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06-15-2021, 02:00 PM
Do YOU feel guilty or ashamed? Guilt means we are not in alignment with our moral code, shame is something given to us that is not ours. Shame is unhealthy. Shame is a tool to control and police women’s bodies. You need a therapist. It took me a lot of therapy and support groups to be able to look people in the eyes and tell them to fuck off! No one has the right to shame you! If you feel guilty then you make amends to not do it again. Anyone who throws your past in your face isn’t a true friend.
All I can say is I’m sorry. I know what it’s like to have fear that some nosy rosy will be all my business and gossip with people in the community.
I’ve learned to make peace with it. All we can do is live life on life’s terms. I know that’s not the solution you want, but my advice is to make peace with it. If you’re being shamed by your community, I would leave. I quit talking to my family. I’ve lied to my mom. I only tell people who need to know.
lie and say you were forced to do it. Say you were trafficked. Say whatever you need to say to get them to shut the fuck up and leave you alone.
Sex work is work. I hate that people are so shitty to sex workers.
All I can say is I’m sorry. I know what it’s like to have fear that some nosy rosy will be all my business and gossip with people in the community.
I’ve learned to make peace with it. All we can do is live life on life’s terms. I know that’s not the solution you want, but my advice is to make peace with it. If you’re being shamed by your community, I would leave. I quit talking to my family. I’ve lied to my mom. I only tell people who need to know.
lie and say you were forced to do it. Say you were trafficked. Say whatever you need to say to get them to shut the fuck up and leave you alone.
Sex work is work. I hate that people are so shitty to sex workers.