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miss.a.p1600
07-11-2022, 08:24 AM
That's what they do.
Men at my job that keep separate accounts from wives and lie to them about the bills smh.
One of my relatives said her ex husband kept a mistress and a “love nest” / apartment that he was furnishing to keep his extramarital charade going.
she found out when she beat him to the mail (his dumb ass had the invoices mailed to his home address)
needless to say she remarried AND she controls the finances
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2022, 04:45 AM
Kind of pissed this homeless man in Starbucks asked me for money to eat.
On one hand I try to have compassion for the mentally ill / recovering addicts / homeless but cotdamn it Broke Bob …. Go get a job at Goodwill, wash some cars, or panhandle or suck a dick or something, shit!!! It’s not cool to be asking women for monetary handouts when you are an able bodied grown ass man!
LoveyD
07-12-2022, 07:22 AM
Dear Auto Mechanic,
You don't need to know my age, address, status, heritage, & no I am NOT taking off my mask so you can see my face! But thanks for the free diagnosis. They charge $150 elsewhere. And I found a female mechanic to help me for $200 less than your quote. So FU! !!
LoveyD
07-12-2022, 07:26 AM
Kind of pissed this homeless man in Starbucks asked me for money to eat.
On one hand I try to have compassion for the mentally ill / recovering addicts / homeless but cotdamn it Broke Bob …. Go get a job at Goodwill, wash some cars, or panhandle or suck a dick or something, shit!!! It’s not cool to be asking women for monetary handouts when you are an able bodied grown ass man!
I agree. If it weren't for a man's actions, I wouldn't be living out of my car rn.
Marina Starr
07-12-2022, 09:35 AM
I get where you’re coming from but sometimes it’s okay to assume the best because it’s hard to judge.
We don’t know his struggles.
I also feel there’s is no right or wrong way. Give what you can, when you want.
We do things for people not because they deserve it but because we’re kind hearted.
Kind of pissed this homeless man in Starbucks asked me for money to eat.
On one hand I try to have compassion for the mentally ill / recovering addicts / homeless but cotdamn it Broke Bob …. Go get a job at Goodwill, wash some cars, or panhandle or suck a dick or something, shit!!! It’s not cool to be asking women for monetary handouts when you are an able bodied grown ass man!
kamiliam
07-12-2022, 01:40 PM
That dude is all of a sudden religious again? I’m trying really hard to not waste energy and brain power on the idiot blues but god are they obtuse.
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2022, 04:35 PM
I get where you’re coming from but sometimes it’s okay to assume the best because it’s hard to judge.
We don’t know his struggles.
I also feel there’s is no right or wrong way. Give what you can, when you want.
We do things for people not because they deserve it but because we’re kind hearted.
Yeah he started talking and at first I was doing him like the strip club customers and ignoring him since I had to pay. But then I noticed another man helping him by buying him a coffee and seeming to care about him. I guess he’s a regular homeless man to that area/Starbucks.
He started telling his story about how he believed in God and was trying to clean his act up after losing everything to drug addiction.
the sun started glaring in the window, blinding me, and he reached over and rolled the shade down
i wondered if he was someone’s dad.
i was a little salty at first but that experience made me feel thankful I had some cash and money to comfortably go about my day
miss.a.p1600
07-13-2022, 03:57 AM
I hate how men act like they’ve found the cure to cancer just because they’ve done things they’re supposed to do ANYWAYS (ex. Cutting grass, buying groceries, paying bills)
Aurora_Sunset
07-13-2022, 05:34 AM
People say women are dramatic, but I just discovered that another guy from my past removed me from Facebook for absolutely no reason lol
He's been married for like 7 years now, and I've been nothing but supportive from a distance as a vague social media friend. I've donated money to his business opening a few years ago, as well as to his GoFundMe when he and his wife wanted to adopt. I wouldn't really care if he removed me if he wasn't a business owner and major extrovert who has thousands of friends, or "friends," on Facebook. Like, why, specifically, me? The only reason I even noticed is because I was suggested his new TikTok account where he announces he's getting into politics and running for state rep. I was like "oh, I wonder why I didn't see any announcement from him on Facebook." Guess that's why lol
Marina Starr
07-13-2022, 10:12 AM
When low value men know they ain't shit and are in the wrong, they'll try to talk over you. They want to dominate.
It gives me great joy when women, myself included putting them in their fucking place.
Violethollywood
07-13-2022, 12:16 PM
men are getting on my fucking nerves today. not my husband, but these fucking customers . I got this one that wants to text me all day and hold me hostage basically talking to him. he's so mentally exhausting. Fuck i need a vacation from these fucks lol. I'm also on my period, but after roe v wade got overturned, everything they do pisses me off now lol
xxxGothBarbie
07-13-2022, 01:18 PM
I'm mad at how utterly cheap they are lately. You can't tip me $20 mfer??!! I don't want your sorry ass business anymore anyways ugh
whirlerz
07-13-2022, 01:23 PM
I’m grossed out by the amount of men who are predators and the fact so many of them exist on this earth
^^^!
Kind of pissed this homeless man in Starbucks asked me for money to eat.
On one hand I try to have compassion for the mentally ill / recovering addicts / homeless but cotdamn it Broke Bob …. Go get a job at Goodwill, wash some cars, or panhandle or suck a dick or something, shit!!! It’s not cool to be asking women for monetary handouts when you are an able bodied grown ass man!
Yep.
I drove my roomie, 7 trips, (5 were 23 mi ea. way).. He tried to give me 80. FOH, I asked & gt 100. still way too low.
He got a great job, co. truck, probably sign on bonus & great hourly, (he previously had one, but it didn't work out he told me about it. ) does he give me any kickback from that (which he promised to!).
Nope.
He seemed like he wanted to talk to me one day, I just turned my head & walked away. PIG.
It's one thing to help someone, but, in my opinion they can damn well do something, it's easier for them to get jobs & $ (for the most part). & yes I acknowledge my stupidity.
+ this has happened time & time again, so my very bad.
UGH
In my opinion, they definitely mistake kindness for weakness.
WendiStarr
07-13-2022, 07:22 PM
I find it odd when men send offline tips with rude messages. Some guy sent me a tip with the message that I'm ugly but have nice tits. Ok, loser. Thanks for the $10.
Marina Starr
07-13-2022, 07:31 PM
LMAO. Are you gonna cry yourself to sleep Wendi?
I find it odd when men send offline tips with rude messages. Some guy sent me a tip with the message that I'm ugly but have nice tits. Ok, loser. Thanks for the $10.
Dreamqueen
07-13-2022, 11:58 PM
I have a few photos of myself when I was at the lake on my Instagram.
Some random dude commented that he wished he saw me while I was there, because he wants to meet me.
Huh?
I replied to his comment how creepy that sounds.
Like, why would you approach a total stranger?
He inboxed me that he's sorry, but I'm pretty so he would've wanted to talk to me if he saw me at the lake.
I replied that I'm not looking to meet anyone, and then blocked him.
Why do men think they have access to us, and our time, just because we're pretty?
I really hate how creepy and entitled men are.
miss.a.p1600
07-14-2022, 08:36 AM
I hate when men act like idiots aka themselves (annoying, argumentative, bratty, handsy, cheap, oblivious, etc) then want to act entitled to sex.
Boy bye!
You better come correct and perform a complete 180 or a lobotomy before I deal with you.
WendiStarr
07-14-2022, 10:13 AM
BD apparently has nothing better to do since we escaped him other than to start crap with me via text. He accused me of hacking his phone and social media accounts. I have no such skill. I don't know how to hack. I guess since he can't hurt me in person anymore he feels the need to still make baseless accusations. He said he's going to change his number and not give me his new one. Good. I don't care. I will change my number too and not give him my new one.
whirlerz
07-14-2022, 10:22 AM
BD apparently has nothing better to do since we escaped him other than to start crap with me via text. He accused me of hacking his phone and social media accounts. I have no such skill. I don't know how to hack. I guess since he can't hurt me in person anymore he feels the need to still make baseless accusations. He said he's going to change his number and not give me his new one. Good. I don't care. I will change my number too and not give him my new one.
Wendi, I'm so glad you got away from him!
Best to you & your girlies! :heartbeat
Aurora_Sunset
07-14-2022, 10:28 AM
BD apparently has nothing better to do since we escaped him other than to start crap with me via text. He accused me of hacking his phone and social media accounts. I have no such skill. I don't know how to hack. I guess since he can't hurt me in person anymore he feels the need to still make baseless accusations. He said he's going to change his number and not give me his new one. Good. I don't care. I will change my number too and not give him my new one.
I would've been like "Promise?" lol
LoveyD
07-14-2022, 01:38 PM
So happy you're free,. Wendi! Be safe and enjoy the peace.
xxxGothBarbie
07-14-2022, 02:07 PM
I just wanna bitch about how these idiot lazy construction workers earlier today were literally standing around with their dicks in their hands being so fucking lazy. I saw them standing around while on the clock, typical men's attitude about work these days. They don't wanna work hard if at all. Yet they wanna complain that women don't bring enough to the dam table..... I fucking hate most men bleh!
miss.a.p1600
07-14-2022, 04:11 PM
^on a similar note is half lazy men who actually do work but expect women to be out in the trenches working too.
Nah bitch I’m too pretty.
If you want someone getting it in the mud with you then go be with another man!
xxxGothBarbie
07-14-2022, 07:03 PM
^on a similar note is half lazy men who actually do work but expect women to be out in the trenches working too.
Nah bitch I’m too pretty.
If you want someone getting it in the mud with you then go be with another man!
I couldn't agree more lol!
xxxGothBarbie
07-14-2022, 07:10 PM
I also wanted to add that this married idiot I messed with a few years ago who lives in the Bible belt has been trying to hit me up alot lately. He makes me sick! Like go to your wife, jerk! He told me awhile ago during our hook up era that he regrets his kid and marriage.. typical pos man.
moneybags
07-15-2022, 02:17 AM
Damn…I’m full of rage.
This dude was hollering at me in my car after work. I lost my shit! I told him, “I hate men!” Yep, there’s no going back after Roe.
whirlerz
07-15-2022, 02:34 AM
What/why was he hollering @you money?
Sigh, doesn't matter, they're all big babies, that's what my Mom used to say..
This roomie w/gf, comes home from work & starts slamming things around, startled me..
Left a huge blender in one of the sinks, "(dirty, of course ::))
It's getting moved to the counter later, when I do my dishes!
Also his girl puts her dish drainer to the edge, that's getting moved as well..
Soo ignorant! >:
whirlerz
07-15-2022, 02:44 AM
^on a similar note is half lazy men who actually do work but expect women to be out in the trenches working too.
Nah bitch I’m too pretty.
If you want someone getting it in the mud with you then go be with another man!
It's so sickening to me,, to see these women roomies being slaves here.. They work, cook, clean, pay 1/2 the rent (or more!) & fuck them too?Noooo..
Ugh, I did the same years ago, soo gross how I wasted my time.
miss.a.p1600
07-15-2022, 06:59 AM
Today is supposed to be a good day but my partner started getting on my nerves as soon as he woke up.
Complaining about no sex in 2 weeks. (I’ve been on my cycle asshole!)
Having to drive for our date.
Popping balloons and causing me ptsd.
Saying he wished he didn’t have to work anymore.
And just overall being annoying.
Can’t wait till his off days are over and he is back to work.
He better do a complete 180
carmen_b
07-15-2022, 09:34 AM
I'm so glad I've never done that ! Ha. I'm working ? Then we are getting domestic help ( house keeping ect. ) !
If both people work full time ALL domestic labor is shared ( grocery runs / cooking ect ) !
Men can be such idiots.
What I can't figure out is why these women would give the dudes TIME ! If he isn't making life easier just ditch him.
More time for yourself to be making $ , saving, traveling , ect . !
What are you getting exactly other than a close view of what lazy looks like ?
It's so sickening to me,, to see these women roomies being slaves here.. They work, cook, clean, pay 1/2 the rent (or more!) & fuck them too?Noooo..
Ugh, I did the same years ago, soo gross how I wasted my time.
xxxGothBarbie
07-15-2022, 10:34 AM
I'm literally starting to see how mine is such a loser ,all he wants to do is blow all of his money on beer during the week and right after payday ugh. He does pay for me on the weekends but that's just not enough anymore especially to have to deal with staying here.
moneybags
07-15-2022, 11:23 AM
What/why was he hollering @you money?
Sigh, doesn't matter, they're all big babies, that's what my Mom used to say..
This roomie w/gf, comes home from work & starts slamming things around, startled me..
Left a huge blender in one of the sinks, "(dirty, of course ::))
It's getting moved to the counter later, when I do my dishes!
Also his girl puts her dish drainer to the edge, that's getting moved as well.
Soo ignorant! >:
He said he was asking for cigarette? He was just being trash. It’s 4 am in the morning and driving to the bank downtown to deposit my money, and this dude is yelling at me from the sidewalk. At first, I ignored it. Then I was at a stop light and he started approaching my car. That’s when I let him have it! I felt good to let all that rage out. I’m not the same girl anymore. I’ve put up with so much, but I’m done now! After Roe, I have zero fucks to give. Because they’ve shown us they just want to control us. Men have been silent. Im gonna make every man feel like shit when they Harrass me then gaslight me to think I’m over reacting to years of being terrorized by men. Im not over reacting. Men kill women. Don’t talk to me in the middle of the night an expect me to be nice. Im gonna be a mega cunt because that’s the only way these men understand.
His voice, “I was just asking for a cigarette?” While I’m in my car in the middle of the night!?!? I don’t have a cigarette in my hand?!?!
He wasn’t homeless. He was dressed nice.
Don’t approach women at night period! Period! Period!
I hate men. I don’t care if I’m being toxic. Men have abused us since the beginning of time then when we stand up for ourselves they gaslight us.
I’m done!
whirlerz
07-15-2022, 11:38 AM
Ok.
Ooh, do be careful, especially at that hour, glad ur ok!
Just that I've read several articles, people out early am, a couple men got beat to death, 1 got robbed, was shot 3x including in the face!
moneybags
07-15-2022, 11:43 AM
Ok.
Ooh, do be careful, especially at that hour, glad ur ok!
Just that I've read several articles, people out early am, a couple men got beat to death, 1 got robbed, was shot 3x including in the face!
Crazy! I really do want to get a gun. I’m waiting to get the proper training thought. I don’t want to be like Yosemite Sam.
57484
indiegirl
07-15-2022, 04:11 PM
Ya'll walk in here mad over an average sized dick....................Well, I'm MAD. I had to thumb jerk a micro-penis and look happy about it today BAHAHA. They never want sex obvi, it won't fit. I'm here to rage about micro-peens!
whirlerz
07-15-2022, 04:48 PM
So... Sorry if judgmental, some men really need a vasectomy!
Case in point, Elon Musk, got his step daughter pregnant? What, ugh
Nick Cannon, tho he proposed & gave BM an engagement ring, he said he'd marry Kim K in heartbeat, or his ex, Mariah Carey!
Cutie101
07-15-2022, 04:59 PM
Case in point, Elon Musk, got his step daughter pregnant? What, ugh
Whaaaa? Omg hahahahaha!!! I mean, pornhub's main page is full of step shit, this dude really does it huh?:O
moneybags
07-15-2022, 07:24 PM
Whaaaa? Omg hahahahaha!!! I mean, pornhub's main page is full of step shit, this dude really does it huh?:O
It’s his Dad. Not him
Marina Starr
07-16-2022, 11:41 AM
What I've been telling vanilla hoes. There's no such thing as stealing another woman's man. House training starts at home.
https://i.ibb.co/rHjST31/white-1.jpg (https://ibb.co/kX7fkJW)
whirlerz
07-16-2022, 01:36 PM
It’s his Dad. Not him
Yes^
https://www.the-sun.com/news/5763920/elon-musk-father-child-stepdaughter/
miss.a.p1600
07-16-2022, 03:23 PM
I can’t wait until L goes back to work.
The next time his ass takes a week off, I’m booking a solo trip elsewhere.
I hate when men are just hanging around the house with no purpose, no friends, nowhere to go.
moneybags
07-16-2022, 03:59 PM
I just needed to vent. The “toxic” feminine in me is so angry. I use to try to say not all men, but now IDGAF. I will treat every guy I don’t know like the enemy. That’s not in my nature, but these mother fuckers have mistaken my kindness for weakness.
Marina Starr
07-16-2022, 05:07 PM
I’m not this way with men but I can see how you could but I totally agreed on the bolded part!
It’s true for me that the kinder and nicer I try to be, I’m not treated well. People think they can come at me unkindly.
Being a bitch get me treated so much better. So being a bitchy bitch it is!
I just needed to vent. The “toxic” feminine in me is so angry. I use to try to say not all men, but now IDGAF. I will treat every guy I don’t know like the enemy. That’s not in my nature, but these mother fuckers have mistaken my kindness for weakness.
moneybags
07-16-2022, 07:18 PM
I just needed to vent. The “toxic” feminine in me is so angry. I use to try to say not all men, but now IDGAF. I will treat every guy I don’t know like the enemy. That’s not in my nature, but these mother fuckers have mistaken my kindness for weakness.
I’m not this way with men but I can see how you could but I totally agreed on the bolded part!
It’s true for me that the kinder and nicer I try to be, I’m not treated well. People think they can come at me unkindly.
Being a bitch get me treated so much better. So being a bitchy bitch it is!
I’m just venting. I’m still very, very angry about Roe. So far the men in my personal life have been extremely nice to me. I’m just so pissed there’s so many toxic and complicit men that uphold the patriarchy. Agh! I wish I could cut them off, but because I live in a conservative state I can’t cut them off completely. To be fair, women are just as fucking bad about enabling it.
I have an appointment with my therapist, but until then I’m just simmering with non stop anger about how badly our society treats women. Then when we react to the abuse we’re called “toxic.”
miss.a.p1600
07-17-2022, 04:09 AM
I just needed to vent. The “toxic” feminine in me is so angry. I use to try to say not all men, but now IDGAF. I will treat every guy I don’t know like the enemy. That’s not in my nature, but these mother fuckers have mistaken my kindness for weakness.
I do too.
I try to be fair and recognize that not -all- men are bumbling fools but when I get to the point of enraged….yes it includes ALL men
LoveyD
07-17-2022, 07:33 AM
I’m just venting. I’m still very, very angry about Roe. So far the men in my personal life have been extremely nice to me. I’m just so pissed there’s so many toxic and complicit men that uphold the patriarchy. Agh! I wish I could cut them off, but because I live in a conservative state I can’t cut them off completely. To be fair, women are just as fucking bad about enabling it.
I have an appointment with my therapist, but until then I’m just simmering with non stop anger about how badly our society treats women. Then when we react to the abuse we’re called “toxic.”
Women are targets of narcissistic abuse and therefore we must rebel.
whirlerz
07-17-2022, 10:54 AM
Putting this here, it does involve the couple I can't stand, but since he drives everything.. ::)
So, I guess they used to get breakfast @ Dunkin' or whatever, but I hear her banging pots around so.. She's cooking his royal Nibs (he doesn't help, or reciprocate) breakfast.
Keep in mind there's already a shit load dirty plates out there on counter :yikes: from couple days ago?!
Idk WTF she cooked this time but Reeeally stunk, badly I scrambled to spray, open my windows, a/c, etc..
So I also ripped my nail way down, opening pistachios, (was hungry, didn't want to go out there)..
I'm looking at a slightly larger mini fridge w/separate freezer compartment (3.3cu ft) around 200. + a microwave (around 60.) I barely have any freezer space.
I DGAF if it blows the circuits to hell (cb in my room anyway) & the cost, well, it's worth it to me for piece of mind!
I had to speak to her & the other gal about the former roomie walking right in the house demanding shit, he already talked to prop Mgr that he's gone.
The one girl suggested I put up a sign to keep door locked (which I did, but should be done anyway?)
& the one bitch @me cause I 'waited' to put up sign , BITCH, call prop Mgr, leave me out of it!
Jeez.
I. Am. Done. PIGSS
miss.a.p1600
07-17-2022, 11:29 AM
God I cannot wait until he takes his ass back to work!
Shit! I’m NEVER doing a week long break with him again.
This endless couples shit, riding everywhere together, is getting on my everlasting nerves.
whirlerz
07-17-2022, 01:01 PM
Wondering if I should print this out, leave it on the kitchen table?
https://www.tastingtable.com/925894/the-quickest-way-to-dispose-of-used-cooking-oil/
Aurora_Sunset
07-17-2022, 04:32 PM
It always seems like the guys who think they're the most "woke," "liberal," and "feminist" are some of the worst misogynists and "Nice Guys." At least guys who don't walk around claiming to be anything other than a "typical dumbass guy" will say shit without meaning to and then might actually apologize and say "Oh shit, I didn't think of it like that," when you call them out. These "woke" dudes will say shit that I just can't believe they don't KNOW is problematic. And god forbid you call them out, they refuse to believe that they're anything other than an ally - they're just being "logical."