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moneybags
05-04-2022, 10:08 AM
Leading cause of poverty is being a single mom——now they’re worried about the birth rate decline. Well Jesus maybe don’t make having a child a life sentence to poverty and not to mention how single mom are blamed and shamed. Gasp…maybe if men were good fathers and husbands women would want to have kids and get married. Nope. I’m never having children or getting married.
Men aren’t loyal. Period. It’s a delusion to think otherwise. For example, my crush has a beautiful young girlfriend, that doesn’t stop him from kee keeing with me. I have no idea if he would actually cheat on her, nor do I want to know. All I know is I have to set boundaries with men because they will use you and abuse you if you let them. Be smart and don’t let “love” make you stupid. As women, our weakness is our emotions. We need to be cold hearted bitches to make it in a man’s world.
miss.a.p1600
05-04-2022, 10:12 AM
^thats the leading cause to poverty for single women or divorced women who procreate with non wealthy men.
Incels will be crawling out the woodworks complaining how women only want them for money and they can’t get laid.
How women think of men in the strip clubs (regarding spending time with the ones that’s spending on them and improving their economic standing) is how they will need to be in their personal lives too.
Just my opinion though
moneybags
05-04-2022, 10:39 AM
^thats the leading cause to poverty for single women or divorced women who procreate with non wealthy men.
Incels will be crawling out the woodworks complaining how women only want them for money and they can’t get laid.
How women think of men in the strip clubs (regarding spending time with the ones that’s spending on them and improving their economic standing) is how they will need to be in their personal lives too.
Just my opinion though
It’s a sad fact of life. Women have to be smart or they will get played. Yeah, men complain about women only wanting them for those money, but it’s just karma that men have created. Abuse and use women then act like the victim when women smarten up.
I need to be smarter with men. Being a love and kind woman has always been my weakness men have exploited, but I’m learning to be more discerning about my time and energy-especially when it comes to men.
Marina Starr
05-04-2022, 11:50 AM
So I was at Walmart this morning... Had to grab something that was a little out of my reach but I can still manage. Out of no where this dude offer to get it for me.
I told his ass no I got it. He didn't accept no and proceeded to move towards me so I told him to not get close to me.
He turned into a big cry baby so I told his ass he should respect every woman's 'NO' as a complete sentence, the FIRST time and he should be glad I taught him something new today.
I can't fucking stand when men won't accept No the first time.
moneybags
05-04-2022, 12:30 PM
I’ve been processing what happened with my doctor. The more I think about it the more disgusted I am with him. I was vulnerable with him because he’s my doctor (I should be able to let my guard down) and he took advantage of me. Nothing happened thank god, but it’s so disgusting he would even think to sleep with one of his patients. The more I think about it the more and more disgusted I am by the whole situation. You should never go to the doctor and think you need to be careful because he’s a man. Thankfully nothing happened and I’m smart, but WOW I’m glad I put the brakes on!
A friend of mine was sexually assaulted by a male massage therapist.
I just never thought I’d have to protect myself MORE from men OTC!!! If anything vanilla men are worst than my regulars!!!
Im grateful my massage therapist is a goody guy. I feel bad for him. He’s had a lot of women treat him like crap because they assume he’s like every other guy and he’s so nice. Ugh. I might get sports massages for awhile until I can figure out things with my doctor. He’s the only sports chiropractor close by. I could drive 20-30 minutes away. It might be worth it. Im not gonna worry about this week. I’ll figure it out next week.
I just feel so manipulated by someone I SHOULD be able to trust! It’s not my fault I disclosed personal information. I should be able to! I wonder how many other patients he’s tried to sleep with! Gross! If I do see him as my doctor, I’ll need to be very gaurded!
WendiStarr
05-04-2022, 01:38 PM
I got pissed because of BD's behavior and so I've not been bothering with even talking to him. He was suddenly wanting to hang out on the couch with us last night. Once I got the kids to sleep, I thought I'd be able to go to sleep. I laid down on the couch, covered up with a blanket and closed my eyes. He started rubbing my boobs and I'm just like are you kidding me?! You've been treating me like crap. I'm exhausted with having to do everything with no help. Leave me alone. The baby woke up and he got all pissy. I was in a bitchy mood and told him to go jack off to his $60 bbfs listcrawler escorts or porn. He told me he was sick of my shit. Today has been pretty quiet here because he has been staying in the basement and of the few times I've seen him, I've purposely avoided making any eye contact or reaction at all. I know he hates being ignored but I don't care. I've told him that I'm unhappy with him, he doesn't change, and that we don't belong together so many times. Maybe he will leave. He can feel what it's like to lose a woman(me) who loved and cared for him for so long with little in return. He can go pay the $60 bbfs escorts and see if any of them will genuinely give 2 shits about him and be disappointed when he realizes that they don't because he's just $ to them. See if any of them will cook, clean, or give him massages or foot rub or deal with his toddler like rage attacks.
whirlerz
05-04-2022, 01:40 PM
Moneybags :Yes, I'm also rethinking mine, (not that he's mine) ..
Looks like he got another vehicle, which's good (seen him stepping out of it) , I didn't look or acknowledge him.. however, he still owes me for driving him>:(, also he's got my lamp to fix, at this point I just want it back.. I have again his shop vac so..
The landlord has a pile of mail I put in a manila envelope I texted him does he want it mailed, he said no.. Hopefully no services will be shut off again::)
Finally, the guy w/the gf on my floor, their garbage stinks! Guess they don't have a sense of smell..
carmen_b
05-04-2022, 01:43 PM
My partners lapse in judgement just now .......
" We could stay in Vegas one night with my sister and one night at a hotel " .
Like HELL we are. I have very limited time with you dude.
We are not staying with family at ALL .
Grab your card lol.
Actually I’m going to offer to split the room to make a point.
Wtf is he thinking ?!
The casino gives me cheap rooms on Sundays. We only have Saturday to cover.
carmen_b
05-04-2022, 01:51 PM
He's been such a source of disappointment ! I'd probably find a buff man friend to come over and blow him with the window open facing Mr Not So Wonderfuls room or car " accidently " .
Moneybags :Yes, I'm also rethinking mine, (not that he's mine) ..
Looks like he got another vehicle, which's good (seen him stepping out of it) , I didn't look or acknowledge him.. however, he still owes me for driving him>:(, also he's got my lamp to fix, at this point I just want it back.. I have again his shop vac so..
The landlord has a pile of mail I put in a manila envelope I texted him does he want it mailed, he said no.. Hopefully no services will be shut off again::)
Finally, the guy w/the gf on my floor, their garbage stinks! Guess they don't have a sense of smell..
moneybags
05-04-2022, 02:24 PM
Don’t fuck vulnerable women or girls!
https://youtu.be/8kpL8C9r_GI
whirlerz
05-04-2022, 03:58 PM
He's been such a source of disappointment ! I'd probably find a buff man friend to come over and blow him with the window open facing Mr Wonderfuls room or car " accidently " .
I just put a note under his door (written in black marker) asking for my lamp back..
If I don't get an answer I'm going to text him.. Really annoyed rn
moneybags
05-04-2022, 04:16 PM
^^^im reading this thread when I get the warm and fuzzies for a guy. It’ll give me a reality check…LOL.
I don’t our guys are shit. Your guy is making your life stressful. My crush is stressing me out. We’re both nice girls. I think we need to make a pact to get over those guys as “nice” as they are they aren’t really adding enough values to our lives to get this much energy from us-I don’t think.
Wendi-your BB daddy reminds me of my friends. All I can say is they don’t change. If they’re a narcissist they don’t care. They just use women and then when they suffer the consequences of being a piece of shit they blame everyone but themselves. I don’t know what i would do if I had a BB daddy like yours. I’d like to think I’d leave, but it would be scary to be a single mom. Is he helping out financially?
whirlerz
05-04-2022, 06:19 PM
Ok, so I just went out for errands/pizza slice, I come back & there's a strange dude outside the house smoking? We said hi to each other.. I m in kitchen microwaving my slice, he's getting water for tea kettle?
He's the one w/the truck, I saw him by it.. Kinda weird but I don't feel any bad vibes..
I just wish I'd have known it was him here before I wrote the note about my lamp..!
whirlerz
05-04-2022, 11:06 PM
OK, now he just texted me, that's his brother staying in his room, & that's his truck.
I told him fine, I put the note up there cause I wanted my lamp back, it's from my mom who's deceased. He's had it for months now. I didn't say it mean or anything, Jeez!
whirlerz
05-04-2022, 11:12 PM
Aaand, I don't have a, good feeling about the stack of bills on the kitchen table for the place here, wouldn't be surprised if LL is blowing them off.
I feel like he's going to try & let everything go, milk the place for $, eventually the property'll get sold again & we'll have to move.
So he doesn't lose regardless.
He's already blown off the bill for our washer/dryer lease, probably 2k or more, (hasn't been paid for well over a year) + he empties the coins which the company does::)
Just waiting for the repo ^::)
xxxGothBarbie
05-05-2022, 03:56 AM
I'm beyond annoyed with men bleh! Esp ones that are still hiding under their mommy's skirts. I'm so ready to ditch my current guy bc of boredom and bc his mom's a fuckin twat. He'll never stand up to her the way she needs to be checked. I mean he'll, I know I've got a problem when I'm not even there anymore and I'm batching about them both.
miss.a.p1600
05-05-2022, 07:00 AM
I hate how these crusty ass sociopathic men are getting their narcissistic supply (including the dumb ass men taking over the abortion thread in the lounge) talking a lot of noise about restricting abortions while they’re out here creating the problems that lead women to abortions.
Well assholes, stop raping, stop cumming and running, stop stealthing, stop abusing/disrespecting women, just stop!
Trying not to rage against these idiots!
indiegirl
05-05-2022, 09:52 AM
I had jacuzzi sex for a long time at a previous customers house a month ago, made 2000 that day, and he sent me a dick pic this morning (WHY DO MEN SEND SURPRISE DICK PICS STILL?)....I feel like he's hoping I will come over again...BUT I just don't want to go over there and have my self tanner be completely removed in the jacuzzi. I looked as white as wonder bread last time when I left the jacuzzi and I have 2 nice hotels already booked for today and tomorrow for clients.
whirlerz
05-05-2022, 09:53 AM
I wish there was enough attention /research on a men's pill (bc) as they do say Ed?
Also, yea some of the self righteous weighing in::)
whirlerz
05-05-2022, 09:57 AM
I had jacuzzi sex for a long time at a previous customers house a month ago, made 2000 that day, and he sent me a dick pic this morning (WHY DO MEN SEND SURPRISE DICK PICS STILL?)....I feel like he's hoping I will come over again...BUT I just don't want to go over there and have my self tanner be completely removed in the jacuzzi. I looked as white as wonder bread last time when I left the jacuzzi and I have 2 nice hotels already booked for today and tomorrow for clients.
Nvr tried hot tub fun.. seems like it'd be.. Difficult?
Dick pics, lol.
WendiStarr
05-05-2022, 12:02 PM
BD has been making everything miserable still while packing. I'm thinking of maybe getting a live in nanny with the extra room. I don't know about renting it out. I don't want any more straight men as roommates/housemates. I don't want anyone else I'm going to have to play mommy to.
indiegirl
05-05-2022, 12:12 PM
Nvr tried hot tub fun.. seems like it'd be.. Difficult?
Dick pics, lol.
With the jets on it’s similar to fucking in an active river hahaha…. Well not that extreme! Lol. I’ve only done it 3 times.
moneybags
05-05-2022, 12:47 PM
I hate men. I went to work and sat down next to this guy. He basically said he knows where I work out at. I hate men. I’m done being nice to them. Unless they’re paying me I want nothing to do with them.
Marina Starr
05-05-2022, 12:47 PM
Partake in women's rights isn't a priority for men but having sex with women is.
indiegirl
05-05-2022, 12:57 PM
I hate men. I went to work and sat down next to this guy. He basically said he knows where I work out at. I hate men. I’m done being nice to them. Unless they’re paying me I want nothing to do with them.
The creepy guy at the grocery store memorized the city I lived in off my drivers license and it wasn't from that day.... he checked my ID a year ago. I was trying to avoid him but he was the only cashier open and I said "FUCK IT." He's the one who would follow me in the aisle to say hi. GAHHHH.
It's CREEPY when something like that especially where you work out is mentioned.
whirlerz
05-05-2022, 01:43 PM
I just put a note under his door (written in black marker) asking for my lamp back..
If I don't get an answer I'm going to text him.. Really annoyed rn
Ok, I was wrong, crushie's working out of town, his younger brother is here, he has the truck I mentioned.
Lol, he saw the note about the lamp, so later crushie himself texted me, explained about his bro.
I just said, sorry I didn't know, that's fine & I just wanted the lamp back whenever he gets back.
I had some extra pizza I didn't want so I gave it to him & he thanked me.
He seems nice & is quiet & polite
moneybags
05-05-2022, 01:54 PM
The creepy guy at the grocery store memorized the city I lived in off my drivers license and it wasn't from that day.... he checked my ID a year ago. I was trying to avoid him but he was the only cashier open and I said "FUCK IT." He's the one who would follow me in the aisle to say hi. GAHHHH.
It's CREEPY when something like that especially where you work out is mentioned.
Thanks. I’m going to support group. I’m pretty triggered by it. Especially it’s peak weak, so I’m already stressed out. I still went back to the gym. I may go to different gyms for awhile, but I can’t this week. Actually that’s probably a really good idea for awhile.
I’m just so mad that this is a normal part of being a woman!!!!
indiegirl
05-05-2022, 02:25 PM
Listening to someone else have sex in the room next to you is a whole new experience. They started after I was done. LOLLL. I can hear every word. Just heard the after cum giggle between them. Most vivid and loud of them all!!
Marina Starr
05-05-2022, 03:30 PM
Men will show you their true demeanor when they don't get what they want. Unsolicited niceness is a strategy they use to manipulate and control you.
Pay very close attention to men who CHOOSE not to hear and accept the word 'No' the first time you said it.
One of the many blessings of being a Hoe is I can spot that every time before they even get the chance to be "nice". This is intuition, something that cannot be taught.
If their niceness doesn't feel right, you better trust your intuition, gut, inner voice or whatever you wanna call it. Always prioritize your safety over being polite.
indiegirl
05-05-2022, 05:11 PM
Thanks. I’m going to support group. I’m pretty triggered by it. Especially it’s peak weak, so I’m already stressed out. I still went back to the gym. I may go to different gyms for awhile, but I can’t this week. Actually that’s probably a really good idea for awhile.
I’m just so mad that this is a normal part of being a woman!!!!
What threw me off in the past was this very PERSONAL TRAINER hired by the gym hitting on me in his man version of compression pants and shirts. I don't want to date you, I'm here to work out. I changed gyms and his ass showed up to the following one noticing my absence (I went daily) and I freaked out and left.
miss.a.p1600
05-05-2022, 05:36 PM
I wish there was enough attention /research on a men's pill (bc) as they do say Ed?
Also, yea some of the self righteous weighing in::)
Men are so dumb
They would rather not take a male birth control pill (thus preventing unwanted kids) because it’s easier to impregnate the woman, ditch her and let her raise the kid, then maybe pay child support than it is for them to remember to take a contraceptive that has side effects.
But let it involve their fucking activities and getting up hard. These fools cannot live without busting nuts.
They’d rather control Us women rather than control themselves
AChildOfBoredom
05-05-2022, 11:17 PM
Trying not to rage against these idiots!
No, this would be the time to let loose. You keep walking on eggshells around them and they keep expecting it.
naomi_doll
05-06-2022, 07:48 AM
No, this would be the time to let loose. You keep walking on eggshells around them and they keep expecting it.
I'm super guilty of responding, but I think they like all forms of the attention, negative and positive. In person definitely let loose though!
AChildOfBoredom
05-06-2022, 07:54 AM
I’m guilty of it also. After reading that horseshit about red states holding cops more accountable, I couldn’t let that go. Which means also that I helped that one go further off course, unfortunately.
moneybags
05-06-2022, 08:40 AM
Why do girls engage with the blues here? I put on all the blues on mute. Most of them are toxic. They constantly post things to get attention and the girls react to it?!?!?! This a forum for strippers. Why are we entertaining these dudes off the clock.
carmen_b
05-06-2022, 08:49 AM
Omg is he finally moving the fuck on ? It's about time !
BD has been making everything miserable still while packing. I'm thinking of maybe getting a live in nanny with the extra room. I don't know about renting it out. I don't want any more straight men as roommates/housemates. I don't want anyone else I'm going to have to play mommy to.
carmen_b
05-06-2022, 08:50 AM
Here's how much attention they should get if not paying ......
ZERO
Why do girls engage with the blues here? I put on all the blues on mute. Most of them are toxic. They constantly post things to get attention and the girls react to it?!?!?! This a forum for strippers. Why are we entertaining these dudes off the clock.
carmen_b
05-06-2022, 08:52 AM
Ha dudes must be really out of control in the last 24 hours.
I'm scrolling this thread with a coffee and it just keeps on scrolling hahahah .
Genoveve
05-06-2022, 10:26 AM
Why do girls engage with the blues here? I put on all the blues on mute. Most of them are toxic. They constantly post things to get attention and the girls react to it?!?!?! This a forum for strippers. Why are we entertaining these dudes off the clock.
I wish I knew. Practically all of the chicks on here talk about how they can’t stand them and wish they didn’t have to deal with them, and yet they continue to start threads in the areas they know they frequent.
kamiliam
05-06-2022, 10:51 AM
I would prefer if all hot topics were in our section.
I have no qualms about making my opinions known if they are in the lounge…obviously. Bullies get bigger when you let them have their way.
I get why you guys feel that way though
lurkingtitties
05-06-2022, 11:28 AM
Surprisingly I haven't had to deal with any male nonsense in several days. I ain't mad at it!
moneybags
05-06-2022, 11:32 AM
Surprisingly I haven't had to deal with any male nonsense in several days. I ain't mad at it!
Those are the best day! I had a few good days of just being left the fuck alone. It was so peaceful!
lurkingtitties
05-06-2022, 11:36 AM
Actually I take it back, the blues on here continue to exist so I haven't been completely free from male fuckery. At least it's easy to ignore their posts for the most part.
I've been losing weight and a few days ago I took progress pics. I wasn't sure what to do with my extra hand, a thumbs up or peace sign seemed too derpy. So I took a pic of myself smiling and flipping the bird in my bikini. Then I sent a pic to a group chat with my besties and told them the middle finger is for whatever man out there needs to hear it today.
moneybags
05-06-2022, 11:49 AM
I’ve sincerely thought of starting a group for womens empowerment. We need a way to process the trauma of being a woman. This thread is the closest thing to group processing…LOL.
I don’t really hate men. I hate the toxic masculinity. I hate the the patriarchy. I hate the oppression women have to deal with everyday damn day of their lives when we’re just minding our damn business.
I read a book called patriarchal stress disorder, and I feel like it’s been triggered by the abortion debate, everyday harassment, and past trauma from men. I’m really at my breaking point with the patriarchy where I feel like the next guy who says something smart is going to get his ripped off. I’m just so tired of this shit!
Thanks for letting me vent.
whirlerz
05-06-2022, 12:36 PM
https://www.foxnews.com/us/accused-south-carolina-rapist-victim
I just read this article, about a POS that raped a women (she later committed suicide) all charges dropped..
His family had the balls to ask hers to stop talking about it online, "he has a bright future ahead".
Wonderful, he also comes from a very connected family.
whirlerz
05-06-2022, 02:02 PM
OK so check out my Covid thread in Lounge}:D
Also, in Custy Convo _____, trying to sell more books::)
lurkingtitties
05-06-2022, 02:24 PM
Speaking of customer combo I miss the guy with the long distance romance! He hasn’t updated in a while.
whirlerz
05-06-2022, 02:48 PM
It's all bs^, there's several 'characters' played by 1 guy
Aurora_Sunset
05-06-2022, 04:55 PM
Some dumbass at work today said hi to me in another language. Yeah, I understood him, but I honestly didn't think he was speaking to me, because what would make anyone think I speak Italian? His reaction to my non-reaction was to state, "I said hi to you."
That's nice. You can go say hi to someone else who gives a shit. I pretended I was engrossed in my scanner and kept walking like I didn't hear him. Fuck off.
moneybags
05-06-2022, 07:02 PM
^^^^ I’m done with the nice girl BS. Yes and I’m ignoring you. It’s never “just hi.” Most men are unconscious and they want something from you if they’re being nice. Rarely, is it just because they want to exchange social pleasantries and that’s all they want.
I think I have the dark feminine energy in me awakening because I’m pissed. I was pretty unconscious for awhile and really triggered by the matrix-unconscious men-which is 90% or more of men. I don’t want to spiritual bypass my pain, but if I can be conscious then I can be more skillful with how I deal with unconscious men from now on.