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moneybags
04-21-2022, 07:57 PM
If you’re a cam model and he’s an ex cam model. Why don’t you cam together? PM for a contract. I WiSH I could find a legit guy to perform with. He does owe it to you…LOL.
I understand. I actually don’t get intimate with just anyone, but that would be cool to have a man to cam with. Someone supportive and helpful, not just another loser trying to fuck a cam model for free.
moneybags
04-22-2022, 09:07 AM
^^^oh. Still would be hot to have a repair man to cam with. I’m sure he’d be open to it, but that’s always a very personal decision
Marina Starr
04-22-2022, 02:51 PM
You are too sweet to him. So cute keep going!
Aw, my crushie's car's messed up, he was trying to fix it, I think something w/the transmission.:(
I gave him some food.
Marina Starr
04-27-2022, 01:39 PM
Told another guy that has the hot for me but shy it's very unlike me to ever say hi first even once so he needed to start saying hi first. That got him blushing hard.
Bet he ain't ever got that from vanilla hoes, lmao.
moneybags
05-02-2022, 09:54 AM
Yay! I set boundaries with crush. I wasn’t cold, but wasn’t flirty. Why should I stroke his ego? I’m paying him. I don’t need to dance monkey dance. It feels good to not let a guy use me.
moneybags
05-02-2022, 11:33 AM
^^^Thank you for your support! I definitely am weak for classy, kind, and successful men, but why emotionally invest in an unavailable man. It’s taken a lot of discipline for me to pull back. He definitely knows I’ve pulled back.
Unfortunately, most people don’t have our best interest at heart, so we have to show them not to take advantage of our time and energy. He was taking advantage of me for his own ego. I ain’t at mad at him, but I sure as hell am done entertaining him.
whirlerz
05-02-2022, 11:49 AM
^^^Thank you for your support! I definitely am weak for classy, kind, and successful men, but why emotionally invest in an unavailable man. It’s taken a lot of discipline for me to pull back. He definitely knows I’ve pulled back.
Unfortunately, most people don’t have our best interest at heart, so we have to show them not to take advantage of our time and energy. He was taking advantage of me for his own ego.I ain’t at mad at him, but I sure as hell am done entertaining him.
This^!
Marina Starr
05-02-2022, 12:27 PM
I find being indifferent works best for me. If you get emotional, upset or trying too hard to ignore them they know they get to you and that would defeat the purpose of being indifferent because you're giving them your power.
Yay! I set boundaries with crush. I wasn’t cold, but wasn’t flirty. Why should I stroke his ego? I’m paying him. I don’t need to dance monkey dance. It feels good to not let a guy use me.
whirlerz
05-02-2022, 03:43 PM
******
moneybags
05-02-2022, 03:48 PM
I find being indifferent works best for me. If you get emotional, upset or trying too hard to ignore them they know they get to you and that would defeat the purpose of being indifferent because you're giving them your power.
That’s my natural state. Detached from outcomes. I don’t really care. I’m not playing games. I’m setting boundaries with my time and energy to take care of me, not punish him.
Marina Starr
05-07-2022, 04:25 PM
I find it so cute when vanilla hoes tell me if they had a crush on a guy, they could never look at him or talk to him or make it obvious.
And here I'm thinking 'listen hoe, you've already given your crush so much of your power and constantly thinking of him so look at him!'.
Make it obvious you like him, so the fuck what if he saw you looking? LMAO
You see, I look, I stare, I make intense eye contact. I feel so happy if he can't look at me. I'm not shy, the crush is though. I just don't give a fuck, lmao.
Hoes don't get shy!
seashell
05-08-2022, 02:10 AM
Wish I'd known about this thread a few months ago, when I had a really jacked-up crush on my ex's friend! He was adorable, tall and super intelligent, and really funny but kind of shy. I just could not hold a normal conversation with him without being a flirty idiot. I'm sure it was obvious I was into him, lol. I'd been in relationships for too long with the wrong kind of people, and he was like a much needed sexual awakening
But also, no matter how hard I tried, we just didn't click on a conversation level. It's so weird. I'm never quite compatible with the adorable nerdy guys I'm attracted to, it's super frustrating
Cutie101
05-08-2022, 04:00 AM
Asking for a friend: have you ever dreamed so high and actually went for it? Aka, leveling up to the point you were dating a celebrity crush?
Thoughts or stories?
Not planning to do it as I am in a solid relationship, but I'm calculating my options in case I'd end up being single and my current partner has raised the standards really high for me, as I could never date a random joe anymore, ever in my life.
carmen_b
05-08-2022, 11:20 AM
Right !
If I want that D you are going to the first to know about it ha.
I find it so cute when vanilla hoes tell me if they had a crush on a guy, they could never look at him or talk to him or make it obvious.
And here I'm thinking 'listen hoe, you've already given your crush so much of your power and constantly thinking of him so look at him!'.
Make it obvious you like him, so the fuck what if he saw you looking? LMAO
You see, I look, I stare, I make intense eye contact. I feel so happy if he can't look at me. I'm not shy, the crush is though. I just don't give a fuck, lmao.
Hoes don't get shy!
Marina Starr
05-08-2022, 11:30 AM
LMAO, yeeeeeeeesssssssss! I will look from head to toes then look at the bulge then look at their eyes. Bulge to eyes, bulge to eyes but lingered at the bulge for a bit.
I noticed no matter how quick or discreet you look at their dick, men will notice it right away because they think it's the most important part ;D
Right !
If I want that D you are going to the first to know about it ha.
seashell
05-08-2022, 04:58 PM
Asking for a friend: have you ever dreamed so high and actually went for it? Aka, leveling up to the point you were dating a celebrity crush?
Thoughts or stories?
Not planning to do it as I am in a solid relationship, but I'm calculating my options in case I'd end up being single and my current partner has raised the standards really high for me, as I could never date a random joe anymore, ever in my life.
Kinda? Not a legit celebrity, but my recent relationship was with a guy who was internet famous and would get recognized in public. It was kind of awful, though. He was a huge narcissist, vented about him in some other threads. He blew threw money very easily, though, and I benefitted quite a lot.
I've also dated some CEO types who were similar, and had some pretty cool life experiences from traveling with them, and being around other influential people.
It seems like fame comes with a lot of drawbacks (safety, distrust of others, psychological issues), and people who are more behind-the-scenes successful seem to be better partners. But I 100% agree, feels like there's no point in dating an average dude.
Cutie101
05-08-2022, 06:35 PM
Kinda? Not a legit celebrity, but my recent relationship was with a guy who was internet famous and would get recognized in public. It was kind of awful, though. He was a huge narcissist, vented about him in some other threads. He blew threw money very easily, though, and I benefitted quite a lot.
I've also dated some CEO types who were similar, and had some pretty cool life experiences from traveling with them, and being around other influential people.
It seems like fame comes with a lot of drawbacks (safety, distrust of others, psychological issues), and people who are more behind-the-scenes successful seem to be better partners. But I 100% agree, feels like there's no point in dating an average dude.
I hear you. Yeah I have been thinking about this thing, that they suck most of the time and I'd stay away from limelight myself. It's the connections and the new world I'd be exposed to I'm aiming for, in case he'd decide to dump my ass out of "ohhh I have internal issues, it's not me, it's you" lol :)))) At least I'd walk out with something and fall on my feet.
PS: I am new in the Ladies Only section, I have a TON to read around here, maybe I'll stumble across your stories :)))))) I don't know why I haven't visited it, maybe because I have Camming Connection, Body Business and Hustle Hut pinned on my bookmark and I tend to click on those. Now I have Ladies Only pinned too, hahaha!
Cutie101
05-08-2022, 07:49 PM
Speaking of crushes and the Tinder guy documentary, this is a great video with some stuff to watch out for, when having a crush:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEIQfQHEtaE
LOL at this comment, made by an user, but really legit:
"Some dudes tried pulling this on me 10 years ago on a couple of dating sites I was on. They all had the "oooh, baby I'm rich" line, bragging about their income, houses, cars, vacations, etc. I was skeptical but open. But as soon as the first request for money came, I called them out on it. I told them to cash in some stocks, ask daddy for a loan, pawn the Rolexes, get a payday loan on the car. You never saw them ghost anyone so fast! lol"
PS: The comments on the video are also useful, have a good read trough it haha.
carmen_b
05-09-2022, 08:52 AM
ohhhh I'm feeling travel blogger ha !
I agree with you. I think the ultra success thing comes with a huge dose of just not being able to contain yourself ( due to more opportunity to cheat ). It seems like men get out of control so fast. Women are better at being low key if they get to that huge success level it seems like. I feel like a low key guy is the better way to go. A successful person who isn't as " in your face " with it but is more subtle. :)
I've also declined dating a " D List " type celeb .
Might not have been anything wrong BUT .... so often in these cases there IS !
I didn't want to give 3-6 months to uncover the crazy that was probably lurking there.
Kinda? Not a legit celebrity, but my recent relationship was with a guy who was internet famous and would get recognized in public. It was kind of awful, though. He was a huge narcissist, vented about him in some other threads. He blew threw money very easily, though, and I benefitted quite a lot.
I've also dated some CEO types who were similar, and had some pretty cool life experiences from traveling with them, and being around other influential people.
It seems like fame comes with a lot of drawbacks (safety, distrust of others, psychological issues), and people who are more behind-the-scenes successful seem to be better partners. But I 100% agree, feels like there's no point in dating an average dude.
moneybags
05-09-2022, 10:23 AM
I know you all are kinda tired of hearing about this so I won’t go on and on. I can’t help feel angry at my crush for playing with my feelings. I’m not playing the victim. I’m determined to focus on my goals. I’m making a promise that I’ll move on from him and if he ever starts flirting with me again I’ll shut that shit down and I’ll never entertain him again. I’m not gonna let him use me again.
Rejection is Gods protection!
whirlerz
05-09-2022, 10:51 AM
I know you all are kinda tired of hearing about this so I won’t go on and on. I can’t help feel angry at my crush for playing with my feelings. I’m not playing the victim. I’m determined to focus on my goals. I’m making a promise that I’ll move on from him and if he ever starts flirting with me again I’ll shut that shit down and I’ll never entertain him again. I’m not gonna let him use me again.
Nah you're fine, vent away.. I feel the same way about mine.. I talked about it in man bitching.. Here I drove his ass all over Timbuktu when his car was done for work, (no $ for it yet btw) now he's gone, his brother's staying in his room.
Idc, but damn he's got my lamp up there, I got his stupid shop vac & I want my shit back..just frustrated w/them
I guess it's some family/work thing, maybe the bro lost his place, whatever so for now I'm not saying anything..
I had written him a note about it, his brother was up there, Idk at the time he was there.
So I don't have shit to say to anyone here (the 1 new guy's so nice, he's been bringing up the dumpsters for trash day) .
I just saw your quote, Rejection is God's protection, so cool
moneybags
05-09-2022, 12:58 PM
I’m sorry you lost your lamp. I know you said it’s sentimental.
I KNOW in my heart this frees my energy up to focus on bettering myself. One day I won’t even think about him anymore. One day he’ll regret no picking me.
moneybags
05-09-2022, 01:20 PM
He definitely needs to give you the lamp. I hate waiting on things to come through.
I’m finding a new chiropractor. I’m done with him jerking my feelings around. I really didn’t want to but I think that’s what I need to do. He needs to regret losing me as a patient because he 1)he should have never started flirting with me to begin with 2)now it’s effecting the care I’m getting. I think I need to drive out 15-30 minutes to see someone else.
moneybags
05-09-2022, 07:43 PM
Ask and you shall receive! A new sports chiropractor is opening up a clinic not too far and they accept my insurance! Bye Dr. Creepy. He’s so lucky I have class. If I wasn’t a classy lady I’d write a bad review. I’ll just find a new doctor. Hopefully a female!