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TheBrownFox
09-05-2022, 07:54 AM
BD starting shit with me again. At first he blew up my phone with texts about how he was going to report the kids as missing and get me in trouble with a false child neglect claim against me. I'm not telling him where the kids and I am and they are definitely not neglected. He went from that to sending me crying emoji's, begging me to please come back, saying that he misses us and wants us to be back together. He said we could talk and work it out. He doesn't seem to get it still that he abused me and that's why I left with the kids. I already know that if I went back, he'd love bomb me for maybe a day and then go right back to being abusive. I cried thinking about the old days when he was nice and loving towards me but that was the past. Back then we were living separately and I had my own substantial income and things were happy.


I know my iPhone allows me to go into my text conversations and delete individual texts that I've sent (after I've sent them). But I have no idea if that also causes that text to be deleted from the recipient's phone as well...or if it still shows it on their end? I think that when BD texts you these threats, you should take screenshots of the conversation.

indiegirl
09-05-2022, 12:51 PM
Incredibly unstable customer. He freaked out and called me a fucking bitch for his waiting around at 1am this morning. Sure enough, his sorry ass is okay to meet again and while he is in the shower, I am on the phone with my mom excited with her continuing class completion for school she has finished today (She is 69 yrs old, older health care workers need associates degrees now in hospitals, and I have helped her ass so much!). Meanwhile this customer motherfucker said he would pay after the date and I said no, I need the payment in advance so he took his shower and left. I am so GRATEFUL I DID NOT WASTE MY TIME. Heading home. FUCKING ASSCLOWNS out there in society pretending to be men. YUCK.

No Alpha male would treat me like this. TRUST, this man was short compared to me in height and I was looking down on him while he did me dirty AND I have seen him before. GIRLLLLL. I am nice as crap to men so this is not my fault.

chanzep
09-05-2022, 03:51 PM
Sorry to hear that Wendi can you get a restraining order against him?. I would block him or change numbers too.

chanzep
09-05-2022, 03:54 PM
Dreamqueen I don't really have issues with the grocery delivery people stealing. I have had wrong items I just call customer service they have me refund and money off me t order.

carmen_b
09-06-2022, 09:44 AM
Many Narcs die off young because of their bad habits and high risk choices !
One can hope ha !


@Wendi I'm so sorry you're having to deal with him. You're right, he will never change, he will probably just get worse as he grows older. You don't owe him any explanations. He knows what he did.

kimbe
09-06-2022, 10:22 AM
^ It never happens to the ones it should…

TheBrownFox
09-07-2022, 05:10 PM
Men with small dicks who can't fuck right (You're not even IN...you're rubbing your dick against my thigh, idiot...) because they're too stupid to follow the instructions for their erectile dysfunction pills...really sound stupid when they blurt out fucked up shit like "I'm a man, so I'm superior." And then try to stop themselves, and act like that "came out wrong." Oh, no, you don't...don't backpedal now. Tell me how you really feel, Trash Dick. I could really hurt your feelings by telling you about Bobby and what a good fuck he is, and how I'm ready for Round #3 with him. But I'm sure that would ruin your day, so I'm gonna keep my mouth shut...and keep that remark in my head until you really piss me off enough.....

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 04:21 PM
L desperate for sex and I didn’t feel like fucking him.

Well I decided to give him oral sex BUT made him sign a contract where he agreed to do tasks that he said he would do but procrastinated and I would not do ANY sexual activities until those tasks were complete.

Do you know this mf say here and tried to negotiate and come up with things I should do.

Then complained that “ugh I have to follow all these rules to get some sex?”

YES mf! I’m not playing wit your ass. Playtime is OVER. You want pussy and QUALITY pussy comes at a cost. I flat out told him I’m losing my sexual attraction when he fails to be a man and do what he said he would/procrastinate for no reason.

Can’t wait till I can be free from the dead weights.

NitaBaby
09-08-2022, 04:38 PM
^^ honestly, he can suck his own dick if he's not going to act right.

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 04:40 PM
^exactly!!!!

Beggars can’t be choosy

WendiStarr
09-09-2022, 11:01 AM
I've been staying in relative's tiny apartment and relative had to go to work today. It was just the kids and I here and I made the mistake of opening the blinds. I kept noticing a creepy, scrawny guy hanging out by the window, walking back and forth. At one point he knocked on the door but I didn't answer because I'm a woman home alone. I don't answer doors for strange men. I didn't know who he was. This creepy motherfucker actually came in to the apartment. I was freaking out because I locked the door but there's no deadbolt or anything. It turned out he's the landlord and apparently has a key to get in and wanted to know what I was doing in the apartment. I didn't want to say that I was there hiding from an abusive man. Men tend to side with male abusers. I just said that I was visiting. I felt like cussing the motherfucker out because it's triggering to me to have some gross creepy man just come in the apartment. I'm already scared 24/7 that BD is going to find me somehow and break in to hurt me. I don't like men at all right now.

laurielegs
09-09-2022, 11:51 AM
I've been staying in relative's tiny apartment and relative had to go to work today. It was just the kids and I here and I made the mistake of opening the blinds. I kept noticing a creepy, scrawny guy hanging out by the window, walking back and forth. At one point he knocked on the door but I didn't answer because I'm a woman home alone. I don't answer doors for strange men. I didn't know who he was. This creepy motherfucker actually came in to the apartment. I was freaking out because I locked the door but there's no deadbolt or anything. It turned out he's the landlord and apparently has a key to get in and wanted to know what I was doing in the apartment. I didn't want to say that I was there hiding from an abusive man. Men tend to side with male abusers. I just said that I was visiting. I felt like cussing the motherfucker out because it's triggering to me to have some gross creepy man just come in the apartment. I'm already scared 24/7 that BD is going to find me somehow and break in to hurt me. I don't like men at all right now.

That's terrifying that a landlord would just enter like that with no warning.
From what I understand in most states that's illegal without 24 hours notice.

I hope you can find your own place to live where you feel safe soon. (((hugs)))

kimbe
09-09-2022, 11:55 AM
^ Sounds weird that he can do that..

xxxGothBarbie
09-09-2022, 12:00 PM
I'd tell your relative what he did & maybe even have him tell him to NOT do that shit.
You are merely visiting right now & everyone is entitled to their damn privacy. If anything, the LL should've just written a note , left it on the door or called your relative asking who you were.
It's illegal for him to be able to be so invasive like that. Reminds me of my very first LL I had in an apt building back in CA, he used to just walk right on in & try to talk to me. Used to piss me off to no end.

whirlerz
09-09-2022, 01:15 PM
[That's terrifying that a landlord would just enter like that with no warning.
From what I understand in most states that's illegal without 24 hours notice.

I hope you can find your own place to live where you feel safe soon. (((hugs)))


Yeah, they don't give a shit about what's right / legal, for the most part..

My 1st apt, I remember looking at this electric clock on the wall, there had just been a time change.. it had the correct time, which freaked me TF out, I knewI hadn't changed it..

I am still praying for you, Wendi, you are awesome, you & your girls!

chanzep
09-09-2022, 02:02 PM
That's terrible they can't just walk in. Sorry this happened . Another reason I have a camera on my door. I pray you are offered housing soon.why are they taking so long your case should be a emergency.

miss.a.p1600
09-09-2022, 04:18 PM
My new job ends early afternoon so I headed to the park and clingmeister was like “oh I wish I could go but I work all the time”

BITCH! I work two jobs and out working your slow ass right now plus you have a weekday off every week so stfu! Sit down! Accept your 40hrs like a man. Figure out how to make passive income and stop complaining like a whiny little bitch.

carmen_b
09-09-2022, 05:00 PM
They would if they could reach it lol !


^^ honestly, he can suck his own dick if he's not going to act right.

carmen_b
09-09-2022, 05:03 PM
Wendi :
I'm 99% sure your state laws don't allow a landlord to enter the apartment without a 24 hour notice ( via letter ) .

Not that that info will probably really DO anything for you currently but handled it well .
Always tell a landlord you are there just " staying one day " or something if they are nosy like that.

Aurora_Sunset
09-09-2022, 05:03 PM
I've been feeling disconnected from my husband all week. Nothing he had "done" in particular, just not feeling connected. So, I tried to spend time with him tonight. I specifically sat on the couch with my dinner and made a comment that I was coming to hang out with him. What does he do? Just plays his video game with his back to me. So, I eventually came up and snuggled into his lap. Know what he does? Looks down at my head and makes a joke about my white hairs....

Fuck you.

I know he thinks he was being funny, but it was just annoying. He had already made a comment when I got home that I seemed like I was in a bad mood. Why act like a dumbass and push it?

I got up and left. He called after me, asking why I was mad. Saying, "What am I supposed to say? Lie to you and tell you that you have don't have any white hairs?" OR you could just not fucking comment on my hair, period? He obviously doesn't care that he upset me, cuz he's just continued sitting out there.

What the fuck is wrong with men?

whirlerz
09-09-2022, 05:04 PM
Cling meister, Ms P lol.

I have lots of white hairs, my part is already growing in white, only 2 wks ago I had my roots & highlights done.

So, my friend is really kind helps me out so much..

But, I suggest we buy a small starter home, or a mobile home where we own the land, & he hems/haws, he lives in an extended stay, & I'm in the rat hole I'm in..he says he's getting tired of it, it's really expen$ive

I know damn good & well he'll never get around to or want to do this, like the time he literally let his car fall to pieces, before he got another, & that car suks now too, I lined up a nice deal on another car, he threw a fit, then dumped over 3k into fixing a POS car he now has w/high mileage that's not worth a damn.
They gave him 20.00 for the old one, it wasn't even running?

So, he can complain about extended stay, he has to pay them 9.00 to wash the linens? +, they don't.clean.either?

Im paying out the ass for my room, but determined to gtfo, he can stay there.

trustfundkiller
09-09-2022, 05:39 PM
My boyfriend and I broke up nearly a week ago due to several reasons, and I felt slightly sad even though I know it was for the best because he's not husband material. To quote one of my closest friends: "Congrats, you should throw a party or something, because that fucker was not for you."

To deal with this feeling, I wrote out something called a "Cringe List" where I jotted down all the things about him that would make me fucking cringe. Like that one time I saw lint behind his ear. Or remembering how he chose not to have a TV (this guy made $160k/yr ...just didn't want to buy a TV) so we would watch Netflix together on his sad fucking laptop. A laptop. That's not cute above the age of 18. I also wrote about how he was basically a potato with no sense of adventure. Didn't want to vacation with me in the Caribbean in Oct because the dates had us being away for Halloween, and he wanted to be home on Halloween to watch movies. I asked him to go kayaking with me and he didn't want to because he took one kayaking class as a child and disliked it. Or how he refused to listen a remix of one of our favorite songs because he feared it would "ruin the song for him". Dude was such a boring, one-dimensional clown.

Reading the list gets me worked up and pisses me off and then suddenly I'm not sad anymore. I'm happy about a future with a guy who actually makes sense for me and can keep up with me. Glad this relationship was relatively short. I'd be pissed to have wasted years on this loser.

miss.a.p1600
09-09-2022, 07:32 PM
Hate it how men expect women to love them, their baggage (debt, mental illness, their annoying ex wife, their needy lazy kids), their dirty drawers, their annoying quirks, their sloppy dad bods, their mediocre at best dick, etc.

modern men are feminine as shit.

Look bitches! I ain’t ya mommy.

Matter of fact your mom failed you and I hate that cunt too

chanzep
09-09-2022, 07:58 PM
Trustfundkiller sounds like you did the right thing. You were honest and put yourself 1st. You are right no point dating someone that is not husband material . People are who they are. They don't change. No point staying with someone unhappy just to have a man.
The list is a really good idea.

miss.a.p1600
09-10-2022, 05:04 AM
I had to have conversation #2 this morning after L thought it was a good idea to run inside while I was still outside in the dark unloading my car.

His excuse: I could see from the window.

Bitch!!! If a mass murder kidnapper rolled up, ain’t shit your slow weak ass doing from the window INSIDE.

TF!!!

Start acting like a fucking man!

I’m sick of his shit. Barely providing, not protecting.

THIS is how your ass get cheated on AND left in the dust.

He finally apologized (after making excuses and justifying his shitty behavior) but the fact I have to tell a well grown man that you slacking in the protecting department is an abomination.

I bet the lesbian trainer (who I might hire) is more of a man than he is.

miss.a.p1600
09-10-2022, 05:36 AM
Speaking of the lesbian trainer.

L CyberStalked her then set up a free session with her (knowing good and damn well he wasn’t going to procure any future services from her) and therefore completely wasted her time.

And for what????

Because most likely he was curious and jealous (made sure to tell her I was engaged to him)

Um no.

I got my commission check and bout to get employment checks so I’m stacking and then hightailing OUT of here.

Bertha can have ya back and you can be the full time dad you’ve always secretly desired. Those kids and that manipulative ex wives can have you on call on demand 24/7 Uber manny back.

kimbe
09-10-2022, 01:34 PM
They would if they could reach it lol !

If nature really wanted to do something good for us women, they definitely should be made so they did reach it..! ;)

whirlerz
09-10-2022, 01:55 PM
I heard some guys can... ^

WendiStarr
09-10-2022, 04:07 PM
I'm so sick of men. BD and his mind games. He was sending texts pretending to be caring and now today being an asshole. He told me that I can come get the rest of my belongings (I'd bring police with me). Then said he's going up north so he doesn't know when I'll be able to get my stuff without him there. I never had a key. I bet now he's going to be gone so that I can't ever get my belongings.

carmen_b
09-10-2022, 04:11 PM
Yeah there is always that ONE super flexible dude in yoga class. He seems pretty happy lol.


I heard some guys can... ^

TheBrownFox
09-10-2022, 04:25 PM
I heard some guys can... ^


Girl, when I cammed on ImLive, I once did a private show with a guy who could suck his own cock (It was BIG!). :O I was very impressed!

miss.a.p1600
09-10-2022, 06:36 PM
I'm so sick of men. BD and his mind games. He was sending texts pretending to be caring and now today being an asshole. He told me that I can come get the rest of my belongings (I'd bring police with me). Then said he's going up north so he doesn't know when I'll be able to get my stuff without him there. I never had a key. I bet now he's going to be gone so that I can't ever get my belongings.

i wouldn’t trust it. I’d just leave the stuff if I were you.

if he doesn’t know your locations he could easily install tracking in your belongings.

if you need that stuff put in storage to maintain your privacy and definitely take police escort.

chanzep
09-10-2022, 07:37 PM
Wendi I would leave the stuff. He's probably put a tracker on something. I don't trust it at all. Hes getting desperate and will do anything.
I would change my number . I don't know your phone provider but lots will do for free in these situations. Any communications he has is hope. He's sick .
I think your brave and strong, but please be careful.

LoveyD
09-10-2022, 09:17 PM
Go full no contact Wendi. I would change your number and/or get storage and police escort too. He's trying to reel you back in. I don't trust him at all.

miss.a.p1600
09-11-2022, 06:18 AM
*just my opinion but here is what I see the problem with going no contact is that you have kids together. If you haven’t reported his abuse to someone he could totally turn around and accuse you of keeping him from the kids - like he threatened to do.

Me personally I would go down to the family court and file paperwork to restrict his access to the kids (citing physical abuse) AND put his ass on child support. Then I’d provide the number of the lawyer if he needs anything related to the kids.

This way if you minimize your contact with the dude, you won’t be penalized or have to waste time explaining yourself on the backend because you already took initiative to prove he is unfit

LoveyD
09-11-2022, 06:34 AM
^^ I agree, make sure all your ducks are in a row legally before going no contact. This way he can't turn around and make it look like you're kidnapping them or something.

If you were to continue contact with him, it would have to be with very firm boundaries. The main thing is to stay away from him for safety.

I'm so sorry you're having to deal w this, Wendi. He is such a PITA!!

miss.a.p1600
09-11-2022, 07:21 AM
Mens entitlement !

The stupidly assume that simply because they’re now in a relationship that they are OWED sex on demand.

Um NO SIR!!!!

Bitch you STILL have to EARN pussy just like you did in the single world.

Better come correct - with some compensation if you expect anything remotely sexual

trustfundkiller
09-11-2022, 09:48 AM
Trustfundkiller sounds like you did the right thing. You were honest and put yourself 1st. You are right no point dating someone that is not husband material . People are who they are. They don't change. No point staying with someone unhappy just to have a man.
The list is a really good idea.
Thank you :) yes, it's definitely better to settle for a half-assed relationship or keep someone as a placeholder. I'm amazed by how much the list has been helping. It's pretty fun to write out your ex's faults too :D the list started off small but once you get on a roll with it, it really snowballs lol

xxxGothBarbie
09-11-2022, 10:24 AM
So after a few days away at a friend's, I return home to a distant less clingy bf. He admitted to me when I'd asked him if he jerked off to porn and of course I fly off the handle. I found the porn and smashed it into a million pieces and now when I'm telling him I'm done, I'm leaving bc he'd crossed boundaries he knew he shouldn't, he's trying to say bc of my sex work that I have some balls to talk. I'm not actually getting off from any guy like he is with watching that stupid shit. He is now blaming me .Typical fucking man. Yep always jerk with one hand and judge me with the other one. Seriously fuck him! I had actually missed him a bit while away but since this episode, I need to walk away. I'm hurting some but hopefully it'll pass.

miss.a.p1600
09-12-2022, 05:07 PM
My dad is really annoying af.

Talking all this noise about how he is concerned I have to be out when sun sets

Well motherfucker are you going to cause me stress about your fears and your anxiety or are you going to help find a solution? You paying for some self defense class? You meeting me as an escort? You paying for my weapons?

If you don’t have a solution then sit down, shut tf up, and don’t bring your problems/fears to me.

Man tf up!!!

Jucie
09-13-2022, 10:43 AM
I met sugar daddy again yesterday after he recovered from covid.
I had just done my thing, you know the feeling when you’ve just finished him and your guts want to throw it up but you force yourself to keep that smile on your face, and then the dude says something like how great it was and how much he enjoys it because I like it too… WTF, I don’t like either your dick nor your cum, but I sure love your money. Please, show me some respect!

At least, I must act pretty good though.

Aurora_Sunset
09-14-2022, 05:48 AM
^^That was always hilarious to me. When clients would say that they could "tell I was really enjoying it too." LOL

It was great when they backed it up by commenting on how "wet" I was, and they were just referring to the fact that they SLOBBERED all over my pussy like a rabid dog.

miss.a.p1600
09-14-2022, 07:25 AM
So I work from home and it really burns me up I have to set FIRM boundaries

I hate when he’s here when I’m here.

Lingering.

Making a bunch of noise.

Expecting me to hangout with him during my breaks.

This is TYPICAL annoying Male Privilege

No my breaks and my time is MINE. To do what I want.

Take your clingy needy ass to WORK or go do something masculine and get out of my hair!

whirlerz
09-14-2022, 07:53 AM
Lol, do something masculine ^
Luv Ms P!

miss.a.p1600
09-14-2022, 10:54 AM
He called me yesterday and hit me with the “you got time to talk”

Nah bruh I’m busy out hustling you. But what???

Then had the gall to say I was acting “weird”

Well yeah my edible high just kicked in and t.h.e. last thing I want to do rn is sit here and listen to you bitch and moan about how you need affection. Get a higher paying career. Pay ALL these bills. Then I will have more time for you.

Until then…..

Go get a pet dog or something and leave me tf alone!

indiegirl
09-14-2022, 06:04 PM
Man falls two stories trying to escape a brothel after stealing 500 dollars from a sex worker. I BELIEVE this. BAHAHAHA. Some men are so pathetic.

https://www.reddit.com/r/criticalblunder/comments/vkgiq2/man_tries_to_escape_a_brothel_after_stealing_500/

carmen_b
09-14-2022, 06:30 PM
Yes ..... because the money will just be SO GOOD when the guy is SURE you are not enjoying it !
Guys in the club say stuff like this to me . I IS annoying! Just give me more MORE if you are enjoying yourself lol !
Save the comment and reach for a bill !


When clients would say that they could "tell I was really enjoying it too." LOL

indiegirl
09-14-2022, 10:10 PM
Yes ..... because the money will just be SO GOOD when the guy is SURE you are not enjoying it !
Guys in the club say stuff like this to me . I IS annoying! Just give me more MORE if you are enjoying yourself lol !
Save the comment and reach for a bill !

Oddly, I had a customer recently tell me to tell him during sex how much I hated him and doing this job bahahaha! Like WTF is this?! You can get this fetish for free by heading through a fast food drive thru and asking the woman handing you your food!

kimbe
09-14-2022, 11:54 PM
^^ I believe guys like you to act as you like something you really don't like.

miss.a.p1600
09-15-2022, 10:18 AM
So I work from home and it really burns me up I have to set FIRM boundaries

I hate when he’s here when I’m here.

Lingering.

Making a bunch of noise.

Expecting me to hangout with him during my breaks.

This is TYPICAL annoying Male Privilege

No my breaks and my time is MINE. To do what I want.

Take your clingy needy ass to WORK or go do something masculine and get out of my hair!

I hate when men have the audacity to expect YOU to adjust to something they shouldn’t be doing in the first place.

I tell him off the top “no background noise”

Instead of figuring out how to stop being noisy af while I’m working his solution is I move my desk to another area or get headphone to cancel his noise.

typical male privilege response.

no mf! Are you gonna buy the headphone? Probably not. Are you going to adopt your son out so I can use his room as an office? Probably not.

so,

how about YOU quietly get your food, take a quiet yogurt, and silently drive off to work.

how hard is that??? I guess it’s really hard considering LOUD and obnoxious is your normal cause that’s how you were raised unfortunately