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smeca
08-07-2022, 10:10 AM
The thing that infuriates me is that I DO tell him exactly what I want him to do most of the time. Like, with the crap on the kitchen table. I ask him every single week to do something with it, and every single week, he tells me he will. There was a point a few months ago, where his mail/spam was doing the same thing - taking up the entire kitchen table. I told him every. single. weekend. for 3 months straight to take care of it. I eventually threw most of it away myself because he NEVER did it. It's like I have to stand over him, take away his remote/video game/iPad or whatever, and say "Do it NOW" in order for it to get done, because promises of "Ok, I'll do that later/tomorrow" never happen after I've asked him the first 50 times. I shouldn't have to treat him like a 8-year old who won't clean his room unless I'm watching him like a hawk and holding his toys ransom.


Ugh. I have said as much once or twice... "I'm not your mother" it has pissed him off but also I'm sure it struck a chord once bc he didn't say anything back. If you let them know how unsexy it is to have to chide them into things like a child they certainly react.

Is he legit addicted to his phone? We are very self aware that they literally steal our attention, so to give the benefit of the doubt here maybe he doesn't realise how much time it is sucking away.

miss.a.p1600
08-07-2022, 12:21 PM
^cause if I was your mother, you would act right or get shipped out to military school or wherever.

It unfortunate when mens parents severely coddled them and let them get away with being lazy, procrastinating, never learning how to provide, not having respect for female authority, having low ambition, etc.

miss.a.p1600
08-07-2022, 12:51 PM
L basically admitted “if im not getting any sex, I may as well act militant”

Boy bye!!!!!

Marina Starr
08-07-2022, 04:08 PM
It's laughable how many instagram fuckboys are competing for 'most shirtless selfies'.

https://i.ibb.co/25K2zNw/64f14abf6d09bc0953f18846d1dd9d65.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

xxxGothBarbie
08-08-2022, 01:40 PM
Lo and behold it happened again today in a Target parking lot. Some disgusting POS was literally trying to come up right behind me and pick me up as I'm getting out of my car . I shut that shit down so quick and so loud it was comical. I just started my period today so I'm extra raging bitchy today too ,which made it even more fun to yell at this disgusting thing called a man.
It's so annoying when I can't even get out of my vehicle to go get something to eat and here comes some ugly dude trying to say shit to me.

laurielegs
08-08-2022, 10:31 PM
I am on my LAST nerve tonight. Mansplaining everywhere, Streamate fucking up, ugh, and a Niteflirt customer tried to cheat me by hanging up the phone during a skype. Men being assholes everywhere I look.

Maybe I was too harsh but fucking hell Eagle2 trying to tell Bambicutie to get mental health help for a bit of perfectly normal pre-camming jitters, and telling her to drink before camming, argh. I just had to let him have it, giving advice about things he knows absolutely nothing about. So typical.

Marina Starr
08-09-2022, 04:41 AM
I’m not specifically calling anyone out because this shit happens over and over again but whenever I see hoes posting shit where blues can have access to I always think to myself couldn’t that be in ladies only?

I mean all I gotta do is glance through what blues are saying and I’m already exhausted, lol.




I am on my LAST nerve tonight. Mansplaining everywhere, Streamate fucking up, ugh, and a Niteflirt customer tried to cheat me by hanging up the phone during a skype. Men being assholes everywhere I look.

Maybe I was too harsh but fucking hell Eagle2 trying to tell Bambicutie to get mental health help for a bit of perfectly normal pre-camming jitters, and telling her to drink before camming, argh. I just had to let him have it, giving advice about things he knows absolutely nothing about. So typical.

laurielegs
08-09-2022, 10:06 AM
I’m not specifically calling anyone out because this shit happens over and over again but whenever I see hoes posting shit where blues can have access to I always think to myself couldn’t that be in ladies only?

I mean all I gotta do is glance through what blues are saying and I’m already exhausted, lol.

She probably meant to. It's easy to make that mistake. Honestly I wish the whole board were only for those actually in the industry.

I know what you mean by exhausted, ugh. I hate reading their crap. I had to block that guy who keeps bragging in these long detailed posts about his stripper girlfriend, was literally making me so nauseated I could barely keep from puking.

TheBrownFox
08-09-2022, 03:35 PM
57551

Speaking of shitty men...I can't remember who the awesome SW lady was who'd recommended this movie a while back (I watched it back in 2020 or 2021, and loved it), but my sister was on FB asking about movie recommendations...and I recommended this to her again.

BambiCutie
08-09-2022, 03:59 PM
whenever I see hoes posting shit where blues can have access to I always think to myself couldn’t that be in ladies only?
Initially...this hoe thought her shit was best suited to the forum section pertaining to life support advice, given it related to stress, nerves and anxiety in connection to camming. I created the thread there to avoid spamming the Ladies Only section with health-related topics. I assume the overall forum is dedicated to the industry as a whole but, forgetting that male members and non-industry workers also have access to the pink forum, which makes me question why there is a blue forum.

I was not too surprised to see idiotic crap spewed on the thread when I checked their profile...then the uh oh set in. This just confirmed that Ladies Only would have been the best section to avoid the off chance of a stupid comment. Apologies Laurielegs for the stress or drama that occurred from that unintentional shit storm, wasn't sure how to react to that one..

laurielegs
08-09-2022, 04:15 PM
Initially...this hoe thought her shit was best suited to the forum section pertaining to life support advice, given it related to stress, nerves and anxiety in connection to camming. I created the thread there to avoid spamming the Ladies Only section with health-related topics. I assume the overall forum is dedicated to the industry as a whole but, forgetting that male members and non-industry workers also have access to the pink forum, which makes me question why there is a blue forum.

I was not too surprised to see idiotic crap spewed on the thread when I checked their profile...then the uh oh set in. This just confirmed that Ladies Only would have been the best section to avoid the off chance of a stupid comment. Apologies Laurielegs for the stress or drama that occurred from that unintentional shit storm, wasn't sure how to react to that one..

No need to apologize BambiCutie. I actually didn't remember that life support was open to the blues either.

I do wish the few men who do have a clue would chime in and tell the big mouth know-it-alls to shut up about things they have no experience with, since they won't ever listen to a woman.

Marina Starr
08-11-2022, 11:15 AM
You know what enrages me? Low value men that won't accept NO as a complete sentence and the FIRST time they're told but they'll quickly get it when I went the fuck off.

https://i.ibb.co/xsKTFZR/fuckyou-mommy-dearest.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

miss.a.p1600
08-11-2022, 11:28 AM
Or when another dude checks them. Some of these nut jobs don’t respect female authority

Marina Starr
08-11-2022, 11:36 AM
Dudes rarely if ever check other dudes, they back each other up and vanilla hoes let low value men walk over them. Not me.


Or when another dude checks them. Some of these nut jobs don’t respect female authority

miss.a.p1600
08-11-2022, 08:03 PM
I wish I could isolate myself from him another two weeks. He’s getting on my nerves already.

Im trying to keep my morals and ethics but I am highly considering calling up my ex sugar daddy and meeting up with a different sugar daddy out of town……while he’s committed to his little full-time daddy daycare

miss.a.p1600
08-11-2022, 08:11 PM
I took my current partner off my period tracking app (which I’m going to stop using all together next month once the membership expires)

First of all I don’t want him thinking he can use the information against me (ex. knowing how long between sexual encounters to try and push for more frequency, to hound for sex during ovulation, or worse turn it in to authorities if abortion happened) and secondly I want to track my cycles my body for my health without him lurking and doing like men do.

indiegirl
08-12-2022, 08:13 AM
Attention, Ladies of the night: Nothing good every happens after midnight. I could tell something was wrong when he seemed clearly on a strong upper.

I'm so not surprised over it anymore. He lied and said he wasn't on anything LOLLLLL. You can't hide a blatant meth personality. Later on he said "You wanna do crack?" I laughed and then said "Oh I thought you were joking!" hahahahaha *sigh* No thank you! lolll

moneybags
08-12-2022, 06:32 PM
I hate that men feel like they can dump all their toxic masculinity on us at work. Like no. Honestly no amount of money is worth entertaining an openly misogynist guy.

This guy was taking about how bad men have it because they have to pay for everything. Not even saying pay for a GF or wife. Just that they were expected to be financially successful and protect women. MF. That’s called being an adult. I do that everyday and don’t act like a victim . I have to make my own money and protect myself. No man except a police officer has ever protected me. The money I take from men is only because they use and abuse women if we actually give them our mind, body, and soul. Then he says all women are crazy. I just laughed and left. I wasn’t sure what to say. We were having a good time and then he started going on this crazy rant. I could have argued with him, but I just left rather than engage in his crazy making.

LoveyD
08-13-2022, 07:59 AM
^^ Girl don't worry. You left him alone to babble with himself. You can't argue with stupid anyway. Well played my friend.

whirlerz
08-13-2022, 08:13 AM
I hate that men feel like they can dump all their toxic masculinity on us at work. Like no. Honestly no amount of money is worth entertaining an openly misogynist guy.

This guy was taking about how bad men have it because they have to pay for everything. Not even saying pay for a GF or wife. Just that they were expected to be financially successful and protect women. MF. That’s called being an adult. I do that everyday and don’t act like a victim . I have to make my own money and protect myself. No man except a police officer has ever protected me. The money I take from men is only because they use and abuse women if we actually give them our mind, body, and soul. Then he says all women are crazy. I just laughed and left. I wasn’t sure what to say. We were having a good time and then he started going on this crazy rant. I could have argued with him, but I just left rather than engage in his crazy making.

Did he call the Wahhhhmbulance? ::)

moneybags
08-13-2022, 12:16 PM
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRyS9Rm6/

Marina Starr
08-13-2022, 02:31 PM
I can't be the only Hoe that's sick and tired of making space for men in public space to avoid them deliberately running into me?!

I call this killing two birds with one stone: deliberately walk/run into you for physical contact, attention while pretending they didn't see you and "apologize" thinking this bullshit makes them noble. You know it's intentional because their bullshit is directed and individualized. And you're sexworker, you can read through their fuckery.

I took Kamiliam's advice with hissing but sometimes they're just too blatant that I'd go from 0 to 60 with quickness.
It sure feels damn good to go the fuck off and watch them vamoosed.

If this doesn't happen to me quite often and another hoe was sharing her experience I would think it's a conspiracy.
I swear to God these fuckers must think women plan their days for men's attention.

miss.a.p1600
08-14-2022, 06:01 AM
I hate men who act like they have no clue about womens pleasure but still expect sex.

Saying fuck shit like “oh we don’t need foreplay/to set the mood/let’s get right to it/etc”

Bitch! Go Jack off and leave me tf alone!

Dreamqueen
08-14-2022, 12:29 PM
Attention, Ladies of the night: Nothing good every happens after midnight. I could tell something was wrong when he seemed clearly on a strong upper.

I'm so not surprised over it anymore. He lied and said he wasn't on anything LOLLLLL. You can't hide a blatant meth personality. Later on he said "You wanna do crack?" I laughed and then said "Oh I thought you were joking!" hahahahaha *sigh* No thank you! lolll

My Mother always used to say that.
That nothing good ever happens after midnight.
She used to keep me company while I was getting ready to go to the disco ( it was the late 70's)
She'd laugh as I would be drinking tea ( caffeine) in order to stay awake.

Thank God she was wrong about that.....then.
Nowadays would I go anywhere after midnight?
Hell no.

miss.a.p1600
08-16-2022, 04:34 AM
I have been pretty open about the fact that I’ve been getting insight, feedback, advice, etc from a therapist.

Because of L’s fragile male ego I did like another lady on this forum and told him I was “learning how to be a better ‘wife’ and partner” (although I eliminating the word wife so I don’t get his hopes up).

And do you know what? He is STILL acting pissy and petty about something that helps me enforce my boundaries against his recent overbearing dictator like behavior and trying to stick me with his multiple obligations. Saying stupid shit like “is our relationship in chaos?”

Um no bitch YOU and your baggage is in chaos and you need more therapy than I do.

Why tf are you equating me getting help dealing with your shit as chaos? If anything is chaos it is YOU!

Boy sit ALL the way down and STFU!!!

I loathe entitled men / male privilege

whirlerz
08-16-2022, 08:14 AM
OMG.. Check this out.. Sexual harassment on the (reg type) job..
https://www.buzzfeed.com/victoriavouloumanos/worst-thing-men-have-said-to-women-at-work
I'd of told the guy bragging 16" to shove it!
I briefly skimmed Sam's post, I didn't read the link tho.
.
Ms P: to quote my mom, "men are just big babies"!::)

chanzep
08-16-2022, 06:38 PM
He sounds selfish. At least you have a new job now and can leave him to his messy life .

Dreamqueen
08-17-2022, 12:24 AM
I always empty my trash/check my mail after midnight. I HATE seeing the neighbors, and I avoid them at all costs.
Tonight I went around 8 pm, because I was expecting a book from Amazon in my mailbox, and I was still camming.

Wouldn't you know, one of the older male neighbors ( the one who was flirting with me while I was in the laundry room when he first moved in), saw me come out of my apt.

He waited until I was almost to his door on the way back from the mailbox. He then flipped his outside light on and stepped out, stood there and said " Hi, how are you tonite?"

Grrrr
I just said fine. I'm sure he expected me to say, "And how are you?"
Nope.
I just want to be left alone!
Please!!! Please!!
It's 105 degrees out.
Nobody is outside!!
Get in your damn apt!

I must say, I'm not in any hurry to get a new car, because going ANYWHERE is always like this.
Men are constantly in my face trying to get my attention.

miss.a.p1600
08-17-2022, 12:43 AM
He sounds selfish. At least you have a new job now and can leave him to his messy life .

VERY selfish rn.

I haven’t told him about the job because I don’t want him trying to chase my checks. Or lying and trying to fake a financial crisis to try to force me to pay more

miss.a.p1600
08-17-2022, 05:34 AM
I am so turned OFF by this dude rn.

I can’t even fake it.

He’s off today and most likely going to be at the house ALL damn day.

Nope I’m not going back to that house while he’s there and be sucked into endless conversations which will probably consist of him rationalizing and living with his delusions of grandeur

whirlerz
08-17-2022, 06:16 AM
Aw!
I know how you feel, I feel so oppressed when the roomies are home.

Hopefully you can at least go out somewhere for a bit?

Also, my guy keeps changing the day to meet, fucking up my schedule both this week and last .. Just so he can make (another) trip across town to his bank that he should have changed a year ago when he moved?
He does the hardest, most expensive, & time consuming way to do things!

TheBrownFox
08-17-2022, 01:25 PM
I finished watching that movie 'MEN'. The woman's husband hit her, and she left his ass. He told her he's gonna kill himself, and that his death will be all her fault. Smh. Later after his death, some fucking priest is telling her that her husband would still be alive if she'd just forgiven him and given him another chance. >:( There's all kinds of misogyny, gaslighting, stalking, and tormenting happening in this movie.

Marina Starr
08-17-2022, 02:00 PM
He meant to say she's going to hell.

https://i.ibb.co/Np59dnW/64f14abf6d09bc0953f18846d1dd9d65.gif (https://imgbb.com/)



I finished watching that movie 'MEN'. The woman's husband hit her, and she left his ass. He told her he's gonna kill himself, and that his death will be all her fault. Smh. Later after his death, some fucking priest is telling her that her husband would still be alive if she'd just forgiven him and given him another chance. >:( There's all kinds of misogyny, gaslighting, stalking, and tormenting happening in this movie.

xxxGothBarbie
08-17-2022, 02:07 PM
I've literally flipped my schedule back to nights to pretty much avoid dealing with bf anymore. He's been srsly getting on my last nerves lately. He won't save his money, he blows it on beer, etc and has no real intention of leaving smother & this hellhole apt. He's been coming in from work , drinking beer then passing out with the damn lights off so what did I start doing? Working late nights again sometimes until 4 am just to avoid any conversations or anything with him. I'm doing better at night & trying to save to get the hell out of here by next month. My buddy with the cats said I could finally catsit for her next month so I'll slowly pack up all my shit into my car then go to her place , catsit then figure it out from there. No more of this oppression from having a stupid bf ugh.

miss.a.p1600
08-17-2022, 06:04 PM
^wow. Sounds familiar …..

This asshole blows money on Berthas child support (which the uses to pay her debt not towards her kids because they come with the exact same clothes every week), and a variety of other frivolous shit

Constantly trying to force me to take care of his kids or just give them free reigns over this house when neither of us is here.

Bitch what part of I don’t want to be taking care of your kids (uncompensated) every fucking weekend are you not getting?

These mfs right here just need to be sent back to the streets or the Bertha bitches that will put up with their asses.

I will work or whatever to avoid him too

moneybags
08-17-2022, 08:06 PM
Men victim blaming women for SA. “Just don’t be nice to strange men.”

Okay. No problem. I won’t be nice to strange men. Can you imagine a world where we collectively gave men the cold shoulder AND no sex!

Unless it’s a guy i have an established relationship with. These dudes ain’t getting no attention from me. I’m tired of being blamed for my abuse!

Aurora_Sunset
08-18-2022, 06:25 AM
^^Which is "hilarious" because the second we're NOT nice to strange men, it becomes "Why do you have to be such a bitch? NOT ALL MEN!"

Marina Starr
08-18-2022, 07:07 AM
I already knew the answer but I asked my therapist anyway why do a lot of low value men act like assholes when they want favors and trying to win women over.

She said they wanted attention so bad attention is still attention. Low and behold, right when I pulled into my neighborhood two guys was talking and purposely blocking the way instead of moving over so I can pass, they kept on. So I cursed them out. Calling them stupid and among other things.

Today they moved the fuck out of the way and let me pass. You see that? Being a complete cunt works and it gives me joy giving it right back to them.

LoveyD
08-18-2022, 07:32 AM
^^Which is "hilarious" because the second we're NOT nice to strange men, it becomes "Why do you have to be such a bitch? NOT ALL MEN!"

Exactly. I really don't care if I'm a bitch to men anymore. They haven't done shit for me.

miss.a.p1600
08-18-2022, 08:35 AM
I already knew the answer but I asked my therapist anyway why do a lot of low value men act like assholes when they want favors and trying to win women over.

She said they wanted attention so bad attention is still attention. Low and behold, right when I pulled into my neighborhood two guys was talking and purposely blocking the way instead of moving over so I can pass, they kept on. So I cursed them out. Calling them stupid and among other things.

Today they moved the fuck out of the way and let me pass. You see that? Being a complete cunt works and it gives me joy giving it right back to them.

They weren’t raised properly.

They’re ashamed they’re low value and take it out on women

miss.a.p1600
08-18-2022, 08:41 AM
Men victim blaming women for SA. “Just don’t be nice to strange men.”

Okay. No problem. I won’t be nice to strange men. Can you imagine a world where we collectively gave men the cold shoulder AND no sex!

Unless it’s a guy i have an established relationship with. These dudes ain’t getting no attention from me. I’m tired of being blamed for my abuse!

“she knew what she was doing”

”shouldn’t have been wearing that”

”why she ain’t call for help/report?”

”why she wait so long to report?”

and other ways men victim blame women for sa

TheBrownFox
08-18-2022, 09:53 AM
^^Which is "hilarious" because the second we're NOT nice to strange men, it becomes "Why do you have to be such a bitch? NOT ALL MEN!"


And in that movie I posted about above (called 'MEN'), this creepy guy asked Harper to play Hide-And-Seek with him. When she declined, he called her a "stupid bitch."

WendiStarr
08-18-2022, 01:01 PM
BD bothering me again. He talked to my stepdad, bio dad, and mom and wanted to know why everyone hates him. I was just like really? You were an abusive bastard and cheated on me multiple times during times when you should've been there for me, like after the birth of our kids, left me alone to struggle and be a single mom 24/7, prevented me from working most of the time, treated me like garbage, and you don't get why everyone is telling you to leave me alone? Narcs really are clueless.

chanzep
08-18-2022, 02:10 PM
Bastard! I hope they told him where to go. Can you get a restraining order against him. I hope you are recovering from your medical stuff.

moneybags
08-18-2022, 02:26 PM
BD bothering me again. He talked to my stepdad, bio dad, and mom and wanted to know why everyone hates him. I was just like really? You were an abusive bastard and cheated on me multiple times during times when you should've been there for me, like after the birth of our kids, left me alone to struggle and be a single mom 24/7, prevented me from working most of the time, treated me like garbage, and you don't get why everyone is telling you to leave me alone? Narcs really are clueless.

and men wonder why?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men?amp

Remember this when men complain about being unfairly categorized with all the bad guys

““Fairness” has to end when it obscures the truth.”

— Women's Reality: An Emerging Female System by Anne Wilson Schaef
https://a.co/a7azse7

whirlerz
08-18-2022, 03:11 PM
I think about you & pray for you, my dearest Wendi, feel much better soon my dear!

LoveyD
08-19-2022, 08:03 AM
Glad everyone sees through BD and his shit & that you are away from that monster. I hope you're feeling better. You're doing the right thing for you and your kids. Mad respect to you, Wendi.

miss.a.p1600
08-19-2022, 08:44 AM
^sound like the typical narcissist.

Making it about themselves and playing victim Olympics for attention.

LoveyD
08-19-2022, 09:16 AM
He's a total narcissist. The only way to win is to not deal with them at all.

xxxGothBarbie
08-19-2022, 01:06 PM
He's a total narcissist. The only way to win is to not deal with them at all.

Yup 100%
My ex narc stopped calling me trying to hover when I moved to NYC. I basically told him I'm not interested in ever hooking up again and he said hopefully you change your mind in the future and so I told him to hold his breath until then lol
Now I've heard he told my recent ex that he's shit talking me and trying to create chaos with lies and such about me to him. Bastards!