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carmen_b
01-25-2023, 04:16 PM
I was just coming back to say “ maybe I didn’t mean that “ given I fought like hell to keep it together.

miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 04:22 PM
^maybe it wasn’t the kid/step parent lifestyle per say

I could be wrong but I think you wanted long term / marriage. J seemed like he was ify on marriage.

carmen_b
01-25-2023, 04:30 PM
True
I was agitated over no engagement the last 6 months.
I love how these guys married complete turds .
His ex still has ZERO resume or work experience .
:/
Um ok …. I bring an accomplishment box with me and he’s like “ eh “.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 10:36 AM
^dudes don’t care about career accomplishments unless they looking for a 50/50 chick to help them come up in life

carmen_b
01-26-2023, 10:37 AM
^ I would think though it would be at least somewhat appealing to have a women who can survive on their own lol.
Otherwise isn't it like having another kid ? I dunno ..... ha.

I'm keeping some of my projects discrete anyway ( for various reasons ) currently.
I don't want a man to think HE is the sugar baby lol. That's as easy as keeping my mouth shut about a couple things.

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 10:38 AM
Why am I already ready for L’s kids to go home to their mother before they’ve even arrived

L (and his incompetent cunty ex wife) being so pushy and needy regarding those kids has REALLY ruined my perception of this entire relationship

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 10:44 AM
^ I would think though it would be at least somewhat appealing to have a women who can survive on their own lol.
Otherwise isn't it like having another kid ? I dunno ..... ha.

I'm keeping some of my projects discrete anyway ( for various reasons ) currently.

Men are THE most hypocritical creatures. And they cannot handle the truth.

If they like you / they can provide what you need — > They get turned on if you need them (see damsel in distress)

but if things go south/they want to go half with a woman to help themselves come up faster/they cannot or do not want to provide —> they get turned off if you need them

Pretend like you need them (to stroke their ego and activate their masculine giving generous side) but QUIETLY not need them (so you can always take care of yourself if they’re financially slacking and/or easily leave their ass if they don’t act right)

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 10:51 AM
^ I would think though it would be at least somewhat appealing to have a women who can survive on their own lol.
Otherwise isn't it like having another kid ? I dunno ..... ha.

I'm keeping some of my projects discrete anyway ( for various reasons ) currently.
I don't want a man to think HE is the sugar baby lol. That's as easy as keeping my mouth shut about a couple things.

exactly. But men who are more traditional are okay with women being dependent on them because they are more than capable of providing for their spouses needs.

The newer generation of men see women “equal” to them professionally and are like “if she ain’t working a job outside the home then, she is like an extra kid” “why can’t she work like I do” “it takes two incomes” they think like this because it’s easier for them to come up using a woman’s income than it is to work harder/smarter n earn more

smeca
01-26-2023, 12:33 PM
Bf is being asked on the phone if he would take daughter away on holiday... I could feel him wincing, He doesn't really want to lol. We are planning a proper 10 day relaxing pool holiday in the sun this year, but that's for us as we haven't done anything in years, we might even book an adult only resort hehe.

Idk how many trips this woman takes but we haven't got away for a week or 2 solid for years. We'll do a little camping trip with her or something I'm sure ha

miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 01:53 PM
Bf is being asked on the phone if he would take daughter away on holiday... I could feel him wincing, He doesn't really want to lol. We are planning a proper 10 day relaxing pool holiday in the sun this year, but that's for us as we haven't done anything in years, we might even book an adult only resort hehe.

Idk how many trips this woman takes but we haven't got away for a week or 2 solid for years. We'll do a little camping trip with her or something I'm sure ha

Good luck!

Girl I wanted to kick Berthas ass when she dumped her kids off during her vacation, came back from her vacay begging for money, then had the gall to say we had to take her kids on our vacation

Um that’s not how I’m rolling….better come get yo kids before I call CPS