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Dreamqueen
08-29-2022, 10:58 AM
Do men EVER stop bothering women?
Do they EVER take a break from it?
I'm guessing no. No, they don't.

I mentioned my car problems in a private ( anxiety related),Facebook group a couple of months ago.

I had a reply to my post from some random dude who wanted to 'help'.
I told him that I'm good.
I just got another message on my post ( now 2 months later), that he wants to talk to me about my car via Messenger.
Ugh, no.
What's he going to tell me? He lives across the country.

I told him that I sold it.

I'm so tired of men thinking they can have free access to me.
I'm seriously considering shutting down all of my social media pages and becoming invisible.


Editing to add: Wanna make a bet that this is not the last of it? That he'll try to continue the conversation by asking what car I'm going to get, etc.

miss.a.p1600
08-29-2022, 11:34 AM
^ I bet it was nice to see friends , do your own outings , ect.!
:)

Indeed it was!

It would be nice if he took a vacation weekend out with his kids or with his son or guy friends, or whoever

xxxGothBarbie
08-29-2022, 03:20 PM
Do men EVER stop bothering women?
Do they EVER take a break from it?
I'm guessing no. No, they don't.

I mentioned my car problems in a private ( anxiety related),Facebook group a couple of months ago.

I had a reply to my post from some random dude who wanted to 'help'.
I told him that I'm good.
I just got another message on my post ( now 2 months later), that he wants to talk to me about my car via Messenger.
Ugh, no.
What's he going to tell me? He lives across the country.

I told him that I sold it.

I'm so tired of men thinking they can have free access to me.
I'm seriously considering shutting down all of my social media pages and becoming invisible.


Editing to add: Wanna make a bet that this is not the last of it? That he'll try to continue the conversation by asking what car I'm going to get, etc.

It's annoying AF bc these men think they have the answers to anything and everything.

Dreamqueen
08-29-2022, 09:19 PM
It's annoying AF bc these men think they have the answers to anything and everything.

They do, don't they? Beyond annoying. I HATE them all.




Editing to add: Wanna make a bet that this is not the last of it? That he'll try to continue the conversation by asking what car I'm going to get, etc.

Well, that was quick. He replied AGAIN after saying he's happy for me.
He's now trying to give me advice on my original post (about my anxiety).
Dude, go away!!!!!!

I can block him, but these dudes are like whack a mole.
Hit one and more pop up.
That's why I'm going to be invisible.

chanzep
08-29-2022, 09:47 PM
I like Scorpio men as I'm a Scorpio myself . I've dated 2 of them lots of fun. But most of my friends end up stressed out by Scorpios.

Miss P So what if you only texted him. Can't he let you hang out with your friends for a weekend. He can talk to his kids.
It's not like you left the country. Years ago I had a ex I was really into too.I went to Spain for a week. My phone did not work there I only emailed him to say I arrived then called him from a Spanish payphone the day before to come get me from the airport. I don't have kids I don't need people bothering me on vacation.

xxxGothBarbie
08-30-2022, 12:03 AM
So annoyed that earlier today I drove to get some fast food & I was thinking that he'd cover his own food cost but when we got up to the damn window , he pulled a bait & switch on me which pissed me off to no end. He's like oh I'm broke now, can you just get it? I fucking hate paying for men! I'm gonna pull that scam this week too on him. He always pays for all my food mostly and everything else except "groceries". I won't be cooking for two this week then, asshole. So unattractive to men that spend their whole checks in less than a week on bs!

miss.a.p1600
08-30-2022, 04:29 AM
I like Scorpio men as I'm a Scorpio myself . I've dated 2 of them lots of fun. But most of my friends end up stressed out by Scorpios.

Miss P So what if you only texted him. Can't he let you hang out with your friends for a weekend. He can talk to his kids.
It's not like you left the country. Years ago I had a ex I was really into too.I went to Spain for a week. My phone did not work there I only emailed him to say I arrived then called him from a Spanish payphone the day before to come get me from the airport. I don't have kids I don't need people bothering me on vacation.

Im sorry but this gave me a good chuckle. IÂ’m now imagining him dying to talk about deep philosophical concepts and his kids looking like wtf?!?

ahahah

His convos arenÂ’t that deep though and him doing all these protests to get these kids here to this house and keep them long as hell (he’s getting EXACTLY what he asked for; except I’m going completely hands off since my free time will be spent how I want it) - boy sit down, accept this parenting weekend with your kids and that YOU forcefully demanded, and leave me alone!!!!

IÂ’m going to leave out and occupy myself EVERY weekend so he will get the point that IÂ’m not his free nanny, I wont be used as such, and if he needs help with those kids then he needs to help me by making more money and paying more bills.

miss.a.p1600
08-30-2022, 06:24 AM
I like Scorpio men as I'm a Scorpio myself . I've dated 2 of them lots of fun. But most of my friends end up stressed out by Scorpios.

Miss P So what if you only texted him. Can't he let you hang out with your friends for a weekend. He can talk to his kids.
It's not like you left the country. Years ago I had a ex I was really into too.I went to Spain for a week. My phone did not work there I only emailed him to say I arrived then called him from a Spanish payphone the day before to come get me from the airport. I don't have kids I don't need people bothering me on vacation.

Im sorry again but I get a chuckle out of this too! Hilarious!

xxxGothBarbie
08-30-2022, 08:24 AM
Hahaha I'm cooking stuff he won't eat tonight & having leftovers :p
That'll teach him to rely on me for food *eyeroll*

WendiStarr
08-30-2022, 09:22 AM
Annoying but also cracked me up. BD called me to say that he was sleeping on the armchair and something bumped the chair several times. He wanted to know if I broke in and did that. Yeah, because I have just been dying to break in to your home just to mess with you when you're sleeping. /Sarcasmoff If anything it would probably be the spirit of a deceased loved one warning him to stop being an asshole or maybe he was high on drugs. Who knows.

Dreamqueen
08-30-2022, 11:44 AM
I like Scorpio men as I'm a Scorpio myself . I've dated 2 of them lots of fun. But most of my friends end up stressed out by Scorpios.

Miss P So what if you only texted him. Can't he let you hang out with your friends for a weekend. He can talk to his kids.
It's not like you left the country. Years ago I had a ex I was really into too.I went to Spain for a week. My phone did not work there I only emailed him to say I arrived then called him from a Spanish payphone the day before to come get me from the airport. I don't have kids I don't need people bothering me on vacation.
One of my girlfriends is a Scorpio, and I asked her who her favorite lovers were.
She told me that she had dated another Scorpio and that he was the best in bed.
She said that they never left the bedroom.
Lol
I can believe it.

I have lots and lots of customers who are Scorpio.
They come to me because they know that I'm not going to pry.
I let them know that I'll never ask them personal questions. They can tell me what they want to tell me.
Reveal or not reveal.
I know better
I've felt the sting of a Scorpio once. And once was enough.
Lol

An old dying man moved in next door, and was a Scorpio.
All I did was ask him, politely to not slam the Cabinet doors.
He retaliated and made my life a living hell right up until they carried out his deceased body.

xxxGothBarbie
08-30-2022, 04:23 PM
^ Yes, ugh scorpios! I loathe them. They're all liars & cheaters from my experience. Had a close friend that was one and she ended up being a narcissistic jerk to me so I distanced myself until it got ugly. Then I went radio silent on her. They hate that lol

TheBrownFox
08-30-2022, 04:47 PM
Annoying but also cracked me up. BD called me to say that he was sleeping on the armchair and something bumped the chair several times. He wanted to know if I broke in and did that. Yeah, because I have just been dying to break in to your home just to mess with you when you're sleeping. /Sarcasmoff If anything it would probably be the spirit of a deceased loved one warning him to stop being an asshole or maybe he was high on drugs. Who knows.


:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

LMFAO. What an assclown! Sounds like he was just looking for an excuse to call you...like dudes tend to do when they're trying to get a piece of ass. Mr. Narcissist dude from last spring (who's always making up stories) told his ex-girlfriend (who I'm friends with now) that he's gonna have her arrested for breaking into his place and stealing his headphones. Haha. Wut??? He was just looking for an excuse to contact her...after realizing that she's moved on with her life and was fucking somebody else. Lol.

Dreamqueen
08-30-2022, 11:45 PM
^ Yes, ugh scorpios! I loathe them. They're all liars & cheaters from my experience. Had a close friend that was one and she ended up being a narcissistic jerk to me so I distanced myself until it got ugly. Then I went radio silent on her. They hate that lol


Yup. The Scorpio girlfriend I mentioned in my post is like that.
Total narcissist. All our mutual friends stopped dealing with her theatrics.
I thought she was like this because she's an only child, with a mother who abandoned her as a child.

But, its more than that.
I've known her for 20 years.
She'll flip out and block my number for silly things, like not answering my phone after I told her I'm working.

I get it. She has issues with people not being there every minute of the day.
I just let her block me, and she'll always come back a few months later.
This last time I was blocked for 6 years!
Hold a grudge much?
Lol

She's the only sex worker I know so I take the good with the bad.

xxxGothBarbie
08-31-2022, 05:04 AM
Yup. The Scorpio girlfriend I mentioned in my post is like that.
Total narcissist. All our mutual friends stopped dealing with her theatrics.
I thought she was like this because she's an only child, with a mother who abandoned her as a child.

But, its more than that.
I've known her for 20 years.
She'll flip out and block my number for silly things, like not answering my phone after I told her I'm working.

I get it. She has issues with people not being there every minute of the day.
I just let her block me, and she'll always come back a few months later.
This last time I was blocked for 6 years!
Hold a grudge much?
Lol

She's the only sex worker I know so I take the good with the bad.

Ya scorpios are the king & queen of theatrics. My ex I'd mentioned had the same pattern he repeated on women he dated and after snooping on him awhile ago, he's still up to his old patterns. Basically what he does I've noticed is this.. meets a younger blonde nongoth girl (or a few) online social media, while he still has one (bc happened with me) then starts sneaking around with them, starting fights with current victim then when that ends he gets with them . After awhile the new gf suddenly has black hair and dresses way more goth all of a sudden lol , he posts all these pics of them traveling places (which I got him into btw) probably on her dime, then rinse wash repeat.

He's so predictable, it's sickening. In fact, most of my exes are like this. My ex that cheated & left me for toothless Tina a few years ago, is pulling the same bs with her now lol . I'm glad it happened for him though & her too. They didn't deserve to be happy after he hurt me the way he did.

miss.a.p1600
08-31-2022, 09:45 AM
Annnd the peace was short lived.

Me trying to get a break from L and his endless obligations for a weekend turned into a 3 day later rant about how I didn’t answer the phone (no shit I didn’t want guilt trips and baggage thrown at me), how I don’t take care of his kids and “always” gone, and then at the end of the call asked if I was with another man.

Okay asshole!

I’m going back to texting him only. And minimizing my interactions with him.

All I want is peace in my own home and this mf has his head stuck so far up his ass that he thinks this chaos with his ex wife /sloppy schedule with his kids is normal when it’s not.

I think he knows me getting this job means I’m stacking money (possibly to leave him and his baggage) and I think he’s gonna be a problem (saying if I didn’t like how well he was providing then I could just leave).

Okay your wish is my command.

Im just going to stack as much as I can and leave as soon as I can.

carmen_b
08-31-2022, 02:46 PM
^ I say go with the story of the Lesbian trainer at the gym and yourself having a HOT connection.
Which means he needs to move out in 10-14 days lol.

You know the joke right ?

What's a Lesbian 2nd date ?
Calling the moving trucks !

chanzep
08-31-2022, 03:32 PM
Scorpios are not for the weak and known to be crazy. Better to avoid conflict with them lol.
Everyone has signs they get along with less . Mine are Leo's and Virgos.
I find them attention seeking, jealous and entitled big haters lol.
But I had friends from these signs so it's not all just most. My friend who is really into this stuff says the Moon sign is important too. She did my charts.

chanzep
08-31-2022, 03:39 PM
Miss P I would start looking at places if I were you.
How does you having a normal weekend then into all this!.
So what if you don't want to take care of HIS! Kids !. They are not yours and your not married to him and he's not providing for you. Your still working and paying bills. I don't know why he expects free childcare.
So basically anytime he can't bother you 24/7 and you dare to hang out with your girls like a normal person he will act like your wrong. That's not normal and healthy
Gift wrap him and send him back to Bertha.

miss.a.p1600
08-31-2022, 04:30 PM
Miss P I would start looking at places if I were you.
How does you having a normal weekend then into all this!.
So what if you don't want to take care of HIS! Kids !. They are not yours and your not married to him and he's not providing for you. Your still working and paying bills. I don't know why he expects free childcare.
So basically anytime he can't bother you 24/7 and you dare to hang out with your girls like a normal person he will act like your wrong. That's not normal and healthy
Gift wrap him and send him back to Bertha.

Ahahaha.

I’m captioning this.

100%

miss.a.p1600
09-01-2022, 03:54 AM
^ I say go with the story of the Lesbian trainer at the gym and yourself having a HOT connection.
Which means he needs to move out in 10-14 days lol.

You know the joke right ?

What's a Lesbian 2nd date ?
Calling the moving trucks !
Lolol!

i seriously thought about that. Like why did we cross paths and she seems really good at her job. Leadership skill, sales skills, friendly , etc.

made me curious about what life would be like with someone else. Someone with less baggage. And who makes more money

L cyber stalked her and figured out her FB page and I think she has a girlfriend.

miss.a.p1600
09-01-2022, 03:57 AM
Miss P I would start looking at places if I were you.
How does you having a normal weekend then into all this!.
So what if you don't want to take care of HIS! Kids !. They are not yours and your not married to him and he's not providing for you. Your still working and paying bills. I don't know why he expects free childcare.
So basically anytime he can't bother you 24/7 and you dare to hang out with your girls like a normal person he will act like your wrong. That's not normal and healthy
Gift wrap him and send him back to Bertha.

I’ve made a list of apartments and getting a feel of the neighborhoods I’d like to live in.

im just playing it cool for right now until I’ve saved enough for moving expenses and first months rent.

indiegirl
09-01-2022, 08:08 AM
Me this morning after getting an email for the 11-millionth time a customer wants to go to dinner and do some activity for free:
https://i.ibb.co/m9HtffB/Screen-Shot-2022-09-01-at-8-05-43-AM.png (https://imgbb.com/)

chanzep
09-01-2022, 11:17 AM
Cyberstalking the trainer omg he needs help.

Dreamqueen
09-02-2022, 10:20 AM
Had my groceries delivered by Wal-Mart last night.
I always get the "contactless" option as I've mentioned before.
The driver is "supposed" to leave the groceries outside of the front door.

Not this creeper.
He starts walking into my house as I'm bringing in my bags.
Wtf are you doing?
Get out!!

He says that he needs to take a photo as proof that he delivered them.
But then he points the camera with his (flash on) at my FEET, which are nowhere near my groceries!!!:O

Obviously a foot fetish guy who is trying to get free content.

I wish I could report him, but sadly nobody would do anything about it.:-\

chanzep
09-02-2022, 01:26 PM
That's crazy I got delivery yesterday they took pictures of the bags on my doorstep

AChildOfBoredom
09-02-2022, 01:35 PM
My boyfriend annoyed me tonight by throwing a pout because I trash talked the religious cult he used to belong to (The Jehovah's Witnesses.)

Like seriously. I keep forgetting about 2 decades of brainwashing cannot be un-done overnight. Still, fuck. He is a brat.

I understand. Like how the Amish girls gets really defensive about the Amish in spite of having run away, or sometimes I do in regards to the Mennonites.

I thought when the trucking company left, that would be the end of having to deal with man babies at work. I am not so fortunate.

miss.a.p1600
09-02-2022, 03:44 PM
I told L I have to work on Labor Day, have a strict schedule, etc. and his ass was like “welcome to my world”

Bitch! If you expect women to be as masculine (or hell more masculine) as you….go be with another man.

I’m too pretty and I don’t “get it in the mud” with men. I may as well be single if I gotta pay bills AND fuck AND cook AND clean AND take care of kids from some ingrate trifling broad.

Welcome to MY world = paying my own bills = too tired for sex!

indiegirl
09-02-2022, 04:35 PM
That's crazy I got delivery yesterday they took pictures of the bags on my doorstep

Yep they have to prove that they actually delivered the package. But I mean, there is delivery thieves aka porch pirates out there??

Luci Fer
09-02-2022, 05:12 PM
Scorpios are not for the weak and known to be crazy. Better to avoid conflict with them lol.
Everyone has signs they get along with less . Mine are Leo's and Virgos.
I find them attention seeking, jealous and entitled big haters lol.
But I had friends from these signs so it's not all just most. My friend who is really into this stuff says the Moon sign is important too. She did my charts.

Moon sign in man's chart shows his desired type of wife and it's also mother. And Venus sign shows the type of a woman that will sexually attract him.
Same with women, Mars sign shows the type of man she is attracted to.
Also Moon sign in natal chart represents emotions and soul.

miss.a.p1600
09-03-2022, 06:55 AM
I hate when my partner takes time off from work because it’s usually a day that I want peace.

Sit down, stfu, and take your ass to work!

Dreamqueen
09-03-2022, 10:40 AM
That's crazy I got delivery yesterday they took pictures of the bags on my doorstep

As they're supposed to do.
Not this weirdo.
He didn't think that I'd know what he was really doing.
Being a sex worker my entire life has it's perks.
I NEVER miss anything.:reporter::magnify:

miss.a.p1600
09-03-2022, 11:04 AM
I hate when my partner takes time off from work because itÂ’s usually a day that I want peace.

Sit down, stfu, and take your ass to work!

Thank goodness he went to work.

ima take some edibles and film some adult fetish content while heÂ’s gone.

He should have taken that second job or the one higher paying job MONTHS ago.

IÂ’ve already reached the end of my rope and now IÂ’ve been forced to hustle like a single woman on a mission.

If I gotta hustle like a man then I donÂ’t need a man.

chanzep
09-03-2022, 02:19 PM
You can track them on app and you will get a text saying order has been delivered too right away so you can bring in right away. I also have a camera on my door.

chanzep
09-03-2022, 02:21 PM
Dreamqueen that guy creepy coming in your place like that. Most time here they don't knock . If they do they don't attempt to step inside. He's weird.

AChildOfBoredom
09-03-2022, 03:54 PM
Male fragility. Went to a pull and pay yard with S and the new girl… S’s headlights are cracked, so we pulled those and she also has a bearing in her alternator starting to go out… there’s a back order for it, so we pulled the one from the car in the lot and we’re sending it to get rebuilt so it’s ready when the one she has craps out. New girl has a power window not working on her car, so we got the power window regulator for it. Anyhow, as is usual, we had a couple instances of dudes asking us if we needed help. Having bobs and vagene and not looking like these bull dyke sorts will have that effect. I just smiled, thanked them for the offer and that we got this, and that’s usually that. One of these dudes was pretty asshurt about it. He didn’t make a scene, but he was grumbling and he kept glaring at us. We got our stuff, checked out, then there was a taco truck outside, so we got tortas then we went to drive away. Dude came out while we were waiting for our tortas and made it a point to drive past us real slowly as he exited.

whirlerz
09-03-2022, 04:15 PM
Gross, wtf^!

miss.a.p1600
09-04-2022, 09:11 AM
I hate how men expect sex and get aggressive if the woman doesn’t provide sex.

Well idiots! Provide some money, security, loyalty, etc and increase your chances.

Sex isn’t guaranteed unless you wanna hire p4p.

Go workout and Jack off ffs!

I hate ALL men right now.

xxxGothBarbie
09-04-2022, 09:20 AM
^ ya, mine has literally been drinking himself into oblivion since Friday and trying to get me in the mood and I literally have to push him away and say fuck off. I told him I was done. He doesn't believe me which is sad bc I really am. Once this catsitting gig takes off next week I'm stacking & saving to gtfo. He's becoming more annoying about wanting sex lately.

miss.a.p1600
09-04-2022, 09:36 AM
Tried to give dude a quick 3 min blow job to get him off my back and this fool up here talking about “I just want to be loved”

Bitch! Love providing and paying ALL these bills and you will find what you seek. If I work more/hustle harder than you, it decreases my love and attraction for you.

Dreamqueen
09-04-2022, 11:41 AM
You can track them on app and you will get a text saying order has been delivered too right away so you can bring in right away. I also have a camera on my door.
Yes, I do that. But the problem is that they have been stealing food from my order. So now I have to go through my bags to make sure it's all there.



Dreamqueen that guy creepy coming in your place like that. Most time here they don't knock . If they do they don't attempt to step inside. He's weird.


So very weird.
That's why when I see that a female will be the driver, I'm more relaxed.
I can't even tell you how bold and intrusive the men are here.
Or is it everywhere nowadays?
I've been living here for 6 years, so I'm not sure. What's your experience been like?

Staci
09-04-2022, 12:02 PM
Yes, I do that. But the problem is that they have been stealing food from my order. So now I have to go through my bags to make sure it's all there.



I go through the bags once I've brought them in after they have left. If there are any missing items, I just notify the store or delivery service (depending who I ordered through) and I am refunded the cost of the missing item(s).

buttonpop
09-04-2022, 02:13 PM
Male fragility.

lol this happens to me when I'm working on my car all the time. It drives me crazy. the rare times I actually do need help with a stuck bolt or something they either wimp out on me or they don't know what they fuck they're doing (so why did you offer help then...?).

Yesterday i had a huge spider on the back of my car and nothing to kill it with, I was wearing flimsy flip flops that wouldn't do the trick. two football players rode past on a scooter so I asked if either of them would kill the spider for me. they came to look at the spider, ooo-ing and aww-ing but neither one would fucking kill it. I asked them if I could use their scooter to kill it myself and they were like "oh I can't see it anymore! must have crawled away!" I said "it's right there." and they just scooted away obviously too afraid to kill a fucking spider. wimps.

Luci Fer
09-04-2022, 03:31 PM
^it's no good no kill spiders, I usually grab something so they can climb onto and throw them. They are natural predators that eat bugs which can be million times worse ;D
maybe the guys were thinking the same :)

buttonpop
09-04-2022, 04:03 PM
i don't want a spider crawling on me while I'm driving and cause me to swerve and get into a car accident, lol

I would have been happy if they moved the spider off my car, but they ran away, clearly scared but too proud to say it.

Luci Fer
09-04-2022, 06:04 PM
lol, you caught them suddenly with that request and it just proves that people can be afraid of spiders..no matter men or women...And it sucks that men feel that stupid need to play 'men' and then act differently. Would be easier for everyone if they stopped it.

WendiStarr
09-05-2022, 06:25 AM
BD starting shit with me again. At first he blew up my phone with texts about how he was going to report the kids as missing and get me in trouble with a false child neglect claim against me. I'm not telling him where the kids and I are at and they are definitely not neglected. He went from that to sending me crying emoji's, begging me to please come back, saying that he misses us and wants us to be back together. He said we could talk and work it out. He doesn't seem to get it still that he abused me and that's why I left with the kids. I already know that if I went back, he'd love bomb me for maybe a day and then go right back to being abusive. I cried thinking about the old days when he was nice and loving towards me but that was the past. Back then we were living separately and I had my own substantial income and things were happy.

whirlerz
09-05-2022, 07:17 AM
Aw. I'm sorry my Wendi!^

You are so very brave, & a great Mom to your girls, it isn't easy at all.
Love you & praying for YOU, my dear!

LoveyD
09-05-2022, 07:31 AM
@Wendi I'm so sorry you're having to deal with him. You're right, he will never change, he will probably just get worse as he grows older. You don't owe him any explanations. He knows what he did.

whirlerz
09-05-2022, 07:50 AM
https://www.upworthy.com/women-safety-hypervigilance

Check this out ^!