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carmen_b
03-18-2022, 08:19 AM
Right ? The guy should be persuing you. He is the one with the dick and balls. If he isn't actively courting back off. If he is pulling " half way " type bullshit tell him to step it UP or feel free to fuck right off. :)
Men are not used to women being direct but it is refreshing to get rid of a dude who is annoying you.
It's completely ok to say " this behavior isn't good enough for me " .
I want to talk about men that need time to grow up and work on their level of maturity... and women too.
When I get asked shit like does a guy likes me if he doesn't reciprocate eye contact. This shit is cute when you're in middle school, high school but it's tiring when grown ass adults do it to each other.
When a guy likes you and you like him, both of you would know that. If you have to always wonder, then he's not a grown ass man, he lacks maturity and it's something you shouldn't have to carry. That would be a huge turn off for me.
You deserve someone doesn't have to make you wonder or play these push and pull, hot and cold games.
Marina Starr
03-18-2022, 08:41 AM
I love this so much! Amen to everything you wrote.
Typical fuckboys behaviors. Grown men with caliber would make you feel valued, desired and shower you with good treatment.
You can't change men, your only defense is to not accept what isn't good enough for you.
Right ? The guy should be persuing you. He is the one with the dick and balls. If he isn't actively courting back off. If he is pulling " half way " type bullshit tell him to step it UP or feel free to fuck right off. :)
Men are not used to women being direct but it is refreshing to get rid of a dude who is annoying you.
It's completely ok to say " this behavior isn't good enough for me " .
lurkingtitties
03-18-2022, 04:08 PM
Right ? The guy should be persuing you. He is the one with the dick and balls. If he isn't actively courting back off. If he is pulling " half way " type bullshit tell him to step it UP or feel free to fuck right off. :)
Men are not used to women being direct but it is refreshing to get rid of a dude who is annoying you.
It's completely ok to say " this behavior isn't good enough for me " .
I actually did do this to someone a couple weeks ago and it was indeed refreshing as heck!!!
Marina Starr
03-19-2022, 11:17 AM
LMAO at all these self-help, self-love coaches on Instagram saying cliches shit like 'if you have to be a man's secret, you shouldn't be in it.'
It hilarious how I never gotten a response or likes if I posted shit like I do on SW: I don't mind being a man's secret as long as I get the cash.
Did I say something wrong?!
https://i.ibb.co/DQyShLd/laughing-haha.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
carmen_b
03-19-2022, 06:18 PM
^ Premium pay for discretion. :)
Marina Starr
03-19-2022, 06:34 PM
With upcharges and la carte. More bullshit requires more cash!
^ Premium pay for discretion. :)
Miss_ShaSha
03-20-2022, 07:33 AM
^^^i agree they good ones are taken. Ugh. I don’t date. If I meet some organically I would consider it, but it’s not a priority
Yeah, I've been proactively dating since Aug last year with a couple breaks cause after about 5 or 6 dates the red flags showed up and they couldn't even resolve conflict. I'm not even trying anymore. I am officially done.
I gave this selfish fuck more than he fucking deserved. I did nothing but try to protect this asshole from the consequences of HIS actions. I let myself bear the burden and weight of the world for him. Because I loved him. I lost friends, family, my mental health, my financial health, my physical health and a child....for him.
I'll never get married again.
Damn, I'm so sorry. This just makes my problems so non-existent; I don't even need to complain. I'm most sad that your child has had to experience your energy spikes and drops due to dealing with all his horrible behavior. Sorry...so sorry.
Marina Starr
03-20-2022, 08:56 AM
It's such a turn off for me when men shaved everything. Their legs, their arms, their pits, their dick.
I love hairy men. I love chest and hairy legs. For dick, I like well groomed but not completely shaved.
The majority of guys in my town pretty much shaved everything. They are pretty much clones of each other.
Marina Starr
03-20-2022, 09:03 AM
Ladies, if your men suddenly play a lot of golf or you feel something isn't right:
https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/701098/having-an-affair-playing-golf-number-one-excuse-men-tell-their-wives
miss.a.p1600
03-20-2022, 03:18 PM
LMAO at all these self-help, self-love coaches on Instagram saying cliches shit like 'if you have to be a man's secret, you shouldn't be in it.'
It hilarious how I never gotten a response or likes if I posted shit like I do on SW: I don't mind being a man's secret as long as I get the cash.
Did I say something wrong?!
https://i.ibb.co/DQyShLd/laughing-haha.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
they’re not going to take it a step further and tell women to make the cheaters pay. If they waste time and stick around for free then stupid of them to let men do that. It’s unfortunate most men aren’t more respectful
i saw an interview where this woman was a “spiritual wife” (code word for some bullshit label) for a famous singer who married another woman during their dating phase
He lavished her in trips and gifts so she kept quiet but once that money stopped and other wives came into play. She told it all. She wasted numerous years of her youth with the guy who was never going to commit to her like she wanted.
Marina Starr
03-20-2022, 06:38 PM
That's true but they can only give vanilla hoes vanilla advice. If they tell them to charge for their pain, time and emotional distress vanilla hoes would cry they don't want to be exploited while they're giving their all to men that don't give a fuck about them without regulating how much they give.
Think of how sad it is to let men use them then crossed out their names after they're done and move on to the next.
What's even sadder is when that shit keeps happening over and over again.
https://i.ibb.co/fFs5VMx/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
they’re not going to take it a step further and tell women to make the cheaters pay. If they waste time and stick around for free then stupid of them to let men do that. It’s unfortunate most men aren’t more respectful
i saw an interview where this woman was a “spiritual wife” (code word for some bullshit label) for a famous singer who married another woman during their dating phase
He lavished her in trips and gifts so she kept quiet but once that money stopped and other wives came into play. She told it all. She wasted numerous years of her youth with the guy who was never going to commit to her like she wanted.
WendiStarr
03-21-2022, 02:00 PM
BD knew that I planned on working at 5pm today. I only planned on a 5 hour shift today. He suddenly took off at 4:50pm. Fucking asshole. Its difficult to wrangle a very active 2 year old around, let alone a 1 month old who wants to be held constantly while trying to type accurately on a computer.
I was only able to work for 2 hours. After that my 2 year old was bugging me. -_- I want to sabotage BD's job so bad. I'm thinking about how I could contact his boss and let it slip that he uses his work phone to contact cheap listcrawler hookers and craigslist gay guys. If they can somehow see what employees do while using company provided cellphones, they'll be able to investigate and see that.
Marina Starr
03-22-2022, 06:50 AM
Small bitch, why do men feel the need to flex, kicking their feet back and forth and running like their are on the treadmill at Starbucks and inside public spaces?
whirlerz
03-22-2022, 11:17 AM
Well, I've a shit ton of anxiety rn..
This ASSHOLE upstairs, was knocking on my door, & trying my door knob??
.
I have the circuit box for the house in my room, there's some issues w/their room & the guy's room below them, (+ they have a microwave up there which they're not supposed to have)
the circuits overload, I have to switch it back..
This's been happening a lot, we've had the problem for years & I'm getting real tired of him pounding on my door..go smoke another blunt like you do constantly?
I already discussed it w/the landlord 2 weeks ago , + texted him today about it, which he did not respond.
I hung out w/my friend today so I wouldn't have to be here! Now they just got home too.
Fine, whatever, don't bother me again today, MF!
I want to rest & go on cam later
Update :
So I talked to LL by text, he's going to get crushie to fix electrical problem (I talked to him too).
I'm going to speak to LL this Sat, & let him know I'm not going to be afraid in my own place that I pay to live in, cause of this ASSHOLE. ^
I tried talking to his gf about it, + previously wrote a note, she not allowed to talk to anyone so..yeah, SHE doesn't have to talk to anyone, but I have to coordinate everything? FOH!
I'll tell him, (I mean it too) I'm calling the Sheriff next time!
& he can go up & talk to their dope-smoking asses, it's not legal in our city, there's an ordinance here against it so..
Marina Starr
03-23-2022, 03:53 AM
Dealt with a fuckboy at 6am this morning as I was walking from the parking lot to Starbucks. I'm telling you, fuckboys are always on call 24/7. They just don't take breaks.
There should be mandatory schools teaching fuckboys to not annoy or inconvenient women and think they're doing us a favor for giving us the time of morning, day and night!
miss.a.p1600
03-23-2022, 08:34 AM
LOL @ fuckbois being on call
I got a text recently from a guy I thought was a good catch but turned out to be a fuckboi in disguise.
Glad I saw through his shenanigans and gave him the respect he tried to give me.....none!
I ghosted his ass (didn't block) and now I see he text randomly, stupid shit like "Hi" - Like boy quit playing on the phone! You are further displaying yourself as a low level fuckboi.
I wish I could send him some dick picks or call Anonymous, give them his phone number, and let them hack his phone and send a virus to it. But Ill just keep ignoring his bitch ass.
miss.a.p1600
03-23-2022, 08:37 AM
I can't say this enough but I hate when men act like they are the prize.
Bitch if you don't do your job as a man (unfortunately this is 80%+ of men in my opinion), you are NOT a prize.
Marina Starr
03-23-2022, 10:46 AM
Yup, 24/7. When I'm out and about I'll randomly say shit within their proximity so they can hear me 'sigh, why is it never possible to leave the house without seeing fuckboys?'
They instantly vamoose because they already knew that's exactly what they are.
Fuckboys vs. Hoes, Hoes always win!
https://i.ibb.co/fHR7ZMb/laughing-haha.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
LOL @ fuckbois being on call
I got a text recently from a guy I thought was a good catch but turned out to be a fuckboi in disguise.
Glad I saw through his shenanigans and gave him the respect he tried to give me.....none!
I ghosted his ass (didn't block) and now I see he text randomly, stupid shit like "Hi" - Like boy quit playing on the phone! You are further displaying yourself as a low level fuckboi.
I wish I could send him some dick picks or call Anonymous, give them his phone number, and let them hack his phone and send a virus to it. But Ill just keep ignoring his bitch ass.
Marina Starr
03-24-2022, 12:17 PM
I've said this a while back but it's on my mind so I'll repeat.
The majority of men don't get that whether a woman is vanilla or a paid Hoe, we all want men who are kind, good and respectful. These qualities are not negotiable because each and everyone of us are worthy of love, kindness, respect and good treatment. Men that can't give that just simply don't have it.
I know I can't change men nor do I want to but what I do know is I could love a man for free if he's kind and good to me.
I don't always have to monetize my time, energy and love when I am loved, respected and cared for.
If a man demonstrates to me that he's not capable of being kind and decent, I will accept him just as he is as long as I get the cash. Cash would make me feel appreciated and not used as I make my way to the bank.
~Carmen~
03-24-2022, 08:10 PM
LOL @ fuckbois being on call
I got a text recently from a guy I thought was a good catch but turned out to be a fuckboi in disguise.
Glad I saw through his shenanigans and gave him the respect he tried to give me.....none!
I ghosted his ass (didn't block) and now I see he text randomly, stupid shit like "Hi" - Like boy quit playing on the phone! You are further displaying yourself as a low level fuckboi.
I wish I could send him some dick picks or call Anonymous, give them his phone number, and let them hack his phone and send a virus to it. But Ill just keep ignoring his bitch ass.
I love the idea of sending dick pics, especially to fuckboys who send them to us!
Marina Starr
03-25-2022, 02:56 PM
I totally agree and let's face it, men don't get body shame, age shame and everything under the sun even close to what women endured.
I love being a feminine hoe. I love being made up but I do it for me. I don't owe any of that shit to men nor society.
I dislike it when men try to compare the pressure on them to look good vs the pressure women face (and I'm not talking about the industry just the pressure you get as a woman in this world). And I'm not saying there's no pressure for them at all, I'm sure there is, just not as much and also a different kind. Like yes you might be expected to go to the gym and keep your fat percent down, which also will make you get healthier and live a little longer. How many more years of life will make up, fake nails and styling my hair give me? I mean being in an industry where you can cash in on all that helps, because money is important for health (more than it should be imo), but in general... it's just unpaid work for most women. It can be fun yes, but shouldn't be a requirement, and so many men don't get the meaning of all this.
LoveyD
03-25-2022, 04:44 PM
My guy says he likes it when the girl he is dating dresses up in heels, dresses, etc. I will only dress up that way if it is somehow beneficial to me. Ugg boots, sneakers, and flip flops for this girl lol Hope he's ready to provide shoes, leggings, dresses etc.
carmen_b
03-25-2022, 05:51 PM
^ He can buy them for you if he likes them. :)
Aurora_Sunset
03-26-2022, 08:31 AM
My libido has been unnaturally high this week, but my husband has been unnaturally idiotic about being a pain in the ass when I try to bring up the unequal labor in our housework. So, guess who has not benefitted from me being horny? I go to the bathroom and take care of myself instead.
moneybags
03-26-2022, 08:44 AM
My guy says he likes it when the girl he is dating dresses up in heels, dresses, etc. I will only dress up that way if it is somehow beneficial to me. Ugg boots, sneakers, and flip flops for this girl lol Hope he's ready to provide shoes, leggings, dresses etc.
Yep shoppings date
carmen_b
03-26-2022, 10:01 AM
Aw ! :/
My libido has been unnaturally high this week, but my husband has been unnaturally idiotic about being a pain in the ass when I try to bring up the unequal labor in our housework. So, guess who has not benefitted from me being horny? I go to the bathroom and take care of myself instead.
carmen_b
03-26-2022, 12:11 PM
^ I think it's ok to hint for what you'd like ( I mean ..... think of it like we do ... hint at a date night or something ) but being overly demanding ..... no thanks.
carmen_b
03-26-2022, 12:12 PM
Men ....
experts at talking themselves out of a great time lol
Marina Starr
03-27-2022, 08:54 AM
I didn't get the impression from what Lovey posted on what her crush EXPECTED of her to wear. Of course it would be toxic if how he treats her is base on how she chooses to dress.
I know my man would appreciate it if I told him he looks so handsome with longer hair, I find it so sexy when he's free balling. I'll express what I like that would come across as what he'd look best in but ultimately he's a grown ass man so he gets to decide how he wants to dress. I would love for my man to tell me I look so beautiful when I rock pink lipsticks but if red is what I feel then I will wear red. Men will respect you more when you can hold your own.
I'm calling this out, nothing against you, but this guy knows of your situation, you're together with him, & he's saying that?
Coming across entitled to me, sorry.
Men can help us, but some'd rather use us for free, then demand shit.
You deserve much better, my spidey sense is tingling here.
Anyway, good luck, best, don't take this wrong!
carmen_b
03-27-2022, 08:57 AM
^ I just find it annoying if a guy is " needy " in any way like enjoying a fetish item and they don't SHOW UP with the item.....
My dude likes lingerie ect. and he orders them . :)
carmen_b
03-27-2022, 08:59 AM
Onto to the talking themselves out of a great time ha.
I'm so glad my dude my dude listened to me yesterday.
He said something about wanting sexy times early in the day ( referencing later not at the time ) and I found it very annoying.
I told him that I was finding any commenting off putting and I didn't mean to offend but that *physical* seduction type techniques *at the time* would probably work much better.
He suggested a bath together in the evening and gave a million cuddles during it and THAT definitely worked.
I'm glad he listened.
Sometimes you really need to spell things out for men.
WendiStarr
03-28-2022, 09:13 AM
Men who diss stay at home moms, saying that it must be nice that we get to do nothing all day. Raising kids, endless cleaning and cooking and other mundane household chores that just magically gets done like grocery shopping or laundry is far from "doing nothing all day". I swear being a mom is the most unappreciated, thankless job ever. We don't get paid vacations, sick days, or benefits. Trying to do OF,cam, and work the remote vanilla job is tough too because I have to do that during naptime or bedtime. Trying to find time in there to shower or put on makeup, forget it! I can't even piss or shit alone. Next lifetime I want to be a selfish, lazy ass entitled dad.
Marina Starr
03-28-2022, 09:55 AM
Wendi, I find it so wonderful that you always put your children first.
It's not just men that think we do nothing if we're working from home. And God forbids if they knew we selling virtual pussy right from home. People assumed working from home meaning swinging from chandelier to chandelier, lazy and unmotivated and doing nothing.
Countless time we have people making plans at the last minutes and expecting us to drop everything to accommodate them or show up unannounced. Not respecting our time and boundaries but we'll find out real think we don't fuck around or tolerate bullshit.
Men who diss stay at home moms, saying that it must be nice that we get to do nothing all day. Raising kids, endless cleaning and cooking and other mundane household chores that just magically gets done like grocery shopping or laundry is far from "doing nothing all day". I swear being a mom is the most unappreciated, thankless job ever. We don't get paid vacations, sick days, or benefits. Trying to do OF,cam, and work the remote vanilla job is tough too because I have to do that during naptime or bedtime. Trying to find time in there to shower or put on makeup, forget it! I can't even piss or shit alone. Next lifetime I want to be a selfish, lazy ass entitled dad.
miss.a.p1600
03-28-2022, 09:57 AM
^Exactly! My dude bitches about how I have so much 'me time' at the house during the day.
I'm like "look here! I'm a working at this house and not just sitting around watching soap operas and eating bon bons all day.....I'm obligated to clients and I do twice as much housework as you So that doesn't count."
When he told me I should meditate and do self care during my work hours, because in his mind I just have endless solo time during the day, I saw him resting/meditating here about 6pm and I told him he should have meditated during the day on his lunch break lol!
Sometimes these men are dumb as hell - because if the woman just up and left them with the kids (or god forbid ... died)......Their stupid asses would go broke trying to hire out our endless homemaking tasks or be out here chasing ass like desperate fools to find someone to help them raise those kids and keep up the house.
It's not just stay at home moms/wives they complain about its work from home moms/wives too......
You literally cannot be 'at home' and they expect you to be out in the trenches grinding it out like them
They are just not being masculine and acting like jealous b*tches
whirlerz
03-28-2022, 01:08 PM
I didn't get the impression from what Lovey posted on what her crush EXPECTED of her to wear. Of course it would be toxic if how he treats her is base on how she chooses to dress.
I know my man would appreciate it if I told him he looks so handsome with longer hair, I find it so sexy when he's free balling. I'll express what I like that would come across as what he'd look best in but ultimately he's a grown ass man so he gets to decide how he wants to dress. I would love for my man to tell me I look so beautiful when I rock pink lipsticks but if red is what I feel then I will wear red. Men will respect you more when you can hold your own.
Well, awesome.^
I deleted my posts regarding this, so..
Thank you.
Have a great day.
LoveyD
03-28-2022, 04:50 PM
I didn't get the impression from what Lovey posted on what her crush EXPECTED of her to wear. Of course it would be toxic if how he treats her is base on how she chooses to dress.
I know my man would appreciate it if I told him he looks so handsome with longer hair, I find it so sexy when he's free balling. I'll express what I like that would come across as what he'd look best in but ultimately he's a grown ass man so he gets to decide how he wants to dress. I would love for my man to tell me I look so beautiful when I rock pink lipsticks but if red is what I feel then I will wear red. Men will respect you more when you can hold your own.
He isn't being a control freak at all. He also loves when I wear leggings. It drives him nuts! He was just hinting that he loves when I dress up. He's seen me dressed up when going on acting gigs and he likes it. I can wear my denim shorts and he'd love that, too. And he also likes it when I'm naked haha
Marina Starr
03-28-2022, 05:04 PM
You didn't have to take it down. You were voicing your concerns.
I never delete my posts because I believe in open discussion and being called out on my shit when it's called for.
Well, awesome.^
I deleted my posts regarding this, so..
Thank you.
Have a great day.
miss.a.p1600
03-29-2022, 07:02 AM
Some of these men are some of the biggest cunts and hypocrites.
They stay hassling women of working in adult careers yet if the tables were turned 9 out of 10 of them would be sexworkers.
They get so mad about women doing it but they’re mad because THEY consider themselves smarter than women yet they can’t figure a way to capitalize off their sexuality. Jealous Idiots!
LoveyD
03-29-2022, 07:07 AM
Some of these men are some of the biggest cunts and hypocrites.
They stay hassling women of working in adult careers yet if the tables were turned 9 out of 10 of them would be sexworkers.
They get so mad about women doing it but they’re mad because THEY consider themselves smarter than women yet they can’t figure a way to capitalize off their sexuality. Jealous Idiots!
If they could do it, they would in a heartbeat. That's why they sell drugs!
Marina Starr
03-29-2022, 07:29 AM
They get upset and bitter because they know men can't sell sex like women do. That's always been the case and it's a fact.
They know better to not hassle me because they get the impression that I am not indoctrinated like a lot women do to feel bad about doing sex work. You know they would fuck and use us in a heartbeat. They result to insults and name calling when we reject them.
You can't hassle or shame a Hoe that is proud and own it.
Some of these men are some of the biggest cunts and hypocrites.
They stay hassling women of working in adult careers yet if the tables were turned 9 out of 10 of them would be sexworkers.
They get so mad about women doing it but they’re mad because THEY consider themselves smarter than women yet they can’t figure a way to capitalize off their sexuality. Jealous Idiots!
Aurora_Sunset
03-29-2022, 08:59 AM
Some of these men are some of the biggest cunts and hypocrites.
They stay hassling women of working in adult careers yet if the tables were turned 9 out of 10 of them would be sexworkers.
They get so mad about women doing it but they’re mad because THEY consider themselves smarter than women yet they can’t figure a way to capitalize off their sexuality. Jealous Idiots!
The thing is, if they were willing, I'm betting there is a plenty big enough market for men to sell their sexuality to other men who are attracted to men. Most straight men just would never consider it. They think sex work is "so easy" for us, based off this assumption that, on some level, we are attracted to or at least "like" the sexual attention of our male clientele because of course, we're attracted to men. But they aren't, so it would be "too hard" for them to be sexualized by men that they aren't attracted to.... The old, homophobic, "I don't care that they're gay, but what if they hit on ME" narrative. Never once considering that WE are not at all attracted to our customers/clients sexually, and don't particularly enjoy being sexualized by them or selling our sexuality to them either, we just do it for the money.
They could do sex work. They're just not willing to do what we do. And not willing to admit to that either. I've had so many male friends in the past make statements like this. "If I was a chick, I would TOTALLY do sex work." And when I tell them, "You still could if you wanted to, for men," they instantly recoil. These are men who are usually also total slobs who don't take care of their bodies or hygiene. Yet, they think they would magically be hot enough to make real money in the adult industry if they had a female body. Because it's just "so easy" to be a "hot chick" lol
whirlerz
03-29-2022, 09:41 AM
Yes^!
The one exception to this was my former roomie, he did clips + Chaturbate for men..
I would have loved to share & get help from him, but he had too big a mouth..
miss.a.p1600
03-29-2022, 11:48 AM
The thing is, if they were willing, I'm betting there is a plenty big enough market for men to sell their sexuality to other men who are attracted to men. Most straight men just would never consider it. They think sex work is "so easy" for us, based off this assumption that, on some level, we are attracted to or at least "like" the sexual attention of our male clientele because of course, we're attracted to men. But they aren't, so it would be "too hard" for them to be sexualized by men that they aren't attracted to.... The old, homophobic, "I don't care that they're gay, but what if they hit on ME" narrative. Never once considering that WE are not at all attracted to our customers/clients sexually, and don't particularly enjoy being sexualized by them or selling our sexuality to them either, we just do it for the money.
They could do sex work. They're just not willing to do what we do. And not willing to admit to that either. I've had so many male friends in the past make statements like this. "If I was a chick, I would TOTALLY do sex work." And when I tell them, "You still could if you wanted to, for men," they instantly recoil. These are men who are usually also total slobs who don't take care of their bodies or hygiene. Yet, they think they would magically be hot enough to make real money in the adult industry if they had a female body. Because it's just "so easy" to be a "hot chick" lol
The straight men would totally do that shit too.
They’d be the ones selling feet clips and staying in ignorant bliss that men will be jacking off to their images n paying their bills
whirlerz
03-29-2022, 05:35 PM
Nah, most are too egotistical for that^!
Fuck this crush guy, he's Bitching for me to not throw out a bucket of dirty water?
He used it to unclog sink he said, & I'd asked him about it, while mentioning I wanted him to fix stuff in my room (landlord okd it).
I seriously thought someone pissed in it, he has like 4 of those buckets floating around Lmao.
One is used for a small garbage can in their bathroom.
I honestly DGAF if he fixes the shit or not, I also have a lamp for him to fix, but fuck it, I'll wait, I already ordered a lamp from Walmart.
Don't feel like dealing w/his tired ass.
Marina Starr
03-30-2022, 09:15 AM
Reflecting on homophobic men: I believe some are just straight up homophobic but a lot of them are either on the downlow or have homosexual tendencies.
It's always the ones that make a lot of noise. They also hate to be sexualized, objectified and be treated the way they treat women by other dudes.
Real straight men who are truly secure with their sexuality and masculinity have no problems saying 'no thanks', flattered or laugh it off when being hit on by other dudes.
I also find homophobic men problematic because that tells me they are not well evolved or adjusted. Men like these are most likely not just homophobic. They're also misogynists, narcissists, racists etc. These are all red flags to me.
miss.a.p1600
03-30-2022, 07:17 PM
I hate when men act like weak bitches.
Can’t kill insects because they’re low key scared
Can’t fix stuff around the house if their life depended on it
Haven’t got a clue what chivalry is if it smacked them in the face
Can’t provide their way out of a paper bag
Parents failing to raise males properly
neverendingkneebruises
03-31-2022, 04:01 AM
On that note it seriously ticks me off when people think that gay/bisexual men "can't" be homophobic or woman hating because of their sexuality. In fact in some cases I'd say it makes their hatred of women & other gay men even more obvious because they get bold.
Marina Starr
03-31-2022, 06:36 AM
I've always known that a lot of gay/bi men can be extremely homophobic to other gay men. So that makes them worse than non-gay homophobes.
That's a lot of internalized self-hate to carry.
They can be some of the worse misogynists. I let them know just because they're gay doesn't give them a free pass. Actually it's expected much better of them.
On that note it seriously ticks me off when people think that gay/bisexual men "can't" be homophobic or woman hating because of their sexuality. In fact in some cases I'd say it makes their hatred of women & other gay men even more obvious because they get bold.
miss.a.p1600
03-31-2022, 07:57 AM
I hate when men act extra clingy and extra dependent like they can’t survive without you.
Look mf. I am not your mom.
Stop acting like a needy little bitch and go do some masculine activities!
WendiStarr
03-31-2022, 04:25 PM
I think BD did something in the basement. It smells like unwashed ass. I had to go to the basement for a Zoom meeting for a project and had a hard time concentrating because I was bothered by that stink. I was trying to figure out where that foul stench was coming from. I was expecting Assy McGee to pop out of the other room or something. I knew it couldn't be me because I showered today but it had me wondering. It's more than likely his office chair because the stink seems to be coming from that general area. That thing is leather and I've tried leather cleaner, diluted dish soap and water, lemon juice, Febreze, and perfume. That shit still smells like ass and is stinking up the basement. How do men stink up stuff and not notice or care?