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whirlerz
04-11-2022, 06:22 AM
So..
I asked roomie, (who I saw put a box spring out by the trash), to please take it up front, where our trash gets picked up..
He's all, "Oh, didn't know it gets picked up" ::) or some shit.

I went & had to awkwardly roll it up front, no damn way his lazy ass's doing it..heavy too

His damn gf starts running a huuuge blender (Loud AF) @ 5am this morning?? I yelled out, "trying to SLEEP"! She just turned & looked at me, I shut my door, was so upset I fell..
}:D
Try it again, early, & guess what, the electrical box is in my room so..

moneybags
04-11-2022, 09:30 AM
Men in the Midwest can be so gross. They don't catcall but instead ask stupid questions to try to grip some sex. No wonder the birth rate is plummeting in most of the United States, American women don't really want to contribute their genes to most of the gene pools available to them. Guuuuuhhhh....

I concur Midwest sexism is a special kind of sexism.

carmen_b
04-11-2022, 10:13 AM
Sex workers can smell negative treatment miles away.
NEXT NEXT NEXT .


It's hilarious and pathetic at the same time how fuckboys of all ages in real life think they can hustle and pull one over me. They REALLY have no idea who they're fucking with. What's even more sad is me watching them taking and using vanilla hoes for fools while hanging onto their every word.

I have countless times told fuckboys to fuck off and get the fuck out of my face and still do when I feel like it. What really baffles me is they keep coming back for more. It's so fucking twisted but I'd be lying if this wasn't true.
I've came to the conclusion that it's my confidence, bitchiness and the alpha bitch air I emit.
And of course, being WHOREGEOUS allows me to ruthlessly abuse them and they obviously like it!

Marina Starr
04-11-2022, 10:51 AM
Sex workers can smell negative treatment miles away.
NEXT NEXT NEXT .

https://i.ibb.co/7yMqy08/yas.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

WendiStarr
04-11-2022, 11:35 AM
Male strangers and their gross, obnoxious comments like,"Damn girl, look at those titties! I'd fuck the shit out of you!" Since when does that ever work to attract any woman? Why do they bother saying it out loud? It's such a turn off. I always thought it was a downriver, southeast Michigan thing but apparently they're still like that an hour north too.

carmen_b
04-11-2022, 11:46 AM
^ I must have a " don't fuck with me " face when I'm not in the club.
Men so RARELY even attempt anything like hahaha.
Watch now that I say that I'll be back myself with a cat call story.

TheBrownFox
04-11-2022, 04:48 PM
Yikes. Some guy on FB private messaged me with "What I do?" I said "Huh? I don't know you." He said he saw me on one of the dating apps, and he realized he's unable to message me on there. *Eye roll* I told him I'm not interested, and that I find it weird that he proceeded to look me up on Facebook. He said "Yeah, I can see how that would put you off. Have a blessed day." Then he went and UNSENT all of his messages.

Marina Starr
04-14-2022, 09:34 AM
I was trying to walk from Starbucks to my car this morning. I got more than enough time and space to do it but some asshole in his car decided to press on his gas pedal to block me from doing so.

I just don't get a lot of low value men's hostility, fragile ego and lack of decency. I miss the good old days when men take pride in being gentlemen.

emkato
04-15-2022, 10:06 AM
Been dealing with this a lot lately when I cam. Another guy who seemed nice enough comes in, and told me he just wants to enjoy some good conversation. great! I tell him to please tip in free chat to talk or take me exclusive to pay for my time.

he leaves. shocker.

I. DO. NOT. OWE. MEN. MY. TIME. FOR. FREE.

Just because you want to "just chat" and don't want me to fuck myself doesn't mean you're not still taking up my valuable time! damn its like wtf? do these guys routinely go up to pretty girls in public and say "I just want good conversation" but don't even offer to pay for drinks or dinner? (oh wait, THEY DO lol)

why do men feel women are entitled to talk to them just for existing? you're on a PAID CAM SITE DUDE, I'm not gonna entertain you for free just because you are nice. FOH.

miss.a.p1600
04-15-2022, 01:29 PM
I hate the type of men they try to come up by riding the backs of women.

Like are you even a man at that point?

WendiStarr
04-15-2022, 03:45 PM
I figured I'd try to get back into a side business I had of fixing computers. Of course I attracted one creep who apparently googled me, found my vanilla LinkedIn profile that has my face picture on it, who said that I was pretty cute and wanted to know if I can do "anything else" with quotation marks around it like I just typed. My sex worker radar is assuming that by "anything else", he's talking about sexual activities. Ugh. Keep in mind, I look pretty plain Jane and geeky/four-eyed in my vanilla life, at least to myself.

LoveyD
04-16-2022, 08:07 AM
Dammit you can't even have a brief, polite conversation without some man in heat asking you to meet up "after work."

Yesterday another man tried to strike up a Convo again while I was waiting to pick up a GrubHub order. I just grunted at him and sat somewhere else. I swear...

whirlerz
04-16-2022, 09:20 AM
Been dealing with this a lot lately when I cam. Another guy who seemed nice enough comes in, and told me he just wants to enjoy some good conversation. great! I tell him to please tip in free chat to talk or take me exclusive to pay for my time.

he leaves. shocker.

I. DO. NOT. OWE. MEN. MY. TIME. FOR. FREE.

Just because you want to "just chat" and don't want me to fuck myself doesn't mean you're not still taking up my valuable time! damn its like wtf? do these guys routinely go up to pretty girls in public and say "I just want good conversation" but don't even offer to pay for drinks or dinner? (oh wait, THEY DO lol)

why do men feel women are entitled to talk to them just for existing? you're on a PAID CAM SITE DUDE, I'm not gonna entertain you for free just because you are nice. FOH.

THIS, all day long!
I usually put on room topic I expect tips/& or shows

Marina Starr
04-16-2022, 09:57 AM
Not even a conversation, when strange men say "good morning' "how are you?', that usually means 'do you want some dick?'.

You were very lucky he gave you a lot of his time.
Does that make you feel special?


Dammit you can't even have a brief, polite conversation without some man in heat asking you to meet up "after work."

Yesterday another man tried to strike up a Convo again while I was waiting to pick up a GrubHub order. I just grunted at him and sat somewhere else. I swear...

miss.a.p1600
04-16-2022, 10:47 AM
I hate men who think their mediocre dick is 10 out of 10

miss.a.p1600
04-17-2022, 11:19 AM
I hate when men say the stupidest shit then look dumbfounded when they end up sexless and single

charlie61
04-17-2022, 05:42 PM
Not even a conversation, when strange men say "good morning' "how are you?', that usually means 'do you want some dick?'.

You were very lucky he gave you a lot of his time.
Does that make you feel special?

To anyone who may be concerned about this post, i think it's clear that Marina was being funny / sarcastic here. Like, if a man is nice to you for a moment, he's going above and beyond (deserves a medal for it) or is just trying to get into your pants.

Marina Starr
04-17-2022, 06:49 PM
To anyone who may be concerned about this post, i think it's clear that Marina was being funny / sarcastic here. Like, if a man is nice to you for a moment, he's going above and beyond (deserves a medal for it) or is just trying to get into your pants.

Unfortunately I've never had a man going above and beyond nor trying to get into my pants so I'll have to settle for some chiquita bananas.
They're the closest things I'll ever get to the real thing.

https://i.ibb.co/y0CnJW1/b4de1db689b4d8c3-800x800ar.jpg (https://imgbb.com/)

Dreamqueen
04-17-2022, 09:24 PM
Not even a conversation, when strange men say "good morning' "how are you?', that usually means 'do you want some dick?'.



I remember when Chris Rock mentioned this in his stand up routine.
It has always stuck with me.
Lol So accurate.

Aurora_Sunset
04-18-2022, 08:45 AM
I convinced my husband to call off work last night to go out with me, because I don't think we've been out since New Year's Eve. This old dude sitting a few seats down from us started talking to us and telling us a few jokes. It was fine for a little bit, because he would occasionally leave us alone to go back to talking amongst ourselves. But he eventually got drunk, came closer, and just wouldn't shut up and go away. What was supposed to be a night of being able to reconnect and talk to my husband in a way that we haven't gotten in awhile turned into us entertaining this old fuck.

I'm not only annoyed at him, but at my husband for continuing to encourage it. I reached a point where I was very clearly looking at my phone and texting friends, not smiling, not conversing anymore.... And he wouldn't pick up on the fact that I was annoyed and either wanted HIM to leave or for us to leave and go somewhere else. I tried to tell him later, after we got home, that I was annoyed. Especially since we had been right in the middle of a somewhat serious conversation about the future and finances when old dude interrupted us and wouldn't leave. My husband was like, "Yeeeah, but you know, he was obviously lonely, and we probably made his night." Well, I'm so glad you care more about this random old man's needs than mine...

Marina Starr
04-18-2022, 01:36 PM
Beyond accurate, lol!


I remember when Chris Rock mentioned this in his stand up routine.
It has always stuck with me.
Lol So accurate.

Marina Starr
04-18-2022, 01:47 PM
I was at Walmart this morning, every aisle I was in, this white in asshole looked to be in his 60+, kept walking close behind me. He kept inching closer and closer. He gave me such creepy vibes, I was beyond uncomfortable so I told his ass he needs to stop being creepy and get the fuck out of my personal space immediately. He vamoosed.

I swear the older they get, they think they can be real bold and slick because they've had lots practice. I'm sure he does that to vanilla hoes too and they will uncomfortably tolerate it. I really feel for them or there are some that shop at Walmart for Walmart Rollback Dick?!

This is another perfect example of what I mean when I said being heckled by men.

miss.a.p1600
04-18-2022, 02:33 PM
^I hate when people inch closer and closer to you in line.

ESP when men do it.

Like look here mf! Back tf up!!!

Hell.

No one wants some dusty stranger standing so close they’re breathing down your neck

Marina Starr
04-18-2022, 02:37 PM
It's bad but it's worse when they're sexually charged.

Oh the joy I feel when his pathetic ass disappeared, lol!


^I hate when people inch closer and closer to you in line.

ESP when men do it.

Like look here mf! Back tf up!!!

Hell.

No one wants some dusty stranger standing so close they’re breathing down your neck

~Carmen~
04-18-2022, 05:02 PM
It's bad but it's worse when they're sexually charged.

Oh the joy I feel when his pathetic ass disappeared, lol!

What do you do when you have a cart full and a man comes up behind you with one or two items? Do you let them go first? I did and I was thanked profusely. LOL!!

Marina Starr
04-19-2022, 04:46 AM
That depends on a lot of things but I will always graciously let the elders go first if they only have a few items.

Now when it comes to fuckboys I'll make them wait. Millennial or gen Z hoes will have to wait a lot longer if I spot any name calling and insults that they like to direct them at me such as 'that's a man!' when I know damn well they know what Trans is.

To answer your question it is all depends on them. If they're respectful then we'll get along just fine.




What do you do when you have a cart full and a man comes up behind you with one or two items? Do you let them go first? I did and I was thanked profusely. LOL!!

whirlerz
04-19-2022, 05:21 AM
I was at Walmart this morning, every aisle I was in, this white in asshole looked to be in his 60+, kept walking close behind me. He kept inching closer and closer. He gave me such creepy vibes, I was beyond uncomfortable so I told his ass he needs to stop being creepy and get the fuck out of my personal space immediately. He vamoosed.

I swear the older they get, they think they can be real bold and slick because they've had lots practice. I'm sure he does that to vanilla hoes too and they will uncomfortably tolerate it. I really feel for them or there are some that shop at Walmart for Walmart Rollback Dick?!

This is another perfect example of what I mean when I said being heckled by men.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:^

whirlerz
04-19-2022, 07:33 AM
Ugh.
This (abusive) guy upstairs is screaming @his gf, I can hear thru the window but not what he's saying..
He comes home every day at this time for lunch, & then goes back to work

She told me (awhile bk, she's not 'allowed to talk to anyone) she has a stomach tumor.

~Carmen~
04-19-2022, 01:07 PM
That depends on a lot of things but I will always graciously let the elders go first if they only have a few items.

Now when it comes to fuckboys I'll make them wait. Millennial or gen Z hoes will have to wait a lot longer if I spot any name calling and insults that they like to direct them at me such as 'that's a man!' when I know damn well they know what Trans is.

To answer your question it is all depends on them. If they're respectful then we'll get along just fine.

At first he told me to go ahead so he was polite.

Rude, entitled people can wait.

Like you, I always let Elders always go first, even if they have cartful and I only have a few things.

Marina Starr
04-19-2022, 02:27 PM
That's right, sis! Entitled, attitudes will have to wait. We behave and act accordingly!

Type in the codes for each purchase at self-chekout instead of scanning, lmao!


At first he told me to go ahead so he was polite.

Rude, entitled people can wait.

Like you, I always let Elders always go first, even if they have cartful and I only have a few things.

~Carmen~
04-19-2022, 02:49 PM
That's right, sis! Entitled, attitudes will have to wait. We behave and act accordingly!

Type in the codes for each purchase at self-chekout instead of scanning, lmao!

Type in the wrong codes so you have to wait for assistance.;D

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 10:42 AM
Went to The Hoe Depot because I needed to and my God, I've never dealt with so many useless men in one store. I felt so out of place like some I'm kind of meat.

miss.a.p1600
04-20-2022, 10:52 AM
It’s like you expect them to know something about manly tasks especially since they worked there.

Like how tf you get hired to work here and you don’t have a clue how to find things or have basic understanding of home improvements.

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 10:57 AM
I only asked for what I needed and if they could show me where it is. I kept getting pass on from one dude to another being asked the same fucking question.
They're too busy checking me out so they didn't comprehend what I was asking.


It’s like you expect them to know something about manly tasks especially since they worked there.

Like how tf you get hired to work here and you don’t have a clue how to find things or have basic understanding of home improvements.

Aurora_Sunset
04-20-2022, 12:25 PM
I asked my husband to merely SHOW me how to get to the dishwasher filter so I could clean it. He's the one who's been whining lately about how the dishes aren't getting clean enough for his standards. Well, turns out, the cover for the filter is bolted down in this model. I was like, "Ok, so remove it. I'm not the one who owns the tools around here." He whined some more about how he didn't want to get up and get his tools. So I put the rack back in, shut the dishwasher, and said, "Fine. Then stop complaining about it not getting the dishes clean enough." I was gonna do the actual dirty work. All he had to do was get the damn thing out of there.

carmen_b
04-20-2022, 12:29 PM
J got himself here in this thread yesterday ! Lol.

I am really not sure what to think.
We had this EPIC two days of vacation .
Well ..... after it we come back tired as hell.
I am not sure who is right here but when he suggested I take an hour to watch his daughter at 4 p.m. after I'm DYING to get to my email after ignoring my customers for 48 hours .......... I declined the idea.

Cue to him pouting by day and then when we finally have time together at 9p.m. trying to get into a " you don't do enough " spiel .

Um ..... excuse me?
I literally just gave you two days STRAIGHT and didn't even have an hour to myself to do my email on either day ( Sun. or Mon. ) !
I'm not sure what to do with him haha but the convo isn't done. I *also* was out much later than is comfy to my body . I didn't want to look weird getting my own Uber back at 11p.m. cutting 45 minutes off a concert.

Luckily we caught ourselves circling in talk going nowhere and tabled it.
I reminded him that I set aside 2:30 - 7:30 today for them also.

I'll probably delete this.
PSA dudes ..... when your chick is like " No, sorry I'm too tired " just take that as a final answer.

carmen_b
04-20-2022, 12:59 PM
^ The next time he wants to stay out late I'll announce I plan to Uber back at 9p.m. since he has a habit of being needy the following day !

He doesn't actually have a " habit " but once is enough on this topic.

Edit : Omg it's been like 21 hours later. I'm still SO mad ! I don't have unlimited energy wtf .
He really hurt my feeling pestering me when I was tired and I hope he enjoys hearing a lot about how fucked up that was !

UPDATE : Eh ..... I've sort of forgiven him I guess.
I really haven't seen him much in the last three days.

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 01:19 PM
You can tell a lot about a man judging by how he drives...
Big ego = insecure: checked

Hostile: checked.

Not a gentleman: checked.

moneybags
04-21-2022, 08:03 PM
^ The next time he wants to stay out late I'll announce I plan to Uber back at 9p.m. since he has a habit of being needy the following day !

He doesn't actually have a " habit " but once is enough on this topic.

Edit : Omg it's been like 21 hours later. I'm still SO mad ! I don't have unlimited energy wtf .
He really hurt my feeling pestering me when I was tired and I hope he enjoys hearing a lot about how fucked up that was !!

Ugh. Needy men. I can’t stand anyone who is needy. Go entertain yourself for a bit. This is why I’m actually grateful my crush and I didn’t date cause he seems like the needy codependent type-I can’t. Not saying your dude is codependent, but I can’t with the anxious attachment style. The guilt trip would PISS me off. Be angry and pissy all you want, but it’s not my responsibility to fix your feelings. Gosh men really should go to therapy, but they constantly on relying for women for emotional support.

miss.a.p1600
04-22-2022, 04:51 AM
Dudes be getting offended like hell if you decline any request dealing with their kids.

Like just let ME offer if/when I have the resources.

Don’t ask.

Because 9 times out of 10 they’ll ask for a favor at the worst times and they won’t include any compensation so the request will be instantly declined. They erroneously assume we love their kids so much we will self sacrifice for an unpaid thankless job.

No thanks!

I’d rather watch paint dry while you hire help if you can’t get it done.

I personally don’t think you did anything wrong. He was wrong to ask a favor knowing he should have done it himself or figured out how to do it without involving you since you’re just as busy as he is.

Marina Starr
04-23-2022, 12:10 PM
Vanilla told me there are a lot of hot men at Starbucks. I'm there everyday but I don't recall ever seeing any hot men.

I must have been going to the wrong Starbucks at the wrong time.

carmen_b
04-23-2022, 12:44 PM
I've barely seen him that last couple days so I really don't want to start with the " remember that incident 5 days ago " talk haha so I'm kind of letting it slide.
At some point though I will remind him my energy resources have limits ( and the limits are not going to change by people " needing " something ).
The next time he suggests we stay out late I'll probably reference it .
He probably won't ask anytime soon though I imagine.

I actually have special needs when it comes to this stuff anyway. My health issues only allow a single ( small ) cup of coffee per day and that is *with* medicine attached to having it . I can't have an extra cup of coffee or do anything else stimulant wise . I think he forgets that sometimes and I reminded him of that.


Ugh. Needy men. I can’t stand anyone who is needy. Go entertain yourself for a bit. This is why I’m actually grateful my crush and I didn’t date cause he seems like the needy codependent type-I can’t. Not saying your dude is codependent, but I can’t with the anxious attachment style. The guilt trip would PISS me off. Be angry and pissy all you want, but it’s not my responsibility to fix your feelings. Gosh men really should go to therapy, but they constantly on relying for women for emotional support.

carmen_b
04-23-2022, 12:51 PM
I really don't mind him asking even though I will say after an exhausting two days with a drive back is a weird day to need a work out.
Sometimes I can offer that time ( it does disrupt my work day since I work until 5 and he likes to work out at 4 ).
Some days it's ok but it wasn't last Tuesday . We almost got into it but we did catch ourselves which is great ( v.s. letting ourselves get into a declining conversation ). We disagreed about something too. I suggested his daughter bike while he runs ( since that is the same pace ) .

I might delete the bitching haha that I've done here. :/



I personally don’t think you did anything wrong. He was wrong to ask a favor knowing he should have done it himself or figured out how to do it without involving you since you’re just as busy as he is.

moneybags
04-23-2022, 07:27 PM
^^^Same. We just need to be heard sometimes.

miss.a.p1600
04-23-2022, 08:43 PM
I hate when you introduce men to an efficient economical way of doing something and their asses will keep doing it inefficiently.

Then later in the future, come to their sense, do it the way you suggested but take all the credit like it was their idea in the first place.

Marina Starr
04-24-2022, 04:10 PM
Assholes don't bother me much as assholes who try to disguise themselves as "nice" guys.

I truly feel bad for vanilla hoes that fall for that.

WendiStarr
04-24-2022, 07:19 PM
Douchecanoe(my oldest daughter's dad). She has to visit with him since it's court ordered. She said that he just stayed in his room the whole time and was mean and cussed at her when she knocked on the door to tell him that she was hungry. She said that all that was in his fridge was alcohol, a piece of cheese, and broccoli. Wtf?! I'm wondering if I can have the court stop sending her there. They probably wouldn't do shit though because he's one of those spoiled trust fund only child types who comes from a wealthy family. They were able to help him get some custody rights despite him being physically and verbally abusive to me. Money talks and shit walks. She told me today that it's always like that. I already knew something is wrong with him. He voluntarily gave up an $81k salary last year because he refused to get a covid vaccine. His parents must be financially supporting him again. They have to be in their 80s though by now. I think once they pass, he will get the heck out of our lives since it's his mom who wants to see my oldest, not him.

whirlerz
04-24-2022, 10:07 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry Wendi, that's horrible! I hope you can find a way to work around that

carmen_b
04-25-2022, 08:55 AM
^ He can't order some door dash with his parents money ? What a fucking turd !! Idiot !

AChildOfBoredom
04-25-2022, 08:57 PM
Dudes that stalk you as you’re driving. Ended up with this dickhead who pulled up beside me, then slowed down and hung out right at the rear corner of my car. He’d keep matching my speed. If I sped up, he sped up. If I slowed down, he slowed down. Someone slower showed up in his lane, so I used that opportunity to get to the right, so he kept doing the same thing, except to the left of me. I waited until the last second to hit my exit and he blew past it. Wish I’d been in my pickup, so I could’ve coal rolled his stupid ass.