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Marina Starr
06-18-2021, 10:40 AM
You often hear a lot of women say they need to fix themselves up for a man. You rarely if ever hear men say they need to fix themselves up for a woman.
It makes me sad when I see many worthwhile women do so many crazy things to have a man; and lose themselves because they're afraid to lose a man.
Yes because too many women allow this. It's sad that a lot of women will do anything to have a man. If I have to work your not getting a housewive.
WendiStarr
06-18-2021, 10:46 AM
There's also the men who claim to want to be the 1950s provider while we stay home with the kids, but
then they bitch up a storm about costs of everything from groceries, bills, rent, diapers, etc.
JenniferNorth
06-18-2021, 11:53 AM
I hate when men try to convince you that it’s okay for them to deny their roles as providers with quotes like “this ain’t the 50’s”
Then have the gall to ask for home cooked meals from scratch, stocked fridge, Laundry done, all while looking like a dime 24/7. Then get pissy n petty when this is not done.
Just respond “bruh! This ain’t the 50’s” …….
Why give them the 50’s housewife when they won’t become the 50’s provider?
They want you to cook like Grandma, but they sure don't want to pay bills like Grandpa did!
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2021, 07:33 PM
There's also the men who claim to want to be the 1950s provider while we stay home with the kids, but
then they bitch up a storm about costs of everything from groceries, bills, rent, diapers, etc.
Exactly. Like man tf up n stop bitching
Luci Fer
06-19-2021, 12:33 AM
You often hear a lot of women say they need to fix themselves up for a man. You rarely if ever hear men say they need to fix themselves up for a woman.
It makes me sad when I see many worthwhile women do so many crazy things to have a man; and lose themselves because they're afraid to lose a man.
Damn,I thought it was mostly eastern european girls mindset. I would never think it is the same in America too!
indiegirl
06-19-2021, 06:10 AM
And that damn term "friend zone." Yeah, dude...you are not ENTITLED to a woman's phone number...sex...or a date with her, just because you told her that you're interested...or just because y'all been "friends" for years, and you feel you've "earned it." Give me a fucking break.....
Also...if you make a marriage proposal to her in front of several people...and she unexpectedly turns you down...it DOES NOT make her a bitch or a bad person. Some people will say "Well damn...she could've just said yes to avoid embarrassing him in public...and then tell him no when they're alone." And that's just fucking stupid. Lol. She shouldn't have to lie just to avoid making you feel bad. Be glad she's woman enough to give you an honest answer...cry for as long as you need to...and deal with it without talking shit about her.
I remember rewatching this marriage rejection video multiple times. God damn! I'd be so humiliated. Seems like the run away method is the best. Open communication guys!
https://youtu.be/ktrYGpXO4XQ?t=21
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 06:20 AM
No, a lot of girls in America are worst.
Damn,I thought it was mostly eastern european girls mindset. I would never think it is the same in America too!
JenniferNorth
06-19-2021, 07:01 AM
The "Pick me!" girls are insufferable. Not the same as ladies who have had their self-esteem beaten down for years by an abusive partner, but "pickmes!" are their own special brand of annoying.
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 07:22 AM
Tell them to pick and choose themselves, LOL!
The "Pick me!" girls are insufferable. Not the same as ladies who have had their self-esteem beaten down for years by an abusive partner, but "pickmes!" are their own special brand of annoying.
Luci Fer
06-19-2021, 07:49 AM
I remember rewatching this marriage rejection video multiple times. God damn! I'd be so humiliated. Seems like the run away method is the best. Open communication guys!
https://youtu.be/ktrYGpXO4XQ?t=21
Hahahaha! I am sorry. Yes, I remember this one, too. She looked so frozen during his whole monologue. I feel really, really sorry for her. Damn, it's horrible situation, but also so hilarious like in cartoons.
BambiCutie
06-19-2021, 10:37 AM
I love that I clean every, single, day constantly cleaning up after his dirty ass kitchen experiments to avoid getting roaches or other buggies for years.
Then out of the blue, once every half a year at random, a cleaning bug will crawl up his ass at night. He will start scrubbing his room and acting like a cocky dick, treating me like the one who doesn't clean. Excuse me?
How many times have I told this guy to wash his plate and put his food away, only for him to leave everything out on the counter including an entire crate of eggs for hours?
Not to mention when I manage to motivate him to put the food away, he stands there scratching his head not knowing how to put it away.
Grab a fucking bowl with a lid, scoop food into bowl, put lid on top, put in fridge. Hold on though, he is now the king of cleaning his room after half a year in filth.
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2021, 02:23 PM
There's also the men who claim to want to be the 1950s provider while we stay home with the kids, but
then they bitch up a storm about costs of everything from groceries, bills, rent, diapers, etc.
They have no qualms bitching about money in front of you or bitching about your spending but when it comes to themselves oh! their asses spend like royalty n don’t even look at price tags.
AChildOfBoredom
06-19-2021, 03:43 PM
And yet my friends and acquaintances who have these same gripes turn around and act bewildered that I’m content to remain single.
miss.a.p1600
06-20-2021, 06:15 AM
Men are so dumb.
They don’t want to do the work required to raise their own kids (ex. drive them around to play dates, take them to school, take them to dentist/doctor/etc, etc.
So they let their ex wives, ex gf, ex baby moms do ALL the work physically yet when it comes to paying child support they don’t want to do that either.
Well asshole! YOU don’t get a choice - you either provide for your kids that you laid down to create or you get dragged into court n possibly into jail right where you belong.
I heard a guy say he didn’t mind child support going to clothes etc but he didn’t want his ex paying rent with child support money.
Im like look fucknuts child support is for the kids food, clothing, and shelter. If the broad pays some if her rent with child support then so be it. It keeps your kids from being homeless then that’s what it is.
So worried about cs going to the ex’s rent but won’t take initiative to have the kids live with him. Makes zero sense. Typical dumbass “man”.
Marina Starr
06-20-2021, 06:36 AM
Happy Father's Day ONLY to all the daddies out there who are not using paying child support and taking care of their children as selling points!
miss.a.p1600
06-20-2021, 06:38 AM
^Exactly.
Like some of these men be expecting accolades for doing shit they’re supposed to be doing anyways.
Marina Starr
06-20-2021, 06:57 AM
I tell them to their face, they get no accolades or brownie points for taking care of THEIR CHILDREN! That's the bare minimum. Don't sell that to me because I am not impressed nor flattered by the bare minimum.
^Exactly.
Like some of these men be expecting accolades for doing shit they’re supposed to be doing anyways.
Aurora_Sunset
06-20-2021, 01:17 PM
I remember rewatching this marriage rejection video multiple times. God damn! I'd be so humiliated. Seems like the run away method is the best. Open communication guys!
https://youtu.be/ktrYGpXO4XQ?t=21
Omg! I honestly wonder if there was more to it than just "she was a bitch." Like, maybe the guy was abusive/controlling, and they had just had some big fight where she almost broke up with him, and then he tried to use this super public proposal as a way to trap her into staying with him?
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2021, 01:59 PM
I just have to quote this again
If you catch your husband cheating or fucking up majorly.......END IT first!
I repeat.....End the relationship first.....
Because the cheating philanderers WILL cheat on you, then add even more salt to the wound by rushing to breakup/divorce you first.
Every cheater I know busted an extra nut when they filed for divorce first.
*by 'you' I don't mean you specifically Wendi I mean in general terms
OMG spot on! My ex from a few years ago that still tries to contact me every so often did this to me. He had been messing around & "falling in love" with toothless tina behind my back for months & it was so disgusting how quickly he moved on to her yuck! This bitch was beyond gross too! She was the town bicycle essentially.
Yet I was blamed for it bc I said I didn't wanna stay in that area forever bc i was bored & hated it.
My bf now is much nicer than he ever was except for the fact that he complains about EVERYTHING! ugh sooo annoying
I've been alot happier since I've been gone away from CA & being on my own on the east coast for well over a month now. He's already trying to rush me to come back over there & I'm not gonna let him do that. I don't miss CA honestly, and I like leaving the future up in the air :P
We got into a fight on the phone the other day about me being gone so much & traveling without him *eyeroll* I can't help you have ties, not my problem asshole! We may end up splitting up soon bc he was saying that this wasn't a real relationship if I'm gonna be gone all the time *eyeroll* whatever, hell maybe it's for the best.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2021, 02:03 PM
Omg! I honestly wonder if there was more to it than just "she was a bitch." Like, maybe the guy was abusive/controlling, and they had just had some big fight where she almost broke up with him, and then he tried to use this super public proposal as a way to trap her into staying with him?
LOL same! I once heard this tale from this much older guy I was sorta interested in about this gal that had lived with him once. Apparently he'd never told her he had a vasectomy and so when she told him she might be pregnant, he acted dumbfounded like oh? *eyeroll* then says hmmm let's see how this plays out. So then she gets a positive pregnancy test & he kicks her out for supposedly cheating on him LOL
I'm thinking ok..... it's kinda weird for you not to have ever mentioned something like that if she was living with you??? LOL I call bullshit.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2021, 02:09 PM
^ I also noticed that guys like the one I mentioned above seem to lose interest very quickly when they find out you are a sex worker of some kind when you are open & honest with them *eyeroll*
Or same thing if you appear to be very self sufficient /independant. They can't handle it if they think you are two steps ahead of them
TheBrownFox
06-20-2021, 04:10 PM
Look at this assclown.....
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/looking-for-18-26-years-old-cam-models-in-miami-any-takers.39691/#post-1107470
JenniferNorth
06-20-2021, 05:57 PM
Look at this assclown.....
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/looking-for-18-26-years-old-cam-models-in-miami-any-takers.39691/#post-1107470
BAHAHAHAHA!!! Should we feel sad, Fox?! No black girls, no ladies over 26 (I guess by his standards I'm a GILF) oh wait, that's right, we would make more money ON OUR OWN (or even G/G) . So glad he got banned. And he's hung? BARF. Dude, none of us want your nasty peen. Just $$$$$$.
WendiStarr
06-20-2021, 08:28 PM
The verbal abuse today from BD. I'm too sick to leave. Both the baby and I are sick.
AChildOfBoredom
06-20-2021, 09:02 PM
Or same thing if you appear to be very self sufficient /independant. They can't handle it if they think you are two steps ahead of them
The broke as fuck ones are a mixed bag. Either they want a meal ticket or they want you both to be broke as fuck.
Marina Starr
06-21-2021, 05:59 AM
This shirt is just perfect, ordered. Because God knows you can't go to the grocery stores, Starbucks or be in public spaces without dudes thinking because of dick.
55337
Luci Fer
06-21-2021, 07:08 PM
Omg! I honestly wonder if there was more to it than just "she was a bitch." Like, maybe the guy was abusive/controlling, and they had just had some big fight where she almost broke up with him, and then he tried to use this super public proposal as a way to trap her into staying with him?
He said they were dating for 3 months. 3! Months!Who the fuck proposes after 3 months? Also he said that he knew she didnot like cheesy things. Yet he did this damn cheesy proposal with musicians and shit, in front of the crowd of total strangers in some mall. Cringy. No wonder she hit him with that ukulele. hahahaha! oh god. And it was a pure impulse. Love that girl. He deserved that.
Luci Fer
06-21-2021, 07:09 PM
This shirt is just perfect, ordered. Because God knows you can't go to the grocery stores, Starbucks or be in public spaces without dudes thinking because of dick.
55337
Hahahaha Marina! So good! ;D
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 08:14 PM
I fell into the trap.
So I was feeling like a depressed nut job. Crying and sulking. And I mute myself out so my dude doesn’t notice I’m crying. At one point, I forget to mute it & he’s like “are you crying?”
I admit it then he insists I come over.
He attempts to console me and next thing I know (after about an hour) he wants me to embrace and saying I should leave before he gets fully aroused. But I can’t leave cause he’s got my tit in his mouth.
Why do men do this. I could have just cried alone. But no. Cry with a dude and next thing ya know a dick is in you…….cause according to men dick solves every problem!
Luci Fer
06-21-2021, 08:18 PM
I love that I clean every, single, day constantly cleaning up after his dirty ass kitchen experiments to avoid getting roaches or other buggies for years.
Then out of the blue, once every half a year at random, a cleaning bug will crawl up his ass at night. He will start scrubbing his room and acting like a cocky dick, treating me like the one who doesn't clean. Excuse me?
How many times have I told this guy to wash his plate and put his food away, only for him to leave everything out on the counter including an entire crate of eggs for hours?
Not to mention when I manage to motivate him to put the food away, he stands there scratching his head not knowing how to put it away.
Grab a fucking bowl with a lid, scoop food into bowl, put lid on top, put in fridge. Hold on though, he is now the king of cleaning his room after half a year in filth.
You are an angel of patience. I couldn't stand it. I am strictly for 50/50...everything haha And it's hard to share same territory with someone, it's real check of relationship...love or friendship, doesn't matter. I had many friendships (can I say 'friendship' in plural at all?) deteriorated after it.
'cleaning bug' tho! hahahaha
Luci Fer
06-21-2021, 08:19 PM
I fell into the trap.
So I was feeling like a depressed nut job. Crying and sulking. And I mute myself out so my dude doesn’t notice I’m crying. At one point, I forget to mute it & he’s like “are you crying?”
I admit it then he insists I come over.
He attempts to console me and next thing I know (after about an hour) he wants me to embrace and saying I should leave before he gets fully aroused. But I can’t leave cause he’s got my tit in his mouth.
Why do men do this. I could have just cried alone. But no. Cry with a dude and next thing ya know a dick is in you…….cause according to men dick solves every problem!
Wow, miss p.a. your man is really passionate one!
indiegirl
06-21-2021, 10:14 PM
Men and their STUPID sports fetish idolizing the players all the time. There is a line of tolerance for me. You don't even know these people personally!! I'm hearing this stupid story right now about two men fighting over sport players on the phone. *eyeroll*
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2021, 06:09 AM
^OMG i hate that too!
It’s like they treat another dude like damn royalty but if those players ever met these average ass men they wouldn’t give them the time of day.
Idolizing someone who could give two fucks about them.
They be acting like straight male whore groupies. Then get mad when women act like they do but can actually hustle, fuck, date, or marry them.
Any dude who gets excited by another man should question his sexuality.
Marina Starr
06-22-2021, 06:33 AM
Ever notice the more you ignore men, the harder they try to get your attention? I've become a 'Professional Men Ignorer'. The more I practice, the better I am at it. A lot of them are narcissist and want attention/reaction whether it's good or bad. There's only so much time and energy in a day so it's important to not even give an ounce of that to low value men because they are NOT worthy. I've learned you don't even have to say anything, don't even look at them in public spaces. Just completely ignore, go on about your business and let the trash take itself out.
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2021, 07:31 AM
^I’d say about half the men I’ve encountered who try to sweet talk me into being with them are either full blown narcissists or have narcissistic tendencies
Many of them married.
TheBrownFox
06-22-2021, 08:36 AM
Men and their STUPID sports fetish idolizing the players all the time. There is a line of tolerance for me. You don't even know these people personally!! I'm hearing this stupid story right now about two men fighting over sport players on the phone. *eyeroll*
I remember my Facebook timeline being so damn boring on Sundays, because it'd be a bunch of posts from people clowning each other over their teams...and it'd be football this...football that. I have zero interest in football, and it annoys me that every time the whole family is at my dad's house for a major holiday...the T.V.'s always gotta be on some game. Lol. That's when I'll go back to playing Family Feud on my phone, because I cannot stand having to sit there watching football. *Yawn*
Speaking of sports, I will often rant about how men won't hesitate to pay $50+ to watch a Pay-Per-View fight that's only gonna last 30 seconds. Yet when they want a cam model to give an ass flash, they're too cheap to tip 50 tokens...and expect her to "give him a sample." Lmfao. This "I ain't paying for no pussy/I ain't paying if I can't get it in real life" b.s. So then go out and pay for it in real life then, and get out my face...acting like you didn't know it costs MONEY to see ass. They always acting entitled to a woman's body.....
Marina Starr
06-22-2021, 08:47 AM
Not a problem. If they're married or taken, they're CLIENT$.
^I’d say about half the men I’ve encountered who try to sweet talk me into being with them are either full blown narcissists or have narcissistic tendencies
Many of them married.
TheBrownFox
06-22-2021, 10:21 AM
55351
Lmfao. That's a DAMN shame.....
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2021, 11:26 AM
^ugh!
Deadbeat dads (even the truffling ass moms) are waste of space.
But honestly the gender most likely abandon their kid n refused to pay for said kid is men.
They should be arrested on sight.
Marina Starr
06-23-2021, 06:13 AM
Ordered this on Amazon for $7.99. It's just perfect for this crazy world, especially around thirsty men. When it comes to men, Serendipity is no such thing. When you're at the deli section, dude is there, when you're on produce section, dude is there. You're at bakery, dude is there. You're checking out on aisle #2, dude is ALSO there. Dusty, thirsty and creepy as fuck.
It's perfect for days you're just not in the fucking mood. It's a warning so folks know to not try you.
55355
indiegirl
06-23-2021, 06:31 AM
Ordered this on Amazon for $7.99. It's just perfect for this crazy world, especially around thirsty men. When it comes to men, Serendipity is no such thing. When you're at the deli section, dude is there, when you're on produce section, dude is there. You're at bakery, dude is there. You're checking out on aisle #2, dude is ALSO there. Dusty, thirsty and creepy as fuck.
It's perfect for days you're just not in the fucking mood. It's a warning so folks know to not try you.
55355
I had a keychain with this quote on it in the past hahaha. Perfect for the gym!
WendiStarr
06-23-2021, 09:22 AM
I have known this guy platonically for 9 years now. He will email me sporadically every now and then to see how I'm doing and let me know what he's up to. Last I heard from him was 2 years ago, when he emailed me a picture of wreaths that he made for Etsy. He asked me what I'd been up to and at the time, I was very pregnant and working so I had told him, working and awaiting the birth of baby #2. He asked me, "Oh yeah? How's your boyfriend?". I didn't want to bother mentioning BD and that mess so I didn't respond. I didn't hear from him again until today. He was telling me about some alleged million dollar lawsuit that he has pending against the city. I googled his case and it sounded crazy. All I said was good luck. I hope everything works out with that. He emailed back with,"So how's your boyfriend?" I don't know why he starts the boyfriend shit always. He used to ask me that even when I was single, celibate, and had no interest in men, dating, sex, or anything and it pissed me off. Why bother asking about a boyfriend? I'll just ignore any more emails from him.
JenniferNorth
06-23-2021, 10:08 AM
I'm buying that shirt, Marina.
Wendi, what the fuck. Can't they just talk to you like the rest of us talk to you (like...as...a person?) I guess that's asking too much.
I'm pissed at my hubby lately. I'm ovulating, so I'm not sure why.
He bitched yesterday about how he needs his days off to feel like days off. I went to the salon by myself and left him home with our daughters (my hair needed it and I needed to be away from them after four days of taking care of them 24/7 because he worked). Then we went to do WalMart pick up (which is next to our house-like 2 minutes in drive time lol). Then Target for formula. I remind him he needs to contact his Dr. to get his paperwork that he has to mail in to this school program he is applying to. It's ready, and he bitches about the long drive (it's a town or so away). Oh, but later in the day, it's okay to travel another town away to buy fireworks!! I guess that's fine! We have time for that!!
Nevermind I helped him fill out all the rest of paperwork for the school program of his so it could be mailed, fed the children multiple times that day, made sure groceries were ordered for pickup later, ran laundry so he would have clean work clothes, cleaned up after meals, did the majority of putting the kids to bed. Like, I'm so fucking sorry, dude. IDK what you want. We're adults married to each other, have dogs, a cat, and kids. The responsibilities aren't going to go away anytime soon. It's not going to feel like when we were dating and the only things you worried about were drinking and fucking. LOL I would like to see him manage on his own, even without kids.
I mean, he's not a bad guy or anything, but this expectation that his day off be like some vacation or something is WHACK.
Marina Starr
06-23-2021, 10:15 AM
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08Y7GY3YM?ref=ppx_pt2_dt_b_prod_image
I'm buying that shirt, Marina.
miss.a.p1600
06-23-2021, 10:26 AM
I fucking hate men (like 80% of them) because it’s like being with them means that most of the time you’re forced to choose between love or money.
Why can’t their bitch asses provide BOTH
WTF?!?
Are they such degenerates that they can’t provide adequately for a family that they need you to work? Why are most of the wealthy ones such complete assholes that it’s not worth the hassle dealing with them/selling your soul for a lifestyle?
Most men these days are SERIOUSLY lacking.
I wish I could transport myself back to the 50’s before these dumb ass women thought it was a good idea to fight for “equal” rights so they could go slave in a cubicle away from home, ship their infants off to random daycare, n by the time both people got home they were too tired from work to do anything
JenniferNorth
06-23-2021, 12:51 PM
I agree with everything here ^. The older I get, the more important a provider is. Older me needed to go visit younger me and have a very serious discussion about why any man who expects us to bust ass just to provide a basic living is not the one.
JenniferNorth
06-23-2021, 02:04 PM
I keep going back to things that were said early in my relationship like 8 years ago, stuff that offended me or pissed me off at the time, but I felt because we had just started dating, I couldn't say anything (???!) and now I really just want to rip in to my husband. Always shit about some ex or some fucking broad. This shouldn't bother me so many years later, but I think I have finally reached a point in life where I don't give a fuck about a lot anymore.
If I ever get divorced, I simply won't date again. Not worth it.
miss.a.p1600
06-23-2021, 02:32 PM
^awww
You never know. He could turn it around once he knows how much certain things bother you so that he can stay in your good graces.
LoveyDovey
06-23-2021, 03:42 PM
I love my guy, but I think it's a good thing I haven't become too serious with him yet. We have a lot to heal on each of our ends. I'm doing the best i can for me and my kid, doing the best I can to heal my life and create stability. My guy is going to have to do the same before he meets kiddo. My son doesn't need any more drama in his life and neither do I.
I'm focused on building a legacy for my kid to inherit someday. My plans right now are to get my projects lifted off the ground so I can have a safe stable home, money in the bank. I've given up on a guy to support me. I have to take care of myself and my son and if a guy comes along, he needs to have his shit together emotionally and financially. I don't need any more bullshit.
chanzep
06-23-2021, 04:22 PM
I am going through a divorce and don't plan on getting married again. I will date but stay independent. All I can say is when someone shows you who they are believe tnem. They are not going to change. Don't ignore red flags like I did.