
03-15-2022, 06:57 AM
^^ :rotfl: that's funny!
Marina Starr
03-15-2022, 10:20 AM
If I were a man, I wouldn't give a woman the time of day and wants nothing to do with her if she's really mean and down right rude to me.
The odd thing is, I always seem to attract ultra sweet guys, they're too sweet. They obviously must love how bitchy I am that's why they keep coming back.
Here I am thinking they should be obsessed with sweet girls. I'm beautiful but just too mean, lol.
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 11:18 AM
^The sweet guys give you the benefit of the doubt.
They probably figure there is a sweet woman inside of the tough exterior
.....that and some of their DICK will tame you LOLOL!!!!!
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 11:25 AM
I really do think that is true !
Their first thought is “ wow this girl needs dick she is so mean “.
I imagine it’s true sometimes but just not as much as they hope !!!
Marina Starr
03-15-2022, 11:27 AM
Their dick will soften me up? LMAO
^The sweet guys give you the benefit of the doubt.
They probably figure there is a sweet woman inside of the tough exterior
.....that and some of their DICK will tame you LOLOL!!!!!
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 11:31 AM
NEVER go 50/50 with dudes - their asses get lazy and next thing you know YOU are the sugar mommy. That's how those ladies got scammed by the Tinder Swindler.
I find the sweet spot is having them cover 75%-90% or more
Yes. They are still paying for pussy (even in relationships). They are paying for enjoying male privilege and patriarchy daily.
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 11:33 AM
Their dick will soften me up? LMAO
LOL! Delusional ass men.
In my experience, only like 3% of them have stress relief dick/tongue.
Marina Starr
03-15-2022, 11:45 AM
I wouldn't know, lol! I've been celibate by CHOICE for years and have no intention of changing that.
You know men assumed that if you're hot, beautiful, pretty etc you must be promiscuous, lol.
LOL! Delusional ass men.
In my experience, only like 3% of them have stress relief dick/tongue.
ravenskyy
03-15-2022, 12:06 PM
I gave this selfish fuck more than he fucking deserved. I did nothing but try to protect this asshole from the consequences of HIS actions. I let myself bear the burden and weight of the world for him. Because I loved him. I lost friends, family, my mental health, my financial health, my physical health and a child....for him.
I'll never get married again.
whirlerz
03-15-2022, 12:45 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry, ravenskyy, you are so beautiful! I hope it gets better soon for you!
emkato
03-15-2022, 01:32 PM
Really wish my SO would stop destroying things when he gets mad at me over some stupid bullshit. He has destroyed doors, smashed plates/glasses.... in the past he has broken my phone, my eyeglasses, ect. Granted he replaces the things he breaks but he never learns to just...idk, not break shit?
whirlerz
03-15-2022, 01:56 PM
Really wish my SO would stop destroying things when he gets mad at me over some stupid bullshit. He has destroyed doors, smashed plates/glasses.... in the past he has broken my phone, my eyeglasses, ect. Granted he replaces the things he breaks but he never learns to just...idk, not break shit?
That's scary to me, he needs anger management! I get the frustration, I've had the urge to do something like that, but don't..
LoveyD
03-15-2022, 03:14 PM
Really wish my SO would stop destroying things when he gets mad at me over some stupid bullshit. He has destroyed doors, smashed plates/glasses.... in the past he has broken my phone, my eyeglasses, ect. Granted he replaces the things he breaks but he never learns to just...idk, not break shit?
That would be scary to me, too. I do not like violent men.
Marina Starr
03-15-2022, 04:35 PM
I worry about you! I'm concern that in his episode of anger trying to break things and if you try to stop him, he could push you away then you'd end up hurting yourself.
Like a lot of women who have been in that situation, the men may not physically hit them but that came pretty close and who knows what could happen the next time, and the next time..
Really wish my SO would stop destroying things when he gets mad at me over some stupid bullshit. He has destroyed doors, smashed plates/glasses.... in the past he has broken my phone, my eyeglasses, ect. Granted he replaces the things he breaks but he never learns to just...idk, not break shit?
whirlerz
03-15-2022, 04:36 PM
You know what?
I'm going to say something here, some years ago, I lived with, became engaged to a guy.. He was a hard worker, cared about me, wasn't a drinker or drug user..
However, he had a horrible temper, turned out he was physically & verbally abused by his dad..
Anyway, he would get in a rage, yell & scream, never broke anything, but.. I used to sleep window screen loose so I could quickly get out, in case I couldn't get to the door..
I left him, gradually moved out, then he worked a long shift, I moved the rest of my stuff out..
The night before, a neighbor pleaded w/me to leave she could hear him yell, & was afraid for me..&yes, reading Marina's post, there is an escalation.. Even so, do you want to be around that? I became so jumpy, not worth it!
I assured her I was going the next day, & I did.
Never regretted that decision, I had a beautiful ring, I left it w/a note, had my dress, & was set to be married in 6 weeks.
But good luck, whatever you decide!
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 07:05 PM
You can leave him in the dust and build something wonderful for yourself. :)
I gave this selfish fuck more than he fucking deserved. I did nothing but try to protect this asshole from the consequences of HIS actions. I let myself bear the burden and weight of the world for him. Because I loved him. I lost friends, family, my mental health, my financial health, my physical health and a child....for him.
I'll never get married again.
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 07:07 PM
+1 about the breaking stuff thing.
It's more than just stuff.
It's a display of violence.
It's a lack of self control.
It's making your partner afraid.
It's wasteful and not eco friendly ( probably the most terrible in the list ).
Yes .... it's domestic violence.
It may still be in the " grey area " but be very careful of this man.
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 06:13 AM
miss.a.p1600
I thought of what you said as I was sitting at Starbucks this morning and it made me laughed :)
There's this dreamy guy that goes to starbucks about 5 days a week, he's got the hot for me for a long time and still does. Got his hair cut a little too short for my liking so I said something indirectly at him but make sure he could hear me 'I hate the short haircut, I prefer the longer hair'. I know it's bitchy and rude of me but for the past days, he's been trying harder than usual to get my attention, lol!
It must be him wanted to tame the bitch (me) with something hard and stiff :)
^The sweet guys give you the benefit of the doubt.
They probably figure there is a sweet woman inside of the tough exterior
.....that and some of their DICK will tame you LOLOL!!!!!
miss.a.p1600
03-16-2022, 07:58 AM
^ahahaha
He thinks you’re playing coy with him.
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 08:04 AM
Hoes don't get shy but I can pretend. He has no idea, lmaooooo
^ahahaha
He thinks you’re playing coy with him.
carmen_b
03-16-2022, 08:46 AM
^ Oh ..... I'm so curious what this dude must look like to get YOUR attention Marina. :)
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 11:10 AM
;D
6'3"
Dreamy hazel eyes
Nice toned body
Nice bulge (looks bigger than 7 inches when hard to me. I don't like dick over 8 inches)
Sweet but shy
Doctor of Physical Therapy
#doctordick
^ Oh ..... I'm so curious what this dude must look like to get YOUR attention Marina. :)
LoveyD
03-16-2022, 11:25 AM
+1 about the breaking stuff thing.
It's more than just stuff.
It's a display of violence.
It's a lack of self control.
It's making your partner afraid.
It's wasteful and not eco friendly ( probably the most terrible in the list ).
Yes .... it's domestic violence.
It may still be in the " grey area " but be very careful of this man.
If he iis making you feel like you're walking on eggshells, it's abuse.
@whirlerz you dodged a bullet. Glad you got out safely!
carmen_b
03-16-2022, 11:27 AM
^ Yep it’s an abuse tactic to get the partner always operating in “ be careful “ mode.
Please read up on domestic abuse patterns.
whirlerz
03-16-2022, 12:33 PM
Ugh.
I just think about this lady upstairs, she told me "she's not supposed to talk to anybody"?
She's not allowed to work in certain jobs?
Btw, her guy hit on me, big time before she moved here!
I know she doesn't have anywhere to go.. She was borrowing my crushie's 2nd truck, it's parked w/plates off it so, probably not running or street legal.
So I guess she's not working now, he works.
whirlerz
03-16-2022, 12:37 PM
And we got some real geniuses here, someone left broken glass in the parking lot, I swept it up, as best I could (we've a gravel lot).
Also, someone put a bag of plates, utensils by the front door? TF?
WendiStarr
03-16-2022, 01:29 PM
Why is it that most men I encounter seem to be nothing more than oversized children? You have to pick up after them. They expect you to comfort them when they're sick or injured but don't care when you are sick or injured. They act up and you have to constantly tell them how to treat you and not to do whatever misbehavior. If I wanted to deal with all that shit I would become one of those Mommy type Dommes $. I don't have time to be anyone else's mother, let alone for a grown ass man. I already am the mama of 3 kids.
xxxGothBarbie
03-16-2022, 01:54 PM
I left my last ex in CA bc of that temper shit. When he'd drink he was a monster verbally. He's been begging me to come back but I'm happy in nyc. Fuck these assclowns, they need to learn control!
laurielegs
03-16-2022, 01:55 PM
I gave this selfish fuck more than he fucking deserved. I did nothing but try to protect this asshole from the consequences of HIS actions. I let myself bear the burden and weight of the world for him. Because I loved him. I lost friends, family, my mental health, my financial health, my physical health and a child....for him.
I'll never get married again.
I'm sorry you had to deal with an ass like that. I was stupid enough to fall in love that way twice. ugh. I wish I could go back in time and slap some sense into myself. I look back and nearly all the problems in my life stem from having troublesome men in my life. They seemed normal at first lol but damn that didn't last at all.
I've even dropped my exes who wanted to stay friends who would sometimes "help" me by lifting heavy things or fixing my car really badly (usually ended up having to pay to fix it again) and yesterday I realized I feel so free! It's so much better for my mental health just to save my money and hire help when I need it than depend on those assholes.
Hell even some men realize most men are not worth being around. I saw a quote from an interview where Ryan Reynolds was asked about being home with his wife and kids during quarantine (all females) and he said
"I do not miss masculine company at all," Ryan told Stephen Colbert. "Really, most men tend to just be the architects of someone's demise.""
It would actually be a funny quote if it wasn't so true.
lurkingtitties
03-16-2022, 06:10 PM
I've read a lot of posts in this thread about men sitting next to you in Starbucks and etc when there are empty tables elsewhere. And how you ladies deal with it by immediately getting up and sitting at a different table to subtly let them know they're being rude. The pandemic had me in isolation/social anxiety mode until pretty recently, so haven't personally encountered this behavior. Happy to say I finally got an opportunity to use this strategy!
I was working on an art project in a park the other day to take advantage of the nice spring weather. Some old man comes in the park with his dog, unclips the dog and sits down at a table right across from me. Sat so he was facing towards me and away from his dog. Manspreading too. I looked up with the stink eye and he of course smiles at me. He was so close I could smell his musty old man BO. Without saying anything or making further eye contact I gathered my art supplies, stood up and walked across the park to a different table out of his line of sight. Sooo satisfying!
whirlerz
03-16-2022, 06:14 PM
I've read a lot of posts in this thread about men sitting next to you in Starbucks and etc when there are empty tables elsewhere. And how you ladies deal with it by immediately getting up and sitting at a different table to subtly let them know they're being rude. The pandemic had me in isolation/social anxiety mode until pretty recently, so haven't personally encountered this behavior. Happy to say I finally got an opportunity to use this strategy!
I was working on an art project in a park the other day to take advantage of the nice spring weather. Some old man comes in the park with his dog, unclips the dog and sits down at a table right across from me. Sat so he was facing towards me and away from his dog. Manspreading too. I looked up with the stink eye and he of course smiles at me. He was so close I could smell his musty old man BO. Without saying anything or making further eye contact I gathered my art supplies, stood up and walked across the park to a different table out of his line of sight. Sooo satisfying!
Eww, how gross! ^
Good for you!
carmen_b
03-16-2022, 06:20 PM
No free today attention for YOU today Sir !
Come into the club and pay for it lol !!
I've read a lot of posts in this thread about men sitting next to you in Starbucks and etc when there are empty tables elsewhere. And how you ladies deal with it by immediately getting up and sitting at a different table to subtly let them know they're being rude. The pandemic had me in isolation/social anxiety mode until pretty recently, so haven't personally encountered this behavior. Happy to say I finally got an opportunity to use this strategy!
I was working on an art project in a park the other day to take advantage of the nice spring weather. Some old man comes in the park with his dog, unclips the dog and sits down at a table right across from me. Sat so he was facing towards me and away from his dog. Manspreading too. I looked up with the stink eye and he of course smiles at me. He was so close I could smell his musty old man BO. Without saying anything or making further eye contact I gathered my art supplies, stood up and walked across the park to a different table out of his line of sight. Sooo satisfying!
carmen_b
03-16-2022, 06:21 PM
I forgot to mention this and of course I guess it's my fault too.
I stupidly forgot to wear a bra in the airport.
My travel gear is all black ( tank top / leggings ect. )!
WAY to many stares . Thankfully I had my coat with me to put on even though I didn't need it. :/
I hate not being able to charge men for looking lol.
Now the incident is making me rethink my all black outfits .
I think men like them at some level but *I* like them too.
They probably full on realize I could crush their souls lol.
lurkingtitties
03-16-2022, 06:22 PM
Eww, how gross! ^
Good for you!
I have the ladies of SW to thank for my performance! (Especially Marina Starr, lol) without y'all I would've wasted my energy speaking to him and getting angry about it.
carmen_b
03-16-2022, 06:25 PM
^ I LOVE that.
No one is owed any conversation haha. :)
Honestly this is the season for creepiness to ramp up.
Women wearing less outside ect.
whirlerz
03-16-2022, 06:29 PM
Why is it that most men I encounter seem to be nothing more than oversized children? You have to pick up after them. They expect you to comfort them when they're sick or injured but don't care when you are sick or injured. They act up and you have to constantly tell them how to treat you and not to do whatever misbehavior. If I wanted to deal with all that shit I would become one of those Mommy type Dommes $. I don't have time to be anyone else's mother, let alone for a grown ass man. I already am the mama of 3 kids.
Yep, so true.
My dad was a good man, my friend that I hang out with is good too.
My mom used to say, "men are just big babies"
I actually talk to, & treat most men as children.
Another thing I hate is they leave stuff & throw shit everywhere, my crush upstairs brings in a dozen cake mixes? TF?
Took em, & the rest of the hoarded food crap sitting in cabinet to the food pantry
lurkingtitties
03-16-2022, 06:35 PM
Really wish my SO would stop destroying things when he gets mad at me over some stupid bullshit. He has destroyed doors, smashed plates/glasses.... in the past he has broken my phone, my eyeglasses, ect. Granted he replaces the things he breaks but he never learns to just...idk, not break shit?
This is actually considered domestic violence even if he never lays a hand on you. It's an intimidation tactic.
Does he ever break his own nice stuff when he's mad or just yours? Guys will tell you they "lose control" when they're angry, but if he's only breaking your stuff then he does in fact have self control.
LoveyD
03-16-2022, 08:16 PM
I've read a lot of posts in this thread about men sitting next to you in Starbucks and etc when there are empty tables elsewhere. And how you ladies deal with it by immediately getting up and sitting at a different table to subtly let them know they're being rude. The pandemic had me in isolation/social anxiety mode until pretty recently, so haven't personally encountered this behavior. Happy to say I finally got an opportunity to use this strategy!
I was working on an art project in a park the other day to take advantage of the nice spring weather. Some old man comes in the park with his dog, unclips the dog and sits down at a table right across from me. Sat so he was facing towards me and away from his dog. Manspreading too. I looked up with the stink eye and he of course smiles at me. He was so close I could smell his musty old man BO. Without saying anything or making further eye contact I gathered my art supplies, stood up and walked across the park to a different table out of his line of sight. Sooo satisfying!
Awesome! Good job! You can't control what they do, but you can control what you do. Hopefully he got the message.
Luci Fer
03-17-2022, 12:09 AM
The odd thing is, I always seem to attract ultra sweet guys, they're too sweet. They obviously must love how bitchy I am that's why they keep coming back.
Here I am thinking they should be obsessed with sweet girls. I'm beautiful but just too mean, lol.
I always think it's like with magnets, when - attracts + :)
Sweet girls probably bore them to hell hahaha
Marina Starr
03-17-2022, 08:15 AM
I'm so happy you shared. Women are so ingrained to be nice and polite and smile even if they're uncomfortable.
It's even sadder when vanilla hoes judge other women for putting themselves first because women are indoctrinated not to.
I would do what you did. I used to get really angry and not move but now my peace is worth more to me. It's not about letting other people win, it's about protecting your peace and well being.
If you had not moved and getting all angry, you would give him your power. I know it's easier said than done but when we know better, we do better :)
I have the ladies of SW to thank for my performance! (Especially Marina Starr, lol) without y'all I would've wasted my energy speaking to him and getting angry about it.
Marina Starr
03-17-2022, 08:39 AM
Nice girls get left in the dust, lol!
They also think bitchiness will translate to the bedroom and that's so damn sexy to their sweet souls. Bitches may be volatile but it's never a dull moment with us ;D
I always think it's like with magnets, when - attracts + :)
Sweet girls probably bore them to hell hahaha
Luci Fer
03-17-2022, 07:16 PM
I used to get really angry and not move but now my peace is worth more to me. It's not about letting other people win, it's about protecting your peace and well being.
If you had not moved and getting all angry, you would him your power. I know it's easier said than done but when we know better, we do better :)
omg golden. I used to do the same, seeing it as "win-fail" situation. But they actually enjoy this, and feed on our emotions of this moment, yes.
It's so much better to demonstratively leave, showing such people what we think of their stupid invasive asses without wasting any words/emotions :)
(sometimes it's really big temptation to say "what the fuck are you staring at?" though hahaha)
Nice girls get left in the dust, lol!
They also think bitchiness will translate to the bedroom and that's so damn sexy to their sweet souls. Bitches may be volatile but it's never a dull moment with us ;D
oh yeah ;D you just described it perfectly!
Marina Starr
03-18-2022, 07:24 AM
I want to talk about men that need time to grow up and work on their level of maturity... and women too.
When I get asked shit like does a guy likes me if he doesn't reciprocate eye contact. This shit is cute when you're in middle school, high school but it's tiring when grown ass adults do it to each other.
When a guy likes you and you like him, both of you would know that. If you have to always wonder, then he's not a grown ass man, he lacks maturity and it's something you shouldn't have to carry. That would be a huge turn off for me.
You deserve someone doesn't have to make you wonder or play these push and pull, hot and cold games.
miss.a.p1600
03-18-2022, 08:03 AM
I hate when men are co-dependent on their mothers
Signals weak men who weren’t raised properly
Cut the umbilical cord you are a grown ass man acting like a fucking needy infant and it’s very unattractive!!!
Marina Starr
03-18-2022, 08:08 AM
These men still need time to grow up and work on their level of maturity. Would you help them achieve such?
I sure as hell wouldn't want to. Men like these are definitely not keepers for me.
I hate when men are co-dependent on their mothers
Signals weak men who weren’t raised properly
Cut the umbilical cord you are a grown ass man acting like a fucking needy infant and it’s very unattractive!!!