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xxxGothBarbie
07-17-2022, 04:44 PM
I can’t wait until L goes back to work.

The next time his ass takes a week off, I’m booking a solo trip elsewhere.

I hate when men are just hanging around the house with no purpose, no friends, nowhere to go.

UGH I can sooo relate!
BF has been off since yesterday afteernoon & I'm beyond past the point of feeling smothered by him. All he's done is drink & blow money on himself and drinking. That $ could've been spent all on me and or saving for my birthday next weekend but nooooo. Just looking at him drunk & passed out snoring makes me pissed off & smothered at the same time. He's such a waste of my time! It's not even worth using him anymore for a free place to stay.

carmen_b
07-17-2022, 08:12 PM
Why would you even burn vacation time to just be in your home area!
Save that PTO for a trip!
Wtf ?


God I cannot wait until he takes his ass back to work!

Shit! I’m NEVER doing a week long break with him again.

This endless couples shit, riding everywhere together, is getting on my everlasting nerves.

carmen_b
07-17-2022, 08:14 PM
Too much drinking is super gross. J knows I get into anxiety land if he has more than 3 drinks ( within a few hours ).
I HATE "drunk" behavior. I need to be making $$$$ if people are talking slower / doing the usual . After working in bars we just can not tolerate it . It's not really " free" if you are annoyed at every moment !


UGH I can sooo relate!
BF has been off since yesterday afteernoon & I'm beyond past the point of feeling smothered by him. All he's done is drink & blow money on himself and drinking. That $ could've been spent all on me and or saving for my birthday next weekend but nooooo. Just looking at him drunk & passed out snoring makes me pissed off & smothered at the same time. He's such a waste of my time! It's not even worth using him anymore for a free place to stay.

whirlerz
07-18-2022, 01:01 AM
Former blocked roomie texting me about former crush.. FUCK NO::)

carmen_b
07-18-2022, 07:13 AM
^ Someone is asking you about the disappointing crush boy ?
Stay OUT of it ! haha

xxxGothBarbie
07-18-2022, 10:21 AM
Too much drinking is super gross. J knows I get into anxiety land if he has more than 3 drinks ( within a few hours ).
I HATE "drunk" behavior. I need to be making $$$$ if people are talking slower / doing the usual . After working in bars we just can not tolerate it . It's not really " free" if you are annoyed at every moment !

EXACTLY! :)
I was beyond grossed out by it. I then started messaging with my U.K crushy instead after he was passed out sleeping LOL
I'm keeping shit civil as I plan my escape though. I might even end up leaving NY and heading to a neighboring state to lower costs briefly, I dunno yet. Doesn't seem to make much difference cost wise bc I'll still be in a hotel/airbnb if /when I do leave.

whirlerz
07-18-2022, 10:23 AM
^ Someone is asking you about the disappointing crush boy ?
Stay OUT of it ! haha

Right, he's a mooch, he wants to scam him out of $. Like he did me :(

miss.a.p1600
07-18-2022, 08:24 PM
Why would you even burn vacation time to just be in your home area!
Save that PTO for a trip!
Wtf ?


Its partly me. I refused to accompany him out of town until is see forward action on something meaningful (ex. Apply for higher paying career, etc) but I said please go out of town with your kids. He chose to smother me in town. He is the epitome of clingy af and it’s really annoying. I’m taking a solo work trip soon. That will teach him!

miss.a.p1600
07-18-2022, 08:26 PM
I’m trying to read stripper webs and he is here facing my direction
Hard to be discreet
Turn your ass around!

moneybags
07-19-2022, 11:12 PM
Former blocked roomie texting me about former crush.. FUCK NO::)

Fuck that drama. Did you get the lamp back? I hope so.

whirlerz
07-20-2022, 11:46 AM
Fuck that drama. Did you get the lamp back? I hope so.

Lol, yes, his brother had it ("he was staying here, gone now)
He'd told him to give it back, it's in my storage, safe now:)

Marina Starr
07-20-2022, 12:01 PM
It's been my experience that men who think they get away with being creepy and predatory with me are old white men. They like to following me around the stores. I've had some gone even as far as stalking and leaving sexual notes on my car. The entitlement is strong in them.

Some old white bastard was following me around Publix this morning so I told his ugly ass he's getting real creepy and stop following me. He got the smirk on his face so he knew what he was doing. He told me he wasn't following and I'm weird. I'm 100% sure he's done this to a lot of vanilla hoes. Creeps always blame your reaction to their predatory behavior and gaslighting you into believing you're reacting to something that didn't happen.

One of the highlights of my day was watching him walked away all upset after I told him I don't do predators and how he grossed me out.

https://i.ibb.co/b6S6qRx/pinkprintrae-tiffany.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

miss.a.p1600
07-20-2022, 03:04 PM
I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like living with men.

The best set up is if they travel frequently for work. Or pay for separate homes or house big enough to have separate wings.

I hate the pissy toilets, wet towels everywhere, clothes and towels left everywhere, hairs in the sink, snoring, burping/farting, taking loudly, bringing their loud kids to my house when I’m not in the mood, having conversations when I’m not in the mood, trying to have sex when I’m not in the mood, sexual harassment when I want to be non sexual nude. And more annoying dumb shit they constantly do.

I see why Betty was sleeping in separate bed or separate room.

Cutie101
07-20-2022, 03:30 PM
I
I hate the pissy toilets, wet towels everywhere, clothes and towels left everywhere, hairs in the sink.

Honestly, this is more of his education, not the nature of men. Mine is peeing sitting on toilet and he never leaves stuff thrown around, he always cleans after himself, puts his dirty stuff in the laundry basket.. You need to talk to him about this, because he's a grown up and it's not ok to act like he has a maid, or like he's a toddler.

Even my bf's single male friends are peeing sitting on toilet, because it's the best way to actually keep it clean. You pee standing on the side of the road or in a public toilet, duh.

On the other thing, I agree with you... it feels good to have my separate work apartament, I feel like our relationship improved.

chanzep
07-20-2022, 04:11 PM
I wouldn't live with a man again . Even my worst roommates were men ugh.

whirlerz
07-20-2022, 05:42 PM
But there's females (besides me, 2) here..

I was horrified to see several menstrual pads rolled up in their trash in their bathroom (I've my own) :yikes:

That little trash can in bathroom is never emptied unless I do it, they don't clean the toilet either, or take up the dumpsters (rn they're both almost) full..

The little slave, I mean guy's gf has a shit load of dirty dishes sitting on the kitchen counter, she cooks daily, sometimes twice a day.

I'm going to have to start spraying, I put gel bait down I don't/haven't seen anything so far, but greasy pans & dirty dishes are left out for days or weeks sometimes ..

Go look at the roomies thread, you'll see pics I took of mice droppings all over the kitchen, in 4 yrs that's the worst I've seen it, ever!

PS Ignore the frog, it the other pic

carmen_b
07-20-2022, 06:35 PM
I used to think my friend V was crazy for keeping her condo 4-5 YEARS lol after she got serious with her partner.
Now I don't think that.


I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like living with men.

The best set up is if they travel frequently for work. Or pay for separate homes or house big enough to have separate wings.

I hate the pissy toilets, wet towels everywhere, clothes and towels left everywhere, hairs in the sink, snoring, burping/farting, taking loudly, bringing their loud kids to my house when I’m not in the mood, having conversations when I’m not in the mood, trying to have sex when I’m not in the mood, sexual harassment when I want to be non sexual nude. And more annoying dumb shit they constantly do.

I see why Betty was sleeping in separate bed or separate room.

miss.a.p1600
07-21-2022, 04:48 AM
I confess.

I hope my clingy partner takes these jobs out of town! He would make an extra $20k per year

I sent his contact info to recruiters lol.

I hate how he acts so reluctant to get a higher paying job just so he can “stay by my side”

Mf that would be cute if I had a newborn or I was disabled. I said multiple times I want him to take higher paying jobs n if out of town then so be it. He is acting all “I’m shocked you want me to travel for work!”……

Bitch check your male privilege at the door.

You don’t make enough money at home for me to want you to stay at home. All the women who don’t want their husbands to travel is because he makes MORE THAN ENOUGH locally and it would be too risky to send a horny rich man out by himself.

It’s more risky to have you sitting here local making peanuts and smothering tf out of me.

Wtf is not registering through your thick skull ?!?!?

whirlerz
07-21-2022, 08:17 AM
UGH!

The one roomie stayed home from work today, now the house has to stink, be too warm, & all the lights are on, why?

He will sit in all day, unless he goes out to gun range..

carmen_b
07-21-2022, 10:15 AM
Oh you didn't tell us you were chained to something in your house. lol

Does he not realize you could ALSO go out of town hahaha ?
A 20K bump is certainly enough to purchase a hotel a few nights while you figure this all out.

Hell I'd probably another email address and email these folks back on his behalf haha.
Get him hired and pack his bag hahaha !


I confess.

I hope my clingy partner takes these jobs out of town! He would make an extra $20k per year

I sent his contact info to recruiters lol.

I hate how he acts so reluctant to get a higher paying job just so he can “stay by my side”

WendiStarr
07-21-2022, 10:42 AM
I hate random men telling me to smile. I went to the ice machine to get ice and this random man said,"Smile. It can't be that bad". I glared at him and walked away. I wanted so badly to scream,"Are you fucking kidding me?! I am a single mom, homeless living in an extended stay hotel with 3 kids because I escaped an abusive man. I'm exhausted, depressed as fuck, frustrated. I can't even find a stable place to live right now because everything is either too expensive or only 1 bedroom. I hate men
now and the last thing I want to deal with is some dipshit man telling me to fucking smile." I felt like going off about how some of us are not staying in an extended hotel because our employers put us there(he was wearing business attire) for some cushy business trip. Some of us are living there because we have nowhere else to go than to live there or go back with an abusive man.

carmen_b
07-21-2022, 12:22 PM
^^ Ew , men still do this ?
Aren’t there a million memes and articles saying do not do that ?!?

whirlerz
07-21-2022, 07:11 PM
Well, I was sitting outside, when I walked in my room I smelled that nasty cigar smell from the guy upstairs, never smelled that in my room.. I don't have a vent except in my bathroom.

I went upstairs & sprayed Ozium. Nasty AF.
I put my small air purifier on, I'm waiting on another one to be delivered.

moneybags
07-22-2022, 02:59 AM
I hate random men telling me to smile. I went to the ice machine to get ice and this random man said,"Smile. It can't be that bad". I glared at him and walked away. I wanted so badly to scream,"Are you fucking kidding me?! I am a single mom, homeless living in an extended stay hotel with 3 kids because I escaped an abusive man. I'm exhausted, depressed as fuck, frustrated. I can't even find a stable place to live right now because everything is either too expensive or only 1 bedroom. I hate men
now and the last thing I want to deal with is some dipshit man telling me to fucking smile." I felt like going off about how some of us are not staying in an extended hotel because our employers put us there(he was wearing business attire) for some cushy business trip. Some of us are living there because we have nowhere else to go than to live there or go back with an abusive man.

You should have.


I was at the gas station taking my make up off and this guy approaches my car. NEVER approach a woman at night. I’m crazy. He’s lucky I wasn’t particularly scared. So he’s standing outside my car staring at me. I drove off without getting bendrayl for my allergies. Now feel like shit. All because this guy had to bug me. He was holding a beer and a cigarette. Ugh. Leave me alone!

miss.a.p1600
07-22-2022, 08:18 AM
Oh you didn't tell us you were chained to something in your house. lol

Does he not realize you could ALSO go out of town hahaha ?
A 20K bump is certainly enough to purchase a hotel a few nights while you figure this all out.

Hell I'd probably another email address and email these folks back on his behalf haha.
Get him hired and pack his bag hahaha !

Lol! L is the epitome of ball n chains right now.

How do I find out his social security to fill out these apps for him?

Part of me just wants to focus on my detox and my new job and MYSELF and stacking for my solo trip in OCT that I’m not telling him about until last minute. Then lying to him about how I paid for it (I’ll say my dad or something paid it last min).

I feel like if he procrastinates on these higher paying jobs that will give me more than enough amo (not that I need any reason) to throw in his face when I hightail it out of here.

miss.a.p1600
07-22-2022, 09:13 AM
Lol! L is the epitome of ball n chains right now.

How do I find out his social security to fill out these apps for him?

Part of me just wants to focus on my detox and my new job and MYSELF and stacking for my solo trip in OCT that I’m not telling him about until last minute. Then lying to him about how I paid for it (I’ll say my dad or something paid it last min).

I feel like if he procrastinates on these higher paying jobs that will give me more than enough amo (not that I need any reason) to throw in his face when I hightail it out of here.

Nvmd. I realized he left some papers out. I may look around and see what I can find.

Marina Starr
07-22-2022, 12:07 PM
Men love when you're mean to them or don't treat them well. They love bitches. I'm sure no one told a lot of hoes this or they just don't want it to be true.

I'm so glad I learned this when I was young and beautiful. And STILL young and beautiful!

whirlerz
07-23-2022, 07:00 AM
Wow, this article, a man beat his wife to death on their honeymoon in Fiji..

The ignorance of the comments is beyond the worst ever.

I reported more than half, FOH!

https://abcnews.go.com/International/american-man-accused-murdering-wife-honeymoon-fiji/story?id=87233767

Dreamqueen
07-23-2022, 02:00 PM
Men love when you're mean to them or don't treat them well. They love bitches. I'm sure no one told a lot of hoes this or they just don't want it to be true.

I'm so glad I learned this when I was young and beautiful. And STILL young and beautiful!
Have you ever read the book "Why men love bitches?"
I discovered it back in the day when it first came out.
It's always stuck in my head (the techniques I'm referring to).

chanzep
07-23-2022, 02:15 PM
Great book I read years ago. It was recommended by a very successful escort.

Marina Starr
07-23-2022, 03:57 PM
Have you ever read the book "Why men love bitches?"
I discovered it back in the day when it first came out.
It's always stuck in my head (the techniques I'm referring to).


Yes, I have it. I call it my Hoe Bibble. Bitches to me means empowered hoes.

merriam-webster defines 'empowered'

adjective. having the knowledge, confidence, means, or ability to do things or make decisions for oneself.

make (someone) stronger and more confident, especially in controlling their life and claiming their rights.



Sounds pretty awesome to me!

miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 04:29 PM
This dude has lost his EVERLASTING mind.

Bruh you don’t make my life hard by springing your kid on me last minute then have the audacity to ask for sex.

Bitch please!

Go Jack off. Leave me tf alone.

miss.a.p1600
07-23-2022, 04:53 PM
Wow, this article, a man beat his wife to death on their honeymoon in Fiji..

The ignorance of the comments is beyond the worst ever.

I reported more than half, FOH!

https://abcnews.go.com/International/american-man-accused-murdering-wife-honeymoon-fiji/story?id=87233767

Watch this fool try to lie and she wanted kinky sex so he choked her and she died on accident or something ridiculous

I’ll be he was after the insurance money

buttonpop
07-23-2022, 06:52 PM
Have you ever read the book "Why men love bitches?"
I discovered it back in the day when it first came out.
It's always stuck in my head (the techniques I'm referring to).

I'm so curious, what are some of the techniques?

Dreamqueen
07-24-2022, 12:00 AM
I'm so curious, what are some of the techniques?

C'mon over.
I'll read it to you.
We'll have a pajama party.
Everyone's invited.
Instead of scary stories, those of us who have read it will share examples of how well the techniques work.
:D

whirlerz
07-24-2022, 07:51 AM
There's a thread talking about the book in this ^ section.

Dreamqueen
07-24-2022, 01:00 PM
Add to our 'Reading' list, is "Ho Tactics "
Need I say more? Lol
This book is on my nightstand. Right next to my vibrators.
Lest I forget.:crossfing:writing:

miss.a.p1600
07-24-2022, 03:24 PM
^ho tactics is a classic

It’s a great read on how to make sure you don’t get taken advantage of by men.

Marina Starr
07-25-2022, 08:45 AM
I'm bothered by men that overly manspread in public spaces. A lot of times they would give off so much sexual innuendos. It's usually always the ugliest motherfuckers that do that.

The look I always give them that says I'm disgusted. Always wipes the smirk off their face:

https://i.ibb.co/sbsCkmT/72Qy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

TheBrownFox
07-25-2022, 12:39 PM
LOL at how this dude (who made out with me a while back, and texted and talked on the phone with me briefly until he decided to ghost me) saw me at karaoke night on a date night with my now-boyfriend, and kept looking in our direction like he wanted to talk to me. He even told the bartender he'd like to buy a drink for me and my guy. I politely said no thanks, since I'm not really a drinker anyway. When we decided to head upstairs to dance in the room where our favorite DJ is, 'Ole Casper the Friendly Ghost looked disappointed. Funny how these men have the nerve to look crushed when they see us women with someone else, and all smiles.

miss.a.p1600
07-25-2022, 01:36 PM
I wish my partner would shut the fuck up about his deceased mother and how “wonderful” she was.

Um no.

This woman coddled you, enabled you, and FAILED you as a mother.

Im glad she’s not here because I’m certain we would not get along.

lilylilylily
07-25-2022, 03:43 PM
I responded to my exs texts a few times in very short answers, he then asked to see me twice which I didn't respond to. Now he's sending me "good morning, off to work" texts like I care... Does he think we're back together lol what a weirdo. I mean I wouldn't mind being just platonic friends with him because I'm a loner but I know he'd say or do something to annoy me and it wouldn't work out. I wish it wasn't hard for me to just block people lol

Marina Starr
07-25-2022, 03:54 PM
No judgment here but the feelings you have should be enough. Be completely honest with yourself why you haven’t blocked him. Is it because you like the attention or the sex was bomb?! Whatever that is, own it.

Blocking becomes easier when you know you deserve better. You can’t bring old feelings into new experiences.


I responded to my exs texts a few times in very short answers, he then asked to see me twice which I didn't respond to. Now he's sending me "good morning, off to work" texts like I care... Does he think we're back together lol what a weirdo. I mean I wouldn't mind being just platonic friends with him because I'm a loner but I know he'd say or do something to annoy me and it wouldn't work out. I wish it wasn't hard for me to just block people lol

lilylilylily
07-25-2022, 04:23 PM
It's gotta be attention because the sex was not great, he wouldn't even make a good fwb, most of the time he couldn't care less about getting me off..plus he was always inconsistent..we did have some good times which I kind of miss but we were both mostly drunk, these days I rarely drink..His offers to see me recently were to get a drink which I'm not interested in. If it were food offers maybe I'd agree lol...either way he'd expect sex which the thought of that now with him disgusts me. Lol yep I need to block

carmen_b
07-25-2022, 05:04 PM
^ Sounds like maybe you do need to block.
I find it really upsetting if I wasn't treated well and tend to use the block feature liberally.

xxxGothBarbie
07-28-2022, 03:06 PM
So I got my new phone today yay :)
I'm coming out of the Metro store and this idiot literally being all ghetto the way he thought he was so swag tried to pick me up in the parking lot and I ignored him so he didn't like that very much ,he actually got louder as I continued to walk away. I get to my car the mother f***** comes up next to the door and says let me get your phone number and I wave him away. Thankfully my door was locked these guys are f****** stupid. It really enraged me his ballsiness to keep on when I'm clearly uninterested.

moneybags
07-28-2022, 03:45 PM
Working on my patriarchal rage

https://theschoolofvisibility.com/women-and-rage-series

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2022, 05:44 AM
Im sitting here minding my business in Starbucks then some cocksucking douchebag comes in the area I’m sitting, aggressively and loudly raises the sunshade (now it’s still dark but really bitch?!?), then kicks the ottoman next to him over.

What a piece of work.

THIS is why I don’t like sharing spaces with idiot men.

I instantly got up an moved away from his narcissistic demon energy.

Not today Satan!

Marina Starr
07-29-2022, 09:12 AM
You did the right thing. You shouldn't have to move but for your peace and well being, it's worth it!

Side note, I now use a cart when I'm doing any shopping. It's a great barricade in making it harder for fuckboys and predators to get close to you and pretending to be nice guys and apologize and shit. I don't give a fuck if I'm only buy 1 thing.


Im sitting here minding my business in Starbucks then some cocksucking douchebag comes in the area I’m sitting, aggressively and loudly raises the sunshade (now it’s still dark but really bitch?!?), then kicks the ottoman next to him over.

What a piece of work.

THIS is why I don’t like sharing spaces with idiot men.

I instantly got up an moved away from his narcissistic demon energy.

Not today Satan!

Dreamqueen
07-29-2022, 12:08 PM
You did the right thing. You shouldn't have to move but for your peace and well being, it's worth it!

Side note, I now use a cart when I'm doing any shopping. It's a great barricade in making it harder for fuckboys and predators to get close to you and pretending to be nice guys and apologize and shit. I don't give a fuck if I'm only buy 1 thing.

I do that too.
I'll put the cart behind me at the cashier stand so there's a barrier between me and the person behind me.
I've always had a problem with men standing too close.