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miss.a.p1600
12-02-2022, 11:12 PM
^this is why majority of married men ain’t fucking on a regular like they claim.

Today’s generation of men are weak af, expect women to go get it in the mud with them because they couldn’t provide if their lives depended on it, then wonder why their dumb asses only get sex on birthdays and holidays (if that) or get cheated on.

miss.a.p1600
12-02-2022, 11:16 PM
How I feel once I’ve escaped the clutches of a clingy dude


https://youtu.be/oTB46FJOF5w

Sit down and take care of your kids (since you love being a full time dad) while I enjoy my best life out of town.

This is making me think I need to arrange more trips so I can meet a secret sugar daddy out out town who can help L pay my bills }:D

carmen_b
12-03-2022, 09:01 AM
There is some logic here for sure.
I love company and cuddles but I trust men a lot less than I used to.
What you describe is a big factor of why I insisted on protecting my work hours in my last relationship.
Security = cash saved . No exceptions.

IF they really have your best interests in mind they will have no problems with you working towards savings goals.


That’s why I don’t date vanilla men. They want free emotional and sexual labor. Why waste my time on someone who will eventually cheat on me or leave me when I can invest in myself.

carmen_b
12-03-2022, 09:04 AM
Wow Dream .... bullet dogged !
He started fussing just because your attention went to your NEEDED errand ?
How lucky that you also caught him being on ass on the podcast v.s. giving him any more of your time !

Dreamqueen
12-03-2022, 09:12 AM
That’s why I don’t date vanilla men. They want free emotional and sexual labor. Why waste my time on someone who will eventually cheat on me or leave me when I can invest in myself.

So much this.
A subscriber on my YouTube channel started emailing me from 2 am until the next afternoon. I never replied, so naturally he got nasty. No surprise there.
He was asking me if I chat.
Uh, yeah. For a large fee.

moneybags
12-03-2022, 10:18 AM
There is some logic here for sure.
I love company and cuddles but I trust men a lot less than I used to.
What you describe is a big factor of why I insisted on protecting my work hours in my last relationship.
Security = cash saved . No exceptions.

lol…obviously not all men are cheaters and liars, but the point is we have to put ourselves first. The bullshit we’ve been sold as women is to take care of men at the expense of ourselves. Until you’re legally married, you should do whatever is best for you. Obviously that’s doesn’t mean being abusive or anything, I’m talking about making sure not to over invest in a relationship.

Let’s be real, a lot of men will without hesitation cheat on you. So you need to protect yourself with prenump and make sure they know they have a lot to lose if they do.

WendiStarr
12-03-2022, 12:35 PM
Remember the creep who was blackmailing me? I got confused and freaked out today by a letter I received in the mail today from my city's courthouse. I initially misread it, thinking that he was trying to get me charged with the same crime he committed and was panicking like how the hell can he do that. I immediately called the attorney. It turns out that it's a hearing via Zoom that he's going to be charged at. I hope he doesn't show up to it so that he is in contempt of court.

MintChocolate
12-03-2022, 12:46 PM
he was suppose to send me money to get my nails & toes done before our weekend getaway, but something told me to to pull tarot cards on dude and they weren't favorable. they basically said he was gonna be penny pinchin the entire time. sooo fast fwd to thur when I was suppose to get them done, i called him and he ignored me the entire day.>:( ofc i igged nad snapped on him bcuz i aint gots tha time, okay *2snaps* ol cheap fucko!

*rant vent over*

Dreamqueen
12-04-2022, 10:17 AM
Wow Dream .... bullet dogged !
He started fussing just because your attention went to your NEEDED errand ?
How lucky that you also caught him being on ass on the podcast v.s. giving him any more of your time !


Yes, BIG time bullet dodged.
All because, while on the phone with him, my mechanic finished the alternator replacement job and needed me to come outside to pay him, etc (lucky to have this mechanic make a housecall, because he has a shop at his house).
This dude got butthurt that I had to go, even though I told him that I'd call him back as soon as the mechanic left.
At first he said no problem.
But then blew me off each text I sent when I tried to reconnect.
No worries.

This youtuber did a FOUR hour stream calling him out.
Love it!

carmen_b
12-04-2022, 10:24 AM
My Narc from Dec. 2019 and Jan. 2020 would do that.
We had *just* started seeing each other and he'd mention I didn't return calls / texts fast enough.

It's a huge red flag if someone can't wait a few hours to get back to them ( especially during business hours ).

WendiStarr
12-05-2022, 09:38 AM
BD and his multiple email addresses. Yes, I am happy without you. Don't bother contacting me unless you're offering to pay $2400/month for childcare so that I can fucking work.

carmen_b
12-05-2022, 10:42 AM
I think having some of your own money set aside and protected / well hidden is essential.
It just seems like there are too many stories out there of " this woman struggled to get away from guy xyz " .
IF something came up as a couple as you needed these funds and wanted to access them you could say family loaned / gifted you the money v.s. that you had it hidden.


lol…obviously not all men are cheaters and liars, but the point is we have to put ourselves first. The bullshit we’ve been sold as women is to take care of men at the expense of ourselves. Until you’re legally married, you should do whatever is best for you. Obviously that’s doesn’t mean being abusive or anything, I’m talking about making sure not to over invest in a relationship.

Let’s be real, a lot of men will without hesitation cheat on you. So you need to protect yourself with prenump and make sure they know they have a lot to lose if they do.

moneybags
12-05-2022, 11:45 AM
^^^feminism includes financial health

moneybags
12-05-2022, 11:50 AM
My Narc from Dec. 2019 and Jan. 2020 would do that.
We had *just* started seeing each other and he'd mention I didn't return calls / texts fast enough.

It's a huge red flag if someone can't wait a few hours to get back to them ( especially during business hours ).

Amen. I lost my whale because he was the same way. Mad I wasn’t at his beck and call OTC.no man is worth my peace. He got mad because I didn’t text him after work to make sure he got home okay. He wasn’t drinking or anything. He was power tripping. Then he punished me by ignoring me next time he came in. So I quit dancing for him. I don’t care if you’re a millionaire. You abuse me emotionally, psychologically, physically-you lose me. No amount of money is worth putting up with abuse.

miss.a.p1600
12-05-2022, 07:32 PM
I unknowingly at the time , dated a dude who turned out to be a narcissist

This mf would have an adult tantrum if I didn’t respond to his test and calls “fast enough” and then tried to gaslight me by saying “when you’re in your next relationship, you’ll understand how want the respect of their woman responding promptly”

I was like “bruh I am WORKING and unless you’re taking me off my job permanently and responding promptly to my bills then I can’t be bothered with these ridiculous requirements”

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2022, 06:05 AM
After I came back with a few cheap items I ordered for myself this fool was like “aren’t you glad you have a job with consistent money?”

In the back of my mind I wanted to say “I’ll be even more glad when I can replace you with a man who can PROVIDE better and more consistently than you” and “a I’ll be glad when I can secure a sugar daddy that can help you so I won’t need a job”

Dreamqueen
12-06-2022, 09:40 AM
I might have asked this before, but...
Does anyone work a vanilla job where the male customers are always pushing boundaries and asking you out?

I've never done anything other than sex work, so I don't have anything to compare it with.
In ALL aspects of my work, men are pushing to meet, even though they know it's against the rules, and I'm reminding them on the daily.

Just last night, I had a new phone sex customer.
He wanted to tell me about a night club in Mexico that he and his girlfriend went to.
For a $25 cover charge, they watched a woman fuck a donkey (which he described in detail)
Barf.
He said that a waitress will ask if he wants a bj or to get fucked, and charges a la carte for each sex act.

Now, I get paid by the minute, so my job is to keep him talking.

I needed to watch the jewelry channel just to get through the call (as I do with many of them).

Toward the end of the call he offered to pick me up and bring me there.
Oh, for fucks sake!
I remind him that it's against the rules!!

This is a taboo line, so anything goes.
An hour later.
Okay.

I have another guy who's been calling for over 7 years, and spouts out his phone number and address, even though I told him not to.
I tell him that I could lose my job, and does he want that?
He says no, but tells me that he needs a real life dominatrix.
Grrr

I'm wondering if I worked at a law firm, or MacDonald's if this would still happen.

LoveyD
12-06-2022, 10:13 AM
^^ I'm so sorry you had to listen to All of that. How disturbing. As a grocery delivery gal, I've been hit on a few times. Customers will watch me deliver their groceries and then they'll hit on me, tell me I'm a pretty girl and do I have a boyfriend? That's what I discontinue the chat and get the f out.

Staci
12-06-2022, 01:48 PM
After I came back with a few cheap items I ordered for myself this fool was like “aren’t you glad you have a job with consistent money?”

In the back of my mind I wanted to say “I’ll be even more glad when I can replace you with a man who can PROVIDE better and more consistently than you” and “a I’ll be glad when I can secure a sugar daddy that can help you so I won’t need a job”
I read this headline and immediately thought of you! LOL

Texas Woman Accused Of Repeatedly Stabbing Boyfriend On Thanksgiving After Accusing Him Of 'Not Helping Her With The Bills'

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2022, 06:37 PM
^:rotfl::rotfl:

I feel her though…..

These mfs stay expecting sex on demand, homemaking, arm candy but half ass provide

Todays generation of men are weak af

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2022, 06:39 PM
I might have asked this before, but...
Does anyone work a vanilla job where the male customers are always pushing boundaries and asking you out?

I've never done anything other than sex work, so I don't have anything to compare it with.
In ALL aspects of my work, men are pushing to meet, even though they know it's against the rules, and I'm reminding them on the daily.

Just last night, I had a new phone sex customer.
He wanted to tell me about a night club in Mexico that he and his girlfriend went to.
For a $25 cover charge, they watched a woman fuck a donkey (which he described in detail)
Barf.
He said that a waitress will ask if he wants a bj or to get fucked, and charges a la carte for each sex act.

Now, I get paid by the minute, so my job is to keep him talking.

I needed to watch the jewelry channel just to get through the call (as I do with many of them).

Toward the end of the call he offered to pick me up and bring me there.
Oh, for fucks sake!
I remind him that it's against the rules!!

This is a taboo line, so anything goes.
An hour later.
Okay.

I have another guy who's been calling for over 7 years, and spouts out his phone number and address, even though I told him not to.
I tell him that I could lose my job, and does he want that?
He says no, but tells me that he needs a real life dominatrix.
Grrr

I'm wondering if I worked at a law firm, or MacDonald's if this would still happen.

In my current line of work EVERYTHING is recorded so I’ve only had one or two dude slick mention they were flirting or would buy me dinner if they could. I flat out ignored.


if those fools know they’re being recorded and the tape can be played for HR, Police, their wife, or any male authority figure then they immediately and suddenly act like they have home training and common sense

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2022, 06:51 PM
I think having some of your own money set aside and protected / well hidden is essential.
It just seems like there are too many stories out there of " this woman struggled to get away from guy xyz " .
IF something came up as a couple as you needed these funds and wanted to access them you could say family loaned / gifted you the money v.s. that you had it hidden.

Sadly women in todays times HAVE to hide money

Because most of these men aren’t properly raised and stingy af and love to be tight walleted as a means of control

LoveyD
12-07-2022, 05:15 AM
^^ I know that when I was with my son's father, I started dancing just so I could stockpile funds and leave. This was back in 2005 when I was still a baby stripper and making a ton of money. Thank God for dancing. It saved me. He never gave me one red cent. Can you imagine? The father of your child never providing any money at all to you. Deplorable. Even to this day if I ask him for help paying for one of our son's bills, he refuses. So glad I didn't stay with that mother f*****.

miss.a.p1600
12-07-2022, 06:19 AM
^

Most of today’s generation of men are notoriously selfish, entitled, lazy/don’t want to work, and can barely provide without relying on help from women or other men (aka government, secret sugar daddies, etc) to help them out.

Dreamqueen
12-07-2022, 08:49 AM
In my current line of work EVERYTHING is recorded so I’ve only had one or two dude slick mention they were flirting or would buy me dinner if they could. I flat out ignored.


if those fools know they’re being recorded and the tape can be played for HR, Police, their wife, or any male authority figure then they immediately and suddenly act like they have home training and common sense

The thing is that everything is recorded on these sex lines, and on cam too.
These guys just don't care.
I hate every last one of them for doing this.

I have YouTube subscribers that want to chat. When I give them all of the options on how to pay, they ALWAYS ask for one that's not on the list.

miss.a.p1600
12-07-2022, 10:31 AM
If y’all don’t listen to anything I post ….please listen to this!!!!

DO NOT LIVE WITH MEN

I repeat …. do NOT live with a man!! (Maybe an exception for kind generous trustworthy ones only but it’s a small percentage of those types in my opinion)

To me it seems like the average men are the most entitled creatures on the planet and living with them 90% of the time helps them. If the dude has kids, has an average to low paying job (or no job), and has not outlined how living with him will benefit you ….. do not do it.

Once they think they have you “locked in” they start acting nosey, controlling, and petty af.

Always keep your own money and own real estate

MintChocolate
12-07-2022, 12:03 PM
^^^ sis u preachin up in here!

LoveyD
12-07-2022, 12:13 PM
I'm happier and much more at peace alone in my car that I ever was with a man.

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2022, 06:55 AM
The dude tried to hassle me last night cause I wouldn’t “cuddle” with him and accept his horrible “back massage”

Um I know you’re trying to get sex. I’m tired af after working overtime while your working your cushy 8 hours/not helping around the house/barely providing so I’m not interested in “cuddling”

I would be interested in cuddling only not mens typical n thinly veiled attempts at self centered pleasuring themselves aka “let me fake cuddle so I can fuck”

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2022, 07:55 AM
Told him I was traveling again next month. Most likely solo.

So I’ll get another weekend free from his annoying behavior and his non stop weekly obligations

Dreamqueen
12-08-2022, 08:31 AM
57836

57837

A day in the life of a cam girl.
Le sigh. ::)

LoveyD
12-08-2022, 09:15 AM
^^^ why do men confuse strip clubs and chat rooms with dating services? You're not on Tinder. You're not on eharmony. You're on an adult chat site. How annoying!

WendiStarr
12-08-2022, 11:50 AM
BD got served with the court documents today and I'm feeling on edge now. I know he's probably not going to find me but still. I get that "what if" feeling and I can't relax. I told "guy" about it. I know he's at work right now so I don't expect him to respond right away.

LoveyD
12-08-2022, 12:02 PM
Narcissistic men hate single mothers. They hate that we have the strength to walk away so that we can parent our children in peace and provide safe stable environments for them. They resent us for removing our children away from them because now they can't abuse the child as a way of retaliating against us. They hate that we protect our children from them. They will Gaslight you and say things like "all kids need their father in their lives." Which a lot of us know isn't true, especially if our fathers were abusive. They know that we are strong and they hate us for it. It just shines a spotlight onto their own weaknesses. And they can't stand that.

LoveyD
12-08-2022, 12:15 PM
BD got served with the court documents today and I'm feeling on edge now. I know he's probably not going to find me but still. I get that "what if" feeling and I can't relax. I told "guy" about it. I know he's at work right now so I don't expect him to respond right away.

Good, I'm glad he got served, though it's understandable why you may feel a bit on edge. It's ridiculous you should even have to feel this way because stupid baby daddy can't find it within himself to be a normal human being. Why do men have to be so freaking dramatic?

TheBrownFox
12-08-2022, 12:24 PM
I informed someone that his Craigslist ad (about his room for rent) is posted in the wrong section. It's posted in one of the Maryland cities when his room for rent is supposedly in West Boca, Florida. He e-mailed me back "Thanks for your response. May I have your number so that we can text or call each other?" SMH. Now you'd THINK if he'd made a genuine mistake with that ad, he'd respond with something like "Oh, shit. I thought I had posted in the Florida section. My bad." Nope!

So he's either one of those online scammers (I get them all the time on Facebook Marketplace, and they ask for your phone number), or just another dude trying to hit on women...who noticed the word "fox" in my e-mail address.

I responded "No, that's not necessary. I was checking for a friend of mine who needs a place to stay. Have a good day."

miss.a.p1600
12-09-2022, 06:40 AM
The dude came to the house last night gone say some damn “what’s for dinner?”

Um did you buy groceries? Cause I aint cooking shit for you esp if I have to travel to the store/buy the groceries/clean up in addition

Nah bruh!

Dude got me all the way fucked up.

Dreamqueen
12-09-2022, 08:52 AM
^^^ why do men confuse strip clubs and chat rooms with dating services? You're not on Tinder. You're not on eharmony. You're on an adult chat site. How annoying!


Ikr?
And this particular cam site makes them read through an agreement that says to never do that.
The most infuriating thing is that I am the one at risk for losing my account because of what THEY type, even though I block them.

LoveyD
12-09-2022, 10:28 AM
^^^ it just goes to show how entitled and narcissistic men are thinking that they can just ignore boundaries and do whatever the hell they want. And that's infuriating that they penalize you for their actions! It's like getting ticketed in a club because your customer touched you and not the other way around. Such bs.

WendiStarr
12-09-2022, 01:43 PM
Some dudes are rude as hell. I had to take my youngest to her 9 month checkup. Since car is in shop, I had to take Uber. It wasn't fun getting my 2 youngest ready and down the stairs. The driver dude was like,"Wow, someone's been busy. You've just been popping 'em out, huh and so young?" He made a comment on how close in age they are. He said he was smart and waited 11 years between kids. Ok, good for you, dude. Not all of us were able to plan out the timing of our kids' births.

whirlerz
12-09-2022, 02:37 PM
What. A.PIG! ^

miss.a.p1600
12-09-2022, 05:01 PM
The dude came to the house last night gone say some damn “what’s for dinner?”

Um did you buy groceries? Cause I aint cooking shit for you esp if I have to travel to the store/buy the groceries/clean up in addition

Nah bruh!

Dude got me all the way fucked up.

OMG

He is asking again.

Look what part of “my culinary arts/sex maid skills ain’t free” are you not grasping dude.

#fuckpatriarchy
#maleprivilegesucks
#24/7heaux

Dreamqueen
12-10-2022, 09:01 AM
I had to walk over to the laundromat to get quarters.
As I'm nearing the corner to cross the street, I see him.
Older, entitled male just standing there, blocking the way. He's staring at me in a stance that says, "I dare you to get by me without saying hi."
Not today Satan. Not today.

I give him the death stare and he moves out of the way.

I get to the laundromat, and right away the men in there stop what they're doing and just stare.

Silly boys.
I ignore them and walk straight back to where the change machine is.


I can feel their eyes on me.
Yuck.

For a brief moment I wanted to leave out the back door.
Nope. Must practice ignoring them, and practice my resting bitch face.

On the way home, I noticed a woman walking her dog, who was approaching me as I was crossing the street.
She was polite and just stopped in her tracks to allow me to cross in front of her.

Now, was that so hard?
Why must men be so in your face at all times?

LoveyD
12-10-2022, 01:50 PM
It's amazing and disgusting how much narcissistic men judge criticize and shame single mothers for the decisions and choices to break the cycle of abuse in their family. It's pretty obvious that they are butt hurt that my son is not going to be an abuser like they are. One less person on their team LOL

Aurora_Sunset
12-10-2022, 06:29 PM
2 men at work today stopped to ask me "why I never smile" and tell me I'm a "whole different person when I smile."

Bro, not only should you just NOT do this to women in general in 2022, but what really pisses me off about this is the fact that I smile all the time at work. I am always friendly and helpful when approached or approaching people. I smile, say hi - by name - and wave to god knows how many people throughout the day as I'm walking around. If I'm not smiling, it's because I'm not talking to anyone and I'm probably in the middle of doing something.

Funny how these chucklefucks weren't grinning like a psychopath for no reason when they decided to bug me. So, why is it only women who are required to "smile" all the time for no fucking reason?

miss.a.p1600
12-11-2022, 08:52 AM
Dude getting pissed and started a 3 hour long argument after he tried to ask me to put a trash bag in the trash can.

Bitch I’m not going fucking 50/50 on YOUR household task that is built for men. If your ass is too lazy or too feminine to do the full task TO COMPLETION then let me know and I’ll hire a really fine n sexy Manny to show you how to be a manny.

carmen_b
12-11-2022, 08:57 AM
^ As much as I missed my partner ( especially 30-45 days post break I'd say ) I do admit there is a very bright side in not having to deal with the time expectations ect.

TheBrownFox
12-11-2022, 11:14 AM
It's nice how my ex gets away with still owing me $35,000+ in back child support, and the last time I've gotten anything from him was in 2016. That money would've really come in handy for my son who's in college, and owes money. Once again, mothers are expected to do every damn thing themselves.

carmen_b
12-11-2022, 12:19 PM
^ how is he getting away with it ?
Working under the table ?

Keep spying on him. The second you find where he is employed garnish his wages.

TheBrownFox
12-11-2022, 12:30 PM
^ how is he getting away with it ?
Working under the table ?

Keep spying on him. The second you find where he is employed garnish his wages.


Yes, he's been getting away with it for years. And I've done/still do all of those things. And have to keep taking hour-long bus rides to the child support office just to ask these people for the latest updates on my case. Any rumors I hear from Baby's Mama #2 (who I don't exactly trust either tbh) about where he's supposedly working...I give the information to the child support office. I'm in Maryland (The court order was originally in New York). After I went into the child support office on Friday to ask for an update on wtf is going on now...they said they finally heard back from New York in November, and New York is doing a "re-direction" of my case.