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Dreamqueen
10-08-2022, 09:08 AM
The mechanic came by last night to replace my alternator.
I told him to give me an hour's notice, because I'm working.
He gives me 25 minutes. Ugh!
He parked in my neighbor's spot, even though there's lots of street parking.
When I asked him to move his truck, he refused.
And of course my neighbor came home. Thank fuck he was cool about
I met him at my car, because I don't want strangers in my home.
Right out the gate, he asks me if the 2 apts in front of my car are empty, because they're dark.
Huh?
I don't know.
This guy has a gorgeous house, so why is he asking instead of fixing my car?

I tell him to text me when he's done.
He tells me that he needs to plug in his battery charger to charge my battery, and can he come in?

Oh, fuck. Here we go.

The MOMENT he walked into my place he starts barraging me with personal questions.

How much do I pay for rent?
What do I do for a living ( I tell him a collection agency).
He asks what the name of the company is, where it is, and how much I make?

WTF???
He asks how many bedrooms I have, what's on the tv? Is it YouTube?
What show?
Holy fuck!
On and on.
I give him vague answers, and try to stear the conversation back to my car, and ask him about buying a newer car.

He's not done. He's asking about my air conditioner, etc.

I tell him that I have a boyfriend.

Dude, get the fuck out of here!
He charges my car, and we go for a test drive.
I tell him that I smell something burning and point to my dashboard where the needle is rising.
He tells me that I'm being paranoid.


Next thing you know my car is overheating.
Luckily we were near my house.
Oh, now he thinks I have a blown gasket.
He wants to come back Sunday and diagnose it.
I'm SO done.

Edit to add: The MOMENT he got his money, he tells me that there's a possibility that the alternator will be faulty, even though it's a new one.
Huh??

TheBrownFox
10-08-2022, 11:23 AM
The narcissist...then the compulsive liar (Lying so damn much, I think he believes his own b.s. half the time). Gee, what the fuck is the next guy gonna be? An axe murderer? ::) Good grief! 2022 has really been somethin' else!

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-08-2022, 11:28 AM
My boyfriend's random comments are painfully hilarious when he's angry. "Something smells like bacon.....Oh it's that candle." (A chai spice candle.) Like WTF....?

xxxGothBarbie
10-08-2022, 02:05 PM
The mechanic came by last night to replace my alternator.
I told him to give me an hour's notice, because I'm working.
He gives me 25 minutes. Ugh!
He parked in my neighbor's spot, even though there's lots of street parking.
When I asked him to move his truck, he refused.
And of course my neighbor came home. Thank fuck he was cool about
I met him at my car, because I don't want strangers in my home.
Right out the gate, he asks me if the 2 apts in front of my car are empty, because they're dark.
Huh?
I don't know.
This guy has a gorgeous house, so why is he asking instead of fixing my car?

I tell him to text me when he's done.
He tells me that he needs to plug in his battery charger to charge my battery, and can he come in?

Oh, fuck. Here we go.

The MOMENT he walked into my place he starts barraging me with personal questions.

How much do I pay for rent?
What do I do for a living ( I tell him a collection agency).
He asks what the name of the company is, where it is, and how much I make?

WTF???
He asks how many bedrooms I have, what's on the tv? Is it YouTube?
What show?
Holy fuck!
On and on.
I give him vague answers, and try to stear the conversation back to my car, and ask him about buying a newer car.

He's not done. He's asking about my air conditioner, etc.

I tell him that I have a boyfriend.

Dude, get the fuck out of here!
He charges my car, and we go for a test drive.
I tell him that I smell something burning and point to my dashboard where the needle is rising.
He tells me that I'm being paranoid.


Next thing you know my car is overheating.
Luckily we were near my house.
Oh, now he thinks I have a blown gasket.
He wants to come back Sunday and diagnose it.
I'm SO done.

Edit to add: The MOMENT he got his money, he tells me that there's a possibility that the alternator will be faulty, even though it's a new one.
Huh??

Omfg ugh! What a damn nightmare:( I'm sorry you had to go thru all that crap. Can you have AAA just tow it into a shop & just repair it from there? He might not have hooked everything back together properly which is what could be causing the overheating. I hope you can get it fixed asap for your own sanity.

Dreamqueen
10-09-2022, 03:21 AM
Omfg ugh! What a damn nightmare:( I'm sorry you had to go thru all that crap. Can you have AAA just tow it into a shop & just repair it from there? He might not have hooked everything back together properly which is what could be causing the overheating. I hope you can get it fixed asap for your own sanity.

Hi, thanks for your input.
I've already paid him, and don't have money to let another mechanic look at it.
I've already been to SIX mechanics like this.
Only difference is that they aren't in my home.

The battery is dead again, so I'm going to have AAA replace it, so I can sell it in running order.
If it Is the gasket, it will cost over $3000 to fix it.
I told him that I'm going to sell it if that's the case.
He said no one will buy it.
Oh yeah?
Watch me.
Two can play at that game.

LoveyD
10-09-2022, 08:39 AM
DQ I feel you. I can't stand those damn mobile mechanics! Last one I hired of course hit on me. But at least he got my car fixed correctly. That sucks. I hope you're able to save for a new car. And you can absolutely sell your broken car, I've done it before! That guy's an idiot.

WendiStarr
10-09-2022, 07:30 PM
BD found us(one of my relatives is a rat) and fucking took my 2 youngest kids. LE couldn't do anything because there's no custody order yet. My lawyer is taking forever and of course now everything is closed. First thing Tuesday morning I have to go to the courthouse and file an emergency custody order. I'm so stressed right now. I hate BD. He's dangerous and I am not going to be able to relax or sleep until my babies are back and safe with me.I plan on showing up at his house again and not leaving until he lets me get them back. He wasn't there today. Wtf.

LoveyD
10-09-2022, 09:11 PM
^^ Praying for you and your daughters, Wendi. I am so upset for you rn how dare your relatives jeopardize you and your childrens' safety! Fucking hate LE too. How is this not kidnapping? They cant put an APB on his vehicle?

buttonpop
10-09-2022, 10:00 PM
Do you have any strong male friends that could go with you to try and get your kids back? I am guessing LE won't go with you. Maybe the DV shelter can give you advice or send someone to go with you. I wonder if you could find some way to record all your future interactions with him too--more fodder for your custody case and restraining order since I'm sure he's going to act crazy. I also hope you cut off communication with whatever relative told him.

Ugh I'm so sorry this is happening Wendi. I hope you are able to get some sleep tonight so you can deal with this in the morning.

miss.a.p1600
10-09-2022, 10:00 PM
You have to be one step ahead of their asses n be proactive so you won’t have to backtrack n put out fires

Over Time this dudes actions has shown you that you cannot be nice to him, you cannot trust him, nor give him the benefit of the doubt. .

You need an attorney asap. Do not wait until Tuesday, do this Monday 8am. If your lawyer is too slow, fire them and hire a professional one who is prompt.

If you don’t know where he is or how to contact him then you need to report him for kidnapping. Police are dumb af. Yes you don’t have a custody order but you still need to know where your kids are located and be able to get in touch with their father.

Now if you don’t listen to anything I say, after you get the custody issue taken care of, in February RUN do not walk to your accountants office and file tax returns 8am on the first day before he ends up filing before you and taking your money too.

chanzep
10-09-2022, 10:21 PM
M sorry Wendi this is terrible. I can't imagine how your feeling. It's worrying . He probably doing this to lure you back. Don't go to him alone.
Isn't this considered kidnapping ?, You have contacted authorities about his abuse so it should be. I hope you speak to Lawyer asap . I can't believe someone told him where you are at that's low. Do you think it's your Aunts boyfriend ?
Please keep us updated this is very alarming .

LoveyD
10-09-2022, 10:22 PM
^^ Agreed. Even if there is no custody agreement in place, and one parent leaves with the child without consent from the other parent, that's kidnapping. How could LE just waive this off???. I'd call and report a kidnapping, describe his vehicle and have them put out an APB. Tell them he is dangerous. Oh Wendi I am so sorry you are in this situation. I cant imagine. I want to kick your "family's" ass...

Make sure you document/organize the following:

Any communication with BD. Texts, emails, etc.
Events with BD(like this one)
Previous communication with DV shelters and counselors.
I'd have your oldest daughter make a statement as well. I remember you said she'd do that.

He's such an asshole. And fuck your "family" for doing this.

Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help you.

chanzep
10-09-2022, 10:26 PM
Right same . I would deffo report it now. They might help you.

LoveyD
10-09-2022, 10:36 PM
Law enforcement sucks. Like they don't want to do a damn thing. A crime happened. He took the kids without her permission and he's not telling her where they are. That's kidnapping. Wtf?

I know I'm not an attorney or anything like that and I understand that filing an emergency protective custody order is the remedy, but gosh, there's got to be something they can do in the meantime.

Lmk if you want me to post anything on my twitter asking the public for help with locating his ass.

Dreamqueen
10-10-2022, 09:40 AM
DQ I feel you. I can't stand those damn mobile mechanics! Last one I hired of course hit on me. But at least he got my car fixed correctly. That sucks. I hope you're able to save for a new car. And you can absolutely sell your broken car, I've done it before! That guy's an idiot.

I can't stand ALL mechanics out here.
They were much better back in the city for some reason.

My car started right up yesterday, thank God.
I called a girlfriend who just had her alternator die too.
She said the AAA guy replaced it, as he does side work.
She said he was respectful and kind.
I'm calling him today to see about an estimate to check out the overheating issue, which she has too.
Here we go round the mulberry bush.

TheBrownFox
10-10-2022, 10:32 AM
Wendy, I'm so sorry that this horrible excuse of a man keeps putting you through torture! If you haven't already called the police, I'd say to call them right now to report this kidnapping. And then tomorrow morning go to the courthouse to file for emergency custody. I realize that courts are closed today for Columbus Day, so the courthouse stuff will have to wait until first thing tomorrow morning.

Because your situation is extreme in where you're dealing with an UNSAFE bd who is a threat to you and your children...when these people (including anyone you may be speaking to today over the phone/in person) are asking you to fill out this and that form with your and his contact information, please let them know beforehand that this is a matter of life and death, and this man is NOT to have your address or phone number (In the event they mail something to him about the custody order). I really am unsure how this stuff works regarding EMERGENCY custody orders and restraining orders, so I don't know exactly what information you're required to give them. I think you should save every single one of his awful messages to you too (If they were sent via Facebook Messenger, screenshot them all before he gets a chance to "unsend and remove" the messages).

You should also cut off that toxic relative who snitched, and told that scumbag where you are. >:( So sorry you're going through this!

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-10-2022, 10:37 AM
My boyfriend accidentally injured himself while shampooing his hair. I was at work. I'm just glad I didn't come home to find him on the bathroom floor covered in shampoo and soap.

Yup, this is monogamy, how fun. lol

kimbe
10-10-2022, 11:59 AM
Why can't he just STFU when I give him head??
I mean, I almost feel like when I'm at the dentist.. You know, you've got your mouth filled up with suction tube etc etc and the dentist keep talking and actually expects answers... And when you don't answer, he stops the procedure, but it doesn't make it any easier to talk with all the stuff in your mouth..

Until he gets into the pure moaning phase of the BJ, he talks a lot, and ask what I think about different things. If I stop sucking to give an answer, he's like "what's up, don't stop!!!".....

Dreamqueen
10-11-2022, 09:45 AM
I can't stand ALL mechanics out here.
They were much better back in the city for some reason.

My car started right up yesterday, thank God.
I called a girlfriend who just had her alternator die too.
She said the AAA guy replaced it, as he does side work.
She said he was respectful and kind.
I'm calling him today to see about an estimate to check out the overheating issue, which she has too.
Here we go round the mulberry bush.


Well, I called him. He said it would be $200 for a diagnosis.
Fuck outta here!
When I told him that I don't have it, he lowered it to $100.
::)

I got into my car and noticed that the plastic that covers the gear shift is cracked and falling off.
Can't shift my car.
Good times.
:-\

AChildOfBoredom
10-11-2022, 02:32 PM
Why is it, when a guy is trying to get your attention and failing, they get this idea in their head that resorting to buffoonery will be the winning ticket? Happened at an intersection. Wasn’t paying him any mind, so he thought he’d peel out in his pickup when the light turn green. Problem is, the ass end slid out in my direction and he almost ended up sideswiping my car. Not exactly the way to make me endear myself to you.

WendiStarr
10-12-2022, 05:29 AM
I went down to the front desk to get clean towels. This dude was walking into the lobby from outside, at the same time and I could feel his eyes on me without even looking directly at him. He stopped and was standing there staring. When I headed to the elevator he followed me and got in. He immediately moved closer to me and was staring at me awkwardly saying,"Wooow!". He said that my hair is so pretty and touched my hair and then told me that I have pretty eyes(I wear glasses so not sure how he could notice them). It was creepy because he was just standing there staring at me and I could seriously feel this tangible gross feeling. I noticed that he didn't get off at 2nd or 3rd floor and he was all like,"Ooh, we're on the same floor!" and proceeded to ask me for my IG. I lied and said that I don't have IG. When the elevator opened to the 4th floor, I got out and headed the opposite direction of my room. I saw him coming behind me and I booked it for the stairs. I purposely went to the wrong floor and checked. He wasn't following me anymore. I stood there hidden in a corner for a couple minutes, went down to the front desk but nobody was there, before getting back on the elevator and I didn't see him again in the hallway so this time I went to my room. I guess I need to start carrying pepper spray again. Times like these I wish my tits weren't big. Even with a conservative top the damn things were creating cleavage at the top which probably is what really attracted him. Ugh.

miss.a.p1600
10-12-2022, 07:47 AM
^hell to the naw. He would have deserved an eye full of hot pepper mace

LoveyD
10-12-2022, 11:37 AM
^^^ I wish it was legal to punch men in the nuts like I did when I was 14.

xxxGothBarbie
10-12-2022, 09:16 PM
The idiot dickhead at chipotle earlier making my bowl ugh.
I ask very politely for more veggies please bc he barely gave me any & his stupid ass was smirking & gives like 2 or 3 more pieces only. He was literally trying to be a dick & give small tiny portions to which I kept saying more please with an exhausted borderline bitchy tone. The people before me were complaining at him bc they barely got any guacamole they paid for in the container & he had to fill it up all the way. I get to the register & show them my free entree email I got from a complaint *shock* and he starts speaking spanish to the gal ringing me up & they were laughing & I'm pretty sure were talking shit but whatever.

I wanted to wipe that smirk off his face so badly!

kamiliam
10-13-2022, 01:12 AM
I’m trying to hire movers and I have so far only dealt with cringe know it all dudes. Had to hang up on one guy after he got weird with me after I wouldn’t FaceTime him right then to get an idea of my office space. My office space that was staged with dildos… he didn’t know that, said I had confidential screen on. I offered to take pictures later, He pushed, it is typical man brain to think it’s a good idea to show strangers your unedited living space.

This was after he told me about all the shitty magazines that had written about how was a shipping genius, and was insulted that I assumed he worked from home when he volunteered that his wife and daughter were with him at work everyday. This was after I told him I worked from home. I can’t wait to be done repeating what I want 5 times to trained professional men before they believe me.

LoveyD
10-13-2022, 06:10 AM
I can't wait for the day when I can approach a mechanic to have my car fixed and not be hit on. Happened the last three times, three different mechanics. I even posted about it in a Yelp review and the guy called me, wanted me to take it down! What a fuck head!

miss.a.p1600
10-13-2022, 06:22 AM
^its sad. Need to keep that review up lol cause that’s the truth of how he was acting.

I don’t trust independent mechanics ever since I took my first car to one and the mf took my money whilst pretending to do work he never did.

I took my car to another shop for another job and he was like “your oil is leaking” I was like “wtf joe blow mechanic said he fixed it and I paid him” he was like “nah they didn’t fix it”

They think they can get over on women cause women are less likely to know about car parts n such. Um no mfs most women aren’t ignorant.

Anyways I know it’s more expensive but I go to dealership and I’ve never had problems since. They always fix it right the first time and they’re professional.

Dreamqueen
10-13-2022, 07:16 AM
I met a guy (virtually) who was also a guest on a podcast that I was on.
I found him very well spoken, smart, and hot, and from New Jersey. Love Jersey guys.
We exchanged numbers last Friday, with plans to chat that evening.

It was during the mechanic debacle.
When I had to hang up abruptly because of the dipshit mechanic finishing the job early and needing my attention, this dude got butthurt.

Even though I explained the situation, and he said that he understood, he is now blowing me off.

I want to say, "Dude, do you even KNOW how lucky you are just to be able to have my number and talk to me?"
I talk to men ALL day and night, and get paid for it!

He doesn't know I'm a sex worker, and think most men are too shitty to be around.
Once again, men show who they really are.
Ugh. Just ugh.::)

miss.a.p1600
10-13-2022, 07:22 AM
I realize I don’t really like living with men. Especially ones that linger around the house all day like fucking lazy bumps on a log or bitch made house husbands.

All they do is mess up the house (piss everywhere while standing up, leave hair in the sink, sock lint in the shower, empty toilet paper rolls, used socks in middle of the floor, wet towels laying everywhere, etc) then deny and gaslight, cling, act annoying (burping, farting, singing horribly, talking while you want quiet, asking dumb ass questions), argue n cause problems……..

Who the hell trained these mfs?!?

Unless you have a pussy and mostly estrogen, Get up and do some masculine tasks and leave me the fuck alone mf!

I am the domestic goddess bitch not you. Get out of my domain and stay in your lane!

carmen_b
10-13-2022, 12:00 PM
It would have been really funny ( to me ) if he hit a post or building. I mean not gotten hurt but just got an embarrassing ding haha.
Wasn’t paying him any mind, so he thought he’d peel out in his pickup when the light turn green. Problem is, the ass end slid out in my direction and he almost ended up sideswiping my car. Not exactly the way to make me endear myself to you.

carmen_b
10-13-2022, 12:03 PM
I would zoomed on any glass ones like " I want THESE carefully wrapped and labeled " lol .


I’m trying to hire movers and I have so far only dealt with cringe know it all dudes. Had to hang up on one guy after he got weird with me after I wouldn’t FaceTime him right then to get an idea of my office space. My office space that was staged with dildos… he didn’t know that, said I had confidential screen on. I offered to take pictures later, He pushed, it is typical man brain to think it’s a good idea to show strangers your unedited living space.

This was after he told me about all the shitty magazines that had written about how was a shipping genius, and was insulted that I assumed he worked from home when he volunteered that his wife and daughter were with him at work everyday. This was after I told him I worked from home. I can’t wait to be done repeating what I want 5 times to trained professional men before they believe me.

moneybags
10-13-2022, 11:00 PM
One of the guys from my spiritual group PM’d me and I made the mistake of thinking he was different because he was from my spiritual group. Ugh.

My rule is unless you’re deconstructing from the patriarchy I won’t talk to you on a personal level. I don’t care if you’re a “nice guy” or “not like all the other men”. Or if you’re a “spiritual” guy. No guy is safe unless they’re actively working on their shit.

WendiStarr
10-17-2022, 05:32 AM
I saw how some stupid men reacted to Amouranth going public about the abuse that she has endured from her husband. All these idiot men whose sole focus was the fact that she pretended to be single all those years. They totally missed the fact where she said that she's been being verbally and financially abused. As a domestic survivor myself, this angered me. These losers are butt hurt that their fantasy has been ruined, as if they ever had a chance with her to begin with. They should be concerned about the fact that she has been abused and is now silent and nobody has heard from her. I know from experience how difficult it is. It's a nightmare and if he has control of her finances, despite making millions of dollars, she likely cannot just leave without outside help from someone. Men cannot understand this because they don't know what it's like to be trapped with an abuser and their pea sized brains can't comprehend anything beyond,"She lied and isn't single. I have no chance of sticking my dirty dick in her after all".

miss.a.p1600
10-17-2022, 09:03 AM
^no they understand VERY well. The play dumb when it suits them and their wants and their smedium dicks

Dreamqueen
10-17-2022, 12:13 PM
Get a load of this one.
I received a voicemail yesterday from some guy who's calling to see how I am.
He left his name and number.
Tells me where he lives.
Hmm.

I've only been to that town once, back in 2015 when I attended a car show with my bestie.
The name didn't ring a bell, but I do recall meeting some guy who ended up being a total loser.

What's with guys randomly calling someone from 7 years ago?
Typical male behavior.

I've mentioned before that I just want to be left alone.
Changing my number is out, because it's tied to everything and it's a cool number.

I guess this is the way it's going to be forever.
I finally understand
the saying "May she rest in peace", when someone dies.
Looks like that'll be when I can be free from men and their fuckery. :-\

xxxGothBarbie
10-17-2022, 06:41 PM
Ha! You ladies will love this one.
So we were at a night club over the weekend drinking and so.ehow we got on the topic of sex and I asked why our sexlife had declined before I went celibate on him in the summer and I was told that it was like a job to have sex with me. I'm so annoyed and angry bc all he ever wanted to do was look at my feet and selfishly jerk off while I'd lie there wanting to get off. I'm still fuming over it. I got even though lol
The rest of the weekend I claimed I was broke while I drained his wallet dry ;)

miss.a.p1600
10-18-2022, 04:38 PM
I hate this dude right now.

Won’t buy groceries, so now I gotta buy groceries AND pay the household bills AND take his ass out for his birthday.

He’s going to be in for a rude awakening when he realizes I’m deducting the amount I spend on the first two and what’s left over is his birthday gift….at this point he will be luck if he gets a Burger King 4 for $4

See that story about the twitch lady reminds me of how American society has ruined half these males out here and how women are safer and better off single a lot of the time.

LoveyD
10-18-2022, 04:59 PM
I for one feel safer, more at peace, and I certainly feel less stifled. I can reach for goals now whereas before it was always some dude trying to make me second-guess myself, or make me feel inadequate, when I knew damn well I wasn't and it was just him being insecure. So tired of little dick energy I swear.

Now I am free to grow and Blossom into the woman I want to be without some idiot trying to stunt my growth.. The only man in my life who supports me is my kid. He's nice and normal and wishes me well when I am going for my dreams.

xxxGothBarbie
10-18-2022, 05:52 PM
We made plans to go see a haunted spot and take pics for part of Halloween celebrations now his stupid ass I'd saying how we shouldn't drive so far just for taking pics of a place... ugh! I'm going without him then. I hate how these men always try that second guess yourself bs when it's not suitable for their needs. I hate this idiot. I'm literally only here for the free rent and spending his money at this point.

WendiStarr
10-19-2022, 07:01 AM
Besides BD being a p.o.s. as usual, I'm annoyed with time wasting men in general. I plan on working SC tonight but figured I'd do fbsm during the day. I have therapy at noon and this one time wasting fucker had an appointment at 9am. He pushed it to 10am. Then he tried to push it to 11. I don't want to be dealing with rushing around and having to cut a session short, possibly pissing him off because I have therapy at 12. I can't do an hour appt at 11. I told him earlier that the latest I could do is 10am start time. I hate when people don't respect my availability and time.

indiegirl
10-19-2022, 11:31 AM
When men are impatient with emails. I get it. This is my fucking week off. All those months of 1 hour-3 hours of sleep a night studying wore me down on TOP of working. I EARNED THIS. Please be patient.

moneybags
10-19-2022, 05:41 PM
I second fuck time wasting men.

I’ve been giving M the cold shoulder. I’m not even doing it to be mean. Im just done being a therapist. Quit using bad bitches to fix your feelings and go to therapy.

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2022, 12:35 PM
Im already more than annoyed this dude took numerous days off - with nowhere to go and nothing productive or masculine to do.

Dreamqueen
10-20-2022, 12:39 PM
^its sad. Need to keep that review up lol cause that’s the truth of how he was acting.

I don’t trust independent mechanics ever since I took my first car to one and the mf took my money whilst pretending to do work he never did.

I took my car to another shop for another job and he was like “your oil is leaking” I was like “wtf joe blow mechanic said he fixed it and I paid him” he was like “nah they didn’t fix it”

They think they can get over on women cause women are less likely to know about car parts n such. Um no mfs most women aren’t ignorant.

Anyways I know it’s more expensive but I go to dealership and I’ve never had problems since. They always fix it right the first time and they’re professional.


On this same subject.
I was kind of envying my neighbor's new ( used) car that she bought several months ago.
She parks in the spot next to mine.
It was hard watching her come and go in it, all while I sat inside because my car had died.:'(


Well.
I ran into her yesterday and asked how she likes her new car.
She tells me that she's not liking it very much, because it's already been to the repair shop TWICE since she's bought it.

She's a woman (alone), just like the rest of us.
What the HELL is wrong with these mechanics?

Don't they realize that if they do right by us, we'll tell the world?
That we'll be a repeat customer, and so will our friends?

No.
I forgot. We're dealing with men.
They lack the ability to think rationally about this.:withstupi

kimbe
10-20-2022, 12:56 PM
^ Luckily I've got a good relationship with the lokal dealership, and having a fairly new car means (usually!) less issues..

carmen_b
10-20-2022, 05:08 PM
I've stayed out of here and in my own break up thread as a gesture to not crash it lol.

Aurora_Sunset
10-20-2022, 06:15 PM
Today, a guy at work walked past me and said, "Smile! It's not that bad." I immediately responded, "How do you know?"

Granted, this was someone I'm relatively cool with so he kinda just gave a "Daaaang" but otherwise didn't seem to take it too personally or fight me on it. But I think I've found my new go-to line the next time anyone tries this.

Like, how the fuck DO you know? You have no idea how my day or life is going.

carmen_b
10-20-2022, 06:18 PM
^ Aren’t we in a place in society where we can bill the dude 5 k for “ smile “ thing?
Ha
It’s a well known “ Don’t “.

TheBrownFox
10-20-2022, 07:43 PM
Today, a guy at work walked past me and said, "Smile! It's not that bad." I immediately responded, "How do you know?"

Granted, this was someone I'm relatively cool with so he kinda just gave a "Daaaang" but otherwise didn't seem to take it too personally or fight me on it. But I think I've found my new go-to line the next time anyone tries this.

Like, how the fuck DO you know? You have no idea how my day or life is going.


Omg, I HATE it when men say that “Smile!” b.s. They need to STFU.

xxxGothBarbie
10-20-2022, 10:10 PM
This marks day #3 I haven't been able to start back to working again bc everytime I try this week, "dickface" is trying to sleep & is bitching about the damn light being on. Even though about a month ago when I worked at night, he compromised and wore a sleep mask with his head set on to drown out my calls, so wtf changed?!

I can't help but be furious at him right now. Add that to him telling me that fucking me "was like a job" *eyeroll*

I snarkily pointed out tonight as he bitched about the light being on that "ya it's cool, you'll just be supporting me that much more & I will make your life hell while I'm trying to get out of here".. Mess with me mfer and it won't be worth it in the end. I know he's prob ready for me to move out which is fine bc so am I BUT he doesn't seem to get the fact that I NEED TO WORK to make such happen......

I've already stopped buying groceries to feed 2 people. I fucking hate these asshole men I seem to get stuck with UGH!