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miss.a.p1600
04-26-2022, 07:37 AM
I hate when men act like sugar babies and kept women.

Marina Starr
04-26-2022, 08:13 AM
YES! My therapist said it's also their fucked up way of flirting. It's no coincidence that they just happen to drive the same speed as you no matter what speed you drive.
You just know when it happened to you.

If I'm at the stop when it's safe and they're within distance I'll tell them to knock this shit off immediately and that pretty much settles it so that means they knew what the fuck they're doing.

As you've said in one of your posts that most women are not violent or would go as far as men would but not me. I would go as far as they wanna go and even further when it's called for.


Dudes that stalk you as you’re driving. Ended up with this dickhead who pulled up beside me, then slowed down and hung out right at the rear corner of my car. He’d keep matching my speed. If I sped up, he sped up. If I slowed down, he slowed down. Someone slower showed up in his lane, so I used that opportunity to get to the right, so he kept doing the same thing, except to the left of me. I waited until the last second to hit my exit and he blew past it. Wish I’d been in my pickup, so I could’ve coal rolled his stupid ass.

miss.a.p1600
04-26-2022, 08:33 AM
Sadly I’m ranting against my dude today.

He asks “should ‘we’ get the yard cut?”

Look here mf. If you’re asking me because you need help financially then I’m going to ignore you until you figure it out. Stop acting like you’re level 10 profoundly retarded. You owned a home before so you know exactly when this yard should be cut. If you see other men out in their yards then get your ass up and go tend to the yard.

Keep playing around and you will find yourself single and sexless.

AChildOfBoredom
04-26-2022, 10:19 AM
YES! My therapist said it's also their fucked up way of flirting. It's no coincidence that they just happen to drive the same speed as you no matter what speed you drive.
You just know when it happened to you.

If I'm at the stop when it's safe and they're within distance I'll tell them to knock this shit off immediately and that pretty much settles it so that means they knew what the fuck they're doing.

As you've said in one of your posts that most women are not violent or would go as far as men would but not me. I would go as far as they wanna go and even further when it's called for.

Strange way to expect to try winning favor with someone. In the Mustang, I’ve encountered dudes who want to try getting me to race (which I won’t do on the street) or sometimes they recognize me from car meets, because I go to those sometimes and a metallic purple New Edge Mustang does stand out a little, but I wasn’t driving that, either - I was in an Impala.

Situations like this, or switch around the specific details of it however, no matter how many times it happens, I still find it unbelievable how fucking entitled they feel to your time, attention, and acknowledgment and the level of stupid they will stoop to in order to try reinforcing that, not to mention what a bunch of fucking crybabies they turn into when they don’t get it, in spite of how tough they try to act. And people ask why I don’t get hung up on them.

whirlerz
04-26-2022, 11:50 AM
Sadly I’m ranting against my dude today.

He asks “should ‘we’ get the yard cut?”

Look here mf. If you’re asking me because you need help financially then I’m going to ignore you until you figure it out. Stop acting like you’re level 10 profoundly retarded. You owned a home before so you know exactly when this yard should be cut. If you see other men out in their yards then get your ass up and go tend to the yard.

Keep playing around and you will find yourself single and sexless.

When our LL took over the house from the former owner, he never.cut.the.lawn? OK maybe once?
When I asked him about it, he said " he didn't know he was supposed to do that"? ::)
"Cause former owner didn't tell him" ? &, he's a RE guy?, alrighty then! ::)

Marina Starr
04-26-2022, 12:37 PM
It's sad and pathetic that low value men think the best way to win favor with women is by harassing and heckling.


Strange way to expect to try winning favor with someone. In the Mustang, I’ve encountered dudes who want to try getting me to race (which I won’t do on the street) or sometimes they recognize me from car meets, because I go to those sometimes and a metallic purple New Edge Mustang does stand out a little, but I wasn’t driving that, either - I was in an Impala.

Situations like this, or switch around the specific details of it however, no matter how many times it happens, I still find it unbelievable how fucking entitled they feel to your time, attention, and acknowledgment and the level of stupid they will stoop to in order to try reinforcing that, not to mention what a bunch of fucking crybabies they turn into when they don’t get it, in spite of how tough they try to act. And people ask why I don’t get hung up on them.

miss.a.p1600
04-26-2022, 01:28 PM
When our LL took over the house from the former owner, he never.cut.the.lawn? OK maybe once?
When I asked him about it, he said " he didn't know he was supposed to do that"? ::)
"Cause former owner didn't tell him" ? &, he's a RE guy?, alrighty then! ::)

It’s called willful ignorance.

You see a man’s ugly mug next to the definition

Marina Starr
04-26-2022, 02:40 PM
I'm curious do you shake hand when strange men introduced themselves and extend their hands?

I was sitting at Starbucks enjoying my coffee and some strange dude introduced himself and wanted to shake my hand I said no.

whirlerz
04-26-2022, 04:11 PM
Nope.
Not during these times, masks or no.
I never really cared for shaking hands anyway.

whirlerz
04-26-2022, 04:25 PM
Also, kinda upset today, bout my guy upstairs..
Drove him to what I thought was a job site, he wanted to pick up his check but the guy wasn't there?
So we sat around there for a while, then back home.

He had/has phone issues, + he said they don't like to pay, unless they're sure the guy is coming back, he needs the check to get the car running to keep working so it's a round robin.

I'm over driving him, I hate fucking driving period, I don't like people in my car, my neck aches from my previous accident. I'm tired, I just had my 2nd booster shot today.

I had to wait in drive up line twice cause Popeye messed up my order. I gave him the sandwich I didn't want.

At this point, I just want to be alone.

Gave him the robe, we're done except I need my lamp back, waiting a bit on that, I got his heater & vacuum so when the time's right we're done.

miss.a.p1600
04-27-2022, 04:32 AM
I'm curious do you shake hand when strange men introduced themselves and extend their hands?

I was sitting at Starbucks enjoying my coffee and some strange dude introduced himself and wanted to shake my hand I said no.

Yes (if they are normal) but unless I see them freshly wash their filthy hands, I have no qualms about sanitizing immediately afterwards

There are some trifling women but on average, most men don’t wash their hands as often as women do.

If they seem strange then no.

miss.a.p1600
04-27-2022, 06:39 AM
I hate when men assume that because they’re in a relationship they can be themselves, bluntly demanding sex.

Look mf. This pussy has a cost and if you ain’t compensating me - your request will be ignored the same way cam trolls get blocked out of rooms and strip club customers get straight up ignored.

You gone learn today!!!

Marina Starr
04-27-2022, 07:51 AM
I generally don't like to shake hands but even more so with random strange men because I don't know where those hands have been. I also question why strange men would want to shake my hand when there are other people in the room. Intention is everything.


Yes (if they are normal) but unless I see them freshly wash their filthy hands, I have no qualms about sanitizing immediately afterwards

There are some trifling women but on average, most men don’t wash their hands as often as women do.

If they seem strange then no.

miss.a.p1600
04-27-2022, 08:15 AM
^gotta trust your instinct.

Which speaking of instinct. I got really creeped out by this “man” when I was in CVS yesterday.

Usually I spend about 20min scanning isles until I find what I want to buy.

As soon as I walked in some dusty old man asking me if I knew where xyz item was. I was thinking “bitch do I look like I work here?” But I informed him that I don’t work there and walked off to my desired isle.

Then no more than 1 minute later here he comes. Same isle right next to me and like “oh here is what I’m looking for”

So I had to instantly walk off before he tried to talk to me. Then rush to make my purchase before he tried to harass me or follow me to my car.

He gave me creepy “I’m a pedophile who locks pretty little kids and women in my basement” vibes

I’m done with men acting like creepazoids to the point I can’t enjoy be me and feeling safe in public.

whirlerz
04-27-2022, 09:17 AM
You could have informed the store, I did that when it happened to me, I insisted someone walk me out, they'd said they knew him, which Idgaf, if he's your best bud..

miss.a.p1600
04-27-2022, 11:45 AM
^good point. I’ll keep that in mind next time.

Only thing I could think is if this fucker tries to attack me in CVS this generation is so lost today they’ll probably sit there and livestream for likes and clout instead of calling 911 or doing anything to help

I had my mace on me but I still felt in danger and left immediately.

I was pissed too I only left out with $6 floss when I really wanted to shop around for cute nail polish.

Ugh! Stupid asshole!

miss.a.p1600
04-27-2022, 11:54 AM
I’m tired of men thinking the feminist movement absolves them from their role as a man.

Stop acting like weak bitches just because a woman can do just about everything a man can do.

carmen_b
04-27-2022, 02:00 PM
^ Just because a woman is successful doesn't mean she isn't *also* looking for him to be that way ! Haha.

carmen_b
04-27-2022, 02:02 PM
^ Ew your store thing reminds me of this.
I was trailed in a casino last week AND i was just on here like " my mean face wards this off " hahaha .
Dude tries to talk me up and I excuse myself ( my partner is around the corner in a concert line ).
No free convo here no thank you.
I am then trying to go play some slots. Guess who runs me out of that section of machines?
Dude ..... I mean ..... if I was working I'd tell ya the club but I'm off tonight. :/

Anyway .... glad to know you are " staying at this resort " .
Go away. Ew.

I think my mean face had taken a break because I had JUST FOUND a delicious item to eat and he must caught me at that moment lol.

neverendingkneebruises
04-27-2022, 06:33 PM
Men are making it really fucking difficult for me to enjoy my job right now. I love every facet of it except that they are progressively getting more stingy with their money & entitled to what they get for it. I get stripping isn't easy money but it shouldn't be hard either. Especially a well seasoned dancer in a good club. Funny thing is they complain that hot chicks aren't guaranteed in the club anymore but if they actually spent money and didn't try to haggle prices or have to be "convinced" to buy dances then there would be more hot women putting in effort who show up. Instead they leave for greener pastures/better opportunities that those clubs and customer base don't give them cuz why tf would you spend your hottest years dealing with those bozos. ::) My 2 cents fwiw.

carmen_b
04-27-2022, 06:50 PM
^ Hahaha. The cheap ones complaining " no one good looking is here enough ".
Duh !! haha

Aurora_Sunset
04-28-2022, 08:11 AM
This has really been bugging me, and I think I finally realized why.

On Easter, as the kids were finishing up hunting for eggs, I went to check the couch cushions to make sure the ones I had put on the couch hadn't fallen down somewhere and gotten lost. When I looked to the side of the couch, between the couch and the wall, I lost my shit. I told my husband to get off the couch and pull it to the side. There was SO MUCH SHIT between the couch and the wall. I'm not talking a few crumbs - I'm talking dirty plates, empty McDonald's fry boxes and wrappers, empty candy bags, and entire piles of lost food.

He completely acted like it was no big deal. When I got angry, he first tried this bullshit where he asked how did I know it's not MY mess too? I was like, "Because I don't fucking sit over here! This is YOUR spot!" I would also fucking NOTICE if I lost my entire plate or containers that I was eating out of. Are you serious? He proceeded to just laugh about it and watch me clean it all up, to the point that he had his son laughing too. I told him he was lucky we didn't have roach/pest problems where we live because this was fucking disgusting. He just kinda shrugged, said, 'yeah, you're right' and kept laughing like this was funny.

I know, on some level, he was probably laughing it off because he didn't want this to become a "fight" in front of the kids, especially in the middle of Easter morning... and I get that... But his reaction in front of the kids - especially his 10 y/o son who already has issues cleaning up his own messes - really pissed me off.

Congratulations, you just taught your son that if he gets called out on making an unacceptable mess that it's ok, as a man, to act like it's no big deal, try to gaslight the other person into thinking that maybe they did it, and then sit there and watch the woman clean up your shit while you laugh at how mad she is as a way of making it seem like her anger at the situation is an over-reaction and ridiculous.

That's how it starts. And that's how it perpetuates.

The same day, I came out to the kitchen later to find milk all over the floor. I asked who spilled it, and said they needed to come clean it up. 10 y/o's response was that it was him, but "Well, I cleaned it up the first time it happened but then it just kept happening." As though, if the milk spills a second time, it's not his responsibility to clean up his spill anymore because "he already did it once?" NO. My husband did make him get up and clean that, but, OBVIOUSLY, he already thinks he can just get away with walking away from things like that. Gee, I wonder why that is? In general, my husband's messiness really irks me when the kids are over, because he doesn't do any of the stuff that I'm trying to teach the kids to do - put their dishes in the kitchen instead of leaving them all over the living room, put their socks in their hampers instead of wherever on the floor where they happened to take them off, throw your trash away instead of just setting it down on the table/bookshelf and walking away, clean up the counter in the kitchen if you spill while getting something.... They'll never learn, because they see their dad doing all the shit that we tell them NOT to do.... I'm tired of it. I feel like I have to "raise" my husband before the kids can be raised correctly.

Marina Starr
04-28-2022, 08:28 AM
What's so fucked up is the majority of men are more decent to their homeboys, neighbors, Amazon prime delivery folks than they are to women they wanna fuck. What a twisted, immature and pathetic way of trying to win favor with women.

A lot of vanilla hoes in real life dislike me because they simply just can't stand me and I'm all for it. They talk trash about me, low value men that wanna fuck me would join in on the fun behind my back then have the audacity to say hi or holler when these hoes are not around. If they say hi, I don't say hi back. Asking how are you? I don't answer at all.
I know this bruised and crushed their egos and I'm here for all of it, every bit of it. Keep talking trash and fuck those hoes but get the fuck out of my face.

https://i.ibb.co/6bPf7JP/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

miss.a.p1600
04-28-2022, 10:07 AM
I hate how America acts like China when they cover up the reality that our American men (well a good portion of them 50-60%) are out here acting like privileged entitled predatory creeps similar to men in the strict parts of the Middle East.

whirlerz
04-28-2022, 01:30 PM
This has really been bugging me, and I think I finally realized why.

On Easter, as the kids were finishing up hunting for eggs, I went to check the couch cushions to make sure the ones I had put on the couch hadn't fallen down somewhere and gotten lost. When I looked to the side of the couch, between the couch and the wall, I lost my shit. I told my husband to get off the couch and pull it to the side. There was SO MUCH SHIT between the couch and the wall. I'm not talking a few crumbs - I'm talking dirty plates, empty McDonald's fry boxes and wrappers, empty candy bags, and entire piles of lost food.

He completely acted like it was no big deal. When I got angry, he first tried this bullshit where he asked how did I know it's not MY mess too? I was like, "Because I don't fucking sit over here! This is YOUR spot!" I would also fucking NOTICE if I lost my entire plate or containers that I was eating out of. Are you serious? He proceeded to just laugh about it and watch me clean it all up, to the point that he had his son laughing too. I told him he was lucky we didn't have roach/pest problems where we live because this was fucking disgusting. He just kinda shrugged, said, 'yeah, you're right' and kept laughing like this was funny.

I know, on some level, he was probably laughing it off because he didn't want this to become a "fight" in front of the kids, especially in the middle of Easter morning... and I get that... But his reaction in front of the kids - especially his 10 y/o son who already has issues cleaning up his own messes - really pissed me off.

Congratulations, you just taught your son that if he gets called out on making an unacceptable mess that it's ok, as a man, to act like it's no big deal, try to gaslight the other person into thinking that maybe they did it, and then sit there and watch the woman clean up your shit while you laugh at how mad she is as a way of making it seem like her anger at the situation is an over-reaction and ridiculous.

That's how it starts. And that's how it perpetuates.

The same day, I came out to the kitchen later to find milk all over the floor. I asked who spilled it, and said they needed to come clean it up. 10 y/o's response was that it was him, but "Well, I cleaned it up the first time it happened but then it just kept happening." As though, if the milk spills a second time, it's not his responsibility to clean up his spill anymore because "he already did it once?" NO. My husband did make him get up and clean that, but, OBVIOUSLY, he already thinks he can just get away with walking away from things like that. Gee, I wonder why that is? In general, my husband's messiness really irks me when the kids are over, because he doesn't do any of the stuff that I'm trying to teach the kids to do - put their dishes in the kitchen instead of leaving them all over the living room, put their socks in their hampers instead of wherever on the floor where they happened to take them off, throw your trash away instead of just setting it down on the table/bookshelf and walking away, clean up the counter in the kitchen if you spill while getting something.... They'll never learn, because they see their dad doing all the shit that we tell them NOT to do.... I'm tired of it. I feel like I have to "raise" my husband before the kids can be raised correctly.

I can so relate! ^
This's what I deal w/on a daily/weekly basis w/my
roomies, disgusting, we already have mice, I worry about roaches too, I have a giant roach gel thing I'm going to have to use in the kitchen at night when everyone's asleep..

The one couple leaves their dirty dishes out all the time, she cooks/cleans but not enough with the cleaning.

No one will bring up the dumpsters except me, we'd also have rats if it wasn't for me..
I just talked to one guy about it, he said he would, but seems like they just yes me & do whatever, which's leave their filth every where!
Had to drag a large box spring up to curb, when I specifically asked the jerk (w/the gf) to pls take it up, then he argued w/me that the mice won't get in it!

Yes, they're raised that way too his granny's bf cleaned up after him all the time, then foisted him over here

whirlerz
04-28-2022, 03:53 PM
So, this jerk roomie that moved out & is a mooch narcissist, called me today, which means he wants to get in touch w/guy upstairs, either call him yourself or come over after him so you can mooch off him some more, the guy doesn't even have a running car rn.
PIG.
BLOCKED.

miss.a.p1600
04-28-2022, 05:12 PM
Idk if I’m a cunt or what but I’m seriously pissed my partner refuses to do the yard or hire someone then had the audacity to try to take me on a date like I won’t see the yard as we pull out the driveway to go to the restaurant.

When I offered to take over the task he refuses.

Yesterday I flat out told him I’m losing my sexual attraction when the yard is not maintained.

Still no action from you in the yard, no action from me in the bedroom

Men have got to be the dumbest species on the planet.

whirlerz
04-29-2022, 06:11 AM
Idk if IÂ’m a cunt or what but IÂ’m seriously pissed my partner refuses to do the yard or hire someone then had the audacity to try to take me on a date like I wonÂ’t see the yard as we pull out the driveway to go to the restaurant.

When I offered to take over the task he refuses.

Yesterday I flat out told him IÂ’m losing my sexual attraction when the yard is not maintained.

Still no action from you in the yard, no action from me in the bedroom

Men have got to be the dumbest species on the planet.

I so feel you on the lawn..I'm on a wooded acre, in between 2 empty wooded lots, our LL had the lawn mowed exactly twice last year.

Now of course it's spring, & definitely a mow's in order, he was talking about buying a mower & having one of the idiots here now for $ off rent..like they won't even throw out the trash lol
Nor will he bother getting a mower anytime soon.. already the ants & other bugs, mice etc are out in force..the over grown grass doesn't help

WendiStarr
04-29-2022, 09:51 AM
My 2 year old is in the terrible two's tantrum phase. It's the age that they are doing major boundary testing. I made lunch for her and set it on the table. BD left a package of brownies on the counter and she of course noticed that. She decided she wanted brownies for lunch instead of the lunch I had made for her and threw a tantrum about it. I told her that she can eat brownies after she eats lunch. This made her shrieking protest even louder but I didn't give in. I sat down and ate my lunch and ignored her. BD came upstairs from the basement and asked me why she was crying. I told him why and to just ignore her and she'll eventually stop. He immediately gave her a brownie. -_- She had no interest in eating lunch then and asked for another brownie which he gave her. With all that sugar it's gonna be difficult to get her down for a nap.

moneybags
04-30-2022, 03:49 AM
I know you all feel me on this. This guy on stage says when are you going to retire? OMG. I don’t look my age at all. I have fitness competition next week and I look better now than ever! What a rude thing to say…to ANYONE! He only knew I worked there so long because he knew me when I first started. He was screaming it on stage and wouldn’t SHUT UP! It’s a weird backwards compliment because he said I was too good to retire? So if I shouldn’t retire, then why are you asking me?!?! Men are stupid.

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2022, 01:01 PM
I so feel you on the lawn..I'm on a wooded acre, in between 2 empty wooded lots, our LL had the lawn mowed exactly twice last year.

Now of course it's spring, & definitely a mow's in order, he was talking about buying a mower & having one of the idiots here now for $ off rent..like they won't even throw out the trash lol
Nor will he bother getting a mower anytime soon.. already the ants & other bugs, mice etc are out in force..the over grown grass doesn't help


I think my partner thought a similar 2 times a year is sufficient

Um yeah if you want overgrown weeds and a dead looking yard and a sexless/single life

Which brings me to my point of when men act lazy and erroneously think you accept their barely mediocre status quo.

Maybe your mom will accept it. (Because sadly that’s what she raised) I won’t.

No! #Iamnotyourmom #yougottadobetterthanthat #isthatallyougot

lurkingtitties
04-30-2022, 02:24 PM
I know you all feel me on this. This guy on stage says when are you going to retire? OMG. I don’t look my age at all. I have fitness competition next week and I look better now than ever! What a rude thing to say…to ANYONE! He only knew I worked there so long because he knew me when I first started. He was screaming it on stage and wouldn’t SHUT UP! It’s a weird backwards compliment because he said I was too good to retire? So if I shouldn’t retire, then why are you asking me?!?! Men are stupid.

LMAO you’re making him feel bad because he hasn’t aged well in the same time period!

miss.a.p1600
05-01-2022, 02:50 PM
I hate when men act like they are the prize, get really stubborn, insist on doing things their way (when their way is totally inefficient)

neverendingkneebruises
05-01-2022, 03:38 PM
This has really been bugging me, and I think I finally realized why.

.....

That's how it starts. And that's how it perpetuates.

...

So sorry you're having to deal with this :( My rule of thumb for pursuing any serious relationship has been, "If I reproduced with this man, would I want my son to turn out exactly the same as him?" (Because that usually happens, in one way or another) I get it's too late when you're already married, but I think the newer generation is starting to get it.


I hate when men act like they are the prize, get really stubborn, insist on doing things their way (when their way is totally inefficient)

Hahah this is my sister's baby daddy who puffs his chest & walks around his parents' house saying he's the "man of the house," pretty sure the "man of the house" actually pays bills & contributes to the family. Nothing to me screams "inadequate and overcompensating" more than that line. They want the titles of leader and head of household without any of the work or effort that makes those titles so respectful. No idea why they enable his massive ego, everyone outside of the family thinks he's a huge joke.

Aurora_Sunset
05-01-2022, 03:42 PM
My husband is on his last chance. Literally. And he knows it.

I told him he made me feel stupid for thinking he was different. And if he can't pull it together, go to therapy, and fix his shit, I'm going to have to tell everyone in my life that I was stupid. And if there's one thing in this world that I hate more than anything, it's people making me look stupid.

Don't make me look stupid.

lurkingtitties
05-01-2022, 05:18 PM
My husband is on his last chance. Literally. And he knows it.

I told him he made me feel stupid for thinking he was different. And if he can't pull it together, go to therapy, and fix his shit, I'm going to have to tell everyone in my life that I was stupid. And if there's one thing in this world that I hate more than anything, it's people making me look stupid.

Don't make me look stupid.

Aurora, I recently read a book called How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved. One of the categories of dangerous men is the Parental Seeker. After reading the book all your posts about your husband have been setting off my alarm bells. One of their behaviors is siding with the kids in an argument. There's a bunch of other behaviors too that he does that match with the description in the book! I didn't want to say anything at first but if you're thinking of ending it than I feel ok bringing it up.

moneybags
05-01-2022, 06:22 PM
My husband is on his last chance. Literally. And he knows it.

I told him he made me feel stupid for thinking he was different. And if he can't pull it together, go to therapy, and fix his shit, I'm going to have to tell everyone in my life that I was stupid. And if there's one thing in this world that I hate more than anything, it's people making me look stupid.


Don't make me look stupid.

You’re not stupid! Love makes a dummy out of all of us if it’s real.

Honestly, I think marriage is a bit outdated. For some people its right, but I think the chances of being compatible with someone with a lifetime isn’t realistic. I hope it works out, but if it doesn’t then don’t blame yourself. Don’t let what other people think keep you in an unhappy marriage. Life is too short.

AChildOfBoredom
05-01-2022, 06:34 PM
Also, kinda upset today, bout my guy upstairs..
Drove him to what I thought was a job site, he wanted to pick up his check but the guy wasn't there?
So we sat around there for a while, then back home.

He had/has phone issues, + he said they don't like to pay, unless they're sure the guy is coming back, he needs the check to get the car running to keep working so it's a round robin.

I'm over driving him, I hate fucking driving period, I don't like people in my car, my neck aches from my previous accident. I'm tired, I just had my 2nd booster shot today.

I had to wait in drive up line twice cause Popeye messed up my order. I gave him the sandwich I didn't want.

At this point, I just want to be alone.

Gave him the robe, we're done except I need my lamp back, waiting a bit on that, I got his heater & vacuum so when the time's right we're done.

You’ve needed to cut that bad fruit from the tree for some time.

WendiStarr
05-01-2022, 08:09 PM
Ugh BD. By 10am he was acting like a cranky toddler and said he was tired. He fell asleep on the couch and then woke up and bitched because the kids were making too much noise. Well, duh! Don't try to sleep in their hang out room then. He ended up going to sleep in the other room from 11am until 6pm. Our youngest was having her usual daily colic crying episode then. By 9 she stopped and he said he's tired and going to bed. Dude, I'M fucking tired! I'm the one you know, taking care of 3 kids all day and night, cooking, and cleaning. I wish I could say I'm tired and be able to sleep undisturbed and have all my meals cooked for me. I know that would never happen because the kids all love to be piled in my bed or on the couch wherever I am, 24/7 and none of them are old enough to cook. I'm really starting to be convinced that men are nothing more than oversized children.

miss.a.p1600
05-02-2022, 08:13 AM
My husband is on his last chance. Literally. And he knows it.

I told him he made me feel stupid for thinking he was different. And if he can't pull it together, go to therapy, and fix his shit, I'm going to have to tell everyone in my life that I was stupid. And if there's one thing in this world that I hate more than anything, it's people making me look stupid.

Don't make me look stupid.

I’m not even married yet, and my partner pulls similar stunts

It’s like they hold themselves together and be the best version on themselves to attract you (or for a couple of days so you don’t leave them) then once they have you/think you’re comfortable - they totally slack off, do wtf THEY want to do, and act stupid their damn selves.

miss.a.p1600
05-02-2022, 08:23 AM
You’re not stupid! Love makes a dummy out of all of us if it’s real.

Honestly, I think marriage is a bit outdated. For some people its right, but I think the chances of being compatible with someone with a lifetime isn’t realistic. I hope it works out, but if it doesn’t then don’t blame yourself. Don’t let what other people think keep you in an unhappy marriage. Life is too short.

Agreed.

From my experience I feel like men 90% of the time will benefit from marriage whereas women don’t have that luxury unless men are laying out what they’re bringing to the table that will make them marriage material.

Divorced men (the ones paying out child support and alimony or the extreme cynical woman haters) are the worst at thinking they’re such a catch that they sit back and act entitled as fuck when in reality they are the ones who need to bring MORE to the table for us to overlook the fact that a good chunk of their income is leaving the household to go to another bish and her kid(s), the new woman will have to sacrifice her time, energy, and space (and maybe even finances) to help raise another bish kids, and more challenges that really make marrying - especially the average earning (or below) divorced man with young kids a very challenging partner to marry.

I ask myself all the time……How will being with this person long term benefit me?

It may sound selfish but men sit here on their high horses thinking that exact thing all the time.

I also question monogamy but that’s a whole nother topic

carmen_b
05-02-2022, 08:25 AM
Aurora : Sending vibes that hubby gets smarter about things !!
And QUICK !!

Genoveve
05-02-2022, 05:51 PM
He completely acted like it was no big deal.


Congratulations, you just taught your son that if he gets called out on making an unacceptable mess that it's ok, as a man, to act like it's no big deal,

Because to him it's NOT a big deal. It's totally normal and acceptable, hence why he does it and why he finds you actually being upset about it literally laughable.


Aurora : Sending vibes that hubby gets smarter about things !!
And QUICK !!

This is very unlikely. The older people get the less likely they are to change, let alone quickly. Honestly Aurora I didn't want to say it but I would ditch him if I was you. (If I was Miss P I would also ditch her dude like a dirty diaper, for all the obvious reasons.) Unless we are getting a very skewed perspective because we here on SW only hear about the annoyances in your relationship, it just doesn't seem like there's very many pros to your marriage vs cons. It seems like since you've gotten with him your quality of life has plummeted, it seems like he's dead weight, and it seems like you've had to make so many sacrifices and compromises for him.

miss.a.p1600
05-02-2022, 06:38 PM
Most of the time, I'm ranting and talking shit (raw and unfiltered). There are many good bits but just not enough for me to stay long-term. The cons outweigh the pros for me.

neverendingkneebruises
05-03-2022, 11:41 AM
Most men would actively or passively partake in our basic human rights being taken away before they were regularly denied sex or slightly more control over women

This is what I mean by "yes ALL men" because I see fucking none of them online speaking up about Roe v Wade when it should be an outrage

Radio silence

Lmfao this is why I shut my mouth when it comes to any & all of their issues.
They will never defend us or be sympathetic or vocal about our struggles like we are for theirs

whirlerz
05-03-2022, 01:39 PM
Ugh BD. By 10am he was acting like a cranky toddler and said he was tired. He fell asleep on the couch and then woke up and bitched because the kids were making too much noise. Well, duh! Don't try to sleep in their hang out room then. He ended up going to sleep in the other room from 11am until 6pm. Our youngest was having her usual daily colic crying episode then. By 9 she stopped and he said he's tired and going to bed. Dude, I'M fucking tired! I'm the one you know, taking care of 3 kids all day and night, cooking, and cleaning. I wish I could say I'm tired and be able to sleep undisturbed and have all my meals cooked for me. I know that would never happen because the kids all love to be piled in my bed or on the couch wherever I am, 24/7 and none of them are old enough to cook. I'm really starting to be convinced that men are nothing more than oversized childre.

So TRUE!^

Even my mom always said, "Men are just big babies"!
My dad was basically a good man.


I'm so sorry, Wendi, I know how hard it is, taking care of kids, (I have done it) I cared for my mom too.
Hugs & blessings to you!

whirlerz
05-03-2022, 02:06 PM
You’ve needed to cut that bad fruit from the tree for some time.

YUP. Just waiting on his ass, haven't seen him in a week (he got picked up for a job, & is staying at it)

chanzep
05-03-2022, 06:31 PM
Aurora sorry your going through this. If your unhappy your not doing yourself any fAvours staying in this marriage. Don't worry about looking stupid. I'm the complete idiot who moved across the world and gaveup a lot .
It seems like you have done a lot for your marriage and you deserve to be happy. Life is too short to be unhappy because of other people.

miss.a.p1600
05-03-2022, 06:54 PM
Most men would actively or passively partake in our basic human rights being taken away before they were regularly denied sex or slightly more control over women

This is what I mean by "yes ALL men" because I see fucking none of them online speaking up about Roe v Wade when it should be an outrage

Radio silence

Lmfao this is why I shut my mouth when it comes to any & all of their issues.
They will never defend us or be sympathetic or vocal about our struggles like we are for theirs

Those fools don’t care.

Meanwhile they’re out here unleashed and randomly impregnating women cum and running.

That’s why they deserve to get raked through the coals in child support, alimony, and wherever else they get hit in the wallet

Marina Starr
05-03-2022, 07:22 PM
This is why I strongly advocate for forced vasectomy. Get the snip or do the time!


Those fools don’t care.

Meanwhile they’re out here unleashed and randomly impregnating women cum and running.

That’s why they deserve to get raked through the coals in child support, alimony, and wherever else they get hit in the wallet