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moneybags
03-29-2022, 01:39 PM
A lot of people say they don't care until you actually tell them. I know men that have no problems going to strip clubs but totally not okay with their women stripping.

I don't think there's a right or wrong way, you just do what you think it's best.

Oh no. I don’t tell vanilla people what I do, but I will play mind games with him like he did to me. Unless he actually shows up to the club, I’m not admitting anything. I’m definitely gonna tease the shit out of him and make him curious if I actually dance. If he wants to see anything he can PAY ME like every other guy. No freebies!

Marina Starr
03-29-2022, 01:44 PM
Oh okay. I don't tell either because it's no one's business.
I strongly believe there's a big difference between honesty and disclosure. We don't have to disclose everything or owe anyone shit.

I'm with you, I love making men blush and I'm good at it;D

Oh no. I don’t tell vanilla people what I do, but I will play mind games with him like he did to me. Unless he actually shows up to the club, I’m not admitting anything. I’m definitely gonna tease the shit out of him and make him curious.

miss.a.p1600
03-30-2022, 08:10 AM
Oh no. I don’t tell vanilla people what I do, but I will play mind games with him like he did to me. Unless he actually shows up to the club, I’m not admitting anything. I’m definitely gonna tease the shit out of him and make him curious if I actually dance. If he wants to see anything he can PAY ME like every other guy. No freebies!

This is me.

I hoe in AND out of relationships.

These men WILL pay up.

Although I find it easier to have multiple men than one man. The monogamy shit is draining because they try to call the shots but not willing to pay the cost for that.

People say they want the truth but never can handle it.

Marina Starr
03-30-2022, 08:29 AM
That's the only way. Monetize that pussy in and out of relationship, marriage and everything!

This is me.

I hoe in AND out of relationships.

These men WILL pay up.

Although I find it easier to have multiple men than one man. The monogamy shit is draining because they try to call the shots but not willing to pay the cost for that.

People say they want the truth but never can handle it.

Marina Starr
03-30-2022, 11:48 AM
People don't ask such questions unless they already knew something. He probably doesn't know exactly what you do but he must have some ideas.
He wouldn't randomly fishing for info if he didn't already knew.

I don't know about you but I could tell instantly if someone knew.



No, I don't think so.. Tho he's hinted around about stuff, (joking?) "do you do porn"?, mentions escorting, that's probably just him fishing for info or a reaction.. Currently avoiding his entitled ass.. He does not deserve to see my pic.

The one meth guy who left cammed, he told everyone he did.

moneybags
03-30-2022, 12:57 PM
No, I don't think so.. Tho he's hinted around about stuff, (joking?) "do you do porn"?, mentions escorting, that's probably just him fishing for info or a reaction..
Currently avoiding his entitled ass.. He does not deserve to see my pic.

The one meth guy who left cammed, he told everyone he did.

That’s a weird thing to hint at? Probably a subconscious thing. I think men can subconsciously feel we’re different from “other women.” Just our vibe is so different.

Marina Starr
03-30-2022, 01:18 PM
Absolutely! I believe it's the air and confidence we emit no matter how we look or dress but men just find it so alluring how we carry ourselves. They just can't put their finger on it. Obviously we make their dick twitch, lmao.

The French call it 'je ne sais pas'

meaning 'don't know what is' about something one is drawn to.


That’s a weird thing to hint at? Probably a subconscious thing. I think men can subconsciously feel we’re different from “other women.” Just our vibe is so different.

miss.a.p1600
03-30-2022, 04:33 PM
Absolutely! I believe it's the air and confidence we emit no matter how we look or dress but men just find it so alluring how we carry ourselves. They just can't put their finger on it. Obviously we make their dick twitch, lmao.

The French call it 'je ne sais pas'

meaning 'don't know what is' about something one is drawn to.


that's the only way. monetize that pussy in and out of relationship, marriage and everything!


yassss!!!!

Marina Starr
03-30-2022, 04:39 PM
What's more effective in making your crush question his self worth? Completely avoid him or acting nonchalantly like the doesn't exist when y'all in the same public settings?

moneybags
03-30-2022, 05:11 PM
Absolutely! I believe it's the air and confidence we emit no matter how we look or dress but men just find it so alluring how we carry ourselves. They just can't put their finger on it. Obviously we make their dick twitch, lmao.

The French call it 'je ne sais pas'

meaning 'don't know what is' about something one is drawn to.

lol.
I’m doing my awakened women course tomorrow…so excited! Anyways, how it relates is she says an awakened woman will turn every man’s head. I’m gonna get kinda woo woo and say it’s because our sexual chakra isn’t blocked -my teacher calls it her “ yoni. “ I think we’re all awakened on some level or we couldn’t do the work we do. Some part of us knows that there’s nothing wrong with sex work. The rich and powerful want people to suppress their sexual energy because it’s SO POWERFUL. Just like fear is used to control the masses, so can jacking with people’s sexual energy. When you block your sexual energy you block your creative potential.

moneybags
04-01-2022, 06:18 PM
Lol, I caved & sent him the pic, however had to crop it quite a bit.

what happened? Don’t leave out any details!

I decided treat my crush just like the club customers. If you ain’t spending money on me, then I don’t have time or energy for you-in or out of the club. To quote Miss. P.A “I hoe inside and outside of relationships.” I need to treat all men like club customers unless they prove they really care about me. I hate to be that jaded and cynical, but talk is cheap. I’m guessing my crush just wants to sleep with me behind his girlfriends back. I highly doubt I mean anything to him. I think that’s the SMARTEST way to deal with him or any other guy from now on. Unless they PROVE they love me, I need to assume they just want sex from now on and make sure I’m not taken advantage of. I don’t need to waste anymore of my precious time on earth on people who don’t add value to my life.

Marina Starr
04-01-2022, 07:13 PM
There's nothing jaded or cynical with asking for cash. You are worthy of reciprocated energy and effort.

If a man just wanted sex, I'll treat him like a client. Discreet and hassle free. No cash, no ass!
No subsequent installment payments, no honor system. Paid in full required.


what happened? Don’t leave out any details!

I decided treat my crush just like the club customers. If you ain’t spending money on me, then I don’t have time or energy for you-in or out of the club. To quote Miss. P.A “I hoe inside and outside of relationships.” I need to treat all men like club customers unless they prove they really care about me. I hate to be that jaded and cynical, but talk is cheap. I’m guessing my crush just wants to sleep with me behind his girlfriends back. I highly doubt I mean anything to him. I think that’s the SMARTEST way to deal with him or any other guy from now on. Unless they PROVE they love me, I need to assume they just want sex from now on and make sure I’m not taken advantage of. I don’t need to waste anymore of my precious time on earth on people who don’t add value to my life.

moneybags
04-01-2022, 07:49 PM
^^^i just know he’ll come at me with the hearty eyes once I quit crushing on him. I’m gonna have to be strong and do what’s best for me no matter how I feel.

Men are dummies when it comes to sex, and women are dummies when it comes to “being in love.”

I need to be more logical when it comes to romance from now on. I hate to be so cold hearted and calculating, but YOU have to or you’ll get screwed over.

carmen_b
04-03-2022, 03:24 PM
I'm also into BIG into energy work and have actually felt the energy of my pussy drawing money out of guys.
I think it can be powerful just to have this ability to recognize " ok I'm giving energy out today in exchange for money here " . You can tell yourself that the exchanges must be balanced to be sustainable. It might not be worth it dealing with " Mr Difficult " .... wait for a better prospect if you can afford to since you'll be " exchanging " during your entire shift duration not just that single hour.

OR alternatively when you are recharging yourself doing self talk such as " this is just for me today and it's a recharge day ".

This may sound crass but the " yoni " like you mentioned carries a lot of energy . In the club for example .... even at topless clubs do you notice how when you feature IT / HER onstage for example the money flies faster? I think I spend half my stage show with my legs open lol.


lol.
I’m doing my awakened women course tomorrow…so excited! Anyways, how it relates is she says an awakened woman will turn every man’s head. I’m gonna get kinda woo woo and say it’s because our sexual chakra isn’t blocked -my teacher calls it her “ yoni. “ I think we’re all awakened on some level or we couldn’t do the work we do. Some part of us knows that there’s nothing wrong with sex work. The rich and powerful want people to suppress their sexual energy because it’s SO POWERFUL. Just like fear is used to control the masses, so can jacking with people’s sexual energy. When you block your sexual energy you block your creative potential.

Marina Starr
04-03-2022, 06:37 PM
There's a new cute and chubby Barista, he's Irish with ginger hair. Got me wonder if the carpet matches the drapes.

I asked him if he prefer a girl with a pretty face/average body or sexy body/average face. He told me he's lucky his girlfriend got both. My question wasn't about his girlfriend but I'm glad he volunteered.
He said face because that's what he sees most.

I will accept that. I will ask all Baristas this question. Both is not acceptable. Choose ONE and explain WHY.

carmen_b
04-03-2022, 09:39 PM
Ah , I love that he was loyal to his gf there ! Cute ! ^

carmen_b
04-04-2022, 09:53 AM
^ I wish your crushie would step up and get a nice apartment or something haha ! :)
Then date you !! Bummer he's a " stall ". I'd probably regularly make out with some other dude where he can see it all go down.

carmen_b
04-04-2022, 10:10 AM
^ Naw , shop outside the house for a dude haha. :)
I would say crushie missed his chance. It would turn me OFF that he didn't a solid move but I do know every situation is different.
I am not really a " slow burn " type. Like ..... you have a week ..... be a man or fuck off.

carmen_b
04-04-2022, 10:17 AM
Yeah ..... but his whole attitude .... not making a move ... not taking you on a formal date.
No.......
:/

Marina Starr
04-04-2022, 11:34 AM
It feels so good to get the upper hand over your crush by totally ignore him without looking upset or bother. I find this most effective. If he sees you all upset, that feeds his ego.

When you're just easy, breezy without feeding him any attention it makes him trying real hard to get your attention.

moneybags
04-04-2022, 03:10 PM
So far boundaries with crush are good. I still enjoy bullshitting with him. I like the attention, but it never crosses any lines. I wish him the best with his girlfriend. I’m happily single. I probably wouldn’t like him if I actually dated him. I love me freedom, and I can’t deal with a man trying to control me. Even if it’s not in an abusive way. I like to live life on my terms and I don’t want a committed relationship-maybe never.

Still the chemistry is off the charts! He sexually frustrates me, but I assume he feels the same way. He probably wants to bang me in the exam room…LOL. Not happening, but a girl can dream.

I really don’t want to deal with a man. They get on my nerves. It’s like having a child to look after. They need so much attention and discipline! Who has the time or energy for that kind of bullshit. I think I’m getting the better end of the deal by being able to “professionally flirt” with him and let his girlfriend deal with him.

Marina Starr
04-05-2022, 06:15 PM
You are more than crushing on him, you truly care about him. I hope he knows and appreciate you!

I feel sad when I see so many women efforts are not being reciprocated.


He's outside working on his car, I left him a sandwich :)

whirlerz
04-06-2022, 06:54 AM
******.

Marina Starr
04-06-2022, 07:33 AM
I'm glad to hear that he has a good heart. Whatever you're doing for him, just know that in the future someone could do the same for you with no attachment.
I just hate to see you get hurt if this doesn't lead to any romance between you and him.


Thank you ^

I do care about him, despite everything, he has such a kind heart.

He gave the goofball couple his truck, he didn't want to pay the renewal fee. But still a nice gesture.
Which they haven't, & probably won't, so he'll be stuck w/that. They took & used it for months.

Anyway, we'll see.

carmen_b
04-06-2022, 08:48 AM
^ Being tight on cash can really trigger depression. It has happened to me before ( a factor of it anyway ).
I hope he gets some relief from that . Making a new friend is also a win even if nothing romantic happens.

Marina Starr
04-06-2022, 10:22 AM
Does he know you sell virtual pussy?


So, he texted me, he's working up north by the lake.. He took an Uber, 60. I didn't answer cause not only mad far, Chicago #3 in car jacking..

+ I'm camming..

Marina Starr
04-06-2022, 04:12 PM
No, he doesn't.
I don't tell anyone, a former roomie told everyone he cams.

That made me laughed so hard. He was opened about selling dick.

https://i.ibb.co/m6twwVq/200.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

moneybags
04-06-2022, 04:49 PM
That made me laughed so hard. He was opened about selling dick.

https://i.ibb.co/m6twwVq/200.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

That’s interesting Whirlez you were both cam models at one time. There must be something subsconsciously that’s attractive. (I would love to find a legit male model to cam with, but must are men that just want to use me when they talk about camming together.)

I do wonder what it is about my crush that’s our attraction point. I think he’s a closeted kinky person. He seems like a sub. I’d love to turn him into a freak. His mom would hate me if he broke up with a nice Midwest girl to date a girl like me-maybe that’s why he likes me so much is cause dating a girl like me would piss his family off.

My crush really doesn’t deserve the privilege of knowing me, so I need to fall back and reassess my boundaries so I don’t get heartbroken again.

moneybags
04-11-2022, 11:10 PM
I still have a crush, but it’s a lot healthier. I’m sure if I let him he would would sleep with me, but I’m not taking someone else man-it’s bad karma. Also, I kinda wonder if he’s a fake nice guy. All that glitters isn’t gold. I enjoy flirting with him, but don’t plan on it going any further than that. I won’t get my hopes up with him. I just basically treat him like a friend + boundaries to keep him in the friend zone. Yep. Nice try Satan. Seduction isn’t going to work on me. Im gonna focus on getting my money right, so I don’t have to marry a doctor. I’d rather be a nurse practitioner myself than settle for a doctor who cheats on me. Because if he’s flirting with me behind his girlfriend’s back, you known damn well I ain’t the only one and he’d do it to me. The feelings he has for me isn’t appropriate. I highly doubt it’s just me he’s like that with.

Marina Starr
04-12-2022, 09:44 AM
Well my crushie's been working on the water, it's still messed up tho.
Not really sure where I (we?) stand..

It's nice that he & I are the 2 normals here in the house, we'll see what happens.

70° degrees here today!

whirlerz, you are too cute. Keep going!

I love that you call him crushie.

https://i.ibb.co/pRZstXD/Screenshot-2022-04-12-12-41-41-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-12-2022, 12:57 PM
I have a crush on my boss. He's my work husband. lollllllll

Marina Starr
04-12-2022, 01:46 PM
#bossdick

I have a husband in business places wherever I go like Starbucks, Publix, car shops so whenever I need something I'll use them ;D

Using and taking advantage of men is my cardio.
#cunninghoe #manipulativehoe

I have a crush on my boss. He's my work husband. lollllllll

Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 04:11 AM
Am I the only one that don't say hi or hello to men first before they do?! This comes to strange men or those I casually know.

I want them to acknowledge me first. If they don't then I'll say nothing.

carmen_b
04-14-2022, 08:51 AM
Delish.

I think from our posts you are taken but it's nice to have that fun energy.


I have a crush on my boss. He's my work husband. lollllllll

Marina Starr
04-14-2022, 09:28 AM
I've been ignoring the guy that has a crush on me and haven't seen him in over a week. He usually goes to Starbucks 5 times a week.

I guess being ignored by me really got to him and made him question his own existence. I hope he takes some time to grow up and work on some level of his maturity.

moneybags
04-14-2022, 09:07 PM
^^^i moved on from my crush too. I’m not an insecure little girl. If we ain’t in alignment-I’ll move on accordingly. I was sad at first because I don’t connect with very many people, but I’m also not a weak ass bitch that’s let’s my feelings for a guy control my life.

Marina Starr
04-15-2022, 10:52 AM
I think it's easier to move on from your crush when you can acknowledge your feelings while knowing it has to end.


^^^i moved on from my crush too. I’m not an insecure little girl. If we ain’t in alignment-I’ll move on accordingly. I was sad at first because I don’t connect with very many people, but I’m also not a weak ass bitch that’s let’s my feelings for a guy control my life.

moneybags
04-15-2022, 11:09 AM
I think it's easier to move on from your crush when you can acknowledge your feelings while knowing it has to end.

I lose feelings for guys real quick once they start pulling away or on some bullshit. Back when I was an insecure girl those games worked, as a woman a man not pursuing me 100% intention to make me his woman and treat me like a queen-I just quit caring and I’m never able to catch feelings again for the person after they do some bullshit like he did. I’m really not worried about continuing to work with him. If anything he’s gonna be the one with the heartbreak. Once you break my heart once, I won’t let you have another chance. I’ll be friendly and kind, but I’ll never catch feelings for you again like that. I’ve just been through too much and I don’t have that much time to waste on romance. You get one chance with me and if you mess up-I don’t care how legit the excuse is-I’m DONE.



Also, next time I see him I’m not flirting with him. Like I was seriously just being friendly, not even trying to flirt but he’s still hot and cold. If he’s gonna play hot and cold. I’m just not gonna be friendly with him either. I’m gonna be professional from now on.

carmen_b
04-17-2022, 08:51 AM
^ I'm the same. If the guy isn't in active pursuit mode and really making it obvious that he wants to move forward it just loses romantic energy !
It's boring !

moneybags
04-18-2022, 08:43 AM
Today my visit went okay. I think I’ll be able to see him as my doctor. I would like to take some time off and see him less frequently though. I’m over him for the most part, but I’m still a bit angry that he used me emotionally-typical fuck boy shit to use a hot girl to fill a void. I’ve been classy about it. I’m not hot or cold-just neutral. I’ll stay professional with him from now on. If he ever tries to flirt with me again I’ll call him out.

I found it funny he’s don’t compliment me at all. Almost like he’s trying to be cold. Whatever. I don’t care. I know I look good. I don’t need his validation or attention.

laurielegs
04-18-2022, 10:47 PM
Good for you! ^

I'm beyond pissed at mine.. We had an issue here at the house, gas was shut off (LL swears not due to the bill, it's back on now) my room is was an add on, so the only thing heated is in my bathroom) I've an a/c window unit.

So, Id thought my pilot light on my gas fireplace had just gone out, but it was due to the gas shut off.

I'd texted him frantically, he told me it was going to blow up? (I'd googled it, so no that's wrong)

Nevertheless, I didn't fucking appreciate that.

So, he's been out town for the holiday.

He owes me for 3 (long) trips I drove him to when his car wasn't running, + the gas station, but that's down the street, so nbd for that one.

He has my lamp upstairs to fix, which isn't getting done anytime soon..at this point I just want it back

It's my own damn fault for letting my self in for this..

When gas Rep was here, she said the gas fireplace unit is illegal & shouldn't be in my room cause it emits fumes. Yes, I've detector.

I'm freezing, I've a tiny heater only, going to get another, rn they're all out of stock.

I hope & pray I can soon gtfo here. I have central heat but I don't like to heat the whole house when I'm in my camming room for hours.

I got this infrared heater and it is the best small heater I have ever used, heats the entire room nicely. It's a little more expensive then some space heaters, like a hundred bucks but well worth it and a lot safer than the other kind. https://www.amazon.com/Dr-Infrared-Heater-Portable-1500-Watt/dp/B002QZ11J6/

moneybags
04-19-2022, 11:57 AM
^^^i hope you find a better place to live. All of C is unfortunately like that unless you live north side and then your paying close to 2k a month for rent and utilities. The times we live in where people are living in uninhabitable conditions just to survive now n days because it’s so expensive. Makes me kinda grateful to live here sometimes even though it’s very conservative it’s cheap! PM for details.


I feel so much better! I have so much energy now that I pulled my energy away from him. I’m so much happier being single. All relationships do is zap me of my life force. It’s still a bit awkward, but I don’t really care anymore to be honest. I don’t have time or the energy for him anymore. He’s just another guy trying to fix his inner issues with a bad bitch.

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 01:43 PM
Have him wear nothing under the robe and fix shit for you!


Well, lol..

Crushie's Bday next week, I ordered him a robe :-from Target, going to pick up in a bit, going to start dying my hair.

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 02:23 PM
You can fix his robe as he's doing the Lord's work.

Constantly adjusting, lmao!


:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:^

I almost fell off my bed Lmao!

Marina Starr
04-20-2022, 06:31 PM
https://i.ibb.co/MsGs7Df/Screenshot-2022-04-20-8-28-00-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)

moneybags
04-21-2022, 10:32 AM
^^^say it again for the people in the back

Remembering to be energetically neutral with crush. I still like him, but I don’t need to give my energy away to an unavailable man. It takes a lot of discipline, but it’s worth it. I’m not letting a guy use my mind, body, or soul and not get anything in return.

Marina Starr
04-21-2022, 11:54 AM
Unless you get the cash.


^^^say it again for the people in the back

Remembering to be energetically neutral with crush. I still like him, but I don’t need to give my energy away to an unavailable man. It takes a lot of discipline, but it’s worth it. I’m not letting a guy use my mind, body, or soul and not get anything in return.

moneybags
04-21-2022, 02:38 PM
OK, just picked up the robe, here it is :57032

Cue the sexy music
Bow wa chicka wah wah

57037

Marina Starr
04-21-2022, 02:52 PM
That scares me at first glance. You live in the wood, whilerz?


OK, just picked up the robe, here it is :57032

carmen_b
04-21-2022, 05:04 PM
^ That explains some things. I was always curious why LL didn't maintain things better.
He is probably waiting for a land deal. :/