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miss.a.p1600
08-19-2022, 03:26 PM
I hate when unsuitable men try to approach you when you didn’t give them any nonverbal signal to do so.

Bitch! Try your pickup “artistry” elsewhere. Do NOT talk to me.

Out of your league……

When this new job hits. I’m heading to SD Central.

moneybags
08-19-2022, 06:26 PM
This dude in the elevator was like I like your car. I’ve NEVER met you and you know what car I drive. I am full of divine feminine rage! I pity the next guy that tries me

miss.a.p1600
08-20-2022, 09:24 AM
I started back doing my gig work (which I haven’t told him to make sure I can stack funds without him check chasing)

Well we both share our locations

And since he was off work he probably had nothing else better to do than cyber stalk my location.

I had to quit mid shift because his dumb ass asking questions like “where are you” and “I don’t know what you’re trying to do”

Where am I? I’m out hustling circles around your lazy ass

What am I trying to do? I’m leaving any man who isn’t masculine enough to provide FULLY enough for me to deal with his bs

moneybags
08-20-2022, 01:08 PM
^^^im glad you’re leaving him! Good luck-sincerely. People need to experience consequences for the behavior. It’s often men only care after we’re gone. By then all the love is gone.

I don’t care anymore about relationships. I’m focused on being happy, healthy, and wealthy.

chanzep
08-20-2022, 01:49 PM
Miss P turn your location services off and make your money. It's none of his business. Your not a child he doesn't need to watch you. Don't let anyone stop you from making money.

Aurora_Sunset
08-20-2022, 04:24 PM
Me to my husband today: "Have you ever noticed that when you work all day and I'm home, YOU always come home to an apartment that is significantly cleaner than when you left? And when I work all day, and YOU'RE home, *I* always come home to a home that's significantly messier and dirtier than I left it. How is that fair?"

Part of me wants to just stop cleaning and see how long it takes him to notice, but I tried that technique with a house full of male roommates back in college, and it severely backfired. It sucks when I have to live in it too...

miss.a.p1600
08-21-2022, 05:13 AM
What part of GO JACK OFF until you learn to come correct is not registering?!?

At this point I’d be totally fine with him hiring an escort, side piece, or whatever as long as condoms are worn

miss.a.p1600
08-21-2022, 05:43 AM
I hate “men” who play emotional blackmail tactics

miss.a.p1600
08-22-2022, 08:41 AM
When the Mexican men who work for the city are maintaining your home landscaping once a year better than the “man” who actually lives there.

xxxGothBarbie
08-22-2022, 06:22 PM
Mine followed me around like a damn bodyguard all sat night at the night club we went to. My buddy was there and I literally had to tell him nicely to fuck off! I gladly made him buy my food after and the Uber cost lol. No shame!

moneybags
08-22-2022, 10:33 PM
I spent all day processing my rage at the patriarchy. Feeling better but I have more important things to do in my life. Imagine what we could create as women if we weren’t battling oppression on a daily basis. Maybe we could create a better world? Maybe that’s why we’re oppressed because they’re jealous we would be better leaders.

I love the good men in my life like the guys that work at the club and keep us safe and the good customers that spoil me and make me feel like a princess. I low key feel bad the good guys have to suffer, but it’s all for the greater good. There’s gonna be some collateral damage, but we have to fight for our liberation.

Finding joy in spite of the daily oppression we face is the biggest fuck you to the patriarchy. I’m just gonna focus on living my best life without men.

xxxGothBarbie
08-22-2022, 11:05 PM
I just wanna say that I'm more annoyed & pissed about my "bf" STILL lying to me about not looking at feet pics than I actually would be had he been honest this whole time since putting a lock on his phone. The dumbass fell asleep drunk the other night so I took a peek at his shit to see if he'd been lying to me & sure enough there it was. His friend sending his pics they perv over & discuss as well as I also saw where he'd started following feet pic groups on fb. I'm more than done with his stupid ass. I love finding the proof. It pushes me further away from him & this intolerable situation I've put myself thru over the last year. It feels good not to even be upset anymore like I was a year ago.

miss.a.p1600
08-23-2022, 06:10 AM
^sometimes it takes something “drastic” to get you moving to the place you want to be with or without a partner .

I thought the same way when L kept ambushing me with his kids, making stupid ass financial comments, then ironically calling me “selfish” was the icing on the cake…..

This is just me and my opinion.

Everyday I do something to better myself. So when I leave. Ima be good with or without a man. These men have to bring more value into our lives or they can sit there and be single/ignored till they come correct.

Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2022, 06:45 AM
Argued with my husband last night about how he wants to cancel Hulu. He wants to get cable this fall just to watch football. He said he wants to cancel Hulu and keep Netflix because he uses Netflix more often. I said I use Hulu more often. So he said, "Well, then you can go back to paying for it."

That pissed me right off. Yeah, I could go back to paying the whole $13 that Hulu costs, but he can certainly pay it too. Months ago, when I paid for all the streaming services, I wanted to cancel Netflix, but I kept paying for it because he said he uses it more often. Now that he's responsible for them, it's "I'm gonna cancel the one you use the most so I can watch football, so if you still want it, buy it yourself." Fuck you.

indiegirl
08-23-2022, 07:59 AM
A man has asked me for his belt back that he never picked up from the hotel........THIS WAS 1 YEAR and 8 MONTHS AGO HE LEFT IT THERE. First of all, most women would have left that belt for the maids instead of holding onto a strangers layaways items at their place.

I wouldn't be emailing me this late in the game. I don't want you really near my hotel unless I'm getting paid anyways (not trying to be a douchebag).... It's these boundary crossers that shock me. No I don't want to go gambling with you or out on events for free after I'm paid for my hour. That's extra time I get paid for and some don't even get it.

Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2022, 08:04 AM
^^ Omg, I remember this belt bahaha

indiegirl
08-23-2022, 09:51 AM
^^ Omg, I remember this belt bahaha

Hahaha I still have THE belt hahaha :P.

carmen_b
08-23-2022, 12:18 PM
^ NOT THE magic belt lol !

I have this belt I stole from a film set ( on accident ) . I actually really love it. My former partner was playing a ranch hand in the show and it's this leather one with different things " pressed " into the leather. We had it on our bag and we were not going to contact costuming after the fact and be like " uh ..... we took this belt " hahaha.

I would ignore all this contacts regarding this belt . Give it up lol !

Dreamqueen
08-23-2022, 02:14 PM
I mentioned a guy friend of mine who married for money.
He's always telling me to move down by him ( Orange County, Ca.) because the desert weather is killing me.

I've repeated ad nauseam that the apts are out of my price range.
He doesn't listen. Typical man.

Yesterday he texted me that he and the Mrs. Are having marital problems, ( yeah, ya think), and he wants out.

But, he is going to stay because, gosh, I was right. The apts are so expensive, and he can't pay that on his own. That's why I told him years ago why I stay in the desert. Geesh!!::)

Omg! I'm not going to waste my breathe or time discussing why I do things, especially to men
They don't LISTEN!! EVER!

xxxGothBarbie
08-23-2022, 02:31 PM
Jerk comes in for lunch break and knows I've been up since 5:30 am working & what does he do?!? Cranks the TV up and keeps sitting down hard on the bed next to me , waking me up. Fuck him tonight ill be doing the same!

xxxGothBarbie
08-23-2022, 02:33 PM
I mentioned a guy friend of mine who married for money.
He's always telling me to move down by him ( Orange County, Ca.) because the desert weather is killing me.

I've repeated ad nauseam that the apts are out of my price range.
He doesn't listen. Typical man.

Yesterday he texted me that he and the Mrs. Are having marital problems, ( yeah, ya think), and he wants out.

But, he is going to stay because, gosh, I was right. The apts are so expensive, and he can't pay that on his own. That's why I told him years ago why I stay in the desert. Geesh!!::)

Omg! I'm not going to waste my breathe or time discussing why I do things, especially to men
They don't LISTEN!! EVER!

For being such a dick, I'd say we'll looks like you can find another sugar mommy to take care of you then. That irritates me these stupid careless men! They don't give a damn until it affects them.

Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2022, 04:40 PM
Argued with my husband last night about how he wants to cancel Hulu. He wants to get cable this fall just to watch football. He said he wants to cancel Hulu and keep Netflix because he uses Netflix more often. I said I use Hulu more often. So he said, "Well, then you can go back to paying for it."

That pissed me right off. Yeah, I could go back to paying the whole $13 that Hulu costs, but he can certainly pay it too. Months ago, when I paid for all the streaming services, I wanted to cancel Netflix, but I kept paying for it because he said he uses it more often. Now that he's responsible for them, it's "I'm gonna cancel the one you use the most so I can watch football, so if you still want it, buy it yourself." Fuck you.

Convinced him to upgrade Hulu to include Hulu Live TV and ESPN+. And he pays for all of it.

TheBrownFox
08-23-2022, 09:44 PM
Argued with my husband last night about how he wants to cancel Hulu. He wants to get cable this fall just to watch football. He said he wants to cancel Hulu and keep Netflix because he uses Netflix more often. I said I use Hulu more often. So he said, "Well, then you can go back to paying for it."

That pissed me right off. Yeah, I could go back to paying the whole $13 that Hulu costs, but he can certainly pay it too. Months ago, when I paid for all the streaming services, I wanted to cancel Netflix, but I kept paying for it because he said he uses it more often. Now that he's responsible for them, it's "I'm gonna cancel the one you use the most so I can watch football, so if you still want it, buy it yourself." Fuck you.


I cancelled Netflix and kept Hulu, because I've always liked Hulu more and I'm not paying for both. I sold my T.V. to a pawn shop, because I watch everything online on my laptop. My shows are on Hulu: General Hospital, Law and Order SVU, Law and Order Organized Crime, Chicago P.D./Med/Fire, Mayans M.C., New Amsterdam, Grown-ish, The View.

Dreamqueen
08-24-2022, 01:16 AM
For being such a dick, I'd say we'll looks like you can find another sugar mommy to take care of you then. That irritates me these stupid careless men! They don't give a damn until it affects them.

Doubtful he's going to find another sugar momma. He's 64 with a bad heart and erection problems.
He's been with his wife for way over 20 years ( back when he was a body builder and hot).
Better to stay.
I'm sure he won't want to give up his many naps during the day, and his hang outs at the park while wifey is working her ass off.

xxxGothBarbie
08-24-2022, 12:35 PM
Doubtful he's going to find another sugar momma. He's 64 with a bad heart and erection problems.
He's been with his wife for way over 20 years ( back when he was a body builder and hot).
Better to stay.
I'm sure he won't want to give up his many naps during the day, and his hang outs at the park while wifey is working her ass off.

Ya you're probably right about that LOL
Does he even still work or at least try to?
I'm seeing more & more men staying with their working gf's or wives bc of the high costs of living these days. I mean I don't want to knock it, but I do get a bit pissy when they expect them to do ALL the work to provide when they aren't even trying to work anymore.

One of my "friends" kind of does the same shit to me though when I get into a housing crisis discussions or situations. She'll say "you've had your own place before, yada etc" "you can do it again" and I always retort with "well that was many years ago, when living wasn't so damn high priced like it is today. Some people will never get it or even want to. It's like you said in another thread, they don't care. I stopped telling most folks I know irl about my problems esp when they display their careless dispostion.

xxxGothBarbie
08-25-2022, 02:54 PM
Had the luxury of yelling at yet another idiot trying to pick me up at 9:00 a.m. this morning when I went to go move my car for street cleaning. I was so not in the mood. He actually stopped and waited for me to walk by to try and talk to me so I blasted him with screams of leave me the fuck alone you asswipe and he sped off like what are these guys not get?!

buttonpop
08-25-2022, 03:55 PM
Me to my husband today: "Have you ever noticed that when you work all day and I'm home, YOU always come home to an apartment that is significantly cleaner than when you left? And when I work all day, and YOU'RE home, *I* always come home to a home that's significantly messier and dirtier than I left it. How is that fair?"


One potential solution is to have a chart on the fridge with all the chores/cleaning listed and two columns, one for you and one for him. Each time you do a chore you make a tally mark. That way its extremely easy to see who isn't holding up their half of the chores.

This worked super well for my gf and I. Its low-pressure and doesn't have a time/day requirement or anything, you can just look at the tally and clearly see who has been contributing more.

WendiStarr
08-25-2022, 04:33 PM
BD blowing up my phone with yet another fake phone number. Today is his birthday. My guess is he's all alone and nobody wished him a happy birthday. He doesn't seem to get that you can't shit all over people and abuse them and expect them to be nice in return.

Dreamqueen
08-25-2022, 10:13 PM
Ya you're probably right about that LOL
Does he even still work or at least try to?
I'm seeing more & more men staying with their working gf's or wives bc of the high costs of living these days. I mean I don't want to knock it, but I do get a bit pissy when they expect them to do ALL the work to provide when they aren't even trying to work anymore.

One of my "friends" kind of does the same shit to me though when I get into a housing crisis discussions or situations. She'll say "you've had your own place before, yada etc" "you can do it again" and I always retort with "well that was many years ago, when living wasn't so damn high priced like it is today. Some people will never get it or even want to. It's like you said in another thread, they don't care. I stopped telling most folks I know irl about my problems esp when they display their careless dispostion.

Yeah, they never get it.
I agree it's best to keep problems to ourselves.

The dude did work for a few supermarkets when they first moved to Orange County.
But he was fired from every place, or he quit.
Said that the young bosses spoke down to him.
Lol

Welcome to the working world buddy.
He just started collecting his social security early, but $1200 a month doesn't go far in California, or anywhere frankly.

I can't wait to see how he deals with his wife being home 24/7, when she retires in 2 years.
She's quite the homebody, so this should be interesting.
;D

chanzep
08-25-2022, 11:57 PM
Oh wow Wendi sorry to hear that but not surprised. My ex is the same sign and his birthday is soon he better not bother.

miss.a.p1600
08-26-2022, 04:24 AM
My work equipment came in.

I started thinking “where tf am I going to set it up?”

I had to bring it to the house and of course his bitch ass is firing off questions (what company?how’d you get this? Etc) Admitting that he’s feeling whatever because I didn’t tell him about it.

Yeah because last time I told you about career ops and you acted like a psychopathic greedy pimp the first question that you fixed your lips to say was “how much will you make?”

Anyways I literally told him “I am selling xyz this fall” “My schedule will be very tight” “I’m going through paid training next couple weeks” and his response ….”well do what you gotta do”

Yeah Im gonna “do what I gotta do” which is extricate myself from your oppressive baggage plus mediocre lifestyle.

Now, Let me set my equipment up IN PEACE.

It’s NONE of your damn business. If you aren’t getting a better paying job/helping me with my bills you don’t deserve to know how they’re getting paid. So sit down and leave me alone!!!

miss.a.p1600
08-26-2022, 04:29 AM
Ugh he’s off work. And will probably be hovering, investigating, and annoying tf out of me while i set up my equipment

NitaBaby
08-26-2022, 05:52 AM
yeah. about to wake this man up out of his sleep and tell him that it's over.

Aurora_Sunset
08-26-2022, 06:43 AM
One potential solution is to have a chart on the fridge with all the chores/cleaning listed and two columns, one for you and one for him. Each time you do a chore you make a tally mark. That way its extremely easy to see who isn't holding up their half of the chores.

This worked super well for my gf and I. Its low-pressure and doesn't have a time/day requirement or anything, you can just look at the tally and clearly see who has been contributing more.

I really like this idea. I've been meaning to make a chore chart for a few weeks now after he agreed to it, but I've been more worried about other things around here. I like that this is more a way to tangibly show how much we both contribute, so maybe he'll get it through his head.

He even admitted when I was gone for a week and a half in June that it made him realize how much I did around here, because he used to just come home to things "magically" cleaned up and then it wasn't happening. I was hoping that work spark more change, but lately, it hasn't been.

chanzep
08-26-2022, 08:07 PM
Miss P why is he mad about you not telling about a job you haven't even started !. He needs to put that energy into his own career! . If he asks you amounts don't tell him or lie and say it's low with comission. I hope the house will be peaceful enough for you . Some companies are really strict about it. My old company fired people after hearing others in the room during work hours. I would tell him it's hybird job with some in office time / meetings. Then you can go do gigg work too or whatever else you feel like.

miss.a.p1600
08-27-2022, 05:16 AM
^good idea about the hybrid. So I’ll tell him my company requires occasional office meetings.

If he tries to ask about the money I’m low balling it. It’s none of his business

Yes my company IS strict about people and noise in the background so I will start demanding he take those kids OUT of this house or I will get a sugar daddy to help me pay for this office

Im so done at this point and give zero fucks. I’m almost out of here.

Dreamqueen
08-27-2022, 09:00 AM
Aaaannd the male fuckery continues.
I messaged a mechanic that I found on my local Facebook marketplace.
His reviews looked good.
I told him that I'm just looking to get my car up and running because I'm selling it.
He told me that he was interested in buying it and had cash.

Sounds good, right?
Not so fast.
We got off the phone around 6 p.m., where we made arrangements for him to come by next week to look at the car.
What does he do?
He texted me after 10 p.m. and wants to come sooner.
He says that he went back and looked at my photos on Facebook.
Do I have to continue?
I don't usually post sexy pictures on my personal Facebook page, so what is he talking about?
He tagged the ONE photo from 6 months ago, that was kinda sexy, showing some cleavage.
Goddamn it!!!
What, I have to fuck you in order to get my car fixed or for you to buy it?

I immediately blocked him.
How unprofessional!

I'm just glad that I didn't give him my address, and that I don't use my real name on Facebook.
I even used my side number which doesn't trace back to me.

Why, oh why do men do this?
>:(

whirlerz
08-27-2022, 09:43 AM
Aaaannd the male fuckery continues.
I messaged a mechanic that I found on my local Facebook marketplace.
His reviews looked good.
I told him that I'm just looking to get my car up and running because I'm selling it.
He told me that he was interested in buying it and had cash.

Sounds good, right?
Not so fast.
We got off the phone around 6 p.m., where we made arrangements for him to come by next week to look at the car.
What does he do?
He texted me after 10 p.m. and wants to come sooner.
He says that he went back and looked at my photos on Facebook.
Do I have to continue?
I don't usually post sexy pictures on my personal Facebook page, so what is he talking about?
He tagged the ONE photo from 6 months ago, that was kinda sexy, showing some cleavage.
Goddamn it!!!
What, I have to fuck you in order to get my car fixed or for you to buy it?

I immediately blocked him.
How unprofessional!

I'm just glad that I didn't give him my address, and that I don't use my real name on Facebook.
I even used my side number which doesn't trace back to me.

Why, oh why do men do this?
>:(

Ohhh, JEEEEZZZ
Cause they're dicks, & think w/wrong head? ::)

So Gross, Disgusting, Unprofessional!
PIG. Can u say Predator?

I'm glad I found a small, reliable, professional shop, they'd sent me a promo card for 24.99 for an oil change, which I used & I gave extra cards out to my friend, & neighbor..

I also went back for a small issue w/hood latch, which he said just needed WD40, but was nice enough to spray it there for me.

whirlerz
08-27-2022, 09:52 AM
Ugh, the kitchen stinks!
Cause the pig guy & don't take garbage out, + dirty dishes, I can't say anything or open window, or put on ceiling fan..

I have a fan aimed toward my door, + the a/c..

Also the other guy upstairs left a bunch of trash outside his door, (I went up there to give him food coupons).
Garbage can out side's literally right next to his parking spot..::)

TheBrownFox
08-27-2022, 09:54 AM
That same energy you put into begging me to be with you...needs to be the same energy you put into KEEPING me. None of this slacking off bullshit. Otherwise get used to being single again, and seeing me spending time with someone else.

miss.a.p1600
08-27-2022, 11:23 AM
Miss P why is he mad about you not telling about a job you haven't even started !. He needs to put that energy into his own career! . If he asks you amounts don't tell him or lie and say it's low with comission. I hope the house will be peaceful enough for you . Some companies are really strict about it. My old company fired people after hearing others in the room during work hours. I would tell him it's hybird job with some in office time / meetings. Then you can go do gigg work too or whatever else you feel like.

why his ask ask “is it work from home”

i sure did just like you said “it’s hybrid mf” - so if he tries to bring those kids in the house while I’m working I will leave and head to an office

so the choice is MINE (not yours or your kids or your ex wife) but im not going to tell you that because you apparently can’t respect my boundaries so you will get “alternative facts” cause you can’t handle the truth

WendiStarr
08-27-2022, 06:37 PM
Oh wow Wendi sorry to hear that but not surprised. My ex is the same sign and his birthday is soon he better not bother.

You had a Virgo too? Virgo men are the worst, in my experience.

Dreamqueen
08-27-2022, 06:43 PM
BD blowing up my phone with yet another fake phone number. Today is his birthday. My guess is he's all alone and nobody wished him a happy birthday. He doesn't seem to get that you can't shit all over people and abuse them and expect them to be nice in return.

If he's a Virgo man, I get it.

chanzep
08-27-2022, 07:39 PM
Yes he was. Virgos are the worst. I will never date one again.

LoveyD
08-27-2022, 08:31 PM
^^ Agreed. Virgos are cheating liars. Fuck, they all are!

Dreamqueen
08-28-2022, 01:16 PM
Yes he was. Virgos are the worst. I will never date one again.


^^ Agreed. Virgos are cheating liars. Fuck, they all are!

And in my experience, they are so weird in bed.
My sign is supposed to be compatible with them, and I gave many of them ( in my slutty years) a fair chance.
Nope. Nope. Just no.

Give me a hot Scorpio any day instead.
Rarrr

xxxGothBarbie
08-28-2022, 11:04 PM
And in my experience, they are so weird in bed.
My sign is supposed to be compatible with them, and I gave many of them ( in my slutty years) a fair chance.
Nope. Nope. Just no.

Give me a hot Scorpio any day instead.
Rarrr

LOL I agree! <3
Apparently though since I'm a cancer/leo cusp, Scorpios are my krypyonite lol
I've dated one & he was such a cheating abusive asshole to me. One of my crushies is a Taurus... What are those like?

Dreamqueen
08-29-2022, 12:41 AM
LOL I agree! <3
Apparently though since I'm a cancer/leo cusp, Scorpios are my krypyonite lol
I've dated one & he was such a cheating abusive asshole to me. One of my crushies is a Taurus... What are those like?

Yeah, Scorpios are just good for a fuck. Too secretive for relationships.

Taurus men?
Horrendous.
Cold, aloof, boring.
My rap*ist is a Taurus.
My last boyfriend was one too, but he was kind and considerate.Just boring and unimaginative.
Female Taurus are very different from the men, and I'm not saying that because I'm one.

I'm the first one to admit my faults.
I'm too independent for most people, because I don't need anyone. I'm an extreme loner, because I see through people who lie, and it drives me crazy, so I'd rather be alone than be with phoney people.
Loyal, but selective.

Good things are that if you're with me, or are a guest in my home, it's luxury all the way.
Comfy, great food, best sensual experiences.

miss.a.p1600
08-29-2022, 10:00 AM
L brought up how I went text only on his ass all weekend.

Yes. Men are ALWAYS trying to get over on women and putting their needs above everyone else.

I took a page out of the “entitled male privilege” workbook and made sure I got MY needs met this weekend. I KNEW if I answered the phone it was going to be some long ass diatribe / guilt trips about him or his kids and I didn’t want any part of it this weekend.

Check your male privilege boo or your calls WILL get screened!

carmen_b
08-29-2022, 10:17 AM
^ I bet it was nice to see friends , do your own outings , ect.!
:)