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Marina Starr
05-26-2022, 04:22 PM
And feel ZERO guilt because that's what we're accustomed to. I could pay half but why would I want to when I can spend their money?

On the rare occasions if I'm generous I'll make the guy some authentic Vietnamese Egg Rolls and dipping fish sauce. This will make the fucker thinks like it's Christmas Morning so the paying keeps on coming.

The tone and training have to start right from the beginning because bad habits are easier to create and harder to break.



I would NEVER pay half on a date. If I am dating the guy, I will regularly cook a meal. In all these years, not one fucker has ever offered to pay for the groceries. So when that happens, then I'll pay for half on a dinner date. I love living alone, everything here is mine. Prefer peace over someone's mess or ruining the things I own because they are careless.

Peace everyday, every moment. Men are for paying for jewelry, dates & vacations. Rather spend my time, cleaning my jewelry than some man's dirty underwear.

Violethollywood
05-26-2022, 05:11 PM
So pro tip... Use his money to pay your credit cards or credit cards you share together... take it a step further and after you pay your credit cards down, start paying off your debt with his money. Think smarter not harder;D

lurkingtitties
05-26-2022, 06:01 PM
In all these years, not one fucker has ever offered to pay for the groceries.

I had an ex who paid for groceries! He had expensive taste too…we lived in a redneck town at the time and sometimes I felt like cashiers were giving us the stink eye, lol. That relationship didn’t work out for other reasons but it def was nice eating grass fed steaks and seafood all the time.

Edit: now that I think about it a couple other guys I dated long ago would pay for groceries too! One would only pay if it was date night and we were cooking, another one would stock up on snacks from Whole Foods if I was coming over and buy me dinner on top of that. Sometimes he would bring me food too. Damn I love when men pay for my food and it’s high quality, lol.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 06:08 PM
So pro tip... Use his money to pay your credit cards or credit cards you share together... take it a step further and after you pay your credit cards down, start paying off your debt with his money. Think smarter not harder;D

Also if they offer to pay something and ask you how much it is then ROUND UP……. By a lot

So you can get what you want AND have extra left over to invest.

neverendingkneebruises
05-26-2022, 06:44 PM
For the record the only time I have ever paid half is bc dude was giving me heebie jeebies and I just wanted to defuse the situation & gtfo. :) Safety is worth infinitely more than any amount of money... The second I was home he was swiftly blocked. But have not had an issue expecting to be paid for otherwise!

Gonna contribute to wins in this thread so its not just me bitching loll. I have covid & bf has been instacarting, doordashing or personally delivering food/ice cream to my doorstep (he lives half an hour away) He also drives me 40 mins to and from work (covid aside lol) so I don't have to be driving. Crazy to think how far my standards are from just a year ago. Never settle!!

carmen_b
05-27-2022, 01:07 PM
Omg does he drop you at the club ?
I always have longed to be one of the diva dancers who gets dropped and picked up ha.

neverendingkneebruises
05-27-2022, 01:20 PM
^^yes he drops me off and picks me up, I live 40 mins away :)

He is instacarting me more today & stopping by after work just to talk to me from the front yard (still testing positive for Covid)

Marina Starr
05-27-2022, 01:58 PM
He sounds lovely!

I hope covid didn't affect you too much!


^^yes he drops me off and picks me up, I live 40 mins away :)

He is instacarting me more today & stopping by after work just to talk to me from the front yard (still testing positive for Covid)

Cutie101
05-27-2022, 02:43 PM
For the record the only time I have ever paid half is bc dude was giving me heebie jeebies and I just wanted to defuse the situation & gtfo. :) Safety is worth infinitely more than any amount of money... The second I was home he was swiftly blocked. But have not had an issue expecting to be paid for otherwise!

Gonna contribute to wins in this thread so its not just me bitching loll. I have covid & bf has been instacarting, doordashing or personally delivering food/ice cream to my doorstep (he lives half an hour away) He also drives me 40 mins to and from work (covid aside lol) so I don't have to be driving. Crazy to think how far my standards are from just a year ago. Never settle!!

Well done!! I remember a while ago, one of the guys in the extended circle of friends came with a new girlfriend and we brought something for the barbecue, I think it was a sauce or something. Anyway she says it's good and asks me where I got it from and I point to my bf and said "Idk he does the grocery shopping". She raises an eyebrow and she suddenly turns from sweet to bitter, trying to be ironic and be like: "Ohhh, the princess doesn't do her own shopping, are you even pumping your own gas, or you're afraid to get dirty? hahahaha". No one was laughing because they knew what's about to come. My bf turns to her and says "Yes, she's MY princess and a princess doesn't pump her own gas, if she has a man".
She didn't talk to me anymore for the rest of the day.

She didn't last much with him. He told us he was trying to do things for her and she was constantly annoyed that he does this, because he perceives her as incapable and weak, accusing him of doing this to get more sex and to dominate her and make her feel like she owes him something, cuz that's what her therapist told her!! Wtf...
He byed the Felicia and let her find her unicorn, lol.

carmen_b
05-28-2022, 08:50 AM
^ Dude J has bought every sauce in this damn house hahaha.
Who was this chick ? Lame.
Tell her to focus on her own sauces or lack thereof hahaha.

Cutie101
05-28-2022, 12:24 PM
^ Dude J has bought every sauce in this damn house hahaha.
Who was this chick ? Lame.
Tell her to focus on her own sauces or lack thereof hahaha.

Haha, this was probably in 2019 or something, so... she's looong gone.

lurkingtitties
05-28-2022, 02:28 PM
Omg does he drop you at the club ?
I always have longed to be one of the diva dancers who gets dropped and picked up ha.

I actually never liked having bfs drop me off! I needed to travel to the club solo to get into the right headspace. I did have a bf once upon a time who would pay for my cabs to his apartment and picked me up on his motorcycle sometimes, that was fun. But always made more $$$ and had an easier night if I drove myself.

carmen_b
05-31-2022, 06:43 PM
^ I can totally see that !
I do kind of "stress" when a partner is near .

miss.a.p1600
06-01-2022, 04:27 PM
L voluntarily agreed to start paying a monthly bill (that I think he should have been paying all along anyways)....He pays about 70% of the household bills (although I plan to work him up to higher levels of provisions)

I may have to pull a 'whose dick do I have to suck' maneuver (use his horniness to my advantage) to trigger his memory of agreeing to do it and to make sure it gets done promptly.

I wish more men would learn from the sexless sugar daddies and financial subs .... who understand the assignment.

miss.a.p1600
06-03-2022, 09:08 AM
Anna Nicole style Sugar Babies Be Like ……


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CeR5uS6L897/

xxxGothBarbie
06-03-2022, 01:13 PM
BF is giving me money to go out while he's doing his own thing with friends LOL
He's been pretty good about giving me money for this & that in the last few months, and I still haven't had sex with him in over a month LOL
That's the one thing about his stupid foot fetish I like, the fact that he just looks at my feet while I sleep and he jerks off to them. Doesn't involve me whatsoever.
AND I still get paid :P

I'm also loving the fact that since his mom has been gone on her vacation, I've been staying over for free, cooking ALL the food she left in there that I actually like.

carmen_b
06-03-2022, 02:53 PM
^ Haha. You've got to love how you will deal with this guy but only when SMother is gone and you don't have to physical touch him just show feet hahaha.

:)

Maybe you can adopt that poor fucking cat out while she is gone ( or change the locks haha and put her stuff in a storage unit ).

I *kind of* like the foot fetish thing and kind of don't. I remember my lover from like 12 years ago had it and he was just awful all around ( but the depression meds added to it ). Poor guy. I think I am just a minimalist to the core. You like me ? Like me NAKED then not having to need to shop for bullshit like stockings / shoes . OR just bring the stuff ( I can always use it for work haha ).

xxxGothBarbie
06-03-2022, 04:42 PM
^ Haha. You've got to love how you will deal with this guy but only when SMother is gone and you don't have to physical touch him just show feet hahaha.

:)

Maybe you can adopt that poor fucking cat out while she is gone ( or change the locks haha and put her stuff in a storage unit ).

I *kind of* like the foot fetish thing and kind of don't. I remember my lover from like 12 years ago had it and he was just awful all around ( but the depression meds added to it ). Poor guy. I think I am just a minimalist to the core. You like me ? Like me NAKED then not having to need to shop for bullshit like stockings / shoes . OR just bring the stuff ( I can always use it for work haha ).

Ya the cats are going to his sisters thankfully. She's my fave out of all his relatives. Haha I would loooove to lock that bitch out ��
And ya he's pretty easy to deal with since no sex is involved anymore really. My excuses have gotten pretty dam good lol I know he looks at other women's feet anyway behind my back so ya fuck him. I'm rationing the pussy.

miss.a.p1600
06-03-2022, 05:05 PM
Lol @ SMother

NitaBaby
06-04-2022, 05:08 AM
I don't take men who can't financially help me. It's nothing personal. It's just about not being poor behind or because of the penis. It's just about preservation of my bloodline.

Can I put this in my signature? Pretty pleaseeeee lol

NitaBaby
06-04-2022, 06:30 AM
I need advice and I can’t seem to get it from the women in my life because they aren’t doing much better.

I’m in love with the nicest man who is basically the male version of me. But he’s broke and on child support (the CS being a recent occurrence since his bm is trying to spite him for being with me for all these years). He’s money motivated and is trying to find ways to improve his finances but I’m tired of it :(.

My patience is one late bill away from leaving the building. Anyone ever fall in love with a broke boy that was good to them?

How did you stop bs’ing yourself (because I know exactly what I need to do) and turn the love off? It’s so easy to leave a dude with clear personality flaws or manipulative tendencies. I love this guy but I’m starting to think that I love money more.

miss.a.p1600
06-04-2022, 08:25 AM
I need advice and I can’t seem to get it from the women in my life because they aren’t doing much better.

I’m in love with the nicest man who is basically the male version of me. But he’s broke and on child support (the CS being a recent occurrence since his bm is trying to spite him for being with me for all these years). He’s money motivated and is trying to find ways to improve his finances but I’m tired of it :(.

My patience is one late bill away from leaving the building. Anyone ever fall in love with a broke boy that was good to them?

How did you stop bs’ing yourself (because I know exactly what I need to do) and turn the love off? It’s so easy to leave a dude with clear personality flaws or manipulative tendencies. I love this guy but I’m starting to think that I love money more.


Yeah sadly some of the really good men who will treat you well just are not that good with finances and make shitty choices in partners that affect them for decades.

You have to decide.

Your options:
A. Stay with him and you are the breadwinner
B. Stay with him and hound him to earn more (under the table so ex Bertha and Uncle Sam won’t hit as hard)
C. Stay with him and keep a sugar daddy on the side
D. Partially leave him but keep him as a boy toy/FWB or just a friend
E. Leave him for greener pastures

*I recommend E especially if you are young with no kids. But regardless of what you choose always keep yourself and your goals in mind then act accordingly

And in the future, don’t even go past step 1 with a poor man because it clouds your judgement. I know first hand unfortunately when you give financially underperforming men a chance

carmen_b
06-04-2022, 09:11 AM
Nita :

I personally don't deal with the " less successful " types of guys just because I have FOUGHT and CLAWED my way into my own success if that makes sense.
I feel like if *I* can do it ( especially being a minority in my day job industry ) then a man can also do it.
I mean .... I did that AND did sex work for extra money.

If you REALLY love this dude I would suggest a 2,4,6 month type of detailed plan on how you will BOTH " raise your money up " !
Brainstorm and work more . If you can both work some extra hours it can help a bit and then once a savings is built you can cut back. PART of love should be building together and CO-CREATING a plan for more success. If he is not on board ..... kick him out of the boat. :)

carmen_b
06-04-2022, 09:13 AM
^ If he has a child then this is an " ongoing " bill basically which means HE should be working more ( closer to 50 hours a week ).

That doesn't really mean you should if you are child free yourself.

carmen_b
06-04-2022, 09:19 AM
Nita :
How broke is broke ?
Do you mean broke like renting a room instead of living alone OR broke like couch crashing or living with family ?

^ I could probably tolerate and " build up " with a guy in the former category if I loved him but I would probably cut the " option 2 " category out just because it shows you an *overall* lack of hustle if that makes sense .....

NitaBaby
06-04-2022, 12:30 PM
To respond to/answer all of you ladies:

I have three daughters of my own, at 31 years old.
He has one daughter that lives with his ex-wife.
When I met him he was making waayyy more than me, had his own place, car, blah blah blah. The usual stuff that a grown man should have. He lost his job and that's when a series of back-to-back bullshit started happening.

Hurricane Harvey poured through Houston so he lost his car due to flooding. He was then let go from his job and when he found another one, broke his foot on day one :irked:. He got back on his feet (metaphorically) but it was honestly a slow-going process. I was the one paying all of the bills while he wallowed in this depression over his finances. And I stuck with him only because I genuinely cared and I'd already seen where his life and ambitions lied before knowing me. I genuinely believed that it was immoral to break up with a man over money. I don't believe that stupid shit anymore, but I did at the time.

But I reached my personal limit with being the breadwinner, maid, therapist, and fuck toy with nothing but "he's nice to me" in return and told him that it was over. The man apologized for everything, swore up and down he would do better with adding to my life financially..... and then as he was making these changes he was hit with child support.

My bills aren't that high. But I'm still "helping" him pay our rent while I also pay the utilities and my own personal bills (cell phone, car insurance, etc.) because his child support is that damn high.

That is what I mean by "he's broke".

It sounds like it's time for me to call it quits.

I'm not a young 20-year-old with no kids anymore but I've never had a problem with getting a man to spend on me. My daughter's father paid for everything when we were together and I met him when I was just 16. It's embarrassing to think about it now but I didn't even know what size shoes my own kids wore or what the cost of milk was because his money paid for all of it. I would just tell him what I needed and he'd get it. But he also used his money to control me. So I left.

The man I dealt with after him would sneak hundreds into my purse or pay for things that I would mention in passing. He bought stuff for my girls all the time. He was married so it felt good to not take a guy seriously and get spoiled. I was just emotionally scarred from my controlling and abusive ex and swore off "provider men" because I assumed that they were all like that. How foolish. Now I have a nice guy that couldn't afford a one-bedroom if I dumped him today.

miss.a.p1600
06-04-2022, 12:52 PM
^He should try to go back to court and prove that he’s unable to meet the unusually high child support. Child support is not meant to sent the father into poverty but to make sure the kids aren’t sent into poverty.

So he’s either faking it and purposely underperforming so you’ll cover the bills for him, not getting help before molehills become mountains, etc.

*Just my opinion take with a grain of salt

Anyhow hope you find the resolution you seek.

carmen_b
06-04-2022, 12:58 PM
^ I feel like his personal issues will end up “ proving “ in court he doesn’t make enough for a huge CS Bill.
This seems easily documented and proveable.

He just needs to get a “ we are moving UP “ attitude going today.
Work 60 hours week for a few months if needed ect.
You can’t work like that ongoing but you can as a temporary bandaid which sounds like is needed.

You can not be his “ long term “ bandaid solution if that makes sense.

carmen_b
06-04-2022, 12:59 PM
You mention the injury but paying for everything for a bit.
Where was his worker’s compensation check and unemployment check during this ?

NitaBaby
06-04-2022, 01:52 PM
Thanks everyone for your advice.

And @carmen_b, he received workers comp for around six months if I remember currently. Then he just never received a “come back to work” date and its like they just phased him out of the job.

He said he would get the child support amount lowered back in November. I made a big deal out of the lack of progress in January. Here we are in June, and he’s still paying more for one child than my own childrens father pays for my three girls. So I’m not really seeing this motivation to do better financially even though he claims to be invested in bringing in more.

You ever ask a question that you, deep down, already know the answer to? Writing it all out, the solution is clear. And I feel like an idiot for even asking my question because what’s the confusing part? I should know better than this.

This relationship has too many reason for “this” and excuses for “that”. It’s pretty much a wrap.

kortneykay
06-05-2022, 04:55 AM
I need advice and I can’t seem to get it from the women in my life because they aren’t doing much better.

I’m in love with the nicest man who is basically the male version of me. But he’s broke and on child support (the CS being a recent occurrence since his bm is trying to spite him for being with me for all these years). He’s money motivated and is trying to find ways to improve his finances but I’m tired of it :(.

My patience is one late bill away from leaving the building. Anyone ever fall in love with a broke boy that was good to them?

How did you stop bs’ing yourself (because I know exactly what I need to do) and turn the love off? It’s so easy to leave a dude with clear personality flaws or manipulative tendencies. I love this guy but I’m starting to think that I love money more.

No. I don't fuck broke, chill with broke, fall in live with broke and I jump ship when they grow broke because Men do it to us. They cheat when you gain weight, they leave when freak accidents happen to Women or terminally ill. They move on fast without question. Pussy would be like sandpaper. Potential doesn't work for me. Leave the struggle bus and get a guy who respects you and himself. Just cut him off. Time will heal your longing for him eventually. I get that shit happens but I also believe Men should be prepared for things all the time. Savings, CD, 401k, Roth, multiple streams of income. Everything else is an excuse. No car insurance? No life insurance? Now child support which takes away from your bag. You have 4 mouths to feed excluding his. That's a man's job. Loathing but still expecting you to treat them and screw them? I don't want any stress filled sperm near me period. That energy could be poured into making money. You got this!

NitaBaby
06-05-2022, 06:30 AM
No. I don't fuck broke, chill with broke, fall in live with broke and I jump ship when they grow broke because Men do it to us. They cheat when you gain weight, they leave when freak accidents happen to Women or terminally ill. They move on fast without question. Pussy would be like sandpaper. Potential doesn't work for me. Leave the struggle bus and get a guy who respects you and himself. Just cut him off. Time will heal your longing for him eventually. I get that shit happens but I also believe Men should be prepared for things all the time. Savings, CD, 401k, Roth, multiple streams of income. Everything else is an excuse. No car insurance? No life insurance? Now child support which takes away from your bag. You have 4 mouths to feed excluding his. That's a man's job. Loathing but still expecting you to treat them and screw them? I don't want any stress filled sperm near me period. That energy could be poured into making money. You got this!

I just wanted to say that, um... I think I love you lol.

When I give advice I'm a straight shooter and it's pretty much "fuck your feelings" (but with love) so I realllllllly appreciate your honesty. I can't believe that I let things get to this point but I can promise you guys that I'm going to fix it.

To everyone that has commented, thank you again. You all have given me the best advice ever and I'm thankful that no one tried to attack ME PERSONALLY. I know when it comes to men and money some girls like to flex with the "well, I would never" and sarcastic "shit, you're better than me" so. Thank you, ladies. I love ya'll for that.

kortneykay
06-05-2022, 06:53 AM
I just wanted to say that, um... I think I love you lol.

When I give advice I'm a straight shooter and it's pretty much "fuck your feelings" (but with love) so I realllllllly appreciate your honesty. I can't believe that I let things get to this point but I can promise you guys that I'm going to fix it.

To everyone that has commented, thank you again. You all have given me the best advice ever and I'm thankful that no one tried to attack ME PERSONALLY. I know when it comes to men and money some girls like to flex with the "well, I would never" and sarcastic "shit, you're better than me" so. Thank you, ladies. I love ya'll for that.

NP, I think we as Women are conditioned to be softer towards Males even though they are harder on us and it actually puts us in a vulnerable spot. But you deserve someone who puts you and your babies first or may as well be single. I get it, we Women are nurturing and we don't mind helping others even if it puts us in the red. We hold onto things when they were good and are actually shamed when we walk away because the world doesn't have much pity for Women. Also, soul ties and great sex, memories and even being used to someone's presence is hard to walk away from but possible. You deserve to be poured into as well.

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-05-2022, 07:50 AM
NP, I think we as Women are conditioned to be softer towards Males even though they are harder on us and it actually puts us in a vulnerable spot. But you deserve someone who puts you and your babies first or may as well be single. I get it, we Women are nurturing and we don't mind helping others even if it puts us in the red. We hold onto things when they were good and are actually shamed when we walk away because the world doesn't have much pity for Women. Also, soul ties and great sex, memories and even being used to someone's presence is hard to walk away from but possible. You deserve to be poured into as well.

This so much.

Violethollywood
06-13-2022, 01:42 PM
so, a win for me . Found out I had over paid for my root canal and Im getting 340 or something back . Im not saying shit to my husband about it bc for one he'll try to take it from me somehow like telling me "good. You can pay the xyz." *eyeroll.

Also, he's been a dick to me today and belittled me so until he apologizes, he can reap what he sows. I will not be treated as such. So sick of his attitude

miss.a.p1600
06-14-2022, 04:06 PM
^Id do the same.

I got a 4 figure financial gift a few months back and did not tell L so that he would keep providing. I bought a few items for around the house and paid some bills and invested in my retirement.

I feel like as long as the money is helping you it’s indirectly helping him too.

It’s unfortunate that more men weren’t raised to provide like it’s their duty and they have to be indirectly trained later in life.

Oh well, let the generosity keep on coming!

Cutie101
06-15-2022, 05:54 PM
I came across this article and it pins down everything that has to be said: http://www.mirrorofaphrodite.com/2016/02/pay-for-a-date.html

Also, the comments are pretty valid so yeah. Next time anyone would argue on the 50/50 shit at the first date, can go suck a dick.

carmen_b
06-15-2022, 06:43 PM
Nice tell him something else came up too haha.


so, a win for me . Found out I had over paid for my root canal and Im getting 340 or something back . Im not saying shit to my husband about it bc for one he'll try to take it from me somehow like telling me "good. You can pay the xyz." *eyeroll.

Also, he's been a dick to me today and belittled me so until he apologizes, he can reap what he sows. I will not be treated as such. So sick of his attitude

carmen_b
06-15-2022, 06:45 PM
Luuuurve that phrasing " you are not a romantic contender ". Yes i would say this is so accurate . I think of my main life partners and the swiftness they grabbed the checks at those first few dinners haha. Just love the was it's phrased here !


I came across this article and it pins down everything that has to be said: http://www.mirrorofaphrodite.com/2016/02/pay-for-a-date.html

Also, the comments are pretty valid so yeah. Next time anyone would argue on the 50/50 shit at the first date, can go suck a dick.

carmen_b
06-15-2022, 06:51 PM
So this thing is coming up for me .
My partner is super super generous and always has been with me.
We are still in the groove where he pays for the housing , dates , most food ect. and I contribute here and there ( at a lower $ level ).

Well ..... this trip I *think* I'm throwing in like $1500-$1700 of the 4 k for both of us ( Hawaii a week ).

I'm just kind of feeling .......... " eh " haha ! Like ....I know I'm totally spoiled and was able to pay down debt FAST due to my partners generosity and I KNOW I said that I would always throw in if he could just get his schedule arranged so we could pull larger travel off ! Ha. :/

It's completely fine but it is just a shock in a way .
I gave him $1,000 of it right when we booked with the promise to pitch in more in a week or so ha and I'm kind of hoping he will forgive my little debt ( like vocally forgive it haha ) .

It is probably a weird thing to even worry about because he's been SO good to me but there are just other factors ( mainly custody that impacts his availability ) . I get on these kicks like " hand it all to me lol as my reward for being so patient" .

carmen_b
06-15-2022, 06:53 PM
Maybe I just need to get the club more haha.

xxxGothBarbie
06-15-2022, 07:39 PM
Yay :)
Bf is helping me get a new phone on Fri when he gets paid, thankfully.
He really comes thru when I need it lately.

miss.a.p1600
06-16-2022, 06:03 AM
Carmen I think divorced men with kids don’t realize (or want to stay in ignorant bliss) about how challenging it is to deal with their baggage. Male privilege at its finest!

carmen_b
06-16-2022, 11:35 AM
^ Yes and I realized that it’s the *longer* visits that are more impactful to my schedule.
I get on the more greedy rolls around that time.

We are doing good so far on this long visit but I’m taking a lot of me time during it !

I mean... one kid well behaved here 45% of the time isn’t awful but for me it can feel like a lot if I don’t mitigate it and get out quite a bit.

carmen_b
06-18-2022, 01:14 PM
I think I will ask J give me some money today to go lingerie shopping .

He was hinting about new trip outfits then didn't hand me anything ?

Will I spend it all on that ? I don't know lol.

kimbe
06-18-2022, 01:17 PM
^I guess I have a more direct dialogue with my partner, if he hinted about something like that, I would clearly "hint" for his support.. ;)

carmen_b
06-18-2022, 01:42 PM
^ I was frustrated last night about that on the patio .
Like .... why even say this if Venmo doesn't ding 10 seconds later ?
OR better yet hand me CASH. I'm a cash girl lol.

miss.a.p1600
06-19-2022, 04:36 AM
^irks the fuck out of me when I have to ask. I know closed mouths don’t get fed but damn I wished more men would offer it up without a lady having to ask.

It like some of them get off on making a spectacle of it. I feel almost like with some men they’re expecting a whole tap dance, begging performance or worse - expect sex BEFORE forking over the money.

miss.a.p1600
06-20-2022, 07:28 AM
L paid ALL the household bills this month. Not going to lie I saw the electricity bill and was thinking of the sugar daddies id need to cheat on him with to pay it.

Thankfully he knows what’s good for him and I didn’t have to resort to drastic measures …. This month.

The day he does this every month and drops off more for my bills, is the day he enters the fountains of glorious divine pleasure.

carmen_b
06-29-2022, 12:04 PM
He is back in good graces. He has been SUPER generous on this trip.
I was actually attempting to keep some costs down ( such as hitting happy hour food for dinner ect. ) !
Just " local style " hacks I used when I lived here haha.

THEN I saw a receipt for this experience he booked for himself haha.
Obviously his budget isn't super tight so we can now hit those fancy brunches I had my eye on.

I just thought it was so weird to hint at the sexy outfits but not hand me shopping money.
He fixed it haha.