View Full Version : The Man Bitching Thread
miss.a.p1600
09-15-2022, 10:22 AM
THIS is why I hate men
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carmen_b
09-15-2022, 11:38 AM
I actually have a hard time with the " no I don't like this " fetish thing.
It's a little .... non consent-ish in ringtones and I would rather do almost anything else .
In my REAL life I'm down for " capture me and make me your slave " games hahaha.
Oddly, I had a customer recently tell me to tell him during sex how much I hated him and doing this job bahahaha! Like WTF is this?! You can get this fetish for free by heading through a fast food drive thru and asking the woman handing you your food!
indiegirl
09-16-2022, 09:07 AM
This customer keeps PUSHING to watch a movie for free and get a meal together that I have seen for money for a LONGGGGGG time. It is so fucking aggravating when people cross boundaries. Because of him, when people ask me to date or marry them I say this is for pure fun for both of us since I am too busy with school to date. I'm TIRED of it. Keep it profesh folks! I didn't sign up to date-a-ho.com I advertise for my financial well-being!!
Meanwhile I have people like this wasting my time, I only had ONE appointment yesterday on top of the fee of uber, the room, and a 350 dollar advertising fee to pay. What a fucking joke. I legit made nothing is what that total means. Treat me with the respect I deserve. I've started blocking customers who waste my time with their ridiculous emails that aren't making me money and just blowing up my phone for the hell of it. It's not right.
indiegirl
09-17-2022, 10:03 AM
I found a male cam partner who doesn't want to get paid and wants his dick sucked only. THE GAME HAS CHANGED. lol Faster money.
AChildOfBoredom
09-17-2022, 11:04 AM
Badgered by some creepy old dude yesterday while I was waiting for my flight to Raleigh from Philadelphia, and of course on a day when I decided to wear shorts rather than the normal mid length skirt or dress. He’s already annoying me, then starts commenting on my legs and how he can tell that I work out. I excused myself and got up and he decided he’d join me, so I told him I was just going to the bathroom. That got him to sit down, so I kept myself occupied elsewhere at the airport until it was time to board. Fortunately, I paid the extra to pick a sit and had an exit row seat, but this dude soon figured out where I was and kept getting up to go to the bathroom and eyeballing me as he walked passed. I pretended to be asleep so he wouldn’t talk to me, but I was in a seat further back than he was so he disembarked before I did, and he was waiting for me on the jet bridge, asking if I needed a ride home (which of course I declined). Fortunately, L was right on the money picking me up from the airport and didn’t leave me waiting outside for her to show up.
That this came on the heels of having to share a hotel room for two nights with “Lizard” only makes it worse, but that’s it’s own story.
kimbe
09-17-2022, 12:03 PM
I found a male cam partner who doesn't want to get paid and wants his dick sucked only. THE GAME HAS CHANGED. lol Faster money.
I mean, isn't it a pretty good deal for him as well!? Most guys will pay for getting their dick sucked..
indiegirl
09-17-2022, 12:17 PM
I mean, isn't it a pretty good deal for him as well!? Most guys will pay for getting their dick sucked..
I get that but he has to sit for hours with me right? Maybe it is a bad idea? Some guys like couples?
I’m now rethinking this..
kamiliam
09-17-2022, 12:22 PM
Make sure this dude understands that he needs to send in his id and be a verified performer on whatever cam platform you choose. I cam alone and plan to continue that, if I ever worked with a guy on cam, it would be a partner. The day to day reality of cam would be horrendous with some random horny dude killing my vibe and money. Seems like having a guy there makes the customers act even more tiny dick and competitive. Obviously some couples kill it. Chemistry matters though.
kimbe
09-17-2022, 12:30 PM
I get that but he has to sit for hours with me right? Maybe it is a bad idea? Some guys like couples?
I’m now rethinking this..
Sorry, but I didn't mean to be negative to the idea! I just commented on the fact even if he didn't wanted to get paid, which at least the way I know most guys, it would be appealing anyway..
indiegirl
09-17-2022, 06:01 PM
Make sure this dude understands that he needs to send in his id and be a verified performer on whatever cam platform you choose. I cam alone and plan to continue that, if I ever worked with a guy on cam, it would be a partner. The day to day reality of cam would be horrendous with some random horny dude killing my vibe and money. Seems like having a guy there makes the customers act even more tiny dick and competitive. Obviously some couples kill it. Chemistry matters though.
I'm glad I posted this here or I could've been banned bringing some random guy who is not verified on camera. I totally didn't think about the legalities. I'm used to "anything goes" in escorting LOL!I'm starting to backpedal on this idea now that I'm thinking about it. I've been watching couples rake in money and thought it was a good idea. But you are right, it would be best with an actual partner not some rando guy.
miss.a.p1600
09-18-2022, 11:20 AM
^ I could see a rando guy coming back later and trying to demand money for it especially if it got popular.
Men be having long memories
miss.a.p1600
09-18-2022, 12:21 PM
I hate when men act like incels then be expecting sex
Not today satans! Not today!
Dreamqueen
09-18-2022, 01:15 PM
Question ( if you care to answer) for those that work, or have worked in civvie jobs.
I never have, and I'm curious to know if men in those jobs tried crossing boundaries.
What I mean is are your customers always trying to get you to break rules?
No matter what platform I'm on, (even in escorting and massage), I've had men try to get me to give them access to me, which is against the site's rules.
They always push to know my real name, how much I make, where I live, asking me to move to their state, etc
They offer up their phone numbers, private addresses, names, etc.
I tell them over and over again that by doing this that they could get me fired.
It goes right over their heads.
I'm wondering if that is their goal, ( to get me fired).
I block these guys on the cam sites.
But, I have 2 phone customers that book 5, 6, and 7 hour calls, who are basically paying for my new car.
Why do men want to harm women and their money so badly?
It's a sad state of affairs, and makes my job that much harder.
miss.a.p1600
09-18-2022, 03:52 PM
^yes. Everywhere every industry there is gonna be some asshole boundary pushing male.
chanzep
09-18-2022, 09:44 PM
My opinion as someone who worked in club's most of my adult life .
Men in vanilla settings are the worst . They always try something then get mad if you won't flirt with them. Lots of women flirt with them just to keep the peace. The cokehead strip club managers were way more respectful in general.
chanzep
09-18-2022, 09:47 PM
Vanilla make customers are annoying too they go overboard then act like " oh I'm a customer why don't you try to keep me happy". Yuck .
smeca
09-19-2022, 12:34 AM
^I can only remember one example that was in the same vane, I was sales and during the sale the guy wanted my number. Like I'm not going to flat out reject and risk my sale!! But I think I suggested it was not allowed or grey or something, so just gave my work email which they'd have anyway when I follow up. I think they get Tunnel vision when horny, hope they're special and push more, not necessarily being malicious in getting us to break rules and risk our job (definitely are people like that out there though).
Another guy asked my colleague out while she was at the front desk. She told him no she had a boyfriend (she did), boy embarrassed himself in front of other staff and customers in the busy lobby haha
Aurora_Sunset
09-19-2022, 08:03 AM
I'm really glad a couple of male managers have quit or moved on to other roles recently. One of them I just didn't like in general. The other one was creepy. He would always linger around and try to keep conversations going way too long, even when I tried to make it obvious that I was trying to get back to work. There were also allegations of him making super inappropriate "jokes" and advances on other female coworkers. I often avoided working certain days just because I didn't want to deal with him. Now, I don't have to worry about it.
Dreamqueen
09-19-2022, 11:57 AM
Thank You everyone who answered my question.
:-*
Aurora_Sunset
09-19-2022, 12:01 PM
I "love" when my husband finally realizes something for himself that I've been telling him for months, and then proceeds to "present" his findings to me as though it's all stuff I haven't been saying ad naseum...
For instance, I've been on him to clean up his shit in the living room since June. He finally did it yesterday, and was going on and on about how much better it looks and how dirty and disgusting it was in the corner where all his stuff was. Then went on to tell me how nasty underneath the couch is with spilled food and shit... I'm like "Yeah... I'm always the one who cleans underneath the couch. And I've gotten on you multiple times for finding dirty dishes and entire bags and big chunks of food down there." Like... none of this is revelatory to ME. *eyeroll*
carmen_b
09-19-2022, 12:27 PM
^ Maybe he just wants some praise for his work ?
He shouldn't have let it get to a clutter pile ..... but still haha.
miss.a.p1600
09-19-2022, 02:51 PM
When low ego men act antagonistic/incel-like behavior then want to play the victim after they don’t get their fragile egos stroked.
Well if ya didn’t act like a douchnozzle, misogynistic, assmuncher then maybe people would want to be around you
WendiStarr
09-19-2022, 04:30 PM
This dude that said he was considering renting a house to me "accidentally" sent me a dick picture. He has no idea what I look like or anything. I guess just because I'm a woman he expected me to be like,"Ooh, a dick! Let me suck and fuck that so I can get that rental house!" I googled his name and number, see that he owns a company and I have half a mind to post a review with his unsolicited dick picture in it.
xxxGothBarbie
09-19-2022, 08:28 PM
This disgusting male priveledge is so enraging OMFG! GTFO!
TheBrownFox
09-19-2022, 10:50 PM
I "love" when my husband finally realizes something for himself that I've been telling him for months, and then proceeds to "present" his findings to me as though it's all stuff I haven't been saying ad naseum...
For instance, I've been on him to clean up his shit in the living room since June. He finally did it yesterday, and was going on and on about how much better it looks and how dirty and disgusting it was in the corner where all his stuff was. Then went on to tell me how nasty underneath the couch is with spilled food and shit... I'm like "Yeah... I'm always the one who cleans underneath the couch. And I've gotten on you multiple times for finding dirty dishes and entire bags and big chunks of food down there." Like... none of this is revelatory to ME. *eyeroll*
I'm sorry to laugh, but this just made me lmao because I pictured when my son was younger and would excitedly be all "Mommy, I just cleaned my room! You wanna see?" :rotfl:
Aurora_Sunset
09-20-2022, 06:23 AM
I'm sorry to laugh, but this just made me lmao because I pictured when my son was younger and would excitedly be all "Mommy, I just cleaned my room! You wanna see?" :rotfl:
This is the EXACT vibe! lmao
moneybags
09-20-2022, 06:43 PM
I’m only emotionally investing men that are financially investing in me. Fuck love. Give me money. I’ll never be a dummy again. I will say you know the love is real when it makes you stupid. Proverbs 4:23
whirlerz
09-21-2022, 06:00 AM
[QUOTE=moneybags;3300878]I’m only emotionally investing men that are financially investing in me. Fuck love. Give me money. I’ll never be a dummy again. I will say you know the love is real when it makes you stupid.[QUOTE]
Proverbs 4:23
'Keep thy heart with all dilligence; for out of it are the issues of life' ..
whirlerz
09-21-2022, 01:12 PM
Well, months ago, my former crush's bro fixed my lamp,, recently I was moving it around to a different storage room, I notice this little part is missing..>:(
It attaches the shade to the top of the lamp, he used some other screw or something, now he's been working a regular job, (freelance previously) way out in BFE..
He comes back here very sporadically, I've texted him about other stuff & no answer, he has phone set to not take calls, etc. Idgaf, but I want that little part back, ugh.
I was always careful to keep that little part, but I never thought to check, I had to repeatedly ask the both of them to get the lamp back!
Bro was staying in his room months ago. :(
xxxGothBarbie
09-21-2022, 10:06 PM
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moneybags
09-23-2022, 01:56 PM
Well, months ago, my former crush's bro fixed my lamp,, recently I was moving it around to a different storage room, I notice this little part is missing..>:(
It attaches the shade to the top of the lamp, he used some other screw or something, now he's been working a regular job, (freelance previously) way out in BFE..
He comes back here very sporadically, I've texted him about other stuff & no answer, he has phone set to not take calls, etc. Idgaf, but I want that little part back, ugh.
I was always careful to keep that little part, but I never thought to check, I had to repeatedly ask the both of them to get the lamp back!
Bro was staying in his room months ago. :(
LOL the lamp! I’m sorry I know it’s not funny. It was your mom’s lamp, but it’s a saga!
I hate living in a patriarchal system. Even “good men” perpetuate it through their unconsciousness. I’m beginning to think I’m no longer attracted to men anymore.
I can’t wait to go protest
miss.a.p1600
09-23-2022, 03:46 PM
^i find the “good men” still act privileged and entitled
whirlerz
09-23-2022, 11:01 PM
LOL the lamp! I’m sorry I know it’s not funny. It was your mom’s lamp, but it’s a saga!
I hate living in a patriarchal system. Even “good men” perpetuate it through their unconsciousness. I’m beginning to think I’m no longer attracted to men anymore.
I can’t wait to go protest
I'm a gonna shove that Lamp up. his. ass!
moneybags
09-24-2022, 02:14 AM
^i find the “good men” still act privileged and entitled
They actually benefit from it because at least they aren’t that bad
miss.a.p1600
09-24-2022, 07:07 AM
Woke up today and realized I really don’t like the dude I live with.
I can’t stand men who argue with women.
I shall continue with my original plan.
OPERATION: Leave His Ass, Leave With Half (or more)
WonderWoman0642
09-24-2022, 08:36 AM
I haven't talked to my ex in over 6 months. It was a really bad break up-we had a nice evening together (no idea anything was wrong), then he disappeared for a few days, and wouldn't pick up the phone. He returns, just to tell me it's over and he doesn't want to hear from me ever again. It sounds bizarre because it was. So I blocked his number and moved on. Now, 6 months later, I get a notice from UPS that he sent a package. On my birthday. It's at the post office. I think I'm going to leave it there so it will get sent back to him lol.
miss.a.p1600
09-24-2022, 08:38 AM
When men act like bitches then take zero accountability for their behavior then have the gall to expect sex.
Not today satan!
whirlerz
09-24-2022, 11:03 AM
Yeah they're real weird on cam too, not that they wouldn't be, lol.
I'd rather sit outside anyway..
whirlerz
09-24-2022, 11:11 AM
&I came to the conclusion my friend isnever going to move, & move forward..
I found a cute mobile home, it is where you own the home but rent the land, a beautiful park it's I he pays like 400. weekly at a hotel, they don't even clean the rooms, he has to pay them to wash the sheets?
I wish I could buy it for myself & get out of this ratchet hole w/dirty filthy people, My God the kitchen w/disgusting dirty dishes sitting on counter for the last week +.
WendiStarr
09-24-2022, 05:49 PM
Well, this didn't last long. My aunt's bf has always been a douchebag the few times I've seen him. He was being oddly nice for the past 4 days until today. My 2 year old was having a tantrum and he started screaming at her. He grabbed her and put her in the corner and was holding her against the wall, telling her that she couldn't go until she promised to be a good girl. I told him to stop. He did but then he puffed himself up, got in my face, and started yelling at me, saying he could see now why BD abused me. He told me that I deserved to be abused and kept telling me to look him in his face when he was talking to me, calling me a dumbass, and saying I deserved to be beaten. He's a big, burly motherfucker and it was very triggering. I am not going to put up with this shit from another man. Leave it to men to ruin everything. I fucking hate men! Of course my aunt was meekly telling me to be nice to him and begging me not to leave and I realized, she's with an abusive piece of shit too.
chanzep
09-24-2022, 06:38 PM
Sorry to hear that Wendi. He sounds like a piece of shit how dare he. It's sad your Aunt allowed it.
LoveyD
09-24-2022, 07:23 PM
Well, this didn't last long. My aunt's bf has always been a douchebag the few times I've seen him. He was being oddly nice for the past 4 days until today. My 2 year old was having a tantrum and he started screaming at her. He grabbed her and put her in the corner and was holding her against the wall, telling her that she couldn't go until she promised to be a good girl. I told him to stop. He did but then he puffed himself up, got in my face, and started yelling at me, saying he could see now why BD abused me. He told me that I deserved to be abused and kept telling me to look him in his face when he was talking to me, calling me a dumbass, and saying I deserved to be beaten. He's a big, burly motherfucker and it was very triggering. I am not going to put up with this shit from another man. Leave it to men to ruin everything. I fucking hate men! Of course my aunt was meekly telling me to be nice to him and begging me not to leave and I realized, she's with an abusive piece of shit too.
That's exactly what he is, another narcissist. They will always try to Gaslight you into believing that you somehow deserve the abuse. It's understandable why it was triggering. Like jumping from the frying pan into the f****** fire! WTF is wrong with men??? And how dare he put hands on your daughter! I wish I was a rich lady. I would flow you some mad cash right now. So sorry, Wendi. Not what you need, especially now. Not cool of your aunt to enable that s*** either. .
whirlerz
09-25-2022, 06:53 AM
Oh no Wendi, I am so sorry, that's beyond horrible & disgusting!
He's a PIG!
I'm going to pray extra hard for you & your lovely girls, extra hugs & blessings my Love! :hug:
xxxGothBarbie
09-25-2022, 09:35 AM
Ugh so sorry Wendi :(
I hope that pos gets his karma asap! He deserves someone to beat his ass after that crap! I don't blame you for wanting to leave. It's not a safe environment it doesn't sound like.
On another note, I just read an article about some asshole insurance salesman bragging about asking for his money back from the girl he went on a date with at chipotle for $13 fucking dollars! Umm I'd told him to fuck right off if someone asked me that. Ugh! Men like that really enrage me with their disgusting ass entitlement. I can't believe the woman agreed to pay him back too!!! Wtf is wrong with ppl?!?
kimbe
09-25-2022, 09:36 AM
I’m sorry Wendy, no one deserves this experience..
Jucie
09-25-2022, 11:36 AM
I don’t mind being hit on because it means I’m still attractive, but the number of men making a move even when I’m with my daughter surprises me….
miss.a.p1600
09-25-2022, 06:57 PM
^These dudes do not care if your pregnant, got little kids, big kids, and more
As long as you have a pulse and a pussy……..
Dreamqueen
09-25-2022, 11:30 PM
^These dudes do not care if your pregnant, got little kids, big kids, and more
As long as you have a pulse and a pussy……..
And sadly some of them don't even care about the pulse.
xxxGothBarbie
09-26-2022, 03:49 AM
Still extremely irritated at my UK Crush. Still no word from him in almost 3 weeks now. I am more angry with myself for even allowing myself to get attached to someone like that especially that is already taken. I know he's been on vacation with her to another country however he could still at least reach out but whatever he probably ghosted me so fucking annoying!
LoveyD
09-26-2022, 10:45 AM
And sadly some of them don't even care about the pulse.
How terrible is it that I laughed? Why? Because it's the truth!