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xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2022, 12:15 PM
Next time I encounter such idiots, I'm gonna clown their asses in public in front of everyone within earshot. I'm gonna loudly express how uninterested and grossed out I am by them lol. Too many of these idiots have the kind of self deluded confidence that make me sick. When I screamed at the moron in the street he sped off while I laughed at him. I clowned him right then & there for trying to pick me up when I clearly don't look interested.
LoveyD
07-29-2022, 04:35 PM
Next time a guy asks me if I'm single & what I do for fun I'm just going to tell them yes I am single and for fun I stay home, relax, and avoid men at all costs so i can continue to enjoy my stress-free life lol. They need to hear it.
miss.a.p1600
07-29-2022, 07:23 PM
You did the right thing. You shouldn't have to move but for your peace and well being, it's worth it!
Side note, I now use a cart when I'm doing any shopping. It's a great barricade in making it harder for fuckboys and predators to get close to you and pretending to be nice guys and apologize and shit. I don't give a fuck if I'm only buy 1 thing.
I hate people invading my space while standing in line.
The best thing about the pandemic is those floor stickers telling people not to breathe down strangers necks whilst standing in line. And do you believe that there are really dumb people who act like they can’t read and will STILL be invading space.
Annoying af
I’ve been doing the shopping cart trick to force people to have boundaries.
Why mf think it’s okay to stand that close to a stranger in line ?!?
Marina Starr
07-29-2022, 08:07 PM
Don't you love when dudes followed you on instagram then unfollowed because their wives/girlfriends may find out?
It gives me joy to ban every single one of them, lol.
Marina Starr
07-29-2022, 09:16 PM
I tell guys all the time how gross I find them and their predatory behaviors. Love crushing them, lol. They're not used to being told off.
Next time I encounter such idiots, I'm gonna clown their asses in public in front of everyone within earshot. I'm gonna loudly express how uninterested and grossed out I am by them lol. Too many of these idiots have the kind of self deluded confidence that make me sick. When I screamed at the moron in the street he sped off while I laughed at him. I clowned him right then & there for trying to pick me up when I clearly don't look interested.
indiegirl
07-31-2022, 07:56 PM
I had a hilarious ho-experience last night. My uber talked about how awkward it was driving a pornstar yesterday and hi-lighted on the fact she was in an uber so she must not make much money and blah blah blah. I waited until he was done and close to arrival I told him "You know what's funny, you said you won't forget that driving experience with her but I work in the same industry. I wanted to see what you had to say first." Hahaha
TheBrownFox
07-31-2022, 10:52 PM
I had a hilarious ho-experience last night. My uber talked about how awkward it was driving a pornstar yesterday and hi-lighted on the fact she was in an uber so she must not make much money and blah blah blah. I waited until he was done and close to arrival I told him "You know what's funny, you said you won't forget that driving experience with her but I work in the same industry. I wanted to see what you had to say first." Hahaha
I hope he didn't ask her obnoxious questions like "So what made you do this? Does it bother your boyfriend/husband? What does your family think?"
And while he's making fun of her (behind her back to other people) for taking an Uber, I bet he envisioned himself getting sucked and/or fucked by her.
Marina Starr
08-01-2022, 05:41 AM
I hate when dudes stare too long. I was making my way into Publix and this dude kept staring at me so I told him to watch his eyes cause shit was getting creepy. He said sorry. I told him to not say sorry, just stop it. When I got out of Publix he turned the other way. I love being a bitch, lol. I swear vanilla hoes let them get away with murder.
moneybags
08-01-2022, 06:29 PM
I just came to brag I made a guy really uncomfortable when I unintentionally pointed out a truth-men only want sex from women I wasn’t trying to make him uncomfortable, but I’m no longer denying my lived experience to make men more comfortable.
I’m under a don’t ask don’t tell policy. Don’t ask personal questions unless you want to hear my personal opinion
My Dr (the one that tried to sleep with me for 3 months before telling me had a girlfriend) made an innocent comment about that instead of hanging out alone on the beach I should find someone to go boating with. So every single time I’ve been invited to go boating it’s 100% been a guy trying to sleep with me. I’m not trying to hang out on a boat with a group of guys entertaining them for free on day off. Again, I know my Dr. didn’t mean anything by it. It’s basically unpaid sex work to me. I just like being alone and I hate how men try to shame single women. Especially him! It was only a few months ago he was flirting with me behind his girlfriends back. I have since had strict boundaries and very business like with him. I’m no longer stroking his ego for free. I’m paying him. I deserve to have a service without him trying to get in my pants. I swear conservative white men. They get on my nerves with “their opinions”
Aurora_Sunset
08-02-2022, 06:05 AM
I had a hilarious ho-experience last night. My uber talked about how awkward it was driving a pornstar yesterday and hi-lighted on the fact she was in an uber so she must not make much money and blah blah blah. I waited until he was done and close to arrival I told him "You know what's funny, you said you won't forget that driving experience with her but I work in the same industry. I wanted to see what you had to say first." Hahaha
Taking Ubers everywhere is expensive. So thinking that she only does that because she doesn't make much money is backwards logic.
I've had a few experiences of people talking about strippers or other sex workers they met at their jobs, not realizing they were still talking to one... I've never had the balls to say anything to them as I was leaving though lol I just never went back.
WendiStarr
08-02-2022, 07:12 AM
^ True! Ubers are expensive as fuck, especially these days. I had to take one yesterday and it cost $40 just to get a ride one-way, 3 miles away.
I'm annoyed with a former SD who offered to buy groceries and diapers and drop them off before he heads out on a business trip, but then started sending sexual messages. I know that most of those guys are looking for sex but I told him from the start that I can't have sex right now because of medical reasons. That and I have like no privacy, living in a hotel room with 3 kids. I take pics for my OF and nf in the bathroom for gosh sake. What did he expect, a bathroom quickie? He had said that he wasn't looking for sex but then changed his tune. Typical man. If it doesn't benefit them in a sexual way, they don't give a fuck.
whirlerz
08-02-2022, 09:11 AM
What a POS! ^
So, I'm returning back from Trader Joe's, it's in this hoity toity town, all narrow streets, hilly, + tons of construction, both street & buildings.
A fair amount of streets are closed, one-way only, & detoured..
The entitled people around there drive like SHIT! Worse than..
So, I'm oh so carefully making my way back to the main road..
Guess I was going to slow, for this ASSHOLE* riding my bumper
in a delivery truck, who said something, I told him to shut up, he said something back, I told him F U!
PIG.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2022, 11:57 AM
Dude is COVID positive and still trying to ask for sex/blow jobs.
Um NO!!!!
I really despise how men act like sex is a need then get all desperate
kimbe
08-02-2022, 12:03 PM
^^That's very disrespectful!
carmen_b
08-02-2022, 12:32 PM
wtf ?
Dude is COVID positive and still trying to ask for sex/blow jobs.
Um NO!!!!
I really despise how men act like sex is a need then get all desperate
Aurora_Sunset
08-02-2022, 02:32 PM
Dude is COVID positive and still trying to ask for sex/blow jobs.
Um NO!!!!
I really despise how men act like sex is a need then get all desperate
Gross.
My husband just waited until I was done self-tanning (as he WATCHED me do it), and then said something about sex. I was like "fuck you, I'm not gonna mess up my processing and be all splotchy." We literally sat in here for 30 minutes with him only concerned about what we were gonna do for dinner before I got up and did my tan. He could've made a move any time before that.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-02-2022, 02:53 PM
It always seems like the guys who think they're the most "woke," "liberal," and "feminist" are some of the worst misogynists and "Nice Guys." At least guys who don't walk around claiming to be anything other than a "typical dumbass guy" will say shit without meaning to and then might actually apologize and say "Oh shit, I didn't think of it like that," when you call them out. These "woke" dudes will say shit that I just can't believe they don't KNOW is problematic. And god forbid you call them out, they refuse to believe that they're anything other than an ally - they're just being "logical."
I was thinking about this today. A LOT of these guys are just out for themselves & not that thoughtful.
I dated a "woke" guy who was against abortion because he was almost aborted. Seriously that was his earthshaking reason for opposing abortion rights. The reason I remember this is because I found it so damned comical.
xxxGothBarbie
08-02-2022, 05:55 PM
Stupid disgusting guy on train decided to plop his nasty ass down next to me earlier and he got mad when I scooted down a few seats. Kept looking over at me from what I could see out of the reflection of window. POS gtfo!
And ya my gal pal and I were discussing how men are so damn selfish and we're so sick of them.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2022, 06:02 PM
Gross.
My husband just waited until I was done self-tanning (as he WATCHED me do it), and then said something about sex. I was like "fuck you, I'm not gonna mess up my processing and be all splotchy." We literally sat in here for 30 minutes with him only concerned about what we were gonna do for dinner before I got up and did my tan. He could've made a move any time before that.
Exactly!
if sex was so important to men then why they wait till the worst times to offer some dick ?
oh I forgot ….. typical male entitlement
carmen_b
08-02-2022, 08:04 PM
^ The self tanner thing is funny.
I don't think J knows there is a " lag time " where you can't touch or be touched haha!
I kind of just hide during the application and stand naked at a computer while it dries.
He'd be like " what your tan lotion needs time ? " and laugh.
moneybags
08-03-2022, 02:08 AM
I’m so annoyed with my ex crush. Now that I’m over him and Roe Vs Wade fell he wants me. I’m not fucking any guy until have my abortion rights codified by the federal government. No guy is worth dying or going to prison for. Especially not this dude. So annoying men only want what they can’t have. I’ve been setting boundaries with him at work. He’s acting really weird? I think it’s cause he wants to be with me? I don’t care. I have other things to focus on. He ain’t paying my bills. Not to mention when Roe fell was HE there for me? No! I cried in bedroom like a baby all alone. Fuck men. They’re not worth the bullshit. Pisses me off NOW he wants me after I finally moved on. He doesn’t even really love me. I’m not sure why he’s acting so weird now. He had chance after chance and he choose to stay with his girlfriend. I respected his decisions and now an cordial with at work. Why is he acting like I hurt him? He did this to himself by leading me on. He should have broken up with GF first and then asked me out. Now there’s irreplaceable harm and without abortion protection I’m not taking a chance on some guy I have doubts about. Seriously why do men do this shit. Whatever it’s not my problem anymore. I need to quit giving a fuck about mens feelings when they don’t give a fuck about mine. It’s rise of the divine feminine. It’s time to take our power back. Fuck these men and their games. How you gonna act sad because YOU played me and lost. WTF!!!
Marina Starr
08-03-2022, 04:50 AM
What I’ve learned and experienced from creepy men is ignoring or pretending to play on my phone when I’m sharing public space with them doesn’t work. They think I’m playing hard to get and that makes them even more bold.
Giving them the look of death, attitudes and staring them down works for me. Basically being an absolutely bitch and loving it scares them. Vanilla hoes are timid, scared and fearful. Creeps and predators feed off on this!
WendiStarr
08-03-2022, 05:07 PM
BD needs to get a fucking life. He created a new phone number to contact me from. It appears to be a Voip number. Then he has what I'm guessing was a hooker he paid to pose as his girlfriend message me on Facebook about how he's such a great guy and she doesn't know why I'd let him go. I told her it's because he's abusive as hell and to watch out because it's only a matter of time before he becomes abusive to her too, if she's actually his girlfriend, which I highly doubt. Abusive men are not good men and never will be. To top it off through that shit storm he said that he came across a picture of me from a photoshoot and he said he can remember now why he got me pregnant.
chanzep
08-03-2022, 06:27 PM
Sorry Wendi, thats terrible, I hope you are given correct housing and get the support you need. You have done the correct thing for you and your kids. He needs to leave you alone.
moneybags
08-03-2022, 07:32 PM
BD needs to get a fucking life. He created a new phone number to contact me from. It appears to be a Voip number. Then he has what I'm guessing was a hooker he paid to pose as his girlfriend message me on Facebook about how he's such a great guy and she doesn't know why I'd let him go. I told her it's because he's abusive as hell and to watch out because it's only a matter of time before he becomes abusive to her too, if she's actually his girlfriend, which I highly doubt. Abusive men are not good men and never will be. To top it off through that shit storm he said that he came across a picture of me from a photoshoot and he said he can remember now why he got me pregnant.
He’s garbage. I’m proud of you for leaving. I hate toxic men. Awful. I’m sending you thoughts and prayers. You’re a strong woman and you’ll figure it out
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-03-2022, 07:51 PM
BD needs to get a fucking life. He created a new phone number to contact me from. It appears to be a Voip number. Then he has what I'm guessing was a hooker he paid to pose as his girlfriend message me on Facebook about how he's such a great guy and she doesn't know why I'd let him go. I told her it's because he's abusive as hell and to watch out because it's only a matter of time before he becomes abusive to her too, if she's actually his girlfriend, which I highly doubt. Abusive men are not good men and never will be. To top it off through that shit storm he said that he came across a picture of me from a photoshoot and he said he can remember now why he got me pregnant.
Ugh. I had a guy try this. I made a point to tell the woman that she was gonna get it eventually from him. A leopard doesn't change it's spots.
xxxGothBarbie
08-03-2022, 07:56 PM
I hope he gets a horrible std from his hookers and it falls off, Wendi. You Def dodged a bullet.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-03-2022, 09:24 PM
My boyfriend annoyed me tonight by throwing a pout because I trash talked the religious cult he used to belong to (The Jehovah's Witnesses.)
Like seriously. I keep forgetting about 2 decades of brainwashing cannot be un-done overnight. Still, fuck. He is a brat.
whirlerz
08-03-2022, 09:31 PM
He’s garbage. I’m proud of you for leaving. I hate toxic men. Awful. I’m sending you thoughts and prayers. You’re a strong woman and you’ll figure it out
Yessss! ^
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2022, 04:41 AM
BD needs to get a fucking life. He created a new phone number to contact me from. It appears to be a Voip number. Then he has what I'm guessing was a hooker he paid to pose as his girlfriend message me on Facebook about how he's such a great guy and she doesn't know why I'd let him go. I told her it's because he's abusive as hell and to watch out because it's only a matter of time before he becomes abusive to her too, if she's actually his girlfriend, which I highly doubt. Abusive men are not good men and never will be. To top it off through that shit storm he said that he came across a picture of me from a photoshoot and he said he can remember now why he got me pregnant.
That’s so messy to be contacting you
And secondly, if that is his gf….
He’s love bombing her of course.
She’ll see his true colors when that mask slips off once she stops meeting his unrealistic high demand for ‘narcissistic supply’
kimbe
08-04-2022, 05:47 AM
Well, I’m not usually bitching over my partner here, but this vacation I’ve taken his daughter on now was his idea. Now I get the impression that it comes to a surprise to him that he’s left home alone..
whirlerz
08-04-2022, 06:12 AM
Well, totally none of my biz, I was walking around outside, I see the girl upstairs in her waitress uniform, I chat w/her for a bit, she's waiting on an Uber... I see her man's truck tho, WTF can't he take her, it's 5 minutes away?
I feel bad for her.. :(
xxxGothBarbie
08-04-2022, 12:19 PM
I dgaf if pos bf whines tonight about me working at night bothers him bc he's definitely not paying any bills of mine. I need to escape from this hell hole and he's not standing in my way. Just bc he pisses away all his money on beer doesn't mean I have to be broke too. I've grown soooo resentful towards him.
carmen_b
08-04-2022, 12:57 PM
No woman in their right mind would contact an ex partner to discuss the dude !
Ha.
*Maybe* you'd connect if you had mutual friends in common.
It's him ..... obviously ! Ha. Classic Narc. He is trying to " love triangle " when there is literally no love and you want nothing to do with him anyway.
That’s so messy to be contacting you
And secondly, if that is his gf….
He’s love bombing her of course.
She’ll see his true colors when that mask slips off once she stops meeting his unrealistic high demand for ‘narcissistic supply’
carmen_b
08-04-2022, 12:58 PM
Aw. Is he getting lonely ? What did you think with sending you guys out would happen ? Ha.
Maybe it should have been just a couple day haha.
Well, I’m not usually bitching over my partner here, but this vacation I’ve taken his daughter on now was his idea. Now I get the impression that it comes to a surprise to him that he’s left home alone..
WendiStarr
08-04-2022, 01:23 PM
^ She appears to be a real person, has 800+ friends on Facebook, and when I googled her name, it came up with articles on multiple arrests and DUI's she's got, and she just recently got out of jail, according to her Facebook posts. I'm guessing either he paid her to contact me or
she's super desperate for any man and probably a place to stay. Regardless this fool/BD needs to leave me alone. He started the "I miss you" and "remember when.." crap today.
chanzep
08-04-2022, 02:06 PM
Hopefully he can focus on her and leave you alone.
Jucie
08-04-2022, 02:28 PM
Well, I’m not usually bitching over my partner here, but this vacation I’ve taken his daughter on now was his idea. Now I get the impression that it comes to a surprise to him that he’s left home alone..
Typical male behaviour, not seeing the consequences of their actions.
Aurora_Sunset
08-04-2022, 02:32 PM
^ She appears to be a real person, has 800+ friends on Facebook, and when I googled her name, it came up with articles on multiple arrests and DUI's she's got, and she just recently got out of jail, according to her Facebook posts. I'm guessing either he paid her to contact me or
she's super desperate for any man and probably a place to stay. Regardless this fool/BD needs to leave me alone. He started the "I miss you" and "remember when.." crap today.
Possibly he took her phone when she was sleeping or in the shower or something, knows her passcode, and her Facebook was signed in so he impersonated her? I wouldn’t put it past him, and that would be easy enough to do if you know someone’s passcode.
moneybags
08-04-2022, 03:01 PM
^ She appears to be a real person, has 800+ friends on Facebook, and when I googled her name, it came up with articles on multiple arrests and DUI's she's got, and she just recently got out of jail, according to her Facebook posts. I'm guessing either he paid her to contact me or
she's super desperate for any man and probably a place to stay. Regardless this fool/BD needs to leave me alone. He started the "I miss you" and "remember when.." crap today.
I remember when my crazy ex found another crazy girl. Get your popcorn. I’ll never forget when SHE beat the crap out of him because you know for a woman to go to jail for DV she had to do more than slap him. I’m not saying it okay for women to hit men, but karma is a bitch. He was more psychologically abusive than anything else. I’m guessing he cheated on her and she found out and wilded out on him. Why men cheat on good women with toxic women I’ll never understand. They want to have their cake and eat it too. Karma is a bitch.
I noticed my doctor under charged me and told him and paid in full. You know why. Karma. If I cheat someone then I’m gonna get cheated on too.
Also, I’ve been mirroring mens energy back. Let me explain. If you’re a good guy then you get the good version of me if your a toxic man you get the toxic version of me. You decide. I’m done being good to toxic men.
Aurora_Sunset
08-04-2022, 03:06 PM
My husband absolutely harassed me into going out to buy new phones when I repeatedly told him I didn't want to do that today. Switching everything over is just a hassle I didn't want, plus it would be nice to have ONE freakin' month where the phone bill is a little lower because we just made the final payments on his devices. Not only that, but he had initially told me he was working late today, so I had JUST gotten myself into a groove of doing some stuff I had been having executive dysfunction issues with in terms of starting. Then he came home early, saying his extra stuff was cancelled and sprang this on me. I didn't want to leave my flow, and now I can't get it back.
The sales-guy basically ended up talking us out of buying today, telling us it would be better financially to wait a month because they're between good promos right now. I appreciate his honesty and that he did that, but it made the trip a waste of time when I already didn't freakin' want to go. I told him I would act bitchy the entire trip, and I kept my promise (aside from the fact that I didn't act like a bitch to the worker). I didn't even change out of my pajamas. It might have been over-the-top childish, but I don't care. I don't appreciate being forced to go do something or spend money I don't want to, and have repeatedly expressed that I don't want to.
Then I got on him about how he should have kept his mouth shut about certain plans to his ex-wife, because it should have been a conversation between US, not us and her.
Between the two, I'm not really feeling like I want to spend couple-y time together tonight. But I'll also feel like I'm really over-the-top pouting if I sit in the bedroom with my dinner.\
ETA: I guess he knew how pissy I was because he literally just delivered dinner and a drink the bedroom and left without bothering me to come out and join him. LOL Some points redeemed for self-awareness, I guess.
TheBrownFox
08-04-2022, 03:22 PM
BD needs to get a fucking life. He created a new phone number to contact me from. It appears to be a Voip number. Then he has what I'm guessing was a hooker he paid to pose as his girlfriend message me on Facebook about how he's such a great guy and she doesn't know why I'd let him go. I told her it's because he's abusive as hell and to watch out because it's only a matter of time before he becomes abusive to her too, if she's actually his girlfriend, which I highly doubt. Abusive men are not good men and never will be. To top it off through that shit storm he said that he came across a picture of me from a photoshoot and he said he can remember now why he got me pregnant.
OMG, Wendi...I'm sorry. I wish that douche would just leave you alone and fuck off. IF that chick even is his girlfriend or fuck buddy, she must not have much self-esteem to be fooling around with a scumbag who's trying to make his BM miserable, and stalking and sexually harassing his BM. But some of these women are so pathetic that they'll just stay with a guy like that...just so they can say that they "have a man." Smh. If I'd gotten a disrespectful message like that from some dumb bitch, I'd hurt her feelings and she'd end up blocking me. I noticed that Facebook will suspend you for posting a general statement like "Men are fucking pigs," but you can say way worse than that directly to a person via Facebook Messenger...and FB won't do anything.
I'm in a Facebook group for single moms, and we had a woman there tell us that her current boyfriend of THREE MONTHS has something bad on his record - something that he did 7 years ago - and it's caused the child's babysitter to be alarmed enough to report it. This mother won't say exactly what this guy did in the past. She just keeps insisting that he's changed, and that she wished background checks didn't exist because they cause people to be judgey. *Facepalm* All of the women in the thread are trying to talk some sense into her, and she's getting defensive saying that people are "fucking retarded" and "judgmental assholes," and she's whining about how she's interested in dating. And she said she's going to let this dude watch her son tomorrow while she's at work.
miss.a.p1600
08-04-2022, 09:15 PM
L pressing me to marry him.
Bruh how about you make yourself marriage material…..like how do I get across that being a loving dude is NOT enough. I need ALL these bills paid, clear all your debts you racked up with your ex-wife, DISCREETLY procure a higher paying job, and that ex wife to do her damn job and take care of her kids
miss.a.p1600
08-05-2022, 04:36 AM
Had a prospective client. Male.
Dude was bitching and moaning about being married and eventually having a wife.
All I could think was “no woman in her right mind is going to marry your pushy, overbearing, narcissistic tendency ass” “and no the money is not worth it”
Aurora_Sunset
08-07-2022, 06:52 AM
Why can't men just complete the tasks that are right in front of their faces instead of putting it off and then insisting that they were going to do it at some other, magical, future time?
I got mad at my husband this morning because he did the shit where he opens the dishwasher of clean dishes and just removes what HE needs and then walks away instead of unloading the rest, especially since there was a whole sink of other dirty dishes waiting to go in. He claimed he was "going to do it after he finished eating." Funny, because he was eating coffee and toast. Those things take time to make. I made tea and a bagel - which basically takes the same amount of time to make - and SOMEHOW managed to unload and reload the dishwasher during the waiting time. Why can't you just fucking DO it instead of dicking around on your phone during the downtime and "pretending" that you'll do the adult task after?
Just like how, every morning, I get the trash put together and ready to be taken out before I go to work. I get home 12 hours later to him having been home allll day and never touched it. When I get mad and just take it out myself, he always claims, "I was just about to do that." Well, last night, I didn't take it out like I normally do. Do he do it? Of course not. Now, we have 2 bags of trash sitting there for him to ignore.
In other news, he tried to make a comment about how I keep closing myself in the bedroom during dinner and breakfast when he's sitting out at the table and the kids are on the couch.... Yeah, I would LOVE to use our kitchen table. Unfortunately, it's been literal MONTHS since I asked him to clean his shit off of it. There's nowhere for me to sit. Where, exactly, does he expect me to join him? I guess his solution is that he'll temporarily move his shit off the table and to a chair instead.... That's not cleaning up your crap.
smeca
08-07-2022, 07:23 AM
^they do not take hints, they will be off in their head and only doing one thing at a time. You just have to ask them to do the thing when you want them to do it. My bf been piling letters up in the kitchen, last night while cooking I threw everything that was spam and piled all his things by his place. He sat down and just moved it. I had to tell him it was all his stuff that he's just been leaving there, please store or throw it.
I've learned to just understand they don't see things or think about things around the house the same... which is fine I don't want to be with a feminine man lol. But I have to check my temper and just ask for what I want from him!
I will not be told I am nagging though. They don't take hints, don't do what you ask once and then say you're nagging when you ask again. There's a balance somewhere but I won't be gaslit.
Aurora_Sunset
08-07-2022, 07:27 AM
^they do not take hints, they will be off in their head and only doing one thing at a time. You just have to ask them to do the thing when you want them to do it. My bf been piling letters up in the kitchen, last night while cooking I threw everything that was spam and piled all his things by his place. He sat down and just moved it. I had to tell him it was all his stuff that he's just been leaving there, please store or throw it. I've learned to just understand they don't see things or think about things around the house the same... which is fine I don't want to be with a feminine man lol. But I have to check my temper and just ask for what I want from him!
The thing that infuriates me is that I DO tell him exactly what I want him to do most of the time. Like, with the crap on the kitchen table. I ask him every single week to do something with it, and every single week, he tells me he will. There was a point a few months ago, where his mail/spam was doing the same thing - taking up the entire kitchen table. I told him every. single. weekend. for 3 months straight to take care of it. I eventually threw most of it away myself because he NEVER did it. It's like I have to stand over him, take away his remote/video game/iPad or whatever, and say "Do it NOW" in order for it to get done, because promises of "Ok, I'll do that later/tomorrow" never happen after I've asked him the first 50 times. I shouldn't have to treat him like a 8-year old who won't clean his room unless I'm watching him like a hawk and holding his toys ransom.
miss.a.p1600
08-07-2022, 08:37 AM
I hate how I have male clients who will sit here and brag about how much money they allegedly have and how the can buy anything they want. Bitch! You claim to have all this money but you can afford simple shit, you are check to check, and you are financing your fake luxurious lifestyle. I see you doing more bragging than spending. Okay. Make it make sense.
DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR!!!
Male entitlement.
Fragile male ego.
And a case of “if I BRAG about how much money I have then this woman will fall all over me. Then when she tries to use me for the claims of long money that I tried to entice her with, she is now a money hungry gold digger.”
miss.a.p1600
08-07-2022, 08:47 AM
I find the average men notoriously HORRIBLE at taking hints.
The triggering things L does around the house is use towels, get them wet, then just leave them in the sink or hanging in the shower (and not put them on the drying rack) then stack the freshly wet ones on top of the semi dry ones.
Like wtf?!?
He also has stacks of papers and bills and shit he will leave around the house. I always just move them to his little corner of the house and ask him sternly if he took care of it - because you don’t get to leave your bills around like some male sugar baby who thinks someone is going to see them and pay them for you.
WendiStarr
08-07-2022, 09:09 AM
Guys that are salty hypocrites. Some guy posted that he doesn't understand hoes that have multiple kids. He said didn't y'all learn your lesson the first time? I was thinking to myself that I know for a fact that this dude has 5 kids, from 5 different women. Maybe he needs to look in the mirror and ask himself the same.