View Full Version : The Man Bitching Thread
miss.a.p1600
09-26-2022, 05:14 PM
I’m a bit disappointed by the men in my life at the current moment.
xxxGothBarbie
09-26-2022, 09:26 PM
Pos panhandler guy that got in my face tonight as I was driving & got held up in traffic. Ugh! He was asking ppl for $ and my window was rolled down only a few inches luckily but he came up to my window begging and when I waved him away he got an attitude with me and tried sticking his ugly mug in my window talking shit. I rolled it up a bit and he said ya dumbass lock your doors too. I screamed at him to fuck off then he got crazier cussing me. I yelled at him when I finally was able to drive away to get a fuckin job you loser asshole.
Of course it's always a man thinking they can talk down on us. I hope he gets ran over talking to people like that!
moneybags
09-26-2022, 09:40 PM
Going no contact for 30 days. I thought we had established boundaries so we could work together, but he keeps pulling me back in. I’m starting with 30 days, and may never see him again.
I hate how men have to wait till it’s too late before they smarten up
Dreamqueen
09-26-2022, 10:37 PM
Pos panhandler guy that got in my face tonight as I was driving & got held up in traffic. Ugh! He was asking ppl for $ and my window was rolled down only a few inches luckily but he came up to my window begging and when I waved him away he got an attitude with me and tried sticking his ugly mug in my window talking shit. I rolled it up a bit and he said ya dumbass lock your doors too. I screamed at him to fuck off then he got crazier cussing me. I yelled at him when I finally was able to drive away to get a fuckin job you loser asshole.
Of course it's always a man thinking they can talk down on us. I hope he gets ran over talking to people like that!
I'm so nervous to be in my convertible once I get my car fixed in a few weeks.
The top is too torn up to leave up when I drive.
A woman here got accosted by a homeless man while she was at a charging station for her electric car.
She was stuck, because the car was still connected, and she would have had to get out of her car.
She called the cops, but by the time they got there.....
Same thing happened to another woman at the drive thru atm, and he robbed her.
I always get approached at gas stations.
Every time.
Can't imagine not being able to leave if I had to.
Aurora_Sunset
09-27-2022, 07:03 AM
Omg, this fucking photographer for my friend's wedding this past weekend...
She had already pre-paid him for both engagement and wedding photos, but ended up hating her engagement photos. He took more pictures of the scenery than he did of the couple. Didn't tell her when she had sand on her back, and just overall took horrible, unflattering angles. She sent him feedback (which he said he wanted) and then he never even responded to it. So, the day before the wedding, she called a female friend who does photography as a hobby and begged her to come in the morning and take some pictures because she was worried about this guy.
Bro... This guy, first of all, brought his wife as his "assistant photographer" - who isn't a photographer, she's a nurse, so wtf. Then, invited his daughter, who is in photography school, along at the last minute - my friend added another meal for her with the vendor - and then the morning of, said oh actually, she's not coming. He never stopped talking, and was stressing my friend out so much when she had a million things going on. He went on a tangent about all these instagram models who contact him, wanting him to do nude shoots and have sex with him. He claims that he tells them he can't because he's married, and they just BEG him, that it HAS to be him. (Yeah, ok, chubby, balding, middle-aged man lmao). He also interrupted a conversation between two of the women who were talking about raising daughters to go off on a mansplation of "women's psychology."
He refused to work off my friend's shot list, so they missed a bunch of pictures that my friend had planned out. She also explained to him ahead of time that there was bad blood between certain people, so she wanted him to just handle calling out names and combos from the list so that it wouldn't set anyone off, because it would just seem like the "standard shot list," and he refused to do it. He said he "didn't know these people" so it was up to her to wrangle everyone. Dude, isn't it part of your job to handle situations like that? He claimed that he's been photographing weddings for over 20 years and never had anyone refuse to do a picture. Well, guess what? When my friend tried to get the groom's sisters to take a shot with their mom's husband of 20 years (who they have held a grudge against the entire time), they refused.
He was also clearly threatened by the fact that my friend had asked someone else (a woman) to come and take some other pictures. He kept purposely getting in her way when she already had the camera up. Went on a 20 minute rant about how her camera was inferior. And THEN, he went ahead to the reception hall, we all gathered in the limo with the friend photographer, and we stopped just short of the hall to get a few pics with her. (The building was on a golf course, and we stopped to get some shots on the 9th hole).
This motherfucker sees us down there, RUNS all the way down from the building, to stand in front of the shot and start throwing a fucking temper tantrum about how unacceptable it is that we're out here doing shots with another photographer and "he wasn't even invited." Starts threatening to leave, saying "If you want HER to shoot your wedding, that's fine, I can go right now." Complains that we left him waiting up there for 40 minutes. BITCH - is this your wedding? You've been paid in full. I don't give a fuck if you stand with your thumb up your ass for 2 hours because the bride wanted to go do something else. Sit down and shut up. You're being paid for the time regardless. YOU don't dictate the schedule for the day. And if she wanted to have 2 photographers, that's also none of your damn business. Pretty sure there's nothing in that contract that says that he gets exclusive rights to take any pictures on the wedding day. It clearly was just him being a little bitch about the fact that he was being upstaged by a WOMAN photographer that we all liked better.
The drunk best man almost threw down with him, and honestly, it would have been warranted. Buuuut, we talked him down, and the bride handled the photographer off to the side. She didn't need that shit on her wedding day. So fucking ridiculous. Everyone hated him.
We all agreed that as soon as she gets her pictures, the entire wedding party is leaving him terrible reviews.
Oh, and his wife? I don't think she said a word the entire night. Poor thing being married to that...
miss.a.p1600
09-27-2022, 07:57 AM
I hate how some of these men act like they have no boundaries and they have to constantly be told how to be respectful men.
Fucking ridiculous!
Who raised these mfs?!?
indiegirl
09-27-2022, 08:23 AM
Pos panhandler guy that got in my face tonight as I was driving & got held up in traffic. Ugh! He was asking ppl for $ and my window was rolled down only a few inches luckily but he came up to my window begging and when I waved him away he got an attitude with me and tried sticking his ugly mug in my window talking shit. I rolled it up a bit and he said ya dumbass lock your doors too. I screamed at him to fuck off then he got crazier cussing me. I yelled at him when I finally was able to drive away to get a fuckin job you loser asshole.
Of course it's always a man thinking they can talk down on us. I hope he gets ran over talking to people like that!
First of all, who even carries cash around nowadays LOL!?! If they wanna make money panhandling, they need to get venmo or something. lol
LoveyD
09-27-2022, 08:55 AM
@Aurora I'd be so pissed if I were that bride! Why do men have to ruin everything!??
Aurora_Sunset
09-27-2022, 09:20 AM
First of all, who even carries cash around nowadays LOL!?! If they wanna make money panhandling, they need to get venmo or something. lol
I can honestly see myself deciding to give a few bucks to a person who has a Venmo account name on their sign and stands there at a distance instead of being aggressive. You're right, who has cash nowadays? If I do, I probably took out a specific amount for a specific reason. And, while I try really hard not to judge the people who panhandle, I do get turned off when they're super aggressive. I'd totally Venmo someone if I was passing by and saw it as an option.
trustfundkiller
09-27-2022, 01:23 PM
I came across an interesting theory on TikTok that I believe to be true in many cases. When you are the obvious "catch" in a relationship, you assume your partner is going to treat you like a prize and be grateful to have you, right? Then they don't. In fact it's often the uglies and medium-uglies who end up behaving worse than hot guys. It's because they end up resenting you. Deep down they know that you make bad choices (e.g., choosing them) and you probably have self-esteem issues, which is why you settled with them instead of waiting for someone better suited for you. So, they end up losing respect for you and therefore act out of pocket. It makes sense to me. Every time I have settled because I wanted an ego boost or I was lonely and thought, "yeah, he'll make a good placeholder until someone better comes along" it has ended poorly.
xxxGothBarbie
09-27-2022, 01:30 PM
^ first of all if you're a bum begging for money you don't get in someone's face and stick your head in their car especially if the window is cracked partially. you don't try and stick your ugly mug in their window being aggressive, I should have pepper sprayed his ass I really should have. I ignore most beggars, they mostly only want drug/alcohol money and the more people fall for that con the more it encourages them.
carmen_b
09-27-2022, 01:53 PM
That story was SO horrifying !
The IG models . What was the point of THAT lol were you guys all supposed to go " oh we want your dick too .... please .... let us have it ." Just so much WTF going on there .
@Aurora I'd be so pissed if I were that bride! Why do men have to ruin everything!??
LoveyD
09-27-2022, 02:09 PM
^^ exactly! What a creepo!
Dreamqueen
09-27-2022, 02:49 PM
I came across an interesting theory on TikTok that I believe to be true in many cases. When you are the obvious "catch" in a relationship, you assume your partner is going to treat you like a prize and be grateful to have you, right? Then they don't. In fact it's often the uglies and medium-uglies who end up behaving worse than hot guys. It's because they end up resenting you. Deep down they know that you make bad choices (e.g., choosing them) and you probably have self-esteem issues, which is why you settled with them instead of waiting for someone better suited for you. So, they end up losing respect for you and therefore act out of pocket. It makes sense to me. Every time I have settled because I wanted an ego boost or I was lonely and thought, "yeah, he'll make a good placeholder until someone better comes along" it has ended poorly.
That makes so much sense to me.
I've had my share of pretty boys, and started seeking out nerdy, ugly guys because I thought they'd worship me.
Boy, was I wrong.
Now I know why.
Thanks for posting.
^ first of all if you're a bum begging for money you don't get in someone's face and stick your head in their car especially if the window is cracked partially. you don't try and stick your ugly mug in their window being aggressive, I should have pepper sprayed his ass I really should have. I ignore most beggars, they mostly only want drug/alcohol money and the more people fall for that con the more it encourages them.
I never give money to men beggars.
EVER!
I always tell them that if I have to suck dirty dicks to make money, then so do they.
Anyone can suck a dick.
One time when a dude approached me for money, I said that I was JUST going to ask HIM for some
He actually reached into his pocket to give me money. Lol
indiegirl
09-27-2022, 03:35 PM
^ first of all if you're a bum begging for money you don't get in someone's face and stick your head in their car especially if the window is cracked partially. you don't try and stick your ugly mug in their window being aggressive, I should have pepper sprayed his ass I really should have. I ignore most beggars, they mostly only want drug/alcohol money and the more people fall for that con the more it encourages them.
That is the scariest part when you purposely try to ignore them in your car and they get in a angry mood like this is my fault I'm not handing money over (there's far too many homeless here in California). I've locked my door many of times in bad areas. Too many bad experiences.
moneybags
09-27-2022, 09:59 PM
^^^^i feel the same way dreamqueen. If I can grind on dick to make money they can find a way like I did. I know I know. Not everyone has pretty privilege or is able bodied, but I’m not in a position to help anyone right now.
xxxGothBarbie
09-27-2022, 10:55 PM
Ha! So apparently bf found the destruction I did to his hidden porn dvds bc there's a lock on his closet door now Lmao. Oh boohoo fucker, cry me a river. You're dumbass porno got destroyed. Maybe stop lying to me & your possessions won't mysteriously come up shredded.
That's the one thing I'm so enraged about right now is ALL the lies/ these men try to stow upon me. I'm much smarter than most of then so why not just stop?!?
LoveyD
09-28-2022, 08:15 AM
^^^^i feel the same way dreamqueen. If I can grind on dick to make money they can find a way like I did. I know I know. Not everyone has pretty privilege or is able bodied, but I’m not in a position to help anyone right now.
I always felt this way too, and I still feel this way being homeless. If I can find a way to make money, they can too. Men have a lot more opportunities for employment and we all know they get paid more. So why are they asking women for money? It's the audacity for me.
WendiStarr
09-28-2022, 08:41 AM
I sent my brother to get the rest of my stuff from my aunt's and her giant turd of a bf was there. He started yelling at my brother for no reason, saying that he has guns in the house and will kick my brother's ass and is keeping my Tv, lamps, a pack of diapers, and our winter coats hostage. I'm going to have to get the rest of my stuff out of there and it looks like it will have to be with police escorts. I can't handle that drama right now. I wish I knew a big, intimidating man to go there and get my stuff for me.
LoveyD
09-28-2022, 08:54 AM
^^^ I'll say it again...WTF is wrong with men??? He can't hold your belongings hostage!! He outed himself as a demon so now to take it further he's going to act like this? Fucking men ruin everything! I'm sorry Wendi.
whirlerz
09-28-2022, 10:47 AM
Ugh, what an ignorant Jerk^
I'm so sorry, My Wendi, I'd run over there myself w/a burly guy if I could!
Sending strong prayers your way, I love you deary
whirlerz
09-28-2022, 11:01 AM
So, my Property Mgr, (eye roll) added on a 10. charge, technically I was (a few hrs late, we pay online) even though I'd told him my checks come late too..
That's, fine m/f, remember last yr when I went in the well house to help generate the water? (w/former crush help too, he's now working far out of town & rarely comes home )..
You gave the keys for the well house (we're on a well) to idiot roomie & his gf, please feel free to ask them for help, as they won't have a clue..
Also we won't have water if the outside water to hose is not shut off, just Iike last year!
When you also 'forgot' to pay the gas bill.
The heat also needs to be turned on in there but yeah since idiot couple threw a big party in there, cranked up the ac, & generally left open food & shit all over, then LOCKED the door..::)
Enjoy!
Dreamqueen
09-28-2022, 11:05 AM
I always felt this way too, and I still feel this way being homeless. If I can find a way to make money, they can too. Men have a lot more opportunities for employment and we all know they get paid more. So why are they asking women for money? It's the audacity for me.
I feel this way too.
They are physically stronger than us.
So they can always get a job as a mover, construction worker, heavy machinery operator. Heck, even be a bodyguard.
LoveyD
09-28-2022, 12:00 PM
^^^ yeah, exactly! And I don't want to hear how "oh but these homeless men have mental health issues." Honey I have mental health issues, too. Cptsd. Caused of course by men!
miss.a.p1600
09-28-2022, 12:49 PM
I came across an interesting theory on TikTok that I believe to be true in many cases. When you are the obvious "catch" in a relationship, you assume your partner is going to treat you like a prize and be grateful to have you, right? Then they don't. In fact it's often the uglies and medium-uglies who end up behaving worse than hot guys. It's because they end up resenting you. Deep down they know that you make bad choices (e.g., choosing them) and you probably have self-esteem issues, which is why you settled with them instead of waiting for someone better suited for you. So, they end up losing respect for you and therefore act out of pocket. It makes sense to me. Every time I have settled because I wanted an ego boost or I was lonely and thought, "yeah, he'll make a good placeholder until someone better comes along" it has ended poorly.
Girl I’m feeling this now.
the only reason I gave dude a chance cause he started out nice and respectful. Honestly my self esteem was a little low (due to job and career security and not believing I could have a wealthy man who also is respectful of women - most of the ones I encountered were douchebag narcissists)
Anyways
over time I noticed he seemed insecure (about fucking every cotdamn thing) and tried to project that shit onto me
Nah bruh.
NO ONE will hold me down or make feel less than or try to pull me down to their level.
Take it from me. NEVER settle. Get what you want.
miss.a.p1600
09-28-2022, 08:06 PM
Had a couples therapy session and the therapist had to put L in check.
Shout out to the therapist. A man. Putting another man in check so women can enjoy this world a little more.
I’m thankful for the therapist but I’m bitching because seeing him pout like a pissy little bitch after being told “dude you’re not getting any sex because you’re disregarding her needs”, seeing him calculate how he can turn it around and make himself look like the victim, made me wonder who tf raised this?!?
He needs one on one therapy
LoveyD
09-28-2022, 08:46 PM
^^^ I wouldn't be surprised if L accused you of having sex with said therapist at some point. Good Lord...
TheBrownFox
09-28-2022, 10:35 PM
*LMFAO at a man who says he wants to "make me scream" in the bedroom, but his dick is tiny and he can't fuck. Are you SURE you're not a virgin??? I literally had to tell him "No, your dick isn't in. You're humping my thigh." O...M...G... :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
*Also...gotta love it when a man takes forever to respond to a text, yet if YOU take more than 2 minutes to respond to his text...he gets an attitude.
miss.a.p1600
09-29-2022, 06:32 AM
I sent my brother to get the rest of my stuff from my aunt's and her giant turd of a bf was there. He started yelling at my brother for no reason, saying that he has guns in the house and will kick my brother's ass and is keeping my Tv, lamps, a pack of diapers, and our winter coats hostage. I'm going to have to get the rest of my stuff out of there and it looks like it will have to be with police escorts. I can't handle that drama right now. I wish I knew a big, intimidating man to go there and get my stuff for me.
Armed law enforcement is better.
Men nowadays men don’t want to get involved in domestic disputes on behalf of women because it’s too easy for things to end violently even fatally
WendiStarr
09-30-2022, 12:19 PM
This shit from BD. I've been gone for a while now and he's gonna send this:
57684
Disregard the bubbles at the bottom. They are auto response bubbles. I didn't respond at all to that.
buttonpop
09-30-2022, 02:31 PM
^woooow. "I would never do that" literally three hours after doing exactly that. pathetic.
xxxGothBarbie
09-30-2022, 06:17 PM
This shit from BD. I've been gone for a while now and he's gonna send this:
57684
Disregard the bubbles at the bottom. They are auto response bubbles. I didn't respond at all to that.
Omg that message looks very similar to what one of my abusive exes used to send me ugh. Steer clear!
LoveyD
09-30-2022, 08:08 PM
^^BD is a textbook malignant narcissist. I'm so glad you're not responding to him. Please stay safe. That man is dangerous and stupid. Not a good combo.
He's trying to reel you back in so he can abuse you some more. Hoovering. God what a POS...
chanzep
09-30-2022, 09:01 PM
I would change my number and file a restraining order. He's not mentally stable.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-30-2022, 09:48 PM
I wish my boyfriend would quit being so fucking weird. Bless his little heart but damn he's strange.
LoveyD
09-30-2022, 11:11 PM
This shit from BD. I've been gone for a while now and he's gonna send this:
57684
Disregard the bubbles at the bottom. They are auto response bubbles. I didn't respond at all to that.
Lmao I love the gaslighting throughout, especially at the end w/ the " your family is jealous" bs. He doesn't let anyone forget that he's the "victim" here! Wah wah wahhhhh lmao omg go home and wash your sheets, BD!
Wendi I'm so happy you're free from this. You and the girls deserve to be at peace.
BD is exactly like my BD. Except I pulled a stunt on my BD and he hasn't bothered me since 2006 LOL ( no it wasn't violent.)
miss.a.p1600
10-01-2022, 08:36 AM
^save it as evidence for court to show that he is unstable and unfit
miss.a.p1600
10-01-2022, 12:25 PM
The dude I’m with has been acting like a classic douche, now he refuses couples therapy (he doesn’t like being held accountable apparently), and STILL expecting sex
Like what part of you act like a douche so what woman in their right mind wants to sleep with you is not sinking through your thick skull?!?
I am so sick of men entitlement.
miss.a.p1600
10-01-2022, 12:29 PM
The dude is constantly propositioning me for sex and flat out said “I want some….”
Well mf “I want some (some money)”
He was like “oh so I gotta pay for sex?”
Yep! I’m not busting it open without some compensation
Too old and too wise to be sport fucking for free for male pleasure
Every time he brings up his sex demands and how I take my sweet time fucking him, I bring up his lackluster earnings and how he is taking his sweet time providing better
chanzep
10-01-2022, 02:19 PM
I wouldn't bother with therapy if your leaving.
Your not obligated to have sex with him. How dare he act like that. No man has the right esp one that doesn't take care of you.
After my ex was disrespectful I never let him touch me again. If you not in the mood for him don't do anything. You don't have to. I don't blame you after what he said .He's prepared to make you homeless over nothing. I wouldn't touch him again.
Aurora_Sunset
10-03-2022, 06:11 PM
Omg my husband’s farts are so bad tonight. I keep looking around, absolutely convinced I’m gonna find a pile of cat shit tucked away somewhere, that’s how bad they are. Farts are supposed to smell like sulphur/rotten eggs. They tend to stay in the vicinity of the fart and dissipate eventually. These are straight up making the WHOLE apartment smell like raw sewage. I Febreezed the entire place earlier and still come out of the bedroom and can only smell literal shit. Holy god.
carmen_b
10-03-2022, 06:50 PM
^ One has to ask .... or suggest I guess I should should say ...
Can he maybe discreetly step outside to let these out lol ?
miss.a.p1600
10-04-2022, 02:28 PM
I hate when men try to come off as though they will provide “protection” but really they just want to do what they do as their typical male privileged selves = poke their nose where it doesn’t belong, cling, control, mansplain/manspread, and provide nothing but useless male presence that blends into the furniture
Aurora_Sunset
10-04-2022, 05:50 PM
^ One has to ask .... or suggest I guess I should should say ...
Can he maybe discreetly step outside to let these out lol ?
To be fair, he's really sick right now. So, he's kinda "dead" on the couch. I made him sleep out there last night though lol
LoveyD
10-04-2022, 06:35 PM
Really tempted to send that toss the man out by his dick meme I saw in this thread a while back. I want to send it to that idiot I was dating a while back. He's such a f****** dick.
xxxGothBarbie
10-05-2022, 05:56 PM
I hate how this dickface gets pissy at anything I say or even ask to him.
Sorry you hate your life sober & you're gonna be even sorrier when I leave your hateful ass just as soon as I can.
I'm sick of walking on eggshells around here, I'm sick of having to coexist with your annoying ass smother. When I ask him a question, he gets so annoyed & does this stupid ass "pfft" as he rolls his eyes at me. Piece of shit! I am not in a great mood at all tonight bc of this bullshit abusive male entitlement.
WendiStarr
10-06-2022, 04:06 PM
There's a male shooter at the hotel across the street that has had LE there since 1pm. Apparently some dispute with hotel staff over money.b He apparently won't leave the hotel room. Idiot men.
chanzep
10-06-2022, 04:40 PM
The police didn't take him yet!. He's stupid he can be shot.
indiegirl
10-06-2022, 04:44 PM
I sent my brother to get the rest of my stuff from my aunt's and her giant turd of a bf was there. He started yelling at my brother for no reason, saying that he has guns in the house and will kick my brother's ass and is keeping my Tv, lamps, a pack of diapers, and our winter coats hostage. I'm going to have to get the rest of my stuff out of there and it looks like it will have to be with police escorts. I can't handle that drama right now. I wish I knew a big, intimidating man to go there and get my stuff for me.
Meh I'd bring 2 police escorts and say the people inside were armed. Always scares officers and they'll bring more police. You've been through enough this year. :(
xxxGothBarbie
10-07-2022, 03:06 PM
So earlier in the week my u.k crushy replied back to me after a month of being MIA.
I was happy when I saw the notifications but after really thinking about everything in perspective I've come to conclude that I don't think he harbors the same feelings I do bc when you end several long paragraphs with a "Hope you enjoy the rest of your week" & "oh please accept my apologies for being away so long, I'm usually too tired from work/or busy to reply" , I'm pretty sure you aren't interested in putting in the effort nor as interested as I am it appears.
He wants more pics & videos from me (non sexual) he said so whatever. Guess I'll need to learn to take my sweet time in replying back as well ugh so fucking irritating bc he is my escape from everything at home right now. I feel the need to bitch about it bc it's irritating me like mad today.