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indiegirl
04-23-2022, 01:40 PM
I could've literally thrown up when I got home. Loud music was playing, a child under the age of 5 was at my home (he is currently still at my home and I quickly moved my pit bull to my room), and they were having lunch/dinner. WHAT THE FUCK. I told my mom and she said we are starting a contract for liability purposes. I no longer will be that "chill person" ......I've seen that dog at his worst and he is the reason I purchased the house. Completely shocked she brought a child under 5 up in here.

carmen_b
04-23-2022, 01:46 PM
^ Wtf . Is this the roomie with the guy there all the time ?
What is with her ? Doesn't she work full time ?

I would get her movin ' on . She just seems like such a pain the ass and there are people who work long hours OUT of the house who would probably compete for the room in this market .

indiegirl
04-23-2022, 02:22 PM
^ Wtf . Is this the roomie with the guy there all the time ?
What is with her ? Doesn't she work full time ?

I would get her movin ' on . She just seems like such a pain the ass and there are people who work long hours OUT of the house who would probably compete for the room in this market .

Yep that is her. My mom wants her gone. We need a contract first and then a reason to make her leave.

carmen_b
04-23-2022, 02:25 PM
Are you worried she will get into renters rights or something considering she has been there more than 30 days ?
If you get that vibe I guess paperwork is good ........

I wonder if she would just move on with some verbal notice that it isn't working out though ?
It's a tough call.

100% though there are people who work at least 40 hours a week outside the home and would keep overnight guests to 1-2 nights a week creating less impact. I would be PISSED.
I have asked people renting rooms from me to move on for the same reasons before.

indiegirl
04-23-2022, 03:52 PM
Are you worried she will get into renters rights or something considering she has been there more than 30 days ?
If you get that vibe I guess paperwork is good ........

I wonder if she would just move on with some verbal notice that it isn't working out though ?
It's a tough call.

100% though there are people who work at least 40 hours a week outside the home and would keep overnight guests to 1-2 nights a week creating less impact. I would be PISSED.
I have asked people renting rooms from me to move on for the same reasons before.

I am scared because she signed nothing. I freaked out watching a netflix video and someone had a squatter. I never knew that was a "thing"... So I was told this was the safest route. LIKE she legit has NO paperwork. I was just desperate and had her live here before the pandemic years ago.

carmen_b
04-23-2022, 06:20 PM
^ Check your laws in your area but she actually may have more rights if she DID sign something.
You have a verbal agreement so she has nothing proving she can be there if you set her things out and change the locks.
^ I'm not saying you should do those extremes obviously !

You can also do a document that if she doesn't reduce the guys time there that he needs to pay also.
Once she see's it she may be " inspired " to just leave.

Be cautious about belongings obviously ( may be a good time to move some important jewelry and docs to a safe deposit box if you don't have good locks on your bedroom door ).

I'm not trying to scare you .
Getting her to move on will *most* likely be easy .
It's just that caution for what if it is that 1% chance of drama ?

If you know where she works it adds a safety net for you.

indiegirl
04-23-2022, 06:55 PM
Are you worried she will get into renters rights or something considering she has been there more than 30 days ?
If you get that vibe I guess paperwork is good ........

I wonder if she would just move on with some verbal notice that it isn't working out though ?
It's a tough call.

100% though there are people who work at least 40 hours a week outside the home and would keep overnight guests to 1-2 nights a week creating less impact. I would be PISSED.
I have asked people renting rooms from me to move on for the same reasons before.

We want to do it with paperwork to be smart. After my mom dealing with my dad for 8 years in divorce court she wants to do it methodically and help me.

indiegirl
05-15-2022, 10:55 PM
I am now locking the door when she decides to not do the decent thing and lock the main house door. Your ex husband was right leaving you. I've seen your behavior. You are out of here soon. Hope you enjoyed it. Put your drama elsewhere. I don't need it. What a level of disrespect of safety. LOCK THE FUCKING FRONT DOOR. Are you stupid? It is women like this.......I am done. I have nothing against women but this is BS. TURN THE FUCKING LOCK in MY house. She will be gone next week.

Dreamqueen
06-16-2022, 01:24 AM
So.. The one guy upstairs (not the former crush) tells me he saw a roach in the bathroom (I have my own bathroom ). Great. Tho I'm not surprised, the couple on my floor ARE PIGS!
This here is just a sampling.. 57354
There's food in some of the containers, pots, etc. It continually stays that way, she does clean, but then it's right back to square one fast..The former crush could install a dishwasher, but LL would have to buy one, + pay him for installation. ::)

So, I went to Home depot, spent almost $30.00::) on roach stuff. No, I won't get reimbursed, nor will landlord GAF. :( I started putting it around, I had to be sneaky cause they were home, the guy almost caught me..they are in denial, & would throw the stuff away or fuck it up some way.

They've a shit load of stuff in several cabinets, which I'll have to get up on a ladder & apply it, one cabinet is 6ft tall :(
I've got roach tablets (boric acid) gel (which works the best) & spray.
I'll have to re-up & finish tomorrow.

Besides all that, I clean the stove daily, take the bits of food :yuck: out of the sink , cause then the sink clogs & I have to plunge it, which I usually have to do that daily too >:(, besides wiping counter, microwave, kitchen table.

Not to mention sweeping /mopping the floor. They never take up the dumpsters, emptying their garbage isn't a priority either. A lot of times, it stinks.

I got ant traps too.
Really fucking disgusting.

Rant over, this's how I live. I'm going to keep track of everything, not that it'll matter..

That's so disgusting!
Ewww! No wonder there are roaches.

By the way, I replied to your post over in the cooking thread.
I posted a photo of the indoor grill that you can use in your room.
If I were you I'd set up my kitchen in the bedroom, and never go in that kitchen.

Cutie101
06-17-2022, 03:15 PM
Omg @whirlez I hope you can fucking move eventually and find better roomates, or move on your own in a studio, I'd get nutz to have such roomates. Damnit. I'm sorry girl!!! I can't comprehend how some people can live like this... I just can't.

whirlerz
06-20-2022, 05:39 AM
So, I got up early, set up to cam..
I had a small bag of garbage to throw out, wanted to make some oatmeal..So I mirco'd oatmeal, (filthy inside of machine, as usual ::)) kitchen stinks (I Ozium sprayed) took out the small garbage in the other bathroom..

I took the stuff up to the curb, (garbage day today), came back, I'd left the front door open (to help, for a second, w/the smell) aaandd..I
Come back to find the fucking door shut & LOCKED which it never is locked..I have my own entrance but that's locked, didn't bring my keys.. I should have a front door key, but I don't, going to ask guy upstairs for his to copy..

Keep in mind, this's 4am?
So I start knocking, of course no one answer, I have my busted 2nd phone, emergency calls only.. >:(

The nice guy upstairs, opened the door, THANK God!!! Idk if he heard me or just came down to to use the can..

I almost called the cops? TF
HAD to be the guy w/gf that cooks constantly & hates me..
Fine, from now on I'll lock the m/f. They don't always have front door key so..

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2022, 09:01 PM
So, I got up early, set up to cam..
I had a small bag of garbage to throw out, wanted to make some oatmeal..So I mirco'd oatmeal, (filthy inside of machine, as usual ::)) kitchen stinks (I Ozium sprayed) took out the small garbage in the other bathroom..

I took the stuff up to the curb, (garbage day today), came back, I'd left the front door open (to help, for a second, w/the smell) aaandd..I
Come back to find the fucking door shut & LOCKED which it never is locked..I have my own entrance but that's locked, didn't bring my keys.. I should have a front door key, but I don't, going to ask guy upstairs for his to copy..

Keep in mind, this's 4am?
So I start knocking, of course no one answer, I have my busted 2nd phone, emergency calls only.. >:(

The nice guy upstairs, opened the door, THANK God!!! Idk if he heard me or just came down to to use the can..

I almost called the cops? TF
HAD to be the guy w/gf that cooks constantly & hates me..
Fine, from now on I'll lock the m/f. They don't always have front door key so..

I would've ended up going off on someone ugh!
That shit would not fly with me.

xxxGothBarbie
06-21-2022, 09:08 PM
I hate staying here any longer than I've needed to since "smother" has returned.
I overheard her talking to my bf the other day & she finds it funny that everyone walks on eggshells around here when she's present.
I'm tired of it, I'm approaching my 40s and feel that I deserve much more in life as far as living situations go. It's tough right now bc I only have a small amount saved to live on, not enough to move (deposit plus rent) I could do rent alone if it's just a cheap room somewhere in a house/apt with nice roomies.
I hate this lady, I've tried to be nice & it goes nowhere. I loather her presence ugh.
I hate how she cooks up garbage and expects people to eat it yuck!
I'm gonna keep looking for other lodging bc I just can't do this anymore. I wake up here depressed & even after coffee I make excuses to leave the apt for fresh air AWAY from this place.
Why do airbnb/hotels have to be so insane right now??? :(

whirlerz
06-23-2022, 05:09 AM
I would've ended up going off on someone ugh!
That shit would not fly with me.

Yea, that's what they want, me upset & reacting to^
their shit. Nope.
I can't prove it was him, but I know it was.
Seriously, how bad do you have to hate on someone, cause I yelled @ ur girl for running a loud blender @ 5am?