View Full Version : The Man Bitching Thread
moneybags
06-07-2022, 09:28 AM
My doctor (the one I use to have a huge crush on) is now sulking because I won’t entertain him anymore. Fuck you! I don’t give a fuck about your feelings the shit I have to deal with a woman everyday doesn’t compare to your bruised ego and hurt feelings. If you ain’t adding value to my life I don’t need you! I’m not gonna flirt with you for FREE! I’m not gonna entertain you for FREE! I’m not gonna be your life coach for FREE. Deal with your shit! If I can do it so can you!
Lastly, I’m very generous with my time and energy, but these men will use you if you let them! I’m not letting men use me anymore.
I’m totally detached from him. I will NEVER date him after he led me on for about 7 months, deceived me by acting like he was single for the first 3, emotionally cheating on his girlfriend with me. no way will I give him a second chance. He didn’t give a fuck about my feelings, so why should I care about his?
carmen_b
06-07-2022, 02:21 PM
^ I've flat out told guys " I'm not interacting with you and this is why " .
They always deserve it AND it is very freeing. :)
You might enjoy telling him how unprofessional he was ! Or just cut him off totally up to you!
whirlerz
06-07-2022, 03:12 PM
Well, speaking of crushes, I saw my former one last night, his brother's been staying here, he's been gone, working somewhere?
I kept seeing this different white car parked here on & off, it's his.. I was sitting in my car, he approached me, I pretended to be on my phone & he left..
. He still owes me from rides I gave him from when his 2 clunkers broke down , he's got my PayPal, TF?
Next time, >:(ask one of the people you loaned out your car to, to drive you to BFE & back!
Also, this former roomie I gave like 20.00 to, paid me back recently! He paid double too.
I wish he'd stop by, I'm not attracted, I like hanging out w/him, & make the other guy jealous.
Just to piss him off!}:D
moneybags
06-07-2022, 03:22 PM
^ I've flat out told guys " I'm not interacting with you and this is why " .
They always deserve it AND it is very freeing. :)
You might enjoy telling him how unprofessional he was ! Or just cut him off totally up to you!
unfortunately I have to work with him. Apparently this happens A LOT in healthcare.
The silver lining is I’ve learned how to deal with flirty doctors in the future. I’m almost grateful to learn it now rather than in school or on the job.
I don’t flirt for FREE, I don’t coach for FREE, and I don’t do intimacy for FREE. Either pay me for my time or wife me up. No one gets a free ride from me anymore.
The lesson learned is to set boundaries with men in professional settings, so they don’t think they can get my LOVE
LoveyD
06-07-2022, 10:28 PM
^^Yes! If men in professional settings cross the line into wanting sex, it's a red flag. They ignore boundaries and are therefore not safe people. You will not be able to build a life with a shady man.
Marina Starr
06-08-2022, 06:08 AM
The majority of men want to reduce women to sexual beings, objects, sex tools because of their strong sense of entitlement.
They truely believe that there is a shortage of dick. A lot of times just leaving the house and being public spaces is a psychological warfare having to deal with unsolicited attention, harassment and all kinds of bullshit.
naomi_doll
06-08-2022, 07:04 AM
Well, speaking of crushes, I saw my former one last night, his brother's been staying here, he's been gone, working somewhere?
I kept seeing this different white car parked here on & off, it's his.. I was sitting in my car, he approached me, I pretended to be on my phone & he left..
. He still owes me from rides I gave him from when his 2 clunkers broke down , he's got my PayPal, TF?
Next time, >:(ask one of the people you loaned out your car to, to drive you to BFE & back!
Also, this former roomie I gave like 20.00 to, paid me back recently! He paid double too.
I wish he'd stop by, I'm not attracted, I like hanging out w/him, & make the other guy jealous.
Just to piss him off!}:D
Did you ever get the lamp back?
Marina Starr
06-08-2022, 08:51 AM
I do the same. I always feel so empowered when I do it because I know they're not used to be called out.
I enjoy seeing them get uneasy and rattled whenever I run into them. I'm not even done yet, I'll also tell people that do see them what I did, lol. It's a real joy.
#directhoe #pettyhoe #assertivehoe
^ I've flat out told guys " I'm not interacting with you and this is why " .
They always deserve it AND it is very freeing. :)
You might enjoy telling him how unprofessional he was ! Or just cut him off totally up to you!
ravenskyy
06-08-2022, 09:50 AM
I sincerely appreciate all of the responses that I received to my post. Thank you all so much! I'm going to do what I have to do to get out of this shit situation. It's tough because camming has been really bad lately, but I have a job interview tomorrow, so that's a step in the right direction. I think I'm going to just fill my life with work for the next few months to make some money, pay down my debt and get something saved up for a new place.
I was off my meds the other day and I didn't realize that I had forgotten to take them that day. It's crazy how different I am mentally and emotionally without them. My medication makes it much easier for me to tolerate my husband and deal with the stress in my life. Without my meds, I am a complete wreck. I was not like this before I met him. I can't blame him for all the bad shit in my life, but he has definitely contributed greatly to the decline in my mental health. It's crazy that men can fuck us up like this.
Thank you ladies for the love, support and advice! I really needed it. I don't have anyone to talk to outside of here, because the people I know would either not take me seriously or would encourage me to stay and make it work. I've lost a lot of people by moving out to stupid fucking Indiana.
whirlerz
06-08-2022, 11:37 AM
Did you ever get the lamp back?
:rotfl:LOL! Yes, I did, ty for asking..
The brother of the guy brought it down, the guy had told him, he forgot, I guess they think I'm a little koo koo about it.
I'm pissed now cause the guy (former crush) is now driving a nice car (good for him), I'd driven his ass far & wide several times when both his jalopies broke down, he promised to paypal me 60 just for the 2 trips (4 total) so more owed..
That's fine cause I got his cordless shop vac, which he's NOT getting back til he pays..
FOH w/that! >:(
Love U Ravenskyy!!!
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 11:43 AM
^^Yes! If men in professional settings cross the line into wanting sex, it's a red flag. They ignore boundaries and are therefore not safe people. You will not be able to build a life with a shady man.
I find it usually to be the narcissistic men who do this.
Similar to how I was minding my own business then this handsome man with an amazing smile comes up to me asks me if I remember him.
He was a guy I remembered from college but now much more refined and successful
Turns out he was the district manager of a group of coffee houses.
He gives me his business card as he seductively smiles and walks off.
Well my email to him about coffee drinks leads to him calling me up, engaging me in tantalizing conversations, hinting around how he is married, then offering his penis (with inadequate compensation for my standards so I declined)
Haven’t heard from him since lol
But wtf are you seductively sliding your business cards to customers you slick thirst bucket?
xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 11:53 AM
I'm super annoyed with "bf" bc even though the mfer had food in the fridge last night , he still ate my last hamburger patty I could've eaten today for lunch. Instead I had to spend $ on a sandwich I shouldn't have had to. He's also been in a pissy ass mood towards me since the other day (reasons unknown to me) and I hate feeling like I gotta walk on eggshells around him. Lastly, I just realized today how extremely selfish he really is in this "relationshit" I've tolerated. I might be more upset and worried if I actually were more attracted to him LOL.
He thinks he's taking me for a ride? Ya its the other way around.
Thanks to him I haven't worked in over a month now bc he's given me money & helped me with food & going out on the weekends. He jus irritates me to no end though ugh. I see so many of his "smother's " qualities in him that it makes me wanna puke.
Marina Starr
06-08-2022, 02:48 PM
You need to wear 'Not Today' hat, shirt etc whenever you go see him, lmao.
Fuckboys do not like when I rock my 'Not Today' hat and shirt. Very effective messaging. Oh the joy I feel!
unfortunately I have to work with him. Apparently this happens A LOT in healthcare.
The silver lining is I’ve learned how to deal with flirty doctors in the future. I’m almost grateful to learn it now rather than in school or on the job.
I don’t flirt for FREE, I don’t coach for FREE, and I don’t do intimacy for FREE. Either pay me for my time or wife me up. No one gets a free ride from me anymore.
The lesson learned is to set boundaries with men in professional settings, so they don’t think they can get my LOVE
Cutie101
06-08-2022, 03:39 PM
Found those gems on pinterest
57274
57275
57276
57277
57278
57279
57280
57281
LoveyD
06-08-2022, 07:22 PM
I find it usually to be the narcissistic men who do this.
Similar to how I was minding my own business then this handsome man with an amazing smile comes up to me asks me if I remember him.
He was a guy I remembered from college but now much more refined and successful
Turns out he was the district manager of a group of coffee houses.
He gives me his business card as he seductively smiles and walks off.
Well my email to him about coffee drinks leads to him calling me up, engaging me in tantalizing conversations, hinting around how he is married, then offering his penis (with inadequate compensation for my standards so I declined)
Haven’t heard from him since lol
But wtf are you seductively sliding your business cards to customers you slick thirst bucket?
Yeah, and then he's gonna follow that up with ,"oh I'm married. Teehee!" Again, men who can't respect boundaries are horrible life partners and you're right. They are likely narcissistic.
carmen_b
06-08-2022, 07:49 PM
I'm surprised you didn't negotiate HIGHER and then HIGHER and then screen shot all of it and offered to send to wife if he didn't go HIGHER.
:)
Ha.
I find it usually to be the narcissistic men who do this.
Similar to how I was minding my own business then this handsome man with an amazing smile comes up to me asks me if I remember him.
He was a guy I remembered from college but now much more refined and successful
Turns out he was the district manager of a group of coffee houses.
He gives me his business card as he seductively smiles and walks off.
Well my email to him about coffee drinks leads to him calling me up, engaging me in tantalizing conversations, hinting around how he is married, then offering his penis (with inadequate compensation for my standards so I declined)
Haven’t heard from him since lol
But wtf are you seductively sliding your business cards to customers you slick thirst bucket?
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 08:06 PM
^probably part of him being narcissistic with delusions of grandeur
“I’m so sexy this woman wants to fuck me and I barely have to do anything for her. I’ll even make her pay”
Not today satan! You gotta do better than that.
I don’t take those kinds of risks for chump change.
carmen_b
06-08-2022, 08:13 PM
^ Definitely a Narc. Actively trying to create a triangle even though the women involved in the " fight for him " are barely involved.
Marina Starr
06-09-2022, 04:52 AM
What I will NOT allow is for men to body shame women in my presence. I shut it down with quickness.
Women do not owe men or anyone whatever you think they should look or how their bodies should be.
whirlerz
06-09-2022, 09:18 AM
Well, this morning I texted my former crush, asking him for the $$$ he owes me, for the rides I gave him...hes working + he now has car..
Saw him starting up one of the junks, I guess to loan out to the stoner couple upstairs?
Yeah, be sure theyhave an extra free vehicle, WTF about me tho? Didn't see their ass driving you down to your BFE job sites..
PIG.>:(
We'll see what if anything, he says about it..
whirlerz
06-10-2022, 03:17 PM
So. ^
Continued, he texted me yesterday, he was sorry, he forgot, & to remind him tomorrow..
And, he said he thinks it's 80. he owes me?!
Fuck.outta.here, did we go by fucking dogsled?
I calculated it, didn't even use mileage just estimate from my place to city limits, which we past there, (also not charging for the last round trip) & it was 150. estimate using Uber..
So I told him it's 100.00.
Cough it up pal. Never again.
miss.a.p1600
06-10-2022, 08:47 PM
Stop acting like a whiny little bitch!
carmen_b
06-11-2022, 09:31 AM
Whirl : He should be a man and give you that $100. Maybe even a little extra for making you wait !
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 09:35 AM
Whirl : He should be a man and give you that $100. Maybe even a little extra for making you wait !
I agree! He should , instead, I have to pull it out his ass..
He texted me he's ok w/giving the $100.00, we'll see if I actually get it, he has my PayPal.
I feel so stupid! >:(
carmen_b
06-11-2022, 11:24 AM
^Well overall it’s not much when you think of losers scamming women for more....
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 01:13 PM
Yeah whatever, I still have his cordless shop vac, so there's that.
miss.a.p1600
06-11-2022, 02:26 PM
I agree! He should , instead, I have to pull it out his ass..
He texted me he's ok w/giving the $100.00, we'll see if I actually get it, he has my PayPal.
I feel so stupid! >:(
Gotta get money upfront from these jokers.
Send him an invoice!
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 06:07 PM
Gotta get money upfront from these jokers.
Send him an invoice!
I just sent him a reminder text.
That's fine, I'll also remind him what a POS he is too.
whirlerz
06-11-2022, 10:40 PM
Well, he just now sent it to me, he asked about his vac. I told him I tried to give it to his brother, (which I did, & he wouldn't take it) ! I gave him back his heater too, when he gave me the lamp back.
Told him I'd put the vac by my door, not dragging it up the stairs.
Ugh. Wtf.
Damn!
whirlerz
06-13-2022, 12:03 PM
Their inability to accept "No" as a full sentence & answer. They always need an explanation of why you turned them down. Or how hateful they become after being turned down & dangerous, as if we don't have the right to say "no".
It is my full belief that men don't deserve sex and need full therapy & prevention before being allowed to date or speak to women in order to prevent violence & abuse against us. Their dicks all need to be put into chasity devices until proving they can be trusted.
Rebloging cause so True & classic! ^
moneybags
06-15-2022, 12:05 AM
Same thing at the gym. Guys staring at me or working out right next to me when there’s plenty of space to spread out. I’m talking to my therapist about this next week. I don’t know how to cope with it anymore. I shouldn’t have to.
all in all a good day, but I can feel eyeballs all over me and instead of working out and getting my gains I’m focused on getting out asap-that sucks. I should be able to focus on my gains instead.
kimbe
06-15-2022, 12:36 AM
^I agree you shouldn't have too, but I've given up and found it easier to just ignore. I mean, it's like an endless fight and I just don't want spending my life being in this fight like state of mind..
Marina Starr
06-15-2022, 12:00 PM
You shouldn't have to but have you consider going to an all ladies gym? I'm not sure if there's such thing.
Same thing at the gym. Guys staring at me or working out right next to me when there’s plenty of space to spread out. I’m talking to my therapist about this next week. I don’t know how to cope with it anymore. I shouldn’t have to.
all in all a good day, but I can feel eyeballs all over me and instead of working out and getting my gains I’m focused on getting out asap-that sucks. I should be able to focus on my gains instead.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-15-2022, 12:38 PM
Same thing at the gym. Guys staring at me or working out right next to me when there’s plenty of space to spread out. I’m talking to my therapist about this next week. I don’t know how to cope with it anymore. I shouldn’t have to.
all in all a good day, but I can feel eyeballs all over me and instead of working out and getting my gains I’m focused on getting out asap-that sucks. I should be able to focus on my gains instead.
Wear really ratty baggy workout clothing. It works for me.
My man gripe- this week I got an unexpected reminder of how most men expect to be worthy of the love of women. Even evil men.
Dreamqueen
06-15-2022, 02:07 PM
57351
Saw this on Twitter.
Seems about right.
buttonpop
06-15-2022, 08:37 PM
^^^^^ tries to make you miss work. Yup, sounds about right. I had an ex-boyfriend who would pick a fight with me RIGHT before I left for work all the time. It took me ages to make the connection that the timing was on purpose.
whirlerz
06-15-2022, 10:56 PM
57351
Saw this on Twitter.
Seems about right.
I Love this^!
miss.a.p1600
06-18-2022, 05:44 AM
^Expects sex……..unfortunately that’s 100% of nonvirginal, nonimpotent men……
emkato
06-18-2022, 01:04 PM
What I will NOT allow is for men to body shame women in my presence. I shut it down with quickness.
Women do not owe men or anyone whatever you think they should look or how their bodies should be.
I know this reply is super late, but THIS.
For example, fat shaming. Men shaming bigger women's bodies does not magically make thinner girls want to sleep with them. Men who shame any woman's body that isnt their "type"is a red flag.
Marina Starr
06-18-2022, 01:39 PM
I know this reply is super late, but THIS.
For example, fat shaming. Men shaming bigger women's bodies does not magically make thinner girls want to sleep with them. Men who shame any woman's body that isnt their "type"is a red flag.
The ones that do the shaming are usually the ugliest motherfuckers. I don't care what men that do the shaming look like, I tell them it's in their best interest to not comment on women's bodies. I let them know how gross I find them. What's even a bigger shame is there are plenty of women that do nothing, say nothing as these low value men do the shaming. I call them out too and lay into them.
Both men and women can be body shamers, so I will say don't shame or saying unkind shit about other people's bodies. Don't reduce people down to their bodies.
And don't do it around me because I will always call you out and lay into you because as a Trans woman, I know what it feels like having my body constantly shamed and policed so I'll be damned to just sit and let that bullshit slide.
Truth is there is no such thing as a bad body because there are many kinds of men, and many kinds of men like different kinds of bodies.
This is something you already knew from camming.
Cutie101
06-18-2022, 02:12 PM
The ones that do the shaming are usually the ugliest motherfuckers.
I swear this is the truest true shit. Everytime I see men complaining about women, they usually are ugly AND with a shit personality.
PS: What's the difference between a whore and a fucking whore?
A whore is a woman that sleeps with everyone.
A Fucking whore is a woman that sleeps with everyone but you! :smellie_g
Marina Starr
06-18-2022, 02:32 PM
You would think that if they're physically ugly, they would be kind so that people can overlook their ugliness but oftentimes it's the complete opposite.
I strongly believe and know so that they're bitter because their lack of good looks and decency don't get them much pussy or any at all so they act out.
And they wonder why they're incels.
I swear this is the truest true shit. Everytime I see men complaining about women, they usually are ugly AND with a shit personality.
PS: What's the difference between a whore and a fucking whore?
A whore is a woman that sleeps with everyone.
A Fucking whore is a woman that sleeps with everyone but you! :smellie_g
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2022, 04:45 AM
Just shame their ass right back.
Men are mostly insecure about their height, dick size, age & weight (as they get older), ability to provide (although these modern men have no shame in not being able to provide) ….. and bank account size.
Marina Starr
06-19-2022, 08:45 AM
You better believe I do it right back knowing how I can get when situations are called for with no hesitation, lmao.
Of course they're insecure and low value. High value men who are kind and respectful don't need to shame.
Just shame their ass right back.
Men are mostly insecure about their height, dick size, age & weight (as they get older), ability to provide (although these modern men have no shame in not being able to provide) ….. and bank account size.
AChildOfBoredom
06-19-2022, 08:02 PM
Ever go off on a dude who keeps grinding on your ass in spite of you repeatedly telling him to cut the shit, but you end up being the one ejected by the bouncers? So, yeah, that happened to me last night. I mean, sure, I might’ve cracked him in the nuts with a pool cue, but that’s no reason to overreact.
Marina Starr
06-20-2022, 12:47 PM
Predadors help other predators by doing nothing then come up afterwards and say how horrible that was and trying to fuck you.
NOT with me. I'll call them out for doing nothing and lay into them. I let them know how gross I find them to be.
And assholes that join in with cunts that are threatened by you and talk trash then come up afterwards trying to get favors by telling you what cunts said was horrible.
I lay into them too. I'm not stupid. I wasn't born yesterday.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2022, 01:20 PM
So here I am trying to eat my lunch in peace in my car with windows down and here comes this jerk off in this truck trying to "help me" fix my paint job on my car which I waved him away bc I'm not interested. Ok he literally keeps circling my car in his asking what happened, why am I acting this way. He wants to fix it for free etc. So I started acting out and yelling leave me alone I'm not interested Nothing in life is free and he got mad that I rejected him apparently so he circles me and called me a freak & what other derogatory names he was shouting. I ended up having to leave my spot and have to drive in traffic back to my house and eat my cold food, I'm sooo livid at men right now I fuqn hate them ugh! Like why bother ppl when they clearly wave you away to leave.
ravenskyy
06-20-2022, 02:24 PM
So here I am trying to eat my lunch in peace in my car with windows down and here comes this jerk off in this truck trying to "help me" fix my paint job on my car which I waved him away bc I'm not interested. Ok he literally keeps circling my car in his asking what happened, why am I acting this way. He wants to fix it for free etc. So I started acting out and yelling leave me alone I'm not interested Nothing in life is free and he got mad that I rejected him apparently so he circles me and called me a freak & what other derogatory names he was shouting. I ended up having to leave my spot and have to drive in traffic back to my house and eat my cold food, I'm sooo livid at men right now I fuqn hate them ugh! Like why bother ppl when they clearly wave you away to leave.
Omg, I'm sorry that happened to you! What a piece of shit! Why is it so fucking hard to leave someone alone!?!? Fuck men and fuck that asshole for upsetting you and making you feel unsafe. I hope someone repaints his car using a screwdriver as a paint brush.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2022, 02:42 PM
Omg, I'm sorry that happened to you! What a piece of shit! Why is it so fucking hard to leave someone alone!?!? Fuck men and fuck that asshole for upsetting you and making you feel unsafe. I hope someone repaints his car using a screwdriver as a paint brush.
Girl yaasss! Let's keep our fingers crossed lol
LoveyD
06-20-2022, 04:14 PM
So here I am trying to eat my lunch in peace in my car with windows down and here comes this jerk off in this truck trying to "help me" fix my paint job on my car which I waved him away bc I'm not interested. Ok he literally keeps circling my car in his asking what happened, why am I acting this way. He wants to fix it for free etc. So I started acting out and yelling leave me alone I'm not interested Nothing in life is free and he got mad that I rejected him apparently so he circles me and called me a freak & what other derogatory names he was shouting. I ended up having to leave my spot and have to drive in traffic back to my house and eat my cold food, I'm sooo livid at men right now I fuqn hate them ugh! Like why bother ppl when they clearly wave you away to leave.
Geez, what a psycho! Wtf is wrong with men who do this? Glad you got away from him. I hate it when men pull this crap.