View Full Version : Buy your Birth Control & Condoms NOW
Marina Starr
05-21-2022, 04:22 AM
LOL, I had no idea that condoms have expiration dates.
Doesn't it feel good to be celibate? I've been celibate for almost 10 years and I love it so much. I'm very happy and at peace with it so I know I'm on the right path. Celibacy is the best policy.
While cleaning out my condom stash.:P
I've been celibate since 2017.
~Carmen~
05-21-2022, 04:56 AM
LOL, I had no idea that condoms have expiration dates.
Doesn't it feel good to be celibate? I've been celibate for almost 10 years and I love it so much. I'm very happy and at peace with it so I know I'm on the right path. Celibacy is the best policy.
Condoms have expiration dates, just like our pussies. Mine expired and went out of service after 2014. Closed until further notice.
Marina Starr
05-21-2022, 06:24 AM
Condoms have expiration dates, just like our pussies. Mine expired and went out of service after 2014. Closed until further notice.
I know our pussies didn't expire by choice. We were kinda forced into it because you're old and I'm Trans so when men find found out, they ran for the hill.
I can't even begin to hell you how many endless nights I've spent in tears.
https://i.ibb.co/bsWF6q8/6b044718cdd7984eb155a556099cd5da.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2022, 06:55 AM
LOL, I had no idea that condoms have expiration dates.
Doesn't it feel good to be celibate? I've been celibate for almost 10 years and I love it so much. I'm very happy and at peace with it so I know I'm on the right path. Celibacy is the best policy.
I’ve have quite a few multi-year celibacy calls.
Best decisions ever.
I still ration pussy. Makes it more valuable when they know they can’t get it just for existing and they’re more willing to qualify for it first. I REFUSE to be laying on my back for some mediocre sex risking pregnancy and whatever else while these mfs out here try to use me as a human blow up doll/neglecting my needs.
One thing adult industry taught me is “the house is in favor of the lady” and “ALWAYS get your compensation upfront” because these men have ingrained male privilege and taking advantage and getting over on women is their true nature.
we have to deprogram them to be treated fairly.
moneybags
05-21-2022, 08:59 AM
Condoms have expiration dates, just like our pussies. Mine expired and went out of service after 2014. Closed until further notice.
Human sexuality is throughout the life span. Older people still have sex. It’s something the warned us in our CNA class? Knock and WAIT to get a response before entering the rooms in the retirement center.
laurielegs
05-21-2022, 09:06 AM
Human sexuality is throughout the life span. You mean you don’t have any libido? Older people still have sex. I find kinda ageist to say otherwise, but perhaps you’re just being cheeky.
It’s something the warned us in our CNA class? Knock and WAIT to get a response before entering the rooms in the retirement center.
I think it was just a joke.
With that said I'm probably older than most here (have gone through menopause into the awesome no-periods zone) and can confirm I still have a very high sex drive and can enjoy sex thoroughly! ;)
Only problem is, I'm straight and I cannot stand the men most dicks are attached to. My ex keeps contacting me and flirting with me and even though I'm still physically attracted I can't get past his childish behavior. (acting like a spoiled child instead of a grown man).
back on topic, also he has been leaning toward the "conservative" side (which the way today's political scene is, it's more radical than conservative in my opinion). Turns me right off. Can't get with any man who isn't standing with women in this crisis.
moneybags
05-21-2022, 09:10 AM
^^^oh okay. I just get tired of ageism-a socially acceptable form of prejudice. I try to challenge people on their views on aging. We internalize a lot of the BS as women!
Yeah I don’t think age is the issue. It’s the men the penis is attached to. I can see myself camming as I age in order to get my needs met in a safe and healthy way.
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2022, 10:06 AM
America is the WORST for ageism.....
Marina Starr
05-21-2022, 11:15 AM
It was a joke!
Yes, I know plenty of "old" people that have even more sex the older they get than in their younger years. Sex has no expiration date. Sex is good, sex is great when it's between two consenting adults that enjoy sex. I'm all for it!
Yes to that too! The older a lot of men get, they're still immature but just in different ways.
Their immaturity makes them more detestable because you would think at their age they should already have their act together.
Also true to that. Men of quality stand for women equality. That means women rights, abortions, equal pay, etc.
If having sex with women is a priority for men then partake in women rights to abortion needs to be a bigger priority.
Back on topic.
I think it was just a joke.
With that said I'm probably older than most here (have gone through menopause into the awesome no-periods zone) and can confirm I still have a very high sex drive and can enjoy sex thoroughly! ;)
Only problem is, I'm straight and I cannot stand the men most dicks are attached to. My ex keeps contacting me and flirting with me and even though I'm still physically attracted I can't get past his childish behavior. (acting like a spoiled child instead of a grown man).
back on topic, also he has been leaning toward the "conservative" side (which the way today's political scene is, it's more radical than conservative in my opinion). Turns me right off. Can't get with any man who isn't standing with women in this crisis.
~Carmen~
05-21-2022, 01:42 PM
Yes, we were totally joking. It has nothing to do with age. I could have sex at any time. I just don't want the complications that come with it.
I am very sensual when it comes to work. Guys of all ages go crazy over me. It comes natural and I enjoy it very much.
Age is not a deterrent for having fun :). I am having more fun than ever.
~Carmen~
05-21-2022, 01:48 PM
At yesterday's appointment I told my doctor that I want my tubes tied, and she said that if she'd known sooner that that's what I want, she could've done it a few months ago when she did my endometrial ablation. Damn! I didn't know that both procedures could be done at the same time, and kill two birds with one stone. Lol. Anyway, she gave me the consent form to sign, and I'm just waiting for a phone call to pick a date.
That's ridiculous. You can have your tubes tied after a caesarean so why not after ablation? It's not your fault you didn't know They should have told you!
Makes me wonder if they want to do two separate surgeries for their own financial benefit. Ugh
moneybags
05-21-2022, 02:07 PM
^^^yeah they should have told you BrownFox. Some people are very attached to their reproductive organs. I think maybe they don’t suggest it for fear of offending. A lot of women equate their worth to baby making-not me!
TheBrownFox
05-21-2022, 02:45 PM
That's ridiculous. You can have your tubes tied after a caesarean so why not after ablation? It's not your fault you didn't know They should have told you!
Makes me wonder if they want to do two separate surgeries for their own financial benefit. Ugh
Noooo, that's not what I said. You're misunderstanding my post, and you have the wrong impression about her. Lol. She simply said she could've done it with the ablation, if she had known. I never told her about my wishes to get my tubes tied until a few days ago, and yes, I signed the consent form for it, so it's happening. I edited my other post just now.
TheBrownFox
05-21-2022, 02:48 PM
^^^yeah they should have told you BrownFox. Some people are very attached to their reproductive organs. I think maybe they don’t suggest it for fear of offending. A lot of women equate their worth to baby making-not me!
^See my above post to Carmen. Y'all are totally misunderstanding my post. Lol. My doctor is awesome, and didn't do anything wrong. :) She had no idea that I'd like to get my tubes tied, because I had never mentioned it to her...until a few days ago. As I said before, she gave me the consent form to sign, so it is happening.
I edited my other post.
~Carmen~
05-21-2022, 03:02 PM
I should not post when I first get up and before meds. lol
Dreamqueen
05-22-2022, 12:15 AM
LOL, I had no idea that condoms have expiration dates.
Doesn't it feel good to be celibate? I've been celibate for almost 10 years and I love it so much. I'm very happy and at peace with it so I know I'm on the right path. Celibacy is the best policy.
It feels good to be celibate, yes.
But, I must admit that I do miss riding a guy's mustache. Lol
I also love to cuddle and have a guy play with my hair.
The intimacy part, I miss.
TheBrownFox
05-24-2022, 10:12 AM
Getting my tubes tied the morning of July 1st! I won't be able to get into the pool at my grandparents' house on the 4th of July, but that's not really a big deal. Tubes tied! :)
Cutie101
05-25-2022, 04:17 PM
Found this on Reddit ;D;D Ahahaha "Farewell you CUNT" :))))))))))))))
57204
moneybags
06-06-2022, 07:59 PM
Does anyone know if planned parenthood does same day IUD’s I’m going tomorrow and no one will answer the phone. I figure I’ll take ibuprofen just in case. I’m celibate so being pregnant or having an STI won’t be an issue. I hope they’ll let me get it tomorrow. I’m so stressed. I just wanna get it over with!
Violethollywood
06-06-2022, 08:56 PM
I know the majority of us live in the US, but did you see how poland is going all handmaids tale ? They've banned abortion completely and now they're creating a registry of births or something and monitoring women heavily. i feel like im living in an alternate timeline.
https://apnews.com/article/abortion-health-poland-womens-rights-7f2f2839c43e9655d3d898d1ddd4bbe8
moneybags
06-06-2022, 10:04 PM
I know the majority of us live in the US, but did you see how poland is going all handmaids tale ? They've banned abortion completely and now they're creating a registry of births or something and monitoring women heavily. i feel like im living in an alternate timeline.
https://apnews.com/article/abortion-health-poland-womens-rights-7f2f2839c43e9655d3d898d1ddd4bbe8
Yep! It’s happening. It’ll get worse before it gets better. I’ve always felt like I identified with June. I’ll be able to deal. I hope everyone else wakes up before it’s too late.
They need babies (worker bees), but instead of treating women with love and respect to encourage us to mate and have children they want to control us-which is all ego. It’s part of the ego that wants to dominate everyone and everything.
I’m getting the 10 year IUD hopefully by then I’ll be menopausal-Jesus! Having a child is my worst fear since most men ain’t shit when it comes to be a father
miss.a.p1600
06-07-2022, 06:44 AM
&yes girl. They have no problem cumming and impregnating but when it comes to raise the kids they will argue with you and fight tooth n nail to provide adequately
I’d rather hire a sperm donor, a manny, a male escort…….and call it a day than to deal with 80% of these annoying ass men who couldn’t father their way out of a paper bag if their life depended on it
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-07-2022, 06:59 AM
Just to add this here-
* in addition to traditional birth control, you can track your ovulation by checking the consistency of your vaginal mucus & days between periods. Obviously abstain from sex when you're fertile.
* if you use the Depo shot, be aware that your risk of developing blood clots is increased. An IUD might be a better, safer option. Ask your doctor. Most medical insurers do pay for these forms of birth control.
Ladies, love yourselves first.
miss.a.p1600
06-07-2022, 07:26 AM
^tracking is a good idea to avoid the fertile windows.
Someone mentioned earlier about the privacy concerns of the apps and the more extreme states possibly using that data against a woman if she finds herself facing legal action
Just gotta be meticulous and careful all the way around
xxxGothBarbie
06-07-2022, 08:27 AM
I really hope they made me accidentally infertile 20 years ago when I had my abortion. I just got off my period so yay. I am loving celibacy so far.
xxxGothBarbie
06-07-2022, 08:28 AM
Just to add this here-
* in addition to traditional birth control, you can track your ovulation by checking the consistency of your vaginal mucus & days between periods. Obviously abstain from sex when you're fertile.
* if you use the Depo shot, be aware that your risk of developing blood clots is increased. An IUD might be a better, safer option. Ask your doctor. Most medical insurers do pay for these forms of birth control.
Ladies, love yourselves first.
How many days after your period are you most fertile?
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-07-2022, 09:13 AM
How many days after your period are you most fertile?
Depends on the woman.
I knew a woman who got pregnant despite being on full dose hormonal BC pills. Hyperfertility is a thing.
If you chart your menstrual cycles on a calendar for 6 months you'll have an idea of where you stand in the 28 day cycle calendar. Go off of that.
Word to the wise, the "pull out method" does not work for penis-in vagina sex.....
naomi_doll
06-07-2022, 02:50 PM
^tracking is a good idea to avoid the fertile windows.
Someone mentioned earlier about the privacy concerns of the apps and the more extreme states possibly using that data against a woman if she finds herself facing legal action
Just gotta be meticulous and careful all the way around
They have paper trackers if you need them, I used them years ago.
https://www.amazon.com/Ovulation-Tracking-Log-Book-Progression/dp/B08L5KD6BY/
naomi_doll
06-07-2022, 02:51 PM
How many days after your period are you most fertile?
If you look up natural family planning, its super religious, but it answers all those sort of questions. If I knew the answer off the top of my head, I'd tell you!
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 05:48 AM
They have paper trackers if you need them, I used them years ago.
https://www.amazon.com/Ovulation-Tracking-Log-Book-Progression/dp/B08L5KD6BY/
Thank you! Super helpful.
Going back to old fashioned methods
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 05:55 AM
How many days after your period are you most fertile?
Now I’m not a doctor obgyn so this is just my understanding for my situation
i have been using the apps (though I’m going to start using paper like Naomi suggests …. Just in case) and according to those apps there is a 5 day window where you’re most fertile (usually right after your period)
Its a window because it can be challenging to know the exact day your egg comes out. Technically the egg is only viable for sperm fertilization for 24 hrs.
You can also tell when you’re ovulating by looking at your vaginal discharge/cervical fluid. If you’re not too squeemish then touch it with thumb and first finger and try to separate it. I’ll show a diagram when I find it. But The more clear and sticky, stretchy, it is the more likely that you’re ovulating.
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 05:59 AM
57270
Luci Fer
06-08-2022, 07:00 AM
At yesterday's appointment I told my doctor that I want my tubes tied, and she gave me the consent form to sign. She had mentioned that if she'd known sooner, she could've actually done the tubal ligation at the same time she did my endometrial ablation (which was February 25). I had no idea that both could be done at the same time! Lol. But I never actually told her my wishes for tubal ligation until this week. I wish I'd told her sooner. Anyway, I'm just waiting for a phone call to pick a date.
Funny thing - I asked my doc regarding same operation, and she adviced me against it, because as she said it would fuck up my hormones and basically turn me into a man bahahah
&yes girl. They have no problem cumming and impregnating
How can they ban condoms, if, for fucks sake, it's the only proper way to protect health when having sex with strangers? I don't get it...
I get it that they want people make more children, because more children - more spending $$$-> more money for government, etc etc.
But with banning condoms they basically mean monogamy and sex after wedding? Or we should go to doctor on a first date? oh I beg you!;D
And why women should solve this, buying condoms, or any kinds of pills etc? Why they have to spend their time and money to go to doctor, to get proper prescribed pill - so it won't make them gain weight or bring other side effects, if in fact it's men's problem? One friend of mine told that some dude said it was her duty to buy condoms, since she was worried about safety. What the fuck is that, it's abnormal!
If man can't control his orgasm and cums like a fuckin virgin every time - it's HIS problem. Not her. Let him go learn some fucking tantra. Or fuck a hole in a tree. ;/ If men can't control their cocks, they better use their hand till the end of their days. Or fuck each other.
IMO, no protests would be more efficient than just simple "no" when woman finds out that man has no condom. I think it is a conflict that can be won privately, not publicly.
xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 12:31 PM
57270
Yep! This is my current method if/when I've actually had sex. I'm usually most fertile about 2 wks before my period I think? I'm on the very last day of mine now. Not that it matters bc I've been abstaining from sex since this last month.
moneybags
06-08-2022, 02:43 PM
So if you need an IUD I would suggest booking an appointment now because they were booked until this FALL!
xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 04:01 PM
Are they gonna force women to keep the babies or allow them to be put up for adoption..... I mean if a woman can't afford a child then putting it up for adoption seems like something that may skyrocket in the future if this shit goes into effect.
miss.a.p1600
06-08-2022, 08:16 PM
Sadly really desperate people will just drop the unwanted baby wherever (side of the road, dumpsters, toilets, etc.)
It’s unfortunate forcing women to keep babies doesn’t end well
Adoption is tough too because carrying the baby can lead to attachment and also there is no guarantee the baby will get a good family. I can’t imagine the guilt someone would have unwittingly adopting out thinking the baby will get a better chance at life then find out theres been abuse. Some people who adopt are nut job child abusers.
Marina Starr
06-09-2022, 01:05 PM
People who are anti-abortions because they "care" about the babies. I tell them there are so many children in foster care that could use their care. Funny how quiet they get.
Sadly really desperate people will just drop the unwanted baby wherever (side of the road, dumpsters, toilets, etc.)
It’s unfortunate forcing women to keep babies doesn’t end well
Adoption is tough too because carrying the baby can lead to attachment and also there is no guarantee the baby will get a good family. I can’t imagine the guilt someone would have unwittingly adopting out thinking the baby will get a better chance at life then find out theres been abuse. Some people who adopt are nut job child abusers.
WendiStarr
06-10-2022, 05:10 PM
https://aidaccess.org/en/ they send abortion pills by mail but are banned in certain states so check if your state is legal. I can confirm that they really do send the pills, not a scam.
whirlerz
06-10-2022, 05:53 PM
Wendi, how are you doing?
Nvr heard of the pills, I hope the choice can be kept for women!
AChildOfBoredom
06-24-2022, 07:24 AM
Well, they did it.
https://apple.news/ArROGlCNLSmuzpra_CC6ROg
Is it okay to suggest Molotovs now?
miss.a.p1600
06-24-2022, 08:33 AM
Well, they did it.
https://apple.news/ArROGlCNLSmuzpra_CC6ROg
Is it okay to suggest Molotovs now?
Molotovs and lobotomies!
Anyways,
Pussy on lockdown…..
and it’s only open for mfs who can afford the cost of abortion, child care, raising a kid till 18 etc.
I seriously think more women should leave men as single fathers, leave town, work in cash, never give single/divorced men with kids the time of day, and do their bitch asses how they try to do us.
Since these conservative extremists want to force women into pregnancy they should be forced to take care of the kid….alone - which 90% of them can’t hack it as single parents if their life depended on it.
TheBrownFox
06-24-2022, 08:48 AM
After I'd finally managed to get myself out of bed today, I read this Supreme Court bullshit on Facebook. I'm DISGUSTED, and I just told myself I'm so glad to be getting my permanent birth control (Tubes out!) a week from today. I'm looking forward to that peace of mind. Nevermind the fact that pregnancy after an endometrial ablation is UNSAFE anyway...it's MY decision not to have any more babies at 40+.
A bunch of old-ass men making a decision about what the fuck a woman can/can't do with her own body absolutely disgusts me.
Marina Starr
06-24-2022, 01:16 PM
They know damn well banning abortion won't stop abortions. This is about control and treating women as subhumans.
How disgusting that women today have less rights and freedom than their mothers, grandmothers.
DonaDiabla
06-24-2022, 02:14 PM
Personally, my womb is locked up until it's time. Then I will get pregnant and have the amount of children I want.Then tubal ligation in my mid 40s. I don't think of men when it comes to major decisions in my reproduction. Most of them are not father material for my children. Most of are broke and ill adjust as people. If I want to be broke with 10 children, I would did that already. My life would be a million times harder. I don't need the government trying to hen peck me into massively producing a lot of children.
Also, I am only interested in getting pregnant by my male counterpart. That's it. I am not getting pregnant by random losers,broke dudes, incels, future serial killers, and so forth.
If the government is that hard up for people to broke with 10 to 20 children, then those politicians should become baby making factories and see how it feels.
Violethollywood
06-24-2022, 03:56 PM
im so pissed at the overturn i can't even put it into words . There will be riots and protests just as bad as the blm ones, if not worse. this is gonna be bad .
Sam38g
06-24-2022, 04:32 PM
Cruelty is the point of this law. Putting as many women into prisons, where there will be raped over & over again by the guards. Then the babies fed into the adoption mill where lawyers will make bank.
It is also a forced labor for low income jobs since so many women will be forced to drop out of college. There are more women in college than men for the past 2 decades. This will help drop that number, considering how many rapes occur on campuses.
This is about forcing millions of women into poverty for the next 100 years, giving companies a ready supply of low income workers.
Even though I can't get pregnant the mere idea of having sex with a man, no matter who he voted for makes me literally ill.
Sam38g
06-24-2022, 08:24 PM
In States where it is illegal, be careful about buying a pregnancy test. Where a hat & mask to prevent facial recognition & use cash. Better yet have a guy friend buy it for you. Since all pregnancies will be tracked. And leave your phone at home when going to buy a pregnancy test or abortion pill.
Do not text or email anyone that you might be pregnant.
~Carmen~
06-24-2022, 09:02 PM
What's next? Taking our voting rights away? I shudder to think or what else might happen.
So much has already happened that we would never would think is possible, even 5 years ago.
xxxGothBarbie
06-24-2022, 09:24 PM
Can they really prosecute us if we are technically residents of a state and then go to say a state that it isn't banned to do it but we are already in the state that can do it?